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leave the past behind so you can focus
on your future die to the Past so you
can live fully now you must let go of
your past pain you're struck your story
not because it wasn't important but
because your future your life is more
important
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you see you can't change your pants
grudges will never get you where you
want to be
holding onto something you can't change
its insanity they're gone so you can
leave you see I couldn't focus on all
that was wrong with my life I could have
played the victim car had every right to
curse the world for putting me in this
position
for blessing me in this neighborhood why
should I refer down mother's living
lunch why should I suffer and others
live free why should I be homeless to my
others take for granted the roof over
their heads but I believe I need to see
all of them to go to the wall of death
to become the young I am the day I chose
not to be defined by my circumstances
but the fiber of my attitude towards
being my circumstances the fiber of my
ability to rise above wife's above
generations of limitation in let rise
above lack of ambition around me rise
above negativity rise above everything
you'll see utterly God only gives us
what we have to strip to overcome I
believe God only gives us what we need
to become strong the pain I've been
through the struggle I've been through
it was all needed for me to be here
today
you can't feel father
rock bottom if you haven't been there
yourself you can't have courage if you
haven't had to fight through your fears
you can't have split if you haven't had
to get up time and time again full of
life beat you down you can't have
compassion without suffering you can't
help others if you haven't felt helpless
a change to leave my past behind I
decided my future was more important
than all alone they say why me why me
no no I say try me
one tested me in our war what will be
back life you test me again but I know
no I have the Swift overcome
you cannot write the next chapter of
your life if you keep me read the first
the first one is no good compared to the
rest you still don't have the folder
please don't let your past publish you
put this is Jewish soon prepared with
what you store Jerry knows more soon so
much stronger than you give yourself
credit for making plans for granted now
leave the darkness of your past for her
so you focus on landing in light of your
future your bright future
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almost everything you do from the time
you get up in the morning is habit so
start to think about yourselves what
would be the best habits to have a
starting ritual is a repeated behavior
that you adopt in order to trigger a new
habit when you wake up in the morning
say thank you for grace
thank you for love thank you for
kindness thank you for prosperity say
thank you in advance for what's already
yours the secret of success is
determined by your daily agenda what you
want to be tomorrow you've got to do
today
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life goals yearly goals monthly goals
daily goals and understand
but to achieve these goals you must
apply discipline and consistency in
order to achieve your goals you must
apply discipline but you were already
done and consistency every day not just
one Tuesday and miss a few days you have
to work at it every day you have to plan
working really hard is what successful
people do your footprints to success are
really footprints of success because
every step that is made and taken
based upon the goals that you have for
your life every step is the progressive
realization of success in your life good
habits are hard to form and easy to live
with bad habits are easy to form but
hard to live with
so the rule is form good habits and make
them your masters habits come down to
one golden rule and that's this you can
never change the things that trigger you
you can't control your urges or how you
might feel but you can always choose how
you behave if you want to break a habit
once you have a habit it's always going
to be encoded in your brain the only way
that you can break it is to replace it
with new behavior this means when you go
to sleep at night think about your goals
for the coming day make a list for each
day of all the goals the little goals
you're going to accomplish that day keep
a journal and write down your goals on a
regular basis you see you do become what
you think about most of the time you do
achieve what you think about most of the
time so all successful people and all
wealthy people think about their goals
most of the time the things that get
scheduled are the things that get done
and vague goals lead to vague results
never noticed how hard it is to just get
started how hard it is to get to the gym
how hard it is to get out of bed you
need activation energy to start the
chain to start to sit down to start to
get out of bed to start to walk out the
door that's the key to creating any kind
of change this activation energy inside
of you that causes the initial goal and
then what do we hear over time once you
start there's a chain reaction and that
allows you to keep going Chuck this is
them is the ability to make yourself do
what you should do when you should do it
whether you feel like it or not you see
anybody can do it
if they feel like it's when you don't
feel like it and you do it anyway that
you eventually develop the
self-discipline that makes everything
else possible discipline is not
punishment it's not discipline is
training if you change your mind your
mindset and really focus it on what
discipline really is you start to
welcome discipline you welcome self
discipline into your life you're not
only gonna blow up the system in your
head and the tricks that your brain uses
to stop you right now you're going to
shake up your entire life discipline is
your best friend it will take care of
you like nothing else can
remember just because you're doing a lot
more doesn't mean you're getting a lot
more done
don't confuse movement with progress
when we do live in a world where there
is such a fascination with entertainment
you know and everyone loves pretty
pictures and it's really easy to spend
the best hour of your best days looking
at what your friends are doing and I'm
suggesting to you you think like a
student because you're watching this
mastery session because something deep
within you wants you to be the master of
your game and here's the thing about
every master every master thinks like a
beginner they're always learning
anything you want good you can have
so claim it work hard to get it don't
just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference make today
counts success or failure as a human
being is not a matter of luck or
circumstance or fate or the brakes or
who you know or any of the other
tiresome old myths and cliches by which
the ignorant tend to excuse themselves
it's a matter of following a
common-sense paradigm of rules
guidelines anyone can follow you have
something unique and amazing to offer
the world that nobody else can do it is
your job the purpose of your life is to
figure out who you are and the way that
you do that is you tune out you tune out
the world and you tune in here yeah
you've got a go read you got a go read
you got a watch up ton of videos you got
a tune into this show every week you've
got to explore you've got experience you
got to fail but then you've always got
to calibrate it against what are your
instincts saying what energizes you what
depletes you that's it's really that
simple follow the things that energize
you follow the things that you're
naturally curious about you are not only
unique I think it you're a bloody
miracle the fact that you were born who
you were born
the way you begin each day sets up the
way you live each day I mean the Spartan
warriors set it so well sweat more
training bleed lessen war and if you
want to be literally undefeatable in
business literally unstoppable in life
you really want to dial in your morning
routine and so you want to do things
like starting the day sweating because
that releases BDNF brain-derived
neurotrophic factor that repairs brain
cells from stress you want to sweat
because that's going to increase your
metabolic rate which is going to give
you energy and we live in a world where
energy is even more valuable than it
intelligence you want to in your morning
routine take the time to write in a
journal so you actually can detect your
values reconnect with your goals each
day because awareness is the beginning
of transformation Aristotle said you are
what you repeatedly do there for
excellence not be a habit not an act
don't ever forget that it's not what you
do once every year that is going to
allow you to live a legendary life it's
what you do every single day whatever
your goal or dream is my friend you need
other people to know about that dream
they should know what you're trying to
accomplish why you're trying to
accomplish how you're trying to
accomplish it when you're trying to
accomplish it and exactly what you are
willing to do to accomplish it one of
the things that we have to do as we're
pursuing our dreams and our goals is
that we have to know that failure is not
an option you know and you got to hear
this one this wasn't it this one is
important
because you've got to tell yourself
despite again the circumstances the
situations you have to tell yourself
there listen to me I'm not going
anywhere until I get to go I can't I'll
make my dreams become a reality I'm not
quitting I don't have much money after
invest okay how much time I have to
invest I'm gonna continue to do this
until I become successful the number one
thing that's gonna change your life the
only thing that will change your life
change your business change your money
change your relationship because you
must raise your standard we become our
standards in many ways if you are
surrounded by B players or average
performers and that is your standard
then your mindset will operate at the
standard that is that is offering to you
by the people around you I mean we do
become our social orbit has a list of
things they think they should do I
should lose weight I should work out I
should spend more time with my kids I
should work harder I should make more
calls I should I should I should I
should what changes people is when you
should
becomes a must when suddenly the thing
you said should happen has to happen
that's when you refuse change to have
the results of a game-changer you need
to start thinking and behaving like a
game changer and that means thinking
like a game changer populating your
mindset with the best books with the
best ideas with the best conversations
behaving in ways that most people don't
behave again you want to have the
results very few people have you've got
to start doing things that very few
people do turn off the television
delete the naysayers stop gossiping and
start producing eat better food run
longer runs shift from a focus on what's
not working to focus on what's working I
mean you really want to install a whole
new series of mind sets and a whole new
series of rituals that very few people
are doing
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every day we put in place actions and
ideas that will determine the shape and
substance of our tomorrow's
you will receive from the world who you
become with the doorway to success I
suggest to you swings inward not outward
and the best way to have a game-changing
life and the best way to have a
world-class lifestyle and the best way
to change the world is to change
yourself I mean we get from life who we
become nothing can change until we do
when we change our worlds will change
all of us in life have things we want we
don't get what we want
we get what we have to have when you're
no longer willing to tolerate something
that's when your life changes I just did
a podcast on habits right how to be able
to adopt new habits and also delete and
get rid of you know break bad habits
right and so a lot of people always want
to make it usually make a change on
behavior they want to get themselves to
workout they want to get them doesn't
meditate they want to get themselves to
read more each day and they want to get
themselves to X right or they want to
stop some behavior they want to stop
smoking they want to stop eating this
food they want to stop I always tell
people stop checking your phone the
first hour of the day I love and I and I
just
that's like sacred time for me you know
because I for me that's for I think that
if you want to be an elite mental
performer or you know real-life
superhero you don't want to start off by
checking the phone we talked about this
in the past because you're training
yourself to be reactive and right you're
getting your dopamine or you're frying
your nervous system with all these likes
shares comments and everything else like
that that you've said if I'm not
mistaken you sell your sovereignty weed
if you start by checking your phone I
love that so much because you're
reacting and firefighting to everyone's
like well I've been seeing everyone
would want so you're not really setting
you're not living you know that it's
you've heard this many times right if
you want to you win the first hour of
the day to win the rest they don't even
even with room in the day right and so
anything you want to stop so I say you
want to stop checking your phone right
in the morning then they're certain like
that's a behavior right but there's so
many other elements to be able to change
because some most behaviors don't stick
right and so like what I'm thinking
about when I want to transform or
transcend
or make a real positive change I'm
looking all the other areas of herself
so I'm looking at for example our
environment are you are people setting
up their environment to win at a social
change doesn't just happen at this level
of behavior but what you have to change
the environment so for example if you
want to stop eating a certain food it
helps to be able to have not that not
have that food in your home right so you
change the environment if you want to
read more it helps to help set up your
environment where you have the books
readily available where you're gonna
read it because they perform you know
how I how I approach habit change is
this area of motivation and this trigger
right you want to trigger to help and
remind you to do the behavior right so
are you setting up the environment in a
way that triggers the behavior that you
want that's why you know people like
Mark Zuckerberg or Tony Hsieh they wear
the same t-shirts and and sweatshirts
all the time because they don't want to
spend you know use up one of their
decisions thinking oh what am I gonna
wear today everyone someone's watching
this they have a thing that something
they want to change and it's not it's
not sticking then maybe it's not it's
the environment maybe you could check
about your habits but maybe it's your
beliefs in your values some people will
not get themselves to read every day
because they don't value reading every
single day right some people won't say
the behavior they want change is you
know we did a podcast and how to
remember names I could teach them step
by step on how to remember the name of
most people that they meet yet they
won't do it because they don't value it
or because that's not important to them
or they don't believe that they can
write just like we talked about earlier
saying your brain is like a
supercomputer and you know your
self-talk as a programmer run so if you
tell yourself not go to memory names you
will not remember the name the next
person you meet because you program your
super gonna be or not to they don't have
a belief that enables that so when I say
all behaviors belief driven if you want
to do this behavior whatever it is
journal whatever it is then you need a
belief that allows that to happen
because you mean that's the program that
allows it so how do you get that belief
because you're gonna feel like you're
faking it all right that's where most
people stop right they think okay I get
it I hear what Jim is saying that if I
am able to shift my belief then I can
get a different behavior but I don't
believe it so now I'm just sort of
faking it how do you help people
overcome it right and so you mean so
some people approach it by they know
that it's quote where they fake it so
they make it right um so my thing with
belief is like when I do trainings and
groups or online my favorite way of
changing the
belief is getting them to do something
they never thought they could do because
it opens up another possibility right so
so for example in 1954 Roger Bannister
he broke the four-minute mile right and
so which is amazing right throughout
human history nobody can run a mile less
than four minutes now if you if you look
into it how he was able to do it is he
would visualize himself crossing the
finish line looking at the clock and it
says 359 because he knew that success is
an inside out process that first it had
to happen in here in order for apt an
out there right um dr. Wayne Dyer has
the famous phrase where it's not
oh I'll believe it when I see it it's
like I'll see it I believe it because
it's the opposite right and so yeah I
always like modeling the outliers where
most people kind of just like kind of
dismissed them I was like well what's
what's going on there that loves this
person to get this kind of result right
and so with Roger Bannister he saw it in
here be able to produce it outside just
like any innovator or inventor or writer
any creator right but what was
interesting is after that would happen
nobody could do it from the beginning of
humanity all of a sudden one person does
it what happens after that everybody
yeah everyone starts doing it and so
that's the thing now what happened was
there a big change that year and you
know training methodology and nutrition
or no who's a change of belief right
because the belief back then was if you
ran a mile less than four minutes not
only would you die it was your heart
would explode in your chest and like
think about like that would and I'm a
runner right that would keep me not just
running that wouldn't keep me from
running for me that would keep me from
running period right right and so my
thing is like that was a change of a
reference I was just shook up a belief
so my goal with people and when it comes
to learning is get themselves to do
something they never thought they could
do and then it opens up another
possibility it literally opens up their
their nervous system for something what
else could be possible now I would also
say that it all plays together where
it's not easy to say just to change a
belief overnight now that could be a
belief because it's like a meta belief
about what beliefs are but people
there's there's technologies like
inception right like a dream of a dream
your dream but I do believe that we have
more we have more power to influence our
thoughts and our beliefs so my goal is
to streamline my
life put the routines the first hour day
and the last hour today I really
micromanage it's at a point where it's
pitch well I don't even have to think
about it and then because those are the
times a day where I can really have the
most impact because later on in the
middle of the day you know team members
need this there's firefighting this
client needs that but in the first hour
in the last hour I really want to
control so all this really helped
develop grit and resilience you know in
my body so I could have the ability to
persevere and I so I stand guard to my
brain all the time what goes in and I
don't watch like a lot of the negative
news and all the young market I really
focus like you know I I watch it I
listen to your show and maybe a handful
of little of things I read each day
because I need to keep it positive
I want hope and I'm looking for help I'm
looking for inspiration and also it's an
instruction
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