Hey, Tripp Kramer here from
trippadvice.com. In today's video,
we'll be talking about how to be able to
ALWAYS get a woman to return your text
messages. I just put out a video recently
that was about the simple way to find
out if a girl likes you over text and
it's a way of basically just asking a
girl out and if she replies that she's
interested in meeting up with you,
well then she's interested. And if she
doesn't reply or says "No" or has some
sort of excuse that she's busy,
well then she's not interested in you.
That's a simple way to figure that
out. I actually had a lot of guys maybe
even you who is watching this video,
send a text message to figure out
whether or not she was interested. And a
lot of guys did not get a reply back and
that's why I'm doing this video today. So
you can always get a girl to return your
text messages. The reason why a girl
doesn't respond to your text message or
she says no to a date is because she is
not invested in you, which is just a
fancy way of saying she's not interested
in you.
There's no interest there. When you text
her, when you ask her out, she's in her
head thinking, eh, no, not so much
not this guy. And it's all because when
you first met her or whenever you guys
were in person together,
you didn't build that investment. She has
no attraction.
She has no reason to want to meet up
with you. You guys did not connect. What I
want for you is a girl to look at her
phone, see the text message from you or
see the call from you and be like "Ooh"
you know get butterflies in the stomach
and excited that you're texting.
Here's how you build an investment and
this is how you do it in person. First,
you can do what I call flirting. I'm sure
you've heard that before.
Flirting is a great way to be able to
get her interested in you. It's the idea
of building sexual tension with that
girl that you're with. Teasing her, giving
her little nicknames, maybe
complimenting her on something. Right,
building this tension. I've talked about
in previous videos this idea of push
poll. That's the idea of
metaphorically pushing her away and
pulling her in and this is where teasing
and compliments come in.
The reason why this works so well is
because you're showing interest and dis-
interest. It's a way of basically showing
her that you may be interested, you might
not be interested. You're flirting
with the idea, you're flirting with the
idea, pun intended here, with the fact
that you might like her. So calling her
out on something, anything she says that
she really likes, you can compliment her
on her taste. Or you can call her a
nerd and joke around and tease her for
something that she likes. This
idea of push-pull and flirting and teasing
and complementing. I just want to say
this.
No, that is not the only thing that is
going to get her attracted. It's not
like you just flirt with a girl and game
over she's invested. No, there's a lot of
different things you do in the
interaction. Let's talk about two more
things.
Next is dominance. This is something that
I talk about in some of my programs. I
talk about in some youtube videos and I
noticed a lot of guys don't really
understand what this means. Well dominance
is basically going after what you want
and following through with that.
So in this case, being dominant is going
to be you taking charge and leading the
interaction all the way from hello to
sex. It is your job as the man to lead
her through that journey. A lot of guys
are very passive. They're not doing this.
They're waiting for her to make moves
or waiting for all these signs to make
sure the girl likes them. A lot of guys
fear rejection so they kind of tippy toe
around the whole idea and then they land
in the friend zone. Just the actual act
of leading her all the way, getting her
number, asking her out, making the first
move, going for the kiss, going for having
sex. Being the guys who's taking those
actions, sometimes is almost enough to
get her invested. She's waiting for a guy
to take charge.
Not for a guy to kind of just skirt
around the idea "Oh maybe we should
hangout sometime." That's not
mystery. A lot of guys get that really
confused. They think, no I don't want to ask
her out. I got to be mysterious.
No no that's not how you do it. Flirting
and the things you're talking to her about
you can remain mysterious in but the whole
idea
the whole idea of courtship is going to
you taking action and leading
her through beginning to end. You want
to know why a lot of girls aren't
responding to your text? Because when you
get their number
they're not very clear on what they're
giving you their number for. They think
it's a friendship, he didn't really flirt
with me, he was kind of passive on asking
for my number. So she doesn't have a
reason to respond to your text messages
and she also has no reason to go out
with you because again, it's very
confusing for her to know why she even
gave you her phone number in the first
place.
Now along this idea and this is my third
way of building investment here in this
there's a lot more but these are
some of the best ones. And my third way
here is spending time with her.
Ok, so what does this mean? This means
that when you guys are first talking,
when you first approach her, when
you're in conversation at the bar at
party, wherever it is, spending time like
actual time with her.
Are you guys being together? That is
going to build the investment. That's why
a lot of guys who might go out and get a
number and it's like a seven minute
conversation. It's probably the reason why she's
flaking. She has no reason to want to go
out because she doesn't remember you. It was a
seven minute conversation and she was
probably a few cocktails in. So you
want to spend time with her and I want
to kind of tattoo this into your brain.
This idea of following through, kinda
like dominance, following through until
you get rejected. A lot of guys would
just kind of get the number and then run
away. You know, they try to get the number
and that's their only goal. They're not thinking about
the actual time that's spent with her.
You guys got to spend time
together, you guys gonna be talking, you gotta
be connecting, you got to be telling
stories and talking about yourself and
asking her really interesting questions.
These are other little ideas of investment.
But that time you're spending together,
maybe you're even moving her around the
bar, maybe when you guys end up meeting
you meet her out for the first time and you
approach her at a coffee shop you, guys go to
get some lunch somewhere, right? Following
through, all that time that's spent
together is going to make her more
invested in you.
So my tip here is don't leave the
interaction until she's obviously
uncomfortable or she rejects you.
If she says go away or I have a boyfriend
and she's basically shooing you away,
okay, then leave right move on and talk
to someone else. Or if she's very obviously
uncomfortable and her body language is
turned away from you and she's just like
trying
not to look at you okay, that's a
nonverbal rejection. But if she's not doing
any of those things, you keep on talking
to her and you keep talking, talking,
talking, talking until one of those
things happen or until you get a number
or until you're bored and you just want
to leave. Now if you want a ton more ways
to get a girl invested in you, to get a
girl hooked on you so excited to be with
you that she can't wait another second
to text you back and meet up with you.
If you want to learn this then I want you to
check out my latest program. It's called
Hooked and you can learn more about that
at getherhooked.com. There is a link in
the description below. This program this
new program that I've made is all about
building that investment, sparking that
attraction and getting a girl pretty
much in almost any situation
super excited to meet up with you. In the
Hooked program, you are going to learn
everything from how to get a casual
sexual relationship, how to get a
girlfriend, how to move things to sex on
the first date. You're going to be learning all this
stuff in Hooked because this is what it's
all about. It's all about getting her
invested so you don't have any more
problems getting her to text you back. So
check that out.
Getherhooked.com. I want you to write
down below this video which one of these
little ideas or concepts of investment
you're going to use next when you talk
to a girl. I want to see you in the
comments. We'll talk down below. Check out
the Hooked program and I'll see you on the
next video.
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