do you happen to know that one person in
your life that despite everything
positive that happens any positive event
they somehow try to be that Negative
Nancy and destroy all of the positivity
that it has to hold today I want to tell
you about how you can break that pattern
and get these people out of your life
hey dude I just got into Harvard can you
believe it Harvard I heard that
institution is no good hey I just got a
girlfriend can you believe it of all of
the times in my life I never thought
that this would be the time that I would
somehow get a girl I am so excited and
so happy for myself
dude we know that relationships usually
and I mean like look at all of our
friends hardly any of their
relationships have lasted and this is
not going to be any different for you so
I would suggest that you have as much
fun as you can because it's not going to
last very long do you have people like
this in your life trust me they can be
such killjoys that they destroy any
positivity that may be around you any
good event that happens any positive
event something that you truly treasure
they have the ability to take it away
like that this is the effect of toxic
people who disqualify the positive all
the time they have this innate ability
to suck out all of your energy and just
leave you feeling miserable and make you
feel like themselves so we have people
like this in our life and we're going to
keep encountering toxic in negative
people what do we do when we face all of
these situations we need to understand
that yes there are going to be people
like this in our lives now what place do
they hold are they really important are
they family members are they extremely
close friends and do they add value to
your life
that's something that you need to ask
yourself if you know such people in your
life comment below and tell me how they
affect you and what kind of influence
they have on your thinking look at it
like this now why do we find it so hard
to acknowledge positive events in our
lives and why do these people
continually behave like this it's mainly
because their self-image what they see
themselves as cannot acknowledge any
positive event that happens around them
the same thing applies for positive
people except they tend to filter out
all of the negativity around them but
these people these toxic people they
somehow tend to you know grab hold of
that negativity and they kind of enjoy
it think they grow they feed on that
negativity but it doesn't necessarily
make them feel any better and it doesn't
make you feel better that's for sure and
it's all because of this inconsistency
between what their self images what they
see themselves as and what is happening
around them any positive event that
happens either to them or to you they
cannot perceive that in a positive way
because it is inconsistent and human
beings look to be consistent congruent
with what is going on around them and
who they are now if I am a negative
person very likely that all of the
events that are happening around me the
people around me are going to be very
similar that's very important to
consider because that is what is
consistent with my self-image now let's
say a positive event happens to me I get
a really pretty girlfriend I get a new
promotion I achieve something that I've
always wanted for myself immediately
when that happens it tells me you know
what I got this but
think I'm good enough for this I'm not
worthy of this I don't deserve this
because it's inconsistent with who I
think I am my self-image is very
different from the events that are
happening around me where as if the
negative events continue someone who is
poor will consistently think that they
are destined to be poor and that
regardless of the positive events that
happen around them these are short-lived
that's what the problem is because the
perception is completely wrong they fail
to acknowledge any positive events that
happen around them so where do you stand
in the midst of all of this are you
someone who acknowledges negative events
as things that may happen along the way
but they don't stop you from
accentuating and focusing on the
positives is that what your self-image
is or are you consistently this toxic
negative person who has this ability to
spoil not only your life but the lives
of the people around you are these
people adding a positive influence to
you and making a positive difference in
your life that's something that you need
to ask yourselves because if this is
happening to you right now change it
these toxic people are doing you no good
if it's someone whom you cannot get out
of your life do your best to keep your
distance away from them because they
have the ability to spoil your life they
have the ability to make you fail they
have the ability to destroy anything
that you are that's the potential that
they have negativity can be so much
stronger than positivity trust me on
this because we are designed to avoid
pain we are designed to avoid pain so
something that happens in a positive
fashion around me I will not acknowledge
it because I believe that all of these
negative things are truly what I am
destined for that the pleasure of this
present event is only temporary
I cannot adjust my mind to that so think
about that if there are people like this
with a self-image that is inconsistent
with your positive self-image get them
out of your life and don't get into
relationships with toxic people because
they are really difficult to change if
you are that persistent you're that keen
on changing this person whom you see
potential in either send them to this
channel or send them to someone who can
actually help them out make a difference
in their life you can be that one person
who actually creates that positivity for
them help them create a change there is
always a possibility but remember the
toxic people these negative people it's
very difficult for them to come out of
it because they are trapped in an
environment they are trapped in this
kind of space that is very difficult to
come out of and it's really difficult
for just you and I to do that so it's go
have to it's going to have to be a group
effort this person needs support most of
the time so whenever possible refer them
to a mental health professional because
that can truly make a big difference
because they might be going through
something deeper there may be some
pathology involved where they are
suffering from a mental illness that is
always that possibility but understand
that negative people toxic people are
going to be there in your life always as
much as possible try to omit them from
your life because it is inconsistent
with your positive self-image you are a
positive person and you deserve the best
people who are going to positively
impact your life and get you to where
you want to be by supporting you so keep
that in mind and focus on building a
positive self-image and enjoy the
positive things that happen in your life
because life is difficult and the things
that do happen in a positive fashion
it's up to you to make them consist
and negative events will follow but
don't hold on to them filter them out
enjoy the positive things that happen in
your life and try to help others enjoy
the same positivity that you experience
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this is Vikram signing off and I'll see
you
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