Family Manipulation: What is it, and How to Recognize Its Warning Signs
Does family manipulation sound like something new to you?
You may be surprised to learn that manipulation can come from anyone - be it partner, mom
or dad ... even siblings.
Partner manipulation has become commonplace.
Many people escaped this abusive relationship.
However, manipulation is prevalent in all types of relationships, apart from the intimate
type.
In fact, many people report that family manipulation is also a problem.
Mother, father, sisters, and brothers all tend to be manipulative and abusive toward
each other, and that can be a serious problem.
Family manipulation of mental, physical, sexual, or emotional abuse by family members against
each other.
This kind of violence is commonly used to control others for various purposes.
If you are lucky, you can have most of your family members who are respectful and loving.
So, here are some signs that will help you recognize and overcome family manipulation.
#1 - A family member who tries to control others will lie to them a lot.
Most of these lies are weak and will not be strictly supervised.
So if any of your family members are dishonest to you, it's good to try and find out their
reasons behind the behavior.
#2 - If a member of the narcissistic family is trying to control you, one of the tools
they will use is tacit treatment.
It's easy for them because they do not have to do anything, and you will plead for them
for their time.
This is a very common and unhealthy manipulative technique altogether.
#3 - Anyone who is completely selfless will never show the facts in front of others.
If someone makes you have to know exactly how their selfless attitude and how proud
you are of them, then they must be manipulative.
Now that you already know some signs of family manipulation, here's how to fix it ...
#1 - Find out which family members are the victims of manipulation tactics.
Then communicate your concerns with them as a group.
#2 - Reflect on what's really going on inside your own mind.
What is the intrinsic thing of you, and which has become an unconscious reaction to the
manipulator.
Do you think about what you want to think, or what do others want you to think about?
#3 - you have to limit yourself to the manipulator.
After you've pondered what the manipulator you want to think about, identify the boundary
between you and the person who is manipulating you.
Then verbally and non verbally you have to set a limit.
Focus on preventing the person from influencing your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
#4 - Choose the environment in which you involve the manipulator.
People who want to control you, do it in a place that will simplify their ultimate goal.
They want you to be surrounded by others who will support them.
Choose a natural location when you are ready to set verbal boundaries.
#5 - Have patience, and be a bigger person.
Manipulator depends on the pattern, to decide this pattern takes time and effort.
Be forgiving, and let the time and space manipulator change the pattern.
It is their choice, so if they choose not to stop controlling others, then have patience
and understanding for themselves.
Well, that's some tips to recognize the warning signs of family manipulation, and how you
can overcome it.
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