hey I have a question for you do you find yourself
sharing your dreams or maybe explaining
your dreams a little bit confused
so was I in today's episode
we'll make some powerful distinction
just about that right after the intro
welcome to the day 1 journey episode 101 chi-ching
yeah well this is the 2nd three-digit episode yes
episode 101 pretty exciting isn't it
either way we don't really celebrate
this episode or the episode before because this is still
the day one journey every day is day one
every day is a new beginning so let's go right ahead
into this episode did you think about
the question do you share your dreams or do you
explain your dreams what's the difference
what is better what is more empowering
well in the first episodes of the day one journey
may be the first 20 or 15 episodes we talked
about dreams and I shared with you all my biggest
insane ridiculous dreams check these episodes out
why did we share these dreams do you remember
we share those because we want to give them some life
give them birth yeah put them out there
make ourselves accountable make other people laugh
about our dreams because that will mean
they are big enough and so many other extra reasons
why to share the dreams but in today's episode we
mentioned explaining our dreams what does that even mean
explaining your dreams I'll share with you some
personal experience about that me explaining too much about
my dreams so I'm right now I'm not in Israel
I was born Israel I'm not in Israel right now
one reason for that I want the quiet
I want the space to work on my things
so every time I speak with a friend and they asked me
how are you everything is good
what's up with your projects what's up with the dreams
they ask so I share with them a little bit then
usually it comes to the point where they don't understand
why things will work I'm doing pretty unusual stuff
so I'm not judging and then they ask many questions
and they're pretty interested and they are worried about me
worried about that might not work or etc etc
so I'm tempted yes I'm using this word on purpose
I'm tempted to explain them why it is going to work
because they sort of asking sort of a saying
"it's not going to work" or asking how it's going to work
and I'm tempted to explain them step by step
this is explaining your dreams this is explaining your dreams
it takes so much time and then they might not
even understand and then I I'm stopping myself
it took me quite a while to reach this conclusion
I just stopped myself and asked myself why
is this beneficial for me is it beneficial for them
the only benefit I saw for them was if they were really
worried about me so they know
I know what I' doing that was probably
the one benefit I understood because it doesn't help me
because I can use this energy to execute my dreams
instead of explaining them and here I remind you
this is the NO routine seires this is the NO routine seires
do you remember what it's all about it
is about cutting off the not so much important
stuff that might be tempting they might even be fun and exciting
cutting these one off the less important stuff
to make room to make space for the stuff that are really
important for us yeah so... make the distinction
there's sharing your dreams say it once say twice
but that's it give it life put the seed in the ground
and then don't talk too much about the seed water it
yes every day day one journey
put the work get this energy don't explain yourself too much
get the same energy and execute and
let your success be your noise that's it that's it
it is a game of priorities it is a game of knowing
what's more important for you cutting off the less important stuff
this is the NO routine and do you know the connection
for the third basic desire do you remember
the desire to express loosely organized opinions
so as I shared with you last episode about the
3 most basic desires most responsible for our
lack of self-discipline the 3rd one of them
the trickiest of them all was express loosely organised
opinions so after discussing this specific desire
I told how I took it personally how I thought about myself
regarding talking too much and reach powerful 2
conclusions about that the 2nd conclusion is what
I'm saying to you here there's sharing your dreams
and there's explaining them I decided between me and myself
not explaining not explaining too much
I'd rather show you than explain you
yeah yeah much better a demonstrated proof
than a detailed explanation yeah that's the thing
and then I get my energy and I put where I want
to put it you know I'll tell you something personal
something personal that it was the way that I got
leverage on top of myself yeah leverage
most of my life I'm very proud of myself of being
with a lot of patience you know so people... so when people
were calling me and asking me how it's going to work
my projects yes so they were asking
so they were asking me how it's going to work
my projects I had the patience to explain
them that's the tricky part but then I also thought
about myself how to get leverage over myself
I'm proud of my patience but I understood explaining them
explaining why it's going to work it is a lack of patience!
why is it the lack of patient because I was asking myself
am I not being patient enough with them to see
what I'm talking about even if it's in 10 or 20 years
well this is how...
I'm serious I was laughing but I was serious
because I was tricking myself getting leverage on top
of myself saying to myself don't you have enough patience to
wait for them to see to let your success be your noise
keep quiet get this energy and put in the work
so this what this episode was about the distinction
between sharing your dreams putting them out there
give them life give them birth versus explaining your dreams
answering people why your dream will work
it's none of their business it is business this is your dreams
this is your dreams this is for you to understand
share them with the world to make yourself accountable
share them with the world to own them to give them birth
but then don't put too much energy into
explaining them because this is your dreams
other people don't need to understand
I'll tell you a secret even when you reach them
the people who didn't understand they might say it was luck
they might say 100 million other things
so don't bother explaining them because even if you get it
they might say it was luck they might don't understand
just show them and get his extra energy
get is extra energy into execution yes execution this what's the
NO routine is about so we are really really out of
time but I wanted to share all this snippets of experience
about this message for you don't explain too much
share the dreams once and then go to work
make them a reality so back to you
I have an interesting assignment for you for the day
as any other day today when you find yourself
and I think it will happen to you today usually it happens
every other day people ask you how it's going to work
whatever you're doing maybe it's a small project
it's a big project people ask you why
and how it's going to work just before you are tempted
to answer them and put some precious energy
of yours in that conversation I want you to raise
the level of awareness and ask yourself
is it beneficial to me to explain them and is it beneficial for them
that I explain them maybe it is maybe it isn't
but if it's not really beneficial for you or for them
consider saying something like wait you'll see
this my assignment for you for the day do this today
when someone asks you why do you think
it's going to work or how it's going to work
if they are not really working with you in this project
and it's not beneficial for them and it's not beneficial for you
consider just saying you'll see what I'm up to
you'll see just that you'll see
and than go back take this extra energy
and do some work so do this until tomorrow
and of course of course of course have an amazing
amazing day one




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