Thứ Hai, 27 tháng 11, 2017

Waching daily Nov 27 2017

Hi guys! Ashley here I'm the founder and head coach of Sole Girls and today we're gonna talk about something

that you are inevitably going to come across if you are a girl in hight school or even in elementary school! this is BESTFRIENDS and MEANGIRLS

today I'm gonna give you my very favorite tips to really be a very very

best friend if you've ever come across Mean Girls

you know you don't want to be that girl so here are some tips on how to stay out

of being a mean girl and into staying a best friend that somebody actually wants

to be friends with but make sure you stay till the end because I'm gonna tell

you my very favourite story about my best friend and having mean girlfriends too!

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of our videos!

Don't talk down to someone or about someone. So you know you're a

mean girl if you are talking down about other girls behind their back this is

not cool and believe me people will not want to be your friend for long periods

of time if you were talking down about others even if you're not talking about

down about them you'll probably come back to them later on and this is scary.

Nobody wants a best friend that's scary so please try and keep your comments to

kindness. Kindness always wins so make sure that if you want to be mean um try

to reroute it and figure out why you're trying to be mean or why you're trying

to be more powerful what is it that you're missing in order to get through

to being actually a really good friend. Sometimes be mean can feel a little bit

powerful I totally get it we all like to have kind of a little bit of power a

little bit of step up on someone but let me tell you that step up is crumbling

and it won't last and that's makes it more scary because when you're using other

people to get a step up as soon as they take away that block you follow these

lower than you were before. Don't talk behind other people's backs

it doesn't work.

alright number two I come across it all the time with girls

and this is dressing to impress now if you really want to be the very best

friend ever don't tell your friends how to wear it. You can dress however you

want as crazy as you want because this is your style and it's part of what

makes you unique and awesome and if you really have the very best friends ever

they will appreciate you no matter whatever you wear you might just be that

crazy friend and that's okay right so as soon as somebody tells you what you can

and can't wear take this as a first sign that that's not cool Mean Girls will

tell you what you can can't do and this is your opportunity to say actually I

like the way I am and I like the way I dress and I like the clothes that I

choose and feel comfortable in them comfort is cool feeling good in your

body and feeling good and what you're wearing is super super important right

the third thing is to be confident like know what makes you awesome and if you

don't know find something that makes you awesome and feel good about it.

Accept compliments, if somebody gives you a compliment take it!!!! Don't do that oh no

Compliments are really awesome and they are not a bad thing to

accept. Give meaningful compliments to this is your opportunity to you know

spread love and spread awesomeness if you really like somebody and you're like

wow you know you're a really good guitar player or you're a really good singer

and you really mean it that's a great compliment to give compliments are not

always fake and they can make you really appreciate your friends a lot more when

you know what makes them awesome and you feel good being your awesome too!

Making decisions and sticking with them. So don't be like that girl who's like

what do you want to do today? okay figure out what you want to do make a decision

go along with other people's decisions if it makes you feel good but if you

have a choice to make and you're like this doesn't make me feel good

then say it. So I want to tell you my last story about having my very best

friend and I remember having two very very best friends in elementary school

and it was so annoying because somebody always got left out and so my friends

both had places in Whistler and they would go to Whistler

together they would come back to school they'd be like Oh Whistler was so much

fun and I feel like man why don't I have a place in Whistler why can't I go to

Whistler and it was like our whole life revolved around like them doing

something cool and then I had to like pick up but lucky for me I had my own

things that I did on the weekend and so I felt really confident in playing

sports and working with my team and doing things that was like outside of

like very very best friends and that was okay because when I felt left out I knew

that I always had something else right so make sure that you're building these

things. I'm Ashley I'll see you soon! Let me know below what are your

confidence tips to keep your very best friends? Write them down below!

Make sure you give this video a thumbs up if you liked it! See you soon! Bye!

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Cyber Sale at P.C. Richard & Son - Extended Video - Duration: 0:31.

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Make Perfect Coffee at Home - Tricks and recipe for homemade coffee - Hand Beaten Foamy Coffee - Duration: 0:56.

Coffee Recipe

coffee recipe at home

creamy foamy recipe

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How To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure - Duration: 8:33.

One of the unfortunate things about living in the world is that when you have goals,

there will be obstacles and those obstacles can often come in the form

of other human beings — the doubters, the haters, and sometimes the friends and

the family that just don't want you to get hurt or don't want you to change

which is why in this video, I want to help immunize you against that peer and

social pressure so that that doubt doesn't creep in and stop you from achieving your big dreams.

Now, the first thing to realize is that it's not often the case that the person who is

doubting us or the person who is pressuring us has a really persuasive amazing argument.

What is often the case is that we haven't gotten clear on our own values

and we actually just use them as an excuse for doubting ourselves

which is why it's so, so important to get crystal-clear on the things that you think are important; you need to write this down.

And the best question that I know of to get clear on your values is this one —

when you're 90 or 100 years old and you're looking back at your life and all the amazing things that you did, what do you want to see?

When especially you're looking back at this time period in your life, what would you like to say?

Would you like to say, "That was a time period in my life where I conformed and followed what everybody said. I took the safe path and just kind of played it safe,"

or do you want to look back and say, "That was the time period where I struck out and followed my dreams

and whether or not it went perfectly, I found out if that was something that I was capable of doing; I learned a ton."?

Now, I hope and I think that you're probably with me and that it's the second one.

But when you do this, a lot of things will become clear to you and I actually did this many years ago.

And I was working a normal job as a consultant and it was very clear to me that

I did not want to just work until I was 65. What I wanted to do was to move to

Brazil with a bunch of my friends to try to start this online business thing to see if it could work

and when I wrote down my day the way that I wanted to go — waking up in the morning, knocking on my friend's door,

we lived in the same apartment, we go out to the beach together, we take a stroll, we'd be drinking caipirinhas —

I wrote the whole thing out. When I got clear on that, it was so motivating

that when anybody would come up to me and say, "Charlie, you're crazy. You're gonna quit your job and you're gonna try to start this online business?"

it didn't faze me because I didn't value the security of the job in the same way that

I valued pursuing this dream because I've gotten clear on it.

So take this time; this is so, so critical not just for this topic but for everything in your life —

write down your values; it's so helpful.

The second thing that you're going to need to do is to realize that

there isn't a human being that I know that is immune to social pressure.

We all are adjusting and reacting based on the people around us which is why

the answer is not just to say, "Hey, nobody can influence me," the answer is to build a moat.

The answer is to have this moat surrounding you of really positive influences

such that when there's a negative influence, it doesn't break through.

Now, the important thing to realize here is that if you're like me and you want to be an entrepreneur,

you're not necessarily surrounded by other entrepreneurs so your first influence inside that moat are going to come from books, audio tapes, and video.

For me, it was Tim Ferriss. I read The 4-Hour Workweek and that really laid out the blueprint for how I was gonna travel,

how I was gonna spend my 20s, the business that I would run...

So if you're interested in any of those things — travel, lifestyle, having freedom of time or business — go to The 4-Hour Workweek.

It's changed probably tens of thousands of people's lives at this point — amazing book.

If you're interested in social stuff, hopefully, this channel is helping you to really improve your social skills.

If you want more, join our course, Charisma University; I'm gonna throw a link in the description.

The important part is you want to refer to this probably daily.

In Charisma University, we have an action guide that is for 30 days; it tells you exactly what to do.

I would reread The 4-Hour Workweek. You need that influence in your life day to day because you're getting so many bad ones from everybody else.

There's a 2B to this which is you can't just have your little moat built with authors and dead people; it's not gonna work for you.

Or YouTube people like me who are hopefully, at the time of this filming is still alive.

You need to have real live human beings that you can interact with which is

why what I recommend is when you find that book, share it with your friends.

When you find that video, send it to them.

Friends that you might want to come on this journey with you — whatever it is whether you're trying to stop drinking and be more social, whether you're

trying start a business, whether you're striking out on your own — in any way are going to be resistant to you persuading them.

They will, in my experience, be much more open to checking out a piece of content that you give them

and then forming their own idea; this is how Ben got me.

He didn't tell me, "Hey, man. We're gonna start this business; it's gonna be great,"

he gave me The 4-Hour Workweek and that took it from there; so that's 2B.

Get someone else on your team, start with your current circle, and if you can't get that, go to meetup.com or Reddit.

There's a subreddit and meetup for literally everything.

So the third thing, and I've mentioned this, is that you need to make progress every single day.

Like I said, influences are bombarding you from all angles all the time; you have to find a way to schedule it into your day —

some sort of reading, some sort of video, some sort of conversation with a person that is going to make you not feel crazy...

And Ben and I luckily live together when we were starting our business.

Every day, he'd go into the office and his co-workers were telling him he was crazy

for quitting his job at the end of just a few months to go with Charisma on Command

but then he'd come home and we would laugh about how they couldn't see what we saw — that we were going to Brazil and that it was gonna be awesome.

You have to find a way every single day to refresh yourself against those negative influences or else they will start to seep in.

So that is how you inoculate yourself.

What I want to teach you now is how to deal with it when inevitably, that doubter comes up to you and says,

"Hey, you're doing this wrong," or tries to pressure you and that may happen

for you over the holidays from a well-meaning aunt, uncle, mom, or dad.

In this case, be kind and smile but there's one phrase that I found that just puts an end to this — after they've told you the ways in which you changed, you say,

"It's good that you get to make decisions for you and I get to make decisions for me because if it was the other way around, we'd both be really unhappy."

and I talked about this in another video which I'll link to but

what this does is it very subtly say, "Hey, make your own decisions; I'll make mine.

As much as you don't approve of what I'm doing, I also don't want what you have. I'm just not shoving it down your throat."

And people get that and they back off very quickly.

The last thing that I've realized is that people are always going to tell you, "Don't do that," when you're in the thinking-about-it mode.

When I was thinking about starting this business with Ben, everybody had an opinion — "Won't work,", "Can't do it for a hundred reasons."

Once I quit my job and once I started, those voices diminished because it was too late; they couldn't save me at this point.

If it's something that isn't dangerous — this is a Tim Ferriss-ism, if you will, from 4-Hour Workweek —

there's very few things in your life that are not recoverable so just go for it.

If you decide that it's a stupid idea or was a failure, you can almost always work your way back to the previous position you were with a little bit of time,

a little bit of money, and perhaps a little bit of begging for your old job back

but you will not find the perfect opportunity if you continue your whole life waiting for it find it so just give it a try.

That's it for this video; I just want to tell you guys really quick — I've been busy with family stuff which is kind of what inspired

this because my mom and I did not see eye to eye on the way that I was spending money recently and they're just gonna watch this.

I love you mom and I hope that you don't take this any personally or upset by it.

Anyways, we're gonna have a video on Star Wars coming up after this and that

video is gonna be, I think, two actually — one might be on Han Solo and why we're gonna miss him so sort of a charisma breakdown on Han

and the other one on family and why family is so important because really, Star Wars is this space western

with these weird family ties, it's a family drama and it's so much more impactful

because it is so I want to talk about the importance of family relations

and how they probably drive you more than you may realize and I actually am very excited for that one because I think it's gonna be kind of insightful.

So that's it for this video. If you want to see those new videos coming up, Star Wars and Beyond, hit the Subscribe button.

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🆘✅👉You Will NEVER THROW AWAY Coffee Grounds After Watching This - Duration: 3:47.

🆘✅👉You Will NEVER THROW AWAY Coffee Grounds After Watching This

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Bright and Beautiful Bermuda Tiny House in Florida - Duration: 4:03.

BRIGHT AND BEAUTIFUL BERMUDA TINY HOUSE IN FLORIDA

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'The Disaster Artist' Cast Discuss the Puzzling Nature of Bad Creative Ideas - Duration: 2:12.

- This set of the alleyway looks

exactly like the real alleyway.

- That's right.

- Well, why don't we just shoot in the real alleyway?

- Because it's a real Hollywood movie.

- No, yeah, sounds good.

- What is the longest you've ever held onto

kind of a bad idea that you've been convinced

was absolutely great?

- I mean (laughs)

We kinda just, we kinda just hold on to it

until then you make it and then you see what people

think of it, right, like.

- Still holding on in my mind that they're good ideas

that I will eventually act on.

- When I did my sketch show, we had this idea

that we tried to get going so many times.

It was basically this guy gets a genie, like a magic genie,

but it just didn't work and it was like in the closet

with like a NordicTrack machine or something like that,

and we wrote like so many versions of this crappy,

broken genie sketch, but I wouldn't let it go.

I was like, I think there's something really there.

Dumb genie, broken genie, man.

- Have you made anything that's come out

that maybe didn't get the best reaction,

but you still maintain, you're like, I still love this?

- I mean I did a Cormac McCarthy movie called Child of God

that probably, my guess is, I haven't looked,

probably doesn't have a huge score on the tomato-meter.

I think it's a really well-made movie,

I think the performance at the center of it is incredible,

it's just that it's about a murdering necrophiliac.

- Not the most fun watch.

- You never know if something's going to be bad or not

when you're actually making it, and that's,

so you keep kind of trying really hard, you know.

And I think that is actually like

an energy that you see captured in the movie,

is like all these people half-think that the movie's stupid

and that it's the worst piece of shit ever,

but the other half of them like doesn't want to quit

and wants to see it through, and wants to work,

do their best on it, and try to fix it

even though it might be terrible

because you just never know.

- And making something feels like it's half-part hope

and half-part fear, you know,

it's like you hope it's going to be great,

and you're constantly worried, like,

what if people don't like it or it turns out terrible.

- I thought that a lot while we were making this movie.

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Feedbackly tutorial: How to create an account using the Feedbackly app - Duration: 1:28.

First, download the feedback the iPad app.

Open the app and type in your email. Tap 'create account' you'll be sent a

verification email with a link to the next step in the signup process. Click

the link and enter the organization name and set up a password for the account.

You will then be directed to the Feedbackly dashboard. To publish a survey

on your iPad, click on the 'surveys' tab. This process is covered in another video

so I'll run through it quickly. I'll name the survey 'store iPad 1'. I'll add a

smiley question, give it a title and then click next. Because you signed up using

an iPad, your account has automatically created a channel to publish the survey

to. Just select the channel called 'My iPad' and continue. Review the information,

publish, and that's it. If you want to change the survey that's displayed on

your iPad, just create another survey, publish it to the iPad Channel and it

will replace the existing survey.

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OBO's Fans Get In Here!! Which Davido's Song Do You Like The Most? – Just 1|NVS News - Duration: 1:04.

OBO's Fans Get In Here!! Which Davido's Song Do You Like The Most? – Just 1

Hi Guys,.

Guess your weekend is going smoothly?.

Its no doubt that Davidos has plenty Fans on Naijaloaded looking at the Massive comments that always bombards his posts on Naijaloaded whenever he drops a new song or video .

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How To Grow Hair Faster | How To Grow Your Hair Fast | Hair Growth With Rose Water - Duration: 2:01.

Hello friends my name is Tricia and today, I will tell you how to grow hair faster

In this video, I will tell you how to grow your hair fast and naturally with home remedies

I will tell you how to use rose water for hair growth

I will tell you more about this remedy and some cautions at the end of this video, but first

I will tell you how to use this remedy, so let's start our video

But first be sure to subscribe to our channel for more health and beauty videos like this

you will need

1 cup rose water 1 vitamin E. Capsule 6 to 8 drops fill hobo oil

What you have to do?

Step 1 open the vitamin E. Capsule and transfer the oil present inside to the cup of rose water

Step 2 add ho ho boil to this a mix well

Step 3 apply this mixture on the scalp and hair leave it on for half an hour

Step 4 rinse your hair with a shampoo

How often you should do this?

Repeat this once a week

Why this works this remedy will condition your scalp and hair it will also make your hair shiny and smell lovely

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Soul Recognition And Bond Contracts - Duration: 3:50.

Soul Recognition And Bond Contracts

by Martijn de Zee,

Why do we feel attracted to a particular person and fall in love?

Of course you have certain preferences, but it�s strange, however, why we fall in love

with one person and not the other.

Our higher self has the answer, because here lies the motivation, from which we are encouraged

to fall in love.

Of course, it�s biology, which causes the chemical processes to get started in our bodies

and allow us to float on pink clouds.

But this is triggered after our soul has recognized that other soul and knows that a connection

must be established to achieve our learning goals.

There has been a long-term contact on a soul level before you even catch a glimpse of your

new lover to be.

To make sure we have enough interest and spend time with the other to learn our lessons,

we fall in love.

Of course, there is still our free will, but few can escape the iron grip of romance.

Falling in love with someone, means you have made a bond contract with another soul to

experience certain emotions.

A learning process that you have agreed upon to go through, before your soul entered your

psychical body.

This person can be someone you already know from other life times or someone new, where

your soul expects to learn valuable lessons from.

Either way, postponing may be possible, but avoiding the lesson you need to learn is impossible.

You can assume that the universe puts all its effort to make you meet up with your lover,

in order to make you go through the important life lessons.

There is no such as coincidence here, as you probably intuitively know already.

The kind of bond contract you have with someone depends on a lot of factors, but there is

always a mutual interest in the lessons that need to be learned.

When you finished learning, what you were assigned to, often you can feel this deeply

inside yourself and this is being translated into losing interest in the other person.

This is usually a process and it may take a while before the relationship is actually

terminated.

In my own case, I had a relationship that was overdue for more than a year.

But here too, free will played a role and on both sides there was much resistance to

end it.

In your heart you know, but it really wanting it is another story.

When the lessons you learn are tough and fierce for you, mostly there is karma that has to

be redeemed.

There is no escape because, the balance in the universe is disturbed and that has to

be corrected again.

How often do people stay together for the rest of their lives?

Of course, this happens, but mostly you need more lessons from different teachers to get

deeper insights.

The ingenious plan of the universe to let you fall in love can only be embraced, because

deeper wisdom is not conceivable that we take out of these lessons.

And if it�s only for the short moments of bliss, in where we are convinced that it will

last forever.

However, it is the acquired knowledge that will never be lost.

The experience you encounter each time is invaluable and is therefore the mother of

all knowledge.

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WFTDA CHAMPS: What You Need To Know - Duration: 2:13.

Hey there Derbyverse, it's Nox and WFTDA Champs happened, it was awesome, I meant to

make this recap video earlier but you know … s*** happens.

The game of the weekend was Texas vs Gotham and if you think any differently I will fight

you.

It was the most dramatic game of the weekend.

Gotham walked away with a 3 point win and we all walked away with our hearts broken!

Fun!

There are obviously a crap-ton of incredibly talented skaters at champs but one really

stood out to me and that's Beyond Thunderdame from Rose City.

Literally like a week out from champs she got notified that 'hey you're gonna play

champs with us'.

So good for Dame, went out there and f***ing killed it and I continue to be SUCH a fan

girl.

And lastly, a lot of really important news came out of the weekend that I think we need

to talk about.

I'm going to expand on it more in a post later um but for right now here are the bullet

points:

First off, announcer Double-H made a comment on-air, relating losing a game to genocide

and uh, specifically the Trail of Tears which is, ya know… f***ed up.

How are we gonna make sure this doesn't happen again in the future?

How can we better educate ourselves?

So many questions on that one!

WFTDA had originally arranged for us to be on ESPN2 but then we got bumped.

There's a lot of questions I have about you know about trajectory with ESPN and like,

what we're doing there…

I don't know.

And lastly, lastly, retirements!

SO may retirements announcer before, during, and after champs and some are gonna happen

the world cup.

The list is so long and heart breaking.

Some of my all-time favorites are hanging up their skates and- UGH

So, do you have any thoughts or feelings on this?

I am full of questions!

Make sure you're following the Apex for all your WFTDA everything and if you wanna

catch me before the next video you can find me at any of these places or my brand new

website.

Let's talk about roller derby!

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A Buttercream Christmas Cake with Buttercream Pinecones and Candles - Duration: 10:41.

I'm Lorelie and welcome to Wedding Cakes For You cake tutorials. In this video

I'll be showing you how to create this beautiful buttercream Christmas cake

design. It includes pine needles with little red berries, candles with dripping

wax and flames and pinecones. Now for the berries you're going to need a small

parchment bag filled with red frosting. To make your berries look more real you

can coat the inside of the bag with red colored piping gel. For the candles use

another bag with red frosting, coat it with red piping gel and use a number 12

Wilton tip. For the pine needles you'll need a bag filled with moss-green, coated

with green gel and a number 233 tip. For the pinecones fill your bag with brown

and optional yellow striping to add highlights. Use a number 103 tip. For the

borders fill another bag with white buttercream and use a number 18 tip.

You'll need straws to pipe pinecones on and candy sticks to pipe the candles, a

six inch or larger cake. I'm using a 6 inch. Start by piping shells for the top

border. I did a simple shell border with my number 18 tip. And now here I'm

marking my cake to visualize where to put the various elements.

Starting with the green pine needles you're gonna squeeze and pull up

slightly and then release. The gel gives the needles extra shine and help it to

flow easily through the holes. but this is optional. Continue making the pine

boughs until you're happy with the basic shape.

For the pinecones pipe a tight ribbon of frosting around the tip of the straw

just like you would do for a rose. Pipe a row of scales around that. The scales

should be vertical and side by side not overlapping like a rose. Drop down and

pipe another row of scales. Continue this process until you're happy with the way

your pinecone looks.

Each row should flare just a little bit more than the one before it.

Once you're satisfied cut the straw to a point and grasp it gently but firmly

with your scissors. Push the pointed end into the cake at an angle so the

pinecone will look as though it is resting on the cake. Fill in around the

pinecones with greens. Now cut the candy sticks to a length that you feel looks right for

your cake. Push the first one in at an angle, just enough so you can fit your

piping bag and your tip down over the stick. Put the round tip over and all the

way down to the base of the stick. Now squeeze as you pull the bag to the top

and then release. Repeat that process for the second candle.

For the flames I used a leaf tip with yellow frosting.

I forgot to mention that in the beginning.

Now add your second and third pine cone.

Clip the end of the paper bag with a red icing in it to make a small opening, a

really really tiny opening. Pipe little round berries between and within the

greens, now add some candle wax drips to make your candles look more real.

Try this fun and easy border by starting with a zigzag pattern with your number

18, and then pipe over the zig zag with a shell border.

For the final touch add a dusting of powdered sugar to make snow. If you liked

my tutorial and my cake design please subscribe, leave me a comment or ask

a question below, and I'll put more information and links in the description

box. Happy Holiday baking to you and stay tuned, because next week I have another

exciting cake decorating video for you. This design was inspired by Roland Winebeckler's

book Buttercream Flowers and Arrangements. I'll put that link in the

description box as well for you. Thanks and have a great day!

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Learn 11 English idioms that use the word 'walk'! - Duration: 5:54.

In today's English lesson you will learn 11 idioms that use the word 'walk'!

Let's get started! Don't miss a lesson, click the red subscribe button then click the

bell! Hello Real Fluency Friends! I'm Trisha and I'm here to teach you real

English used in Real life so that you can reach Real Fluency Now and today you

will learn 11 idioms that use the word walk. There are many more than that so I

will have to make a part 2 of this lesson to teach you more another time

and yes I realize that almost every time I've done a lesson with idioms its

been 11. I don't know why it's worked out that way but it's always 11.

I didn't plan it that way. Alright number one a 'walk in the park'.

If something is a walk in the park it means is very easy or fun to do. Making

these lessons about idioms is a walk in the park.

Number two 'cakewalk' this is also something that is easy to do, if you

remember a while back I did an idioms video about idioms about food and I

talked about something being a piece of cake and that is also something easy.

Number three 'all walks of life' this means people with all different types of

backgrounds rich, poor, different racial groups, religions, everything all

different walks of life. A sample sentence is: When you work in a grocery

store you see people from all walks of life

Number four: 'walk down the aisle'. This means to get married as in 'I don't think

she'll ever walk down the aisle again', in other words you don't think she'll get

married again. Number five is to take a 'walk down memory lane'. This means you

think about things that have happened in the past usually good things is in:

'Looking at all those old pictures was like taking the walk down memory lane.'

Number six: 'walk a thin line' this means to do or say something in a very careful

way so that you don't cause a problem by being too extreme in either of two

opposite ways. A sample sentence: 'Parents have to

walk a thin line between letting their children explore the world yet keep them

safe. Number seven is to 'walk a mile in someone's shoes'. This means to try to

understand what another person's life is like especially if it is very different

from yours. Sample sentence is: 'If he really wants to know what their life is

like as immigrants he should really try walking a mile in their shoes'. Number

eight: to 'walk all over someone'. This means to treat someone in a bad way or

take advantage of. A sample sentence is: 'I was really shy when I was younger and

people walked all over me because of that'. Number nine, 'walk into the lion's den'.

This means to go into a dangerous or bad situation on purpose. A sample sentence

is: 'Going into the meeting with all of the angry shareholders was like walking

into the lion's den. Number 10 is 'walk off the job', which means to suddenly leave or

quit or job or for union workers to go on strike. A sample sentence is

'Factory workers walked off the job last week'. Number eleven is 'walk on sunshine'

This means to feel really happy also. There was a song a long time ago by a

group called 'Katrina and the Waves' called 'Walking on Sunshine'. If you do a search

on YouTube I'm pretty sure you can find that and you can hear that song. So a

sample sentence of that is: 'If I ever met him I would be walking on sunshine'. Now

there's no quiz again this time but I do have some homework for you again. I want

you to use my LLRS method with this lesson to help you with listening and

speaking skills and if you don't remember what that is that means

to listen while looking at subtitles or sentences written out and then to listen

again without looking at the text and then to repeat

what you just heard and then S is to shadow or try to say the words as

you're listening to a recording. And then repeat all four of those steps

as many times as necessary until you feel like you know the the passage or

the sentences is that you're trying to learn really well. So what you can do is

you can go through this lesson and find all the sample sentences yourself or you

can click a link I will give you at the end of this video to go to a page with a

list of all the sample sentences from the lesson and then you can download an

mp3 with a recording of all them so you can practice the LLRS method with them.

And that's all for today's lesson, but before you go please subscribe to my

youtube channel if you haven't done that yet so you know when I have more English

lessons ready for you. In a few seconds you can also sign up to get the mp3 that

I talked about earlier and then if you also still have some more time you can

watch some more of my English lessons here on YouTube. Goodbye and remember

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Technology Order How to Zenize Your Technology to be a Productive Work Warrior - Duration: 1:02:47.

Hello, everybody.

And thank you for joining us for today's BU Industry

Insiders Webinar, Technology Order:

How to Zenize Your Tech to be a Productive Work Warrior.

My name is Jeff Murphy and I'm a member

of the career program's team in the office of alumni relations.

Today's webinar is sponsored by Boston University Alumni

Relations, and it's offered to our 326,000 alumni

around the globe.

Throughout your career, BU is committed

to helping you to define and achieve

your professional goals.

We aim to do this by providing alumni

with access to a series of valuable online tools

and social media communities.

I'd like to extend a warm welcome to our alumni

joining us from around the world today in far away

places like Hong Kong, Rome, Simi Valley, California,

Oakland, Trumbull, Connecticut, Cartersville, Georgia,

Ellsworth, Maine, Nashua, New Hampshire, the Bronx,

Cleveland, Warwick, Rhode Island, and as always, dozens

of Massachusetts alumni in towns like Everett,

Dorchester, North Chelmsford, Middleborough, and more.

For each and every one of you out there,

please know that we really do value

your participation in this program and every program

that we offer.

Before I introduce today's speakers,

some brief housekeeping notes.

As you know by now, this webinar is

being posted on the Adobe Connect online meeting

platform.

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If you want to jot it down, it's 1-800-422-3623.

Today's presentation is being recorded and will soon be made

available for on demand viewing on the Alumni Association

website found at www.bu.edu/alumni.

Our speaker today is very eager to answer

any questions you have, and you're

welcome to submit them throughout the presentation

using the Q&A chat box at the bottom of your screen.

We hope to get to as many questions

as we can during today's webinar.

Now it's my pleasure to introduce our speaker

for the day.

Presenting from just across the Charles River in Cambridge,

Massachusetts, it's College of Communication alumna Erika

Salloux.

When Leslie Gaydos of New England Cable News

saw some of Erika Salloux's work,

she exclaimed, "You work wonders."

One of her clients' kudos included,

"major miracles are coming when you work with Erika."

Since 2003, Erika, a certified professional organizer,

speaker, and founder of Living Harmony LLC,

has been getting people organized so they can succeed.

She practices a holistic and coach centered approach

to organizing, and works with her clients

in person and virtually.

Her empowered time process for entrepreneurs, executives,

independent creatives, and professors

leads those looking for a serene reality

to increase health and productivity.

If Erika isn't organizing, you'll most likely

catch her dancing or jetting off on some spontaneous adventure

that includes swimming in the ocean.

Erika, thank you so much for being

here to share your expertise.

I know I can say I'm particularly excited to hear

what you have to teach all of us about being

a little bit more productive by managing our tech better.

So I'm going to go ahead and turn the floor over to you.

The floor is all yours.

Thanks, Jeff thank you so much for giving me the opportunity

to share with my fellow alum.

And thank all of you for being here today.

I want to just begin with some stillness and silence.

So if all of us can sit back if we're sitting in a chair

or wherever we're sitting, just sit back and relax

and sort of become like a rag doll.

I'm just going to guide you through a little bit

of breathing.

While we're breathing, if you ask yourself,

if my heart was to tell me what I wanted to get out

of this time together, this hour we're going to share,

what would it say to me?

As you're breathing.

So just relax as much as you can wherever you're sitting.

Completely.

Like your shoulders, your legs.

And take a really big, deep breath in.

Like a full, deep, full body breath

that comes up through your body and up

through the top of your head.

And then a deep breath out where you're

relaxing a little bit more.

Any part of your body you can relax a little bit more.

And take another deep breath in, and another deep breath

out where you're relaxing a little bit more.

I'm going to have you do two more of those breaths

on your own where you're just completely breathing

in the top of your head, and then--

OK.

I'm going to guess all of you are done.

So let's rock and roll.

So what we're going to do today and you're

going to experience with me is just,

like, a tip of the iceberg of what I do.

So I promise at the end I'll give you

an opportunity that you can look out,

you can dive deeper with me if you want to.

So really I look at an opportunity

any time I'm talking to a group or working

with any of my clients that it's an opportunity for you

guys to make one of my biggest dreams come true.

You all have that power.

Because, like, I dream that, in general, all of us

are more grounded, and centered, and present,

and living the desires that we want to successfully.

Whatever that looks like.

Success looks totally different for all of us.

And I desire that because I know that if all of us

are moving more towards that or have

more of those things in our lives,

then we're living in a more loving world.

And I also know that if any time I'm working with someone

or talking to you guys and anyone goes away and, like,

takes something away and starts changing what they're doing

and they get more of that in their life--

being more present and centered--

that you guys spread it, and spread it, and spread it.

So it's like this domino effect.

So thanks for all being here and helping me make one

of my biggest dream come true.

So I want to start off by thinking-- if any of you

saw this movie.

12 Years a Slave, there's a scene in there

where one of the characters says,

Clement says, "If you want to survive, do and say

as little as possible."

And Solomon Northrup, the other character,

says, "I don't want to survive.

I want to live."

And that's what I think about in the work

that I do when people come to me.

I'm not helping people just survive,

I'm actually helping them thrive.

I think when he says live, I think

he's saying he wants to thrive and be the best he can be.

So that's what the work I do helps people with.

And that's what I'm going to give you

guys some, like, simple--

they're simple strategies, but sometimes because we

have to change the way we do things,

they can be a little bit challenging.

But they're really actually really simple things.

I'm going to take questions at the end.

So if you guys think of them and you want to give them over,

we'll take them at the end.

So it's OK to let Jeff know what they are.

And during the process, there's going

to be a couple polls that we're going to take because I really

like it to be a conversation.

That's why I like the Q&A and the back and forth.

Because that's really more interesting to me

than me just talking.

So I want to start off with something

really, really super simple.

It's this one mantra that I have found that's so powerful--

and I use a lot with my clients and myself--

is that if you follow this, it will really help you

with your technology and how it affects you

on a day to day basis.

So it goes like this, let the need dictate the technology,

not the technology dictate the need.

And I'm going to explain what that means in a minute.

And first I'm going to give you a little bit of research

because I know that all of us think differently.

Some of us try to do something and then it changes our life.

And then we go, OK, we believe.

It doesn't matter what anyone else says.

But a lot of us want to hear, you know,

what's really going on in the real world.

And I want some backup for that.

So Matt Richtel-- a lot of you might have heard of him.

He's a technology reporter for The New York Times.

He won a Pulitzer Prize in 2009 for the series called Driven

to Distraction.

And is that series that actually is the series that

prompted all those laws that came up afterwards

that banned people talking on their phones

and holding their phones and driving.

And he's been covering technology for so many years.

And he tells us to think of technology like food.

Some is fried dough and some is broccoli.

And he says that many of us are eating fried dough daily in all

the technology that we use.

He has said that research shows that every time we

check our mobile device, we got a rush of dopamine.

And when we don't check, we get bored

since we've conditioned ourselves

to receive all this extra dopamine that we normally

wouldn't before we had mobile phones.

And most of us will remember times

we didn't have mobile phones.

So when we need more, and more, and more

stimulation for a little bit of excitement.

So basically, we've, like, changed our body chemistry.

And also there's another person who's

really, really big in this industry and ADHD

and about technology who is a Boston based psychiatrist

that many of you might know from the books

that he's written called Edward Hallowell.

He's really well known.

He talks a lot about technology.

He notes that research shows that the more we check

our handhelds, the more our brains create

the kind of chemistry that we see in those addicted to drugs.

And this is like science research.

How our brains are working.

So that's why they say crackberry.

That's why that joke came around when BlackBerrys

were really popular.

Because it actually does change the chemistry of our brain.

So basically we've become addicted.

And that's not just to our mobile phone,

it can be anything on our phone.

It can also be our computers, you know,

as we know many screens.

So that's why I say to think about let the need dictates

the technology, not the technology dictate the need.

So what I really mean by that, if you haven't figured it out,

is that rather than purchasing the latest

and greatest technology or new app on the market that says,

oh, I can do this for you.

Your mobile phone can make coffee

and you don't even drink coffee.

Then you think, well, maybe I want

to drink coffee because my phone can make coffee.

So that's what I want people to think about

is are they getting the technology because it

seems cool, or do they really need it?

If you regularly need to send people a document that you only

have hard copies of for instance, then you'd say, OK.

I want to get a scanner because I need that.

That's just one example.

I had a client that, for instance, recently

needed to convert WMV files to MOV files,

so we found her this app that was [inaudible] player

for her computer.

But that was because she had a need

and then we got the technology, as opposed the other way

around.

So for instance, I'm betting that if any of you--

there's so many, like, games we can put on our computer,

like chess games and things like that.

If you say, oh, this is great.

There's an opportunity for me to play chess

with my friends who live really far away,

I'm going to bet that mostly if you download that and use that,

that it's actually going to take you

away from when you're at work and being present to your work.

Because we're talking about being productive at work,

right?

So even though this might be a personal app that you get,

it really is going to distract you.

Because you really didn't need it in the first place.

It wasn't something you said that you needed.

So I just want people to think for a second--

and Jeff, we're going to do the first call right now.

And the question is, how addicted

do you feel to your mobile?

With five being the most addicted

and one being the least addicted.

How addicted do you feel?

And you can also say zero.

You'll notice there's a zero there

because maybe somebody of you want

to say I'm not addicted at all.

And so if you guys could let us know

how addicted with number five being the most addicted

and zero being not at all.

Erika, are you seeing those poll answers coming in in real time?

is it working on your end?

Yeah.

Except for I only see up to three.

I think the screen must need to be bigger or something.

OK.

Know what I mean?

I see zero, one, and two, and three.

And now I see it all.

OK.

Perfect.

So it looks like most of you guys are saying four.

And a little bit more at three.

So three is-- and can they see the poll, too?

I forgot.

Sorry.

Everybody should be able to see the results.

So I have to tell people so they can actually see it.

Yeah.

So we're looking like four is the highest and three is next.

That's awesome.

There's not that many fives.

That's good.

Yeah.

Let's see.

Can we tell when it's done?

No, we can't really.

I'll end it right now.

The answers have started to slow down a little bit.

So yeah.

50% at four.

Let's go with that.

So some of the-- besides this tip that I'm

going to give you about the technology

that you put on our phone, like apps and things

like that, if you guys can think about that, so 50% of us

are saying that we're at a four.

So if you could think of how you can use these tips that I give

you to be less addicted, we actually

will be able to change our chemistry of our body

back to the way it was before.

Our bodies are super malleable.

Our brains, as we know now in the last couple decades,

we've even learned more that our brains are way, way

more malleable than we thought.

So Jeff, can I go back to that slide

now and move the poll to the side?

And they can see the next slide.

Cool.

So these are some ways that I have

found that really work when I'm working with my clients

in terms of technology, current technology.

If you haven't used an app in the past six months,

delete it or uninstall it.

So if you ever have a need for it,

you know you can always reinstall it.

But just having that clutter on your phone and the temptation--

especially when you're at work to be doing other things.

Because lot of apps, not all of them-- and I'm

going to talk about apps we can use for work

that are really helpful.

A lot of them are just distracting us.

I'm also going to-- the next two things

that I'm going to talk about is only having one method

or application for managing your tasks,

and only use one calendar.

So I know that when I say this to people,

some people say, oh, that's a no brainer.

Why would I have more than one application for managing

my tasks or my calendar?

But over and over when I start working with people,

I see that.

They have multiple ways.

They have little notebooks for writing their tasks down,

they have stickies all over their desk,

and then they have some sort of electronic version

for managing their tasks.

And same thing with a calendar.

Oftentimes I see couples, they're

sharing a calendar with somebody.

Then they have a calendar in their kitchen

that's hanging up where they write down some things where

their kids stuff go.

And then they have some sort of application

on their phone that syncing with their computer.

And that makes for a lot of chaos.

So I recommend one calendar.

One life, one calendar.

That's the mantra that I say when

I start working with people.

And we get them down to one calendar.

And that makes their life so much more easy

because they know where to look, right?

OK.

There's an event, they know where to look.

Start of their day or the end of their day,

they know where to look.

Same thing with tasks.

So don't fall into the false economy time trap of, like,

screaming business and stimulating irrelevance.

Really if you keep it simple, which is what these tips do,

then you're going to increase your productivity,

your serenity, and your mindfulness.

Next tip I want to give you is really, really simple

to execute.

It takes probably about 15 minutes.

And once it's done, it really changes

how people use their computer.

And once again, I find this across the board when

I start working with people that this is the issue that they're

having.

They have set their downloads to go to their download folder.

So any time they're in an email and they download something,

an attachment, it goes to this download folder, which I think

is a black hole.

I consider Download folder to be seriously a black hole.

And I see that.

I'm not just saying that.

I see that people, when I start organizing their computer

with them, they have multiples of many files,

and they don't even know which is the most current one.

Which is the one that I changed?

Which is my most recent version?

Because usually the problem is the download folder.

So a lot of times if you're downloading to a folder

and then people say to me, oh, Erika, that's OK.

I can find something because I just do a search.

But then when they do a search, they think,

I don't need to put things in a file.

I just have everything on my computer.

Doesn't have to be organized because I just do a search

and I find when I want.

But I say that that's the equivalent

of having a bunch of papers strewn all over your floor

instead of having a file cabinet.

And I'm going to explain to you why I say that.

So how many times have you gone looking

for a file and you did the search feature as opposed

to OK, I'm going to go in this folder

and look in my marketing folder and find where

I put those marketing files?

And you actually find that there is a whole bunch of them.

And you, like I said, you don't know

which one is the current one.

Or you open them and you say, oh, gosh.

I can see that I have multiple files

and I'm not even sure which is the one I edited last.

And a lot of it has to do with that download folder

because when things go in the download folder,

you don't see them.

So what I tell people to do is take all the browsers

they use-- and some of us use multiple browsers.

So Safari, Firefox, OmniWeb, Chrome, whatever we use,

and change them all-- and this one is showing you Chrome,

how to do it on Chrome--

to change them all to go to your desktop.

Now, I'm not recommending that our desktop

becomes a massive dumping ground when I say this.

What I'm suggesting is that once you download it

to your desktop, that then you put it in the correct folder

and you rename it.

Because we often know we get files

that have all sorts of weird names

that isn't what we want to name the file.

So once it's sitting on your desktop,

if your desktop is clear-- which I recommend doing,

clearing off your desktop--

is that then you can see it and you know where to put it.

It doesn't become this, like, download folder that is totally

hidden on people's computer and most of the time,

people don't even know what's in it.

So I would say do that for each browser.

The next thing I want to give you guys

is just really two simple things that you can do.

Very doable actions that will stop your email overload.

And I know that people talk about email overload,

and there are so many techniques and so many acronyms

if you do this and do that.

So I'm just going to boil it down to two simple things.

Open and delete.

Meaning that every time you open an email,

then you're processing it.

If you're putting the action in your

to do where you do your tasks or you're

actually responding and then deleting it.

Now, some people I know that if they're working on projects

and they need to document things for legal reasons

or that other people need to be involved

that they need to sometimes put them in folders.

That's fine if you have a few folders on the side,

but then it gets put into that folder.

It doesn't stay in your inbox once you opened it.

And the other one-- and I'm going

to elaborate on these and how we can do them.

Only open and process your email on your computer.

I know that when people hear this

they think, well, that's crazy.

Because nowadays everyone's on their mobile, right?

And they're processing emails whatever.

While they're driving, while they're

walking, while they're swinging their kid out in the park.

So it's just happening, like, all the time.

So let's just talk first about opening and deleting.

So like I said, if every time we touch something,

whether it's something we bring into our home, or an email,

or a piece of paper, it takes up more of our time, right?

So if we open an email and then leave it there and we read it

and then we think, oh, I can't deal with that now.

This is really big.

Or I need to find out this bit of information.

That's going to take me too much time.

And you go back to it.

It's taking up more time.

So I recommend that people devote specific time

to be in their email, and then there's

time when you're not in your email, as opposed to mixing it

with something else.

So opening and deleting combined with this other one of reading

and processing when you're at your computer,

they actually work in tandem even though they're

two separate tips.

Because you're more likely to be able to open,

process, and delete if you're actually at your computer.

So I want you guys all to think.

Recall how many times you've opened an email

while you were out and about.

So you're on your mobile and you couldn't fully

process it because you needed something that you

didn't have on your mobile.

Or you were in a situation where you

couldn't concentrate at the level that

was required for that email.

Think about that.

I want you guys all to think about it.

Have there have been times that that's happened?

Does it happen regularly?

So if you feel like that's happening regularly and not

a one off, I even recommend this tip of open and delete

and only be at your computer even more for you

because you're wasting time opening it again,

opening it again.

And every time you touch it, you're spending more time.

Plus you're not being present to the other thing that you're

doing that's requiring that concentration that you

need at that moment.

I really think that uni-tasking is the future of productivity

and creativity, and there's a massive link

between our productivity and our creativity in both directions.

My friend Samantha--

I changed her name to protect the mindfully challenged

at that moment.

Her and I, we came out of a business meeting,

networking meeting a while ago, about a month ago,

and she couldn't find her car.

But I went off and did my own thing.

And then I got a call from her, Erika, I can't find my car.

Can you come back and help me?

So I went back to help her.

And of course, we all know that there

have been times where we've forgotten where we parked car.

It happens to me.

I go Whole Foods and park my car,

and then I'm like, where did I park my car?

But when I got back to her, she told me

she couldn't even remember what direction

she approached the building.

Meaning the building we had the meeting at.

So she couldn't remember whether it was left or right at all.

She couldn't fathom.

So anyway, I had this plan to find

the car, this little system I created, and we

found her car immediately the first street we went down.

But then after we found her car, she was just so happy.

Thank you.

Because it was raining, too.

That's why she asked me to come back because she thought,

I don't know how far away I am from my car.

Then the big admission comes from her.

She tells me, well, you know, I answered

a phone call when I was getting out of my car

and I talked while I was going to the building.

And then I realized it.

Because if we think about how our brains work--

and you're probably wondering why am I telling you this

story--

because it really shows about how our brain are oftentimes

split when we're attempting to multitask.

So she needed the same part of her brain

to register where she was coming from,

where she was going as she was walking to the building

that she needed to have that conversation

with the guy on the phone.

And a lot of times that's what's going on for us

when we attempt--

and that's why I say attempting-- to multitask.

Because what our brain is really doing,

it's not actually multitasking.

It's actually switching back and forth really quickly.

And when we do that, it makes our brains stupid.

And more on this in a bit of how it makes our brains stupid.

So I know that oftentimes people tell me

that your boss requires a certain level of email

response.

So people feel like they have to be in their email.

They have a certain job where they have to respond ASAP.

So I have a few tips about that when somebody higher

than you is requiring that you are responding

within 15 minutes, or within half an hour,

or even an hour to email.

Of course, I'm going to admit that some jobs do

have that kind of requirement.

It's partly built into the job.

Like emergency room, for instance.

Not for email, but just that you have to be responding really

quickly.

Call centers where you have to answer the phone if it rings.

That's the job.

But I recently heard this Murphy's Law joke

that said when bosses talk about improving productivity,

they're never talking about themselves.

And so we could actually use this to our advantage

because that means we can take the initiative

and suggest changes that will make us more productive.

So if there is anything you want to change-- anything

I recommend today or anything you think,

you know, I think this will help me be more productive.

Anything you've read that you just want to put in effect

and see if it works, just present them the research.

There's so much out there.

I'm just giving you a little tip of the iceberg today,

but there's so much out there about attempted multitasking,

our brains.

MIT'S done so much research, Harvard.

I'm just talking about around here.

Very respected institutions.

And then say to them, OK, can I put this in effect

and see if it changes?

Just, like, for a trial period.

And a lot of times, you will find that they will say yes.

And then you have the opportunity

to do something in a different way.

Now I want to talk about this.

Why most people, 90% of people, are not technologically

productive as they could be.

And two more things that you guys can do--

and I'm going to talk about these two terrible trends that

have just become sort of the norm and very accepted.

One is that we're being reactive and not proactive

in our choice of our tasks.

And this is a little bit sometimes linked

to if there are people above us that are telling us

what we must do.

And the next is the attempted multitasking

I was just talking about.

So if you see this picture here on the left,

it actually is in BU in the Com building,

which is my Alma mater.

And I was in the screening.

And then as soon as the lights came up--

this is like right as soon as the light came up

at the end of the screening and there

was going to be a discussion-- you can see, like, everybody,

mostly students, took out their phones to be on their phones.

And once again, this goes back to the whole idea

of our brains.

I'm going to give you some more research on this.

Some really fascinating stuff that's very new.

How they have become so addicted that they couldn't leave--

I mean, we've all probably felt this.

They couldn't leave their phones away alone.

As soon as the lights came up, they were like,

I have to check what's on my phone.

Whatever it is.

An email, Instagram, Facebook.

And so that is something that they

were taking their-- you know, if you look at this situation,

they're taking their brains away immediately

from the situation they're in and going somewhere else

that isn't in front of them.

And this ad that I saw--

I think I saw this on the TV-- also reminded me of this.

Of how we're all thinking we have

to do more, be multitasking, attempting to multitask,

and keep going and going.

Where this ad for rice that's saying that it's

in a bigger hurry than you are.

So you can make this brown rice, which

is super healthy, even faster than the way

that you usually operate in the world.

Which I thought this was super hilarious because instead

of saying this is how we can slow down and go slower,

it's saying this is how you can go faster.

The rice is faster than you are.

So two tips that I'm going to give you

guys around this whole idea of technology and productivity

leading to being proactive and then stopping the multitasking.

One is if you want to be proactive,

one simple way that you can be more proactive--

because obviously there's tons of ways you can be proactive

and some of them are very complex and require changing

your mind and your outlook on things, which I call mindset--

is to stop looking at your email first thing.

Now, once again, I know that sometimes people

are going to tell me, oh, but Erika, my job requires that.

OK.

So is there a way that we can look at that and see,

is it true or can we shift that?

And instead of looking at your email first-- and this

is not rocket science.

Like, a lot of people talk about this,

have written whole books about this,

is to start with one task that's related to your big project.

Your big thing that you want to get done at work

or that you need to get done at work.

Because if you start with that, you're

going to actually feel super, super productive.

Even if it's just the first task of that bigger project.

And I recommend starting with a microscopic task.

And I'm going to get to that later in another slide.

Just pick the next task that you can do.

Not like look at the whole project,

just what is the next task?

And I guarantee that increases your overall productivity,

which is about being really efficient and effective.

Both together.

Not just one or the other.

Now let's talk a little bit about the multitasking.

The other day actually I got a new iPhone.

I got the iPhone 8 a couple of weeks ago.

And I put it in my bag from the Apple store,

and then I drove home.

And when I took it out, there was a message on it

that said, you know, the new iPhone can

detect when you're driving and can stop all incoming alerts.

I was like, oh, my gosh.

Really?

That's awesome.

Bravo.

That's great that they put that capability on there

because all of us are tempted once we know it's there that we

actually take care of it.

Even if we're driving.

And that's what we talked about before.

It's that same part of our brain, right?

That's driving, that needs to pay attention

to the road, that also needs to have

the conversation with somebody if they call or if they text.

And I don't need to go into, like, the danger of it.

We all know that.

But I'm talking just about our brains and how our brains work,

and how it's going to make us stupid in both those areas.

The driving area.

So in terms of being at work, we're

going to talk about that because obviously we're

talking about work.

So I want to delve into that.

The neuroscience of our brain and extensive research on this

shows that when we are doing two things at once

like that switching back and forth like I said,

it actually slows down our progress

in both of those areas.

It takes our brain four times as long

to finish a task if we're attempting

to multitask because your brain has to keep resetting itself

like I talked about.

It also depletes your energy, it creates

overstimulation in our bodies, It raises our adrenalin level.

So that means it makes us feel super energetic,

but we're actually less productive even

though we feel this energy.

It's that fight or flight response that kicks in.

It creates short-term memory loss

and it creates an inability to concentrate.

So that is, like, a lot of really bad things

for our brain, and that's why I say it makes our brain stupid.

David Meyer who is a University of Michigan professor

says that actually--

his research shows this-- that it damages

cells that form new memories.

So all of this back and forth of our brain

is actually killing the cells in our brain.

And Andy Puddicombe, who's a former Buddhist monk

and co-founder of Headspace--

he's also an entrepreneur.

A venture entrepreneur.

He really is out to demystify the idea of meditation

in the workplace and everywhere else in our life.

He talks about this research that they did

and he says that the average office worker changes computer

windows 37 times an hour.

37 times an hour.

That's massive, isn't it?

And when our minds change gears that rapidly, part of our brain

is still engaged in the previous task,

so we don't have all the attention and resources

necessary to concentrate on the current task.

This slows down productivity and reduces our ability

to filter relevant information from irrelevant information.

So it kills our ability to focus.

That's like, I think, super powerful

when we think about this kind of research.

That proves that instead of just doing

one thing at a time, if we're switching back and forth,

we're being less productive.

Actually, I have a little personal story.

I was interviewing a potential virtual assistant

to work in my business with me and it was our third phone

call.

And I had already told her that I

wanted to talk to her when she was in her office

because I don't talk to people while they're

driving because I know that they won't be able to concentrate.

They think it's because I'm thinking of their safety,

but it's really about having more

of a meaningful conversation being able to concentrate.

And she just started yelling at me.

She said, oh, my gosh.

Erika, you completely, like, don't respect the fact

that I can do two things at once.

And I thought, OK.

So that's what she believes.

So I said, no, I respect your beliefs of what you think.

And then we eventually ended the conversation

that we weren't a good match.

But there was a Frontline special a few years ago

and they did--

a lot of the research was local.

Frontline is local.

And they had a lot of MIT students

on there who said the same exact thing that this woman said

to me, as though I'm different because I'm really smart

and I can do this.

I can drive, I can talk to you at the same time.

And they did all this research with these students,

and the students discovered that it doesn't

matter how intelligent you are.

When you're attempting to multitask, it slows you down.

And there's so many little games that I

do when I do live presentations that

show this really concretely.

So I just want us to all think about that.

In what ways can we actually stop that and see how we feel?

Does that reduce how stressful we feel or how anxious we feel?

And I think you actually will see a big shift in that.

And this is some interesting new research

that I just read a few months ago

that says that even the anticipation of knowing

an interruption could come up decreases our focus

and attention.

So imagine that you're sitting at work

and you're doing some work, but you're thinking really,

you're waiting for this text to come

in from your friend about what you're doing later on at night.

Even the anticipation-- even if you don't go to the phone,

even if your phone is off but you

have that anticipation because you're used to it

is going to make you less focused and less

available to have full attention on whatever you're

doing at work.

So this is a big challenge that I

have for everybody on the call.

And just if you can do this for three days

and see how you feel.

To turn your personal mobile off while you're at work--

and I'm going to say I know most you're

going to say, oh, my gosh.

I can't do that.

So I'm going to give-- in a minute I will share

with you a better way to get to those emails

during the day, those texts during the day and phone calls

that are personal.

So I'm not going to say that you can never get to them.

I'm going to give you a little technique where

you can get to them.

And it has to do with our next slide.

So here are a few apps that I know increase our productivity

and creativity.

Once again because of my personal use,

but also because of research out there.

So I only want you guys to obviously get them

if you have a need for them.

If you have something else that already does

or you feel like you don't need more creativity

or productivity in your life, then

don't get these apps, right?

Because, of course, that would be going against everything

else I've said up to now.

So the first one is called Coffitivity.

And you can get this by just being in a cafe.

But if you're not in a cafe and you want some ambient sound,

what it does is it creates the noise, white noise, of a cafe.

Which has to be at a certain level.

So it's different.

Like you might be in a cafe and then

someone screeches really loudly.

That isn't white noise.

That's going to take you out of your concentration.

But they've discovered-- a good deal of research

on this that demonstrates that if it's a certain decibel

and it's not in the way of your creativity

and it's in the background, it actually

increases our creativity.

So that's one app that you can use.

And what you see right here on the screen

is both of these apps being used together.

The first one that I just mentioned,

Coffitivity, and then the Time Out.

The Time Out is in the front and the Coffitivity

app in the background just--

you can also get in on your phone, that one.

But Coffitivity-- and that's just

the version that you see on your computer

is in the background of the Time Out.

So what you can do is just plug in no matter

where you are and you can hear these background noises.

They have free versions and then they

have ones where if you want the Paris cafe, you have to pay.

So either way.

And then Time Out is this app that I

love that I use on my computer.

I have it set to start when my computer starts.

So I don't have to remember to turn it on because I

know I would forget.

And this is an awesome app.

I love it.

It's the one with the little trees

and the hammock swaying in the middle of the palm trees.

And what you do is you set it so when you want breaks to happen

and you set how long you want the breaks to happen.

And then it pops up on your screen

and it makes you take a break.

Now, we all know there are loads of techniques

out here about breaking-- of taking breaks

and a lot of research on that.

That's why the Pomodoro Technique is very popular.

You know, the one with the tomato.

Because all the research says this many minutes

gives you a better break.

But this Time Out lets you set whatever you want.

So if you like, if you believe that the Pomodoro, the research

with that about the breaks being a certain amount of time,

you can do that, but you can also change it to whatever time

you want.

And it will pop up and tell you, you know, take the break.

Now let's say you're on the phone

and you're using your computer.

You could also, like, say, OK, five minutes.

Let me stop for a second there and let it,

you know, wait for a minute so that you don't have to--

you can be on the phone and still use your computer.

You can say wait for five minutes then come back on.

And so these are just two apps that I find really, really

amazing and that really, really help me take the break

and help my clients take the break without having

to think about it.

And a lot of the research out there on breaks

really shows that when we take a break, our brain can reset.

There's research from the University of Sussex.

There's research from MIT.

There's research from people who do movement research in terms

of how our body is moving around.

So it's also good to move during that time.

Research on people when they take breaks and they go away

and they talk to other people in the office,

they actually are increasing their productivity

because they're relating to people in the office.

There's tons and tons of research on that.

And if I had more time, I'd tell you all about it.

So next slide.

One little quick thing I want to tell you about

is this guy that his stuff is amazing.

The Center for Neuroacoustic Research.

His name is Jeffrey Thompson.

So we all know by now from what I've

been saying that creativity and productivity are

linked together.

And that when we increase our creativity, our productivity,

the other increases.

And I really think that really no matter what any of us

are doing that we can be creative in any job.

There's some creativity that's going on there.

Whether it's a doctor in the emergency room

who can come up with a new technique

to how things can run smoother, or as an artist who

is painting.

So many people think that only artists are creative,

but all of us are creative, have a capacity

to increase our creativity in our jobs.

So his stuff is amazing.

Just check out his website.

Center for Neuroacoustic Research.

He has stuff for all kinds-- not just

for creativity and productivity, but for all kinds of things

like reducing stress.

And he does binary tracks that can be heard

without you having headphones.

So you can play it and it still works in the binary capacity,

meaning that it changes your brain

and how your brain is set up.

Which I think is amazing.

So definitely recommend checking out his stuff.

Two apps that I think work really well on our phone.

Once again, if you need them.

But if you don't need the use I'm going to tell you,

then don't get them.

Evernote works very, very well with Scannable.

My little arrow, I just realized, is--

the right one is going to the wrong app.

It should be going to the one with the butterfly that's

underneath there and Scannable because these two

work in tandem with each other.

So these can really help you when

you think about reimbursable receipts for work.

You can use these apps together, Scannable and Evernote,

in different ways, too.

But I'm just going to talk for a second

about using them for work.

And that is that you can take a shot of them that

makes a searchable PDF, which is different from taking a photo.

And that's why I would say don't use

don't use the photo app even though the potential is

there to take a photo.

And then you can have it sent automatically

once you scan it to Evernote.

And Evernote is just a place where you can put things.

And then once they're in there, they'll

show up on the computer version.

So then you can take the file and you can put it

into another file in your computer,

and it could be all your receipts

that you're going to submit to your company to get reimbursed.

And that's really one simple way to do it where it's automatic.

You scan it, then you can get rid of the receipt.

You can throw it away if you're traveling.

And it will go right to your Evernote into a folder

that you can label as receipts or whatever

you want that folder to be.

That saves a lot of time when we're talking either

whether you're running your own business, working for somebody

else and you want to scan your receipt.

So like I said, Scannable and Evernote

can be used in a lot of different ways,

but I just wanted to give you that quick way.

And one more thing I want to talk about

before our last poll, our second poll,

is a very, very simple technology that we all use

is Word.

Microsoft Word.

And these can be used to break a massive project into small,

those microscopic, small tasks that I was just telling you

about when I was saying let's break

things into really small tasks.

Because I know that we all get overwhelmed and then

we don't do anything.

And we're in a work environment whether we

work for ourselves or somebody else

is that we want to be most productive

and get the ball rolling.

And a ball in motion stays in motion.

A body in motion stays in motion.

A body at rest stays at rest.

So once we get the ball going with the small, microscopic

tasks, its more likely that we do the next one

and do the next one, and things start happening.

So this little form I created to use with my clients,

you put the project name, you put the desired outcome,

you can also use those loads of apps

out there where you create projects.

And then you just put down the very small, microscopic tasks

down there.

So instead of saying that you're going to change your AT&T

deal to be automatic, you say I'm

going to call AT&T and ask them to automate my bill.

So it's very, very microscopic task.

It's not like the big project is very, very small.

So I want us all--

Jeff, I'm ready for that next poll, our last poll,

before we start with the Q&A. I want you guys all

to think about a project that you're doing right now at work.

Just one of the projects that you have going on in your work

right now that you feel most overwhelmed about.

I would pick the one that you feel the most overwhelmed--

that feels really, really big.

If you have one of those.

Maybe some of you don't, and that's awesome.

But if you do, I want you just to like pick which one is--

what do you think is the next task

that you need to do for it?

Is it to call someone, email someone, to research?

You always want to start with an action verb

because our brains read the action like call, email,

research, we're more likely to do it.

And think about what that next task is.

You have to think about just the microscopic.

Remember, microscopic tasks for the project.

Is it to process something?

Is it to-- yup.

Sorry.

We have a large number of possible answers.

Are you able to see all of the results?

I can see them all.

Yeah.

I do.

Yup.

It's big.

That screen is bigger than it was before,

so I can see everybody.

It's interesting.

This is actually fascinating to me

because it looks like research and process are coming up

as number one, and 30% and 26--

and actually, oftentimes when I'm working with my clients,

those are the ones they don't think of even though they're

very, very--

usually it's something that they need

to do because they jump right to making the task too big.

And when you start to really break down,

you see, oh, look, I need to actually do

some research first.

Or I need to process this paperwork first.

And then I can take the next step.

So I think that if you think about using

the form that I put here-- and you can create your own.

You can email me if you want to and I'll

send you my version of it.

I have two versions.

One is a printed version and one is an electronic version

that you can use.

And a lot of people still like paper

and they like to write stuff down,

so they love the printed version.

But either way, it actually really helps

you get a handle of breaking stuff

into really microscopic tasks.

So Jeff, we can take that away and go onto our last bit here.

So it looks like research and process, yeah,

they still were the top two.

Oh, awesome.

Thanks, Jeff.

The other thing I tell people to do

is to use this form in tandem with a timer.

Because if you want to work on a project that's overwhelming

you and it's been overwhelming you, there's a reason.

And if you think that it's going to suck up your whole day

or your whole life, you are less likely to do it.

So I say to use a timer.

So this Howler Timer I love because it

makes the sound of a wolf howling when the time is up.

And it works on your computer but as we know,

you could just use your phone if you want.

But I like this one because it's on my computer

as opposed to my phone, and it's a very distinct howling sound.

And what I do is I set it--

and my clients, too.

I tell them set it for like 15 minutes, work on the first task

and when it's done, go on to something else.

You can go on to your email or go on to something else.

That way you don't feel like this task

that you've been procrastinating on or this project

is taking up all of your time.

Once you get used to that, you won't

be so adverse to sitting down and handling it fast like that

because you know that you have a set amount of time.

So I'm open to any questions that you guys might

have about anything I've said or anything related to any of this

that I didn't say.

I always remain open in this way that usually

someone else's question has something in there for you.

Some nugget for you or something that you

can take away, even if you don't have that exact question.

So I know that everyone's question is super valuable.

Awesome.

Thank you, Erika.

We've got a sort of a nuts and bolts question

that's come in from Shelly.

And as we ask it, I'll remind everybody,

take this opportunity to ask Erika questions you have

by typing them into the Q&A chat box

at the bottom of the screen.

Erica Shelly is wondering specifically

about the app you mentioned, Scannable.

She is wondering if it only works with Evernote

or are there other sort of note taking and document sharing

devices that Scannable works with?

I think it works with one other.

I'm going to look as you're saying that,

because I think they really built it to work with Evernote.

So Evernote existed first.

So I think that might be the only one

it sends to automatically.

So you can use it obviously just to scan stuff,

but then getting it to your computer

is the part that you really want.

You know, that's the reason you want it is

because it would be automatic.

So I'm just looking at it now and looking at the settings.

Like it lets me--

nope.

It only works with Evernote.

OK.

My guess is--

I would ask Shelly, is there another

she's thinking she wants it specifically to work with?

Because I would go backwards that other way.

So does she want to tell us?

Is she thinking of another one that she already has

and she's using?

Shelly, do you want to go ahead and just answer that using

the Q&A chat box? like in--

Yeah.

Shelly, just let us know.

Because then you might actually look at that app and see

does it have something similar to Scannable?

Otherwise, I highly recommend even the free version

of Evernote, but the paid version lets you do more.

It's super awesome for a lot of things.

But I understand.

Like if you're already using an app

that you want to just use already, obviously

that goes along with my whole presentation is about

having less being more.

So Shelly is actually-- it looks like she

might be a BU employee.

BU being the number one employer of BU alumni.

But the travel and reimbursement platform is through--

oh, boy.

What the heck is the name of that?

Anyway.

Shelly, I have to guess as a BU employee myself

that the security levels on that travel and reimburse-- oh.

Concur.

Exactly.

The security levels on those are so crazy,

I bet there's no apps you can really connect to that.

I don't know.

But what you can do is you can still

use it to get it onto your computer.

So what happens is you scan it, it goes into Evernote,

then you've got a version that's on your computer,

and then you can put it into the BU system.

Whatever the system BU wants.

Because it's going to be a PDF at that point.

Right.

You know what I mean?

So that way you have it on your computer

and you don't have to carry it around.

And it's less likely that it's lost.

And once again, they all end up in one spot

in one folder on your Evernote, and then you

can put it into the BU system.

Not a question, but a comment from Eden.

Eden wanted to make sure everybody

knows that a lot of Jeffrey Thompson's stuff--

and Erika, you obviously talked about the music

that he created--

is available both on Spotify and on Apple Music.

I'm guessing that Eden's talking about free versions of that

that you don't have to pay for it.

But Eden, thanks for chiming in with that.

So Spotify, yes, would be free.

But Apple would probably be if you're

paying for the Apple service, because otherwise not

as far as I know for the Apple service.

Yeah.

But it's really awesome to think about free version of it.

Yes.

Great.

Thanks for telling us that.

[inaudible] question.

And I think I know the answer.

But she's asking regarding the timed breaks that you talked

about sort of putting in, do you feel

like an app is really necessary if your phone already has

airplane mode and timers?

Yeah.

So you could do airplane mode, yes, for your phone.

You don't-- that's different.

I didn't recommend an app for silencing your phone.

I just said turn it while you're working.

So yes.

And then what was the other one that she just said?

For the timer?

Tell me that part again.

Right.

If your phone already has airplane mode and built-in sort

of, like, stopwatch timers.

Yeah, but that's not the same as breaking your computer

and stopping you from working.

So this app that I'm recommending, the Time Out,

actually stops you and reminds you to stop.

And it pops up so you can't work at your computer

unless you click something and say I want to, like,

put a pause on it and have it come back later.

So I don't think we remember to set breaks,

so that's why I think it's better than using your phone.

Because your phone isn't going to say

every hour to stop you for three minutes.

Do you know what I mean?

Whereas this app will do that.

You set it and, you know, every hour

you want it to stop for three minutes,

or every 25 minutes you want it to stop for five minutes.

Do you know what I mean?

It does something very different than what

your phone is capable of doing.

But the airplane mode, she's right.

If you just want to, like I said,

put your phone on airplane mode or shut your phone

off when you're working, yes, of course.

You don't need an app for that.

An additional app for that.

Melissa is asking if you can clarify more

about Howler Timer.

Were you able to integrate that into an actual Word doc,

or is it just something that runs alongside other apps

on your computer?

Yes, it's a separate document altogether.

You download it.

It's free.

You'll see a little wolf and a moon.

Like a little wolf baying in front of the moon.

And it's an app that runs on your computer.

And once again, you can set it to start at your computer

when it starts up so at least you

remember to use it when you use it

in tandem with working on a task or something like that.

Yeah.

And I looked at a lot of different people

before I actually really picked that one

because, once again, it works on your computer

and not on your phone.

So when you're working on a product on your computer,

it's going to say, OK, you're done now.

10 minutes is up.

And you can also use it in other ways.

Like I use it when I work with my success partner

and we talk every week on the phone.

And we each have a section in our 45 minutes

where we bring something to the table

and we have five minutes each.

So I use it for that, too.

You can use it for, like, a meeting.

To remind you to stop the meeting because you

might forget in an hour, and meetings sometimes go too long.

So you can use it for a lot of things.

But once again, it runs on your computer, not on your phone.

Shelly, thanks for your question.

Yes, we are recording this webinar and it will be

available in about a week on our website at bu.edu/alumni.

If you navigate to the Careers section,

there's a whole section for where this webinar will

be posted along with 90% of all the other ones

that we've done in the last four years or so.

So make sure you check that out.

Erika, I've got a question of my own for you.

You said at the beginning of your presentation

that you really recommend people use just one calendar.

That's actually something I've struggled with in the past.

95% of what I'm tracking on my calendar

is through my work calendar.

You know, it's Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday

appointments et cetera, et cetera.

So I'm investing a lot of time in people's birthdays,

other personal things that I want to remember

are in my work calendar.

But what happens if suddenly I don't work here anymore?

How do you recommend I would sort of navigate that?

I'm guessing that might be true for a lot of folks that

need to use their work calendar for the majority of what

they're trying to track.

So you have to know the platform because there's

different answers depending on the platform that you're using.

So what's the platform you're using at work?

I'm using Outlook.

Yeah.

Outlook.

I was going to say that's usually the one.

Yeah.

So if you're putting everything into Outlook--

and then I'm assuming it's syncing to your phone,

too, right?

So you get birthdays and events that are personal also there,

right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

So does that mean that people at work

can see your personal calendar, too?

Or is there a way that you're making stuff personal?

Like, private.

Yeah.

That's another thing I see people bring up to me.

I'm the only one that can actually see

the details of the appointment.

Right.

So what I would say is that if you weren't going

to work there, you'd plan and you

would export it into another platform before you left.

That would be the solution because it sounds like you're

at least only at one calendar.

A lot of times when I see clients on Outlook who also

work on an Apple platform at home,

then they've got two calendars because they're not

integrating them, right?

So sometimes they do one where they integrate them

in a way that it's going to, like, a Google Calendar

so it lives in the cloud.

But since you're not doing that, you already just

have everything on Outlook, what I would

say is you'd migrate it usually through one platform that's

intermediary platform to the new platform that whatever you--

if you're bringing them to a new job

or you're just going to be working for yourself

and you want to start your own, you know,

have it be on something else.

That's what you would do is export it.

Elizabeth weighed in with a thought of her own,

and sort of a question while we were talking about calendars.

Elizabeth is asking what I think of as sort

of the existential question about technology.

Her point is digital calendars are not foolproof.

Is a written back not a good idea?

She's experienced iCloud glitches,

had appointments disappear.

And that's true of all technology, right?

Yes.

Completely.

OK.

So there's two things she's bringing up.

One is the whole backing up issue of how you can stop it

from things disappearing.

The other is just glitches, which

has happened to everybody.

It's even happened to me where I'm like, wait,

I know I changed that.

Where's the change that I made on that calendar's day?

So that's different.

And that's something that can--

I don't recommend having a paper backup just because that

can happen, I just recommend that the next step

is making sure that we have three versions of everything

that we have electronic in terms of calendar, tasks,

those kinds of things that we have that

are syncing back and forth.

So this is how you do it.

Number one, it's on your computer.

So let's say you have a calendar that you

have the version that's on your computer.

Number two, you've got the one on your mobile.

That's the same one.

It's, like, syncing with your phone.

So I consider that to be one.

The phone and the computer.

Number two, you have an external backup.

That's a hard drive that's backing up to your computer.

That's if you're talking personal or running

your own business.

If you work for BU, for instance, or anybody else,

they're backing up to a server.

So if something happens and your computer is stolen,

your phone is stolen, it's backed up to the server.

But you need to create that physical backup for yourself

on your personal and/or for your own business.

Then there's the third backup that is the cloud.

So I recommend having a Carbonite, something like that,

where everything--

CrashPlan is just stopping their personal,

they're just integrating into Carbonite,

and so they're not going to have that anymore.

But CrashPlan was a great one out there.

There are loads of them where as soon

as you're connected to the internet on your computer,

everything is backed up.

Automatically it's happening so that you have three ways

that things can be backed up.

So for instance, I was just in Argentina

and my personal mobile got stolen.

A guy, like, drove by in a motorcycle,

ripped my phone right out of my hand

as I was holding it in on the sidewalk.

So I didn't have to worry because everything on there

was backed up to the cloud.

So I didn't lose--

I had seven months of photos on there.

But I didn't have to worry.

I-- when I bought aa-- that's why I

bought a new phone, by the way.

I was all backed up.

And same thing, all my calendar, everything on there

was backed up to the cloud.

Same thing with your computer.

If someone comes along and takes the backup drive, the hard one,

and takes your computer, you're still

backed up to the Carbonite or whatever

you're using to back it up.

So all that can be restored.

Everything from your bookmarks, every little thing

on your computer, all your docs are

going to be stored on your new computer.

So that's what I recommend.

In terms of the glitches, yeah, I

think we just have to live with that.

That happens.

And sometimes it's our fault. We make a little mistake.

Like we didn't save the thing right or whatever.

We learn from that when we do that.

Oh, crap.

I should've just pressed save, and that would have saved that.

But you're right, sometimes that happens.

There are glitches.

We're running right up against our hour,

but Ed has a question I think would be great

for us to end on.

OK.

Go ahead.

Let's go for it.

Yeah.

Ed [inaudible] thank you for sharing your expertise, Erika.

Do you find that younger people who

have been raised in the mobile and app world

manage these challenges better or worse

than older generations?

Oh, what a great question.

So I definitely think that when we are doing any projects

or working with people that either

are of a different generation or they're

from a different field than us that we have to take

all that into consideration.

So I-- and this is only my personal experience.

And though I've read some research on this and ways

to better work with millennials--

they have opinions about this sort of thing.

And when I read some of the advice,

I think, oh, that could be good for anybody.

So I have found that younger people are more

challenged because they didn't grow up with it any other way.

Whereas me for instance, I saw it a different way,

and I remember that different way,

and I sometimes can think about how

I can go back to that because I had seen it

and lived a different way.

So when people say, can you live without the internet?

I say, yeah.

I have, and sometimes I do, and I'm OK with that.

Whereas someone who is younger than me, like in their 20s,

or are going to be with the moment--

I did a project with a bunch of students at BU recently,

and I definitely noticed that it was way much harder

for them to be there and be really present

and not be as distracted and be on their devices.

And also they expected me if they sent an email to me

that I would respond within like an hour.

Really super quickly.

So I set the expectation.

I changed that with them.

I said, if we do this together, I

want you to know that I won't be responding

to emails that quick.

So I definitely find that it's more

challenging for younger people.

Interesting.

Well, Erika, thank you so much the time that you've put in.

Obviously you've shared you do have your own business,

and you have shared your expertise

for free with the alumni community.

And so I really appreciate that.

And I'm curious if you could tell

us more about how alumni can follow up

with you to learn more.

You've got a great offer here for our alumni.

Yes.

So I'm sure all of you on the call have seen.

It's been up here, so I don't have to really explain it.

But there is a free way, and then there

is a way if you want to dive a little deeper with me.

And those are actually such a real value.

Like, I really do charge those rates really,

and this is just a value that you guys

can get until the 14th of November with me.

All you have to do is email me or call me.

If you go to my website living-harmony.org,

you will see a phone number on every single page.

If you have any questions, too, just feel free to call me.

Anything you have a quick question on,

anything that you want me to give you a tip on,

or anything like that, completely

feel free to call me.

And then I want to leave you with one other thing.

I want you guys to think about one action

that you're willing to commit to again tomorrow that

arose as a result of our time together.

So if you can think of one thing that you're like, yeah,

I can do that thing.

I can start it tomorrow and see what happens.

See if I feel a change.

And jot it down right now somewhere.

That's, like, what I want to leave you with.

Because I always think if we can always just do

one little thing, then things start to shift and snowball,

like I said, in a good way.

So thanks, everybody, for being here

and sharing this time with me.

Thank you again, Erika.

I'm a little bit ashamed that I was multitasking while you were

doing your presentation, but my one thing

that I'll start tomorrow is I've already

downloaded the Coffitivity app to my phone.

So that's something that I'll be trying.

And again, I really-- on behalf of the BU Alumni Association,

I want to thank you for your time and your expertise

that you've shared today.

You're welcome.

Ciao, everybody.

My thanks also go out to all of our guests for participating.

Specifically, we want to thank those of you who

have donated to BU in the past.

We have another excellent webinar

coming up next week on November 16.

We're presenting Bringing Your Passion Into Work

for Sustainable Innovation.

Really interesting alum who works for the Mars corporation

is going to be talking about his work inside the company.

Sort of reinventing some great things

and effecting some change around the globe.

I encourage all of you to visit our website

at bu.edu/alumni/events to see the full schedule of alumni

opportunities and events coming up.

As always, if you or any BU alum you know

would be interested in presenting

a professional development webinar like this for the BU

Alumni Association, feel free to contact me

at the alumni relations office or by email at jtmurphy@bu.edu.

Thank you, everybody, for your time.

Have a great day or a great evening, wherever you might be.

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