hi I'm Jaki Sabourin your love coach and today I want to talk to you
about how to feel confident around attractive guys now I know what happened
because it's happened to me you see a good-looking guy and all of a sudden
your heart starts to pound your mouth goes dry you can't think of anything to
say or the worst case scenario is you you talk over everything he says when
you end up finally talking to him because you're so nervous so if this has
ever happened to you this video is gonna really support you so now the first
thing I want to share with you is I don't want you to assume he's great just
because he's great-looking okay so you know it's easy to assume that he's
great-looking we start to bleed that you know he's maybe perfect or he's got it
easy because he had looks or you make all these assumptions it's so easy to
fall into that because you know right away we're like wow he's probably out of
my league it's what really does trigger a lot a lot of other feelings and
insecurities and us so in a way really good-looking an attractive men can help
you tune up your ability to to be more present and so when you see a really
attractive man I want you to take this challenge to approach him to talk to him
or if he approaches you to to talk to him and and remember that he is a person
to you know he has feelings he he he has values he it's your job to find out and
and not objectify him with this look but find out what kind of person he is kind
of value values he has what's important to him and when we when we find somebody
really attractive sometimes we forget that like I said they are just a human
being and so you don't want to objectify him by by thinking that that's all there
is to him you want to get to know him and see what he's all about and don't
assume he's great because he's great-looking until you have a chance to
talk with him and get a feel for his nature so the next thing that's really
gonna help you is to you have to learn to appreciate yourself
the self-appreciation is so important because that's where confident comes
from is appreciating who you are your looks your your values your character I
mean you bring a lot to the table don't forget that and so don't devalue
yourself when you see a great-looking guy because that's the first thing that
happens it's like you freeze up and you're like start to feel maybe less
than does you see an attractive man make sure you're looking at what is this
feeling that is triggering in me and use this opportunity to go a little deeper
on your journey of self-discovery what is this triggering in me it's like
one of my clients recently said that she went out with a really good-looking man
and it really triggered her because it triggered all of her worthiness and if
good enough issues so I say yay to attracting a good good-looking man into
your life so they can bring all these unconscious negative beliefs about
yourself like I'm not good enough I'm not worthy to the surface that that you
can heal them and so look at this as an opportunity and I really want you to
embrace I mean you know having a man that's easy on the eye is wonderful so
you deserve it if that's what you want but remember there's more to a person
than me to see how you can give them a chance by getting to know him and
they're looking at your own your own stuff that comes up and make sure you
make the distinction between him and your your you know unconscious beliefs
that are surfacing for healing and so I want you to like share and subscribe to
my channel so you never miss an episode and also share with your friend because
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your girlfriend so that I can help them too okay now the last thing I want to
share is is that you want to remember when you know you're around a guy that's
attractive you're not feeling confident you want to remember that men are
insecure too sometimes people make assumptions that you know good-looking
people are perfect well I wear hearing aids and you know you can't see them
because of my hair but that was a big insecurity of mine for a long time you
just never know what's on the other end of that good-looking face
right he may have had a really difficult childhood he may just have got lots of
friends you just don't know you don't know what his challenges has been
physically emotionally spiritually you know so we just want to remember that we
all have things that we're working through and just because somebody's
good-looking doesn't mean that they haven't had their share of challenges in
fact sometimes being really good-looking it is a challenge in itself because
everybody makes assumptions about about you
and your personality and sometimes it deters women I've heard from men let's
say women don't approach me because they're they're intimidated by my looks
and that could you know that they want you to approach them because they they
they're they're aware of that so don't be put off by a man that's good-looking
I want you to know that you deserve to have the best that life has to offer and
if that's a man that's really good-looking and that's important to you
make sure that the other things are important to you are their character
their values you have a lot in common and you have enough resonance with each
other to create a life together that's really the most important thing not
looks not external things externally it's more internally but initially hey
you know hey good-looking manner or nice town like I said easy on the eye nice to
look at and so next time you see one don't be afraid to have a conversation
with him make direct eye contact take a deep cleansing breath and move into it
instead of moving away from it so that you can get more comfortable with
dealing with people that are really good lucky okay so I hope this was helpful
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much love never give up if you never give up you cannot fail ok lots of love
to you see you in the next video
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