- This video, I'm going to be giving you some dating
advice from professionals.
Now when it comes to somebody who has a good
career, and they've got everything in line,
that are looking to improve their dating life,
they almost always make these two big mistakes.
That completely ruins their chances of finding
true love and getting the relationship they want.
The first mistake they make is they try and
date people at work, just don't do it.
Don't do that, there are so many problems
with dating somebody at work.
Can it be done?
Yes, yes you absolutely can.
But it's a terrible thing to do.
First of all, any drama in your relationship
comes straight into work.
Next up, some companies have policies against
dating people in the workplace that you're directly
risking your own career to date someone
that you just happen to meet at work.
Also, there is a small pool of people at work,
there's not that many to choose from.
For example, you could find more people in a hotel
lobby in one busy Friday afternoon than you can
probably find right in your entire workplace
that are eligible for dating.
In short, number one, do not date people at work.
There are so many other people you can meet.
In fact, arguably, it's better to make friends
with somebody at work and then date one of their
friends rather than dating them directly.
So that's one of my biggest pieces of advice.
The other piece of advice is treat your dating life
like your career, now this is absolutely imperative
if you listen to this.
Because what happens is you have dedicated an amount
of time to being successful, you've put an amount of time
to studying to make sure that you've got right
qualifications that you need to get the job that
you want or build the business that you want,
or whatever it is.
If you are a professional, you have dedicated
time to your work, and you would never, ever allow
your relationships, your personal life to bleed
into work because it would make you unfocused,
it would stop you getting results that you want.
It would completely cripple your career.
Likewise, you need to make sure that you have
dedicated time to dating.
That means you've gotta make sure that you do
all the studying, get all the qualifications you need
when it comes to dating to have the kind of relationship
that you like.
There is a reason why people that jump into a relationship
often end up having problems and need to get marriage
counseling, I think of it like relationship counseling
is studying after you've already failed the exam.
You can just sitting along the basics of how
to meet someone, how to get real attraction,
how to generate a strong bond with somebody
then having to develop a relationship in advance
so you don't need to go through the counseling
and the problems afterwards.
All it is is making sure that you take the time
to do what you did in your career.
Become qualified when it comes to dating
so you know what you're doing and you can understand it.
And likewise, keep your professional career out
of your dating life, you don't want to be sitting
there checking work emails when
you're on a date with somebody.
You don't want to sit there thinking about how
stressed you are at work or telling your partner
how stressed you are at work when you've only
just met somebody.
Instead, keep your professional life in your professional
life lane, keep your dating life in your dating life lane.
In fact, this is something that I tell people
all the time when it comes to their dating life.
Stay in your lane, keep your dating life where its supposed
to be, your personal life where its supposed to be.
Everything, if you keep things in their correct
little boxes, it makes it that much easier for you
to go ahead and get results you want.
So my two pieces of advice, if you're a professional
and you're looking to improve on dating is number one
do not date at work, there are many other ways
to go about dating.
I'm gonna share some of those with you in the upcoming
videos so make sure you stay tuned for that.
And the other one is make sure you keep your personal
life and your dating life separate.
Focus on learning and coming good at dating so that
way it isn't something you struggle with in the future.
Make sure you keep watching out for the next videos
because in my next video I'm gonna give you three
key qualities that make you attractive.
If you want to be more attractive, if you want to
have more options when it comes to dating,
then do not miss out on the next video.
I'm also going to give you an opportunity to track
down a hidden video from me that talks about
the best way to go for a first kiss.
Make sure you stay tuned and keep looking out for that
very next video and I'll see over there.
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