have you ever found yourself in a
situation with a person that was
verbally attacking you and you didn't
know what to say in this video we're
going to go over the four power phrases
you can use on these trolls or assholes
when I was in high school used to work
at panera bread as a cashier one of the
most important people I have ever met
worked here as a busboy his name was
Teddy he was a 48 year old guy that
lived a simple life and had so much
wisdom to share one of the most powerful
things he taught me was how to respond
to people that were giving me a hard
time
these are the four power phrases he
taught me one that's interesting why
would you say that two
that's interesting tell me more three
that's interesting why would you do that
four
that's interesting why would you ask
that all of these phrases put you in a
position of power
why is this because you are not reacting
immediately on what the other person is
saying you are defending yourself with
an aggressive come back you're putting
yourself in an authoritative place and
the other person ends up explaining to
you why they are acting the way they are
Teddy would always remind me that
lighting by anger get the better of me
was a waste of energy
he would tell me to switch the situation
around using my words in a de
televisión way do you really want to
let your emotions get the better of you
Vic I see what your anger does to you it
makes you careless and reckless when you
feel that feeling of agar take a deep
breath and as you breathe out let your
anger leave your body once you lose your
cool you are not in a position of power
anymore
teddy was one of the most basic human
beings I've ever met in my life
another thing I will never forget from
Teddy with these words while I was
asking him a question about life he
tells me Vic
I can't give you all the answers you are
eventually going to have to figure it
out for yourself it was at that moment
that a light bulb went off in my head I
had to stop reading about how to deal
with problems and i had to start taking
more action so use these phrases when
you find yourself a tough situation play
around with the phrases to see the
limits of what could happen remember
everything you see on this channel is a
small experiment for you to try out you
have learned something do now start
applying it
see when you can use these phrases and
when you don't need to keep viewing
everything as a fun experiment as Teddy
would always say life not so serious
take care everyone if this has helped
you out at anyway let me know i'd love
to hear your feedback good or bad
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to you guys later bye
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