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Waching daily Mar 1 2018

Heya playa, politics can be super devise and confusing.

Especially if you like someone that has way different political beliefs from you.

Well that's the question that CoolFun 11 asked me when he said "I've known my crush for 2

years now, she's pretty nice but we have huge differences in terms of politics.

It goes to the level when we argue about it for hours and we start insulting each-other.

I like her very much and would like to know her better.

What should I do?".

I have an answer for you that I think will help you out in this situation so I'm gonna

share that with you right after this.

This is The Josh Speaks.

You're watching The Josh Speaks.

For those of you that are new here, my name is Josh and every single Monday through Friday

I make videos sharing tips, ideas and stories teaching you how to be your best self.

And I just want to say right off the bat that this is not a political video.

In fact it's a video about how to bring two people of different political beliefs together.

You may be thinking why even bother?

That person is clearly wrong, and they're an idiot and what they believe is stupid.

You're probably thinking all of those things but that doesn't have to be the case when

you interact with them.

Look, every single one of us is shaped by all the different factors around us.

Our family, our friends, our culture, our society, our country.

All these different things play a role in how we see the world.

So just because someone see's the world differently from you doesn't mean that they're wrong or

they're a bad person or you should have nothing to do with them.

On the contrary, I think you should engage with them more because challenging your own

ways of thinking is good for you.

When you expose yourself to new ideas, you start to learn how to talk about them and

interact with those kinds of conversations a lot better.

So talking to someone with different political beliefs helps you understand their side a

little bit better.

But does that all get thrown out the window when you start to have romantic feelings for

them?

Most likely you're feeling conflicted.

On one end you're like "This person is wrong on so many levels" but then on the other you're

like "But I really want to get to know them and hang out and really develop something

there".

So how do you approach it in a way where the two of you aren't budding heads to the point

where you're yelling and screaming at each other?

Well, the simplest way to go about it is to find common ground in your beliefs.

You may feel like there is no common ground but I guarantee you, there is.

You simply have to look at the deeper values that you and the other person hold and compare

them.

For example, are one of your values to live a life where you're kind and understanding

towards other people?

Chances are your crush is like that too but it's getting watered down with all the political

stuff getting thrown on top of it.

What we all for the most part want at our core is to live a life of compassion and kindness,

of peace and security, and safety and tolerance.

All these core values represent who we are as people but when you start to look at political

parties to see what they're doing and we start to see when things are happening at this higher

up level, we kind of let their actions and decisions translate to our day to day behavior.

So if you find yourself constantly fighting with your crush over a political action that's

happened, bring the conversation back down to your individual values and how you choose

to live day to day.

If you can get the conversation going on that level, it's easier for you to recognize the

person you're talking to is just a person that's trying to figure it all out as well.

No one has all the right answers because life is just too complex.

So if you feel yourself getting pulled into a conversation with your crush that's heading

into a negative direction, don't be afraid to bring it back down to your values where

the two of you connect.

Discussing policies is ok, but you have to recognize that at a certain level, you don't

have any control over how the decisions are made.

So, focus within the scope of what you can do.

And I think that brings it back down to you reconnecting with your crush.

Learning a little bit more about them, who they are as a person, how they came to believe

what they believe.

I think if you take the time to get to know them on that level, it'll be way easier for

you to develop something going forward.

If you take that time to get to know them better as a person they'll feel way more open

and comfortable sharing how they came to their beliefs with you, which is really the core

of what you want to know.

If you're only focused on what they're saying and not how and why they're saying it then

you're never really going to develop that deepness with them.

So remember political discussions tend to be extrinsic where you're focused on what

other people are deciding.

Now that doesn't mean that those decisions don't have an effect on your life and the

lives of the people around you, but what you have control over is your own individual destiny.

How you choose to move forward day to day and your crush is just the same.

So try to connect with them on that level, see where you guys connect on values and approach

conversations with the same kind of values there.

What do you think though, am I just flat out wrong?

Do you feel like it's impossible to form a different connection with someone who has

different political beliefs?

Leave your comments down below and we'll talk about it.

If you're in this situation and you want to share your thoughts in a more private setting,

you can always shoot me a DM over on Snapchat or Instagram.

I do my best to answer as many messages as I can.

Otherwise thank you so much for watching this video.

Hit the thumbs up button if you found it to be helpful in some way.

Look, approaching these kind of conversations where two people come from different ways

of seeing the world is difficult.

It's not an easy thing to do but it is possible to form a connection because at the end of

the day, we're all people and that's what really matters.

As always guys, love and peace.

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Vero is the hot new social media app that everyone is talking about.

People love it because Vero promises not to change the algorithm and keep the feed chronological.

But there's a dark side to Vero that you should probably know before you download the

app, and I'm going to fill you in, here on IO.

What is good, this is inform overload, where we tell you about everything trending on the

internet.

I'm Charlotte Dobre.

You've probably seen social media posts about Vero.

Many are saying that its going to become the new Instagram and Facebook.

A few plus sides, no ads, chronological timeline, and they don't decrease the quality of your

posts.

Downsides, after the first 1 million downloads, you will have to pay for it.

And its also been experiencing some technical difficulties.

If you haven't heard about Vero, we did a video on everything you need to know about

it, check it out right up here.

Alright, so here's where the plot thickens.

We live in an age where consumers have a lot of power.

And with that power comes great responsibility.

So I'm going to tell you some information about Vero that you can chose to disregard,

or to share with others.

Social media users have been looking into the details of the people who made Vero, and

have found out some questionable things.

The co founder of Vero, Ayman Hariri is a Lebanese billionaire heir and the son of a

corrupt politician, the former prime minister Rafic Hariri.

Rafic was assassinated in 2005.

Ayman, before he was CEO of Vero, was the CEO of a different company, Saudi Oger, which

was a construction company founded by his father.

The Saudi government ended up having to step in in 2017 because of mismanagement.

The workers that were employed by this company were unpaid, stranded, lived in cramped living

quarters and were essentially starving and had no food or medical care.

Another thing you should also be aware of is a few of the apps employees appear to be

based in Russia, and because Russians have been known for being shady about social media,

mainly being accused of meddling in the US election and for their troll factory…that

also might make some people concerned.

Furthermore, under the terms of service agreement, Vero has the right to use your content, royalty

free, without limitation, including your name, voice and likeness.

After finding all of this out, and after consulting their lawyers, many people have deleted the

app.

Its completely up to you to do so as well.

Alright while you think about that, I'm going to respond to some comments from our last

video about Vero.

This is lotso – I've never even heard of Vero.

What kind of trending news source would we be if we weren't ahead of the trends?

Jaquay Smith – Vero is actually amazing if you love to post videos but the quality

goes down when you post on Insta or Facebook.

You should get Vero because it keeps your quality exactly the same.

Good to know.

Raeez Silver – this channel is literally the only reason I sit on YouTube every day.

Aw you're such a gem, thanks for being such a loyal fan.

I The video is over! if you enjoyed it make

sure you give us a thumbs up and subscribe.

If you want more IO, there's a link to one of our playlists over here.

Hey are u still watching?

Why don't you follow us on Instagram and Facebook.

That's it for me, and I'll see you in the next video.

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How do you prepare for Confession? | Xt3 Vox - Duration: 4:53.

LAURA: How do you prepare for a good Confession? YOUNG MAN: For me, a good Confession is often linked

to a long confession line. I don't know something about sitting in confession

line which sort of forces me to be in that space of "Okay I've got this time,

there's nothing else I can do and I'm just going to sit and sort of prepare

and talk to God and examine the conscience."

Like we all make mistakes so it comes straight from the heart so just before I go I might think about

what I really am sorry for and then I think it's just a conversation and it's quite

beautiful because often when you just say to the priest who's acting like God

you say I'm sorry for this and it just comes out and often they're there just

as God's instrument but to reassure you and just to talk you through whatever is troubling you.

How I prepare for a good confession is I just sit

before the Lord and have a down-to-earth conversation with him and just figure out

what I've done wrong, where I've gone wrong, and just I think figure out

how I can improve myself and become a better Catholic.

I attended a conference called the iWitness Conference in 2008 and that's where he was Fr. Umbers

at the time and now Bishop Umbers, he introduced me to this thing called

the examination of conscience and he actually provided us with a very

comprehensive examination of conscience and I didn't really understand how deep

the Ten Commandments were, so that really opened up a whole

new world for me in terms of confession and seeing the flaws within myself.

I don't like forgetting stuff so I always, when I go into church for confession,

I sit down and I just write down everything that I can remember. Usually I have like

an examination of conscience next to me and I just write everything down so that

I feel like I've made the best effort to reconcile all my sins with Jesus.

Good practice for me is spending some time before the Blessed Sacrament really

going into detail with an examination of conscience and I actually take it in

with me into the confessional so I try not to forget anything when I go in there

LAURA: Do you write it down? YOUNG MAN: Yeah, I write it down and

I usually write it down in front of the Blessed Sacrament during Adoration.

I think I find that the most perfect opportunity just to have that face-to-face conversation with Him.

I usually like to spend time in prayer and I don't like to rush the process

or try to list off sins like so much but just really think of a few things

and then I just sit with it and ask the Lord to really help me to uncover those things

in my heart that are sort of like sitting a bit below the surface.

LAURA: How do you prepare for a good confession? YOUNG MAN: Um, when it comes to confession for me

my biggest thing is actually silence. I find that especially in today's world,

it's so hard to find a time to just sit down and think and before confession I like to

just sit down not necessarily pray, I just want to sit there often in front of

a tabernacle or in front of a monstrance in adoration and just turn to God and

let God speak through me because that's what I want my confession to be

I don't want it to be myself telling the priests what it is I want God to do it for me

I want God to take me in under His wing and really guide me through that process.

It doesn't have to be the big things, because the culmination of small things

can lead into into the greatest sin and even with the small things

there's just always just - I don't know - I hold on to them and so...

Reconciliation is a great way of letting go.

It's probably good not to, ideally not to go, like at big events. We were talking about

sometimes we only go at big events, but to go all the time and then it's just a normal conversation.

LAURA: How often is a good time to go? How often is often enough?

YOUNG WOMAN: Aww, do you know, well every day we sin, I don't know...

so I don't know the right answer... I guess it comes down to what you feel.

Like ideally? I guess, once a week would be - you know back in the old days you didn't

have communion every day, you would go to Reconciliation so it's a hard answer.

Like ideally, I guess every week if you could but then realistically it happens probably

once a month every couple of months. Sometimes it doesn't happen because we get too scared

and I guess that's the biggest thing, we build it up and we can't...

it's just normal because all of us make mistakes.

Basically just let your thoughts flow and if it does come up then obviously, yeah

there's something to it, there's some substance to it, so yeah... but as long as you're just sitting down

with a humble heart I think... it's the key to everything.

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Do you consider yourself a team player? - Duration: 1:11.

Hi, my name is Ryan Brown and I'm the founder of Mockquestions.com. We're

gonna go over a very common team based interview question which is do you

consider yourself a team player we'll go over to interview answer

examples but first let's go over some advice on how to answer this question

every answer should be a yes but you must explain to the interviewer why you

believe you are a team player my advice is to think of some positive

reasons why you went to a team activities and turn those positive

reasons into your interview answer here's the first interview answer

example I see great value in being a team player because you learned so much

more than working alone I definitely prefer working as part of a team it's

diverse and engaging here's the second interview answer example I truly believe

that a team player because I cannot accept success without knowing that my

team has been acknowledged for their efforts as well

everything I've achieved in my current role has not has not only been due to my

own hard work but it's been also due to the great collaboration of my excellent

team thank you for watching for more interview with answers and advice visit

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E47: How to build your virtual agency culture so you can travel the world with Marama Carmichael - Duration: 44:00.

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- [Brent] Hello and welcome.

My name is Brent Weaver and this is the Digital Agency Show.

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The podcast that goes behind the scenes

with today's top agencies and entrepreneurs.

I am really glad you're here and once again it's time

to transform your business mindset.

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Hey, what's up Digital Agency owners and podcast listeners.

Before I introduce today's guest,

I want to ask you a quick question.

Are you currently stressed out?

Cash crunched or fed up with your business?

If you feel this way, you might think that

you have a lead generation problem.

Or maybe that it's the area you live in

or maybe this market has become too competitive.

Maybe you think your business can't be turned around.

I want you to think again.

In my many years of experience, I can tell you now

that it's something much deeper that

you're likely not even aware of yet.

It's like a client who comes to you

saying they need a website or Facebook ads,

or maybe a mobile app developed.

But they don't even realize the deeper challenge

or opportunity that's blocking them from success.

Now if you'd like to find out what your deeper challenge is,

then I want to invite you to apply

for a you UGURUS strategy call.

Where we'll dig into those underlining issues

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Once again, go to ugurus.com/apply to get started.

Alright, let's introduce today's guest.

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Hey what's up podcast listeners, Digital Agency owners.

I'm your host, Brent Weaver

and we are here for another great episode

of the Digital Agency Show.

Today, we have one of my good friends and a bootcamp mentor,

Marama Carmichael of eSense Web design

who is based in Australia and she runs a virtual agency

that works with several different industries.

She's got over 20 years experience as a mentor

as an entrepreneur and she's been mentoring women

in the business accelerator group in Australia,

as well as she's taken over 100 people

through our UGURUS bootcamp.

Which obviously, we think is really awesome.

And she's sold millions of dollars of web projects.

Has hundreds of clients and manages to do all of this

while spending a good chunk of her time traveling

to the other side of the planet for a couple months a year.

So if you guys are thinking about how to run a virtual

agency, how to travel a lot and still have

your business run without you being present,

or even checked in, then this is

definitely an episode for you.

Welcome to the program Marama.

- [Marama] Thanks friend, thank you for having me.

Always a pleasure.

- [Brent] So, what was the defining moment where you decided

that creating a web agency was the right

move for you as an entrepreneur.

- [Marama] So for me, there was really dramatic moment

that was one of those pivotal catalyst points of your time.

So it was back in 2009, middle of winter.

I'm gonna set the scene for you.

I, at that point in time had been running

a natural therapy center for a good 10 years.

And my son was nine or 10

and I was on my way home from work

to pick him up from taekwondo practice.

It was cold, it was raining, it was dark, it was winter.

And I get a call on my mobile from the fire department,

asking me if anyone was in the house,

because my house was on fire.

So that was kind of dramatic.

To be honest, didn't believe them at first.

Because they had asked me if anyone was home

and I was like, who are you asking me if someone's at home?

So actually called the emergency line

to make sure it was actually a real person,

that it was actually the fire department, and it was.

And so, I remember getting to my place

and obviously I called my husband, picked my son up

and I remember standing outside our house

watching everything that we owned literally go up in smoke.

Uan, my son was in his taekwondo uniform,

he was shivering with cold,

so my husband had this like big coat from

an old World War II jacket so we were all three of us

huddled up under my husband's coat in the rain

with my dog on the fireman's leash, just like watching

the rain and the fire hoses and the house in flames.

It was insane and I remember thinking

at that point in time that, what am I doing?

Literally, what am I doing with my life?

Why am I picking my son up in the dark

in the cold every single night?

Why have I,

made myself this job for a really

horrible boss that makes me work long hours

and pick my son up in the dark, in the cold at night?

And so, that was the catalyst for me

changing everything.

So, I closed down the practice and I basically

a couple months later started the web agency.

And haven't looked back and I was very deliberate

at that point in time that I wouldn't have

a premises, I wouldn't have an office.

That i was basically making myself be

a nine to five or nine to six employee again.

I wanted that freedom, I wanted to be home for my son

when he came from school, I wanted to be able to travel

and live my life and have my business support my life

instead of my life support my business.

So yeah, it was a real, it was a challenging time

and a really dramatic experience

but to be honest, it was probably

the best thing that ever happened to me.

It really changed everything.

So looking back where we were then and where I am now.

Wow, totally different places.

- [Brent] I can tell, you have a slight optimistic

bent to your mindset that your house burning down

was the best thing that ever happened to you.

(laughter)

It's so crazy how

it takes something

that massive sometimes

for people to wake up or to shift.

And for you to go through something so traumatic

to realize that something that you were doing

you didn't probably even realize you were doing,

but you were unhappy with something in your life

and this thing happens and forces you

to think about life in a very deep way.

And you kind of reprioritized

and said, okay well this is what's important to me,

my family's important to me.

I'm gonna reset this and how will I make that more.

Be present or not be picking up your kiddo in the rain.

That's an incredible story Marama.

- [Marama] Well, it's one of those things, it changed

it really, when you're watching all your stuff

go up in smoke and you're taking stock of what you have.

And you realize you've got the two people that you love

most on the planet and your beloved dog

on a fireman's belt and the rabbit was okay

and it's like okay, all the living things are okay.

Everything else is just stuff.

And, stuff is easy

to get back,

really.

It's not easy but all the important stuff

isn't that (mumbles) stuff.

You can't get your time back.

You can't get those hours back.

And I do have a belief system and a mindset

that everything happens for a reason

and thoughts become things and you can always,

you put your own interpretation

on any action that comes to you.

Anything that happens to you,

it's your choice how you react to that.

We were in shock, it's like we said,

yay, your house has burnt down.

(laughter)

- [Brent] Now we can laugh about this a little bit now,

cause it seems like no one was hurt.

- [Marama] Yeah, it was a long time ago.

No one was hurt.

Yeah, but it makes you count your blessings.

And we were officially homeless for three days,

but we had, looking back on it

and I think possibly being in shock,

I was kind of having an out of body experience.

Like I swear, I could see the three of us

and it was like a scene from a movie.

I could see us all huddled up under Nick's jacket

dripping wet and freezing cold and shivering.

And I could almost see it from an aerial view,

long shot, panned out, pivotal scene in a movie.

And in shock you just deal with what's in front of you.

And it's like okay, everybody's here.

Everybody's fine, what's next?

Next thing we need to do is find

somewhere to sleep, then et cetera.

So, I think I was in shock for a little while.

And possibly made some snap decisions while I was in shock.

But the decisions I made at that point in time were alright.

They, I trusted my gut, which is something I'm very

into as well as I trust in your own

sort of innate wisdom and intuition.

And so, I took some fairly dramatic

action in a month or so afterwards.

And changed my life for the better.

Well it didn't happen all at once.

It happened sort of over a three month's period.

But within a month, I closed the center down

and I moved my private practice,

my natural's therapy practice home.

And then I realized that I was bored.

I'm a mentor by night, sure I think.

But one of the things I really

liked about the other business

I ran was actually helping practitioners grow

and develop their business when they came in.

And so I looked for something that would do that

and that's what really started the web agency.

- [Brent] My next question was gonna be

out of all the businesses in the universe,

you could have started, going from this

naturopathy business to web (laughter) design.

Oh yeah, that's logical, that makes sense.

I get that, I don't.

(laughter)

- [Marama] So I was the typical DIY web person

and DIY marketer person so when I had my agency

I made our own website for the agency

and I'm a natural mentor

and I have a background in business,

so before I started, I've been around for awhile.

Before I started the natural therapies practice,

I was a salesperson and was in corporate for a few years

so I have a background in business, not in web.

So I was looking for something I could do remotely.

Something that I didn't need to have an office for.

Something that would be flexible and I could travel

and I could be home for my kid when he came home from school

and all that kind of stuff.

So it started off just me helping the practitioners

who I made business homeless,

because I closed the center down with 30 days notice.

It's like, everybody you need to find a new place to work.

And so I was helping them with their online presence

and that's how it started.

So that was in 2009, and oh my God,

the sites I was making, embarrassing.

(laughter)

I was 500 on the website girl.

So, we've come a long, long way.

But yeah, it started from there and just slightly over time.

Over the I think probably about three years of getting

the basis together before I kind of really felt like

I started to know what I was talking about.

- [Brent] So let's fast forward to today.

What does eSense look like?

What is your setup?

Typical client, how many clients do you guys have?

And how many people on your team, that kind of thing?

- [Marama] So today we've got a team of

four full time equivalents

and varies outsourcers and freelancers

that we use as we need to.

We are all virtual by choice, as I said.

Because A, it keeps our heads down,

your margins are much higher if

you're not having to pay for office space.

And B, it gives me the flexibility to be able to travel

and have my home office and all that kind of stuff

so I can prioritize what I'm doing

and have more funds to do the things that I want to do.

We typically have got about six clients

on the go at any one point in time

as far as project work goes, like a big project.

And we've got about 100 clients

on various sorts of retainer things.

And yeah, that's kind of it.

We've got our teams all over the world.

We've got people in Europe, in India, in the Philippines.

Our core team, our client facing team are all local,

but even the local team are remote.

So, you know we do our leadership meetings via Zoom.

We have our, we utilize technology to have that

constant communication and stuff,

but even our project managers and client facing people

are all Australian people so they have the

local for us accent when they're talking to clients.

- [Brent] Doesn't sound like 'us' American,

John Wayne type folks.

(laughter)

- [Marama] No, no unfortunately.

I love the American accent.

But yeah, so we can just have that local.

We did try a project manager from off shore

and it didn't work for us, so we keep some of those local

and yeah it's great.

It gives me the lifestyle that I want.

From to go full circle, from losing everything

in the house that we were renting.

Now three or four years ago, we bought our own place

that the company, the bank decided

that we were good for money enough to buy

a house from the company's income.

So that was kind of cool.

That was a bit of a, what's the word I'm looking for?

A milestone.

- [Brent] Yeah, cause I know how that goes.

They kind of put you through this other process,

that employed people, which I guess there's

an assumption there that self-employed people

are riskier or something like that.

- [Marama] Uh huh, absolutely.

(laughter)

You don't know, you don't know so yeah.

We bought a house and we're renovating it at the moment.

And as you know, I travel quite a bit

and we're off to Japan in a couple of weeks

with the family for a couple weeks holiday.

So it's the main thing for me.

I've always regret, after we often have a gap here.

I don't know if you guys have gappies.

In between high school and going into further education.

- [Brent] Americans don't take

anytime off at all for anything.

- [Marama] In Australia, oftentimes people take a year off

and you go backpacking around Europe or something.

I never did that, and the first time

I traveled was actually three years ago.

It's the first time I've been overseas.

And you know how much I travel now.

I'm overseas like three...

Last year was like four overseas trips in a year.

And that's all because of the way I've set up the company.

Like strategically, very logically.

It's profitable, it's remote, it's virtual.

And that's so I can get around and travel like I want to.

- [Brent] I want to talk about checking out of the business

and traveling and all that kind of stuff in a second.

But let's just kind of, pop the hood on this

whole virtual agency set up that you have,

because I feel like there is,

it's pretty common for agencies to go this direction.

I've met with big and small that have gone this direction.

But I'm always interested in terms of

how you make your team culture work.

You mentioned Zoom earlier.

I think people always sacrifice a little bit,

or could sacrifice a little bit

of culture when they go remote.

How do you guys make that work?

It sounds like not only have you been remote,

but your intention is to stay remote

and to always be remote and virtual.

And so what are those things that you've kind

of learned over the years that have worked

for you to kind of bring that team together.

- [Marama] So, I think the biggest thing is

to actually just be aware and respectful

and understanding that there are differences.

There are cultural differences.

There are time zone differences.

If you've got anyone who speaks another language

it goes really, really long way to actually

pay attention to their holidays.

And wish them happy holiday in their own language,

even if every other time they're all speaking English.

I know that my main designer is in Romania

and their Easter falls at a different time.

And it's feliz something or another

and I literally Google it,

Happy Easter in Romanian and posting that greeting

in our instant messenger thing, made his year.

It doesn't take much to actually make people

feel welcomed and cared for.

So we have all of the similar things

that you'd have in an office.

I always just think about how can I make that virtual.

So we have daily standups,

but the way we do that is via we use Teamwork,

but it's very similar to Slack,

it's like an instant messaging thing.

So when you start work on your day,

you do the same kind of thing that

you would do in the daily huddle.

So we do a segue, this is best, personal best.

What you were here on today.

What you did yesterday and if you're stuck anywhere.

And that's when you start your day.

So everyone does it a different times of day.

Our design team and development

team pretty much work overnight for us.

So we make sure that the project managers

have gotten any information they might

need by close of business our time.

So designers can have it their time.

And we make sure that there's an overlap,

so our designer is a night owl, so he's usually

up between about nine and 11 am our time.

And so we'll be talking via Slack or Zoom, et cetera

or we'll get up early and we have face to face meetings

with them every week and all that kind of stuff.

And doing silly things like birthdays.

We make fun, stupid YouTube videos for everyone on their

birthday and put it in the general team chat thing.

About once a month, we call it drinks after work.

And again, it's during chat where everyone turns up

and we talk about, last time it was a little politics.

(laughter)

Interesting.

We just talk about everything,

like you would get drinks after work.

And that's kind of the intention is to if there's

a team building exercise that people do in person,

it's how can we do the next best thing in the remote way.

And I think that intention makes huge difference,

because it's appreciated.

I think a lot of businesses who are using an offshore team

I kind of think that they're robots

and our designer actually is gonna

say, that we laugh it in full

cause we're actually pushing him for deadlines.

He's come back as, I'm another robot.

But I think that sometimes you do kind

of expect offshore teams to not...

I've seen a lot of businesses not

treat them like they're people.

They're just a tool and I think they're just treating

people like people goes a long way for building culture.

- [Brent] Yeah, I think that's a common pitfall

to think that just because you're maybe interfacing

with somebody mostly through Slack

or that human connection does kind of deteriorate

or can deteriorate, if you're not conscious of it.

- [Marama] Yeah absolutely, so I remember when one of

our designers, once again one of the Romanian girls.

She was sent photos that had their Romanian National Day

and she sent these wonderful pictures on,

I'll call it Slack for the sake of it,

because that's what's well known by people.

But on the chat channel with her in national costume.

And national food and all that kind of stuff

and we just talked rubbish,

we just chit chatted about it for a bit.

I think sometimes too when you're working remote,

you feel like every interaction needs to be work related

and I think that's a pitfall too.

Because if you're in the office,

you do have those passing in the hall water cooler chats.

So actually allowing a virtual space to have that kind

of non-business related chit chat,

rather than, well you're on the clock you should be working.

Why aren't we talking about business?

Actually leads to a stronger culture.

So, our main graphic designer,

he's been with me since 2009.

So when I started off as nobody,

like with no business, it was just me,

kind of being a hack web developer,

I got him off Elance and asked him to make me

a simple web banner and he's been with me ever since.

So you can have really loyal teams

and really loyal culture if you find the right people.

It's like everything though, it's hit and miss.

I'm sure that hiring people locally,

they're not always a success.

The way we try to work virtually is to make it

as close to not virtual as possible.

- [Brent] That's a really good takeaway for people

that have virtual teams or I've even seen people

that have more brick and mortar places,

maybe they are starting to have,

maybe some contract help or some people that are

maybe working part time for them and maybe they're not used

to have like an in-person brick and mortar culture.

And it makes for people that are remote feels kind of

isolated and alone and not a part of that culture.

Which that probably doesn't take

very long to kind of break down.

And we've gone 100% remote this year

and we were pretty much 100% remote last year.

And now we have so we're trying to make,

you know bring some of these things

into the business or enhance them.

Do you guys ever meet in person?

Obviously, I heard Romania

or Philippines (mumbles) and stuff.

Are you ever even meeting in person

with your Aussie based team?

- [Marama] Yeah we met in person,

so it's weird like my Australian project manager.

She live 15 minutes away, but she's still remote.

We've met in person,

we've actually gone to client meetings together.

Her and I have gone to some strategy sessions

and stuff like that together which is

actually handy having it remote but close,

but the project manager before her was in Brisbane.

We're in New South Wales, so in a different state,

so didn't meet.

My husband is actually part of my team now.

So we meet, fairly often.

(laughter)

But yeah, I met all of the Australian team

and none of the other overseas team.

- [Brent] Let's talk about this travel topic,

'cause you brought this up

a couple of times that your business really allows

or affords you the lifestyle to travel a bit.

While I'd love to turn this into a travel podcast

and talk about all the amazing places you've visited

and the fun things you've done.

- [Marama] Denver, Denver, Denver.

(laughter)

- [Brent] You've been to Denver a few times,

yeah hanging out with UGURUS team and all that good stuff.

But what I'm actually more interested in

is kind of what you've done in your

business that's made that possible.

'Cause for some other people, maybe it's not travel.

Maybe it's

taking

extended staycations.

Or leave from business or maybe working on other businesses

or just doing something where.

Someone that's not running the day to day business, right?

So for you it's travel.

For other people, it could be other things.

So what types of things have you put in place

that have allowed you to check out of the business

not be so hands-on when you decide you want to go to Japan.

Or you want to go to, come back to Denver.

- [Marama] Basically, it's getting the right people

in the right seats and then getting out of their way.

And putting myself in a seat

I can schedule and take time off for.

So at the moment, I'm in obviously the leadership role

and I do the main strategy and discovery in sales.

But the nature of that is that I can kind of

batch things up and say, okay I'm off for two weeks

or I'm off for a month and we're working on a big client

at the moment and they signed on last week

and so we're kind of getting that initial onboarding

strategy stuff done before I go away.

And it's actually quite handy as having

an artificial deadline too for your clients,

because they know I'm going away.

So they know we need to get this done so then

I can hand it over to the production team

and I can put them in our

project manager's very capable hands

and have them deal with it while I'm gone.

So, I guess that's kind of it in a nutshell.

It's not being responsible for everything in the business.

Actually have other people who are doing...

I talk about brains-work and hands-work

and at the moment, I do the brains-work

and other people do all of the hands-work.

And there's a lot of hands-work in what we do,

so that means that a lot of the day to day running

isn't stuff that I need to be directly involved with.

- [Brent] So being, I heard one thing that you said,

which is essentially communicate this stuff with your

clients if you're gonna be taking time off.

Don't try to keep it a secret from them.

That you're still running your business,

but you're doing it from vacation

and then you're on your phone

or you're emailing all the time.

And I know I've done that, I've just haven't brought

it up to people then I've kind of felt like,

I don't want to tell them I'm on vacation, not working.

Then they're gonna think that I'm not working on

their project hard enough or something like that.

Which obviously, people take vacations, right?

So, setting those, communicating that with your clients

and then also setting that,

so setting that expectation with your team.

Setting that expectation with yourself

those milestones and things like that.

And also having other people in the business.

Did you hire other people?

My bucket for anybody else that's in your business?

Did you hire them when you first

kind of restarted this business?

Or was that something you eventually

learned how to do and

now do a lot of?

- [Marama] I hired Claude, my designer first at the business

because I can't use Photoshop.

I literally can not design anything.

So he was my very first hire as a freelancer.

And then I just hired bit by bit as it's needed.

Another thing about being virtual,

is it allows you more flexibility

about who you can hire, as well.

So a lot of our

people, to put them in a bucket aren't full time.

In fact, very few of them are.

Because they're not needed full time.

So, being remote does allow that flexibility

where you can get, for instance moms who's got small

kids who can't get a normal job in quotes.

Because they can't work full time.

They can't work nine to five.

Their kid might be sick, they might need to work from home

one day and they've been out of the workforce for five years

so they're kind of a bit unemployable

by the general standard of employment.

And so we being remote and being virtual,

we can have two or three people sitting in a full time role,

instead of do job share remotely

which gives us more flexibility

and more stability in that as well.

So I hire for seats as soon as a role becomes available

without it having to need to be a full time role.

And I think that's allowed for a lot of flexibility.

So our project manager for instance,

she works 10 hours a week.

That's all she needs to do.

'Cause how we set the systems up,

we've only got six projects going at any one point and time.

10 hours a week is all she needs

to do to keep everything running.

We're looking at hiring another one for sort

of the same amount in the next quarter.

That's just, that's all she needs to be.

We don't need a full time employee for that.

- [Brent] And I think that's huge as a takeaway

for people to think like your first hire

or maybe even your next hire doesn't

have to be a 40 hour a week,

W2, benefits type of person.

So you don't have that kind of demands yet.

You don't have to wait to start bringing in help.

You can find people that maybe are happy with part time.

Is there quote on quote full time,

they don't have any intent on working 40 hours a week.

They can come in, drop in on your project.

I know we've got a few different contractors in our business

that are working as little as five hours

or even three hours a week,

because that's the amount of time they have

right to be working within your business.

So I think that's a really cool takeaway.

- [Marama] Well it's the amount of time the role provides.

That the role requires as well.

And it's just, I think that flexibility

and transparency is really important.

So one thing you were talking about communicating

with your clients when you're traveling.

One of our core thing of ours is to be transparent.

We make no secret about the fact

that our designers are in Romania.

We in fact, have that as a selling point.

If we get, and again artificial deadlines almost.

If we get this by close of business today,

you might have something magical tomorrow,

because our designer's in another time zone.

And he works over our night, so we can wake up to his work.

Which actually can make things more efficient.

You're almost working on a 24 hour cycle without

anyone working outside of their normal business hours.

And so, to go back to the earlier point,

when I am traveling,

I'll let clients know that I'm traveling

because I'll be in a different time zone.

So that means that, we need to schedule.

If I am doing any work over which i do sometimes,

we just need to schedule meetings

that are in a relevant time zone.

They know I'm not as available

and I'm not gonna be as responsive as usual,

but they know that I've thought about it

and that the team can handle it.

And to direct all things through the appropriate channels.

And I think that's better than,

just hoping that they don't notice

and thinking that you're working

at two o'clock in the morning

because you're sending an email at that time of day.

(laughter)

- [Brent] I like to send my emails at 3am.

Right, that's a good time.

- [Marama] Yeah, that's pretty normal.

That's pretty standard.

- [Brent] I want to talk real quick,

'cause I think that this has been something that

with your bootcamp groups,

I've kind of hyped up about you a little bit.

Is that being able to travel.

Being able to run the virtual business

and I think you've helped a lot of people

in our program accomplish something very similar to that.

Where you've been able to kind

of bring that experience forward.

I mentioned this in your intro.

You've coached and led over 100 bootcamp

graduates through our program.

What do you think are some of those challenges

that you see in week one with people that have

maybe small or budding virtual agencies

where they were kind of you back when,

right after your house burned down.

Maybe you're not with the huge tragedy,

but what are some of those things that you are seeing

with people that want to build what you have,

but are just starting out.

What are those things?

- [Marama] I think oftentimes, its people get too

hung up upon what other people think.

And this was something that was a big issue for me.

That sort of this, there's still this kind of perception,

that unless you have an agency with a physical table

and basketball hoops and beer in the fridge,

that you're not a legit agency.

And I think there is a little bit

of that perception out there.

So I think for a lot of bootcampers,

they feel like they're just me.

It's just little old me,

how can I ever compete with those big agencies?

And for me, one of the joys of being an entrepreneur

and setting up your own company is

that you can set it up however you want to do.

Whatever works for you can work.

There is so many different business models out there.

And as long as you keep your eye on the basics,

as far as you keep your margins in control

and you make sure that your income

is more than your expenditure.

And you do sales and marketing

and fulfillment, like it really doesn't matter

how you choose to do that.

So oftentimes, people I think that have a mindset

that this is the way it's done.

This is the way it has to be.

If I'm going to hire someone,

they need to be full time.

I don't have any, I can't hire anyone yet,

because I don't have a full time role.

And then they end up creating themselves

at this tiny little bottleneck

where they are the barrier in their business.

Because that's what they're trying to do everything.

The other thing I think is, oftentimes entrepreneurs

are control freaks, to not put too fine a point on it.

So actually letting go of the control of the business

and actually trusting someone else to do something

in a way that may not be exactly the way you would do

something and arguably not as good as you would do it.

That I would say, that is absolutely arguably.

Like I said, I can't design to save my life

and I'm a hack as a developer, but I do know business.

And so being self aware of what you're actually good at

and focusing on those skills and building up.

Getting people who are better than you are

at the other things around you

and supporting you in whatever capacity that is.

I think it's the way

to develop

whatever kind of business or agency you want to develop.

- [Brent] And I think that's big, right?

I mean, putting the intention out there of saying,

here's the business that I want.

It's funny.

So we had Phil Lockwood on our episode

that just went live last week.

And it's funny, 'cause he had the brick and mortar agency.

That was 70 people.

Then he left that and basically went all virtual.

Went all in on that for several years

and kind of created this highly profitable,

much more lifestyle focused business

and then he got this ambitious bug and

he's now going after,

he said in the episode,

he signed an LOI for 7,200 square feet

and he wants to have a 100 million dollar

agency over the next five years.

And he's shifting back over into that.

And so I think it's been interesting

for me, I think in my experience,

we had a very brick and mortar agency

and now UGURUS is very much virtual

and I think a lot of it does depend on

what you want out of your business.

And the funny thing is when we started our agency,

we didn't actually ever sit down and have that conversation.

Which I think is really important,

because at the time, we were like

well, what are we supposed to do?

Well, we think that people aren't taking us seriously

because we're officing out of our house,

which wasn't true.

We had many five figure plus contracts.

Many people didn't care.

One guy did and they got stuck in my head for some reason

so I kind of just did what I thought you were supposed

to do which was go get cool office space downtown.

And that caused lot of

strife.

Because it's expensive and then people show up

and they're expensive.

They're all local, versus leveraging.

I think at the time, we were running virtual.

We had a couple guys in Poland

and the purchasing power and the yeah,

there were some issues with the communication

and sometimes I just go dark on us

and all that kind of stuff

but they were like literally a 10th of the cost

of U.S. based

people

but I think that was a key maybe

takeaway for everybody listening is to

spend some time, beginning of the year.

Good time as any is now.

But to really think about that.

Spend an hour with a blank sheet of paper

and say, like what do I want out of my business.

It's not what does my business look like,

what do I want out of it?

And then work backwards to okay

now what does my business need to

look like to get me these outcomes?

- [Marama] Exactly and I think like

I said at the start of the podcast.

It's a difference between having your business

support your life or your life support your business.

What life do you want?

What lifestyle do you want?

What do you want your business to look like?

And then how can you get from where you are to that?

And it's different for everyone.

And there's no right or wrong answer.

If you want to be a well paid self employed freelancer,

then yay, good for you like there's nothing wrong with that.

You can still utilize all the tools that you teach UGURUS

and get paid very, very handsomely as a solopreneur.

And stay that way, if that's what you want to be.

If you never want to handle team or anything

and that's how you want to be,

you can still do that.

Or you can do what I've done

or you can be a multi-gazillion dollar agency

with hundreds of staff and the big office.

None of those are wrong answers.

It all just depends on what you want to create

and how you want everything to look.

And I think as humans, we care too much

about what other people think, as a society.

And we don't spend as much time as we possibly should really

looking and contemplating for one for a better word,

what we actually want.

We just kind of go through the motions and end up somewhere.

That old saying, if you don't know where

you're going to go, you'll get there.

(laughter)

We're just kind of mosey along and say,

oh look, look what happened,

rather than being intentional about things.

And I'm a big one for being intentional.

Sitting in intention of whatever that's gonna be

and then making it happen.

- [Brent] That's awesome.

I love the topics that we discussed today.

The virtual team, how to run a good remote culture.

How to make travel work in your business.

Communicating this to your clients.

I think we've covered some important parts

of setting that intention for your business

and really thinking about that.

So, Marama thank you for that

and if you're ready, I've got some

lightening round questions for you.

- [Marama] Let's do it.

- [Brent] Alright.

What is the best advice you've ever received?

- [Marama] You can do anything you put your mind to.

- [Brent] That's nice and short and sweet.

- [Marama] That's it.

- [Brent] Which of your personal habits

has contributed most to your success?

- [Marama] I think, well it's kind of a jewel thing.

My tenacity which comes from,

you can do anything you put your mind to.

If I put my mind to something, it happens.

And then coupled with my,

it's hard to put into words,

but I guess my openness

to A, my own intuition

and B, to being told, like getting feedback.

I actually, if I'm doing something wrong

or if I'm speaking rubbish and people close to me say,

Marama, we're talking about that in (mumbles)

me calling him on his bullshit.

I'm open to people doing that to me.

If I'm telling myself stories that aren't true

and someone says, hey Marama, that's not true,

I'm very open to that and to adjusting accordingly.

If that makes sense.

- [Brent] I remember during summit,

I think you became, just from we had a couple of talks.

(laughter)

You became the official bs caller.

That was--

- [Marama] But that's so, it's so not what I do.

(laughter)

But when I do it I do it with so much love.

It made me feel, that call was being mean, which I wasn't.

But anyway, yes.

(laughter)

- [Brent] I think everybody took it the right way.

Right, but can you share an internet resource

or tool that is really important to your business

and personal success?

- [Marama] So I've got two.

None of them are particularly inspiring.

One of them is Teamwork, which is my project management

and my chat function and my support desk, it's fantastic

and the other is Google Apps.

So, I don't think any of them are shattering new, unknown.

But those are the two I couldn't run the business without.

- [Brent] It's good, I live by Google Apps.

I'm right there with you.

I think Phil last week said,

the book was his favorite tool.

So there are no rules with lightening round.

(laughter)

What book would you recommend and why?

- [Marama] So there's so many.

It read a lot.

I know a lot of the books that I've read,

I've already heard and I probably heard from you.

So I wouldn't tell you any of those,

but one that I just read over the

Christmas break was Drive by Daniel Pink.

Have you read that one?

- [Brent] I have not, I am a fan of Daniel Pink.

But I have not read his book Drive.

- [Marama] So it's all about motivation.

And it talks about the different stages of motivation,

so motivation 1.0 is food, clothing, shelter.

Do you have those things?

Motivation 2.0 is like sort of traditional corporate type

carrot and stick sort of stuff

and motivation 3.0 is what drive is about

which is about intrinsic motivation as opposed to extrinsic.

So motivation from within instead of without.

And so it talks about the core motivations that all

humans have which is the need for autonomy,

to have some kind of control over their life.

And the need to mastery to get better at things

and the need to have a purpose.

And it talks about how to integrate that into your company

to intrinsically motivate you and your staff

as opposed to having carrots and sticks and time tracking

and spying and all that kind of stuff.

So I found that really interesting.

It just kind of solidified a lot of stuff

that I've been doing naturally

and it was really cool to see someone write a book about it.

- [Brent] Awesome, we'll link to that in the show notes.

How can our audience find out more about you?

- [Marama] They can hit me up.

I have got a fairly unusual name,

so if you Google me, I will come up.

My website is eSense web design

and I also have a new site which is medihealthstrategies,

both .com or you can shoot me an

email at marama@eSensewebdesign.com

- [Brent] Awesome and if you guys

are driving, you're on the road,

go to our website ugurus.com.

Check out our podcast page, look for the show notes

and you'll find links to all those things.

The book recommendations as well as any tools

or topics that we mentioned during the program.

So make sure you guys check that out.

Marama, that you so much for stopping by the program today.

We really enjoyed this chat.

- [Marama] My pleasure, always a pleasure to chat.

- [Brent] Alright guys, that is your episode

of you Digital Agency Show this week.

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Last year, a certain place in my city, Jakarta, was attacked by a suicide bomber.

Let's imagine this event happened inside a superhero comic book.

The villain, in this case, a suicide bomber, arrives at the scene.

He walks around, surveying the people and the place.

Once he is settled, all he needs to do is press this little the red button

and "boom," everything blows up,

people are running away, kids are screaming,

police and ambulance sirens can be heard from every direction.

Suddenly, the superhero with his cape or her shining armor comes and saves the day.

They help civilians to safety, puts out the fire,

takes the injured to a hospital,

and most importantly, defeats the villain.

We all love these stories, don't we?

We all grew up hearing stories of heroism, especially superheroes -

how Captain America with all his loyalty and super strength,

he can save the world and win hearts of everyone,

and how Batman using all his money creates super gadgets to save his city, Gotham.

Tell me, who doesn't love them?

Who doesn't dream to be saved by them even though you know they're fictional?

Admit it, all of you must have dreamt about it.

But those heroes, the Avengers, Batman, Superman,

they have their own place to be a hero.

They have their own stories where they put up their shining armor or capes or tights

and you know, save the world.

But in the end, they are only stories.

They don't exist in the real world we live in.

So who then, are the everyday heroes among us?

They don't wear capes or tights or have any superpowers

so what do they look like?

The dictionary says a hero is someone

who is admired for their courage, noble qualities and outstanding achievements.

But to me, I think that heroes are people who have the courage to help other people.

As simple as that.

It can be if the person just smiles at a stranger, to me that is an act of heroism.

Why?

Because we never know what the person might be going through

and smiling at a stranger takes strength and effort.

It takes effort to put aside our doubts of smiling at a stranger.

It takes strength to share the same feelings with others, to have empathy.

There are a lot of heroes in real life,

Like Malala, Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King,

Soekarno, Indonesia's first president, and a whole bunch of others.

And if I ask you what made them a hero,

most of us will say, let's take an example, Malala,

most of us will say, "She's a hero because she fights for girls education,"

"She's a hero because she sacrificed herself,"

or maybe another example, Martin Luther King.

"He's a hero because he fought for freedom for people of color."

She fought for this, he fought for that and the whole list goes on.

But really though, let's take a moment and think about it.

All the heroes I just mentioned and the heroes we all know,

have helped other people.

Malala helped girls to have education.

Martin Luther King helped people of color to gain greater freedom

and equality in the United States.

They all believe in equality and that everyone should get the same chances.

They have the vision to make this world a better place.

You see, as we grow up, we realize that life

is much harder and tougher than it looks.

And we humans are social creatures.

We need each other in order to survive, we need each other in order to live.

We need each other to be our heroes.

Heroes come in different shapes and sizes.

We don't need to have superpowers to be heroes.

We don't need to have a lot of money to be heroes.

We don't need to stand in front of a gun to be a hero.

We don't need to sacrifice ourselves to death to be a hero.

But we do have to be kind to be a hero.

We have to be helpful to be a hero.

We have to be empathetic to be a hero.

We have to do all these things and other good things to be a hero.

These traits seem simple but it actually takes time to practice.

So what if we start practicing for the day when we can be heroes?

What if we had a hero-training?

Going back to what happened in Jakarta last year,

I think that no matter how long we waited

for that superhero with his cape or her shining armor to come,

they wouldn't because the real hero in this event wasn't them,

it was the people who decided fear wouldn't bring them down

and helped other people, instead.

I used to think my hero is Superman and Batman.

Trust me, no joke. I have this huge photo frame filled with my photos and theirs.

And then as I got older, I stare at it and think.

I think that there are more people who have been there for me through it all.

And the thing about life, it has its own ups and downs

in which there are some moments where we feel like stopping,

maybe like throwing up.

But there is someone who shared the same ride with me

through my ups and down and that is my mother.

She has no cape, no superpowers, no exploding bank account.

She is just another human being.

But she is there for me.

She guided me and she helped me.

She is the reason I am standing here today,

so can I say that she is my hero?

Yes, I can.

I looked around at how I might become a hero,

and the best example I could find wasn't wearing a cape - it was my mother.

She is a hero because she's there for me to rely on.

She is a hero because she's there for me to wipe away my tears.

She is my hero because she is there for me to make me smile.

This is just one story we can take into our hero-training,

and I wanted to figure out this hero formula so that I can share with you all.

So I did an experiment.

I spent three days looking for hero-makers.

Here's what I saw.

One day, my friend was crying in class.

People around her were telling her "to get over it, don't think about it,

it doesn't matter, you're overreacting."

But then this other friend came to her and gave her a hug.

Just support, no advice, no talking, just support.

That's hero lesson number one.

Heroes are always looking out for others.

My friend didn't tell her what she should feel

because to be honest the only one who know how it truly feels

is my friend who was crying.

So instead, she thought about what she might need at that moment.

That's empathy.

The second example is my school nurse w as walking down the street with her baby

and a toddler beside her.

She struggled to put everything onto her motorbike,

but then when she finally managed to put her children in,

she almost dropped her bag until a man came to her and decided to help her.

That's hero lesson number two.

Sometimes it doesn't require a great action to be a hero.

A small gesture like this deserves to be called a hero action.

There are a lot more stories we can learn from

and we can add into our hero training,

But there is one lesson that I learned from these events

and that is sometimes the small gestures are the ones that matter the most.

It is the way we smile at others that can make us a hero.

Because you would never know,

maybe our smile is the only good thing they had that day.

It was the way we hug our family and friends that makes us a hero.

It is the way we give a hand to others

when they needed help with their groceries.

It is the way we make somebody else smile that makes us a hero.

So I think that being a hero isn't all about having a lot of money

or wearing capes or wearing shining armor

and doing great things and changing the world.

I think that being a hero is about being kind, helpful, generous, and empathetic.

These are the things we should do in our hero training.

These are the things we should do in our daily life as a good human being

and as a hero.

Now, we can all start training today.

Do you want to be your version of Captain Kindness?

Or maybe you want to have your own empathetic-mobile like Batman?

Or maybe you can be everything by yourself and be an Avenger.

It is all up to you.

If the answer to these questions is yes then you know what you have to do.

Go out there, pick a color of your cape, and be a hero.

Thank you.

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