hey what up! It's Owen from Real Social Dynamics, welcome to Seattle and
what I'm gonna teach you how to do today is to pick up girls without even talking
at all
"Hi!"
"Am I getting hugged?"
"Hello" *laughter"
"How Are You?"
*Giggles*
"What your name?"
Owen: you're amazing Her: Thank you! What's your name?
"Owen, my name is Owen" Her: Owen, my name is ...
Her: Nice to meet you Owen: Lovely to meet you
Her: "You're very handsome"
Owen: "I love you" Her: "I have a soft spot for beards"
Her: "I want you to call me, Owen"
maybe you think you're too short to pick up girls, maybe you think you're too
broke to pick up girls, maybe you think you're too ugly to pick up girls, maybe
you look at my beard and feel that your beard is inferior and for that reason
you can't pick up girls. but what I'm gonna do today is show you how to pick
up girls without even opening your fucking mouth in order to remove all of
your excuses of why you think you can't pick up girls and funny enough why am I
doing this well it's actually a skill that I taught myself I'm a public
speaker by trade and sometimes my voice gets damaged and to be frank I've been
working my ass off so much lately gaming so much lately doing so many day twos
lately and teaching so much lately that my voice a little blown out you probably
can't tell cuz im a pro public speaker but I'm getting over the damage or under
the damage but if I actually talk normal I kind of sound like I hit puberty and
I'm sort of exaggerating it to make a point
clearly my voice needs a break okay can you hear that so in order to take a
break tonight when I go out I'm gonna be approaching girls with barely talking I
might talk a little bit at waypoints that's not cheating but a lot of the
interaction is gonna be me barely speaking at all and the reason why I
want to show you this it's not just as a fucking novelty so you can go "oh look
a guy on on YouTube can pick up girls and it's very entertaining
for me to watch" - I'm showing you this so you can do it too
alright there's nothing that I'm doing that you can't do it's not rocket
science um but the other reason that I'm showing it to you aside from removing
your excuses is because you're gonna learn a lot about what women actually
respond to as far as Attraction see people think it's all about the words
it's what you say and of course words in what you say can be an added element
that create attraction but a lot of attractions what's called the sub
communication and it's the type of communications that that's occurring
below the words things like eye contact body language and especially the energy
and presence at masculine polarity that you're coming from so what you're gonna
notice when I do this is that oftentimes girls are actually getting attracted
just by the energy that I'm putting out there the gold is like I said remove
limiting beliefs learn a cool exercise but most importantly learn about female
psychology we're gonna go do it tonight you're gonna have some fun so let's do
it okay so we're in Seattle so keep in mind that this is
Hollywood or South Beach or Vegas we're gonna work oh we got in here
though let me alright it's gonna be good let's
tried no talk
so I was challenging myself to not talk
in the end it didn't go anywhere but just look at her giggling it's almost as if I was talking
right i sat in there for like you know a little chunk not even open my mouth
Her: "I can't dance I promise you"
Her: "You're so adorable, I really can't"
Her: "Oh God I can't, you're good though"
Her: "Maybe I could if I was with you, you seem especially talented"
Her: "It's nice to meet you!"
Her: "What your name?"
Her: "No?"
Her: "I think it's funny, I think you're funny"
Her: "Thank you for being funny!"
Owen: "What is it?"
Owen: "all right! you made out with me, I'll talk to you"
"I'll talk to you, you earned it"
*She laughs*
when you don't talk it forces you to get energy down really well, you have to have good
energy control when you do that right so my energy was just positive and.. Like that
right? How could she resist?
... She cant!
Her: "Hi!"
Her: "How you doing? You don't talk?"
how many girls you see me like get a kiss or get attraction from or move
around without even talking? Why do you guys think it's working?
Outcome free, having fun - what else? what do you guys see in my eyes right now
do I need a drink to get in a good mood?
so what'd you learn right there? right off the bat I think the single most
important thing that you learned in success with women is that the
challenges that you're confronted with are oftentimes a microcosm for the
challenges that you'll be confronted with in your day to day life so for
example you know you might be trying to get a girl home and there's all these
oscillating variables and different things that are happening you have to
think your way through the puzzle to find the solution well just like in life
you know how things are changing there's always change coming at you and you have
to think your way through it sometimes there's actual systemic problems that
feel like they're unbeatable one of those systemic problems could be if you
can't even talk right and I like I was saying earlier when I couldn't talk and
I could barely you know get a word out because my voice is so swollen up from
teaching the thing that I taught myself was how to meet girls without even
talking at all so you always want to be asking yourself
are you at the cause or the affect in life and you continually want to be like
the white ball hitting the colored balls not life coming at you as the white ball
you're the colored balls I'm like blown all over the place
this is a fundamental attitude that I think anybody who is successful whether
it's with women or life will keep inside of themselves okay you'll see this in
anybody who's successful but in addition to that let's look a little bit more
closely at why the girls are actually responding um women are not as picky as
you think man okay you think oh you got to be this perfect guy you got got to be
able to find you on Google and I got to be able to like see you're a celebrity and
like this perfect guy you're rich and you're a stud and the perfect job the
perfect beard like Tyler. You're probably having thoughts like that I understand
I get it you know it is amazing right that's probably that's probably I'm able
to do this is just the beard but you see my point what are the girls actually
going for well they're seeing that you're walking up and you're centered
within yourself they're seeing that you could look at them deep in their eyes
just see that your body language is on point they're seeing that you're
somebody who's moving on your terms not reacting around them and what starts
to happen is that as you're the leader they begin to follow much like a salsa
dance right man leads Man leads, I'm not a good salsa dancer but
you know that's my understanding of it so you're actually seeing here that
there's a sub communication that's creating the attraction and the words
are not nearly as important as you think I learned this from a lot of years of
traveling and I go to places like Brazil where people speak Portuguese they
barely speak a word of English where I go to say Italy we're again like
you know in the south of Italy place like Sardinia
Porto Charvel the girls barely speak a word of English and I realized that if I
just had the right sub communication they get attracted next thing you know
you're making out next thing you know you're in bed together you're giggling
that you don't even understand each other and the whole thing's becomes cute
in a lot of ways too you'll actually see that it's a lot of fun to just pick up
girls not talking it's novel it's different so you learn another lesson
there and the last lesson and this might be the most important one of all is the
fact that you've taken your ego out of it
so this is so crazy right? A lot of time if you actually go out dressed like shit
like I'll go approach this girl dressed like shit what's the worst thing could
happen? she doesn't like me I'm just like shit it doesn't hurt my self-image it
doesn't hurt my ego when you go to approach a girl without even talking
what starts to happen is you're like I'm not even talking it doesn't count and
when you say to yourself it doesn't count
what are you initiating you're actually empowering yourself with one of the
single most powerful principles in success with women that exists which is
getting into the moment and having no outcome at all what I approach girls are
not talking if it doesn't go well I don't think it counts I'm not even
talking and because of that I don't care I'm free of outcome and the girls get
attracted because again freedom from outcome is a single or one
of the single most important factors in attracting women so funny enough to as
the whole not talking thing becomes your method what happens it stops working
what does even that mean think of it this way you're walking up and you're
not even talking it doesn't count and it works but then you're like "yo this is
my new method I can walk up and not even talk and pick up girls" and it stops
working what does that tell you there's a lot of deeper principles about success
of women than what most of the mainstream society believes, right?
they think it's all you know looks or money or gentlemanliness or whatever
it is when something as simple as like you walk up to a girl without talking
and if you think it doesn't count it works but if you walk up to a girl
without talking and you think it counts it doesn't work right there you can see
the subtle sub communications that are taking place between men and women and
have a much much deeper understanding of attraction who you are and how you
relate to women
so what are the subtleties of what I am doing? yeah what else? engagement deeply engage what else
no words no words yes okay what up what do you what do you see me doing I see
you going up and just having fun doing it.. Would the
talking even add much value?
what would it even do so that's so it's a good let so what do we learn about
game then from trying the whole "no talk" thing? what do we learn about pick up?
body language. what else is it? eye contact. Big in the eyes
carefree sub communication what are we learning about female psychology what do
women respond to let's not call but let's just make it more poetic than that
let's not call it bullshit let's call it
positivity. Positive bullshit right? like that one girl I'm like sit down on my lap she's like
no I'm like it's like Santa okay come sit with Santa
chick logic, say no based on logical reason say Santa you're like
come sit with Santa and it's like oh that makes sense my emotions associated
Santa with something positive so therefore if it feels good it is good
you know right it's like because it feels good women follow their emotions
so women not all women this is a sex crime i men look a men do too right but
in a club pickup environment particularly commonly women will say to
themselves does this feel good and that's the basis to decide whether or
not they like the guy what have sex of the guy or or go along with what the guy
wants does it feel good so that's why things like making a million dollars or
even even being the best-looking guy are not necessary the most important thing
is how you make them feel ok then I'll go along with it I'll go along thing
I'll go these other things could have some value because I mean maybe you can
make her feel good if you are handsome or something but you see how much more
powerful it is just yeah the emotionality of it okay so hope what
you're getting out of this is that guys who are successful at
pickup have a very experiment attitude towards everything it's funny
to me because sometimes I'll see guys commenting on YouTube about how you know
I'll be coaching a student and giving the student a little bit of feedback in
the back of his ear as well as picking up a girl you'll be like I don't know if
I'd like it if I was talking to a girl and Owen came in and gave me a bit of
feedback during it I'd feel embarrassed and I mean look what I'm doing here
literally going up to girls just an experiment with an experimental attitude
basically just walking up and you know you could argue say intentionally
blowing it by opening without talking well what I want to put through to you
here is that not only have I done crazy experiments like opening without talking
for many years now but I've done experiments where I open and move the
girl right away or open and hug the girl right away like in a cool way that she
likes or you know even in many cases again in a very cool way that she likes
and me knowing exactly I to do it opening and kissing right away you know
again when she'll like it so I understand these things intuitively I
understand how to open saying something crazy opening saying something friendly
opening saying I love you opening saying I hate you opening with quiet energy low
energy opening with high energy opening with "hey! who the fuck? Get your little ass over here"
right now opening with "hey, you seem really nice I just
thought I'd come over and meet you I've opened with everything I've moved things
forward with everything I've closed with everything I mean not everything but you
know you get my point right we've experimented and from years of
experimentation you really build a much broader range your personality and a
much better understanding of actually what is effective in social interaction
so um beyond just understanding the female psychology aspects and you know
the whole like being at the cause not the effect I hope that what you're also
seeing is just a very fun carefree light experimental attitude what we call this
in pick up is the pick up laboratory frame the world is your pick up
laboratory you'll try new stuff see what happens and it's all a whole lot of fun
Her: "Who is this and why is he not talking" Friend: "This is Owen, we're friends" Her: "Why does he not talk?"
Owen's Friend: "Because he's... A mute"
Girl: "I don't know this guy!"
Her: "Am I getting a piggy back ride now?"
Her: "I don't know what to do with this! Can I take a snapchat of us?"
Her: "I don't even know who you are but I'm taking a snap chat"
Owen's Friend: "Do you even know who the fuck this is?!" Her: "No!"
Owen's friend: "Do you seriously not know who the fuck this is?!"
I mean I know you got this buddy
Her: "wait how do you add it?"
Her: "Number?"
Her: "wait"
*Says her number*
all right so I'll rap by telling you the story of actually how I figured all this
out I was doing a boot camp in a club called Tiger Tiger in London and a
student was like oh you always do well you always kick ass you never get blown
out how could I ever do what you're doing
and of course that's completely untrue but you don't been having a good night
so I said to him "Alright dude look, blow outs don't even bother me at all"
I'll go up and get myself blown out so just to show him of the blow it looks
like I actually wound up walking up to a girl and just be like
just doing that and what was so weird about it was that the way the girl
responded was as if I was having a conversation so she'd be like you're so
funny you're so interesting oh that's cool
what and she didn't say things like what's your name my name is this like as
if I was talking even though I wasn't talking and I think that's about like I
was saying I think that's about 2004 and just seeing that it was one of many
different experiences that I've had in pickup that intrigued me to learn more
and more so I hope that what you got out of this of nothing else is not some
weird gimmick or to watch something fun of the internet but actually to realize
the fun of going out and trying you pick up as your pickup lab try different
things you learn things about sub communication you'll learn things about
being up the cause of not the effect and you'll learn a lot about letting go the
outcome this is kind of a funny little weird little thing that I'd wanted to
make for a long time I hope you enjoyed it I'm actually about to crack off to
bed right now and I'll talk to you soon peace
Her: "What size is your bed?" Owen: "Big" Her: "'Cause mine is a twin"
Her: "It's not big enough"
Her: "So what do you want to do? How big is yours?"
Owen: "It's really, it's very big"
Her: "Like enough for us all" Other friend: "Are you okay with us like fucking?"
Owen: "Kiss her"
Her: "Are we ready to go?"
Owen: "you want to go right now?"
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