Hi, Adele here and it is a snow day here in Atlanta and most people have the day
off hanging out at home with their kids, playing with their cats and dogs, sipping
hot tea. And I thought you know I think I'm going to put out this broadcast
because of something that I just experienced with a client that I think a
lot of people might be able to relate to. So how many of you can relate to this
relentless need to figure things out? To figure yourself out? To figure life out?
That it's got to somehow make sense in the mind.
I can relate because I live most of my life that way. And our culture is
primarily very mental oriented, that if we have a problem there's got to be a
way to figure it out. So let me tell you a story about a client that I had this
morning and maybe you can feel into why this topic is interesting to me. So I
have a client, I'll call her Ann, who wants to become a coach. She wants to be a
coach for women and she wants to help them with relationships. And usually what
people want to coach other people on is what they're interested in themselves. I
mean it's natural. For example I have had a lifetime struggling with stress,
overwhelm, anxiety, that kind of social anxiety sensitivity. And that's
what I talk about with clients now, but this woman is very interested in
coaching other women on relationships, because she has really struggled with
relationships herself in her own personal life. And I took a reading of
the aura, and I noticed there were several big blind spots. She was talking
about men and she's talking about a string of disappointments she's had in
her personal dating life, and that's why you know right now she doesn't want to
focus on her relationships. In fact she's gonna put dating on the back burner, and
she's gonna focus on on some other things. Groovy.
And just because I'm so curious cuz it's what I do, I asked her to tell me about why
there's a certain aversion or you know it's okay to put things on the back
burner but sometimes there's an avoidance that creeps in. Did you tell me
about that? And she said, Adele if there's one thing I've learned in my dating life
is that men never change. Men never change. That's just the way it is, and I'm
looking for the right guy. I said oh. ok. So if this is a belief you have that men
can never change and the way the energy was, it was very heavy, men can never
change, you know they are the problem, is it possible that it's somehow related to
this string of relationships that you've had where men have always disappointed
you? And we got to talking and I said is it possible that there may be a blind
spot in the way you view dating? That your energy tends to be very
black-and-white. Things that either are this way or they're that way. Men are
either this way or they're that way. And she has already concluded all men, almost
every man on the planet. is this way. And this way means men don't change.
I said well you know if you notice that you keep attracting the same kind of guy,
could it be related to this belief that all men are a certain way? So we got to
talking and she said you know you're right. I now see that
I've had a belief, a blind-spot about how men are. And I said yeah and you know
you're very quick and people love to get the "AHA", they love to figure things out.
I have a blind spot. I thought I had a blind spot I didn't know till I worked
with Adele that all men are this way. I thought all men, men can't change, I got
it. I got it! And I said that's great that you've got it. We don't have to
talk about it anymore Adele. I've got it. Let's move on. So this is
typical of people who have a sixth and seventh chakra break through. They got it!
And they think that's all there is. How many of you can relate to this? You
read a book you get inspiration you get an idea, I've got it and it's really
exciting. It's very exhilarating and you might think that's all there is. Right?
That the solution to solving all your problems is to find these aha's
and then everything is is groovy. What I'm trying to say is these chakras are
the easiest and fastest to shift. It usually does start up there with an AHAa
and it's gonna take some time before it moves down from the seventh in terms of
an AHA to a six to the fifth, that this this idea that's coming through now
starts to impact the way you perceive, are all men...you know men can't change...
and then it moves down into the fifth chakra in terms of how you talk to men,
because if your belief, if your blind spot has shifted,
you're gonna start speaking differently. Then it moves into the heart in terms of
how you perceive your dating partner, now that you don't have a sense of all men
are, you know men can't change. You have a different experience, yeah? And then it
goes down to the third chakra or in terms of what would be a reasonable way to
negotiate things if men truly you know aren't all men can't change. Then
down to the second, and how I want to relate in the first. And pretty soon my
entire being is different in dating. That takes time. That's the difference between
a big "AHA! I got it! We can move on!" To true impact
in your life. We are a culture where everyone is looking for the big aha.
We're on a high of spiritual seeking big breakthroughs, fast breakthroughs, sexy
breakthroughs, because you can get those in a tenth of a second. With a teacher,
or a book, oh it's exciting and this is flashing and there is a tendency to
think I've got it. That's all there is. What else is there? When's the next AHA
coming? Take a look at the number of people who are who I might call seminar
junkies. You know they go from a high peak experience to peak experience this
teacher to that teacher and there's still...mmm...things aren't actually
changing on the ground, but they think they got it figured out. They just need
to XYZ. This is because we're a culture that loves stimulation. We love the ideas
of spirit. We love the breakthroughs of
spirit, but when you're 6th or 7th chakras have an insight, and which
is valid, it will take time for it to percolate down from the 6th to the 5th
to the 4th to the 3rd, 2nd, and 1st. Because the lower chakras process slower.
They just do. And the lower chakras are where your wisdom really resides! The
upper chakras tend to be more about getting information. There's a difference
between information and wisdom. For example I have another client who is
having marital issues. And we had a big discussion about what's happening
with his wife. A lot of blind spots. And I had to go in there and move some energy.
I said is it possible XYZ the way you've been seeing things could mean something
different than what you've assigned it? And he said "I got it. Yes! I got it. I
totally get it.Totally get it. Yeah we're good." OK. Can you feel that excitement
of I figured it out? But the behavior hasn't changed. And so with this insight
he's a month later he's still saying things like: "I figured out my wife why my
wife is a certain way. It's X Y & Z." Like great. Hey David. I love your intuition
Hey Violette. Won't you join me? I'm talking about
spiritual junkies today. And why we've got an industry of people going from
workshop to workshop, reading books, and on the ground it's still really hard. The
insight is not the problem! We are great at insights. We are poor at bringing it
down into the body. And this is the heaviest lifting; it takes the longest.
And I'm just gonna give you illustrations of what this means, so that you
get a taste of what i'm seeing from this side. Because it's not a shameful thing.
It is natural, but if you notice this is happening you can sort of catch yourself
before charging on and looking for the next insight. So he was telling me all of
his wife's problems and that's why things weren't working. And I said, I'll
call him John, I said John that's groovy. You know I'm really glad glad you're
really insightful. And what do you do with all this insight? And he said well I
tell her. I tell her the reason why she's this way and that way. And I said how is that working?
Well she gets upset. And she needs to see that she has a pattern. Can you see this?
I said great. I love that you're seeing a pattern. Let me ask you, is it
wise to do that. You have all this information, you have all this insight,
but the thing that will change your life on the ground is wisdom. Is it wise to be
analyzing other people and telling them what their problem is? You may have a lot
of information, you may have a lot of data, but in the grand scheme of things
is that wise? So we're moving from a culture that's obsessed with information
and insight. I'm more interested in everybody, you, me, and everyone including
all my clients moving towards wisdom. Because some of my clients have spent a
lot of time getting insights, you know book learning, and going to various
workshops, and there's a hunger for more insight. And I am more interested in
hooking up...now that's your this camel powerhouse of
knowledge, insight, where is your personal integration of the wisdom? Not just sort
of, you know, just sort of regurgitate it, because you can tell when the in when
the information is not embodied, there's not a shift in joy factor, frustration
level, productivity, groovier relationships. Not that everything's
fixed, but there is a stronger sense of Who I
am. Otherwise what is the purpose of all
this seeking?? Right, just more seeking? I mean it's lovely but
as long as people think that the solution is the next is the next
transcendental hit, or the next groovy insight that came from a guru, that's not
going to get where people secretly want. Wouldn't you agree?
On the ground is it changing anything in the way you feel primarily about
yourself? So I'm bringing this back around to these two clients so that you
can see this is a very common pattern, that I see with a lot of my clients. They
want to figure things out. Great. My clients tend to be very smart people.
I love it. And there's this idea that I can figure things out and my heart will
feel better. Well, what I would encourage is go out and get the insight and then
let it percolate. How do you do that? It would be rather than figuring, it would
be sitting. What is the medicine for myself, not someone else's medicine, but
what does this mean for myself? That takes time. That takes taking it out for
a spin and trying it on your next dating relationship, like I was talking to with
this woman. You know men will never change...
So I said, and is it possible you have a blind spot? And in fact if the
gentleman had the same blind spot "women will never change, all women!"
How would that leave you feeling as a potential date partner? Does that feel
magnetic? Does that feel attractive? Probably not.
Right? Writing off everyone that you know how they are is probably not wise. Right?
And she had this "Oh I didn't realize I was doing that." I said yeah, and that
could be why you've attracted scores of men that keep doing this because you
assume that's the way they are. Just like my other client I referred to. He's
having trouble in his marriage, because he thinks he's got his wife figured out,
and he's going to tell her. And I said you may be pretty intuitive, you guys
been married for 20-some years, but is that wise to do that? This insight that
you're pulling down, it's primarily for yourself. If you need to, you know, throw
it at somebody else, is that, would you appreciate someone else doing that to
you? And he said no. So we are slowing down the rate of this wisdom
comes into the energetic field at the speed of light. However because we are
mortal beings in a humanoid body, it takes time to slow that information down,
decode it, take it to the 6th, the 5th the 4th, or because each of these
power centers will handle the wisdom of light differently. It's not always gonna
be the "I got it! Woohoo! Move on!" Try to avoid doing that. When you get an insight
really just state it. Digest it. And how does that impact how you are the next
time you're out on a date or dealing with your spouse or sitting with
yourself? If it if it hasn't helped you feel better, it's just information. Right?
It hasn't been integrated. It's a nice concept. So this is just what I wanted to
share with you today, because I'm seeing this happen with some of my clients that
are, they are, their spiritual work has sent them heavily into the 6th and
7th chakras, which is lovely. Those are the easiest chakras to work with.
They're the fastest. They are the most sensitized to the ethereal. And they
exist for a reason. They're not there to just give you
intuitive hits. They're there for you to pull more information down into the body,
to perhaps create a new way of responding to people who piss you off, to
challenges, if it doesn't start getting integrated, it's not very useful! You're
gonna walk around with a nice encyclopedia of insights and how's that
gonna be? So I've got two clients, one who was convinced that men can't change...
she's sure of it, until I showed her you've got a blind spot here. And then she says
"I got it" And I'm like "Oh sweetie you just started". "No no I'm good I'm good." I
don't want to deal with this is spiritual bypass , I don't want to deal
with the pain of the betrayal of these five people. I don't want to look at how
perhaps I over looked at things. I don't want to look at my role in
responsibility in co-creating...and now "no I got it you see." And until that's just
stated there's no sense of responsibility in what was created. We're
just gonna do it again. So my job as a medicine woman is to find a way to
encourage her, I am so glad you've got your hits, and we've just started sweetie,
this is not about chasing on to the next intuitive hit. So don't feel...hi David...so the
same thing with my other male client who thinks he's "got it" with his wife. I was
like great. You just started. How is this insight gonna change how you are in
relation to her, not what she should be doing. Yeah. My first client wants to
coach women on relationships. She wants to help women with their blind spot. How is
that gonna work if you don't know how to integrate this wisdom into your own life?
You just gonna be preaching right? Because it's not embodied and people can
feel that. So that's just what came up for me today? I would love to hear your
comments around this...when have you taken insights and really been curious about
them, to see how you can use them in a
productive way or is it immediately about applying it to somebody else?
When is it looking for the next hit, the next girl, the next seminar, the next
workshop, the next book, because it's still not enough.
All the insights you need are already here. All these other things that people
are doing are different avenues. They are different channels that may help you
find a way into integrating. So there's nothing that I'm saying with my clients
that's just so shockingly new, but I have a way of doing it, a way of doing it, that
can stimulate the 6th and 7th chakras and I can help them integrate it
more into actual differences in action, decision-making, that's the only place
it's useful. So I'm about integration more, is not necessarily
better. Don't worry about having it all figured out like information, we are
looking for wisdom at this point in history. Wisdom not information. OK? So if
this sounds groovy I'd love to hear comments from you below. By the way this
type of work - it's time has come if you want to expand on your ability to
integrate all this incredible wisdom that you're pulling down, sign up for my
Spark event because it's all about this. I'm not here to teach you more brilliant
stuff, I'm more here to help you actually use it to create your own wisdom. Your
own medicine, especially if you want to be helping people, you need to know what
your wisdom is ok? So have a wonderful time pulling down the divine, and finding
your own special sauce, so it can be shared with the world. So I'll be posting...
oh good hearts thank you thank you...you know...hey folks we have a snow day here
in Atlanta I'm stuck in the house so this is what happens ahead of some calls
this morning on Zoom with people around the world, and now just yappin. So this
is the role of a Medicine Woman, which is different than just more
ephemeral, not ephemeral, it I'm here to help you find your wisdom. It takes work
it takes time. OK? So anyway when I was gonna say, yes, make comments below. I'm
gonna share a link on...if you want to know the path of a medicine woman sign
up for my Spark event. It's great if you want to move more in the direction of
helping people, if you're sick of your job and you're wanting to do something
we're soul inspired, or if you wanted to find way to create more financial
abundance doing what you're doing. It's all about wisdom, not information. OK?
Your wisdom, not generic wisdom, you know which is like a meme on Facebook. Your
flavor. You. Your flavor is the best the world has ever seen
OK? So...Violette, snow day, yes oh you're in Marlyand, fantastic...yeah we have
like four inche,s three and three inches on the ground and like the whole city
shut down. It's really ridiculous. Oh good like I said I just turn on the
front and I yap, I'm for those of you who want to be leaders. We need your wisdom
not a facebook meme, not another quote that someone else said, which is lovely.
Your wisdom. How are you going to know what that is? It's when you pull it down
from the divine. No more AHA seeking. More oh my god, now I know my
path, and now I know in listening to the moment, if I'm in front of a client and
the psychics speaking, I know I know where I'm at. I'm not disappearing. So that's a
topic for the next one because I'm I'm training a lot of healers if you can't
figure it out, but yet I'm very passionate about this. Sign up for Spark.
I hope some of you can fly in, we have an early bird ticket prices like $47
for the next week and you can bring a friend for free, So money
should not be an object because I want you guys to get a taste of this, more
than I can just Yap out in Facebook. I hope you can make it and
those of you across the pond ,oh my god it'd be so great if you could come, but
anyway I make the offer out to the world. Anyway I have to go,
this is not as well organized of a Facebook live as some of mine when I
knew exactly what I was going to say. So integration ,more wisdom, less information
more you! OK? This is not about being the most
brilliant and profound person on the planet, because when you feel it in your
gut, you are profound. OK? so I've got to go Oh God. All right rock
it out. Thanks. Bye. Thanks for listening everybody and I'll check the comments I
just can't read the comments and Yap at the same time so I hope you guys liked
it and if you didn't oh well talk to you next time bye.
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