Waching daily Dec 29 2018

I think that we're actually animals that we have an animal nature and that we

have to become human and we become human by overcoming some of these deep-rooted

animal forces within us these forces within us that we can't control such as

the fact that we can't control our own emotions our own anger our own

frustration or if we feel Envy but we're caught up in the emotions of other

people I call those forces primal forces human nature and they can create sort of

negative patterns of behavior the dark side of what we see in the news etc and

we all have them ingrained in us because with the way we evolved millions of

years ago served a very definite purpose for our survival as a species but the

savannas of East Africa is not the offices in Silicon Valley or a 21st

century America the world isn't the same we are not built to adapt to this new

technological environment we're in we still have that lizard brain those

animal parts of our nature so for instance law number one is about how

we're basically irrational creatures we think that were rational but really our

emotions governess we feel something before we ever have an idea of thinking

we have to become rational through this process that I lay out in my book so I

don't need to say that we're negative because humans are obviously incredible

look at what we've created it's an array giuse if you think about who we were

millions of years ago where we are now we're obviously capable of incredible

achievements were also the most brilliant social animal on the planet

we're capable of cooperating and working on teams to a level that no other animal

has ever reached so there's obviously another side to the story but to become

greater to become truly human we have to overcome these forces that I lay out so

for instance we are built to constantly compare ourselves to other people we're

always thinking of what the other person has and how we are in relation to them

are we getting as much attention as that other person you start off when we were

are we getting more attention than our siblings from our parents so we're

continually comparing ourselves in rank and power and status to the people

around us and this is deep force within us and it's constant every day every

moment you don't realize that what you're going through that and social

media it completely exacerbates this tendency in human nature

another is the contagiousness of emotions which is extremely powerful we

tend to think of ourselves as autonomous human beings that were independent that

we I feel affection or anger or frustration on my own we don't realize

how deep we are affected by the emotions of the people in a group this is the

viral effects emotions are extremely contagious before the invention of

language we humans had to be able to communicate to one another through just

picking up the moods of other people and if there was a threat to our group or

our tribe the ability to feel fear and anger together bonded us and helped us

survive but that doesn't serve much function in the world today where viral

emotions could be very dangerous in there we see a lot of that on social

media I'm really worried about people nowadays but now my worry is that people

are so immersed in their smartphones in their technology that they don't

understand people they're not observing people and this has been documented in

studies that young people for instance levels of self-absorption and narcissism

had been growing steadily since the 1970s we are the preeminent social

animal the planet our survival depends on how

we relate to other people whether we understand them on some level and I find

a lot of people are increasingly in the world are really bad at observing just

basic elements in human psychology the position I'm in now I'm a consultant to

a lot of very powerful famous people I'm not gonna mention any names people fly

me out to consult the CEOs political people who are very powerful in even in

other countries and the number one problem I find that they have is an

inability to understand the people they're dealing with they hire the wrong

partners they hire the worst assistance when dabbe ruining their lives these are

people who are technically brilliant they understand their field they

understand marketing etc but they don't understand basics about people around

them and they make terrible hires are they very absolutely the wrong person

for them in their lives their emotions or you know their personal relationship

to bring them down so this is like our Achilles heel and I think it's gotten

worse in the world today so my anger was that people are so focused on technology

but that we need to focus much more on human nature on understanding people

that's the primary skill that you need in life there is something deeply

ingrained in each individual person a particular individual nature that we all

have and that causes us to go into compulsive patterns of behavior I have

this problem myself I notice each time I write a book I'm telling myself I'm

gonna make this book short I'm not gonna ruin my health I'm not gonna do so much

research and then every goddamn time I still go through the same process I

can't break this pattern okay and everybody has them where does it come

from some of it comes from our DNA from our genetics things we can't

that we've inherited from our parents some of it comes from our early

attachment and some of it comes as we get older and we interact with teachers

and mentors and various people who create a certain way we view ourselves

if people keep telling us that were not really worthy that we're not good

students we internalize that in the end up becoming like that so it's a mix of

things you know each person has a mix of these qualities and you have to kind of

and untangle the various strands in your write-up what I'm saying is you're a

mystery to yourself you don't know who you are you have patterns of behavior

and you're not even understanding that you don't know why you're angry you

think you're angry because that person said something mean to you or did

something wrong but in fact your anger probably stems from things from deep

deep within from your childhood and you're not reacting to that person but

to actually your parents and what they didn't give you you know those is the

origin of wisdom according to the Greeks was know thyself right and I believe

that very firmly that knowledge about who you are is an end in itself and will

help you in so many ways become that human being that I think we all have the

potential to become so I'm a great believer in baby steps in learning how

to do things on a daily basis so normally when we feel an emotion or we

have an idea we don't examine it we just assume that's that's you know it just

naturally came up with that on our own I want you every single day to be

examining yourself and to look at yourself

why do I have that idea why am I feeling this sudden emotion and it's not easy it

takes it can take time and it can take degree of introspection that you're not

comfortable with but if you begin to look at yourself in question why do I

feel this way and examine it and look at perhaps other sources of it then you can

begin this process of understanding instead of just simply accepting that

you feel or have this certain idea so question yourself stop assuming that

everything you do is so brilliant and smart it's right and imagine that maybe

your ideas don't come from yourself maybe you're feeling some political

anger or whatever comes from the fact that you're just assuming it from other

people you're following things on Facebook and you're getting swept up in

some viral emotion you want to think that you're completely independent and

autonomous but maybe you're not as independent as you think I want to

change how you look at people normally everything is personal oh they said that

oh they don't like me oh he likes me she I'm not getting attention cut that off I

want you to look at people as as facts of nature as things that like a rock or

a stone or a plant this is who they are and I want you to observe them and

accept them for who they are and deal with them as individuals you will be

free of all that emotional baggage that you carry when you take everything so

personally I think altering your perspective how you look at people will

have a radical influence on all aspects of your life

For more infomation >> This Will Change The Way You Look At Everything | Robert Greene (A Chilling Speech) - Duration: 9:43.

-------------------------------------------

Bài Ca Cãi Nhau | 吵架歌 - Uông Tô Lang ft Hari - Duration: 2:53.

For more infomation >> Bài Ca Cãi Nhau | 吵架歌 - Uông Tô Lang ft Hari - Duration: 2:53.

-------------------------------------------

Flood Damage Restoration Coeur d'Alene ID 509-723-7258 Flood Damage Restoration Coeur d'Alene ID - Duration: 1:15.

Flood Damage Restoration Coeur d'Alene ID

We live our life according to schedules.

We plan meetings, birthday parties, hair appointments and family get-togethers.

Unfortunately, the one thing we can NOT plan, or predict, is when Mother Nature will turn

on us with full, merciless force.

While we can't stop her from causing unbelievable devastation, we can make it look as though

nothing ever happened!

That's where we come in.

Our dedicated team of diligent experts will swoop in to save the day in a moment's notice,

whether your home or business is suffering at the hands of water OR fire damage.

We'll clean up and restore your property to its predisastrous condition, leaving no

stone unturned and no area unattended to.

Fire and water damage can be devastating, which is why we're at your service 24/7,

365.

You can't schedule disaster, but you CAN add us to your phone book immediately for

resounding peace of mind, for the long haul.

For more infomation >> Flood Damage Restoration Coeur d'Alene ID 509-723-7258 Flood Damage Restoration Coeur d'Alene ID - Duration: 1:15.

-------------------------------------------

Warning: Rant.. 5 Steps to getting get anything you want in 2019 and the 3 Pitfalls - Duration: 25:05.

Good Saturday morning I am excited to be here as you saw in the comments I would

like to have a pretty intense conversation with many of you who are

out there trying to build your brand. I'm gonna give everybody a moment to hop on

in the mean time if you are here live give me a shout-out say hey give me a

heart give me a like and if you guys want me to share the entire truth with

you today about how I get everything I ever want well then you're gonna have to

participate because everything in life is energy so go ahead give me a heart or

a like give me a tap I want to see it let's see it now because I'm telling you

guys that this message that I vote to deliver is something that I have worked

on in my own life for years and literally have built million dollar

businesses my first million dollars came out of the principle that I'm about to

share with you so if you want to know what it is I want to see your harder

like I know you guys are waving which is awesome hey Terry Lea hey Bobby I know a

bunch of you're jumping on right now but I want to see some participation or I'm

just gonna sit here and it would be like which would be awfully boring so with

that you guys um if you don't know where that is on the bottom of your screen you

should be able to find like a tap the screen deal but anyways I want

participation in this if you guys see something that you agree with go ahead

and type it in share this video this is important I have been I hey Bobby says

I'm ready let's go so Bobby you're gonna get the secret I

love it thank you guys so participation is key

why because everything in life is energy absolutely everything you can sit back

and watch the others do it and you will get some sort of return on that

investment however the real key in life is when you jump in and do it yourself

because nothing returns void I am reading a phenomenal book right now it's

actually the third time I read it and it is called the secret of the ages by

Robert Collier if you have not read it if you have not read it go get it like

literally get off this live when we're done

and order it why it contains the absolute truth to you living your

destiny to you understanding energy how to gain power how to have happiness and

love and prosperity and all those things so I see that Whitley's on there's

Whitley thank you for the heart did you see what Whitley just did she just gave

me a heart that's what I'm looking for so go ahead hearts and likes hearts and

likes and we're gonna dive in I promised you guys that I would give you the key

to getting whatever you want and it is a simple key but most people overlook it

Thank You Eleanor that's right secret of the ages by Robert Collier

okay so let's dive right in I get asked the question all the time how do I brand

myself with everything I do how do I brand myself well when you are out there

looking at delivering your message so let's talk about what you might be

selling tell me some of the things that you guys are selling uh you know some

people are coaches some people are you know selling products there in network

marketing maybe they're selling real estate you're selling cars I don't care

what you're selling it's all about you about your message and about you

delivering to your client the thing that they need now most people are running

around trying to find out what their client wants and yes that's good there

has been many programs built on you know there's I mean so many so many programs

built on how to get your course out there or your product out there or your

marketing message out there but here's the problem with all of it you cannot

find your message outside of yourself it is not outside of yourself your

customers don't hold the key to your future you hold the key to your future

what you are born to do what you want to do what you desire to do it is in you

now and you just need to allow it to come to the surface so I'm gonna explain

this some of you and if you're not selling something

wake up you are literally I have you a job as a nurse

and you're not selling something on this side you are putting yourself in a

position of not having control of your future if you are and I'm not just

picking on nurses I'm just saying that's a really good job right they make good

money but you have got to be growing and when you work a job day in and day out

unless you are intentionally growing which most people are not if you are not

intentionally growing you are dying listen to me if you are struggling with

you know knowing what your your destiny is dealing with depression if you are

you know gaining weight if you feel like you're off track if you're stuck if

you're a marriage that isn't working it is because you are not growing you are

not growing it is not the other person's fault it is not your jobs fault it is

not anybody's fault but your own there are two stages of life growing and dying

that is it growing or dying what are you doing right now so every day every day

every day every day I get up and I study every day I get up and I read every day

I get up and I write why because I know that I control my destiny I control

where I show up I control how I show up if you are not selling something most

likely you have no reason to grow or get better you just don't have to when you

were trying to get married you were selling yourself to your spouse when did

that stop when did you start riding the roller coaster of oh whatever I love

that old saying you know the wife keeps asking your husband do you love me do

you love me do you love me and he says I told you I did on the day we got married

if anything changes I'll let you know okay well that's one way to approach

marriage don't know if that's gonna get you the sex you want but it is one way

to go so I would recommend not being bad guy but rather being the guy that's

continuously investing or girl continuing continuously investing and

growing and becoming better and selling yourself to your spouse no different

than selling yourself to your boss selling your product or service whatever

it is we have got to be investing okay I told you I was gonna give you the keys

to getting whatever you want whenever you want

stop being a doer that's it everybody's so busy doing doing doing

doing doing weird we're doing the work were doing the gym we're doing our

branding we're doing social media I'm doing a live know I'm be me I am being

me you need to be you and you need to be you and tell the friggin truth stop

doing being a doer or worse if you're in a religion don't do her okay don't do

this don't do that oh my god just so afraid of your shadow you can't step out

because when people are under to think don't worry about what they think what

the hell do they have to do is your future you are it at the end of the day

you're the one that's gonna control where you end up so what do you need to

do you need to learn to be learn it to be be what be whatever you want to be

that's the key you can be do and have anything you set your mind to

limitations don't exist they do not exist limitations are the things that

you allow either yourself or others to put on you that's what a limitation is

and you allow it you literally give them permission I'm gonna give you a vision

right now you want to become a millionaire you want to become a

multi-millionaire you want to become a top producer you want to have a better

marriage you want to whatever and you step out to go do that thing and

somebody comes along and says hmm ah I don't think that thing's gonna work do

you seriously think people are gonna buy that from you who do you think you are

who's gonna follow you that's not what a real leader does net net net net and all

of a sudden you're allowing I want you to think about those comments the things

that they think about you those limitations they're putting on you or

maybe it's you as dots and stars there's a book by John Maxwell um

and I can't remember the name of it right now but it is a children's book

look look up John Maxwell children's book it'll come to me

but oats special gift I think anyways in the story there's a little wooden man

and he lives in this village and in the village everyone has a special gift and

the creator lives on the mountain the guy that made them lives on the mountain

in a house and and they get to go up there some people get to go up there and

talk to him and some people don't but anyways in the village these other

little wooden men come along and they put dots and stars on you if they like

you they give you a star they don't like you they give you a dot if you perform

in a way the they don't like they put a dot on you if

they perform in a way that you do they do like you can sing or you're talented

or whatever they'll give you a start and one day this guy he's covered in dots

just covered feels horrible about himself has a couple stars here and

there but really truly feeling horrible but himself who he is what he stands for

and he comes and he meets this girl and she has no dots and stars none and she's

like he goes to her how did you do that and she said well I went up on the hill

and I talked to her maker and she literally refused the dots of stars she

knew what she was born to do she was born to be she was a perfect being of

love and she was created as the creator created her meaning lacking nothing so

why would you allow dots and stars to be placed on you by other people stock

picking up their shit stop it you need to allow yourself to be your fantastic

have you made mistakes most likely name one person in the world who hasn't made

a mistake have you screwed up royally probably what your friggin human are you

ready to actually set yourself on a path of complete freedom stop picking up

limitations stop listening to other people this will this won't you can you

can't blah blah blah crap it is not for you to decide whether what they're

thinking is your how do I say this you cannot agree with what other people

think of you or you will become what other people think of you do you

understand you think I'm loud and mouthy whatever

sounds like a personal problem to me to now

don't listen I don't care I'm clearly not looking for you I'm looking for the

ones that need freedom they want a message of truth they want to be able to

reach out and take my hand and go where they can't go by themselves back to the

question of branding okay and then we're going to talk about getting whatever you

want so the branding thing well what if I

sell cars and I start doing a network marketing company and now and selling

shampoo or what if I sell houses and then I want to become a preacher or what

if I Oh in my case I'm a CEO of a medical

office company that means chief operating officer so I'm running a

multi-million dollar company I am a personal business coach I do VIP

coaching and I just became a faster way fat loss coach why cuz I freaking wanted

to oh that's why because people need it that's why and I saw a hole in the

marketplace I saw a place where I could be of service I stepped into that and

I'm gonna sell this shit out of it and if you don't like it that's okay but

what are you doing where are you holding yourself back because other people might

not like that you're doing something different than you were doing yesterday

you are not a static being you are a human being human beings are spiritual

we are spiritual beings when your spirit leaves your body you're dead okay so

you're a spiritual being you show me one ounce of energy that is static static

energy is dead it doesn't exist there's not a thing energy is always moving

you are vibratory energy in a certain phase of existence the shelf well that's

a solid form of energy you are energy you cannot be static so let me ask you

when was the last time you were afraid to change when was the last time you

were afraid to step out and talk about something other people weren't talking

about when was the last time you are afraid to step out and do something

different what I am Telling You guys you are made to change your major change

you're made to change you're made to grow you're made to become better the

book that I was telling you about the Robert Collier one it says that aged and

dying does not exist you are energy you're a spiritual being so therefore

the only death that can come upon you is the death that you think first so let's

talk about this there are people in the world document it that it lived to 150

years old why not you there are people who are 90 years old

bodybuilding why not you there are people that are you know 40 years old

coming into the best years of their life why not you there are people who are

losing weight every day why not you there's people that are becoming wealthy

beyond their wildest imagination every day why not you there are people

that are out there living the life of their dreams

why not you why because you haven't thought the thoughts to get you the

thing that's it that's all there is you're either

speaking life over yourself or you're speaking death life or death is in the

power of the tongue the tongue speaks what the mind thinks that's it

that's all there is the key to life getting whatever you want think it be

about it think it and be about it you want to change your life you want to

change I don't care if it's Fitness family finance you want to give more be

more have more do more then you're gonna have to think a little differently than

you've been thinking where you are right now is because of the thoughts the

pattern that you have developed you you were made in an image you were made in

an image this shelf with me in an image somebody thought I need a shelf that

looks like this they drew a print cut the wood put the thing together now I

have a shelf I can change the color of the Shelf I could cut a side off the

shelf I did actually cut the shelf and house one time you guys I can change

anything I want but it all started with a pattern what pattern are you following

who gave you the pattern who gave you the pattern who give you the idea that

you needed to be old and fat and decrepit at 50 who did that I don't know

who did that I'm telling you guys right now this is one thing that I have I have

been slapped in the face with like every morning it's been like I you know I'm

like well I really truly want to be in the best shape of my life by the time I

50 I'm 44 turning 45 in February this next year

mark my words will be a game-changer for me why cuz I decided I made a plan I set

the plan in action I got people around me hired a coach and then I'm being

about it and then when you be about it don't quit don't quit you can't quit you

can't quit you can't quit you want to get rich you can't quit you want to get

fit you can't quit you want to I don't know you find somebody that you can love

for the rest of your life and being like an amazing marriage don't quit you don't

get there by quitting but what are the steps number one what decide decide what

what you want to create a plan what's a plan

it's a blueprint an image of what you want and you it's gotta be so clear you

don't go build a frigging house within half-ass built blueprint do you know the

engineer makes it down to the freakin moment to the to the measurement to the

eighth of an inch its measured so what is your plan for your life what is it

because here's the at the end of the day I can make the plan for you I can coach

you I can teach you I can train you I can walk with you I can kick your ass

and you need it I can pick you up when you fall down I can dust you off I can

hug you I can kiss you I can do all that but I can't make it happen for you you

gotta make it happen for you so what's your plan what are you gonna do what

image are you creating what do you want to look like what do you want to have

what do you want to own where you want to travel who do you want to love what

do you want 2019 put your limitations if you spent

more time if I spend more time planning what I did want instead of worrying

about what I don't want do you know what happened in my life back to what I was

saying about getting slapped in the face I have been like I'm 2019 best year of

my life I'm gonna have like you know the body that I want the money that I want

all of that and then what the little boys pops up and says what oh you know

you've been through menopause it's impossible to lose weight after that you

know you're you've got stretch marks you're never gonna have that 20 year old

body back you know you uh you're gonna be traveling a lot so it's really

difficult to stay on track so now what happens all of the training all of the

nonsense all of the limitations all of the excuses that me or somebody else has

put on me over the last 44 years comes flooding out and I base it on what my

experience because my experience is the truth my circumstances no that is

literally tiny little seeds of doubt fear and worry and anxiety being planted

in my dream so now I want you to picture you made this beautiful plan you decide

okay I'm gonna go for it you make this beautiful plan the plan is

like a little seed you put the little seed where in a pot you water the pot

you tend the pot do you pee on the pot no why because you'll kill the friggin

plant you'll kill the seed before it has a chance

to grow but that's what we do when we you and I create a plan for our lives

and then we allow all the little seeds all the fear all little doubt all

limitations all the people to speak over our lives that have no friggin business

even speaking about us at all and then we listen and we pour that crap on our

planet what doesn't that sound ridiculous it's

ridiculous but that's what we do so here's the key to getting whatever you

want number one make a plan decide what you

want D side b side b side d side means kill all doubt kill it dead i don't care

if you have to view the 9 inch dagger to kill it dead kill your doubt dead deep

side whatever you want deep side number 2 make a plan a crystal-clear plan

exactly what its gonna feel like look like smell like be about you've got to

be about it make a plan okay make a plan and i would strongly recommend getting a

coach or someone around you to help you achieve that thing if you need a coach

in finance get one you need a coach in Fitness get one you need a coach in

business get one get off your wallet and invest in yourself it's the best

investment you will ever make so number two make a plan number three be about it

be about it when people come at you and say you can't you say screw you

whatever talks the hands the face not listening no no listen Linda Linda

listen Linda you have got to stop listening to other people be about it

don't do it be about it what's the difference between being and doing being

is knowing with certainty that you are acting in the way that's gonna bring the

thing that you want to you doing it is hoping it's gonna work oh I'm gonna go

do that how many people I'm gonna do that I'm gonna do it really why don't

you be it why do you try being it why don't you be a leader not like oh I'm

gonna go do a leader be about it go be a leader how do you leave open your mouth

share your message let people join you that's it that's all you do and and be

willing to take the backlash there's people are gonna watch this

video and be like oh my gone can you believe that she's so loud

and so mouthy and then so good can you believe it yeah whatever

click off then it's okay click off that's my new saying that's why I'm

gonna use all year long click off okay so here's the thing so number three you

be about it number four number four we create accountability around it so we

want to find a community a coach or something and number five don't quit

don't quit don't quit it may take one year two years five years ten years it

might take whatever years don't quit and I will tell you guys something else I am

so sick and tired people being like oh I tried I've tried everything you've tried

everything really if you tried everything you'd have the thing stop

being stupid you haven't tried everything you tried a few things you

fell down you scratched your knees and now you're sucking your thumb seriously

stop it you have not tried everything if you tried everything you'd already have

the thing that you were trying to get stop trying there is no try only do

grasshopper go watch Yoda like seriously there is no try only do try to stand up

try go ahead try you're in a chair try and stand up you don't eat try to stand

up you either stand up or you sit down try to be pregnant just try you either

are pregnant or you're not pregnant you don't try to be pregnant like it's

ridiculous try is not a thing if you're the person that's like oh I'm trying

will you keep trying to do whatever you're trying to do and you're never

going to have the thing that you are trying to do so here's my final say on

this entire thing you have been waiting for permission waiting for permission

waiting for permission to win waiting for permission to love yourself waiting

for permission to be free in your thinking waiting for permission to be

the right size the right shape the right color the right whatever you've been

waiting waiting for permission the world is never going to give you permission

why because they can't even give themselves permission so now you're

asking for permission from people that can't give themselves permission

seriously stop it you have my permission go do it whatever it is that you want to

do you want be in the best day of your life do it you want to make money do it

you want to be a leader do it you want to I don't know whatever

go do it be it be about it go be it act like it act like it act like it's

already there act like it's already there and you'll

have it stop you've just got to be about it so we

thought you guys I want to hear from you what you need to do in 2019 to be about

it what do you want to change where do you want to go who do you want to know

what would you like to do I want to know why because I'm gonna cheer you on

and when that people are kicking you down I'm gonna pick you up you want to

join yeah I don't whatever you want to build a network marketing business I'll

help you do it you want to build an affiliate I'll help you do it you want

to build traditional business I'll help you do it you want to lose weight I'll

help you do it you want to I don't know be better version yourself and quit

being afraid I'll help you do it what do you got to do you got to be live show up

share it around go or my Instagram at Mel green oh and follow that would be a

good thing to do but clue in you have got to listen the right voices you have

got to listen the right voices so take an assessment who you been listening to

who've you been hanging on to who you've been looking for approval from you know

what there's people very close to me that don't get me a permit permission

often huh I don't get approval often most of my family thinks I'm crazy

whatever who cares I don't want their future I want mine

I don't want where they're going I want to go where I'm going so with that you

guys I seriously want you go get that book now here's the sad part some of you

are not going to do any of this you're gonna be like oh that was entertaining

stop it be about it decide what you want 2019 decide what you want decide decide

make a plan B about it don't quit find coach get it done seriously you have one

life every moment is ticking away it's all going away and you get to this side

you want to change change now your energy you are not static go do it be

about it seriously okay so with that share with me what you guys are looking

for for 2019 share this with somebody tag somebody below that needs to hear

this seriously and just know that there will be all of 2019 is gonna be

a lot like this I'm going to be hammering the power of intentional

success hammering the power of intentional success that is my mantra

you guys I have a planner over at Melanie green or calm that you can get

that will give you life plan business plan accountability all that stuff in a

nutshell so you can like literally be about it create a plan all of that but

all you're gonna hear from me all year long is how do we create a plan in our

lives in Fitness finance family philanthropy huh faith how do we do that

and execute that plan so that we can live the lives we deserve you guys you

are born to be born to be whatever you choose you can be do and have anything

you want possibility is endless limitations don't exist decide and go

and get it be bust you guys we'll talk to you soon don't forget to share it

around take somebody below talk to you soon how's the best already ever had

For more infomation >> Warning: Rant.. 5 Steps to getting get anything you want in 2019 and the 3 Pitfalls - Duration: 25:05.

-------------------------------------------

What Keown noticed about Emery that showed Arsenal had 'lost control' - Duration: 2:25.

  Martin Keown highlighted a moment from Liverpool's 5-1 win over Arsenal in which Unai Emery appeared to 'lose control'

 The Gunners were battered in all areas of the park on Saturday as Roberto Firmino (three), Sadio Mane and Mohamed Salah put the away side to the sword

 Ex-Arsenal centre-back Keown picked apart his former side's poor performance in the BT Sport studio after the fixture, and, according to presenter Jake Humphrey, noticed something he didn't like about Emery

 "We could sit here till about 10 o'clock Martin going through your frustrations with the Arsenal performance today," said Humphrey

Read More Liverpool fans loved what Andy Robertson said after being handed Roberto Firmino's MOTM award  "One of the things you did notice really early on was how vocal Emery is on the sidelines and you said at one point 'it feels like you're not in control of your own game if the manager is giving you information out there'

"  Keown responded: "Look, we've got to be patient, but we have to be honest. Read More Jurgen Klopp hails "big step" in Liverpool's bid to secure Premier League title  "He was screaming at [Ainsley] Maitland-Niles to get back, now OK, there is little time between the matches but a simple instruction like that could have maybe been covered before the game starts

 "It always seems that he's not pro-active, he's reacting to a difficult situation that he finds himself in

 "There are a succession of injuries, and I think he is an outstanding manager and I think it was right to make that change

 "But at the moment, until he buys players - he's going to have to go out there and buy personnel - you look at them collectively, they don't defend well as a unity, they don't press, they don't get out together as a group

"

For more infomation >> What Keown noticed about Emery that showed Arsenal had 'lost control' - Duration: 2:25.

-------------------------------------------

Water Damage Estimate Coeur d'Alene ID 509-723-7258 Water Damage Estimate Coeur d'Alene ID - Duration: 1:15.

Water Damage Estimate Coeur d'Alene ID

We live our life according to schedules.

We plan meetings, birthday parties, hair appointments and family get-togethers.

Unfortunately, the one thing we can NOT plan, or predict, is when Mother Nature will turn

on us with full, merciless force.

While we can't stop her from causing unbelievable devastation, we can make it look as though

nothing ever happened!

That's where we come in.

Our dedicated team of diligent experts will swoop in to save the day in a moment's notice,

whether your home or business is suffering at the hands of water OR fire damage.

We'll clean up and restore your property to its predisastrous condition, leaving no

stone unturned and no area unattended to.

Fire and water damage can be devastating, which is why we're at your service 24/7,

365.

You can't schedule disaster, but you CAN add us to your phone book immediately for

resounding peace of mind, for the long haul.

For more infomation >> Water Damage Estimate Coeur d'Alene ID 509-723-7258 Water Damage Estimate Coeur d'Alene ID - Duration: 1:15.

-------------------------------------------

Misleading Real Estate Advertising - Duration: 7:48.

Hey there Savvy Home Buyer and Sellers

this is Jeff O'Leary, "The Village Guru"

Mississauga Real Estate Broker

and in today's video I'm going to go over the

'Top 5 Misleading Advertisements in Real Estate.'

This video is good for everybody

buyers or sellers, because you're going to want to understand that

not everything is what it seems.

So without further ado let's get right into it!

As a real estate broker I notice all real estate advertising

I mean I can't help it it's the industry I'm in.

Now, I see some really good advertising

and then I see some not good advertising

but today what I'd want to talk about is

actually misleading advertising

because there's a ton of it in the industry and

I think as a consumer you need to understand when something sounds too

good to be true or it's not quite what it is

so let's get right into it.

#1 - Guaranteed Sales Program

Guys, this trick has been going on for the last 30 40 years

and there's a lot of trainers out there

teaching real estate salespeople to offer the guaranteed sales program

you might have saw it on a sign or a billboard

and it goes something like this,

"I'll sell your house in 60 days or I'll buy it."

Now think about it for a minute...

Your real estate person, if they had to buy every client's house that was for sale

well then why are they in the business of selling real estate?

The reality is they very rarely if ever...

actually buy their clients house

and if it ever gets to the point where they're gonna buy your house

trust me they're making such a killing off it

that they're going to turn around and flip it the next day

because on any of these ads

if you notice the fine print might say "***"

and you're gonna have like 30 different conditions and one of the conditions is basically,

"Hey, I'll write you up an offer on your house"

"but I need an appraisal and then on top of that appraised value"

"I'm going to make you an offer for say 10% below"

"that appraised value to cover my costs of either flipping it to my investor friends"

"or buying it myself and turning it for a profit"

So let me break it down in realistic numbers,

let's say you have a house that's worth $700,000

maybe it needs a little bit of work and it had a hard time selling

and you see this advertisement for "I Guarantee to Sell Your House or I'll Buy it"

Now, it can be pretty tempting because

maybe you have got to move in the next couple of months.

So you call this guy up, he comes in and he goes,

"okay I will appraise your house and I'll give you an offer"

"If we can't sell the house"

So if your house is worth 700k

he may come in and it gets appraised at 680k

so he'll turn around and offer you 610k.

At $610,000 he knows (or she) as a professional that they can turn around

and flip that house anyway...

but what's worse is, now if you agree to that agreement

you've basically told him...

"I'll sell it for anything above $610,000"

which would be wrong!

So if he brings you an offer for $615,000

what are you going to say?

"Well I'll buy (the house) for 610k but this (offer) is better...

do you get what I mean?

At the end of the day it's just a marketing ploy to get into your door

and start the high-pressure sales tactics

so be aware of the "Guaranteed Sales Programs"

Misleading advertising #2

Inflated Sales Statistics.

Real estate agents are always struggling

to differentiate themselves

from the hundreds and millions of other ones in the universe

and one way they do that is by teaming up

and inflating sales statistics.

Have you ever noticed that you'll see realtors saying,

"I'm the number one agent in this town and I sell 500 homes a year" or whatever

guys, I'll be honest, it's impossible

as one salesperson to sell that many houses

if you just calculate the hours involved in the labor involved

it doesn't work that way.

What they do is they build teams

where the one team leader takes all the credit for all the sales of the entire group

and then is able to go out there and advertise it

as if they personally sold all those houses.

Let me give you an analogy that I'll explain it

If you like hockey...

Let's say you take the Maple Leafs

and Austin Matthews is the best player on the team right now.

Now he may score 40 goals, 45 goals a year

and he's an all-star, a great player.

Now what happens if I told you that Austin Matthews

took all the credit for ALL the goals on the entire team

and he actually scored 400 goals a year?

Well, I think you would actually just flat out call me a liar right?

But that's exactly what's happening in the real estate industry

they're taking all the sales stats for everybody on their team

and they're putting it into one person.

So when we're talking about sales statistics

just be aware are they your (agent's) sales statistics or are they for the entire team?

At the end of day, I'm not "anti team" but...

as consumers I think sometimes we get confused as to

what actually someone is doing.

Misleading Advertising #3

"If you buy this house I'll buy yours!"

It's pretty much the same as the guaranteed sales program

basically they're trying to sell a house that they're having a hard time selling

and in that case they'll offer to buy yours

which really means, "I'll buy yours once I've tried to sell yours"

"and at the same time again if I actually have to buy it"

"it's gonna be for way below market value that way I can flip it and make a profit"

So again,

be weary, there's no such thing as guarantee's in real estate

only numbers and facts.

Misleading sales advertising #4

For Sale By Owner companies.

I couldn't leave them out guys I mean I'm honest

I trash on everybody!

I love for Sale By Owner companies because

they're in a real battle with Realtors, I mean I get it

If I was running one of those companies

I'd be trashing all my competitors too

and one way they do it is by constantly referring to

how much money you save in Commission

if you sell the house through their services

but here's the deal guys and this is something they don't disclose to you

couple of really cute things...

Number one

there's a lot of statistics from the National Association of Realtors

you can go on MLS and pull the numbers...

if you're for Sale By Owner

you're probably selling for lower than you are through a realtor

so you got to keep that in mind when you're selling the house.

Number 2, and something that they never talk about

is that a lot of times there's a buyer agent involved with a for sale by owner

so when someone goes on one of those companies that list their house for sale

on the MLS

more often than not...

another agent, a buyer's agent is going come with their client

so you're ending up paying a commission anyway

and that's fine because maybe you save a little bit on the selling side

but it's not as much as they claim because they always say

they always pick the highest commission possible

and they say you're gonna save all of it

when in reality

maybe you're only saving 1% or 2% okay

so you got to be really clear.

At the end of the day, if you want to sell your house

knock your socks off, I wish you all the best of luck

offer a commission and If I have a buyer, we're willing to do a deal

just be wary that these savings

most of the time or not as big

as these companies are claiming.

Finally misleading advertising #5

Inaccurate information on the MLS.

Home buyers tend to think that the MLS is "gospel truth"

and the problem is that the MLS is filled out by the real estate agent.

So the biggest things I see that are misleading

are square footage

all the time

I see taxes mislead

and I see other factors such as condo fees... kind of "fudged"

"oh, I forgot about that raise in condo fees..."

Be aware that while the MLS is a good guide

you need to always double-check all your facts and figures

before you offer on a house.

That means you real estate person

needs to go to public records and pull the square footage.

That means they need to confirm the taxes

because savvy realtors know that some investors look

at the taxes as an indication of value

so if they lie on them and say there are more taxes

then some buyers will assume that property is valued more.

So be careful, always verify the information

and don't take anything off MLS...

than more than just a guide.

Well there you have it

I hope you enjoyed my video on

Five Misleading ways that advertising happens in real estate.

If you like this video give it a thumbs up

subscribe to my channel and share it with your friends

I'm Jeff O'Leary, "The Village Guru"

Thanks for watching and we'll see you soon!

For more infomation >> Misleading Real Estate Advertising - Duration: 7:48.

-------------------------------------------

Have You Met the Perfect Tenses? - Duration: 6:36.

For VOA Learning English, this is Everyday Grammar.

Today we are going to talk about the perfect verb tenses.

Perfect tenses generally focus on how a past action affects the present.For example, "I

have already eaten."

The suggestion is that the speaker is not hungry.

Perfect verb tenses are the most difficult for English learners.

The term "perfect" can be confusing.

What does grammar have to do with not making mistakes?

When you are talking about grammar, perfect has a different meaning.

It comes from the Latin word perfectum, which means "complete."

The most important thing to remember is the perfect tenses always refer to completed actions.

If you get confused, try replacing "perfect" with "completed" and the time relationship

should become clearer.

We will start with the present perfect.

You form the present perfect using has or havefollowed by a past participle verb.

For example, "I have seen Star Wars."

The use of the present perfect here gives us three pieces of information.

First, it tells us that the event is finished.

Second, it tells us that the exact time of the action is unknown or unimportant.

Third, it suggests that the experience of seeing Star Warshas some effect in the present.

One of the most difficult distinctions for English learners to make is the difference

between the simple past and present perfect.

Remember, when there is a specific time, you use the simple past.

In the sentence "I saw Star Wars last night," the adverb last night is a specific time.

You cannot say "I have seen Star Wars last night."

But, you could say, "I have seen Star Wars before" or "in the past" or "three

times."

You should also use the present perfect to refer to a repeated action in the past.

For example, "I have taken that test four times."

The exact time of each action is not important.

You can also use the present perfect to describe an action that did not happen, using the adverb

never.

"I have never traveled outside of my country" and "I have never smoked in my entire life."

Something that did not happen in the past, like not traveling and not smoking, can also

have an effect in the present.

The adverbs never, already, yet and so far are common in the present perfect.

Adverbs are often the best indicators of which verb tense to use.

Now let us look at the past perfect.

The past perfect describes an activity that was finished before another event in the past.

For example, "She had already had a baby before she graduated."

To form the past perfect, use had followed by a past participle verb.

For the second action, use before or by the time followed by the simple past verb.

Imagine you were at a New Year's Eve party, but you fell asleep before midnight.

You could say, "I had already fallen asleep before the New Year came."

You can use the past perfect to talk about how an experience from the distant past relates

to an experience from the more recent past.

For example, "The soldier wasn't scared because he had already been in battle before."

In other words, battle was not a new experience for the soldier.

If the time relationship is clear, you can choose between the past perfect and the simple

past.

"My grandfather passed away before I was born," has the same meaning as "My grandfather

had passed away before I was born."

The past perfect just emphasizes that the first action was completed before the second

action.

Let us move on to the future perfect.

Use the future perfect when you know that one future action will be completed before

another future action.

For example, "I will have graduated from college before my little brother graduates

from high school."

The future perfect has very limited use because we rarely know a future sequence of events

with any certainty.

When it is used, the future perfect usually refers to major life events that are planned

years in advance.

And those are the three perfect tenses.

Join us next week on Everyday Grammar for an explanation of the perfect progressive

tenses.

I'm John Russell.

And I'm Ashley Thompson.

For more infomation >> Have You Met the Perfect Tenses? - Duration: 6:36.

-------------------------------------------

Benjamin Franklin's Schedule Explained in 6 minutes - Duration: 5:46.

"Benjamin Franklin was one of the most successful men ever born.

Having a schedule can give you an insane productivity boost so watch until the end to see how one

of the most successful men in the world structured his day!"

Benjamin Franklin one of the founding fathers of freaking America, how did he structure his day?

Well…

First Benjamin Franklin's schedule is his schedule, you don't actually need to copy

his completely, to become the next Benjamin Franklin, you can change it up and be inspired by it.

Franklin definitely lived up to his early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy,

wealthy and wise principle.

But you actually don't need to wake up early to be successful, a lot of successful people

wake up at 8am and even 10am.

We all have different bodies, that want to wake up at different times.

Franklin's schedule was simple and open to new ideas, and I love that!

Off course he didn't stick to the schedule every day he was actually bad at it, in his

autobiography he said he "never arrived at the perfection [he] had been so ambitious

of obtaining, but fell far short of it."

However, he wrote that his attempts made him a better and happier man than he would otherwise

have been.

According to Franklin's schedule, he would wake up at 5am.

And his first agenda on his list is asking himself this morning question; What good shall

I do this day.

He sets himself an intention, and setting an intention gives you a direction for the

day.

So when you're later on in the day get distracted by social media, or wasting your time browsing

through memes on Reddit, you'll know what your intentions are for the day.

After he set himself an intention, he would Rise, wash, and address powerful goodness;

which was his term for God, so that bit means praying.

After that he would "Contrive day's business, and take the resolution of the day" it means

that he would plan out his day and how to carry out that good he dedicated himself to

earlier that morning.

Making a daily plan is a great habit to develop because as we talked about earlier setting

an intention gives you a direction, and actually making a plan makes it more straight line,

so you know directly what you are going to be doing that day, it allows to also take

those big projects and break them into small to-dos for that day.

I myself do this every day and think you should too.

You can easily do this in Evernote, in a notebook or just somewhere where you can write.

It's as easy as that.

The next thing he does in his morning routine is prosecute the present study; and breakfast,

now this is some old fancy English, but this means he practice the thing he is currently

studying or learning at the time.

One can safely say that he lived up to being a lifelong learner.

I really enjoy picking up a book in the morning to read while eating my breakfast, this is

a way I try to live up to being a lifelong learner.

Now we move on to his work blocks.

He would work for 4 hours.

From 8 am to 11 am.

First of all, I wanna say he hasn't marked out any time to breaks.

How I would restructure this is to have my big projects broken into small task that I

can complete in 25 minutes, and then take a short 5-minute break.

Just stand up, maybe walk around a little and take some fresh air in.

This technique is called the Pomodoro Technique, work for 25 minutes then a 5-minute break.

This technique helps boost your focus and productivity.

Next he would do a little bit of light reading and then go into 4 more work blocks.

From 6pm to 9pm he would Put things into their places, which is basically cleaning his workspace

and reset it so there won't be any distractions for tomorrow, so you don't need to use your

willpower to clean it the next day.

He would also supper, music or diversion, or conversation; examination of the day, here

he would hang out with friends as we would say it, and or relax.

He knew it is very important to take breaks and relax

Now we move on to the end of his day where he would ask himself this question; "What

good have I done today?" which this question you'll know what good and bad you have done

that do, so you know what to improve on to the next day.

And then he would sleep for 7 hours, but just because he would sleep for 7 hours doesn't

mean you have to.

We all have different bodies, so figure out when is the best time for you.

I'll also leave a link in the description where you can calculate when you should go

to sleep if you would wake up at a specific time.

So to end this video up, I wanted to say just because some dude 200 years ago lived his

day like this, doesn't mean you have to.

You can easily take inspiration out from it and structure your own daily routine.

I will be releasing a new video soon on how to develop the best habits for your life so

you can combine successful people's habits with your own, that's why you should subscribe

right now and turn the bell on, so you know right when the video releases.

Also don't forget to like this video, comment on how you'll be using this information

in your own life, and socialize with other people in the comments.