Waching daily Nov 27 2018

Hey everyone its your boy blood wizard y.a back with another game review and the game

we have here is an adventure puzzle game known as incredible mandy

Incredible Mandy is an amazing puzzle adventure game developed by Dotoyou Games I hope I pronounced

the name correct and if not hope you forgive me a small 14-menn studio from China.

has worked on this beautiful game.

Experience a fantastic adventure across huge landscapes.

search for clues and solve the creative puzzles.

Use the sword in your hand and wisdom in your mind to challenge the overwhelmingly enemies.

The game is about Memories of the brother and the sister, all left deeply within their

dreams.

Every dream brings out an untold secret.

infactThe journey is about salvation and redemption, in which the savior must venture into the

world of darkness.

Explore different levels each filled with dozens of puzzles.

Every puzzle is built on top of the unique environment settings in one level.

To solve the puzzles, you need to find out the things available in the game environment

to help you find the right way.

There're many treasure chests scattered over the entire game world, which is sometimes

difficult to find.but Once opened, you will earn precious pieces of memories.

Collect them and unveil the complete picture of a touching story and secrets of Mandy and

her older brother.

Some times you even get a health boost if you are lucky enough , so try as much as you

can to find out those chest Use your wisdom to stand against enemies . Don't

try to beat them by force.

Each enemy or boss has its weakness which is easy to spot, but knowing when and how

is the key to effectively overcome an enemy much stronger than you

To master this game, you'll need to master its magical light sword.

The world of the Incredible Mandy has its share of monsters crawling around, but the

sword is far more than a tool for fighting.

Your sword is the key to almost all of the game's platforming puzzles.

It triggers switches, opens up doors, and calls the hero's handy robot partner.

Coming to the the magical light sword You can plant it into the ground and generate

a new sword from mana.

Then, by hitting a sword planted into the ground with your bow or striking it with another

sword, it'll cause a small explosion.

By taking advantage of this mechanic, you can toggle switches and levels from far away,

After all The game's sword mechanic is what really defines the game.

It'll stimulate your creativity and challenge you to think outside-the-box.

In a number of cases, there's more than one possible solution to the game's puzzles–

and that's where this system shines.

If you are still doubtfull about the game and wanna give it a try ,fear not.

You can try a demo on steam, The game's introduction guides you gradually through

the core ideas one by one.

You'll be learning basic movement, how to interact with obstacles, and simple actions

with your sword.

Then, you'll learn to put it together and solve complex puzzles

Dotoyou Games brings its own very unique touch on the game The game's magic sword is a

definitely one-of-a-kind creative twist.

Plus, the game's theme about dreams also adds extra-levels of storytelling you're

not likely to find in your usual fantasy story.

The incredible mandy is now on pc but for the switch it is will get released soon since

I found this comment from dotoyou channel in youtube saying

The switch version will be a bit late but also more polished!

We'll test the water on PC and make sure everything is perfect on Switch!

Thanks for watching thumbs up if you enjoyed and subscribe for more reviews in the future

and don't forget to follow us on facebook page for infos about games and stuff related

to gaming , until then peace……

For more infomation >> Incredible Mandy (review) - Duration: 5:04.

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Jimmy Carr Is Experimenting with Drugs Now - You Up w/ Nikki Glaser - Duration: 21:03.

Well, Pete, you just recently moved to Los Angeles

after living in New York for a bazillion years.

For 12 years and all my New York friends are like,

"Doesn't L.A. suck?"

And I'm like, no, it's the best. It's-

Yeah, you're loving it. It's so nice.

New York is a great place to live

if you wanna get better at comedy,

but L.A. is a great place to live

if you wanna get worse at comedy.

Guys, can we just get back to talking about dicks

and let me get through this live read.

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Speaking of huge, let's talk about dicks.

Let's talk about them. Jimmy Carr is here.

You've already heard him already.

So, Nikki, surrounded by four men.

This feels like a night out for you, doesn't it? Come.

This is so exciting for me.

I love this crew in here. Jimmy Carr is here.

Tickets are on sale now for his new tour.

Oh, please, please, please.

Get tickets at Zulily.com.

Zulily. Call them. Don't worry about my tour.

JimmyCarr.com. Go see him on tour.

Let's see if I'm funny

before anyone's thinking about buying a ticket.

You're the funniest.

How have you been? What are you talking about?

And you know that you are.

Jimmy, how you doing this morning with your honey?

I got drunk last night. I found a bar in New York.

Well, my friend found a bar. Where you can still smoke.

What?

There's a bar in New York, it's called Hudson and Books.

Is it Hudson and Books? Let me look it up. At the -

Are they not going to be excited

that you're saying this out loud?

Like are they going to be busted?

Going to get raided?

There are two licenses in New York for bars

that were cigar bars originally,

and they couldn't take the licenses away

when they changed the law.

And there very small little places, but it alarmingly funny.

It's almost like owning a time machine.

I walked in there at like, whatever it was.

It was late. A plane.

Or a what? Or a plane.

Yeah, yeah.

That's the funny part is like wow, that's so quaint and new.

It's like that's every bar in Oklahoma.

Oh, yeah that's a good point. Yeah.

It's middle America cosplay.

Can you still smoke in Oklahoma?

There's definitely certain states

where there's indoor smoking.

Missouri.

There's a lot of states where they'll just eat the fines

because people won't go to their bar if they can't smoke.

Like, in Indiana there's bars where people do that.

I don't know whether to believe you

because you have wolves on your shirt.

Believe me more then. You think I don't know about Indiana?

I would normally be giving you spare change.

So you went to this bar last night...?

Yeah, I went to a bar.

Like, late night?

I've got a friend that was filming a thing.

I was filming a thing. So we went drinking-

Who is your famous friend?

Russell Crowe. We went drinking.

Oh, I had a feeling it was something like that.

Yeah, it was fun though.

Cool. Pretty fun night.

So we drank some very good whiskey and tequila

and I feel a bit, little bit...

I can't believe you're here.

I imagine you only smoke out of a pipe.

Oh yeah. 100%. 100%.

Like a chimney sweet.

Yeah.

Wait, a second. You were out until how late?

4 in the morning?

3 now. We're open till 3.

Oh my god.

I like a late night drink.

I don't drink much. I don't want to drink...

I don't want to get kind of blackout.

What does that mean you don't drink much?

How often do you drink?

Cause your tee-total now, right?

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

I gave up drinking for about 12 or 13 years.

Shut up.

Actually when I started doing comedy.

So I used to drink at college quite a lot.

And I was drinking afterwards, but I wasn't happy.

I think drinking when you're not happy is the worst.

And then I just started doing comedy,

and I just really want to do this.

And I kind of thought I'd come to a light.

I was about 26 when I started doing comedy,

and I went, oh I better really focus on this.

And it was enough fun that I didn't need anything else.

And then when comedy started not being fun anymore,

you're like, [inaudible] back into this.

I kind of just thought, I've done alright. I'll be okay.

I love that. I'm coming up on seven years,

December 9 of not drinking alcohol.

So what was the thing? What was the low point?

I felt the same way. I wasn't happy.

I saw everyone's careers that I wanted around me

who were successful people in comedy and I realized,

oh they all don't have a drinking problem.

Either they don't drink because they did have a problem.

Or they just don't drink that much

and it's not something that interferes

with their live every single night.

And so...

Were you drinking every single night?

Kinda! Yeah because I could.

I'd at least have a couple drinks

because you just can, and I was out every night.

It's a weird thing, as well.

It took me years to kind of like...

sort of, when I started drinking again

you kind of go to a comedy club and do a set.

And then you kind of never have to buy another drink.

You never. That's the thing, it's free.

It's a weird thing when you go no money is changing hands.

And there's something about me that's going,

well this is good, isn't it?

It's awesome.

Think of all the money you lost

not getting free drinks for those years.

Ahh. Whoa.

If you don't drink, they should just hand you money.

Like extra money. Somebody had a joke about that.

That's amazing.

Every time you go to the bar, every couple...

they hand me seven dollars.

After not, when you're not drinking as a single woman

and guys are like, can I buy you a drink.

I'm always like, no.

Give me like a Starbucks gift card.

Something? Seven dollars. That would get me two coffees

that I would really enjoy down the road.

A cup of soup?

That's bad though because after a couple of drinks

you can sleep with a guy.

But if we gives you $14 you really feel like a budget

[inaudible].

I would love that.

Nicky Glazer, budget [inaudible].

That could be the new special title right now.

I'm, listen, I'm workshopping some.

Thank you.

So yeah, it was just, I got to that point.

But let me ask you. What was the point where you go,

I'm going to have that first drink after 13...

12 or 13 years?

I built a house. I built a house in London where I live.

And we put a bar in it,

and so I had a bar and I thought, this is mental.

I'm going to have a drink. And I kind of had a thing where,

the last couple years of not drinking,

I would have like a Guinness at Christmas.

Like at the end of the last gig, I'd have like a Guinness.

I quite like it. Quite like just having that one drink.

Kind of slightly fetishistically.

Not getting drunk,

but just having one drink is like a lovely thing.

Edgy.

What a relatable story, by the way.

I'm starting to have... wow, I'm a very wealthy man.

I'm starting to ... very wealthy.

I'm starting to experiment with drugs now.

Like in my mid-forties, I'm starting to go,

oh, actually I'm terrible at relaxing.

I've got not capacity to sit home and do nothing.

So I'm just starting to kind of use marijuana

now for the first time. I love it.

It's great. It's terrific.

It's a very interesting thing if you've never done drugs.

I've always been sort of quite anti.

Edibles? Do you do edibles?

Yeah, I can't really smoke.

I feel like I'm in an Oscar Wilde play.

I feel like there's something about me with a cigarette.

Oh, hello. [inaudible] fancy here.

I think you would look cool with a joint. I don't like...

If you think I'd look cool, you need to get laid.

[crosstalk] You're not wrong.

That's a red flag.

You're not wrong.

When did you last get ... get ...

Get stuffed? Um ...

When did you last get... Get Stuffed With Nikki Glaser

is another great title for a show.

I love to get cummed in.

I know. I did say that earlier today.

It was a ...

Well, we've got a finale for the show, fellas.

It was, what morning?

It was Wednesday night. A week ago.

Well, that's all from us.

We're just going to watch it dribble out.

One week ago.

One week ago? One week ago.

One week ago. Okay.

Is that when I went to LA? I don't even remember.

Yeah, no Tuesday night. Yeah, it was Tuesday night.

A Tuesday night.

Yes, it was a Tuesday night.

Well, we all know the best sex is Tuesday night sex.

And how are the tacos? Did it sit well?

Did you have the tacos first? The Taco Tuesday?

Oh. It was late...

Did you fuck a Mexican dude

just because you thought, it's Tuesday?

There's so many things that you're hitting on

that I want to talk about.

I had gotten into town really late at night,

and I just climbed into bed

and we just banged it out real quick.

It was just a quick one-and-done.

I didn't even think, I was really going to ...

I was like not in the mood, really,

and then it was one of those ones that it was like,

I didn't know I was in the mood so much.

I think if I guy's not on the mood, that's a problem.

I believe thumbing in a softie is the expression.

It's like trying to play pool with a bit of rope.

If you're picking a lock with a marshmallow, that's an issue.

But if a lady's not in the mood, you can just use,

I believe they call it Australian charm, don't they?

Or saliva.

Yeah, Australian charm.

Oh, okay. Yes, exactly.

It's that easy, isn't it?

But that's the thing, I thought going into it

because I hadn't seen this guy in a while, and I was like,

I'm really really tired and like not into it -

I never get

[inaudible] twice. I'm amazed you'd seen it before.

I'm assuming she fucked her Uber driver.

You ever fucked an Uber driver?

Um, no.

The fact you're having to think about it

tells me every thing I need to know.

Well, I was just thinking have I ever had sex

with someone who has driven for Uber but not my Uber driver.

But not like, you haven't met a guy ...

that would be fun.

No, no, Jimmy. I think you think of me in a different way.

you know what that is? That's the sixth star.

That's how they refer to it. Oh, she gave me the sixth star.

Yeah, so it was just one of those...

I told him afterwards, I didn't know how much I needed...

It was like he found a pressure point

and just like dug into with his elbow.

It's one of those massages that was just like, oh Jesus Christ.

Like, I didn't know that it hurt.

It hurt good. I don't know what I'm trying to say here.

It hurt good?

Wait, this is a sex thing?

I think she's trying to write a Madonna song from the 80s.

I had sex and it felt...

I think she's trying to rewrite Like a Virgin live.

Like I was overly sensitive to it.

Where I was just like, whoa I didn't see that coming

and I was just like, it was so quick like I didn't...

You didn't see it coming?

I didn't see it coming.

Well, you like to be cummed in, so...

I didn't see... yeah, exactly.

They had a cervical camera so she could watch it later.

And he didn't - we were not doing cumming in

because I'm not on the pill,

so it's always got to be out and it's no unsatisfying.

We were talking about that before.

You guys had been pulling it out?

He pulled it out, yep.

Sorry, you're having unprotected sex.

Yep.

And he's just pulling out?

Yep. Because you're on the pill.

Oh, you know, like have you ever seen the Teenage Mom show?

Listen ...

Do not take any sexual advice from this lady.

That's crazy.

We've used the pull-out method only for years now, and ...

Pre-cum is really, Nikki Glaser.

I know, but I'm probably barren is what I'm thinking

because I've never had a scare. Never anything.

Like, I'm not ... never been pregnant,

and I've been having risky...

The pull-out method is not good to do.

Let me see it.

Let me just do a quick exam. I've never been pregnant.

I've had things where I thought I was pregnant,

but I've always just known, you're not pregnant, bitch.

You're just late because you've been eating weird or whatever.

I think you should start a family.

Yeah, I'm going to go there.

I think you should start a family right now.

No interest. I would be a great mom.

Oh, I didn't think so, but ...

No, I just think you're running out of things

to talk about in your comedy specials.

I think you should have a family.

You think you'd be a great-

That is not wrong.

You think you'd be a great mum?

Oh yeah.

I think I know someone who is going to start drinking again.

That's the thing.

Mommy needs a livener. Get Mommy's special juice.

Get Mommy's special juice. You have to Uber to school.

Jimmy.

That Uber driver's cute. Tell him I like him.

Jimmy. When you started drinking again, how quickly did it...

You've had to have some night where you're like, oh god.

What did I do? All those things that...

I've quit drinking because I hate those nights.

I hate nights where I blacked out.

Where I can't really piece together.

I've sent texts I don't want.

I've written tweets I don't care for.

And I just have that anxiety...

The hangover's terrible. Is the hangover ...?

I occasionally get the beer fear.

I occasionally get the kind of thing

the next morning of going, oh, I'm the worst.

But I tend to just get that a lot from travel.

I get that more from traveling than I do from drinking.

It's exacerbated maybe slightly from drink.

But actually, I just get the fears

sometimes when I'd be traveling.

I've done about 40 countries this year

and I find if I get my circadian rhythms about,

I get depressed.

And the drinking is like, you maybe have a drink

to take the edge off trying to get to sleep.

And then that's more the thing, rather than the...

because you still get the everyone hates me thing now,

I imagine?

Have you listened back to the show?

Have you not been on Twitter? Come on, Nikki... Come on.

But no, I sometimes get that thing,

and I think it's unrelated to drinking.

I think that hangover thing of like,

I don't mind having a hangover

and feeling a bit dehydrated or whatever.

Not a biggie. I'll deal with that.

But that kind of depression the next day, thinking,

oh my god. The anxiety thing.

I suffer more with anxiety now than I ever have.

I think it's kind of travel-wise.

I think it's all to do with ... I think you're right.

And that's why I'm kind of interested in marijuana

for that deeper sleep.

Not really to get high. I just want to sleep.

They actually say that..

That's why I take it.

It's bad. It's worse for your sleep.

They say that it messes up your REM sleep.

I took 10 milligrams last night

and woke up just glued to the bed.

I slept eight hours, but it felt like three.

I can't get up. That's why I don't do it.

I can't smoke before I go to bed

because the smoking high only lasts

for three or four hours, and then I wake up like, ahhhh.

Edible keeps me asleep the whole night,

but then it's not good sleep. I'm bad at sleeping.

That's another reason I can't drink.

Do you do melatonin?

A little bit.

I've started doing a little bit of melatonin.

Melatonin is the best.

Yeah, two milligrams a day, every day.

It's really great.

Two? Wow I do 10.

No, my girlfriend was doing like 80 milligrams at a day.

They were 10 milligram pills and she would just, gulp.

And she learned apparently there is a curve,

an effectiveness curve that she was overshooting by a mile.

So now she's back down to like less than 10.

But I did a thing in Australia this year

where I flew to Australia twice in January,

which is from London a bold

[inaudible] flight.

So got there, and went, right, sleep.

I'll take some Valium. So, I was given some Valium.

Took some Valium

and then I basically had nothing left in my system.

I didn't realize it strips all the serotonin from you.

So I took all this stuff on the jet lag as well,

and was kind of wandering Australia

as well going, I think...

I'll kill myself.

Yeah, we're all going to die, aren't we?

Australia is bleak.

Which way does London go to Australia?

It's direct? Does it go over one of the poles or something?

No, there is one direct flight into Perth,

but then the downside is you arrive in Perth.

Burn on wherever Perth.

Yeah, get fucked, Perth.

God bless you American and you're lack of ...

Tim Minchin's from Perth. There's good people from Perth.

So it's kind of a, you fly,

maybe Hong Kong or Singapore on the way.

But I think you're right.

Like, all these things we attribute

to that's why I feel bad. It's really...

the drinking is messing up your sleep,

and the sleep is what's really causing you to be...

the lack of sleep or the circadian rhythms

being all messed up is what causes it.

Well, it's an interesting thing is that with something like AA

where people deal with the drinking problem

rather than what's causing them to drink.

Like, actually good therapy and I think a lot of this stuff

with like you know DMT and people doing Iowaska

or whatever to kind of push through whatever that thing

is that's making...

you know, and there's two very different types of drinking.

There's problem-drinking, and there's just - hey, listen.

I went out for a drink with some friends

and we had a lot of fun. It was great.

Yeah, you're absolutely right.

I mean, people drink because they're sad

and they want to numb out.

That's when you have a drinking problem,

and that's the same way I eat sometimes.

Like, last night I just got home and I was like,

I'm feeling things I don't want to feel.

And I'm just going to stuff my face until I feel sick.

And it's...

I'm doing the same thing that I used to do with drinking.

And part of me is like, why don't I just get drunk?

What's your go-to food?

I eat really healthy stuff

because I just want to eat everything and eat...

I want an excuse to be able to eat forever and ever and ever,

and so I'll just eat like veggies and hummus.

She's vegan.

And so, I'll...

Oh, have you been to the Butcher's Daughter?

That place in New York.

They've got a couple of locations.

Are you making a joke? Is that vegan?

No, no, it's vegan, right? It's vegan.

I thought he was going to fuck with you.

No, game-changingly good vegan food.

I went there once. It was very good.

I'm vegan most of the time.

Yeah, it's the way to be. For sure.

But it's ... yeah, I binge on like really healthy stuff.

But I will make myself sick.

People go, all you eat is salads.

I go, you don't understand the amounts I can put away.

And when I'm going on, an emotional binge...

I feel like I'm talking to a crazy person now.

The idea that you're binging on salad.

I mean... that's not a thing. That's not comfort eating.

It really is. I love salad.

I crave it. I love healthy foods,

and I eat disgusting amounts of them where you'd be-

I'll eat... I'll literally eat 3000 calories of a salad.

This is, no. Whoa, whoa, whoa time out.

Comfort eating is ...

That's insane.

So I can eat for hours. Hours!

Whereas someone who's eating a cake

can only eat that cake for 15 minutes.

However long it takes you to stuff a cake in your face.

I can have the same amount of calories

that that cake is over hours and I can eat the whole time.

Because then I prolong... it's like, I used to drink.

I used to drink vodka sodas

and I would do a little bit of vodka

and a ton of soda so I could just chug and chug.

And consume volume without having the ...

without blacking out too fast.

You need vodka lettuce.

I love that people wake up from food benders.

I think all of this relates to the size

of her father's penis is my take.

It probably does.

It's all about volume.

Oh my god.

But the idea of your bender being that.

Like most people go on a bender and they wake up

with like a stomach ache from all the sugar

or bloated from all the salt.

And you wake up the next day and take the most perfect shit.

A perfect cylinder with flat ends.

I do. I do. I mean...

Just a tube of play-doh.

I went to bed last night so sick.

Oh, man. I woke up a six pack.

Oh, I'm so fucking ripped.

I have 100% a binge eating disorder.

Like, 100% but it would never ring any alarms

because I binge eat healthy food.

So, no one's ... everyone's always like,

oh, Nicky and all of her salads.

And it's like, I'm crying for help.

But it's...

What were you suppressing last night?

Can we talk about that?

I was suppressing the fact that the guy I'm seeing

hasn't been as communicate with me as I want him to be.

I was suppressing that I performed a song last night,

and I didn't nail it the way I wanted it to.

I was suppressing the fact that I have to make-

Whoa, whoa, whoa. You performed a song?

God Damn?

Yeah, the Goddamn Comedy Jam.

What song did you do?

Blank Space, Taylor Swift. Yeah, it was really fun.

Really, you covered Taylor Swift?

Yeah, we did like a rock version of it.

It was awesome. It was really fun. I was...

I mean...

The fact that I wasn't going to get enough sleep

because I wanted to eat a lot, and then if I went home

and went to eat a lot, I still gotta be up for radio.

So I was kind of stressed about not getting enough sleep.

And then today, I have a meeting after this.

And then I have another thing later,

and I have to go to Mike Birbiglia's show

which I'm excited about but I'm also like

it's just another thing I have to dress up for.

I'm seeing it Thursday.

And like look good, and I'm going to the Comedy Cellar,

and I have to- I'm suppressing all of that.

You have to dress up for Mike Birbiglia's show?

Yeah, it's a Broadway show.

I'm going to take a fucking picture.

He's not even dressing up for it.

I know, that's the ironic...

He's a married man with a child.

I'm not dressing up so Mike Birbiglia's like,

wow, Nikki looks...

it's like I'm going to take a picture and post it on Instagram

because that's why he's giving away free tickets

to all his friends anyways, so that we all promote

and so that I can talk about how amazing it is.

So I want to look cute for that picture.

Then I have to go right to the cellar

and do the Comedy Central

taping that they don't provide hair and makeup for.

So I gotta do that. And then I have to make sure...

There's just so many things that I'm juggling that I just eat,

so I don't have to think about them.

But I'm going to get it all done.

I'm going to say. No one else is going to say it.

I think you should get back on the booze.

I know, right?

You never hear anyone say that.

And sometimes you just go, lean into that.

Have a drink. Take the edge off.

I think I could, and I think I will some day, but ...

Come on. Have a drink.

I just think all of my sober friends

will be very disappointed in me,

and that's kind of what keeps me doing it.

I've got a lot of friends in AA.

And how sad were they for you?

I was never in...

I never really had a problem big enough.

My thing was just, I just stopped.

It wasn't a big... I didn't have a drinking problem.

I just happened to not drink for 12 years.

It sounds like more of an issue but then is,

and I drink a little bit now but not much.

I think I might give it up again just to lose weight.

Right, yeah.

Is that what helped you in the first place losing weight?

No, I stopped eating after 6.

I did 8 for a while and that was hard.

Shit, we got to go, guys. The show's over.

How did this show fly by so fast?

Jimmy Carr, thank you so much for being here.

You're so fun and exhausting.

And Matthew Broussard, thank you for being here.

That's his name. I knew it.

I was going to say, the guy from Scooby Doo.

Oh, my god.

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Why Am I Insecure In My Relationship? - Duration: 11:19.

Why am I so insecure in my relationship? There might be some reasons for that. I

can help dig into the psychological aspects of that in this video.

Relationships are a place where we want to feel secure, confident like we've got

it and we don't very often. There's a reason for that and it has to do with

our focus. You know how in other videos I've talked about metacognition.

Metacognition is kind of a fancy word. But all it means is a higher level of

thinking, okay? Cognition means thinking. if we put that at this level,

Metacognition is a higher level. It's thinking about thinking and notice that

you can do this. When you think about your thinking, you're in position to

learn some really powerful and important things about how your own mind is

processing this relationship and I think you'll see exactly what I'm talking

about as we go to this graph. In this box is our focus, alright? so think about your

thinking for a minute and think about where your focus is when you're in a

relationship. Is my focus on how I feel? That's this column. Or is it on how you

feel? 2 possibilities, right? So in this... In this relationship that you're

concerned about, there's you and there's the other person. I've written the

labels here in first person so that you can own it. Ask yourself. "Okay, is my focus

on how I feel? Or out with that person feels? That's what we're talking about

with the columns. Now, forget about the feelings for just a minute. We're going

to go to the rows about me or about you. That's what our rows

represent. So in addition to the feeling, we're getting to the content here. So

we've set up a little quadrant system. Now, as we look at this quadrant system,

you're going to be in one of these 4 boxes. And you probably bounced around a

little bit. But check out that relationship where you're feeling a

little insecure and let's just see why that's happening. When we're in this

first quadrant, I actually call this one the red quadrant, okay? And I color it red

in some of my presentations because this is where we don't really want to be. In

the red quadrant, my focus is on how I feel about me. See, it's all about me. Am I

good enough? Have I got this? Am I prepared? Do I know what I'm doing? Do I

think that I'm ready? Okay, these are all those red kind of thoughts. If we call it

the red quadrant. But it's just where our focus is all on how we feel about

ourselves. It's all about me how do I feel about me. See, how selfish that seems?

And what is the impact in a relationship? In your other relationships for example.

Think about how it feels when somebody else is all tied up in how they feel

about themselves. It's like, "Hello, anybody in there?"

The lights are on but nobody's home. It's like I'm unnecessary here because you're

so tied up in how you feel about yourself. how do you feel when you get

into that red quadrant? when you're focused on, "Oh, am I good enough? Do I have

this? Am I ready? Am I prepared? Am I good enough? Am I cute enough? Am I smart

enough?" Whatever, right? This creates self-consciousness.

If you're feeling self-conscious... Now, I'm not talking about that healthy sense of

self-awareness or mindfulness. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about

that anxious self-consciousness that happens anytime our focus is on how I

feel about myself. You don't even have to change it but notice it. Now, what if we

shift over here to this quadrant? Now, my focus is on how you feel about me. On how

you feel about me. Do you think that I'm good enough? Do you approve of me? Do you

think that I'm cute enough? Smart enough? Do you think I'm prepared? Do you think I

can do this? Do you accept me? All right, that is our second quadrant here. What's

the effect? Insecurity. That's where insecurity comes from. You're wondering

why you're insecure in this relationship? Is on how other people feel about you.

Just check it out and see if that is accurate. Welcome back to junior high

folks. I mean, do you remember feeling that anxious, insecurity about, "Oh, do I

fit in? Are they going to like me? Are they going to

approve of me?" This is where it comes from. And there's different levels of

that, that's granted. But I just want you to see that when your focus is here in

this quadrant, that's when you get the insecurity. That's where it comes from.

Either way up here on the top, we create anxiety. It's either that judgmental-self

judging-anxiety over here in the first quadrant or it's that insecurity of, "Oh,

do people like me? Am I going to fit in?" of the second quadrant. Either way, we

feel anxiety and nervousness and apprehension. Okay, let's move on. How

Now, my focus is on how I feel about you. Do I like you? Do I

approve of you? Do I think you're making good choices? Do I accept you? Okay, even

if it's positive, can I just add that? Even if it's positive, it creates

criticism. So we've got self-consciousness here, we've got

insecurity over there. We've got criticism here. I said even if it's

positive. Check it out. How does it feel if I approach you and

I'm like, "Oh, I approve of you. Pat you on the head a little bit." How condescending

is that. What gives me the authority to approve of you or not? It's like I'm here

and you're there, right? Doesn't feel right. And people will feel criticized. So,

when my focus is on how I feel about you, that leads to criticism. We got one more

box. This is where we get out of our own way, okay? It's not about me and how I

feel is only secondary. My focus is now on how you feel about

yourself. When I can get to that quadrant, this is the one that I have labeled the

influencer quadrant. We can also label that confidence because I think that's

going to fit as well. We get out of the insecurity and the anxiety of this top

row where it's all about me. We get out of the judgment and the criticism that's

characteristic of these two over here in the first column. It's not about me, how I

feel is only secondary. That's what gives me the influence and the confidence in

the relationship that I crave. You know, if you're feeling some insecurity in

your relationship, that's okay. There's not fun, I know. And you're trying to

change it. Just notice where it's coming from and I'm guessing that if you're

feeling insecurity, you're in that second quadrant where your focus is on how

other people feel about you. Just notice it. As you notice it, it puts you in a

higher level of choice and control. Because maybe you want to do something

about this. Now, really quickly before I let you go today.

I want to give you 4 hacks. 4 brain hacks to get you in to that influence,

confidence quadrant. Notice where your focus is. That's going to help. And then

to hack your way into that quadrant, give social gifts. There's 4 of them that I

would recommend. The first one is gratitude. You express gratitude to the

people in your life that you want to be in a relationship with. In a way that

you're focused on how they feel about themselves, that's a gift. And they will

love it. Be specific. Tell them what you're

grateful for. Not just, "Oh, I appreciate you." For what? Tell them what you like

about them. What you appreciate about them or what they've done for you. That's

the gratitude one. The second one is information. It's a gift. You give them

information. It's like enlightenment. Like something

they didn't know before. It usually starts with, "Hey, did you hear? Or you know,

what I heard today?" And then you give them a gift of information. We've got

gratitude, we got information. The next one is common ground. Common ground is

something that you share with someone else. So you point out how you're similar,

how you're alike. What you have in common. It's a social gift. And then the fourth

one is good cheer. Good cheer has to do with positivity and actually being

cheerful. And using a smile on your face. People are going to wonder what you're up

to. Don't worry about that. Give this social

gift elevates people and raises their mood. The gift of good cheer. Those 4

social gifts will help you to hack into that influence and confidence Quadrant

in your relationships. There's a whole positive relationships resources

playlist here at Live On Purpose TV. I hope you've enjoyed this episode. Please

share it and check out that other playlist.

We got a lot of other good stuff.

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>> I'm Christina Warren.

>> I'm Adron Hall.

>> And this is the Open Source Show.

[MUSIC].

>> I'm Christina Warren, Senior Cloud

Developer Advocate, and I'm joined today by

>> Adron Hall, Technical Evangelist at DataStax.

>> I made a lot of videos here for Channel 9.

I give a lot of presentations,

and in my past life,

I've written reams of technical blog posts,

and we're talking today about creating technical content,

and I know that's something that you do a lot of, right?

Because you give a lot of presentations.

>> Yup.

>> You do a lot of demos. You blog a lot.

>> I do blog a lot.

>> Whether you're giving a speech or writing

a blog or making a demo,

we're all creating technical content all the time.

So, for you, what's your first biggest tip?

>> Well, the first thing is always be learning.

Always be curious, and don't ever stop learning about it.

>> It's a lot harder, I think than people think.

That when we think about creating technical content,

that's entertaining, that's also informative.

There's a lot that goes into it.

>> Learn new ways to approach your audience.

Learn new ways to put together material.

Just try to be creative,

but always keep that fire lit to keep learning.

>> That's a great point. It's really

important to know your audience.

>> Yeah.

>> Because it's really important to know

what audience you are either writing a speech for,

or writing a blog post for,

or making a video for. Agree?

>> Vastly so.

You've got to present the right material to the right audience.

So I always try to figure out

who you're going to be speaking with.

>> I think it's good to try to kind of say

what's the expertise level? Am I going even more advanced

or what is it that they're trying to get out of it.

I find that really useful for demos.

If they're trying to do a specific task,

then that's what the demos should be about,

and if it's going to be more of an introduction

to something, it should be an overview.

>> Absolutely. If you go into a group of engineers that are

super hardcore engineers and you've brought

your executive results for the quarter deck,

they're just going to be like, "No!

What do you even? Get out of here."

Your whole thing has to be oriented toward the specific audience.

>> We were talking about this before,

that we both kind of run into as you're at a presentation,

and you don't have the right connector to connect your laptop.

>> Make sure there are connectors for all the things.

You might be able to connect an HDMI or

you might need the USB-C to whatever.

But whatever type of laptops,

whether it's those or Dell, there's something

else you need to have the connectors.

So, one thing that is easy to get

is get your connectors figured out,

and always bring those with you,

and make sure you have an HDMI option,

a VGA option or whatever.

Another thing I would say is,

when you are giving a presentation,

making sure that you have backups of your presentation,

whether it's on another computer or in the cloud someplace.

Well, obviously, presentations are

a big part of technical content,

but I know you do a lot of blog posts, too.

Do you have any advice for people who are writing technical blogs?

>> Yeah. A whole bunch of it.

>> Okay.

>> I write about it sometimes.

But the first one that always comes to mind is just write.

You don't have to go and get

published on your blog, but just write.

Start writing things down,

and tell yourself a story.

Start from beginning of something and go through it,

so it becomes easier to get a rhythm,

and then the be able to produce content on a regular basis.

I just write continuously.

Probably 90 percent of it doesn't end up in the blog,

and then I can take the good parts and actually make blog posts.

But remember, you're trying to tell a story of

why you're doing that in the first place,

so just write and just tell yourself a story.

>> I totally agree. As someone who's written a lot of content,

the more you do, the easier it gets,

and the more comfortable you become with the process.

But if you are going to be doing tutorials,

run through the tutorials yourself after you've done them,

and make sure that it does what it's supposed to do.

Sometimes, that might mean rolling

up a VM and trying it from a clean system,

but actually, try it out just to make sure it works.

Because sometimes, I've definitely done this.

I'll write something, and I'm like,

"Oh no," but this worked fine.

So, you need to make sure that

you're not missing out on any prerequisites,

and that everything works the way that it's supposed to work.

>> That's huge. It could be a VM, a container,

or you have to just wipe out your machine,

fdisk it, and load the OS back on it.

I can't even tell you how many times

I've forgot to mention prereqs or something,

and I'm like, "Oh, just curl this thing,

go put this over here and run."

No, you've got to get curl first,

and you got to do the other thing.

You've got to set up the stuff.

You're just going to dive in and say like,

I have this IDE and I have these tools installed,

is a huge thing that you need to do.

Awesome. Awesome. Trying it out on a fresh system and

making sure that the tutorial works as

expected is really important.

Well, okay, so I think we've given people kind of a good overview.

Do you have any places people can go to find information?

>> Yeah. So, there's my blog, compositecode.blog,

but you can also read about what other people go through to write.

Could be a fiction writer or whatever.

They usually have all sorts of stories about what they've

gone through to get better at

actually being able to produce content.

But check out.NET Fringe, Node PDX,

and recently we just held ML4ALL,

down in Portland, Oregon,

partly because I was one of the conference organizers,

and we really tried to work with our speakers,

and make sure that it's as

easy as possible for them to really provide good content.

There was a lot of absolutely spectacular content there,

and you can pick up a lot of tips from that,

just watching people present.

Awesome. So check out the links below in the show notes.

We're going to have links to Adron's blog as well as

some other resources for creating good presentations,

giving good demos, some other content out there.

You also could go to opensource.microsoft.com if you

want to check out more about what we're doing with open source,

and like and subscribe this video because-

>> I think it's over there.

>> It's somewhere. It's somewhere.

Well, then like and subscribe, turn on

the notifications, and we will see you next time.

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Did the driver wait for her or see where she went?

The log only says it was a one-way fare

to Craigh na Dun.

I have a daughter.

She lives far away.

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We live our life according to schedules.

We plan meetings, birthday parties, hair appointments and family get-togethers.

Unfortunately, the one thing we can NOT plan, or predict, is when Mother Nature will turn

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How to Use Google Translate App for Genealogy - App Review - Duration: 3:02.

Welcome back to another episode on Genealogy TV. Today I am doing another

"App For That" segment this is a little review of the Google Translate app. If

you don't have it on your phone you should, especially if you're doing

records if you're looking in the archives for records from overseas. Now

I'm going to demonstrate this on a website but obviously Google has

Translate on a website this would be great for documents though that if

you're on location somewhere and you need to translate something you can do

so with this app. So this is really cool. Okay so here's the Google Translate app

I'm gonna click on it and I have already pre-loaded it with Danish to English

because I have Danish ancestry and so I go to the Danish websites a lot. Now I

have set this website to be in Danish as it was originally as it was originally

set so I will show you this this is so cool. So... we've got Danish to English

already set. All you have to do is click on the camera and now we have a camera.

And so all we have to do... check this out we're gonna align this over and it

starts to translate as you hover over it. Is that not the coolest check that out.

Now is it perfect? No, but it certainly gives you an idea of of what... Sometimes

you have to hold real still or move around a little bit to get it to

translate but you can certainly do this probably easier with documents than I

can demonstrate it on a website... but this is the Danish archives. Let's go up here

oh look Danish demographic database see? Isn't that cool?

Welcome to DDD. Alright so there you have it the

Google Translate app for your cellphone. It's a must-have if you have done

research where you've jumped the pond and you are on location. Love it, love it,

love it. Gotta have it.

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Hello, Interweb.

Cookie Monster here to invite you and a friend

to visit me, Cookie Monster,

on Sesame Street and...

eat cookies.

Yes, me not cookie-fishing you, this the real deal.

Yeah, me even book your hotel and plane tickets.

Me cashing in me miles.

Yeah.

We'll tour the neighborhood:

see Big Bird's nest,

visit 123 Sesame Street,

even Oscar's trash can.

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Get outta here!

You, too!

Okay, maybe we skip Oscar's trash can.

And most importantly of all, wait for it....

eat cookies!

Thank you, prop man.

Ah!

Wait a minute.

There are no cookies in box.

Prop man give me empty box.

Me no have cookies for me friends.

What me going to do?

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Me have idea.

Yeah, come on internet, follow me.

This way.

Cookies!

Wow, what impeccable timing me have.

Hi, Cookie Monster.

Chris just made me some sunflower seed cookies.

Mhm, fresh from the oven.

Hey Big Bird, um... can me share your cookies

with me internet friends over there?

Yeah, they're coming for a visit and eat cookies with me,

Cookie Monster.

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I hope they like sunflower seeds.

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Cookie!

Sorry.

Sorry, Chris.

Me got so hungry during your long speech

that me had to have a little snacky.

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there will be no cookies left!

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We plan meetings, birthday parties, hair appointments and family get-togethers.

Unfortunately, the one thing we can NOT plan, or predict, is when Mother Nature will turn

on us with full, merciless force.

While we can't stop her from causing unbelievable devastation, we can make it look as though

nothing ever happened!

That's where we come in.

Our dedicated team of diligent experts will swoop in to save the day in a moment's notice,

whether your home or business is suffering at the hands of water OR fire damage.

We'll clean up and restore your property to its predisastrous condition, leaving no

stone unturned and no area unattended to.

Fire and water damage can be devastating, which is why we're at your service 24/7,

365.

You can't schedule disaster, but you CAN add us to your phone book immediately for

resounding peace of mind, for the long haul.

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Fantasy Football Start 'Em, Sit 'Em: Week 13 Predictions | Heavy.com

Depending on your league format, you are likely either starting the fantasy playoffs or making your last postseason push during the regular season.

As always, we are here to help you with your most difficult start/sit lineup decisions for the NFL's Week 13.

The week gets off to a fast start with the Saints and Cowboys squaring off.

Not only does the matchup have major NFC playoff implications, but it features two offenses with several top fantasy players.

The Saints offense needs no introduction, but the Cowboys unit looks markedly different since the team traded for wide receiver Amari Cooper.

Cowboys head coach Jason Garrett discussed why Cooper has been so effective since arriving in Dallas.

"He's played four games for us now and he's really had a positive impact in each of them," Garrett said per NOLA.com.

"He's a very capable guy physically.

He's quick, he's fast, he's explosive, he's a very good route runner, he can make plays on all three levels of the defense.

Really like what he's done for us.".

Now that Cooper is on the Cowboys, the wide receiver has become a must-start.

There are plenty of other decisions that are not as easy.

Each week we look at a few games that are expected to be shootouts.

Sometimes, how we expect a game to play out can serve as a tiebreaker for our lineup decisions if two players are otherwise even.

The Bucs-Panthers Matchup Is Expected to Be the Highest Scoring Game of Week 13.

According to OddsShark, the Bucs and Panthers matchup has the highest point total of Week 13 at 56 points.

This may seem odd on the surface but there are a few contributing factors that put this game in shootout territory.

For Tampa Bay, the offense has started to look much better with Jameis Winston at quarterback.

The problem with the Bucs has never been the number of offensive weapons but the inconsistency at quarterback.

The Panthers rookie wide receiver D.J.

Moore has really emerged as a legit threat towards the second half of the season.

Christian McCaffrey is the most versatile running back in the NFL and is playing as well as anyone at the position right now.

There are five games with an over-under of 50 or more points.

As we mentioned earlier, the Saints-Cowboys game should feature plenty of offense and has a point total of 53.

The Rams-Lions have an over-under of 54.5 thanks to the Rams' high-powered offense coming to Detroit.

Kansas City and Oakland has an over-under of 55.5 points in an AFC West showdown.

Most of this has to do with the Chiefs ability to put up points against a bad Raiders defense.

Finally, Sunday's slate of games closes out with the Chargers taking on the Steelers in a Sunday Night Football matchup with a 51.5 point total.

Philip Rivers is playing as well as we have seen him at any point in his career.

Feel free to reach out to me on Twitter @JonDAdams with any fantasy lineup questions you may have.

Click the next arrow to see my fantasy football predictions for Week 13 in the latest edition of Start-Sit.

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Stressed?

Things piling up on you?

Getting in to be too much?

Well, I am here for you.

I am your life style mentor.

And it's time for you to learn what to do when you get overwhelmed with life.

Okay, so I'm having a bad day, right?

Really, really bad day.

Sitting in my office, my brain is literally exploding with all the different things I've

got to work on.

And I literally felt like there was a fuse in my head that was about to just to explode

and just like shut down.

I grab a pad of paper and I drew this circle inside of it.

I put me in the middle and I had to see what was going on in my life.

So I start drawing all this lines and circles, these lines and circles to like all these

commitments and responsibilities.

And all the things I personally was attached to.

And that...

Meaning, attachments, meaning, I was responsible or I was the one in charge of it.

Or had an answer for it and this is somewhat it would look like.

And I literally mapped it out and I sat there looking at my map and it just mad sense.

No wonder I feel so overwhelmed.

It actually my first step in starting to make a big change in my life about this overwhelmed

feeling.

Step number 1 is make a map.

And I know this looks crazy like it looks like, you know, some kind of a child just

drew this.

But what if you did draw the map and showed yourself all the different responsibilities

and commitments that you've made and what you're literally committed to.

I think sometimes what happens is we don't cause a visual to happen in front of us as

we posed with new opportunities.

I think sometimes we actually say yes too many times and we don't realize the complexcity

of what it is that we've created for us in our life.

When I sat down and made that map, I literally had an awakening.

A really big awakening to I am over committed.

There are too many things I am connected to.

And starting on that day, with that map, I start looking it all of the things I am committed

to and I had to start cutting back.

I start changing things.

And I got to tell you too.

When I made my map, the next thing that came to me when somebody said, would you be willing

to do this?

It was really easy to say no.

I think the reason why we yes too much is because we actually don't see it out in front

of us.

We have it all swirling around of our head.

But we don't have a map of what we're committed to.

And so we keep saying yes.

And then what happens when you keeps saying yes?

You start to run out of energy, ran out of time, get behind and then you stress with

the kids.

And the kids have to hurry and spouse has to hurry and the friend has to hurry.

And then you don't get enough sleep, you eat the wrong things and you got yourself a mess.

So step number 1 of learning how to deal and get over this overwhelmed feeling is you got

to map yourself out.

And draw out every step of the way of what is it that you're committed to.

You don't have to but if you keep thinking in your head you're aware of all the different

places, you committed yourself to, you will be surprised and shocked to find out how many

different places you're committed to.

So make a map.

That's step number 1.

Okay, step number 2.

Where can you renegotiate some of these commitments?

You might have to go back to people and say, "Hey, I have overdone it, I've reached a line

and I am never going to cross that line."

You see, people who become overwhelmed are people who almost in a way are ashamed of

having to go back on their commitments.

But if you don't renegotiate, what happens is, you are going to burn out.

You're going to ran out.

And who's going to pay the price?

You're body's going to pay the price, you're family's going to pay the price.

But where can you renegotiate?

Go look at the map and see where you have to renegotiate.

What can you let go of?

Right?

There's so many of those you got to let go of.

And then also, who's got to step up?

Some of those commitments that you're holding on to that you keep being the one in charge,

some of those are really on somebody else and they're not doing their job.

And so you're stepping in and taking care of it for them.

You know it.

You know you're doing that.

Instead of getting after them to step it up, you've been taking the responsibility for

it.

So maybe there's some training in line or maybe you need to get out after somebody?

Or kind of change that person out because they're not taking good care of it.

Here's another reason why you could be overwhelmed.

Can you imagine that this could've actually cause you feel emotionally piled up in the

inside?

That could cause a lot of frustration and discouragement there.

So if you're feeling emotionally full, that's a sign of being overwhelmed.

Emotions.

So, learn and find a way to emotionally let go of those feeling on the inside and my most

favorite way is to journal.

You will hear me over and over again say, journal how you think and feel so that you

can drop that level inside of all of that emotional build up so you can think straight.

Eating habits can affect the way you think and if you are eating poorly, you're going

to make poor decisions.

If you're eating healthy you're going to make healthy decisions.

Make sense doesn't it?

Sleep.

Low on sleep, you're going to make bad decisions.

Low on sleep, you're going to over commit yourself.

Next, hydration.

If you're low on water, you're going to over commit yourself because you're just going

to say yes to everything because you're not thinking it through.

When you're dehydrated, you're brain does not function at it's top ability.

It just can't.

It needs to be hydrated because.

Your brain use a lot of water.

And so, get some water in you.

Help you think better.

And the last one.

You will be overwhelmed if in every 7 days, you don't have a playtime.

I know it sounds like I am talking to as we're like kids or something, right?

But if we don't have a playtime to go do something fun, we don't have an outlet.

There's no outlet.

And I know you're thinking, "I'll play when I get all my work done."

That's not going to happen.

You're an adult now.

And that means there's always something to do.

But every 7 days, where's the playtime?

So, these steps and this idea have starting out of the map is going to help you get yourself

put in the position that overwhelmed is not something that takes you over anymore.

Because today's the day you're going to make a change about this.

Overwhelmed is the sign of mismanaged decisions.

So take my suggestions, map it out, follow my suggestions of what to do next and get

yourself back in charge and so you're not overwhelmed.

You're back into a place of managing things wisely.

Today and this video is perfect for you.

And hey, you don't want to miss the next video I am going to send out to you, the next topics.

So, subscribe here to this YouTube channel so I can continue to train you to get you

back, organize and online.

So that you don't have a come apart.

Or have a shutdown happen.

Let's keep you productive.

Let's help keep your performance up.

So subscribe here to my YouTube channel and I'll continue to train you every step of the

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Are you using a webcam but the image just isn't right? Maybe you're

completely underexposed because you've got bright lights behind you or a

white wall or the color is off or something's just not right. In this video

I'm gonna introduce you to a software plugin for your Mac that can solve most

of these issues. The software is called iGlasses and there's a link

down below that you can use to purchase this software if you are interested.

Here's the gist of it. It is able to do a whole bunch of things to your webcam

feed so that if you're using QuickTime or if you're usin ScreenFlow

or you're doing video conferencing, you can do a bunch of changes. So let me show

you some of the things that it can do and how I fixed the video

that I'm experiencing right now. So the first thing is if you open iGlasses

you need to select the webcam. I am using the c922 - and I have to mention

that Logitech makes a free software that does many of the things here. Check

out this other video - I'll have a link at the end - and that way you can see the

options that you can get for free over there. I'll talk in this video about one

of the limitations of the iGlasses. So choose the webcam that you want to work

with and then you've got a number of different options here. I always go to

the adjustments tab and I turn off everything or I turn off the auto white

balance and the auto exposure. What this is doing right now is it's

trying to expose kind of a mix of me and behind me. So behind me is just way

too bright; I'm just way too dark. So what I'm trying to do is make it so that I am

properly exposed, but behind me is overexposed. I'm gonna click on the

exposure here, just kind of tweak it up a little bit and see how it's going. It

looks like I've gone a little bit too far in the back, just a little bit more, there we go.

So I'm looking pretty good, pretty properly exposed. You can also change the

white balance. When you're in this situation you've got

you're either looking too blue or too green or too yellow you could go through

here and change the white balance. So this will

make me a little more blue - that's a little too blue. I think this is

gonna take me up into the the kind of super yellow. Just work your way

around here until you find what you think looks the best. You can also

decide if you want it to be accurate. If you want it to be over saturated you've

got some choices there. You've got a number of choices up here in terms

of ways to to change some of the same things, but just a different way of

doing it. I want to go into a couple of other features here. Zoom and flip

you can have it rotated so that it's sideways or upside down. You can

mirror it so it's backwards. You can go into these funky effects if you want

to. This is kind of more snapchat-ty type stuff. Let's see here if I can do a

frog. There we go. So you know, kind of the

fun things that you want to do with your webcam. How

do I turn this off now. Go back to normal - oh, normal's in the middle. You've got

some some presets that you can set here, or you can click save. You can save your

current settings so if you know that you're always in front of this window

you can save it so that it always has the settings. You can just pop it in

there and turn it on. Now I want to talk about the limitation here, and you're

kind of seeing it a little bit in the screen. This is a processor hog.

I'm using a MacBook Pro that's a few years old. I'm gonna pull up my

activity monitor here and let you see what's going on. This is what's going on.

It is really chugging away on the processor, trying to process these

changes into my video. That can be a problem if you're trying to do some

live streaming. It can be a little bit tricky here so often when

you're doing something with your webcam, or if you're doing a screen recording or

if you know you're using Skype or something like that. There's a bunch of

processor intensive things and what I found is that iGlasses can add

to that intensiveness, so sometimes it might push your computer to the limit.

That's one of the things if you have a Logitech camera. I have found that

that has not been a problem using the Logitech software. Go ahead you can

click over here now to see that. Once again down below you can get a link to

to buy iGlasses if you're interested in that. Otherwise, I'll see you in the

next video.