Girls are confusing.
One second you think you got her all figured out and then the next, BOOM she's acting
totally different and you're left wondering if she's even still into you.
Then you become an insecure mess and end up constantly wishing that you had the ability
to know what she's thinking.
And now you're here on YouTube hoping I, mothafuckin Zeus can tell you exactly how
to know what a girl is thinking, at all times.
Well DUH, of course I can tell you what they're thinking, I'm a god.
And for 3 easy payments of $35.99 I'll tell you exactly how to do it!
Haha just kidding, let's get down to it.
So the most important thing to understand when it comes to girls is this: girls follow
an emotional train of thought, while guys follow a logical train of thought.
This means that when girls make decisions, it's often based on what they're feeling
emotionally at the time.
This is exactly why girls go hot and cold on you with no explanation.
Now I'm not saying girls don't act rationally or logically at all, it's just that the
vast majority of younger girls act emotionally so understanding this makes it a lot easier
to understand why they act the way they do.
But don't take this and feel superior because guys are just as guilty of acting really emotional,
especially when it comes to the fact that guys constantly wanna hook up with chicks.
What I'm saying is, girls are emotional MORE OFTEN than you are, AND, when a girl is emotional,
she's way MORE emotional than you are.
If a girl is in a bad mood and doesn't feel like talking to you, she just won't talk
to you and that's it.
She's not gonna think that if she doesn't talk to you and ignores you, that you're
gonna take that as a sign that she doesn't like you.
If she doesn't feel like talking to you in that moment, she simply won't.
This is why it's important for you as a guy, to be unreactive to little things like
this.
Don't let the fact that she didn't reply to your text once or twice bother you, don't
get all sensitive and insecure if she ignores you in class one day or acts a little out
of the ordinary.
Just assume she's in a bad mood or just doesn't feel like talking to you right now
and talk to her later.
The reason is irrelevant, ignore it and don't let it phase you.
Believe it or not, girls aren't thinking about sex all the time like you horny motherfuckers
are, so if they don't feel like talking to you one day or if they act less interested
when you see them one time just brush it off and act like you didn't even notice.
Being unflinchingly confident like this actually works to your advantage because it shows her
that you're so confident in yourself and in the fact that she likes you, that you don't
even notice when she's treating you differently.
It also makes her more comfortable with being herself around you because she knows you won't
be all weird and worried when she opens up and shows you different sides of her personality.
Important tip: DON'T BE PETTY.
This means, don't get mad when she ignores you for a day, forgets to respond to your
text, and ESPECIALLY don't confront her about petty shit like that.
For example, don't ask her why she didn't respond to your text message because it'll
just turn into an argument and she'll just give you a bullshit excuse anyway.
Don't make a big deal out of little shit, girls HATE this and it just adds unnecessary
tension to the relationship.
Understanding that girls follow an emotional train of thought makes it easy to know why
a girl is acting the way she is at any time.
It's also the reason why girls will sometimes cancel plans on you unexpectedly.
This actually happened to me a couple times recently, I would be talking to a girl things
are going great and I can tell that she's into me so I ask her to hangout a few days
from now since I like to plan things out and have a schedule since I'm usually busy shooting
lightning and doing god shit.
But then, the day we're supposed to hangout, I get a nonsense excuse from the girl about
why she can't hangout that day.
It confused me the first few times so I decided to experiment and instead ask girls to hangout
the day of, by texting them early in the day and saying something like "what are you
doing today".
And believe it or not, this worked almost every time I used it.
Confusing right?
Now let's think about it from a girl's perspective: If a girl plans to hangout with
you a few days from now, she may want to hangout with you in that moment, but in the days leading
up to you guys hanging out, she has time to get nervous about it, worry that you might
be creepy in person, or just decide that you may not be worth the time because there's
a chance the date could go bad so she cancels on you the day of.
Or once the day rolls around when you're supposed to hangout, she can just not be in
the mood that day and cancel on you because she doesn't feel like seeing you or going
out in general.
From a guy's logical perspective, it makes more sense to plan it way in advance in order
to make sure both you and the girl can set aside time for the date and because it fits
both your schedules better, but if you haven't learned by now, it's silly to apply your
perspective to a girl's actions.
It's like comparing apples to oranges.
It's like comparing Kryptonians to humans.
It's like comparing Based muthafuckin Zeus, to Napoleon Dynamite.
It's like comparing m- ... alright I'm done.
Disclaimer: the older you get, the better it is to plan dates further in advance since
older people usually have busier schedules.
But if you're in high school or college, asking the day of is WAY more effective.
When you ask a girl to hangout the day of, it's a lot more spontaneous and it aligns
better with how she thinks and acts.
If she's in a good or even neutral mood and you ask her to hangout, then she's more
likely to say yes in the moment and follow through with it since you asked her and are
going to hang out with her on the same day.
The best way to do this is to text her something funny or to text her something you guys have
talked about before then after a few texts hit her with the "what are you doing today"
and ask her to hangout.
This way, she talks to you for a few minutes and is reminded of why she's into you and
then you can execute right then and there.
You could also even just ask her what she's doing that day from the start and that usually
works fine as well.
And if she can't hangout that day then she'll just say something like "I can't today,
but I can tomorrow" and boom you got a date the next day which is better than planning
it several days in advance.
You can also hit her with the "what about tomorrow" if she says she can't that day.
A girl will make it pretty obvious if she wants to hangout and will usually offer another
time or day to hangout.
A good rule of thumb to follow is this: if she rejects your invitation to hangout more
than twice and doesn't offer another time or makes the effort to arrange another hangout,
then move on.
In summary,
• Girls think and act emotionally, not logically • Don't apply your train of thought to
that of a girl's • Ask girls to hangout the day of or one
day in advance
PS.
Here's some life advice for you: if you find YOURSELF acting emotionally, take a step back,
recognize you're out of line, and start thinking rationally instead.
You'll make much better decisions that lead to much better outcomes.
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