Waching daily Oct 31 2018

Are you stuck in a toxic work environment that's tearing you down?

Are you wondering what you can do to stay sane in your hostile workplace

until you find a new job? If this sounds like you tune in because in this video,

you'll learn how to handle an unhealthy workplace and how to deal with a toxic

boss or toxic co-workers and stay until the end to find out where you can get

something special that will help you survive your hostile work environment

and give you hope for one day landing a new job. If we've never met before, I'm

Heather Austin from ProfessorAustin.com and The Career Club on Facebook and

on this channel I provide simple solutions to help you launch a career

you love so if you're new here consider subscribing and hitting that bell

notification down below so you don't miss a thing and real quick comment down

below with what you've done before to survive your toxic workplace. You could

be in a toxic work environment if you feel overwhelmed, anxious or stressed out

at the thought of going to work or maybe you feel depressed or distracted or

reclusive. If this sounds like you, chances are your work environment is

unhealthy and you need to move on. Here are some key indicators that your

work environment is no good. There's poor communication, when disciplinary problems

come up nothing is done about it, your boss will make exceptions for

others but not you and you have a bunch of gossiping co-workers. If quitting is

not an option for you then developing a few coping mechanisms will buy you time

until you can land a new career opportunity. So let's jump into it. Tip

number one, take a walk. When the going gets tough, take a walk.

It's been proven that when we change the physiology of our body we change our

mental state and our thought process. Walking will give you a surge of energy

and will help you get out of the situation to clear your thoughts. It will

give you time to reflect and re-group and if you can find an

inspirational place to walk or even try a quick meditation while you're walking.

Tip number two, keep your eyes open for new opportunities. This will give you

hope and encouragement to keep moving forward. Start by reaching out to your

network to find out what companies are hiring or what positions might be

available and get your resume and LinkedIn profile ready to go for when

that position presents itself. The more people you reach out to, the quicker your

new opportunity will come up. You want to constantly be networking and reaching

out to others for new opportunities. Use LinkedIn's career interests section to

signal hiring managers and recruiters that you are open to new opportunities.

This will also help you get your exit strategy going. Tip number three, find

positive influences. Surround yourself with others that can lift you up. This

will build your confidence and will help you focus on your long-term goals. This

will also lower your risk of falling into a depression. It will bring out the

best in you and it will help you fight off stress. These positive influences

will help you work through issues that come up in the workplace in an uplifting

and encouraging manner. Take it one step further by developing an affirmation

about your ideal job. Read the affirmation and visualize it to yourself in

the morning before you go to work and right before you go to bed. Tip number

four, let it go before you get home. Your roommate or your significant other may

not want to hear about every negative detail that happens in the workplace.

They want to spend quality time with you and venting about the problems at work

could make the situation worse. Rather find someone outside of the house that

you can vent with about your current situation

or better yet journal about it before you enter the front door. Have you heard

of "garbage-in" "garbage-out?" Well your head is filled with a bunch of garbage and

you need to take out the trash. One way to do this is to journal about those

thoughts and emotions surrounding that negative situation. Get

rid of those thoughts and emotions before you even walk in the door. You

don't want them stinking up your mind throughout the night. Of course you can

let your loved ones know about what's happening at work but let them know what

steps you are taking to solve the problem or to handle the situation. Your

hostile work environment is not worthy of your attention at home. Your home is

your safe place and should be filled with happy, blissful moments. Step number 5,

be reasonable with your time. One of the best things to combat workplace toxicity

is to take regularly scheduled breaks including your lunch breaks. This is a

really good time to reset. Also leave work when it's time to leave and don't

come in early. Working more hours than necessary will only heighten the problem.

Set boundaries and keep your distance as best you can. If you need to, let your

manager or the human resource department know of your intentions. Keeping these

lines of communication open will make it easier for you to work only when

required. Tip number six, refrain from gossip. It's

really easy to find others in the workplace that you can vent with and

sometimes this might be warranted, but in most situations, gossiping will not

improve the situation and in fact it's a form of bullying. Now here's the cool

thing, it's been proven that when gossip is decreased in a workplace,

productivity increases and sick days go down so stay as far away from the drama

as you can. This will help you survive some of those difficult days at work. You

deserve a job you love. You are worthy of a position that brings you joy and

fulfillment. You deserve to be happy. If you're in a workplace situation that's

causing you stress or harm in some way, do your best to change your circumstance.

Whether that's with your outlook or a different job, you are better than that

and if the new job is what you're looking for, take a look at the

Six-Second Resume. It's an easy-to-use resume template that you can download

today and take action toward that new job. I'll

go ahead and link it up below and if you know someone that might benefit from

this video please share it with them. Don't forget to hit the like button down

below and be sure to subscribe for more videos like this and I will see you in

the next video.

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3 ways to create a space that moves you, from a Broadway set designer | David Korins - Duration: 10:37.

You're sitting there,

and it's incredibly frustrating.

It's maddening.

You've been sitting there for hours,

filling in those little tiny circles with your No. 2 pencil --

this is a standardized test.

You look up, half-erased chalkboard,

you can see that perfectly written cursive alphabet,

the pull-down maps,

you can hear, tick, tick, tick, ticking on the wall, that industrial clock.

But most importantly, you can feel that oppressive fluorescent light,

that death ray over your head.

Bzzzzzz.

And you can't take it anymore, but you don't have to,

because Miss Darling says, "OK, boys and girls, you're done."

So you jump up -- I mean, there is nothing left of you but a vapor trail.

You move so quickly, you slam that little molded plastic chair,

and you sprint down the hallway;

you go past the Lysol smell and the BO smell and the cubbies,

and you push the door --

(Inhales deeply)

and finally, you're outside.

Oh, you can feel the wind on your face,

then the sun on your skin

and most importantly, the big blue sky.

That is a revelation of space.

Making revelations of space is what I do; I'm a designer and creative director,

and that's what I do for a living.

I do it for all sorts of people in all kinds of different ways,

and it might seem complicated, but it's not.

And over the next couple of minutes, I'm going to give you three ways

that I think you can move through your world

so that you, too, can make revelations of space, or at least reveal them.

Step one: therapy.

I know, I know, I know: blah, blah, blah, New Yorker, blah, blah, blah, therapy.

But seriously, therapy -- you have to know why you're doing these things, right?

When I got the job of designing "Hamilton,"

I sat with Lin-Manuel Miranda, writer,

Tommy Kail, director, and I said,

"Why are we telling this 246-year-old story?

What is it about the story that you want to say,

and what do you want people to feel like when they experience the show?"

It's important. When we get that, we move into step two: the design phase.

And I'll give you some little tricks about that,

but the design phase is important because we get to make these cool toys.

I reach into Lin's brain, he reaches into mine,

this monologue becomes a dialogue.

And I make these cool toys,

and I say, "Does this world look like the world

that you think could be a place where we could house your show?"

If the answer is yes -- and when the answer is yes --

we move into what I think is the most terrifying part,

which is the execution phase.

The execution phase is when we get to build this thing,

and when this conversation goes from a few people to a few hundred people

now translating this idea.

We put it in this beautiful little thing,

put it in the "Honey, I Shrunk the Kids" super-sizer machine

and blow it up full-scale,

and we never know if we did it right

until we show up onstage and go, "Is it OK? Is it OK?"

Here's the thing:

you don't have to be Lin,

you don't have to have a book that you want to turn into a show

in order to do this in your real life.

You're already starring in a show, by the way. It's called your life.

Congratulations. (Laughter)

But seriously, Shakespeare said it: "All the world's a stage."

He nailed that part.

What he screwed up royally was that part where he said,

"And we are merely players."

It's ridiculous. We're not merely players.

We are the costume designers and the lighting designers

and the makeup artists in our own world,

and I want to get you to think about being the set designer in your world.

Because I think you can leave here if you do these three steps

and a couple of little tricks, as I said, I'm going to tell you,

and you can begin to change the world

the way you want to.

You want to do it?

OK. Everybody write a show.

(Laughter)

No. Just kidding.

OK. Step one: therapy. Right?

How are you feeling?

That's what the therapist says: "How are you feeling today?"

It's important to remember that, because when we design the world for you,

the therapy is important.

It tells you that emotion is going to become light and color.

A good example of that light and color

is a show I designed called "Dear Evan Hansen."

(Cheers)

"Dear Evan Hansen" exists -- oh my God --

"Dear Evan Hansen" exists in a world of almost all light and color.

So I chose a color: inky-black darkness.

(Laughter)

Inky-black darkness is a color the way that sadness is an emotion.

And this show transforms people, but not before it wrecks people.

I bet you're wondering, "How expensive could the set possibly be to transform you

if you sit for two hours and 20 minutes

in inky-black darkness?"

The answer is: cheap!

Inky-black darkness,

turn the lights on at the right time.

Seriously, think about leaving Miss Darling's class.

Inky-black darkness gives way at the right moment,

we fly away that wall and reveal a beautiful blue sky.

It blows people away and it transports them,

and it makes them feel hopeful.

And we know this because color is emotion,

and when you paint with color, you're painting with feelings.

So think about that emotion, the one I had you file away in your mental Rolodex.

What color is it?

Where in your wardrobe does it exist, and where in your home does it exist?

When we design the show for you,

we're going to use that color to tell you how you feel in certain times.

But also, you know this exists because you put the hero in white,

you put the lead character in red, you put the villain in all black.

It's typecasting. You know that.

So think about it.

But there's also something else that happens in the world

that helps us move through the world in a safe way.

They're called architectural standards.

They make us not fall down and go boom.

Doorknobs are all at the same height. Light switches are all at the same height.

Toilet bowls are always -- thank God -- at the same height,

because no one ever misses the toilet bowl.

But seriously,

what would happen if we started to tweak those architectural standards

to get what we wanted?

It reminds me of the stairs I made for Pee-Wee Herman.

Pee-Wee Herman is a child,

and his entire world is created so that we perceive Pee-Wee as a child.

The architecture and the furniture and everything come to life,

but nothing more important than those stairs.

Those stairs are 12 inches high,

so when Pee-Wee clomps up and down those stairs,

he interacts with them like a kid.

You can't fake that kind of interaction,

and that's the exact opposite of what we ask people in opera to do.

In opera, we shrink those stairs

so that our main characters can glide up and down effortlessly

without ever breaking their voice.

You could never put an opera singer in Pee-Wee's Playhouse,

(Sings in Pee-Wee's voice) or they wouldn't be able to do their job.

(Laughter)

But you couldn't put Pee-Wee in an opera set.

He couldn't climb up and down those stairs.

There'd be no Pee-Wee.

He'd be like James Bond slinking elegantly up and down the stairs.

It wouldn't work.

(Laughter)

Now think of your set, your home, what you exist in every single day.

If you're anything like me, the trash can is just too small

for the amount of takeout that you buy every night, right?

And I find myself jamming like I'm kneading dough at a pizza place,

I'm jamming it in because I don't understand.

Or, maybe the light switch in your foyer

is just stashed behind too many precariously placed coats,

and so you don't even go for it.

Therefore, day after day,

you wind up walking in and out of a chasm of darkness.

(Laughter)

It's true.

But what would happen if the space revealed something about yourself

that you didn't even know?

Kanye never told me specifically that he wanted to be God.

But --

(Laughter)

when we started working together, we were sending images back and forth,

and he sent me a picture of the aurora borealis

with lightning strikes through it.

And he sent me pictures from a mountaintop looking down

at a smoke-filled canyon,

or smoke underneath the surface of water --

like, epic stuff.

So the first set I designed for him was a huge light box

with the name of his record label.

He would stand triumphantly in front of it,

and it would flash lights like a lightning bolt.

And it was epic, but, like, starter-kit epic.

We moved on to a large swath of sky with a tear down the middle,

and through the tear, you could see deep parts of the cosmos.

Getting closer.

We evolved to standing on top of an obelisk,

standing on top of a mountainside, standing on top of boxes.

You know, he was evolving as an artist through space,

and it was my job to try and keep up.

When we did Coachella,

there he was,

standing in front of an 80-foot-wide by 40-foot-tall ancient artifact,

literally handed down from God to man.

He was evolving, and we were all witness to it.

And in his last show, which I didn't design but I witnessed,

he had self-actualized.

He was literally standing on a floating plexiglass deck

over his adoring fans,

who had no choice but to praise to Yeezus up above.

(Laughter)

He had deified himself.

You can't become Yeezus in your living room.

The space told him who he was about himself,

and then he delivered that to us.

When I was 20 years old,

I was driving through a parking lot, and I saw a puddle.

I thought, "I'm going to veer to the left. No -- I'm going through it."

And I hit the puddle, and -- ffftt! -- all the water underneath my car,

and instantly, I have an aha moment.

Light bulb goes off.

Everything in the world needs to be designed.

I mean, I'm sure I was thinking, "The drainage needs to be designed

in this parking lot."

But then I was like, "Everything in the world needs to be designed."

And it's true: left to its own devices,

Mother Nature isn't going to carve an interesting or necessarily helpful path

for you.

I've spent my career reaching into people's minds

and creating worlds out here that we can all interact with.

And yeah, you might not get to do this with fancy collaborators,

but I think if you leave here, those three easy steps --

therapy, who do I want to be, why do I do the things that I do;

design, create a plan and try and follow through with it,

what can I do;

execute it --

I think if you add that with a little color theory --

(Laughter)

some cool design choices and a general disrespect for architectural standards,

you can go out

and create the world that you want to live in,

and I am going to go home and buy a new trash can.

Thank you.

(Applause)

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ATX Cozy Tiny House Has Beautiful Everything You Need - Duration: 3:57.

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Social Security's Limits For Past Medical Records & Retroactive Payments – Attorney Patrick Hartwig - Duration: 2:02.

You've been dealing with health problems for years, but Social Security only wants to see

your recent medical records because your payments won't go that far back in time.

Why won't Social Security take all of this into consideration?

Join me as I explain Social Security's limits for past medical records and retroactive payments.

Hi, I'm Patrick Hartwig and I'm a Social Security Disability Attorney in Massachusetts.

When you apply for Social Security Disability Insurance, SSDI, the very furthest back in

time your benefits can go would be one year prior to the date that you file that application.

Therefore, Social Security is mostly interested in looking at your medical records during

that timeframe because you're not eligible to receive benefits going any further back

in time.

Therefore, it's not necessary to prove that you were disabled back then.

Under the Supplemental Security Income program, the rules are even more strict.

In an SSI application, the furthest back your benefits can go would be back to the date

of the application itself.

Therefore, Social Security will only be most interested in looking at the medical records

going back to roughly the date of your application moving forward and only are interested in

looking at the objective medical evidence.

I imagine you have questions that are specific to you.

Pick up the phone and call me at the number below.

I can answer your questions.

Social Security Disability is all I do.

I'm Patrick Hartwig; thanks for watching.

Have a great day.

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Baked Rasgullas - Duration: 3:37.

hey foodie friends welcome to my channel. Frineds, Diwali is near and I'm going to

make this channel a little bit more interesting by posting some desert

recipes appropriate for this occasion and the

festivals that are coming ahead of time starting from today. so in today's video

I am going to make some baked rasgullas. For this you can get some store-bought

rasgullas and go ahead with the recipe but why to get rasgullas from

outside. Rasgullas are pretty easy to make and you can make this at

your home and I've already posted the video on rasgulla recipe. And the

link to that video will be there in the description box, you can watch that video

and then you can come to this video to go ahead with the baked rasgullas. So

let's begin

first take condensed milk, some cream, some milk powder and a teaspoon of corn

flour whisk this thoroughly until there are no lumps. You can see here there are

some lumps that is I think coming from the corn flour so to make this little

bit lighter and adding some milk. Whisk it again until the cornflour properly

dissolves. Now take our dish which is appropriate for the oven

now take the rasgullas and squeeze out the sugar syrup from them

pour the batter that we have already prepared into these rasgullas

I think I'm not taking an appropriate dish, this is too big for the rasgullas

that I have. so I'm going to transfer this into a smaller baking dish

take any vessel that is made of borosilicate glass, even ceramic will do and

and even if you have a baking tray that is okay. Now we will bake this at 120

degree centigrade for about 45 to 50 minutes or until you see little brown

color on the surface of the rasgullas and the baked rasgullas are now out of the

oven and you can see this beautiful brown color on the surface and which

means it is properly baked

this desert will be appropriate for an occasion like Diwali when friends and

families will be visiting you and you'll have something very good to serve them

as dessert. so take care friends and I'll see you in my next video probably with

some more dessert recipes. Till then bye bye

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Don't do What I Did - I Hope this can Save You from Destroying your Relationship - Duration: 42:59.

hello hello my friends so today's episode is going to be very very special

episode when I say near and dear to my heart

I think that's an understatement I did a facebook live about a recent fight that

I had with my wife Fanny and to say that it's gotten some of the best comments

and feedback of anything I've ever put together has is is an understatement it

was something that I thought would come out as a 10-15 minute share about what

not to do if you want your relationships to succeed and in doing so I think I

poured my heart out for about 40 minutes so what you're about to hear is a very

personal and raw story I think it's very important to share stuff like this just

because I've been doing personal development work for 16 plus years does

not alleviate me or you know restrict me from having fights with my family this

case my wife having things that I have to deal with hopefully in this year you

will basically get to see there's five things that I came to as I went through

this process that I believe if you took on and put into effect into your life

into your relationships whether it's with your intimate lover or partners at

work or even your kids you will have massive massive improvement in your

relationships so without further ado I'm gonna let this audio here play of

everything that I gathered and the process that I went through after

probably one of the biggest fights I've ever had with my wife if after hearing

this it resonates with you please please please reach out to me ilan at Satoriprime.com

or you can find me at facebook at Elan Ferdinand personal message me I

would love to hear what you took away from this I hope you have an amazing day

enjoy all right so let me jump here because I experienced something

last week that still you know I've been processing that was just been kind of

figuring out how to how to share this and this might be a little bit longer of

a Facebook live but I thought it was really really important by the way let

me know if you guys can hear me okay I thought this was really important to

share because I think what I experienced is something that most couples would

actually probably lead to divorce or or I don't know maybe even worse I'll kind

of walk you through the story and then I'll actually walk you through what I

learned from it and and really how I'm really really hoping that you hear this

and implement this in your life immediately so if you don't have to deal

with with what I just went through so yong-ki pool happened and for those that

don't know is a Jewish holiday one of the High Holy Days last week and it's

you know I'm not religious I don't personally do well with organized

religion which I'll talk about a little bit later as to why hey Niki major but

really you know this is something that's really important to my wife Fanny and I

love my wife and I adore my wife and she wants to give our kids an experience of

religion and while I don't have that view

you know I for me it's more about the traditions and the family and

get-togethers I I can see where she's coming from I appreciate it and so while

this has been a struggle an ongoing struggle in our relationship there's

very few things that we disagree with at that kind of level this is definitely

one of them and I'm clear before I get into any of the other stuff I'm clear

that this is something that I get to work on obviously I marry my wife which

the irony of the whole thing is that her entire side of the family are Orthodox

Jews her brother's a rabbi so like who does Ilan pick to get married

you know lessons are everywhere right so we actually are starting to plan to go

to synagogue and I really and I and I want to say this I really went in with

the absolute best of intentions like I know well I don't enjoy it there and I

still I was like look it's an hour hour and a half I'm gonna be there with the

family I could just do what I do right and just it'll be over really soon hey

what's up Tori hey Bev Annette so I'm getting ready and I'm gonna walk you

through all of these pieces so you really start to get and I'll kind of tie

the thread of what I've been unraveling for myself throughout this entire

process so I'm getting ready to go to synagogue and it's hot outside and we're

gonna walk for a bit so I was like I don't want to wear a suit and so I don't

wear a suit I just wear pants and a button-down and the tie and my wife is

like why don't you wear a suit everyone's gonna be wearing a suit and

I'm like well I don't want to wear a suit so you know it already kind of

starts like a little bit of attention and she knows she knows that I have

resistance towards going so I think in her world there was also this story of

like Oh Ilan's doing his elan thing again and I really I I was going in with

the best of intentions right before we leave and this this becomes important in

a little bit right before we leave we had about like three minutes four

minutes before we leave and the kids are like can we get some screen time and we

said no we're leaving in 3-4 minutes and when I walk downstairs after getting

ready my son is in the kitchen watching TV and I'm like Shia we told you no

screen time please turn off the TV and he's like how about what's the big deal

there's three minutes you know I'm like Shia we had this conversation and I told

you and it's no big deal no big deal so at this point I'm like give me the

controller and he's trying to hold it for me but a lot of side to reach in

there I grabbed it from him and I turn it off and he kind of storms off

obviously like a little bit angry which is is okay and we were about to leave

and no one can find child Shai is nowhere to be found so eventually my

wife finds him like I'm already in the car getting ready to go my wife finds

him in the dining room with his head literally in the corner of the wall

crying I realize it was like that in you know

impactful what what he had experience but that's what he was doing so she

comes down she's fuming like I did something I ruin this now I mean

whatever and so I say in all seriousness kind of maybe to try to get out of the

synagogue but not really to get head of synagogue she's like you need to fix

this I was like well do you want me to stay home and just have a conversation

with him and she flips because again this is like Elon not wanting to go hora

wanting to be with the whole family etc so eventually as I go to walk upstairs

to figure out what he wants to do he ends up coming down the stairs so we go

but he's not talking to me he's super angry he's not talking to my wife he's

not talking to me we all get in the car we start driving and he's walking now

we're like getting out of the car we parked and we're walking to shul which

is a little bit of a way and he's walking super slow which I have to tell

you in all honesty part of me was like brother walk as slow as you want cuz the

last place I'm fond of you right now is inside that synagogue I was like you

take your time little man and I can see my wife like fuming as this is happening

but I'm just walking to you through everything that that that was occurring

for me so eventually we get inside I was like do you want to put a Tallis on

which is this no no it's like a piece of fabric that some men wear and shul and

I'm like no I don't want to wear it on so this was like checking up checkmark

number you know three four in her Ilana doesn't want to be here Ilana fuck

you too all of this etc so we go to sit in and Shai doesn't want to come in

so he's against the wall again head kind of against the wall outside the

synagogue I go in I'm like whatever he's got to do his thing he's got to relax

I'm gonna be in here and I sit in there and services are about to start and

rabbis saying a few things and having people introduce themselves to each

other hey drew Dina hey Miguel hey Cynthia and I'm sitting there and I've

been doing a lot I don't you know for some of you guys follow me more than

others I've been doing a lot of work energist acquis so like understanding

what is happening in my sister I'm really getting in tune hey what's up

mark really getting in tune with with what I can feel in the body as

sensations so that and this going to come into play a little bit later so

that as I'm feeling it before that's the first way that the your system

communicates is through the body through different mechanisms through different

tightenings or shrinking or pain or pokes or prods that's the first clue

that something's happening that then in essence turns into some sort of feeling

or emotion and you you label that and then that creates the thought and then

that thought actually creates the action so if you can capture things while this

is happening and this is something we work with our clients quite a lot and

I'm working with myself quite a lot you can get to things much quicker and I'm

gonna point to that here a little bit later because I actually did a lot of

work around this so I'm sitting there and this whole thing starts and I can

start to feel and and tune in and let me know if this has been your experience

ever where you I could start to feel this thing in the pit of my stomach and

it just starts rising and rising and rising it's almost like a volcano is in

my system and I could feel it just building and building and building and

I'm like it gets to the province's by this by the way this is all happening in

five minutes of me being in synagogue okay so it started with like hey turn to

this person say hi turn to that person tell them this tell them that tell

someone what you know something that that you worked on you're proud of this

year like simple stop right and I'm just feeling all this stuff build and build a

build and then it's like you know we're reading from this page and I'm like fuck

that I'm not picking up that that book I'm not reading from that so I put it

down and then it's like okay stand up and turn this way and Bend and and then

sit down and then you know this sides gonna sing this and this side's gonna

sing that and I am just starting to feel everything just rise and rise and rise

and rise to the point that at some point my daughter's sitting on me and we're

all supposed to stand like all the adults everyone

Sam my wife looks at me she's like are you gonna stand and I'm like I can't

alia sitting on me which in hindsight you know you realize like but at the

time I was like and all this stuff is just building and building and building

to the point where the only way I can describe this to you it was like rage

absolute rage and I don't know how many of you guys seen that Dave Chappelle

show but it's like Elance got a choke a bitch like that's where it was like so

oh you know and I was like I have to get out of this room because I'm gonna choke

somebody now meanwhile nothing serious is happening and I and this is really

important to just for you to hopefully understand it's like they're just

sensations in the body but the reality like the stuff that's happening in the

room is not that crazy but in my system the system's going fuckin haywire so I

was like I got to get out of this room I got to get out of this room so I get out

of the room and just as I get out of the room my son is actually this was at his

pre-k so the two teachers that they used to teach him were there in the hallway

trying to figure out what's wrong with Shia so I walk over I start having a

conversation with them should I still not talking to me and in that moment as

I'm talking to the teachers he kind of like jumps on my back but like in a

loving you know cute way and I turn around and I'm like looking at him he's

like and he's just this cute you know like he was like - meanwhile he's seven

he looks and then goes up up you know like what they do and they're like

really really tiny and so I pick him up and he gives me this huge hug and I'm

like are you okay he's like yeah I'm like what happened he's like I'm not

sure I don't know why I reacted that way and I was like do you want to go outside

and talk he's like yeah so we go outside and talk and meanwhile it's like a

gorgeous day so we have this amazing conversation which I my gonna get into

all the details we like really flush out what was happening et cetera and I'm

sitting outside with my saw and having this super loving amazing moment it's

sunny it's beautiful and I'm checking in with my system and my system is so

relaxed and so at ease and it's just like wow you know like

that's the release that's the feeling I was looking for and then when I'm like

thinking I'm like do I want to go back into that that room everything inside of

me is like fuck no I do not want to experience what I just experienced all

that rage and all that boiling and all that stuff happened I don't want to do

that again so I was like I'd rather stay out here so we end up staying outside

for about an hour and my wife and daughter eventually come out and as she

comes out and sees me because she didn't know where we were

but as she comes out to see me have you ever had someone look at you where it

looks like fire laser beams are coming out of their eyes like they are going to

murder you but they haven't said a word it was like that and I was like oh I

done fucked up like this is not this is not going to be good like whatever just

happened this is not going to be good so we start kind of like talking on the way

and I can feel she is really angry and she's so angry and we kind of know like

we have this practice where we're so angry we actually choose not to

communicate with each other in that moment because we both realized that

what is going to come out of our mouth is not going to be good for us or the

relationship and so it's just we don't do that okay so we kind of start getting

into it but we realize like this is not going anywhere

and so we we come home she goes outside to sit in the Sun I go and meditate we

don't really talk about it for a while and then she kind of like starts to

share with me how upset she was and she wants this for our kids and how I chose

to go out and how I was doing all these things throughout the day to basically

not go to synagogue and it's always just like big fuck you and blah blah blah and

we didn't really take it much farther we had dinner with the family etc the

morning after I'm driving her to the bus and she starts off the conversation at

first very calmly hey so I just want to kind of like finish up what we were

doing before we get into it and as she's saying this

more and more anger and frustration and all that stuff builds up and for me

there's this you know like when someone's telling you all the ways that

you wrung them or fucked up it's very difficult to be like yes thank you thank

you for like there's a part of you that gets really really defensive and really

really like wanting to justify and-and-and make your point and all that

stuff right and so I'm literally in the car and she's sitting next to me and it

feels for 10 minutes she's just railing into me all the ways

that I messed yesterday up and how I you know fuck things up for for her and the

kids and how and it just starts spiraling into this whole thing about

how I'm not only insensitive it's deep it's different it's like I only look out

for myself and I'm so self-centered and and I I don't ever do things for others

and and she starts naming all these things and I'm like well and I what I

try to explain to her is here try human I love that Laurens what I try to

explain to her is that like my experience in in synagogue was torture

like like literally in my system felt like torture and I and she's like well I

do tons of things that that I don't want to do for you and she starts naming the

stuff and I'm like and then the defensive part of me comes in and it's

like well you know don't do those things for me like I'm offering you to do these

things like these are not things you have to do and whatever and I realize

like everything out of my mouth is he righteous and self-defensive and it's

not going anywhere and so she literally gets out of the car to run to her boss

midstream like mid yelling at me and and I'm sitting there after having what

Lords called the hair dryer tree man you know like and I'm so disheveled

I can't even it was just like so many things were happening in my system at

that time that I wanted to be right about that I wanted

- hold on - and all this stuff and I'm going home and I'm driving home and I'm

just between like it felt like someone's just like punching you over and over and

over in the face I was so dazed and so confused and I come home and I'm angry

and I'm angry and I'm frustrated and I want to make my point and I write out

all of it and here's the key guys this is like this is so what I'm about to

tell you this process that I went through it's so important that please

just pay attention because I'm gonna walk you through about three things that

I remember through the day that if you remember in your relationships any

relationship not intimate any relationship your life will never be the

same so the first thing I remembered the first thing I remembered is this that I

could either be right or I could be in love I could either be right about

exactly all my point of views and how I was and be defensive and have all that

mind chatter prove that I was a good guy and I was this and I was that and I

would no longer have and this is part two because I quickly remembered hey I

have a commitment in my relationship and that commitment is to experience love

connection and intimacy and when I remembered hey what am I committed to

love connection and intimacy right so that's really important always go back

to like hey what I couldn't do in this relationship and then right after that

that thought of okay well I can either have that or I can be right I can't have

both I cannot have you two things cannot

occupy the same space at the same time

I cannot have both so what am i choosing right and this like an actual choice all

this shit is still happening in my system I'm still I want to be defensive

I want to be right I want all of it and in the moment I'm like okay well do I

choose intimacy connection and love with my wife who by the way we're celebrating

10 years or am i choosing to be right about this now once you do that

something really interesting happens because you're focused where your mind

wants to take you is let me be right about this let me prove my point

let me show them why on this and they're not but as soon as you make that that

shift and you go okay what am I committed to then the focus changes and

now if my true commitment is hey love intimacy and connection then now I get

to focus on some different shit how do I get love commitment and intimacy back in

my life because my wife is fuming right now and she's on a bus and she is angry

and she's frustrated and she's mad and that brings me to point number three and

point number three is this this is so important to remember this will

alleviate so much headache and stress and frustration for you in your life if

you really just bring this into your heart everyone's point of view is 100%

accurate and valid I'm gonna say that again everyone's point of view an

experience of life is 100% accurate and valid for them you don't need to agree

with it you don't have to understand it logically because truth be told I

couldn't understand my wife's point of view logically I couldn't understand why

she would react the way she'd react because I know that if I was in that

sense just you if I was in that situation I wouldn't have reacted that

way and once I can bring myself to that place of understanding Wow

her experience is 100% valid I don't need to understand it I don't need to be

to get the logic of it I can just validate that that was her experience

now that allows you to tap into something else and what I chose to tap

into is compassion

yeah Amanda you said a right perspective is subjective right so now if I get that

her experience is a 100% valid the next thing I get to experience is what is

that perspective and I actually sat there and put myself in her shoes as all

this stuff was happening and I could feel the anger and being let down and I

could feel the frustration and I can feel all of it all the pain and hurt and

I could get that I was responsible for her having that response when you have

compassion and you could put yourself in another person's shoes not to get on the

tangent here right and I'm this is not to get political but look what's

happening in our world right now in the u.s. at least with with Brett Kavanaugh

and dr. Ford right everyone's kind of like grounded and this is my point of

view this her point of view and you know what for me I always like to put myself

in both of their point of views you know what both of their lives right now

fucking suck because there's so much hate they've been putting through the

wringer do you like everyone's like well you know he shouldn't have reacted that

way or she shouldn't react though you don't know because you're not in a

fucking position and in that position in that timeframe like that's that's their

valid experience right and so we could have compassion for that and so when I

start to see all this right and I start to get my wife's experience sorry

someone called me now what I can start to get is her world and that gives me

access to something now I can be responsible 100 percent responsible for

how her world is occurring in moment and let me tell you if your

commitment is to love intimacy and connection and you feel what I felt that

I put my wife through that is the fucking opposite of love intimacy and

connection and regardless of what I was feeling in my system at the time of

being tortured of all that other stuff where was the focus during all of that

me me me me me me what I was feeling how I was feeling

all of it huh Jay Jay heights here and he was actually he walked outside as I

was sitting outside with my son during synagogue so I started to see

this now here's here's the the part that gets a little bit uncomfortable cuz now

it's not about just recognizing that stuff now comes the action piece so most

people are very satisfied with the aha moment like now comes the actual

conversation piece the part where you go to the other person involved and you

call yourself out on all of it and you start to come from a place of 100%

responsibility not that they did anything not nothing you looked for

where did I where was I responsible for how this whole event happened and so I

went to my wife and I explained all the stuff her I literally walked her through

the same things that I'm walking through right now and we had a brilliant

conversation that lasted more than a few days and it's still lasting this is not

something that like you know I was a one-and-done conversation what's really

fascinating is when you show up to a conversation and you take 100%

responsibility you will quickly notice that the other person in charge will

also start to look for where there responsible and yes there are gonna be

parts in the conversation where they like yes you were an asshole and yes you

did this and it's not your job to feel bad in the moment because you're

obviously calling yourself out on it so when they say that to you notice she'd

be like yeah I was yes I was now after I had that conversation with her which led

to a few things that we're just getting to look at look a relation with 10 years

right so we've been together for about 11 and a half years so over that time

period people change

I'm not even talking about just the circumstances of your life change right

like we met we were 26 I'm 37 today we got two kids

I've lost built a business lost a business built another business closed

that business started another business like a lot stuff happened right we

traveled the world she's grown etc and so it's irrational

to think that you don't get your relationship and what works and what

doesn't work in fact what I found which was absolutely gorgeous in this entire

process is and this is starting to unravel like what I started seeing

myself which i think is important for you guys to hear I'll take it a step

further here in a second but you know what I feel is happening is like my

wife's flame like the light inside of her is really wanting to start to come

out more and more and like I've always been this way my energy when I'm a fuck

yes all in I'm like the most infectious person that you can be around I get

everyone psyched right now the same side of that on the opposite oh my god so

when I'm a fuck no like I don't want to do this I'm the biggest energy suck like

the people around me are so affected and everyone knows Elon does not want to

fucking do this I have like big it's not probably I was sitting in

synagogue was this big like fuck you don't talk to me sign written on my head

so the same way that that energy is like super infectious because my energy is

always out right some people they get into certain situations and they're like

overwhelmed or or in fear they like suck themselves in and disappear I'm the

exact opposite I'm like a flame in one direction or I'm a flame in the other

but that flame either lights up you on the inside or it fucking burn lose you

and I get to be responsible for that and so I've been this way for a long long

time and I've actually started to have conversations with with friends and

things like that about it of late but you know for my wife while I've always

been that way I think what's really interesting is today her light is really

starting to come through and her energy is starting to come through and when I

be that way like really really big it actually squashes her her light it

squashes her fire and for maybe the first time in a long time that doesn't

feel good for her anymore she doesn't want to experience that so that's just

something that we're looking at like well how do we kind of co-create and and

and when in those moments she feels like that I'm doing that thing to actually

say it in the moment to me versus having it build and build and build and build a

little build which creates that that huge fire and this is something that my

friend Ben actually when I shared this with him the first time had me see you

know a lot of the times when we have these blowouts we tend to look at the

blowout itself like the the incident itself and we tend to like start to try

to unravel and unpack this this one incident and he reminded me of something

really beautiful because there was two things I was really upset about the

first thing when this happened I was like why me

why us why is this happening to me and he reminded me that whether it was now

or on Thanksgiving or New Year's or next year sometime this is something that we

have to go through so going into the why me why us why now all that is irrelevant

because this is an experience that our relationship needed to have in order to

build something stronger so I was like oh wow that feels really

really good right and then the other thing which I

can't remember right now what I won't say I'll come back to so here's here's

what I really want to share with you guys about the work that I then went and

did personally I spoke to you about the body sensation right and by the way just

let me know is this is this resonating like are you guys seeing your

relationships in this can yeah just let me know if as I'm sharing this because

this is really really important stuff and I really hope that you guys are

getting value from this look this was no I'm not I'm not even kidding you this

was like the most uncomfortable I've probably ever been in my relationship

ever because I'm driving home and I'm like holy shit like this is how people

get divorced it's this like like these conversations right like where all this

shit built up oh yeah so this is the other thing that I knew it come back to

me the other thing that was really important is that it's not don't delve

and try to fix or figure out the incident realize that the incident was a

highlighter for a much much deeper thing and so for my wife there's like a much

deeper conversation there's a much deeper piece about that energy of

feeling like I'm either you know lifting her up or like burying everything around

and like when I'm a fuck know like that that impacts her and so we got to have

that conversation and that really was the conversation no it wasn't what

happened in the synagogue was like you know quote unquote the needle that broke

of the right the needle that broke the camel's back I think yeah something like

that it's but it's way way deeper than that right and that's really important

when you're having these conversations it's like don't delve on the moment

itself always look for like what is the underlying thing that's a tad that's

impacting the relationship and that was really really beautiful for us so then

after we did that stuff I went and started to do my own work

because what I'm really curious about right you guys had all mentioned that

you've had that experience at some point where where something you know come like

starts building up inside of you like a volcano and just all of a sudden there's

an eruption I got curious I'm like well what is that

what was that rage that I felt in synagogue because for me that was the

highlighter right like there's a whole piece about my relationship with Fannie

and then there's a whole piece about like what happened internally to me that

I just totally missed and what I started to unravel through through a lot of the

work that that that guy and I do is

there's this part of me that is massively attached to autonomy and I've

known this it was just a deep deeper experiential knowing of this which is

when I'm being told what to do when I feel like I don't have a say or control

that feeling starts building up inside of me and yeah so Tammy that's that's

actually I think you guys are under light but that's like actually exactly

what it is so when I started to unravel that look there's tons of experiences

that I've had that width right but that energy that I was talking about where

I'm like a fuck yes or a fuck no that fuck no part comes from where I feel

like I've lost autonomy where I feel like I don't have a say anymore and

what's really interesting is that in the moment just like I was sharing with with

you guys about Fanny like if in the moment she's feeling something by my

energy and she just says like hey Ilan you're doing that thing you're like

sucking all the life out of the room you're Beauvoir that's a good reminder

for me right like that's a great red flag and then I can actually in the

moments where I feel all this stuff happen I can be in communication and you

ever notice that like when you say something you know the example I love to

use is like you're you go on stage and you're super super nervous there

tell you like tell tell the people on Sage I'm really really nervous

and you tell people and in and so in those moments now I get this new

practice of when I feel like I don't have a say or when I feel like I don't

have like it's it's out of my control and someone's dictating and I have to do

this I can actually be honest with whatever is happening around me so it's

like Fanny and I could be like look at in the moment I feel like I don't have a

say in this etc right and in as I'm saying that you

will actually feel a release in the body no now they're practice Tammy is

autonomy ego driven that's a really good question um let me explain it this way I

think there are parts so so ego is a word that gets thrown around a lot and I

think it's kind of like difficult for people to understand so I'm gonna say it

this way there are parts of us very very young parts that are like protectors

right so that there's a part of me that wants me to feel independent that wants

me to feel like I get a say etc and so when I don't have that experience

protectors come online and protectors are like you can't make me don't fucking

touch me you can all that stuff those are protectors and they all work

beautifully like there's not there's gifts in this stuff too right so like

think of being independent and there's a key can list you like multitudes of

things why how independence has made me super

successful so we don't want to look at these things as like that's a bad part

of us this is a good part it's more just it's a part and we get to dive into the

gift of the part and then the shadow of the box as well right so for me and for

you this is really what I'm inviting you to is like to honor those moments to see

and notice as quickly as you can that whole experience that wants to rise up

and instead of having the explosion see if you can actually feel in the

moment what that is and what your system is actually asking for and if you need

any help with this like this is the kind of work that we do so you don't have

blow ups and relationships and by the way look I do this work all the time I

still had a blow over the wife and within 24 hours we went from yelling I

mean like yelling like you see in the movies yelling to having intimacy

connection and love which is what I'm committed to back in our lives and in

our relationship and I can tell you like with 100% certainty that that is exactly

the kind of stuff that people get divorced over because they'd rather be

right then have what they're truly committed to so to put a bow on this

remember here the three major things right that that help me you can write

these down do whatever you want the first is you can either be right or you

can be in love you can't have both the second remind yourself of what you are

committed to in this relationship whether it's with your children whether

it's with your spouse whether it's with your business partner what are you truly

committed in that relationship and are the actions you're taking right now

consistent with that commitment and you will surely find that you are choosing

to be right instead of honoring that commitment the third thing everyone's

point of view is 100% valid 100% valid you don't need to understand it you

don't need to believe it you don't need to anything you just get to honor that

their point of view is 100% valid and bring compassion to that viewpoint see

if you can actually put yourself in that place to feel what they're feeling not

through your brain through your heart actually feel what they are feeling and

then once you unpack all of that stuff and you start to realize where you're

100% responsible for everything that happened you get to go and have that

Congress and you call one out on yourself and I

know that it's uncomfortable I know this is the part that your ego is gonna go

hey why no but they did this and then it put all that aside and bring yourself

back to that commitment if you guys have any questions about anything I covered

right now I'm happy to stay on here and answer anything anything that came up

for you that you want to share I know we're in a little bit of a delay here so

I'm happy to chill here for for a few minutes if you guys are called to share

anything but yeah this is like so so so important and can save you so much

heartache and frustration because eventually you're gonna come to this and

sometimes you guys are already separated at at that point and then you're just

left with guilt guilt and shame and then you have to do all this other work that

we do with people about forgiving their parents or their spouses or just so much

easier in the moment honestly like I'm so grateful that I have these tools I'm

so grateful that I have this ability to to see this stuff in the moment and and

moreso share it you know like all these people they're many many of you guys are

working with us in one way or another and you know just the ability to share

this and have you guys take this in your world and impact your spouse's and and

loved ones and partners and children is just absolutely amazing so yeah if

unless anyone has any other questions

Kevin I love that your daughter gets to reap the benefits of the maturity took

to put the relationship first family strong yeah and and that's such a good

point because as your kids mimic how you operate with your spouse more than

anything else it's not will you tell them how to be it's what they see you

being and so having that ability to process this in a very very quick and

timely manner so that you can get back into that thing which you are committed

to in the first place is absolutely massive

all right so if there are no questions I just want to thank you all who were here

participating commenting this was something that I was for the last week

really just wanting to share and and trying to figure out how to do it so I'd

love to hear from you guys in the comment box if this impacted you please

let me know and what you took away from this and how you're gonna have this live

on through action in your life and if there's anyone in your life that you

feel called that has some sort of experience right now in a relationship

that you think this would make a whisper this would give them some freedom or

inside please please please share this this is a I know this is a quite a

personal Roth message but I would love to get this out there so love you guys

thank you so much we'll see you soon

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What is Transference? - Duration: 3:08.

Hi, I'm Leah of Leah Benson Therapy. And today I'm going to talk to you about

transference. And what it means really is that you are taking ideas and

expectations from your past and putting them into your current life, into the

people in your current life, into scenarios and situations in your current

life, mostly the expectations of what people are going to do and say to you

and what they think about you. An example of transference would be the expectation

that you have as an adult that people are making fun of you or will make fun

of you if you express yourself. The experience of being a child and the pain of being

humiliated or ridiculed when you express your feelings, by the people who take

care of you, the people who are important to you. This creates an adult who is unable to

be free with their feelings, free with their expression, the expression of

themselves. And a sort of innate expectation that you will be humiliated

or made fun of for expressing yourself. And that is a direct... Because the reality

is that, that's not the case and people are interested in your authentic self.

But, when your early life has taught you that expressing your authentic self is

painful and humiliating, then this is a an experience that is transferred to

your adult life and on to other people in your life. And the thing about why

that's important in therapy is because it is the the seeing of these patterns,

the making of these patterns visible which gives you the choice to do

different things. To take the tough step of expressing yourself even if you're

afraid that you'll be made fun or that you'll be humiliated. By

understanding that transference from your early life to your current life, of

certain ideas, certain expectations, you have the opportunity to do something

different. You have a choice. Therapy doesn't fix you. It gives you more

choices about how you are going to behave in any given situation. You become

more flexible. You are not trapped by your transferences of old ideas and

expectations on to your current life.

And that is really the long and short of what transference is.

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3 Important Points If You Are Approved For Social Security Disability & You Work – Patrick Hartwig - Duration: 2:30.

Social Security finally approved your disability application.

You've been receiving monthly benefits, but now you'd like to return to work.

Come with me as I explain three things to keep in mind if you are planning to start

working again.

Hi I'm Patrick Hartwig, and I'm a Social Security Disability attorney in Massachusetts.

The first thing to know about returning to work after you've been approved for Social

Security Disability is that Social Security has a voluntary program called the Ticket

to Work program.

This is a resource for you that would help provide you with training and help with a

job search.

It's free to you and you can continue to receive benefits while you are trying to get back

into the workforce.

The second thing to know is that if you do start working and in any given month you make

more than $850, that triggers what Social Security calls a trial work period.

It shows that you're attempting to get back to work and if you're capable of making $850

in gross wages each month, if you do so over a period of nine months.

Not necessarily even consecutive months, but you do that in nine different months, Social

Security reserves the right to terminate your benefits.

If you return to work at a level where you're making more than $1,180 per month in any month,

Social Security reserves the right to terminate your benefits right then and there.

What's most important to remember when you're thinking about any of this is you need to

report all of your income to Social Security in real time because if you don't, Social

Security may continue to pay you benefits unknowingly after your eligibility has actually

ceased.

Then they will come back asking you for that money back.

Now, I imagine that you have questions specific to you.

Pick up the phone and call me at the number below.

I can answer your questions.

Social Security Disability is all I do.

I'm Patrick Hartwig, thanks for watching.

Have a great day.

For more infomation >> 3 Important Points If You Are Approved For Social Security Disability & You Work – Patrick Hartwig - Duration: 2:30.

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Is Worth Read? 97 Things To Do Before You Finish High School - Duration: 2:06.

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Steven T. Seagle Advice for Making Comics - Duration: 2:52.

Omar: What advice do you have for any aspiring creators, but you've given that already, so,

I want you to think of a new advice in an exciting new way that you haven't given?

Steven: Live.

Okay, this is an advice I don't give but I should, live!

You've got to do stuff.

So, it's not enough to read comics, it's not enough to like movies, it's not enough to

watch TV shows.

I have this writer's group, you come to my writer's group and seeing weekly now, I've

constantly here myself going, let's talk about something other than the movie everybody watched

this week, because that's the wrong input, like that's you put in that input, and then,

you put out the same input, it's bad, it's a photocopy of a photocopy.

You have to live, you have to go do things, you have to do things you don't want to do,

you have to eat stuff you don't want to eat.

When somebody goes, hey, we're going to go do this, and you go, oh, that sounds

horrible, that's the thing you should go do because it's outside your zone.

And if you're a creator, you've got to have input and it's got to be input that is uncomfortable

to you, it's got to open your eyes to the world in different ways, you got to hang out

with people you don't want to hang out with instead of hanging out with people who are

just like you all the time, like that's what it means to be creative; it means to get dirty

in the stuff that you don't know anything about.

Somebody texted me the other day like, we have concert tickets for the Disney for Friday,

we can't go, do you want to go? And the first thing I did was look it up and I was

like, oh, it's Schumann, I don't like Schumann.

And I immediately picked up my phone and said yes.

Because I don't like Schumann, what's that about?

I need to go listen to that, I need to go see what it is.

I would usually just avoid that.

Omar: Interesting.

So, you kind of put yourself in out of your comfort zone constantly in order to really

live life to the fullest experience you can?

Steven: I don't know if you're living life to the fullest.

You asked me about being creative, like I may hate the Schumann and I may eat stuff

that I don't like and I still don't like it, it's not like you're like, now, I'm a Schumann

fan, I'm going to listen to that.

Maybe, but probably it's not going to change my opinion, but I'm just saying you've got

to get input that's not the input you think you're going to get.

To summarize, I going to make, I'm just going to make comics like I make.

So, my latest book, Plug Plug, Get Naked is essays, I love essays, I like hearing them,

I like reading them, they're short, they're interesting.

But, then I go, okay, how do I shove that in a comic?

Because I love comic books too, but there aren't any comic book essays.

I wasn't that enough.

Omar: Yeah.

Steven: So, can you make an essay into a comic book?

The answer is sure.

But nobody had to speak out, not in that way, not like David Souter's collection any kind

of thing, so, bring the outside in.

But if I just read comic books, I was going to make monthly stuff about superheroes that's

that way.

Maybe I need to read some Japanese comics, which are totally different or some French

comic books which will do some wildly different things with the genre, but it's mixing it

up, it's finding a new thing to bring to the game.

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Mss Frnce / Punk - Interview - Duration: 3:32.

My name is Martin, I'm the singer of Mss Frnce

My name is Jérome, I'm the bass player

My name is Jérémie and I'm the drummer

I'm Thibault, I'm the guitarist

I met Jérémie at gigs in college

I had a band with Jérome

I was in college with Thibault

So we joined forces

Well obviously i'm the leader

No i'm joking !

We try to do Punk music

Why do we do Punk music ?

Simply because i'm think we can't

do anything else

Yes it's fast and efficient

Punk, it's the opportunity to express a lot of things

With music, attitude, how you play

In fact I don't sing, I yell

So let's use that strength to do something

committed, which justifies this scream

The lyrics, it's about politic, religion, abuses

Streets that smell like piss

Yeah, incivility

We never said to each other that Mss france would be a committed band, or LOL

No it came unconsciously, like that

When a subject interests us

We write about it

The dream, it's just to get a next cool gig

- Yeah that's it - In a great place

- Etc and etc until the next show

- Yes

Yes that's nice ! You're filming huh ?

I broke my Ipod so I can't put songs in it

It's been like 6 or 7 months that I listen to Meat Wave album

Which is really cool and I don't get tired of it !

- Really nice Meat Wave

We just have a Facebook page where you can follow us

- If there is any news - it's here

Otherwise Jérémie's phone number is 06 80

I just started to say my own number actually

For more infomation >> Mss Frnce / Punk - Interview - Duration: 3:32.

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कलोपासक भाग ८०: क्रोशे २९: Door Mat (पायपोस) / Flat circle - Duration: 12:46.

Hello friends, Alka welcomes you to Kalopasak.

In this video we shall see how to make this Flat Circle.

Here I have worked only 5 rounds if you work more then you can make prayer rug.

If you make it by any bulky and rough yarn it will be a very good Door Mat.

In India many crocheters make door mat by the strips of old used Saree. So it will be best out of waste.

For any yarn the method of increasing sts and making round shape is same as shown in this video.

The sample shown here is usual 4 ply wool.

Hence for the centre, I have made 15 dcs in the ring of 4 chs. If your yarn is bulky 12 dcs will be sufficient.

You can start will even of odd number of dcs.

Now this sample yarn if also 4 ply but little bit bulky so 12 dcs will be sufficient for the first centre round.

Start with slip knot and make a ring of 4 chs.

That is ch 4 and join with first ch by slip st.

Rd 1: ch 3 (as a first dc) then 11 double crochets in the ring.

At the same time hide the initial yarn.

After 11 dcs join with the third ch (out of 3 starting chs) by slip st.

Rd 2: ch 3, dc 1 in the same st, (dc2 in each st) till end. join by sl st.

After this round there will be 24 sts. (You nay count after each round).

Join with the third ch by slip st.

Rd 3: Ch 3, dc 1 in the same st, ( dc 2 in the next st, dc 1 in the next st) repeat till the last st. In the last st dc 1 and join with the third ch by slip st.

In the last st dc 1 and join with the third ch by slip st.

After third round we have 36 sts.

Rd 4: Ch 3, dc1 in the same st, ( dc 1 in each of the next two sts, dc 2 in the next st) repeat till the last 2 sts remain, dc 1 in each of the last 2 sts, join with the third ch by sl st.

Rd 5: Ch 3 dc 1 in the same st ( dc 1in each of the next 3 sts, dc 2 in the next st) repeat till last 3 sts remain, dc 1in each of the next 3 sts, join with the third ch by sl st.

In round 6 we can make 2 dc in one st and 4 dcs in next 4 sts like this ....

Rd 7 will be dc2 in one st, 5 dcs in the next 5 sts. and so on .....

In this way you can make prayer rug by bulky wool or Door Mat by Jute thread.

I think you would like this video very much.

This is a simple method of making door mat.

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