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The Good and The Bad Things When you are an introvert

Introverts are known as people who get their energy from solitude and lose their energy

from social interaction.

It is not more than that since people tend to think that introverted people are useless

since they are too shy to live in this world.

Discovering your personality type is amazing and identifying that you are an introvert

can be a life-changing for you.

Certain thing that people need to know is, it is worth noting that just like extroverted

people, there are some good and bad sides from each of the character.

In this short video, I'm going to share with you some examples of the good and the bad

things when you are an introvert.

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forget to like this video if you find this information is helpful to you.

#1 - Deep thinker

It is extremely useful if you are on setup where concentration, focus, and memorizing

play important part.

Class setup usually puts introverts in an advantageous position.

Additionally, introverts also get appreciation when helping the extroverted students who

usually struggle.

#2 - Deep empathy

Unlike the extroverts, introverted people tend to be more attentive to something or

someone.

They want to make sure they are in the best condition ever.

Otherwise, the introverts will feel guilty and uneasy.

Deep empathy also makes introverts loveable even though they will still keep distance

to people whom they are not familiar of.

Regardless of those two good sides of empathy, there are several bad things that should be

addressed.

This is not for cornering the introverts.

Instead, it should be used for introverts to adapt in different situation.

#1 - Unable to form relationship

Due to their calm and quiet nature, introverts often have hard time to find friends.

People typically do not initiate a conversation with someone who does not look friendly or

does not want to be asked.

This may create problem in the future since communication skill is one of the most needed

skill that introverts are assumed to be lacking.

#2 - Being isolated

Introverts are usually isolated because they are rarely able to speak their minds.

This actually makes other confused or not sure what they should do with the introverts.

The introverted people also sometimes withdraw when their friends approach them, making them

even more isolated.

All in all, that's some examples of the good and the bad things when you are an introvert.

Really cool information isn't it?

Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

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For more infomation >> The Good and The Bad Things When you are an introvert - Duration: 3:01.

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L'Tanya Lemon Grimes: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know || SML News - Duration: 5:45.

L'Tanya Lemon Grimes: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know

A woman drowned in a neighborhood pond in Louisiana on Wednesday, January 31.

She was identified as L'Tanya Lemon Grimes, CNN host Don Lemon's sister.

Here's What You Need to Know:.

She was CNN Host Don Lemon's Oldest Sister.

L'Tanya Lemon Grimes was 58-years-old, and CNN Host Don Lemon's oldest sister.

They have another sister, Yma Lemon.

"Thanks everyone for your words of sympathy.

Please keep my family in your prayers.

Leisa was my oldest sister & partner in crime growing up.

Always had my back.

#RIPbigSis" Lemon tweeted on Thursday evening.

Don Lemon is the host of CNN Tonight with Don Lemon, and CNN confirmed that he would not be on air Thursday evening.

She Drowned in a Neighborhood Pond While Fishing.

She died after falling into a neighborhood pond in Denham Springs, Louisiana, according to Police.

The drowning was accidental and no foul play is suspected.

Police said she may have tripped and fallen in the pond while fishing.

The Drowning Was Reported a Day Before Her Body was Identified.

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The drowning was reported on January 31 and officers arrived at the scene around 4 p.m.

Grimes' identity was not confirmed until Thursday, February 1.

Her Daughters Posted About Her Death on Instagram.

Kimberly Grimes and her sister Katherine Grimes posted tributes to their mom on Instagram.

Kimberly's Instagram profile says she has a B.S.

in Sociology and an M.A.

in Social Sciences.

She also has an Instagram account for her work as a makeup artist and hair extension expert.

Katherine Grimes also has a B.S.

and an M.A, and her Instagram profile says she's a weaveologist and a makeup lover.

Grimes Grew up in Louisiana, Near Where She Drowned.

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Grimes grew up in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

She and her siblings are of Creole, Nigerian, Cameroonian, and Congolese ancestry.

Her Family is Together in Louisiana Now.

Grimes family is together in Louisiana.

They issued this statement:.

"The Lemon/Grimes family would like to thank everyone for their condolences and prayers at this time.

Our family has suffered the tragic loss of L'Tanya 'Leisa' Lemon Grimes," the family said in a statement to E! News.

"We are leaning on each other for strength at this time.

We appreciate privacy as we grieve the loss of our loved one.".

For more infomation >> L'Tanya Lemon Grimes: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know || SML News - Duration: 5:45.

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Mental Health Series: Guess What I Did Today?! - Duration: 3:19.

As you know, I've been traveling for one month

So do you wanna know what I did today?

I am sure you guys are curious and wants to know

I did nothing!

Yeah, that's right. Nothing!

In the past month, I have gone out and explore

Taking pictures

Filming

socializing and meeting many new people

It was exciting!

But today, I got hit with

Depression

Today I just didnt have the energy to go out there

I didn't really have the energy to do anything today

but instead of beating myself up and making myself feel more insecure

I decided to listen to myself

listen to my body

Pay attention to my mental health

Why?

Mental health is important too!

Yes, it is important too

I know people say just force yourself

Just dress up and go out there

It's said than done

Even though I said I did nothing

I did do small accomplishments today

I read

I slept

I just wanted to let you know that it's ok to do nothing

Whether if you are traveling, at home,

with friends,

family,

by yourself,

It's okay!

And it's okay if you are not feeling happy today

It's okay if you aren't having a good day

So yeah, I really just wanted to let you know that

Don't always believe what you see in the pictures or youtube

People filmed themselves all happy and all smiles

It's not always true

I know some days I am really happy

High on life

Doing everything

And some days like today

It hits me when I just don't have the energy

So it's really important for you guys to listen to yourself

Take care of yourself!

Love yourself!

Love yourself through the good days and the bad days

It's okay

So today, I will continue to read

Drink up my coffee

Just relax

I just want you guys to know that you are not alone

I am curious for those with mental health illness

How do you guys take care of yourself?

Ok, I love you!

For more infomation >> Mental Health Series: Guess What I Did Today?! - Duration: 3:19.

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#1 Survival Tool for House Cleaners - Duration: 8:14.

What is the number one survival tool for house cleaners?

I'm going to answer that today.

Hi there, I'm Angela Brown, and this is Ask A House Cleaner.

This is a show where you get to ask a house cleaning question

and I get to help you find an answer.

Now today's show is brought to us by housecleaning360.com

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If you have not had your carpets cleaned in a while, then here's a secret.

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If you offer these services and you don't have your business listed, run over to housecleaning360.com

and set up your business listing so people can find you.

Okay, on to today's session, which is the number one survival tool for house cleaners.

I got asked this question the other day, and I stopped to think, well is it this one or

is it this one?

Because there are two.

Oh no, there are two, and I'm only going to tell you about one.

Okay, the number one.

This actually trumps number two.

Number one, the number one survival tool for house cleaners and the house cleaning business,

is the ability to think quickly and rationally on your feet.

Wow, that's it.

And until we meet again ... No, I'm kidding.

I won't end this so quick.

Let me explain.

When you are a house cleaner, you're going to run into a lot of things that I wish you didn't.

You will have all kinds of problems from the initial walkthrough where people lie to you

and they tell you things about their house that are not true.

You will run into challenges where you have employees that, for whatever reason, don't

show up, and you have clients you need to serve that day.

You will run into problems where employees will tell you things that are not true and

you have to learn to read between the lines and rationalize and reason with those people

because they're going to come back every day and work for you.

You are going to have problems where things happen inside someone's house that you're

not expecting like a toilet breaks on you, or you break a sink, or you shatter the glass

in the oven of their door, or you light their house on fire, or you break their shower glass

door, and a whole array of other things that you are not expecting that are going to happen

on the job.

Now it's one of the reasons we're bonded and insured and all these things, because things

that we don't expect will happen.

I promise you that.

Okay, so your number one survival tool.

A lot of times as house cleaners we have a tendency to, check this out, be human.

Something bad happens like we shatter the glass door in someone's shower and our first

reaction is to freak out.

We start cussing and we're like, "Whoa, what are we going to do?"

Then we go into this panic mode.

When you are in panic mode, all of your ability to reason and think clearly disappears.

It's just gone.

There you are left there with your eyes wide open and your mind is like fog, and you can't

think clearly.

It's like when you're in danger and you go to call 911, and you touch your cell phone

and you can't remember the number, and you don't even know how to get to the place on

your phone where you dial the numbers.

Your mind has gone into a panic mode.

It's the fight or flight syndrome.

When that kicks in and that adrenaline rush surges through your body and it hits your

brain, for a second everything whites out.

You just have this moment of a deer in the headlights.

The ability to reason and think clearly on your feet is a learned skill.

You need to learn it as your number one survival tool in the house cleaning business because

things will happen a lot.

You're going to need this skill more than any other skill.

What happens instead of cursing, if cursing is your default, that's what you do, stop.

Stop and realize, wait a second, I'm having one of those moments.

I need to calm myself down.

I need to come back to center and I need to focus on what's happening.

Now for me, there's a trigger.

In my house, when anything malfunctions, and it's one of those "oh my goodness" moments,

I say to myself, in a calm mode with no expression, no emotion, it's completely generic,

"I wish that didn't happen."

Now it's a generic enough statement that it brings me back to focus because it's true

I wish that didn't happen.

I'm acknowledging whatever this is, just happened.

I wish it didn't happen.

Now I can stop and I can ask myself, "What do I wish did happen?"

That gives me a different frame of mind where now I can start looking for solutions, not

"How am I going to clean this mess up" or "How do I get myself out of this?" or "How

do I hide from this so people don't think I did this?"

The answer is, "What do I wish happened instead?"

I wish what happened instead is I wouldn't have used such force cleaning the shower door

that caused it to break, or I wish I wouldn't have sprayed this on the oven at this particular

temperature in order to cause the glass to break, or whatever it is.

I can wish something instead.

When I wish something instead, that often shows me it's probably the exact opposite

of what I just did, but it shows me the solution to what I wish would have happened instead.

That's my second default.

What that does is that lets me know in the future, to prevent this from ever happening

again, here's what I now will do instead.

Before I even clean up the next, I've acknowledged the mess.

Number two, what do I wish happened instead to future-proof myself from it happening again.

Then my third default is what am I going to do about this particular scenario right now.

What are my options?

I don't want to just default and start doing something.

I don't want to hurry and start cleaning something up and just whatever, because maybe what I

need to do is take a picture of it first.

Maybe there's an online house cleaning forum that will allow me to get advice from other

people so that that will inform my future decisions.

Maybe I need a picture of this before I clean it up to file with the insurance company to

say, "Hey, I was cleaning a person's house.

I need my insurance to cover the cost of a new shower for these people."

But if you've already cleaned up all the glass and you've killed all your proof, okay, now

you reacted too quickly.

It's easy to confuse that with anger.

A lot of times some of the things that are going to happen to us is anger.

Anger is one letter away from the word danger.

If you spell danger and anger, there's one letter difference, and it's the D. You don't

want to go into a panic mode where you do something you will later regret.

In that moment, "Oh, I wish that didn't happen.

Okay, what do I wish did happen?" and then, "What am I going to do about this particular

scenario?"

Sometimes the three to five seconds to process all of that will save you endless amounts

of trouble on the other end.

Your number one key to survival in the house cleaning business is to slow everything down

and just stop, and to be able to think quickly and clearly on your feet.

Because there will always be some kind of weird things that are happening, and if you

just default, if you react instead of respond, and there's a huge difference, but if you

just react, a lot of times your choice will be incorrect and it won't serve you for the

long term.

Take just a second, bring everything back to focus, and now you have the chance to respond.

Then you can respond in a way that will serve your business, that will protect your reputation,

and then will help you make wiser decisions for the future of your business.

Your number one survival tool, and this is without a doubt the number one, it is to be

able to think clearly and efficiently in the moment.

Bring yourself back to focus.

Alrighty, until we meet again, leave the world a cleaner place than when you found it.

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