Jaclyn hill just released her let's talk
  video spilling her truth but what we're
  gonna do in this video is analyze her
  body language and see what she was
  really saying what is up everybody this
  is Chris from the rewired soul when we
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  of videos I make so many videos this is
  actually my third video today I just
  recorded a different Jaclyn hill video
  but I'm not sure which one I'm gonna
  release first I think I'm gonna release
  this one first anyways subscribe bring
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  things from pop culture and see what we
  can do to improve our mental health
  so anyways to kind of talk about why I'm
  going to do this body language read on
  Jaclyn hill with this video I made a
  video maybe a week or two ago about this
  awesome new book I got called what's
  what what everybody is saying by Joe
  Navarro he's an FBI agent or former FBI
  agent and he specializes in reading body
  language I will link down to the book
  below but I made a video about how this
  can be very helpful if you're somebody
  who struggles with social anxiety and
  you don't know what to say or how people
  are responding to you or what you're
  saying picking up these little cues can
  actually help you calm your anxiety who
  don't know if this person is comfortable
  or they're angry
  this can be super beneficial for
  everybody but anyways I want to you know
  talk about what I noticed in Jacqueline
  Hill's video which might help give you
  some clarity about the situation so the
  first thing is is like why does
  Jacqueline Hill keep touching your hair
  it bums me out whenever I see people
  kind of like call someone out for like
  something that they do you know what I
  mean like I don't know it's just like
  social anxiety if people like pointed
  out the stuff I was doing all the time
  it would make me really uncomfortable
  there's actually reasons why she's
  touching her hair like I have weird
  laugh about it I guess you know for
  example like blinks all the time you
  know well there's something that's
  called a pacifying behavior okay what
  happens is is when you get anxious or
  when you get nervous and I'm gonna make
  more videos on how you could do this
  your brain is responding or the part of
  your brain called the limbic system okay
  this is a part of the brain that just it
  goes goes goes without you even
  consciously knowing what you're doing so
  when you're anxious or nervous you are
  doing things with your hands to calm
  yourself down and you don't even realize
  it okay so what we can tell from Jaclyn
  Hills video is that she she is nervous
  and she's kind of anxious what's funny
  is I was talking to my my girlfriend and
  my girlfriend's friend Shelby you know a
  little group text about you know
  Jacqueline hill in her new video and she
  made a tweet and it said like you know I
  couldn't sleep all last night I'm so
  anxious about this video and something I
  want to bring up just real quick because
  I'm all about you know decreasing the
  stigma and stuff like that about mental
  illness I'm so anxious about this video
  and this is okay but just in general
  it's interesting to me how how in this
  day and age like saying the word anxious
  is like I don't know 20 or cool or
  whatever like it's almost like people
  forgot that there's a word called
  nervous you know like that word nervous
  you can use that word you don't always
  gotta say anxious like anxiety is
  something different anyways video she
  might actually have some anxiety and I
  don't blame her sounds like she's been
  having a lot of controversies things
  aren't going too well with her product
  line but you can tell just from the
  beginning of this video like right here
  in this clip I'm showing you she's
  talking about how she's gonna be open
  and honest and when she says certain
  things she touches her hair and strokes
  it so what she's doing is her brand when
  it's talking about those specific things
  it's telling you're okay it's alright
  calm yourself down calm yourself down
  one of the reasons this works is because
  there's a lot of nerve endings in your
  fingers so when she's touching her silky
  smooth extensions it's actually helping
  her calm down so what I would recommend
  even if you want to watch it at two
  times speed go back and check this out
  now this is whole hair stroking is
  different
  that is something different it's
  possible that that might be a pacifying
  behavior but most likely she's just
  getting her hair out of the way
  okay but as you watch throughout the
  video and if you get to the part where
  she's talking about collabs and money
  and things like you can tell when she
  touches on a certain sob subject that
  kind of makes her nervous why I don't
  know maybe there is something there that
  could be a tell that there might be
  something there hey everybody sorry for
  that auditory change but I just found
  this other clip and I just want to
  really point out and drive home what I'm
  trying to explain here about the hair
  touching so in this clip that I'm about
  to show you this is where she's about to
  read the email that she actually sent to
  makeup geek about the collab and as you
  can see right before she reads this
  email she touches her hair this is
  something that makes her nervous like
  she's not sure if it's a good idea to
  really show what this email said so as
  you could tell she's calming yourself
  down as she's getting ready to read this
  email right for you you know but at the
  end of the day the collaboration just
  didn't make sense for business-wise it
  didn't make sense so I have an email
  sitting in front of me right here and
  I'm gonna read it to you guys okay I'm
  not gonna read you anything that Marlene
  or her team ever sent to me because it's
  not my place and I don't want to make
  this into like a he said she said thing
  I want you guys to know where I was
  coming from in this because I am sick of
  everyone having misinformation out there
  so this email dated on August 19th 2015
  says the other part of body language
  that I want to just kind of bring out
  she has her hands on the desk the entire
  time
  now this is if anybody thinks that this
  video was BS I would say it's not based
  on her hand placement okay having your
  hands up on the table subconsciously
  that means that you're confident and
  you're actually not hiding anything okay
  so because her hands are on the table I
  would say just based on that you know
  not being able to jump in a brain and
  see if she told the truth based on that
  she has a confidence and honesty about
  what she's saying even though she left a
  lot of stuff out but I think it's safe
  to say that she is now I know we can't
  see her hands but when you see all the
  hair touching she's doing you can tell
  she's not bringing her hand out from
  under the table when people's hands are
  underneath the table this is usually a
  sign that they're hiding something they
  actually did a really interesting study
  with jury members right and jury members
  are more likely to perceive somebody on
  the witness stand as lying if their
  hands are underneath the desk and it's
  actually quite true when somebody's
  hiding their hands they're telling you
  the truth
  well she's nervous give the girl a break
  all right but anyways I'm not excusing
  any of her behaviors in the past like I
  said in my other video that you might
  see later these are a couple things that
  we can learn from that all right but let
  me know what you thought about her video
  and if you think she was being honest or
  truthful and all that let me know down
  in the comments okay if you liked this
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