Waching daily Jan 1 2018

According to a recent report by the New York Times and polling data conducted by Morning

Consult, white Republican men are far more likely to report that they have sexually harassed

women in the workplace than any of their counterparts regardless of race or political affiliation.

It is white Republican men who admit to sexually harassing women more so than any other group.

The other groups say that no, they do not engage in that kind of behavior at numbers

that the Republicans obviously exceed.

25% of men in this new survey and report by the New York Times and Morning Consult say

that they have engaged in this kind of behavior in the workplace, either by making inappropriate

comments to women, making inappropriate sexually explicit jokes to women, or other similar

behavior.

And again, it is white male Republicans who are more likely to say that yes, this is how

they typically act in the workplace towards women.

Here's what's interesting about this and the New York Times report did not go into this

part of it.

If you've been paying attention to the Republican Party for the last 40, 50 years, this really

comes as no suspire.

The Republican Party has basically built it into their party platform that women are not

equal to men.

Women should not have the right to say what happens with their own bodies.

The men, the men in DC, the men in their families need to be the one to make those decisions.

Women, according to some people in the Republican Party, like Roy Moore, shouldn't even be allowed

to vote.

Some right wing talking heads don't think that women should be involved in politics

in any way.

According to people on the right, women are beneath men and that's where they belong.

So, this new study showing that white Republican men are more likely to sexually harass women

is not surprising whatsoever.

That is built into the Republican mindset that men are able to do whatever they want

to women, and the women just have to be subordinate and take it.

Well this year has changed all of that.

The Me Too Movement is probably the only good thing that came out of 2017, or at least the

best thing that came out of 2017.

I don't want to downplay anything else that happened this year, as far as these political

and social movements go, but the Me Too Movement was the biggest and the best, and that is

the one that needs to continue more than anything else in 2018.

Women need to be heard.

Women need to be in positions of power in the United States and we need to understand

that nobody, regardless of age, sex, religion, sexual orientation, whatever, nobody is beneath

you.

Nobody is above you.

Equality is where we need to get and I know we're probably not even gonna get there in

my lifetime, but as long as we keep voting in these Republican men, who think that women

are beneath them, we will continue to not make any progress whatsoever.

If are more women out there, I don't care if you've got accusations against a Democrat

or a Republican or a celebrity that everybody loves, come forward and make your voice heard.

That's what this year was all about.

You have the platforms.

You have the public's attention.

It's time for these men to understand that this kind of behavior is not going to be tolerated

anymore.

If we change this, if women continue to speak out, if these powerful men continue to go

down for the behavior that they have carried out for decades, maybe we can start to see

some progress on this, and just maybe these poll numbers showing that 25% of men admit

to sexually harassing women in the workplace, maybe in a few years we can knock that down

to 15, to 10 and hopefully eventually

to zero.

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SLASHEC - The World (ft. Eskil) - Duration: 4:57.

All the colors we can see

All the sounds that we can hear

And all the touch that we can feel

Though one day we'll cry and kneel

All the things it has for us

All the people we can trust

And all the chances it can give

Though one day we'll disappear

Take a deep breath and look around!

Take all you can from every sound

There's nothing we can't really do

As'long as we're really trying to

Just hold my hand!

I won't let go until I'm dead

As world moves on we will not stay

But we'll have fun along the way

(Just look how much you have...)

Every second that it brings

Every memory it gives

And every smile on someone's face

Every lovely embrace

(You are everything I need...)

(You are everything I need...) Everything that makes you true

Everything that's bad or good

And everything you did and do

I love every part of you

Take a deep breath and look around!

Take all you can from every sound

There's nothing we can't really do

As'long as we're really trying to

Just hold my hand!

I won't let go until I'm dead

As world moves on we will not stay

But we'll have fun along the way

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How To Deal With a Control Freak - Duration: 12:57.

So what does plumbing have to do with dealing with a control freak? I think we

can answer that today.

Control freaks. Okay, let's be honest as we get started

on how to deal with a control freak. Is it you? Sorry, I know I tick people off

all the time when I illuminate things to them that they didn't want to see but

honestly, as we talk about this topic, just check and see how much of this is

is riding on you. Is it you that wants the control? I say that because a lot of

times the things that annoy us the most about other people, are things that maybe

we could be working on ourselves. So I'm opening up with that disclaimer and I

know we're going to have ten people unsubscribed because of that but just be

honest with yourself, okay. Because if there's some element of control

freakishness inside of you that has you asking the question in the first place

then looking at that is going to serve you very well. Now having said that, let's

talk about some ways to deal with all of those control freaks out there cause we

know that they're all worse than us, right? Here's my thought.. Control, first of

all, why do people want control? Control is basically synonymous with freedom. We

all want control over our own lives, right? We want to be able to choose and

direct our life. What gets tricky about control is everybody else that has their

freedom and they're exercising it in a way that may impinge or restrict

our own control, right? Okay, so that's where control battles come into play. I

have to tell you about an experience I had several years ago. I was doing a

home-improvement project in my house that required some plumbing. Now I'm a

psychologist, I'm not a plumber. They both start with P but that's kind of where

the similarities end. I thought until I got into this project

and as I was trying to figure out how to how to accomplish this little plumbing

thing that I need to do, it wasn't huge or major, I'm going to call it professional for

those things but a little project that I needed some help with. So I called up

my dad. My dad knows everything, like most dads and as a gave dad a

call, his experience included some plumbing and he had enough wisdom that

he could counsel with me and he said, "Paul, there's really only two things you

need to know about plumbing. There are two basic rules to plumbing." "Oh, I'm

interested. Tell me, enlighten me." He says, "Okay, rule number

one, water runs downhill." Okay, awesome. Kind of already knew that

but it's good to remember that if you're installing a drain pipe. Water runs

downhill. Got it, dad. What's the second rule? Rule number two, don't lick your

fingers. Okay, I laughed. He was kind of being funny but

that's a good rule. If you've ever installed a toilet, you know what we're

talking about here. Water runs downhill, don't lick your fingers. As long as you

know those two things, you can handle this basic plumbing job. Well because I'm

a psychologist, I have to apply everything to psychology so I'm looking

at these rules of plumbing and I'm realizing you know what that has

everything to do with dealing with a control freak. Why? Because there's two

rules to psychology, alright. Rule number one, this is the water runs

downhill rule, rule number one, some things you control, other things you

don't. Got it? That seems so obvious, it's just like

gravity, you never get up in the morning and think, I wonder if gravity's on today.

It always is and it always affects you in the same way, some things you

control, other things you don't. Whether you believe that or not is irrelevant.

It's true. Rule number two, this is the don't lick your fingers rule. Pay

attention to the things that you do control, alright. That's all you need to

know. Some things you control, other things you don't. Pay attention to the

things that you do and be wise enough to know the difference.

I meet with parents a lot and I want to give you an example from parenting

because as parents come to my office and talk about the things that are bothering

them, they usually make a whole list of things that they don't control like

their kids behaviors. Do you control that as a parent? No but that's

what you're concerned about, right? My kids' grades, my kids' choice of friends, my

kids' choice of activities, whether my kid is using substances or not, whether my

kid is suicidal or not, what kind of music my kids listen to. Do you see how

all of these things are controlled by the kid, not the parent? Well, what's on

the parent's list? What is a parent control about their kids' life? This is

where a lot of parents are like, "Oh, I got nothing." You got something. Be clear about

what it is that you control. What do you control? Okay, well let's make a little

list cause usually parents in my office at this point are a little flustered,

they're like, "I don't know." You control your own attitude and behavior. True? Yes,

you do. You control your own language, you control your own life, okay, and by now,

parents are like "Yeah yeah yeah" but what does that have to do with my

kid? Well it has everything to do with it because how you show up is going to

determine your level of influence but not only that, it controls your

experience in life. You want to have a better life? Get focused on your own list.

Now here's where it interacts with your child's list really nicely. You control

as a parent, now I'm talking parenting but keep in your mind what does this

have to do with a control freak that I'm working with on the board or at the

office or in the community, okay. Just keep that in the back of your mind for a

minute. You control what you provide. Now that is HUGE okay. In the kids example,

it's especially obvious. You provide goods and services and access to all

kinds of things, you control things that you do for them, right? You control all of

that, they don't. Now what are your kids worried about? Are they worried about all

the stuff on their list? No, they're worried about the stuff on

your list. That's good news and it ties into the three rules that I'm

give you next for a control battle because when we're dealing with a

control freak, we often find ourselves in a control battle, right? So three rules

for you, here we go. Rule number one, avoid them, not your kids, not your boss, not

that control freak. I mean avoid the power struggles, don't get into them if

you don't have to. Make sure as you look at that hill that you're willing to die

on that hill before you march up it. Pick your battles wisely okay and avoid those

control battles if you can. That's rule number one.

Rule number two, if you can't avoid them, win them. You like that rule? Yeah, I want

you to win. Incidentally, I tell teenagers the same thing here in my office. I tell

them avoid the control battles with your parents but if you can't avoid them you

win them. By now, the parents are like, "Dude, we're the ones that are paying you."

But I'm giving them this same advice. Avoid the control battles, if you can't

avoid them, win them. How do you do that? Rule number three, you pick the issues

and you do this by selecting something from your own list. Do not get into a

control battle with a control freak or anyone else over something that's on

their list. Why? Because you can't keep rule number two, you will not win that

battle if you don't control it. So you always pick something from your own list

and that way, you can ensure that you're going to win that control battle. Okay so,

you want an example? Let's stay with the parenting thing because that

honestly, that's where most of the control battles happen in my

experience and I got a lot of experience with that too because I've worked

clinically with families for so long so let's use that parenting example but

please keep the mind open for how this might apply in other settings and with

other people okay because the principles are consistent. Let's go back to a

teenager for example and let's say that mom and dad are concerned about the kids'

grades for example. Whose list is that on? Kids. Parents don't control that. I had

one mom say, "Oh, well so am I just supposed to let him fail?"

What do you mean let him? As if you have that power. Mom and dad are concerned

about the grades, what's the kid concerned about? Apparently not the

grades or at least he's kind of happy with where they are or if he's not, he's

not doing anything about it but he's the only one who can control that. Are we on

the same page with that so far? What is the kid concerned about? Well

let's pick something from mom and dad's list that they control, okay.

Do you remember when I gave you the little heads up to what we provide?

That's something we always control. Oh, and by the way, with your kids, I've got

to throw this in because ethically, I kind of need to do this. There are five

freebies, there are five things that your kids are entitled to because they're

your kids, not 50 things like they think, five. Number one is love. Don't mess with

it, you love your kids no matter what and even if. We're good with that?

Number two, air. I know, you don't provide air to them but you have no business

depriving them of it and it's sad that I have to even mention this but I had a

client who did about seven years at the point of the mountain in our prison

because her daughter died, you gotta have air, okay. You have no business depriving

them of that, air is a freebie. Are we clear?

Number three, water. Freebie for food and I don't mean preferred food, I mean

sustained life, I mean, keep the bellybutton away from the backbone.

You can't take food away from your kids. What kind of food you provide to them?

That's another conversation we could have. Number five, shelter and in our

society, that includes appropriate clothing. Notice that shelter doesn't

always mean a luxurious bedroom that's private to them, that's not required but

shelter is, okay. So we can have a lot of latitude outside of that. Five freebies,

don't get a mess with those, everything else, negotiable. You're with me? In this

transaction with the child, rather than getting into a control battle about the

grades, what should the parents focus on? What

they control, right? What they provide. Are they providing anything outside of those

five freebies that this kid might be interested

in maintaining? Oh yeah, telecommunications came to mind

immediately for this particular family because this kid had a cellphone. A lot

of kids that age do but they can't afford it themselves, who's providing it?

The parents. Do they have to? It's not on the list of five. So instead of getting

into a control battle over the grades, mom and dad are going to pick their issues

and they're going to get into a control battle over whether or not they provide

the cellphone? You follow? Now it's just a transaction and it's all business. Little

heads up, take the emotion out of the discipline and get it all focused on a

business transaction, put the emotion into your relationship because your job

is to love your kids no matter what and even if. Interesting little side note,

that's probably your job with people at work and in the community too. How does

this play out? What what if you're the teenager? What if you're the teenager

you're watching this video and you're like, "Dr. Paul, man, you're making my life

harder." No, not at all. You want something on your parents list? Control something

on your list and make a deal okay. You get on your grades because what if the

parents come up and say, "Hey you know what, we're not going to fight you over the

grades, you keep your grades above a B average, we provide cell phone coverage,

any questions?" Really? Can it be that simple?

Well maybe it is and then everybody's focusing on their own thing. You see how

that works? So remember, avoid them, if you can't avoid them, win them and you do

that by picking the issues and pick something that's on your list every time.

How to deal with the control freak? Hopefully that gives you some good

practical ways to approach this without one that you're dealing with.

If you're new here, be sure to subscribe right there and I'll see you tomorrow.

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Why She Doesn't Like You-5 Reasons Why She Rejected You - Duration: 3:59.

Rejection sucks, however, it is an important part of developing your game sometimes you can blame her for rejecting you however. It's sometimes

It's also a your fault today's video guys. I'll be giving you 5 reasons. Why she rejected you

Let's get it so number one is you misread her signals?

This is the most difficult one

But it is the most

important one there are signs that she gives up that means do not come up to me and talk to me you see her and

She has her headphones in her legs are crossed her body language is away from you

Hell if you never even caught her looking at you and a couple of times made eye contact a smile

These are all sided you should not go up to her and it's okay this takes practice

You got to see you got to feel it again. You may get rejected if you go, but it is okay?

It is the learning process

And this is a mistake many guys make because they see her oh she's hot imma go up to talk to her

It's not that easy you got to make sure that she invites you to go up and talk to her and it's not

Non-verbally, she smiles at you

She looks at you a couple of times a glancing stearic is a sign

however

If you have none of these signs you should not go up and talk to her cuz your chance of getting rejected what number

too high

But that was like when that's another reason why she probably reject you is because you were

Awkward that is another reason why she probably rejected because nobody wants to talk to someone who can't hold a conversation who kids a very

Awkward he gets very uncomfortable someone says something and there's an awkward silence you got to think from her perspective, too

It is wit and nothing makes you look more insecure than being awkward cuz you get your hands against

Where do you start doing some weird little step, and then you just start smiling randomly?

And you don't know what to say and that is a quickest way for her to say bye

number three

It's you oh

You stink that is the quickest way for every girl to reject you hell fuck even your friends me get away from you because you

Smelled that and I'm not just talking about Bo it can also be your Cologne if it's too much

It's overpowering how can you hold a conversation when you cut this?

Stench to you good or bad it too much is too much. That's a quickest way for her to be like

No, you're trying wait too much or not at all and just get out now the number four may seem strange that is giving too

Many compliments call the Mexico issue you notice things and appreciate things however too many you come off as desperate

And coming off as desperate is

Just as bad as coming off as an asshole because when you come off as desperate you really show how insecure you are if this

Person will reject you and you're doing whatever you can to please her and this also if all you can do is

Compliment it shows that you don't have a lot to talk about and if that's your only thing. Yeah compliments are nice

however They get very

Dull and very meaningless the more and more you repeat them right after another so guys make sure when you do give compliments it is

Subtle it is a few of them, and you don't overwhelm her that's very important a fifth and final ones

You couldn't make her laugh and with doing that entire conversation

You couldn't make her laugh smile even chuckle a little I am sorry

But you're you're done pretty much the very hard for her not to reject you when you couldn't make her smile laugh

Anything because people like being around people who give them a positive vibe, but if you couldn't do any of that it shows that

You're boring. There's not much to you

maybe you don't even have a good sense of humor and people don't want to be around them because you come off as

Boring plain just uninteresting and if someone comes around and makes her laugh. You're gonna feel. Sorry for yourself, but do bad

It's just part of the game

I'm not trying to believe that's just for me today guys if you found this video helpful drop a like

I want to know from you

What are some reasons you think you got rejected if you have a funny story share it down in the comments

I would love to read it if you're interested for more content for me feel free to subscribe to channel

I'm always posting three videos per week

I hope you guys have an amazing day

And I hope you kick off 2018 like a boss and I'll see you guys in the next video peace

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How To Fake 8 Hours Of Sleep - Duration: 5:56.

Hello Sunshines.

No, you haven't accidentally landed onto an ASMR channel.

ASMR?

MSRP?

UPC?

I don't know.

Im just trying to be considerate because I know that I today is national hangover day.

Now I know a lot of you still have to try and function today, so im gona give you my

tips for looking like you've had a full 8 hours worth of sleep, even if that couldn't

be further from the truth.

Everyone will think your so responsible.

So after you grab your gatoraide the first thing your going to want to do is wash your

face in cool water.

This is gona help constrict blood vessels which will help reduce redness and swelling,

particularly around the eyes.

Then your going to want to pull out all the hydrating products.

All of them.

Tired skin is usually dull, dry skin.

So feel free to be generous with the moisturizer.

And products that contain caffeine or green tea are great for giving you skin a little

extra boost.

Ok next your gona want to use a depuffing gel.

I like Garnier's eye rollers, particularly the tinted kind, because it adds a little

extra brightening.

But if you don't have that type of thing on hand, you can just take two spoons, pop them

in the freezer for a few minutes until they're nice and cool, then take them out and gently

press them over your eyes to help reduce puffyness and inflamation.

Now your going to want to stay away from heavy powders and anything really matte that may

make your skin look dull.

So to fake a dewy, hydrated complexion go lightweight with luminizing products.

Im gona mix my Becca First Light Priming Filter with my Loreal Lumi Foundation to get a really

sheer luminous application.

Then im just gona add a little bit of coverage where needed with my nars Radient Creamy Concealer.

So there is definately a time and place for a full on smokey eye.

Today is not that day.

You want to start by curling your lashes which is gona help open up sleepy looking eyes.

Then your gona swipe a single, shimmery, nude eyeshadow along your lids to help even out

and brighten.

Im using Urban Decay shadow in shade Sin.

Then apply a little nude eyeliner along your water line to help your eyes look bigger and

more awake.

Then your just going to liberally apply some mascara to help open up your eyes.

Lastly a bold lip is a great way to look a lot more put together than you may feel right

now.

So pop on a hydrating bold lip, I really like Anastasia Beverly Hills Lip Gloss in Carnival.

Alright, now that you at least look the part your as ready as you'll ever be to take on

the day.

Happy new year and don't forget to hydrate.

Oh yah, and don't forget to like and subscribe if this video was helpful for you so that

way you don't miss any of the videos coming out for you on mondays, wednesdays, and fridays.

And feel free to share if you know of anybody who could use a little sunshine in their day.

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What five foods should you eat as a little as possible? - Duration: 1:54.

What five foods should you eat as a little as possible?

Theoretically, all food should be consumed in moderation, so there should not be any foods you should avoid completely. However, there are five foods that I try to eat as little as possible:.

They are empty calories, does not make you feel full (causing you to eat more), is addictive and causes insulin resistance. Yikes. Think candy bars, high fructose fruit juices, white bread.

High in trans fat (increases cholesterol levels, increases risk of clogged arteries), high in calories.

 Increases blood pressure and causes bloating.

Baked pastries, cakes, cookies. Usually high in refined sugar, made with refined wheat flour and often high in disturbingly unhealthy fats like shortening (high in trans fat).

Junk food in general. Think french fries, potato chips, nachos, fast food.  Just not healthy for you.

This is my personal opinion; each persons dietary requirements do differ!.

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You're Invited! (to unfollow me if this annoys you) - Duration: 3:55.

Hi!

I recently had a conversation with a couple of close friends about what art is or when

something you make becomes art.

I was pretty challenged by one person's point of view.

They believed that if you were a master painter, and you made an incredible, meaningful painting,

and put it in your closet, and then your house burned down, then it was never art.

I still disagree with that person about what art is.

It's art if you say it's art, even if you hide it.

I have dozens of songs that have never done anything.

Someday I'm gonna die, and all of these lyrics and chords are gonna be in a pile of sticky notes.

It might be the worst case scenario of my life if none of it ever makes it out of my

bedroom, out of my head.

That conversation reminded me, I still value the connection between the person making something

and the person experiencing it.

There's a part of me that feels like I don't have permission to ask people to listen

to what I make.

It's a huge double standard, because when other people ask me to listen to what they've made,

or show me in whatever medium what they've made, I pretty much always want to see it.

And the reality is I had permission- I have- There have been lots of people saying

'Hey, I want you to make this into something real, and I want you to share it'.

And their permission was never enough, no matter how much authority they had.

Ultimately, the permission that I lacked was my own.

So, it's 2018, and I'm giving myself permission to embark on a project.

What am I trying to say here?

I want to hone my thinking process.

I want to be a well rounded human, and I want to make things that are good, and I want to

be seen by people.

And I think that forcing myself to make a finished product will be good!

So I guess I'm inviting you, if you're watching this, to see me.

I think my biggest fear is that people will be annoyed that I'm doing this.

So I hope you're not!

But if you are, you are invited to unfollow me, or press pause, and I don't know, read

a book.

Or, if you're looking for a reason to be annoyed, you're welcome.

The song I chose for January, it's about how the state of your life can change abruptly

and surprisingly.

You know, because you say, you say 'no', and you say 'maybe later, maybe later' until something

clicks, and then it shifts and it's never the same again.

How am I gonna wrap this up?

My battery is gonna die.

Yay!

Perfect end to a video.

Okay.