Waching daily Sep 1 2018

Renee: What if I told you that meeting your

dream woman is actually easier than you

think?

and that you've had the power all along?

I'm Renee Slansky for The Attractive Man

team and today in this video I'm going

to reveal to you the five fears that are

blocking you from meeting your dream

girl I'm also going to give you the

simple strategies to get overcome those

fears increase your confidence and make

your love life limitless I'm a

professional dating and relationship

coach and I help men from around the

world increase their confidence and

build the relationship that they really

crave now typically speaking most of the

time the reason why we come against

roadblocks or we find that we're not

getting the progress that we want in our

relationships or we're not attracting

the woman that we want into our world is

simply because of fear or lack now

whether it is fear of failure fear of

repeating the past fear of not being

aligned enough or lack of confidence

lack of self-worth or lack of knowledge

on how to actually approach women most

of the problems that we have that hinder

us from love boiled down to those two

things but in this video I really want

to focus on the word fear because here's

the thing about fear fear is a big fat

liar now what fear does is it takes a

thought or an idea and it builds it up

to be something that isn't even a

reality yet and this hinders us from

opportunities it limits our potential as

a person and in this case it also

actually stops you from being able to

attract the right we went into your

world with such ease and confidence now

in order to become fearless the first

thing you need to understand is why you

had those fears when we can identify the

problems that we're up against we're

then able to really look at why we have

these problems where are they stemming

from what are the beliefs associated

with those problems and then once we

have the whys we can then work on the

house and that's what I want to do for

you in this video I'm a really practical

dating and relationship coach and I'm

not going to sugarcoat the truth from

you okay I've heard all the truth I want

to make sure that you're first able to

identify

sort of fears you might have that are

actually blocking you from meeting this

scalp and then I'm going to give you a

simple sort of strategy in order to be

able to overcome that fear so that you

can hear it on the head move forward and

get on with having an awesome love life

the first fear is fear of inadequacy now

whether this is you feel inadequate as a

man because you don't believe that your

finances or your life is up to date or

whether it is that you feel inadequate

physically or maybe you feel inadequate

in a status position either way when we

don't feel like we're enough we project

that and not only does that lower our

confidence but most of the time it

actually lowers our standards as well

and then we wonder why we're putting

this effort into dating and we're not

really getting the results that we

desire and that's because if you have a

deep sense of belief that who you are

isn't enough or what you have isn't

enough to offer the right woman then

you're not really going to attract the

right woman because you'll be living

thinking and speaking and making actions

out of that deep centered belief now we

all know that life is a journey there's

always going to be seasons where we have

abundance and sometimes where we don't

have as much if you can understand that

you are enough and that your validation

as a man has nothing to do a width of

whether or not you're being affirmed or

rejected by a woman then it's going to

help you realize that where you are in

this point in your life you're still

able to make the most of it the thing is

a lot of the times when I'm coaching men

I find that one of the repetitive sort

of patterns they have is feeling that

you have to be at a certain level before

you can start dating and it's like

you're living in the future of who you

want to be instead of celebrating who

you are now here is what I want you to

do to help overcome that fear I want you

to do the opposite of a vision board I

want you to do an accomplishment board

this is a great little exercise it'll

probably take you about 10 15 minutes

and it is something that is highly

effective all you need to do is get a

piece of paper maybe a cork board or

whatever it is in your reach and simply

list all your accomplishments what have

you achieved up until this point in your

life have you achieved certain degree

have you achieved certain statuses have

you achieved certain relationships with

your family that are worth noting you

see I want you to realize that your past

doesn't have to be a place of residence

but a place of reference meaning you

have done great things

who you are is enough and it's really

about taking that time to actually

acknowledge who you are at this point in

your life an accomplishment board is

basically a reminder of who you are

right now and who you've been in the

past it's there to celebrate your

identity it's said to celebrate your

achievements and to remind you visually

that you are actually progressing in

life that you are somebody that you

don't have to reach a certain level in

order to feel that you are able to love

and be loved by a woman the second fear

is fear of failure now fear of failure I

think is something that the majority of

people struggle with but moreso you guys

because there is so much pressure placed

on you by society to be the man to be

the provider to be the protector and you

almost have to live up to these

unrealistic expectation now the good

point from point number one with the

accomplishment board is that it's going

to help recognize that you aren't

failing that you have achieved something

and that you are progressing as well now

if you feel again that you're going to

fail in a relationship what you need to

do is you need to just scale it back a

little bit and take the overwhelm out of

the end result fear of failure is

basically seen and end result and

assuming that you're not going to make

it or that you don't have what it takes

in order to be able to succeed in a

relationship relationships are always

changing and growing and don't forget

you're not the only person in the

relationship it's also up to her as well

to make sure that she's playing her part

in order to make the relationship

succeed as well take the pressure off

yourself not every relationship is going

to last because that is just how life is

and we can't control other people's

actions and reactions in the

relationship all we can do is control

our reaction and our actions in the

relationship if you have a fear of

failure then this is what you need to do

the thing is whatever we water is what

so it's important to make sure that

we're watering thoughts and words and

actions on what it is that we actually

want to blossom you might not always be

everything to her and that's okay

because it's not your responsibility to

be her whole entire world or you might

not have everything that you think that

she wants guys let me give you a little

bit of advice right now women want a

husband not a hero I know that

instinctually you guys want to step into

this night saving role that you want to

be our protector and provider and

everything like that but at the end of

the day we don't want all the fancy

stuff we don't even necessarily want all

the money in the the glitz and the glam

and everything like that we want you for

you we want your time we want to know

that you value us we want to know at the

end of the day you're going to be there

beside us that is what we're focusing on

we're not focusing on what you're not

doing we're focusing on what you are

doing

so therefore in our mind it's not even

about failure it's just more about the

effort that you're actually putting in

so I suggest if you do have this fear of

failure then remember what is a woman

actually wanting what is she actually

thinking focus on that focus on what you

are able to give not what you aren't or

have a fear about and that is how you'll

start to overcome that fear the third

fear is fear of the future now this

basically centers around the belief that

you'd feel that you can't control what

is going to happen maybe you're someone

that feels that you like to have almost

all your ducks lined up in a row or you

like to have things in order where you

can see that because it means that you

can then control your reaction to them

now that is typically usually because

you've had a past experience probably

from your parents where things have hurt

you that you didn't see coming and so

what you want to do is almost like you

want to safeguard yourself now

safeguarding yourself means that you

limit yourself from mystery from

surprises and also from the full

capacity of what a relationship can be

guys this is what you need to do in

order to be able to overcome fear of the

future living in the future means that

you're going to miss out on the present

because you're basing your future ideas

of what has happened in the past the

okay with getting over your fear of the

future is understanding that you cannot

control life all you can do is control

your reaction to life and that is where

the power lies in having peace in your

decisions and knowing that regardless of

what happens you're going to be okay

the fourth fear is fear of commitment or

fear of missing out now fear of

commitment usually stems from either

feeling that you were abandoned when

you're a child or maybe you had parents

that were divorced it could also mean

that you feel that you want the next

best thing

and unfortunately with our access to

online dating and dating ups we have so

many choices in front of us that it's

hard not to always consistently be

looking for the next best thing when you

actually start to allow this fear to

control you live it's almost like you

had this sense of restlessness because

you're constantly seeking and searching

for the next best thing or you don't

ever want to say yes to one thing a

hundred percent because you think that

you might miss out on something that is

ultimately better this isn't about

dating every single gal until you

finally find the right one because

that's exhausting and you're going to

get choice fatigue and you're probably

going to be 10 20 years down the track

and still single this is about really

pinpointing what it is that you want

really focusing in on that and making

sure that you limit your options only to

that the more options and things that

you add into the equation the more

anxiety that you're going to have around

the decision and the more you're going

to start focusing on well maybe I can

have better maybe I could have this

maybe I can have that is one thing to

have standard and to know if you need to

raise your standards or not it's another

thing to make dating and choices of who

you date out of a fear that you could

have better or you're going to miss out

on something better so I suggest simply

limiting your options again focusing on

ideally what it is that you really

desire and then being committed to that

person I'm not necessarily talking about

being in a full relationship with her

straightaway but rather being present in

that sort of relationship all those

dates that you go on instead of being on

your app and looking at someone else or

wondering about someone else you know

focus on what that person brings to the

table focus on their potential and the

potential of what you could actually

have together as a couple before you

bring someone else into the equation

we're never really going to know the

full potential of what we can have with

someone if we're constantly focusing on

other people and lastly the fifth fear

is fear of vulnerability guys love is a

risk and unfortunately you can try and

be as calculated and controlled about it

as you like but at the end of the day it

does involve another person and you

can't control the other person so

there's always going to be some level of

risk involved in finding love

vulnerability isn't a weakness in a

relationship it's actually something

that can strengthen your relationship it

makes things transparent it helps build

trust and it's actually a really

attractive quality in a man for us women

we want to know that the men we're

dating are men who aren't afraid to let

their walls down is not that we're

asking you to lay your heart on the line

because trust me I coach my women out

there not to lay their heart on the line

straight away it's important that you

get to know the person behind the

commitment at the same time you can't be

constantly guarded because of what's

happened in the past or what you're

afraid will happen in the future again

if you have this fear of being who you

are then you're never really going to

know if the person that you're dating

really loves you for who you are fear of

vulnerability basically stands back to

having been hurt in the past or having a

lack of awareness of how to actually

reduce the risk when it comes to love

and in order to be able to conquer this

fear I really recommend doing the boot

camp that we have with the attractive

man this is something that is going to

help increase your knowledge which in

turn increases your confidence it's

going to give you real sort of insight

and awareness and what it is you need to

look for what it is that you need to do

so that you don't just have the whys but

you also have the house it's one thing

to be able to identify these fears it's

another thing to know what it is that

you need to do in order to be able to

overcome them and become fearless so

which one of these fears can you relate

to I want you to actually tell me in the

comments below now if you really want to

increase your confidence and overcome

these fears then Matt has created a

confidence cheat sheet which has 18

proven ways to help you overcome these

fears and increase your confidence and

deal with stressful situations such as

approaching beautiful women this is all

based

on science and psychology and these are

methods that actually work to get your

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For more infomation >> 5 Fears Stopping YOU From Being With Your DREAM GIRL - Duration: 13:46.

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Meghan Markle's Got a 'Sexy' Pasta Sauce Hack You Have to Try - Duration: 1:26.

Meghan Markle's Got a 'Sexy' Pasta Sauce Hack You Have to Try

It's only four ingredients!

We are already pretty obsessed with Meghan Markle's secret ingredients in the kitchen

– her roast chicken did score her a prince, after all.

Now we have come across her secret pasta hack, which she shared in an interview in her pre-royal

years, and we can not wait to try it.

Meghan Markle told Delish that she starts her "sexy, filthy" pasta sauce with a pretty

common base – onions sauteed in some oil – before adding water, bouillon and, her

secret ingredient, zucchini.

She lets it simmer for four hours and the zucchini breaks down into a rich, creamy but

deceptively healthy sauce!

Markle called the end result a "zucchini Bolognese," a vegetarian spin on a meat

sauce, which she tosses with pasta, seasons with salt, pepper, and lemon juice, then finishes

with parmesan and red pepper flakes.

"The sauce gets so creamy, you would swear there's tons of butter and oil in it, but

it's just zucchini, water and a little bouillon," Meghan said.

Now, we can only hope Markle's secret recipe is making its way into her royal life, too.

The Duchess's niece, Princess Charlotte, is said to be a fan of pasta, so fingers crossed

that the little princess is invited over for dinner with Aunt Meg and Uncle Harry soon!

For more infomation >> Meghan Markle's Got a 'Sexy' Pasta Sauce Hack You Have to Try - Duration: 1:26.

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Best way to travel as a Photographer - Duration: 10:44.

What up guys welcome back to another episode, my name is Atti Bear and welcome back to yet another episode

so as you've seen in the beginning

Today's episode is a bit more action-packed than usual travelling as a photographer can be challenging at times

So I've been looking for a vehicle that gets me easily from point A to point B

so with an electric skateboard

It gives me the ability to travel maybe not so prominent areas

I can carry all my gear in my backpack and I'm able to Scout quickly

Locations where normally I would need to get there by foot

so with a skateboard it gives me more flexibility and it's easy to carry around and if you want to secure it you

Take it with you into a store or into a cafe

Shove it under the desk and you're good to go

You don't need to lock it up or look for a parking space in my research

I came across a company called Mellow. Mellow is a germany-based

Electric skateboard manufacturer and they are focusing on really good old made in Germany gear

so the guys from mellow boards were kind enough to set up some test drives so I could test out their gear thoroughly and

in my opinion those boards are actually

Insanely good personally, I'm not a big skateboarder

I haven't been on a skateboard for about I don't know 18 years or whatnot and

I only ride a snowboard in the winter and I pretty much got the hang of it within 20 minutes

Sure

I wasn't going fast and I still won't be going fast since I had a

Really bad crash at one of the test drives and trust me

You don't want to leave the board when you're traveling 35 kilometres an hour

so also one of the important messages in this video is

Make sure to wear protection whenever you're riding an electric skateboard those things go fast

Especially the high quality ones. So rather be safe than

Stylish so their skateboard is something completely different to all the other

Electric skateboards you have out there

Normally Electric skateboards come with a predefined setup

So you get your board you get your wheels and a remote control and that's it

You cannot customize any of the setup with mellow ports

it's

completely different you even could go so far and only buy their drive without the board without the wheels and

You just need to use their rear wheels and you can customize everything else in this setup

Except the remote control, of course, the modular design of the metal board is pretty unique

So there are a bunch of things you can choose from for one being the board itself

You can choose between a longboard and Cruiser boards with the cruiser being the personal transport vehicle

Agile and made for urban areas and good pavements and the longboard being the more chilly

smooth ride for

Not-so-good streets and pavements and you can conquer gravel and grass and maybe even to a certain degree

off-road with both boards

Depending on what your setup is

So you also have the option to get different kind of wheels the stock builds and the first wheels that Mellow

Actually released were the 80 millimeter wheels

they also started to ship 90 millimeter wheels a few months ago and

The big difference between the 80 millimeters and the 90 millimeters

Is that the 90 millimeters give you more space if you are on a not so even pavement so if you're going for a more

smoother ride you will probably end up with the 90 millimeter wheels and

Since I wrote both decks and both wheels

There is definitely a big difference between the 80 millimeter and the 90 millimeter wheels

Another thing that the Mellow actually makes really unique is the option to swap batteries with long battery charge

you are able to make something around 11 and 15 kilometres in distance

Depending on your weight and your driving style, of course, so if you're always hitting the gas and going full speed

Naturally, you won't be able to make the 15 kilometers. The cool thing is you just have to pack additional batteries and

Since you can swap out the batteries

you don't have to carry around all the weight of a bigger battery and

The biggest advantage with the battery actually is if you take out your battery

You even can fly with your board. That's one of the greatest thing about the mellow drive

You can take your drive anywhere

If you're a regular watcher of Casey Neistat

You know that he drives all his Electric skateboards around the world, but he has always the same problem. He

Cannot get him through the airport security with a mellow Drive

He would not have the problem. And since we were talking about great German engineering

naturally the remote control and all the

electronics on the mellow drive are actually

Ip65 so this means you actually could drive in

Pouring rain. It's probably not a good idea

But you can do it if you want to but you probably will hurt yourself

But you still have the option if you want to the reason you can can convert pretty much every available

Skateboard out there with the help of the mellow drive into an electric skateboard is that they are using a hub motor

Since the motor is integrated into the rear wheels

You don't have to fiddle around with any kind of belt motors or whatnot

Another cool thing about hub motors is that they don't need as much maintenance as a belt motor needs

Since you don't have a belt that gets worn off over time

So it's pretty much

fire-and-forget and you can focus more on riding in my opinion one of the biggest advantages with the hub motor is actually

That you don't have this hissing buzzing

High frequency sound that a belt motor has so when you're riding the mellow drive

It's pretty much like riding a normal skateboard. Sure

You can hear a bit of the motor but most of yours your driving sound is actually the board itself

So it's pretty much like driving an electric car

You can hear the the wheels, but you don't hear the engine

This means you are way silenter or when you are on the street and maybe you don't get too much attention through it

But still people will notice that you are on an electric skateboard

So if I have to compare the mellow cruiser board and the mellow longboard

The biggest difference is to weight. I drove the longboard and to be honest. It was not my favorite

I'm not too much into long boards long boards for my tastes are too heavy and you have to carry them way

Too high with a cruiser board. It's

maybe a half the weight and

it's way easier to carry you don't have to pull them up in order to carry them around and

They are way agiler

if you have to get quickly around a city and especially for a

Photographer who has to cover a lot of ground in a short time

It's sometimes better to have a little travel companion that gets you quickly from A to B

And you don't have to focus on where's my car? Where did I put my bike and

who stole my bike having a skateboard in my opinion is way better if you are exploring a city and

Also, if you're riding a skateboard you are more focused on your environment

You are not focused that much on traffic and people as you would be if you're driving a car, for example

In the time I had the boards

I noticed that I pretty much didn't use my car anymore since with 15 kilometres. You can pretty much

Carry out almost all your errands you have to do

If you're living in a big urban area, of course if you're living somewhere outside in the suburban area

Maybe 15 kilometres isn't enough

But well who cares throwing a second battery into your backpack and if it's depleted switch out the battery?

it's like 30 seconds and you're good to go and

You don't need to carry around all the extra weight

If you don't need that an extra mileage

another thing

I really like about Mellow is the way they interact with their customers and with their community

So I had the chance to meet some of their customer service guys and if you have any questions whatsoever

you can always reach out to them if you have any issues with your boards and

With product stuff like this

Happens and they are always happy to help and with that said if you want to get yourself an electric skateboard

And you already checked out evolved skateboards and boosted board. Trust me

You will be surprised when you check out the mellow board design and how it works. So go over to their website

I linked them down below and check them out and say hi from me

So what do you think about the mellow drive?

Does it give you more flexibility and options when it comes to electric skateboard solutions?

How do you like the different kind of wheels? And what do you think about their stock boards?

Would you rather go for a completely different set up?

Hit me up it in comments and tell me what you think about their solutions

also

If you like today's episode

Don't forget to subscribe to my channel and make sure to hit the bell in order to get notified whenever I put up new content

And trust me this week will be packed with new content since I'm getting the Maverick Pro 2 and I will visit the IFA 2018

so there will be a lot of news. So thanks again for watching and I see you the next time

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Jurgen Klopp responds after Jose Mourinho points out he hasn't won a trophy at Liverpool - Duration: 2:34.

Jose Mourinho seems keen to take on everyone at the moment.He demanded 'respect' from journalists following Manchester United's 3-0 loss to Tottenham on Monday night

He then took on the Spurs fans in response to their 'You're getting sacked in the morning' chants

"They didn't have that song when we beat them at Wembley a couple of months ago," Mourinho replied

And then, Mourinho took on other Premier League managers - including Liverpool boss Jurgen Klopp

When asked if he still considers himself to be among the best managers in the world if he fails to win the title at Old Trafford, Mourinho responded: "Of course

Do you ask that question to the manager that finished third in the Premier League or fourth?"

When the reporter said that Klopp has never claimed to be great, Mourinho replied: "Because he never win anything international for example

That's his problem, I tell you what I think, I tell what I feel. Jurgen tells you what he wants

And I answer you the question – that's easy. And now Klopp has replied.After leading Liverpool to their fourth victory of the season, Klopp was asked about Mourinho's comments

"I don't watch Jose Mourinho press conferences, should I?" Klopp asked. When he said I haven't won anything outside of Germany, he's right

That's easy to see. @JamesPearceEcho: Klopp on Mourinho: "I don't watch Jose Mourinho press conferences, should I? When he said I haven't won anything outside of Germany he's right

That's easy to see. It seems Klopp has no intention in getting into a press conference battle with Mourinho

Instead, Klopp will just point to the league table right now which shows his Liverpool side nine points ahead of United

For more infomation >> Jurgen Klopp responds after Jose Mourinho points out he hasn't won a trophy at Liverpool - Duration: 2:34.

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Abunai! 2018 AMV Competition Results - Duration: 7:00.

Told you so!

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10 Sexual Passion Killer Foods - Duration: 6:36.

10 Sexual Passion Killer Foods

Food and sex always have complicated relationships.

Perhaps as complex as the story of contemporary love.

Inviting couples to have dinner together is considered a relatively 'classic' dating method.

While making dinner in your own home can give a much more positive impression.

But just like having a relationship, sex and food don't always get along well.

There are a number of foods that, if consumed, will damage your passion for your partner.

Therefore, if you don't want a date or a broken relationship after dinner, you should avoid

cooking or consuming some of these foods.

Reporting from Foodbeast, there are ten foods that can kill your passion.

#1.

Cheese

Although cheese dishes can be a classy way to attract your partner's attention when dating,

cheese can also be a ticket for you to feel unhappy.

Some hormones in dairy products, such as cheese, can make someone's hormones fall apart, either

estrogen or testosterone.

Of course, when hormones have been disheveled, passion will weaken.

#2.

Mint Leaves

Forget good intentions to make mint leaves as a mainstay candy before kissing.

The content of menthol in mint leaves will reduce testosterone which certainly affects

sex desire.

To keep the mouth fres h, try foods with fruit scents, so that libido also stays fresh.

#3.

Corn Cereal

The inventor of corn cereal, John Harvey Kellog, believes that sweet or spicy foods can make

one's desire inflamed or warm up.

While the way to suppress libido is with bland foods, like sugarless cereals.

It is not known what is the reason for Kellog's 'cruel' perception.

It's just that, it's impossible to feel if he creates cereals with bland taste to kill

the consumer's sexual desire.

Most likely, cereal can kill cravings because of the carbohydrates and seeds in it.

#4.

Coffee

Planning to stay up all night to be able to make out with a partner, of course coffee

is not the answer.

If coffee makes you nervous, then you should not drink it before making love.

People who are sensitive to caffeine, will experience anxiety, which can ultimately reduce

sex drive.

#5.

Chocolate

You might be surprised by the entry of chocolate products in this list.

Of course because chocolate has long been known as a food containing aphrodisiacs.

Although its ability to increase sex drive applies to women, it turns out the same thing

is not experienced by men.

Because actually, chocolate turns out to reduce testosterone levels and drastically reduce

male sexual ability.

#6.

Popcorn from the Microwave

Spending time with your partner by watching movies on Netflix at home will make you have

to prepare several types of snacks.

Buying popcorn that can be cooked at home should be avoided.

Not only for the sake of your sex, but this food also triggers several health problems.

Chemical contents such as perfluorooctanoic acid are found in popcorn bags.

It's not just killing your libido, but there are long-term effects that can cause prostate

problems for men.

#7.

Fried food

Eating fried snacks before making love is considered to be intent on sabotaging your

own love life.

That's because, fried foods or foods that have high fat content can make someone feel

tired and slow quickly.

Of course it is not very sexy.

Even worse, hydrogenated fat and oil can reduce male testosterone levels.

#8.

Alcohol

Drinking alcohol might make a person confident to signal the invitation to make love to a

partner.

However, the high level of courage is not comparable to the ability of sex afterwards.

Alcohol is known to reduce testosterone levels and limit male sex function, as well as women.

#9.

Sweet Root Candy

Just skip this snack if you plan to spend the night with your partner after watching

a movie.

Given the natural content of glycyrrhizin in sweets, consuming sweets known as licorice

will suppress libido and reduce testosterone levels.

#10.

Soda Diet

It is well known that drinking diet soda is just as bad as drinking soda in general.

Eating and drinking products with artificial sweeteners, especially aspartame, can directly

affect your serotonin levels, vital hormones that affect both female and male libido

Well, that's the Ten Sexual Passion Killer Foods.

Really cool information isn't it.

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