Hey guys we are on our way to Amsterdam
Because I'm going back home for two weeks to visit my family, and I found a very cheap flight leaving from Amsterdam
So we decided to spend some time in this gorgeous city now
You know that we've been in a long-distance relationship for about two years
Before Joss moved to Germany and now that Joss is going back to Mexico although it's only for two weeks
We thought we're gonna take you with us
And we take the opportunity to tell you our five top tips that helped us the most with our long-distance relationship
Tip number one take the risk and go all-in so the first question that you usually ask yourself is
Do I even want to be in an LDR because most people are scared of being in a
Relationship where they're far away from the person they love. Honestly in the beginning
I didn't want to be in a long-distance relationship as well me neither because I thought Mexico and Germany, that's so so far away
but then we thought if we never tried it, we will never find out if it worked out so we took the risk and
In the end it turned out great and even if you have been in a long-distance relationship
Before and it didn't work out doesn't mean that your next relationship
If it's long-distance will not work out either every relationship is different and also if you decide yes
We're gonna do this you have to go all-in that means you both have to commit yeah to your relationship
And if there's one person that's like yeah, well, I'm not sure
Then it's not gonna work out so you both have to be committed and
Try everything to make it work. So that was our first tip and let's go to Amsterdam
So we are in Amsterdam from Munich we drove
Eight hours, yeah pretty exhausting and on the other side behind the camera
There is the I amsterdam sign yeah, and the Museum
So here's our tip number two which is trust and honesty a lot of couples have problems with trust and honesty
Even when they are not in a long-distance relationship, so imagine with the distance
It's even worse you really need to learn how to trust your partner
And how to understand that you cannot control everything they're doing even less from a distance. So you need to trust them and be honest
With them and if there's anything that's not working out for you
Then you should totally talk about it because you cannot see the other person you cannot see their body language
So it's even harder if you can only see each other on skype or talking on the phone
But also try to understand that maybe the other person would handle a long-distance relationship
Differently than you, and that's why you have to talk about it and come up with something that works for you
And now let's see a little bit more of Amsterdam
Joss is gonna leave from amsterdam in like an hour no, three hours, so we're gonna be back in a long-distance relationship
For two weeks, but still... can you guess what bench we're sitting on?
Do you recognize the background or do you recognize the bench itself there it is?
We're talking about the movie The Fault in Our Stars because we are a couple we had to go here
Now we here..
Started from the bottom now we here
somebody told us that this is not the original
bench because somebody stole it. How does it feel to sit on?
How does it feel to sit on that famous bench, it's so special you have no idea. It's just like an random street
Honestly, it's not even that pretty. Oh, I almost fell in the water
But it's cool. You should come and check it out if you're a fan of the movie
Especially not many people know about it, so it's not that busy here
But here were a lot of people already and leaving their Lock
Hey guys, I'm back in Germany without Joss, Joss is in Mexico right now, but from here
I'm gonna give you our third tip which is be creative, people don't realize but there are so many different ways on
How we can spend more time together although you're in a long-distance
relationship for example
you can cook together put your laptop next to you while you're cooking and then have a romantic Skype dinner afterwards or
You can watch movies together
just put on a movie on your laptop and press play at the exact same time and
when the other person is on Skype at the same time you can talk to each other while watching a movie just wear headphones because
Otherwise you can hear the sound from the other one as well
Or you can play games download an app on your phone and play online against each other
Yeah
There are endless possibilities
Take the other one with you when you go shopping
Send each other photos or videos just find different things that you do during the day
Where you can take the other one with you or you can do together and from here?
We're gonna go to Mexico and Joss is gonna tell you our next tip
and now all the way from Mexico tip number four is
Surprise each other in a long-distance relationship is very important to make the other one feel special from so far away
So one way of doing that is giving them little surprises every now and then and make them feel cool
It can go from a very special message that day or
Something that they are not expecting from you one time Janik was feeling a little down in Germany
And I was the way in Mexico. I wanted to be there for him
I asked his friend if he could print out a letter that I wrote for Janik
And if he could buy a little chocolate on my behalf, and he did it and he felt so much better
He was so happy about it, and it wasn't so expensive. I still owe Dennis that chocolate though
You can also look up some flower shops and buy something for it to be delivered to them you can also send a package to
Yourself from your city, but be very careful and really try to spend a little more money
in getting a tracking number and an insurance
For your package because Janik one time sent me a package from Germany to Mexico and it got lost in the mail it never arrived
It didn't have a tracking number nor insurance
and it was
Very very sad for us so be careful with that and try to save up as much money as you can buy a ticket to
Go visit them and surprise them. It's the most amazing feeling in the world and it's totally worth the money
I know flight tickets can be very expensive, but you can also find some pretty cheap ones
Let us know in a comment down below. If you would be interested in having a video of us telling you
how we find cheap flights. And for the last tip I'm gonna transport myself to Germany in 1, 2 ..
Whoa?
How did you get here
Magic. She's back yay
And now we're ready to give you our final tip number 5, which is you need to have a goal
What do we mean by that we mean that it's really helpful if you know ok, it's gonna
Take this amount of time until I can see my partner again for us that was always the most helpful thing yeah
Because whenever we came back from seeing each other we tried to figure out as soon as possible
Ok when can we see each other again because then we had a goal
that we could look forward to and that motivated us to keep going I
Personally had a little more crisis during the relationship than Janik when I was meeting him so much
And I was like I cannot deal with this distance one more second
It was when we didn't really have a specific goal, and I realized that later
We didn't know when we were gonna see each other again, so feel like an eternity
But later when we actually got a goal and we tried to keep that going as much as possible we were like okay
We have to hold on to this
Distance until that day where we can be with each other again
So if you can try to find a date when you can see each other again
It's really helpful it helped us a lot and with that tip we're gonna say goodbye from this video
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We look forward to see you in the next video. Bye. Bye
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