What's up guys welcome back to my channel in today's video. I'll be talking about 30 things that I've learnt in my 30 years
Oh my gosh, I'm turning 30 soon. And by the time this video is going live. I think I'll have done so
Oh my goodness!
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Number one courage is found in action do and then you're going to be confident in whatever you're doing.
Two, ideas arise at any moment always carry a place where you can jot it down. Otherwise that idea is going to get lost
There's time for everything be a kid, be a teen when you're a teen,be a young adult you get the flow
Do what you need to do, and don't try to skip any stage
Block out all those people that are telling you you can't do it. You're not beautiful enough
You're not good enough block them out
and do you. Always express your feelings do not try to bottle them all up.
You're going to explode one day so
express all your feelings whether be positive negative and then that way... That's how you're going to learn how to deal with them.
Go far and wide while you are young when you do not have so many
responsibilities weighing down and you save up and go for those trips. Trust me
you're going to have a better worldview
once you have seen and interacted with other cultures. Of course learn some basic life skills
Learn how to ride a bike learn how to drive, learn how to cook using a pressure cooker
Do that. Some things need to be learned. They're going to help you in...
All through your life. Always respect your parents they give birth to you. There's no excuse
about it. Even if you do not agree with them on issues ensure that you are respectful even as you air out your views.
Peer pressure is at every stage man!
Whether you're young whether you're old, everybody has some kind of pressure be it positive be negative
just make sure that you are going with the positives much more than the negatives because eventually
those are the things that going to build you and make you have a better life
Don't complete with the Jonases. There is always going to be a person who is doing more
better than you and others who are doing way worse than you.
So enjoy where you are, and it's not a bad thing to look forward and
appreciate where people are going and also want to build your life towards a certain standard but
competing with them is just going to steal your joy. Your mind is your greatest -as I've always said
sure that you work it out with gratitude, with
affirmations, with things that are going to build you to not destroy you. Things like ingratitude, regret, resentment all those things just
scrape them out of your mind and
build up on the good. Always work on the small tasks that give birth to the big task.
Get the flow. If you, for example you want to be drinking two litres of water every day
you can't tell me that you're going to just sit down with a big bottle of water and just gulp it down.
Just spread it out throughout...
Spread it out throughout the day take a glass of water every two hours and
you'll see no pressure and you're going to get to your goal. You're the star of your story so be a star
Enjoy your life, be the center of your life. No one else is going to make a contribution that you are supposed to make so
be the star of your story!
Talent without action is actually null.
Some people are born with abilities
but if they do not sharpen them they lose them and some people are born without
abilities and once they sharpen them they gain them. Athletes do not win medals without training. Businessmen
do not just earn big bucks or money because they just sit around they polish their skills every day. Have clarity of vision
Always... This will make you have the steps to make your dreams come true without vision
you are going to get lost in the... In the mud somewhere. You're going to just
be swallowed up by the world.
I've also learnt if you stay long enough in a place or at place ensure that you know
people's names especially the people that give you service.
You know like saying (swahili) "Ule mama wa choo" some people may get. The person who cleans the loo. Always
refer to people with their first name. It is more respectful and it gives them some dignity like come on.
Time is fast and merciless. Once time is lost you're not going to get it back again
So use your time wisely spend it with the right people spend it in the right way with the right activities. Otherwise, it's gonna fly away.
Start saving when you are much younger
I wish I knew this earlier, but it's never too late
Save, save, save as much as you can that way
you're going to enjoy some of the things that come with saving much later
Health is your greatest asset guard it
ruthlessly, be it your mind health be it your spiritual health your physical health
Treat it and workout as much as you can. Feed it with the right things and the right things are going to come
out. You're going to get energy to get what you want in life.
You're going to gain and lose some friends along the journey.
People's lifestyle changes and people gain new friends when they go to different parts of the country where you go to different levels of
careers and all that. So some people even get families.
So be okay with the changes and appreciate the people
you gain along the way as you appreciate the people that you lose along the way it's just life. We all make mistakes
just learn from your mistakes and
move on do not dwell on them, nobody's perfect so learn from you mistakes. Just learn to do more good.
There's no perfect time to start anything just start and then you're going to get perfect in it
So if it's a skill that you're working on just start on it because you love it
and then as you polish it up you're going to get perfect.
As the adage goes practice makes perfect
Always prepare for the things that you want
If it's to travel, start saving now. If it's another job that you'd like, start learning about it now
such that once the opportunity comes you're going to be able to be ready to actually gain it.
I've also learned that you should always give everything the benefit of doubt do not just judge a book by the cover
Like that's a bad movie and you haven't even watched it. Like that's a horrible person and you haven't gotten to know them
Always give them the benefit of doubt such that you're going to know who they are. And once you've done that that's when you can...
You can know how to engage with them. Don't just
go ruling people off because
of their appearance or maybe a word that they said or
something that they did. Always collect more data before you actually judge
anyone harshly. Find time to pray and meditate in your time.
Like I said, you have to work on your spiritual muscle as well. That way you're going to be a wholesome person
Yeah, so always find time to do that
Whatever time is best for you, trust me. It is going to work wonders for you. Always delay gratification
whatever thing that you think that you want it immediately and right now always
delay that feeling of wanting at that particular time
you may find out that you do not actually need it.
If it's something you want to purchase like you've seen maybe a pair shoes
and you just want them just delay for a while you might find out that you do not want it. If it's someone that you want
to get intimate with
just delay on that and you might find that you really didn't even want to do that and it may
and it will prevent you from a lot of heartache.
And on that note choose your life partner or your spouse
very carefully because forever is a long time and with the rate of divorces and separations and all those things that bring
heartache to the world and hatred are
gotten from such things just make sure you
just pray that you get best person for you and...
Forever it's just a long time to be upset with one person.
Always take responsibility for your actions whether they be good or bad because come on as you grow up
these are some of the values that we need to treasure, that we need to cultivate that I
should not say that this place is too dirty and at the same moment you are
throwing out a piece of plastic bag or a
bottle off a window from a moving car and then you complain that the place is dirty and
the people are washing it are not doing a good job. Always take
responsibility for your actions.
Now my final
lesson is try out as many things that you want to do and
especially when you are young but even if you haven't done so
if you want to discover who you are or what you are best suited to do try out as many things that you want...
You are interested in and then finally you're going to get this...
The exact thing that you were most interested in and you're going to flourish once you concentrate on it. It's never too late to start
Do it whether you are late whether you're early everyone has their own place in life
So yeah, so those are my 30 life lessons that I've learned so far and
Of course
there are others that I did not mention but these are the ones that I could remember and I hope that you grabbed something from that
I know that they were super fast
but I wanted the video short because 30 lessons. That's a lot of
content to go through and if you liked the video just give it a thumbs up and hopefully you came to the end
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