You have done a lot..
Happy Father's Day
Are you asking me to give you more money?
Nahhhh…
I have something to tell you
Daddy I love you!
(Things we have never said to you)
Algood, got it.
Why don't you have any reaction??
Me too.
Omg my dad is so cool.
What should I do now?
How long haven't you celebrated Father's Day for you dad?
About one or two years?
Since I have come to NZ.
I forgot…
But actually even you have forgotten, they won't remind you there's Father's Day's coming, right?
Never.
I think they expect something from us,
but they won't tell us.
What will be your dad's reaction if you do something for him?
He's a cold fish lol.
Would you send him your wishes for him before?
No…
I sent something I wrote to him.
How about when you were in China?
When I was little I would write something on a little piece of paper and secretly put that in their room.
You wouldn't think of celebrating this day for him-
because you are with him most of the time.
We will celebrate Mother's Day but not Father's Day.
For Mother's Day I can buy flowers for her but I have no idea what for dad on Father's Day..
Not really celebrate it before…
Before I came overseas I was a rebellious teenager especially my family has quite strict rules.
For Father's Day I might just buy a gift with my mom and give that to him that's all.
Are you a person that will say something emotional to you dad?
Yes I am.
I don't really express when I was little,
and my mom said I don't have puppy dog eyes lol.
But since I am growing up I talk more to my dad.
Is you dad the kind of strict parent?
Yes he is.
When I was in kinder if my I did something wrong,
my mom would be the role protecting me.
But when I went up to form 5,
I think they had a conversation and after that my mom wasn't protecting me anymore.
That made me feel lonely hah.
Since your dad always criticise when you have done something wrong, and at the time your mom wasn't by your side,
Have you ever hated them for some reasons?
To be honest I would say yes, when I was little.
Do you have anything to tell them but you never get to tell them?
I felt really sorry for them because of my immature behaviour before.
But I understand them now.
They don't wanna be too strict to us either,
but due to the situation they have no choice.
Umm sometimes I felt shame when I was out with my dad,
because sometime he might talk a little bit rude…
But we have to realise the difference between generations.
Do you feel guilty afterwards?
Of course, actually dad do everything just for us.
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