sex is good sex is beautiful having sex in whatever ways you want is beautiful
people and society make it bad the more you search for your answers of being
nothing in the bottom of some empty souls pussy the deeper you dig yourself
in that hole
and hello hello once again from San Antonio Steve Mayeda here it's the 26th of
December the day after Christmas and gentlemen today this is an important
topic because it's a topic that plagues every man searching for masculinity is
how do women fit into that picture of defining you it's there
but a lot of guys fuck it up and of course the reason why we do this podcast
the TSL podcasts been around forever so that you could get better with sex women
your perspective all that sort of good stuff but most importantly we want you
guys to use the material and part of using the material and bettering
yourself is going to the free stuff link and downloading our free guides whether
that has to do with men's perspective whether that has to do with getting laid
in sexual escalation opening women there's video courses PDFs all that sort
of stuff in the free stuff link and most importantly there's literally the most
important thing as I climb through the rough is you could be a part of men's
development excellence you could be a part of our community where we get on
calls we talk we're a community of men that's badass there's no bullshit to
this group man it's been around for a long time it's a badass it's gonna
fucking change your life so with that all being said guys how did we get here
well the cool thing is is we've been here many times before as I'm about to
go through this crazy brush to find my dogs I gotta find the best way so I'm
gonna take you there is that I was a lot of pickup board for better for worse and
it was on Facebook it's actually great cuz it's entertaining this fuck but I
chimed in on a line of a guy asking about players depression and I've never
heard that term before and I think that's what he called it maybe did maybe
didn't but he didn't listen to my advice cuz he's a dumbass and once listened to
a bunch of kids about his bullshit but he'll get there but he said I've fucked
over a hundred chicks and I'm depressed and life ain't so good and all this sort
of stuff that comes with it here's the thing guys is this happens over and over
again this happened to me in 2008 I gave speeches on this this happened to me
over ever again and I I pushed through it one
of the things that was so crazy about that time is I couldn't reach out to
anybody there were only two people that I knew of at the time in the industry
and there were a whole lot more people than I knew than that that could
actually talk to me on this and eventually in like 2009 I reached out to
him and you know what excellent guys I followed a lot of their advice but they
weren't the dudes who led me through it not because they're wrong but because I
wasn't smart enough to listen so here's the thing is when you fuck a lot of
people when you do that it's a good thing sex is awesome you're supposed to
fuck chicks you're supposed to want to chase chicks you're supposed to want to
run them down it's supposed to motivate you you're supposed to want to make love
to them you're supposed to want to ravage them you're supposed to want them
to worship you for you to worship them the whole gamut of sex and love that
comes into play it's not just one dimension it's not just one element of
man that's not just one expression of masculinity and that's the cool thing
falling in love is beautiful dominating is beautiful
you know fucking all night multiple women is beautiful
having three women at once is beautiful having one girl that you give your life
to is beautiful but see the problem is these men aren't fucking with their
masculine urge men have their masculine urge driving them towards sex but
they're fucking to fill some void within them so they feel better about
themselves there's literally hundreds of videos on this channel on this hundreds
hundreds check them out I'd advise you it's good shit but when you're fucking
to complete yourself or for revenge or for resentment or because you got picked
on or because you're depressed or because whatever or just because you
don't really know but all the cool guys are doing it and that somehow somehow
remains your impetus your draw to being sexual you fuck yourself and now we have
a culture of men who are no longer fucking for their bodies their sexual
urge their Drive no longer getting the result of sex and seduction that man is
so beautiful about it which I'm trying to preach over
over again TSL podcast boom but you get this culture of men that are doing this
big circle jerk and it's crazy because this dude this is awesome
his name's POA memes a fake motherfucker starts dogging me on it actually I was
probably an asshole to him first cuz it was just so stupid
what he was saying it was like it was so stupid what everybody on this thread
which has hundreds of comments was saying that yeah there were a few guys
same right said like hey man this shit happens let's talk about it there were a
couple other guys that said hey man this happens but uh you know you just gotta
power through it or whatever and then there were some guys were saying I
doesn't happen to me I got more lays than you could so fucking bullshit alpha
I got more lays than you and you know the only reason why I get depressed is
because you know my head's not right in the game and bitches make me feel better
or whatever bullshit they say but bullshit man bullshit I'm sick of men
talking about bullshit amongst each other about being men because that's how
you become a bitch that's how you become a guy that tags his friends to back him
up because he can't stand up for himself that's how you become a guy that has a
fake name where you don't have to be accountable to you in order to make an
expression of yourself that's a guy who lies to women who searches for solution
for resolution for peace in his life why he's a good person in the bottom of the
dirtiest pussy he can find because he can't stand up for who he is men let me
tell you sex is fucking awesome man fucking is awesome please do it fuck as
much as you can that's what you're supposed to do there's nothing wrong
with the behavior of sex there's something wrong with how you're
implementing it your urge your draw is telling you something in your body to go
chase after a woman to go find ecstasy to go find pleasure but you've got to
stop listening to the boys about it you've got to stop listening to the kids
about it and you need to start listening to people who've been there because let
me tell you something here's my story here's what happened I always tell you
my story man it's this the thing guys cuz I fucked like a
motherfucker 2006-2007 man new dad all the sort of stuff I'm fucking I'm
banging I'm getting good at it I'm with the PU a scene I got my boys in
I got my boys Captain Jack all encouraging me on I'm winning late
competitions I'm fucking railing a lot all over all over the US at this point
not international and I'm fucking and guess what I get to the point where I go
holy shit goddamn it who the fuck am i I don't even enjoy sex I'm mixing bitches
up I'm calling girls by the wrong name I'm mixing Cindy up with Melissa and I'm
thinking this girl likes to fucking this way and the other girl I'm on man it's
all lost and I feel bad and I don't feel anything I'm fucking I get to orgasm my
dick gets hard but fuck I don't feel anything with them and I start telling
myself you know what I never felt anything with him fuck I must be
fundamentally flawed my relationships also aren't working because of a whole
other issue that I'm an immature dumb fuck and dude I can't make it work sex
no longer has any sort of pleasure sex no longer has meaning but I can have it
not gonna have a lot of it and man I love bragging about it online 2008 right
when 2008 comes along I meet one of the loves of my life and I enjoy sex again
and it's beautiful and for five years we go through the one of the biggest
transitions in my life of how I come to enjoy sex again which is almost
immediate with her I'm like oh my god it wasn't a lie do enjoy sex I spent ten
days in a bedroom of that chick and it was fucking awesome man it was beautiful
because I realized that sex was beautiful again we hit the intimate
moments and see a guy who doesn't know when that first happened to me was like
aw man love picked up his bad fucking chicks is bad love is good but you know
what I was too fucked up to listen to that so I went and fucked some more we
had open relationships we swung I fucked more women when I was with her than I
did before had more affairs started to have affairs in Paris and Brazil and
Hungary and all over the fucking world woman flying me out it was fucking great
it was awesome and somewhere in between that I realized that sex was good but
how I was doing it was wrong that there were wrong things that I did to those
relationships where you know hey I was flying across the world with fucking
other chicks and there's nothing wrong with that there's nothing even wrong
with that if you have a girlfriend if that's okay with you guys if you're not
lying to yourself first and other people about it later if it's about bragging to
an online group about it more than actually having the experience and I
still to this day you know it's talking about the identity work book the other
day the identity work book I'll put another link to Abby should do it
because I did the newer version of it this isn't in the version that I'm
giving away but you guys will get it is that in the newer version of it I said
what are one of your happiest moments when your happiest moment in life and I
said there were two and these have changed now actually is crazy because
it's how the mind works but we should be in touch with ourselves one of the
happiest moments was dropping my kids off to school or my kid because the
other one wasn't going to school yet and I seen him rob the class picking him up
sometimes going to lunch with the happiest moment so one of the reasons
why I was potentially one of the happiest moments of my life was because
at that time I didn't see my son for five years happy mom and another one of
the happiest moments was waking up and I couldn't put my finger on this waking up
in a bed that wasn't yours somewhere in the world could have been down the
street could have been across the world with a woman that we just purged our
entire beans to and waking up in complete relief after a beautiful
beautiful sleep one of the beautiful most beautiful things in the world oh my
god so good so fucking amazing and in that there was also dysfunctional
there was lies there was bragging there was all the little kid bullshit but I
see these pickup bitches doing not being responsible for yourself talking shit
not being accountable man you want sex to move you you wanted to change your
fucking life because it goddamn well because you are fucking awesome and your
dick is golden let me show you how to make it so goddamn beautiful and have
women worship that thing fucking work for your cum god that's a beautiful
thing but in order to get that you've got to be a man that steps you can fuck
you can have any types of relationships you want you can work everything you
want but one be honest with yourself first hands down and it's not so simple
as just a sentence it's a way of life and be honest for those around you and
be responsible for your fucking actions and that's how you live the sexual life
in any case gentle men as you know the sexual life podcast is here for you man
let me know what you think you can put in the comments or more likely you can
email me but if you're a part of my groups and you work with me on that
capacity we talk about this shit a lot man we have calls Wednesday we have
calls Sunday we have calls Saturday got calls on Thursday we go across the board
I mean Jesus last week was Christmas week our Wednesday night call and our
Saturday call hit the twenty hour mark of calls or almost there almost like 18
hours and then Sunday added another 10 on top of that so there were 30 hours
almost 30 hours where you could have hopped on the phone anywhere in the
world gotten some support from a good group of guys not a bunch of bitches but
men that are men all different walks of life no politics no bullshit just how
can I be the better man today because the journey of your sex life the journey
of masculinity is gonna last a lifetime how you handle it today is how you
achieve excellence anyway later
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