I was asked this question
in one of my mastermind groups
that...
How do you change a belief?
Especially if it's...
coming from experience?
So especially if you kind of have 'proof'
for your belief.
So that's a very very interesting question,
because it's a complex,
very complex question.
Because beliefs
can be personal,
they also can be...
collective.
So we have a mixture of both,
some beliefs we acquire
through our own lifetime
or even from previous lifetimes
that we brought in,
and other beliefs
we have
as collective.
One example of the collective belief would be
'women are not good with money'.
So 'women are not good with money'
is a collective belief
in the collective consciousness,
in mass consciousness.
And what happens is that
most women
have it.
Most women have it
and they think it's theirs.
So...
just because it's collective
it doesn't mean
you don't have to work on it.
But knowing where you believe sits
in the kind of...
whether it's yours
or whether it's actually...
something else
helps,
it really is helpful
because it gives you a perspective.
That it's not because
something's wrong with you,
it's not something because
you don't deserve,
it's not because...
you are not good enough...
or anything like that.
It's just what you were born into.
Maybe in your society,
in terms of your community,
your family
or as a...
as a collective right now in the world,
women are going through the process
of changing that belief,
breaking through that belief.
So...
so how do you change a belief?
Because that's the original question.
One thing you need to know,
it's handy to know,
it's handy to know
whether it's yours
or whether
it's part of the collective.
And when you understand that,
that
certain beliefs
that you carry within you
are actually not yours,
that's really a relief.
Most people
try to work on their beliefs
at the wrong level,
on the surface level.
So on the surface level
I mean by...
the work on
one's mindset.
I'm not against mindset work,
I used to be a mindset expert,
heavily,
and I still am a mindset expert,
but...
I work at the mindset now
from a much deeper place.
And so I help my clients
to open their mindset,
to shift their mindset,
to create shifts in consciousness
rather than just switching
one belief into another.
Because the kind of mindset work
at the basic level,
that's what it does:
they call it sometimes positive thinking, as well,
so what they are trying to do is
convert the negative belief
into a positive one,
thinking
that this is going to work.
And I don't believe that works,
I actually know it doesn't work,
long-term it doesn't work.
It may feel better for a little while
but it doesn't create a profound
long lasting shift.
You have a belief that
no one likes you.
So, no one likes me.
Okay, so
using this surface type
positive thinking scenario
what you could try and do,
and you probably did try that,
you try and convert that
into a positive belief.
Like:
'Oh, but look,
that person liked me.
And, you know, I still have friends.
So there must be some people who like me.
And... actually, I'm not that bad.
You know, I have this and I have that,
and I've done this and I've done that...'
So you see how that was working?
You are talking yourself into
a positive belief.
But I actually
don't believe in beliefs.
So what I believe in,
or I actually don't believe in anything,
what I know is
having no beliefs
is the best thing.
Because a belief is still
a construct of the mind.
You see?
Believing negative
or believing positive
is still
a construction of the mind.
And that is always,
always, always
going to be limiting.
Whether it's negative,
whether it's positive...
I mean have you noticed
that you grow out of your beliefs?
You believed this yesterday -
you don't believe it today.
You believed this 10 years ago -
you don't believe it now.
And if you keep basing
your life
on your beliefs
what starts to happen
is you start to feel that:
Oh I can't trust myself.
That's right.
When you run your life
by your mind,
based on your mind,
which constructs beliefs all the time,
then you can't trust it.
Because your mind changes its mind
all the time.
It's unreliable!
It believes this today -
doesn't believe that tomorrow.
So a belief is very...
volatile.
The best thing you can do
is believe nothing.
Oh, how do you do that?
How do you believe nothing?
Well, in order for you
to believe nothing
you need to be anchored,
you need to have
the point of your perception,
the point of reference
at a different place.
Not in your mind.
Because if the point of reference
and perception
is inside your mind,
your mind clings to beliefs,
ideas and mindsets.
And like I said:
it is always, always, always
going to be limiting.
You want to be
basing your perception,
your point of reference
in something
that is
unlimited,
infinite.
Your true true true self.
And what is that?
It is beyond the mind.
It is somewhere beyond the mind.
It is beyond
the mindsets,
it's beyond the beliefs,
you are moving yourself
into the realm of spirit.
And there
you don't need to have any beliefs.
You just know.
And that's a very beautiful place.
So, for example,
you can...
like that example of
'no one likes me'
you can try and work
on your mindset, so to speak,
and convert it into something positive,
or
you can go
and connect with your soul.
And at that level
you know.
You don't need to believe
whether anybody likes you or not at all.
You just know.
You know who you are
and you also know
that you have everything you need
in this moment,
that you are okay,
you are enough.
And...
that's all you need.
I hope this serves you,
let me know if it does.
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