there are many instances in our lives where we tell ourselves what's the point
of doing all this I feel like giving up I don't see what the point is and
actually going out and achieving that particular goal that I had set out to
achieve I don't see any point in following through with this relationship
because it's not leading anywhere I don't find that fulfillment that I used
to find in my life where is this coming from this is coming from a deep sense or
a deep inner need to feel in control of a particular situation in your current
circumstances you may be feeling helpless at this point in your life and
that's why it's important to acknowledge that there may be a possibility that you
are always trying to control things that things have to be a certain way without
which you cannot be happy but let's move on to the bigger picture which is your
current feelings your current circumstances of the need to give up the
thing is when you look at that you need to understand that is always going to be
this a purpose everything starts with a purpose and intention a desire and what
is your intention what is your desire what are you looking to gain out of what
you're doing what is your sense of purpose what is that number one reason
why you do what you do why are you alive why does that purpose play such an
important role in your life what kind of fulfillment you get out of that that is
where you need to begin what is your purpose when you find your purpose that
is the first step that you take towards achieving any form of success or
gratification in your life when we look at the whole point of what life is about
we always look at materialistic things we look at things
may fulfill our happiness but happiness is very subjective and most of the time
when people describe happiness it's very short term and this goes down to a
neurobiological level we all want that perfect home that perfect partner we all
want different things but we all want to always grow and we want to give this is
a central trait within all of us and if we have to achieve that we need to start
off with having a sense of purpose in our life when we create a sense of
purpose that creates a meaning for each of these things that we want to see
actualize in our life so that's where you need to begin how many of you have
actually gone to the point of something like suicide where you don't see any
purpose in anything that's going on what is the point of this life this is one of
the deepest darkest places that you can ever go down to where you find that
purpose is something that is not exactly up to my expectations my reality doesn't
match what I want my purpose to be my purpose is in being fulfilled and for
some people their purpose is directly connected with their reality and when
their reality completely fails to match what their purpose is and they put in
the effort they've done everything possible to create that reality and
suddenly that reality shatters around them they try to question themselves
they ask themselves what's the point of doing what I do my existence is not
fulfilled there is something that you can do in this situation
you can reaffirm your purpose or you can redefine your purpose and it's all about
giving yourself a choice a set of options wherein you can pick and choose
what you want your life to be and if this is something that
you allow yourself to do you'll find yourself having a new sense of life you
will turn over a new leaf there will be a newfound purpose in your life how can
you go about redefining your purpose well start looking at what led up to
your problem a lot of people especially someone who has suffered a tragedy in
their life starts dedicating their lives to working towards helping someone with
that problem there is someone who hasn't achieved a certain goal so they train
other people to avoid those mistakes and then they help them get to their goals
someone who didn't have a lot of money while growing up is now looking to be
philanthropic and looking to provide for the needy these are some of the things
that a lot of people do to find their purpose in life they look beyond
themselves they look at how can I provide for others how can I look at the
world as being something just beyond me how can I find my purpose once again I
look at the world around me I look at my own past and my own experiences and I
try to rediscover exactly what gives my life meaning it doesn't happen in one
day but it's something that you start working towards starting to redefine
what your purpose in life is and constantly reaffirming that purpose in
life it may be an intellectual it may be something that you want to
discover in your life you want to create that product that is going to change the
face of mankind you are constantly creating as an artist looking to share
new music with the world looking to create that masterpiece that is going to
blow the world away the next Mona Lisa you are trying to capture the attention
of others by being that most popular person whatever your purpose in life is
it all comes down to something that is beyond you leaving a legacy behind
leaving something behind that allows you to look back on your life with some
degree of satisfaction then I lived with a purpose and I enjoyed my life for what
it was and sometimes you may not know where you're going you may not know the
destination but you choose to keep walking you choose choose to keep
heading in that direction anyway you may not exactly find what you are looking
for at the end of it but it's all about enjoying the journey for most people
satisfaction and success in life is all about that journey when you acknowledge
that it's the process that gets you there and there are many bumps and
obstacles along the way that you have to overcome it creates some kind of meaning
a lot of people will go through life never understanding this concept but if
you are able to have a purpose redefine that purpose constantly if things are
not working out for you Mord your reality to shape the expectations that
you have or shape the expectations that you have to the reality that is
currently there and striving for something more growing and giving you
start to see that your purpose is constantly getting reaffirmed you tell
yourself that I live for this reason so never give up there is always going to
be a way out it's the
amazing aspect of the human willpower to never give up until your body is
physically incapable creating that world around you where I am more than what I
think I am and I am fighting for someone other than myself the world around me
matters as much as I matter to myself that creates a strong sense of purpose
to work towards create a satisfying life where you can look back and truly accept
things for the way they were and accept them with pride accept them for
everything that they were and how they have led up to this beautiful journey of
life that you have had this is week I'm signing off and telling you once again
to lead a great life a life that some where you reached a
point and told yourself I will not give up because that is my superpower




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