being likeable in an interview could hurt your chances at getting the right job
for you in this video we'll talk about being
likeable what it means and how you approach this in interviews so stay
tuned so many people believe that being likeable in an interview is the most
important thing to learn the job that you want and while I understand this and
I've even said this myself in the past being likeable to the wrong people could
hurt your chances of getting the right position for you I understand why you
might believe that being likeable to everyone is ultimately the goal however
that's not actually possible it's not possible for everyone to like you so the
best policy is to just be the best you that you can be and if they like you
great and if they don't like you then that's equally great and here is why if
someone doesn't like you it has nothing to do with you if someone doesn't like
you if they don't pick you for the job or if they don't pick you for the
project or whatever it is it doesn't mean that it's anything about you so it
doesn't actually mean anything about you as a person what does it mean when
someone likes you does it mean you're likeable only if
someone else likes you it's very interesting to think about there is a
famous saying and it goes like this you can be the juiciest most beautiful
orange but there's always gonna be someone that doesn't like oranges we
don't blame the orange do we if someone doesn't like an orange we don't say oh
it's that orange is false because it's not good enough the orange is not good
enough we actually don't blame the person we don't hold it against them
that they don't like oranges it's okay that they don't like oranges doesn't say
anything about the orange itself it says something of what the person that they
don't like oranges so think about yourself for a second maybe you're just
not their flavor maybe you're just not their style or their preference the
orange doesn't get upset because someone doesn't like it it just keeps being an
orange show up as yourself because that's inevitable anyway so for example
if I show up as me and I I am me throughout the entire interview
the people are going to like me will really like me they don't like some
version of me that I'm creating in order to be more
electable so I'm not gonna be smiling on purpose like like force smiling and I'm
not gonna be laughing at things that I don't think are funny because if you do
that in the interview then I'm gonna have to do that throughout the entire
time that I'm employed with this company and if that's not me in the first place
then I'm gonna end up unhappy in that role and I'm really gonna wish that I
was myself from the beginning it's kind of like dating so I don't want you to
have to have like an interview version of yourself
and then have like a off-duty version of yourself because that would be a lot of
work to keep up with and it would end up you being unhappy because you are
putting on a mask what good is more likeable version of
you anyway what are you doing that for anyway so if say I told you some ways to
be more likeable which is probably why you're watching this video and I said
you know compliment people more smile more laugh more in fact here's a list be
positive control your insecurities provide value eliminate judgments be a
person of conviction if you are not those things at heart then it won't come
across naturally anyways so if you are working on things for yourself like make
sure you want to work on those things for yourself anyway make sure you want
to be less judgmental and you're not doing it just so someone will like you
more or you make someone else like you because in the end there's always gonna
be someone who doesn't like oranges and that's okay if you want to learn more
about my strategies that my students are getting to see explosive salary growth
in their first year communicate their value in interviews then click below to
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ten concrete example answers of how to answer behavioral interview questions
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fill in the blank templates for how to answer the question so you can practice
your own answers and if you get confused or if you get a
little bit stuck I've given you 25 questions that you can ask yourself to
help come up with your own story answers so this is really going to help you
become super confident and the interviews that you go into and you're
not gonna worry about whether or not someone likes you or not because if they
do great and if they don't equally great so you can grab that by clicking the
link below and getting started with me and if you want to watch some more
videos from me you can click link right here if you
want to watch more videos in the series you can click here and I hope to see you
in the next video thank you so much bye so be yourself assist a cliche advice
but ultimately it's what we all need to do and I think it was peaches
I think it's there's always someone who doesn't like peaches
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