as Albert Einstein said try not to
become a man of success but rather try
to become a man of value this is
something that I think about a lot at
the end of the day success is incredibly
motivating and accomplishing your goals
and your dreams is something that I
wanted to do since I was a little kid
that's been a driving force in my life
but through all of that the times that
I've felt happiest the times that I felt
most secure the times that my anxiety
and my stress had been at zero are the
times where I felt like I was being most
true to myself where I was trying to
really become a person of substance I
wasn't looking for something extrinsic I
was focused inward and trying to develop
the person that I'm becoming that I had
some code that I was living by that I
was really deciding not just what
outwardly success looks like but what
does it mean to be a good person what
does it mean to be an effective person
what does it mean to be worthy of trust
and those things at the end of the day
those things are something that when you
invest in finding value in that that it
takes you somewhere amazing and as Bruce
Lee said knowledge will give you power
but character will give you respect and
at the end of the day I really can't
think of anything better than that I
can't think of anything that will keep
me company when I'm alone when there's
nothing but silence around when all I
can hear the sounds of my own thoughts
the only thing that is going to bring me
or you comfort is respect his self-love
is knowing who you are really and
knowing that you're true to that even
when nobody's looking and that concept
that notion of having a guiding light of
principle something by which you steer
by that you are always true to and then
in your moments of stress chaos
confusion of desire that in your moments
of deepest desire that you're still true
to that that all you think about is that
Norstar of being that person that you
want to be when you let that be your
guiding light when you stay true to that
nothing can hurt you because nothing
will be able to make you feel badly
about yourself because once you know who
you are and you're true to it nothing
else matters
people and situations that upset you see
there's some people that know just how
to push your button they know just what
to say but I'm not going to expend any
energy arguing with anybody life is too
short ladies and gentleman and
unpredictable I don't want to spend my
time arguing with anybody so I bought
situations that will get me upset I
don't argue with people draw the line
ladies and gentlemen there are certain
things that we just go through life just
taking and at some point you just got to
draw the line and just say enough is
enough you got to do that with yourself
one negative stroke is 16 times more
powerful than a positive stroke and if
you have people around you who are not
sensitive to who you are and the people
that can hurt you the most ladies and
gentlemen are the people that you love
that you love they're the ones that you
are vulnerable to they're the ones that
can get to you and if it's insensitive I
don't care who they are
see if you don't draw the line with
people if you just let them run rampant
in your life and you let things happen
to you that you don't feel good about if
you continue to allow it to happen you
won't feel good about yourself your
image of yourself will erode so you've
got to draw the line a lot of people
just go to a job where they're miserable
day in and day out why do people stay
together and they're miserable sleeping
in separate rooms arguing are the only
thing they have in common
paying the bills don't talk don't
communicate don't share anything
together day in and day out is short and
unpredictable but life is being mean to
each other what do people do that
known Hills are preferable to strange
heavens because it's familiar see life
is rough ladies and gentlemen it's rough
and it's scary it's scary growing it's
scary taking a chance it's scary acting
on your intuition on your guts it's
scary it's frightening they're people
that just tolerating things right now
and they're immobilized by fear they can
see the hammer coming and they afraid to
even move because it's scary to go
against the dominant thinking of your
family friends and those people you
associate with every day is perhaps the
most difficult act of courage you will
ever perform see when you start growing
when you start changing the way you walk
the way you talk the way you act the way
you respond to things the way you use
your time when you start saying no I
can't do that why you do you're too busy
you don't have the time to I have my own
agenda so if people can put you on a
guilt trip they will and use you and
abused you over and over and over again
you got to draw the line you have to
draw the line on it don't go through
life feeling like you're powerless
victims of people that are powerless
you're not powerless you are powerful
you direct the power in your life
whatever your life is right now it is a
duplication of your consciousness its
result of how you have decided to use
your power that's all it is that's not
who you are that's just a perverted use
of your power that you aren't satisfied
with and you've got the power to change
that wherever you are home I don't know
but I know you've got the power to do
that but you don't know what has
happened to me it really doesn't matter
has happened to you see the only thing
that really matters is what are you
going to do about it that's all that
matters that's all that matters you can
allow it to destroy you or you can allow
it to bill you up we never get to a
level where we feel that there's nothing
else for us to do that we've achieved
certain number of goals and we figure
that we're through no no you don't want
to stay there and celebrate too long
like a lot of people do they do
something they consider outstanding they
go around talking about what they used
to do see let me tell you I used to do
this and I used to do that excuse me
used to bees don't make no honey what
are you doing now you're still here
breathing that means you've got some
more to give doesn't matter how old you
are doesn't matter about where you are
doesn't matter about what you have
doesn't matter about what you've done
life is about growing it's about being
productive it's about stretching it's
about challenging yourself so you start
looking around and decide hey hey what
else do I want to do what got me here is
a time for celebration but also a time
for reflection what got me here what
worked what did not work what do I need
to do to repeat so that I can get the
same kind of results in other areas of
my life if the goal is to improve my
health if the goal is to improve my
relationship if the goal is to improve
my income if the goal is to improve
something in society what is it I need
to do now don't get confused with what
you do with who you are don't trip don't
go on some type of ego trip by talking
about how bad you are none of us do
anything by ourselves develop an
appreciation for external support as
well as good fortune because all of
those things play a role the other thing
is don't go overboard celebrate you must
meet with triumph and disaster and treat
those two Impostors just the same you
look at hey I did it I feel good about
that now you're moving on to the next
thing things did not work out the way
you wanted them to work out you didn't
produce the results you wanted to
produce hey miss that win some you lose
some
moving right on don't confuse who you
are with what you do and make your mind
fertile ground for the seeds of
opportunity thinking you want to
experience a sense of fulfillment you've
got to have an open mind so that ideas
can come in there and take root and grow
so part of beginning to have fertile
ground you know you got to break that
ground up you got to break up that hard
crust because if you don't seem to fall
there and the wind can blow them away
the winds of doubt when you're set in
your mind and you refuse to grow and
you're not open to new ideas new methods
new ways of doing things if your mind is
already fixed
you become stagnant you can't grow you
can't have a sense of fulfillment you
become extremely cynical and negative
about everything you know it all so you
want to begin to look at life and have a
sense of curiosity not know it all
you want to keep learning keep growing
realize that we had a theme you never
find out how much you know until you
find out how little you know and there
are some people you can't tell anything
they have all the answers or I've
already done that so many months count
ourselves out of things prematurely you
don't know what the possibilities are up
in there so you want to be open you want
to continue to learn you want to
continue to grow you want to begin to
know that their unlimited ideas out here
waiting for you to latch on to them and
if you don't take advantage of them when
they come your way because you're so
close-minded do understand somebody else
will
we've all had ideas that we did not act
on and looked around and somebody else
had the idea and going with it so be
open and receptive become involved in
life live your fantasy most people go
through life not living their fantasy
going sitting up in the bleachers
looking out on the field looking out
into the arena wishing that they were
down to just fantasizing seeing
themselves running with the ball decide
to live your fantasy see in life you can
go through life you can come up with
reasons or you can come up with results
you can come up with
so you can come up with achievements you
can go through life blaming or you can
come up with solutions the choice is in
your hands satisfaction or despair we
can choose that so look at your life and
decide what it is that you want to do
that will give you a life a sense of
worth someone said that your life worth
is measured by your accomplishments and
not by your complaints want to have a
fulfilling life decide not to make your
life predictable so some people their
lives very predictable they got a little
routine they do that and they follow
that day in and day out day in and day
out you don't get much juice and
happiness out of life like that if you
are predictable you want to change it up
variety most certainly is the spice of
life here's something else one it
created greater sense of fulfillment
challenge your fears challenge them look
those fears in the face and take them on
don't allow them to rule you decide that
you're going to take some chances you've
got to be willing to risk if you're not
willing to risk you can't grow in life
life has no power when you're not
willing to risk instead to laugh is to
risk appearing the fool to weep is to
risk appearing sentimental so reach out
for another is to risk involvement to
expose feelings is to risk exposing your
true self to place your ideas your
dreams before crowd is to risk their
loss to love is to risk not being loved
in return to live is to risk dying to
hope is to risk despair to trys to risk
failure but risk must be taken because
the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing the person who is nothing does
nothing has nothing is nothing they may
avoid suffering in sorrow but they
cannot learn feel change grow love
and live chained by their certitudes
they are a slave they have profited
their freedom only a person who wrists
is free
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