dating engaged or married thank you for dropping by
I am Kadrian Thomas and on this channel every day I share watching video of tips
of how you can enrich and enhance your relationship so today I want to talk
about the 8 reasons why your spouse meaning your husband or your wife is not
having sex with you now these 8 tips that I want to share all of them may not
apply to you as there may be only one that is affecting your relationship so
it doesn't necessarily mean that it's all 8 why your partner your husband
your wife is not having sex with you there may be only one in these 8 so
number one it may be that there is an health issue so your husband could be
affected by an erectile dysfunction or it could be that he has some form of
disease STDs etc it could mean that she is going through menopause it could be
that he has low testosterone levels it could also mean that she's suffering
from low libido levels or there may be chemical imbalances in either part so
number one is that there may be an health issue and when there are health
issues involved then the side effects may be that your partner does not want
to have sex with you because their sex drive
is at an all-time low it could also mean that you are taking medication that is
affecting your sex drive so in the case of a woman because she is using a
certain form of contraceptive then it may also affect her libido and her sex
drive so that could contribute to that number two is that of cheating so if
your partner is cheating on you then that could be a big problem that
could mean that they're getting their sexual desires full
filled elsewhere and so they start up differently they start to just
differently they start to treat you differently and therefore no longer
attracted to you because they're getting that fulfillment outside of you so
number one is health issue number two is that of cheating your partner is
cheating on you and therefore that's probably why you're not getting any sex
the third reason could be that there is an addiction problem an addiction to
porn or masturbation and the like number two where your partner your spouse is
getting his or her fulfillment elsewhere the porn addiction because they're
getting that high stimulation the mental stimulation and and and so on then that
may cause your partner to lose the desires that they need to have for you
and that's why they're not having sex with you because they're getting their
desires fulfilled either through cheating or through an addiction to porn
or masturbation number four is that your partner may have been traumatized in the
past whether it was at the stage of childhood where they may have been
sexually abused or maybe in the marriage maybe you abused your partner and you
traumatized your partner especially in a female case where as a husband you may
have traumatized your wife and because of that she's not having sex with you
because she's still going through the pain of that traumatic period that you
would have brought her through number five is that there could have been an
ulterior motive like for example your partner came in the relationship to have
children and once your partner has gotten their project over with meaning
they've had the children or the child that they always wanted to have then the
sex is over there is no longer the need or the drive because the plan or the
project has come to fruition additionally partner is
gay and basically when they came in the relationship with you they came to
fulfill the fact that they wanted to save their image or to save their
reputation and so they got married to you as a cover-up so that's another
ulterior motive for getting married and once that is fulfilled then the sex
drive goes out the window or they may have marry you for the wrong reason
meaning they got married to you for your money or your assets the things that you
own and therefore after a while the sexual desires dissipate or disappears
you know or it could be a case where you're overseas and because they want to
get their stay in that particular country whether it's the UK the US
Canada etc they wanted to get their stay so they got married to you for ulterior
motives so that could be one of the reasons your partner ain't having no sex
with you because their motives were ulterior from the beginning of the
relationship or getting into the marriage the next thing is that as a
person they don't find you attractive anymore they may not find your looks
attractive they may not find the way you deal with them attractive in general
you're just not attractive you're unattractive to them and therefore they
find other persons attractive who they are dealing with and who they are
forming a new relationship with because of lack of attraction that could be an
ideal problem why they are not having sex with you anymore and number seven is
that of resentment if it reached a point where your partner resent you so much
and unforgiveness is there then it may also contribute to you not having sex
because nobody wants to hold and cuddle and have sex with somebody who they
resent very much and who they hate they don't like anymore so if your
partner is resenting you for whatever reasons or whatever you have contributed
negatively in the relationship that may be a point where you are not getting any
sex and number eight is that of stress stress can cause a person not to want to
have sex with you even for men who have high sex drives when they are under
pressure and under a load of stress that may contribute to them not wanting to
have sex with you especially if they have a business and things are going
terribly wrong and there is pressure from the boss or there is pressure at
work from the employees there is pressure from the clients they serve
there is pressure from the business and then there are pressures within the
family bringing on a ton load of stress psychologically it freaks them out and
because of that you may not be having any sex at all so those are the reasons
why your partner may not be having any sex with you so number one there may be
an health issue number two their cheating number three they may be addicted to
porn or masturbation number four they may have been traumatized number five
there are ulterior motives number six they are no longer attracted to you
number seven they are resenting you and number eight
there may be a big load of stress so those are the reasons that may be
contributing to your partner not having sex with you on a regular basis or not
at all so before you jump to any conclusions you should find out which
one of those eight may be contributing to the lack of sex in your relationship
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