Renee: When you see a gorgeous woman in public you have about five seconds to either
come across as creepy and intimidating or mysterious and attractive and the
difference between the two is all in the approach I'm Renee sonski for the
attractive man team and in this video I'm going to give you my top 10
effective tips for approaching women in public so that you can know if and when
to approach and come across as a more desirable and confident man every single
time I'm a professional dating and relationship coach and it is my mission
to help men like yourself understand as women and become a more confident man so
if you haven't already subscribed to our channel make sure you do so now and of
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public you see it's a really fine line between coming across as a stalker and
making us feel really unsafe in your approach and your presence and of course
then painting yourself as a sort of alpha male and someone who knows what it
is that he wants and isn't afraid to get it truth is guys is that we actually
majority at the time do want to be approached because it makes us feel
special and singled out from any other girl around us and let's face it most of
the time we actually do want to meet somebody in real life right as opposed
to on a daily nap the difference is is if we're actually putting out you know
kind of vibes and signals that we don't want to be approached because either
we're busy with friends or we're just not in the mood that is not a green
light for you to try and push that boundary or push your agenda on us so
that's why in this video I really want to kind of break it down for you guys so
that you can understand if and when to approach a woman and how to do it
successfully so that you leave the right impression and walk away knowing that
you have a chance with this girl so I'm going to give you my top ten tips and if
you stay to the end I'm also going to give you access to our free conversation
cheat sheet which is absolutely amazing because not only will you know how to
approach a woman but then you will also have the confidence to know exactly what
to say to get her hooked number 10 it assess the environment just because you
see her again it doesn't mean that you have the right to go up and actually
start talking to her and if you have someone who struggles with rejection if
you don't actually look at the situation first and there is a possibility that
she will reject you and of course that doesn't really help you build your
confidence so have a look at what she is doing is she engaged in a conversation
with somebody else is she intoxicated is she wearing a wedding ring so therefore
she's completely off limits really try and assess all the little details first
and take your time just because you've seen her straight away doesn't mean that
you should automatically go up to her straight away maybe she's already with a
guy and he's just gone to the bathroom wait a couple of minutes even up to
about five minutes to really work out whether or not this woman is ready to be
approached now it doesn't mean that you sit behind a bush and you stare at her
because that's kind of creepy it's about just acting natural and glancing over or
looking from a distance and really like I said assessing the situation first to
work out whether or not you can or should even approach her in the first
place number nine what is her body language saying we subconsciously
project what it is that we're feeling and to some degree what it is that were
even thinking without even realizing through the way that we hold our posture
and our body if a woman has her arms crossed or any part of her legs or body
crossed or maybe has a handbag in front of her then basically what she's doing
is she's kind of projecting out there that she doesn't necessarily want to be
approached or she doesn't feel open and comfortable in talking to someone that
she doesn't actually know maybe she's had a bad day or maybe she's had a lot
of men come up to her wait and see if she relaxes a little if she is really
putting out that vibe that she feels either hostile towards anyone around her
or she has this scared look on her face then it's important to make sure that
you don't approach in a way that would be overly intimidating towards her when
you do start to approach women because just because her body language may be
crossed it doesn't mean that you can't approach it it's just about being aware
because if you're aware of what she might be mentally
expecting or focusing at that point in time then it gives you an idea of how
you should actually respond to her or how you should actually handle the
approaches such for instance you wouldn't come up from behind her because
that's just kind of a bit scary and a little bit disrespectful as such you
would maybe approach from the side but still within her peripheral vision so
that she doesn't feel that you're kind of creeping up on her now once you do
actually approach her make sure that you continue to watch her body language
through the whole conversation to see if she's feeling relaxed in your presence
as such you'll know this because she'll start to open up her arms and her
shoulders a little bit she'll start to uncross her body and she may even start
to turn herself a little bit towards you number eight make yourself and your
presence aware to her without actually directly approaching her now the way
that we do this is simply by moving into her line of sight it doesn't mean you go
and stand right there in front of her because that's a little bit weird it's
more about being in her peripheral vision and then what you do is over time
you don't have to do it straight away give yourself a couple of minutes for
her to get comfortable with and also just aware of your presence start to
move a little bit further into her line of vision so that she can actually see
that you're there and so that she can start to assess the situation as well
because don't forget once she actually begins to notice you she's going to
start to do her own kind of little audit of the situation as well and you want
her to start to feel comfortable in your presence without you even approaching
her in the first place and the best way to do that is simply for her to be able
to see you as a normal sort of guy doing your thing and occasionally glancing
over at her number seven catch her eye and smile this is a great way to kind of
start the little bit of the tease and the dance to kind of send her the signal
that you are actually interested now it doesn't mean you deaf stare her down or
let you stare at her creepily we know that that is not the way to do it
you can prove that you are a confident man and that you're not afraid to kind
of look at her and be caught but it's also a great way again to make her feel
a little bit special and again be aware that you're there and you're actually
interested in her now don't hold her gaze for longer than a cup
of seconds kind of look and then look away and then look again and look away
but make sure you smile every time you do it you just kind of look at her every
single time like that and games going to come across as kind of really creepy a
smile is a great way to communicate that you are someone who is friendly and that
you want to put her at ease number six pick a feature to focus on and then use
it as a way to compliment her when you do actually approach you want to make
sure if you're going to approach her that you have something in mind to be
able to say it's no good you know catching your eye being in her
peripheral vision and then suddenly going up there and just being like so we
love to know that you are a man who has already thought about the process that
you've already come up with some sort of detail that you want to actually ask us
all that you're aware about us now just make sure that this detail isn't
something that can be sexualized for instance don't go up and say hey I like
your boobs or hey you've got amazing lips anything with lips and breasts or
anything to do with the body part can be sexualized guys keep it really light
whether it is you have a really nice dress or hey I love your hair
or you've got beautiful eyes eyes is always a winner or if you're going to
say something about the mouth then talk about her smile by offering us a really
authentic compliment that doesn't take it too far or doesn't have any sort of
sexual innuendo attached to it it's going to again make us feel really
special and the more detailed you can get whether you pick out the color of
her jacket or the pair of shoes that she's wearing and of course you want to
come across as you know not necessarily a fashionista but a man who's just
noticed something special about her she's actually going to realize that
you're a man who was able to see beyond just the surface level where women we
love to be told that we are beautiful so you use it to your advantage guys and I
will just say this there are different sort of words which either indicate that
you kind of only want kind of a good time as opposed to that you're actually
someone who is a little bit more genuine for example the word plot as opposed to
the word of beautiful try and make you aware
a little bit longer than three syllables and actually put some thought and effort
behind that compliment number five never ever approach from behind it is
something that is going to make us feel incredibly unsafe in your presence and
it will really have the opposite reaction to what you want always
approach either from the side in which we can see your peripheral vision or
from the front now if you are approaching from the front just make
sure that the way that you do it isn't intimidating you might have a beeline
for her because she's the most gorgeous woman you've ever seen and you've been
captivated by her smile but it doesn't give you permission to just walk over to
her in such a way that she actually feels a little bit freaked out if you
have a relaxed friendly yet confident energy about yourself it's actually
going to put us at ease and be more open to being able to talk to you number four
always have a smile as I said before a smile is the perfect way to really put
someone's mind at ease remember you don't know who this person from a bar so
good she doesn't know you from a bar so and you want to make sure that instantly
she feels safe and secure in your presence and the best way to do that is
by having a smile now it doesn't mean that you have a big cheesy grin it might
be just a simple no teeth smile or it might be just kind of like a crooked
little smile whatever it is don't force it just make sure that it's natural and
if she smiles back then you've got a good chance
just stay natural and happy almost like we're an old friend and you're
approaching us with the same sort of attitude number three have a relaxed
body language yourself and don't come too close it's really kind of wise no
matter how bored she is and I know how much you want to really keep a distance
of about a meter the last thing that you want to do is feel that you can get into
her personal space we don't like that majority of the time we don't want to be
touched unless we want to be touched and just because we are maybe opening up our
body language a little bit more to you because we obviously feel safe or we're
interested it does not mean that you have the right to invade that personal
space guys if you want to shoot yourself in the foot then all you need to do is
come right close up to her in her face and your ears around a neck or start
touching everywhere and she is going to want to run a mile
simply because she feels that you're too full on you're either too intimidating
or she doesn't feel safe in your presence to be aware of what your body
language is saying do you have the sort of confident yet friendly sort of appeal
when it comes to the way that you hold yourself are you having your arms cross
so that you look really intimidating towards her or do you just have your
hands in your pocket so that you can just look kind of casual and relaxed yet
your body is still turned to her to show that you were actually interested now
because you're also keeping that gap between you and her it gives her room to
be able to signal whether or not she is even more interested in you because if
she is then she'll probably actually start to edge a little bit more towards
you or she'll find a reason to touch you let her lead the way when it comes to
the body language and the touching as such right at the beginning depending
what she does will give you an indication of how to respond
number two make a joke don't be so serious if you can get her to laugh
within the first couple of minutes then you know what you have a really good
chance of being able to go on a date with this girl and you are leaving a
good impression it doesn't mean that you have to have jokes up your sleeve you
don't have to perform we allowed to know that if a guy actually approaches us
that not only does he have an idea of what it is that he wants to say but he's
someone who is able to just kind of have fun and lighten the mood between us
because there's already an expectation with the fact that you're approaching us
that's your expectation there's the girl's expectation and it can always
turn a little bit awkward and you don't want to do that what you want to do is
you want to put her mind to ease and the best way to do that is simply to add a
little bit of humor to the situation and lastly number one ask lots of questions
and listen more than you speak again we know that women like to talk what you
want to do is you want to actually show that you're interested in who she is and
the best way to do that is simply to ask questions so tell me something that
you're interested in like I don't know what are you passionate about but of
course actually listen to what it is that she's saying now you can actually
show that you're listening to what she's saying simply by the way that you hold
yourself your body language not fiddling with your
not looking around the room not looking at your watch you know facing her with
your body language making sure that you don't have your arms crossed in front of
you not into what you're saying smiling responding these are all sort of ways
that you can show that you're actually curious to know who she is and what it
is that she has to say and you know what guys if you can actually do this is
going to make us feel prioritized it's going to make us feel really kind of
special and it's going to plant seeds in our head that you might be different
from all the other guys out there another great tip is to affirm that what
she's saying but don't necessarily agree with
everything that she says okay the last thing you want to do is come across as a
guy that's kind of too easy and then we know that you're the kind of want one
thing leave some mystery about yourself we
love to be surprised and we are kind of drawn to any sort of man that gives us
the whole mysterious kind of gentleman vibe your approach is the beginning of
initiating anything with a woman hence like an either seal your fate or open up
limitless opportunities that's why it's important to be able to master the
approach so that you can leave a great first impression and also minimize
rejection now of course when you actually go up to her it's important
that you have a conversation so if you haven't already downloaded our
conversation cheat sheet then make sure you do it right now all you need to do
is simply click the image at the bottom of the screen and this cheat sheet we're
going to give you simple techniques to make sure that you never run out of
things to say we're also going to tell you how to initiate conversation no
matter what the situation and of course we're going to show you how you can
accelerate the interaction between her so that you can take it to the next
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next few videos and honestly guys if you're someone who actually really
struggles with meeting a woman and knowing what to say where to go how to
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