So, I'm having a bit of writers block.
I'm out of stories to tell.
Could it be because i don't like, do things?
Or have experiences?
Maybe!
So instead we're gonna go to the park and we're gonna catch some cyndaquils.
Here's the thing.
I still play pokemon go.
Some might say...obsessively?
There are 233 pokemons that are catchable in the region(s) i have been to since it came
out.
I have 230 of them.
Three pokemon left.
Today we're gonna make it two.
You might be saying to yourself Why?
Taylor?
You didn't even play pokemon as a child this isn't like, a nostalgia thing.
And you're right.
I did not.
But I'm an obsessive completionist and I desire to win.
I guess while we're up to this, i wanna talk about escapism.
I have very conflicted feels because a lot of the kinda popular tumblr or buzzfeed style
self care advice that's like hey, it's okay, just shirk all your responsibilities
and stay inside and eat cupcakes and paint your toenails is actually one of the worst
things i can do for myself.
Giving in to my desire to be lazy and not get out of bed and not move my body and not
do work and isolate myself makes me feel more depressed.
And then when i feel more depressed, it's even harder to do the thing the next day.
And so it gets worse and worse and worse.
So I try to resist that escapist kind of form of self care.
I try to just like will myself into doing the things i don't want to do because i
know that doing them will make me feel better.
And then the next day it'll feel a little less smaller of a thing to conquer.
On the other hand, it isn't possible to just stop being burned out or stop being depressed
out of sheer force of will.
It's impossible to go in at 100% all the time, especially when you're an activist.
A very brilliant former colleague of mine Zerlina Maxwell, i'm linking her newsletter
below, wrote about the resistance, and she said It's not a sprint, and it's not even
a marathon.
It's a relay.
Which means sometimes it's your turn to run and sometimes it's your turn to pass
the baton and catch your breath.
I ran for a long ass time.
But the past maybe 5 months, 6 months, I haven't been.
So i've been trying to figure out what level of escapism is okay or what's healthy for
me.
And that's why I've been doing this.
This, being like, moving back to my parents house and working on my brain health, and
pushing myself to do the work it takes to get better.
Mixed with a little bit of escapism.
I'm almost ready for another lap.
So now I'm gonna evolve this typhlosion.
2 pokemon left.
And I'm gonna go home and get to work.
So in comments, tell me how you feel about escapism.
What do you use to escape?
Do you think that's healthy or unhealthy or somewhere in between?
If you liked this video you can subscribe, you can also find me anywhere on the internet
in the links below and I will see you next week.
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How to Win A Man Over In 4 Seconds (Mind. Blown.) - Duration: 3:09.
Have you ever noticed how some women can win men over in seconds flat?
Do you want to learn how to do the same?
Hey ladies, my name is Amy North and I'm a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC.
Today I want to share with you one extremely simple thing you can do to melt a man's
heart and make him want to be yours.
Before I do so, I just want to quickly ask that if you enjoy this video then please take
a quick moment to click the subscribe button below.
That will give you full access to my YouTube channel where you'll find loads of other
dating advice videos.
Plus it'll allow me to keep coming out with new content for you!
It's a win-win!
Now enough YouTube talk, how can you win over a man in four seconds flat?
Well, the key is to show him what an amazing and full life you have.
When you do, he'll want to be a part of it.
To do so keep these three simple tips in mind.
1.
Be positive.
Just as you wouldn't want to be with someone who was constantly down, angry or bored with
life, neither do guys.
That's why when you radiate positivity, men notice.
More importantly, they're drawn to it.
To win over a man it's crucial that you show him that you have a full and cheerful
life.
Even if that isn't necessarily the case, by simply making a point to seem like you
have a lot going on in your life, he'll be drawn to you.
Another easy way to show this type of positivity is to flash him your zeal and enthusiasm by
smiling whenever you're around him.
A genuine toothy grin can send him over the edge with desire for you.
For more tips on how to win a man over with positivity visit my website, www.coachnorth.com
and watch the free video presentation.
2.
Make him laugh.
Similar to my previous point, being able to make a man laugh is a quick way to win him
over.
Since men want to be with women who make them feel good, being the reason he's able to
forget about life's everyday worries and let loose and laugh… well, when you can
do that, he'll be hooked.
And my third and final tip for winning him over in seconds is…
(3.)
To show him you're confident.
There isn't anything sexy about a woman who is blatantly insecure.
Whether she shows it through bad talking others or putting down herself, being that sort of
unsure or apprehensive woman isn't going to make him want you.
Instead, it'll do the opposite.
Now, to show him that you're confident there are many things you can do.
Some of these take practice, whereas others can be done quickly to capture his heart.
For example, you can work on your body language, look him in the eyes when you speak to him,
and focus on your posture.
Or, you can perfect your wardrobe so that you are always dressed to kill.
These may seem like small, insignificant things you can do but you'd be surprised how much
of a powerful impact they have when it coming to winning over men.
Well that's all the time I have for this video, thanks so much for watching.
If you have any questions about what I've covered here, or tips of your own to share
then please post those in the comments below.
I always love hearing from you and will do my best to reply as soon as possible.
And again, if you liked what you learned then check out my other dating advice videos by
clicking the subscribe button below.
Until next time, take care and good luck!
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My Relationship With My Boyfriend So Far - Duration: 12:04.
Jacob: Hey Jbirds what's up it's Jacob here!?
Welcome back to my channel and welcome to another video.
And we are joined by...
Jerry: Me I'm Jerry I just feel like it's almost and insult to
me if you don't know my name.
Jacob: Some people might be new here!
Jerry: Ok..
Jacob: You're not on every video!
Jerry: Ok then go look at any other video I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF ALL THE
TIME Jacob: For this video, we figured we would
just tell you a little bit more about our relationship!
Jerry: Like how we got together Jacob: So beginning, rolling back everything
Me and Jerry got to know each other through our friend Jen
Now we've talked about this briefly in the boyfriend tag video before
so if you want to check that out you can do that
but we are going to go a little bit more in depth
with you guys getting to know us and our relationship!
Jen introduced us, I was going through a really hard time
with some things and Jen thought that Jerry could relate
to what was going on cuzz there was all this drama and
Jerry was involved in it, and that might be another story time video.
And we just started talking Jerry: And talking
Jacob: And talking Jerry: And talking
Jacob: Well really there was like a week of no talking
and then we started talking a lot (laughs)
because somebody was a jerk off the bat Jerry: Somebody doesn't like to be questioned
Jacob: YOU!
Jerry: I don't like to be questioned neither do you!
who are you talking to!?
Like neither one of us like to really be questioned but especially if I don't know you and you're
just going to question me about something
I'm not gonna answer you like I don't know you
I don't care about like what you have to say to me
sooooo I'm not gonna tell you anything!
Jacob: We ended up somehow talking again and just as I was going through this hard
time Jerry was just really there for me
and we talked for hours and hours on the phone Jerry: Oh my God so many hours
Jacob: But it didn't seem like it at the time Jerry: It really didn't
Jacob: And for those of you that don't know Jerry is originally from Oklahoma
I'm from here in Michigan and so we just talk on the phone
Jerry: So he wasn't like working regular shifts and I was still working nights
so it was almost kinda hard but not that hard to correlate
Jacob: We just got to know each other and I was like why don't you come see me?
so he was like ok sure! and we planned a long weekend trip for him
to come on up and he flew up here to Michigan Jerry: During the freezing cold
The year that I moved here was the year they got
the most snow on record, I think it was like 150 something inches!
Jacob: You didn't move...welll.. this was the visit!
this isn't the moving yet, this was the visit! that we're talking about
Jerry: The visit was still covered with snow!
5 feet tall, swear!
Jacob: So when I first met him I honestly thought he was shorter
We talked a little bit on the phone Video chatted, sent pictures but like
I never really grasped his height from it like I never really thought like ohhhhh
this guy's gonna be 6'1" normally I'm like 5'5" guys,
you know so I can be a little bit of the taller one!
But I walked up there and I was like oh my god he's tall!
Jerry: I don't feel like I'm that tall Jacob: Compared to me 5' 7 & 1/2" guy... you're
tall Jerry: Maybe..
Jacob: After I got over that I was like, he's cute though
maybe height isn't gonna matter.
so we go, and I sneak up on him and was like hi!
he gave me a little bit of a hug and the first thing I notice is he is wearing
the most "gayest" scarf EVER!
It's this red like, fashion scarf, and it is not going to keep
anybody warm at all! so here we are in Michigan we normally have
like thicker scarves to keep us warm because we
know that it's cold and he brings a little fashion scarf to Michigan
Jerry: We're not in it for the warmth ummm so I didn't really know
I was in the airport looking around and I couldn't see him.
So I made it to the luggage carousel and then he runs up to me and hugs me
and he kinda like jumped on my back or something not like a piggy back jump be he just kinda
like I don't know, wrapped his arms around my back
or something, I was a little freaked out and first
then I was like oh hey, hi! and then like yeahhh...
Jacob: From there we just spent the weekend together
Ummm it was a good time and went back home then we said, we have to see each other again
because it was long distance relationship and we wanted
to at that time try to plan when to see each other
again.
But this one here was getting ready to move out
of his parent's house.
And this was already going to happen I was already planning this in the works
I needed to move out Get my own space
and just become an adult But also at the same time being a little bit
love struck and continually talking to Jerry
I was like, you know I'm gonna be moving out why don't you move in with me!
Jerry: After that he already said oh I found this place it's not that far from
my parent's house it's an apartment it's super nice
so like ok, so he already decided and signed and he face timed me and showed me everything
and ummm... then they canceled my vacation!
so at that point, before they canceled my vacation
I was gonna move up here...
He was moving out in March and I was coming in May or June
I was waiting until summer to come.
But, they canceled my vacation at work and I was really really made
because they gave it to someone that was..
I was the supervisor they were not a supervisor
I was in charge they were not in charge
and my boss canceled MY VACATION and I was hell-a-pissed about it!
I called him and I was like just so you know I'm fixing to quit my job
I think so I will be moving to Michigan with you next
weekend this was two weeks after I visited here He
was like ok, let's do it So on a Thursday night we decided I was moving
to Michigan on Friday Morning.
Jacob: Oh my gosh it just happened all really fast I don't really know
We weren't really thinking really like you were mad, I was in love
Jerry: but I'm also the person, that if I'm gonna do it, let's just do it and get it over
with Like why wait if were gonna do it lets do it if not forget all about it
My family freaked out of course Jacob: Well they should I mean out of nowhere
you're just like whelp I'm moving to Michigan and TOMORROW you didn't even give them any
heads up Jerry: My whole family was at my house at
five AMto tell me goodbye and crying And I was like this is not an intervention
Iam not staying, Iam not going crazy, I am just moving to Michigan 1,000 miles away from
you people Jacob: then we stayed at my parents for 12
days Ithink Iwas still working and so Jerry took all the time to get all the supplies
and everything all the like dishes and things that we would need and cleaning supplies.....
My mom gave us this list the list was supposed to detour me from moving out like "look at
all these things you are gonna need" And Jerry just went to town got everything
on it And she (my mom)was like "you don't need all
of that stuff Jerry: I was like Shannon you put it on the
list, like everything you could possibly need...
I don't where she go the list, it was a hand written list that was front and back and another
part of a front page and it was just like for 12 days I went to every store known to
man looking for everything and then I finally had it
We moved into a fully furnished place which was
Jacob: STUPID Jerry: stupid, and enjoyable
Jacob: and STUPID Jerry: and stupid.....
But it was kinda like Jacob: stupid. Then we moved in a billion feet of
snow and it was terrible..... it was cold...... we had to get everything up the stairs
All the mover people were coming at the same time and we had to organize all of that and
get all of put together and we only stayed here a year.
Jerry: Not even a year, we stayed here nine months
And I painted all the walls I spent so much time putting everything away
It was a solid white apartment two bedrooms two bathrooms an office, kitchen.......
I painted everything, every wall
Jacob: and then our friend Jen that introduced us had moved back up here to Michigan and
was hanging out with us all the time and so we're like you know what lets just get a bigger
space...
LETS GET A HOUSE Jerry: Lets get a house.
So thats what we did Jacob: and then we moved again IN SNOW
Jerry: Never again Jacob: So much snow
Jerry: Never again unless something bad happens but never again
Jacob: thats how we started off everything was like fast in the beginning and things
have kinda slowed down a little bit and I think that's for the better because we really
as crazy as it was moving in that fast together we really got to learn everything about each
other And it wasn't just like there is no hiding
because you are living with that person So it really....
I was moving out on my own he was moving all the way across the country to be with me so
we bonded really closely and strongly together because it was that we just had each other.
Jerry: Not everything was easy though, because sometimes we hated each other, not hated but
mad at each other sometimes you know like stuff happens but you can't just be like just
because you get your panties in a wad oh it's all over, it's not worth it, like if you want
to be together forever you have to try like you have to get mad and have to get over getting
mad Jacob: me and Jerry are both very passionate
opinionated people we are both stubborn Jerry: I'm not stubborn, just always right
Jacob: Alright guys so if you liked that video please be sure to give it a big thumbs up
If you're new around here don't forget to subscribe I post videos every single week
So press that bell it will let you know when the next video goes up
Follow me on all my social media it is in the description box down below,
Leave a comment and let us know what type of relationship video you want to see from
us next and we will sit down and film for you
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
thats about it
alright guys
bye Jbirds!!!
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LOST || Oats In The Water - Duration: 2:11.
But this place...
Is different.
Special.
What if everything that happened here happened for a reason?
Don't mistake coincidence for fate.
Everyone dies sometime, kiddo.
I love you, Sun.
I love you.
Some of them before you, some long after you.
We...
Were not supposed to leave.
Yes we were.
Come on, Charlie, come on!
You might wanna save your bullets.
I saved you a bullet.
I have to say goodbye to my daughter, John.
So if you wanna kill her, go ahead and do it...
Don't you leave me!
I'll see you in another life, brother.
John!
I'll see you in another life, brother.
Goodbye, John.
We're not alone!
I hope you're happy now, Jacob.
Bye, Ben.
I'm trying to help you
You can't help me!
The most important part of your life...
Was the time that you've spent with these people.
You needed all of them...
And they needed you.
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North Korea's Failed Missile Test Comes Hours After UN Security Meeting | TODAY - Duration: 1:33.
LATEST. >> THE HEATED PROVOCATIONS
RAISING TENSIONS AROUND THE WORLD.
THE MISSILE TEST COMES A DAY AFTER PRESIDENT TRUMP WARNS
THERE COULD BE A QUOTE MAJOR, MAJOR CONFLICT WITH NORTH KOREA.
AND OVERNIGHT, THE PRESIDENT TWEETED, SAYING NORTH KOREA
DISRESPECTED THE WISHES OF CHINA AND ITS HIGHLY RESPECTED
PRESIDENT WHEN IT LAUNCHED, THOUGH UNSUCCESSFULLY, A MISSILE
TODAY, BAD. >>> U.S. MISSILE COMMAND SAID
THEY DETECTED THE MISSILE LAUNCH AT 5:33 IN THE MORNING LOCAL
TIME AT A LAUNCH SITE NORTH OF THE CAPITAL, PYONGYANG.
TWO U.S. MILITARY OFFICIALS SAY IT APPEARS TO BE THE LAUNCH OF A
MEDIUM-RANGE BALLISTIC MISSILE, POSSIBLY THE SAME TYPE OF
MISSILE WHICH WAS TESTED A COUPLE OF TIMES EARLIER THIS
MONTH. MISSILE THAT COULD BE USED TO
TARGET MOBILE TARGETS LIKE AN AIRCRAFT CARRIER.
THESE OFFICIALS, THOUGH, SAY THAT THIS MISSILE BROKE APART IN
MID AIR A COUPLE OF MINUTES AFTER LAUNCH, ABOUT 20 MILES
FROM THE LAUNCH SITE. SHEINELLE ALL OF THIS COMES AS
NORTH KOREA CONTINUES TO THREATEN TO ONE DAY LAUNCH A
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Learn2Hack: Sniffing ENABLE CAPTIONS! (Get Passwords, Credit Card & Account Info) - Duration: 7:30.
I added subs to this video, because the sound cuts at different points.
I'm going to show you how to monitor network traffic and obtain the username, passwords and other confidential info of people who use unsecure connections, to/from websites.
There are methods to secure your computer/website against people using this network sniffing technique. SSL (HTTPS) connections is just one, VPN is another, but I will not be getting into that.
I will be using wireshark for this example.It is a free network sniffing tool, and you can find a download link by simply googling wireshark. It is very popular.
I'll show you how to open it up.I don't know why I did this, but in Windows 10, you can simply find wireshark after its been installed in your start menu as I soon show you.
I clicked on my wifi connection. This is the connection I wanted to use as a demo.However, you can also monitor traffic over usb, ethernet, and other mediums for which network traffic passes through.
I applied a filter on the traffic, since there was a lot of packets and requests if I didn't. I used command prompt and ipconfig to get my computer's current IP address. Then I also filtered for packets comming from port 80, and utilising the HTTP protocol. This reduced the noise I saw.
I am describing what a Network packet is. To put things simply, it is a unit of information sent over a network. It is how computers communicate with each other. Wireshark has the ability to monitor networks and display all these packets to whoever wants to see them.
This is a website I built. There is a security flaw in this website. It doesn't protect your username and password when you are sending it to the website. Thus, if a person is watching your computer's traffic ...
They'll be able to see everything you are doing, and all information you send to that website, if you connection isn't secure. I didn't implement SSL, because I didn't want to pay for it (which I'd have to do since I am renting out a host company to keep my website on).
I show you some examples of the data contained within the packets.
Each packet is structured very similarly.
Each record/line is a different packet.
Now I'll show you me actually getting the credentials based on network traffic of the user I enter into this website.
Chrome tells you if you are using an insecure form, but many browsers do not. But even though Chrome does this, I still wonder about it, because I've seen it passing more data than necessary if I've kept it open compared to other browsers. Google is pulling something I suspect.
I enter in a username and password and will now be showing you how I'll grab it.
I intentionally entered an incorrect password. I'm not going to show you my real passwords XD
By looking at the header information, I was able to isolate which packet was sending my password information.
Within the HTML Form URL Body Section of the packet, I was able to see the username and password, because it hadn't been encrypted/hashed. It was there for anyone who wanted, to use for themselves to access the website.
Using this method, you can get all information of other people without them knowing. It is becoming easier and easier since even newbs like me can easily do it.
I hope you had fun. Remember, more security is better. Now a kid can pull tricks like this. Up your knowledge so that you wont be taken advantage of.
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Opinion Why Indians Do Not Assimilate In US Culture - Duration: 22:24.
Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of Ultra Devil and in this video I'll
try to place my opinion on inability of Indian immigrants to assimilate in US culture.
This topic was requested by Akshay Nimkar, he requested a video on Failure of NRI's to
Culturally and Socially Assimilate in US.
Honestly when he requested this topic I thought it is kind of very difficult question to answer.
So I tried to search information from which I could conclude something but I could find
no numerical data from which any conclusion can be deduced.
And that was because the answer ain't really as complicated as I was assuming it to be.
The reason why NRI fail to Culturally and Socially assimilate in US is because they
just don't want to.
The answer is as easy as that.
Now that leaves us with another question, why they don't want to assimilate with US
culture.
Well to understand that lets try to understand what kind of Indian groups migrate to USA.
First group includes people who went there for jobs, they found some aspects of American
Culture superior to Indian culture so they decided to stay there.
Second are those who hated Indian Culture when they were in India and then went to US
with belief that they are settling in better culture.
Third are those who went US for vacation or something, loved US environment so they decided
to exploit immigration and welfare policies to claim US citizenship.
Fourth are the student group who went there for studies and final ones are those who went
there for better income opportunities.
It is also important to keep in mind that majority of Indian groups that landed on US
soil actually ended up succeeding in gaining sound financial health.
And it can be easily concluded from the fact that Indians rank number one on highest earning
groups of US nationals.
And it has been like that for a long amount of time.
Indians that migrate to US are some of the hardest working individuals.
Note that I said hardest working not smartest.
And there is one big problem with almost all hard working individuals.
And that problem is spending too much time and mental power on work than thinking about
socializing.
Low Social Life is directly proportional to hard work.
And most of the hard work that Indians put on are not on low paying or are of physical
type.
They usually put hard work on jobs that require intellect and most of intellectual jobs do
not require kind of interaction that is required for socializing.
Note that Indians are not refugees who migrated from their country because of war or political
reasons.
Point here to note is that the sole goal of any Indian group is more income opportunity
and not joining cultural diversity.
Indians do not participate in multiculturalism in their own country, why exactly you think
they would be interested in multiculturalism outside.
We just say that India exhibits "Unity In Diversity", reality is actually opposite,
India exhibits "Diversity in spite of Unity".
When it comes to marriage Indians usually do not marry individuals outside their caste
and religion.
Though education is helping in solving this issue, fact is even in year 2017 inter caste
and inter religious marriages only contribute to less than 5% of all marriages.
Good part is most of them do not end up in success due to religious and family differences.
Either it be children, adults or elders none of age group usually have any significant
rate in accepting US culture.
On surface we can say that Indians are bunch of people who believe in tribal or cult mentality.
Hypocrisy among Indians is high about having a superior culture and there are several pointless
practices such as always accepting authority of elders no matter how stupid that may be.
Personally I think many US residents might believe that Indians no matter how educated
they are never question their cultural belief systems.
To some level that sounds very much true but by looking at it only in that way would only
mean they themselves are also living in hypocrisy about having a superior culture.
There are many Indians who kind of migrated to US just because they hated Indian culture,
by the way after landing on other side they still decided to stick with Indian culture.
And for blaming we always have hypocrite elders.
But by always blaming hypocrisy of elders we forget to ask important question of how
our elders actually see our Cultures.
Some see it as religious, others see it as required set of rules.
Both approaches have extremely bad rep among young generation because it have lead to Khap
Panchayat kind of practices.
Everyone hates Khap practices, they are not only inhuman but also illegal and against
human rights and unconstitutional but again due to lack of adequate legal resources, ignorance
and illiteracy they operate without any restriction.
And Khap practitioners never have to worry about human rights because only terrorists
and criminals posses human rights, others do not fit in that list.
There are many such cannibalistic practices that exists because of cult and tribal mentality.
I feel privileged because I wasn't born in such cannibalistic group that follows monstrosity
on name of culture.
It is important to note that each group have their own set of Indian Culture bullshit and
honestly 90% of people who keep babbling about Indian culture actually have no idea what
even culture means.
In any particular state of India they have their own set of Indian Culture bullshit which
again have a rural and modern sub types.
Most Indians who migrate to US are most definitely are not from rural type, they definitely are
from cities and follow their modern version of Indian culture bullshit.
So first lets try to see western culture with eyes of elder individuals.
Stage 1 over 53% of marriages in America end up in divorce, 90% of divorces are initiated
by women for possible stupid reasons.
Almost 45% of children based US households at present are without fathers and 70% of
these fatherless children will later find themselves in problems with substance abuse,
drinking problem, mental and emotional issues and jail time.
Statistically majority of US born homeless population belongs to group of individuals
that were raised by single mothers.
Indian population is highest earning group anywhere they go, and that can not happen
unless we are good with numbers.
Even the most free minded Indians will surely take a look on that kind of statistics and
can easily conclude 3 things.
First Americans are not good when it comes to keeping relationships, specially their
women.
Two they don't know how to raise children nor they ask for help from others who successfully
raised them.
Americans do not understand, adults do not suffer from failed or broken marriages, children
are the ones who actually suffer failed relationships of their parents.
Failure to maintain sexual discipline is real reason of failure of relationships.
As Indians we believe backbone of any relationship is responsibility and not sexual liberty.
If you look at stats after sexual liberation of women, almost 70% of women cheated on their
partners.
And that data has come from surveying Marriage Therapist about cheating wives, the data was
first Revealed by Dion Metzer and later was confirmed by majority of Marriage consultants
and therapists.
As per US Marriage and Divorce Rate Statistics an average American citizenship marries at
least 3 times.
In which 49% end up in divorce, 62% of second marriages also end up in divorce and if you
are dumb to get married for 3rd time you are 73% likely to end up in divorce.
Unhappy with data majority of American men are no longer interested in relationships
and marriages because as per them marriage is as good as dead.
Most of them live with extremely high conviction if women is American born they are as good
as guaranteed to cheat and ask for divorce.
Men related radio, internet shows and magazines are in heavy promoting all men to give up
marriage.
Only televisions are promoting men to marry but it doesn't seems to be working looking
at what numbers are telling us.
Any sane man of any culture for sure take notice of this and rate American culture a
failure in terms of relationship.
If I would be born in America, I would have preferred to stay away from serious relationship
with any woman.
Since I reached that conclusion I don't blame our hypocritical elders who might have also
concluded something similar.
After their analysis of US culture they evaluate Indian culture.
Now depending on person from whom you are listening about Indian culture you might hear
lot of different things about Indian culture.
But here's how my understanding of Indian culture is, it is based on what I learned
in school about historic Indian civilizations, how my and my friend's parents raised them
and some of the most basic interactions we do with our elder members of society.
First Indian culture for sure is based on family values, so the argument that Indians
live with tribalism and cult mentality is 100% true.
Does that mean Indian culture is patriarchal in nature.
Well anywhere cult mentality comes in, Patriarchy is guaranteed, well for those who don't know
what Patriarchy is, it means family systems mainly dominated by men.
So keep in mind anywhere where family value holds dominant place, Patriarchy is guaranteed.
That makes any western culture totally opposite of Indian culture.
American culture is mostly feminist, gyno centric, individualistic and provides high
level of sexual freedom to both men and women.
And what end result that culture has provided, by no means seems impressive.
American born individuals are lowest earning individuals of their country and while reaching
age of 40 most of these individuals will find themselves in economic problems, debt or homelessness.
Economic structure of America is mostly built by immigrants with almost all high paying
and high power jobs held by Indians, Nigerians and Chinese.
Common things among these individuals include is that they all have come from a nation that
holds family value important as compared to individualistic value, second since they hold
family above individualism their cultures are 100% patriarchy based.
Now that might end up offending lot of people, specially if you are a women.
But let me tell you something, in every country where aggressive feminism has been introduced,
in less that 40 years of its introduction country saw increase in divorce rates, increased
rate in adult emotional disorders, reduction in marriage and birth rate, increased debt
on economy, increased taxes, increased debt instrument frauds and heavy wastage of money
on social welfare policies.
Now that might leave bad taste in mouth of emotional idiots but for example you can take
a look on Japan, Australia, France and United States itself.
America as nation is heaven for businesses that commit debt instrument as well as welfare
frauds.
Second Indian culture believes in family legacy which means a person either it be man or women
is not a separate individual but a part of family.
A family which takes responsibility of its each member.
So marriage for Indians does not only mean that just a man and women have decided to
fuck and live together.
It also means two families deciding to take responsibilities of each other.
People think that concept of marriage is religious.
But that's not true because if that would be, then marriage will be exclusive to one
particular religion.
And that's not the case, marriage as concept exist because men and women had different
gender roles.
The day gender roles will end, marriage will cease to exist.
All those countries which are right now seeing surge in men and women not interested in marriage
and blaming men for not marrying fail to see, marriage by any means can not exist without
gender roles.
So when you see yourself getting forced to get married by your relatives it means they
are forcing you to take your gender role.
Indians believe relationships makes you stronger, not weaker.
And while raising us our parents try to induce that idea in our brains.
Since structure of Indian culture is based on authority of elder individuals, elders
usually guide their children to raise their children.
As parent you have done a good job if your kids learn to take disappointments in their
early stages of childhood.
They are supposed to learn taking disappoints so that they can understand in real life cards
are always set against them.
Its better to not cry over failure and move on.
Second a kid must learn to take responsibility.
This applies to both boys and girls.
A boy is expected to take lifting jobs whereas women are expected to learn household works.
A physically weak man is considered result of bad parenting and is sometimes also considered
as insulting to man and his family.
Therefore parents of male kids become extremely worried when boys do not eat.
This has also lead to a complete niche market dedicated to increasing hunger of men.
Tonics of all kinds are available to help tackle this problem.
I don't know how they work but some of these medications do generate monster level hunger.
Third a kid is also supposed to learn physical and mental discipline.
Which includes scheduling everything from study time to playing time.
Usually when children ask parents to buy something for them.
Parents are not supposed to buy those things without asking anything in return.
Usually they ask to score better marks, help in house hold works and good behavior.
This is intentionally done by majority of parents because it is assumed this protects
minds of children from feeling of entitlement.
It also helps them learn they'll get absolutely no reward for free and they always have to
work for it.
Finally they are supposed to learn patience, patience is key to success.
Majority of parents who successfully manage to induce values of taking disappoints, taking
responsibility, working for reward, staying away from entitlement, maintaining strict
physical and mental discipline in their kids believe they have done a good job as parent.
Personally I also believe all of them are good values.
But problem may lie in methods selected by parents to induce these values.
I have no idea how many people see Indian family culture as I see it, nor I deny there
can be lot of problems with it.
But being born in a culture that highly values family over an individual my opinion on it
might be biased.
If we would try to see Indian and American culture as persons then these persons would
be enemies.
Good news is US born generation of Indian parents are somewhat succeeding in assimilating
with US culture.
The marriage rate of Indians and other race in US is actually higher than Inter-caste
and inter-religious marriages in India.
But again divorce rates for men is high.
And divorce settlements has also costed divorced men huge fortunes.
Keep no bias other Indian men will take notice and no matter how beautiful American women
are most Indian men will prefer to stay away.
People who support gender equality might find this opinion extremely offensive, guess what
I do not support gender equality.
And it doesn't mean I think women are inferior.
Gender equality was gimmick that was created to provide women equal work opportunities
as men, to great level that initiative has also succeeded.
Problem is that people want to take gender equality too literally.
Which very much sums up to a man applying perfume or body spray and expecting every
women to fuck with him just because perfume businesses used it as advertisement gimmick.
In a perfect gender equal society there wouldn't be any need of marriage, there wouldn't be
any father figure, a rape wouldn't be a sexual crime it would be considered as puny physical
assault, there wouldn't be anything as men should not hit women nor men would ever offer
any women any help.
And that would be a very bad society to live in, in world of fantasy, ideas like gender
equality seem good but when they'll become real you'll be horrified to live in that society.
For example, if we take a look in history of Indian civilization we can find that there
was a time when women actually demanded men to complete in extreme physical challenges
to marry them.
The idea was based on Swayamvar as mentioned in ancient hindu religious texts, the problem
was in world of fantasy it sounded cool and romantic to women but in reality it would
prove extremely brutal for men who would compete in them.
These physical challenges sometimes would be so brutal that men would end up suffering
loss of their body parts.
But the good part was even after competing and completing all challenges a women had
full right to turn down marriage proposal by giving excuse that she don't want to marry
a handicapped man.
And even after winning he would not get to marry women but get money as compensation
for his loss.
This was known as "Dahej", in which "Deh" means body and "Harjana" means compensation.
The literal meaning of "Dahej" is Compensation for loss of body part.
Time moved on and women had to accept marriage proposal from winner in spite man's broken
physical condition and financial compensation also became compulsory.
Then these competitions became less brutal and with time and finally Swayamvars disappeared
but Dahej remained as it is and turned pretty well for majority of women who had to suffer
because some bunch of idiots decided to live their fantasies.
Most people live with idea that social structure is rigged against them, this is result of
victim-hood mentality.
And this type of mentality is reason why people think their world of fantasy would be a better
place to live for them and also for everyone.
The fact is social structures changes with time and people living in it have to adapt
to it.
It doesn't always means social structure is victimizing you.
I am a man and I get turned on by lot of beautiful women.
My fantasy is a world where I would get to fuck any women I want with no restrictions
and I can very much guarantee majority of men of world would be having similar fantasy.
I think Uday Saddam Hussein was the one who got to live his fantasy because his father
was Saddam Hussein but that turned out extremely well for citizens of Iraq.
My fantasy of fucking every women I want can come true only if I become dictator.
And how dictatorship turned for others is evidence of fact why people shouldn't try
to think their emotional world of fantasy can really be a good world to live in.
In fantasy world of terrorists world is only supposed to be populated by Islam.
In fantasy world of Hitler, Alexander and Genghis Khan they were ideal rulers of world
and their attempt to bring their self centered fantasy to world resulted in wars and death
all over the world.
There are more than required evidences in history that have time and time again proven
a world of fantasy either fails to survive or ends up with brutal consequences.
And those who don't learn from their history are doomed to repeat it.
The Devil Speaks The Truth and he has spoken.
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>> THE CYCLE CONTINUES, THANK
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>>> WHILE TODAY MAY LOOK LIKE
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>> I, DONALD JOHN TRUMP DO
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>> DAY ONE OF THE TRUMP
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NEW ERA, A SHARP RIGHT TURN FROM
THE OBAMA DAYS.
>> JANUARY 20th, 2017, WILL BE
REMEMBERED AS THE DAY THE PEOPLE
BECAME THE RULERS OF THIS NATION
AGAIN.
>> DAY TWO, A MASSIVE WOMEN'S
MARCH ON WASHINGTON.
>> THIS IS WHAT DEMOCRACY LOOKS
LIKE.
>> THE PRESIDENT'S PRESS
SECRETARY, BATTLING WITH THE
MEDIA OVER THE SIZE OF THE
INAUGURAL CROWD.
>> THIS WAS THE LARGEST AUDIENCE
TO EVER WITNESS AN INAUGURATION,
PERIOD.
>> PRESIDENT TRUMP SIGNING A
NUMBER OF EXECUTIVE ACTIONS,
HOPING TO FULFILL CAMPAIGN
PROMISES.
DAY EIGHT, A TRAVEL BAN ORDER,
LATER BLOCKED BY THE COURTS
AFTER NATIONWIDE PROTESTS.
DAY 12, A MILESTONE FOR
PRESIDENT TRUMP.
NOMINATING FEDERAL APPEALS COURT
JUDGE NEIL GORSUCH TO THE
SUPREME COURT.
>> I'M HONORED AND I AM HUMBLED.
>> DAY 25, UNDER PRESSURE, THE
PRESIDENT'S NATIONAL SECURITY
ADVISER, MICHAEL FLYNN, RESIGN
AFTER IT WAS REVEALED HE MISLED
THE VICE PRESIDENT ABOUT
CONTACTS WITH THE RUSSIAN
AMBASSADOR TO THE U.S.
THE PRESIDENT, DEFENDING FLYNN
TO THE END.
>> GENERAL FLYNN IS A WONDERFUL
MAN.
I THINK HE'S BEEN TREATED VERY,
VERY UNFAIRLY BY THE MEDIA.
>> TWO WEEKS LATER, DAY 40, THE
EMOTIONAL HIGH POINT OF THE
TRUMP PRESIDENCY,S PRESIDENT
HONORING THE WIDOW OF A NAVY
S.E.A.L., RYAN OWENS KILLED
DURING A RAID ON YEMEN.
>> RYAN'S LEGACY IS ETCHED INTO
ETERNITY.
THANK YOU.
>> BUT JUST FOUR DAYS LATER, DAY
44, THE PRESIDENT SETTING OFF A
FIRESTORM WITH TWEETS, ACCUSING
FORMER PRESIDENT OBAMA OF
TAPPING HIS PHONE DURING THE
ELECTION.
CALLING HIM A QUOTE BAD OR SICK
GUY.
NO EVIDENCE OF A WIRETAP EVER
PRESENTED.
MORE TROUBLE FOR THE TRUMP
ADMINISTRATION, TWO WEEKS LATER,
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CONFIRMS PUBLICLY FOR THE FIRST
TIME HIS AGENCY IS LOOKING INTO
RUSSIAN INTERFERENCE IN THE
ELECTION.
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ANY LINKS BETWEEN INDIVIDUALS
ASSOCIATED WITH THE TRUMP
CAMPAIGN AND THE RUSSIAN
GOVERNMENT.
>> DAY 64, ANOTHER BLOW, THE
PRESIDENT'S BID TO REPEAL
OBAMACARE FAILS IN THE HOUSE.
THE PRESIDENT BASHING THE
DEMOCRATS FOR DEFEATING IT.
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PELOSI AND CHUCK SCHUMER.
BECAUSE NOW THEY OWN OBAMACARE.
THEY OWN IT, 100% OWN IT.
>> THEN FOREIGN AFFAIRS TOOK
CENTER STAGE, A HORRIFIC
CHEMICAL ATTACK ON INNOCENT
CIVILIANS IN SYRIA.
THE CULPRIT BELIEVED TO BE THE
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DAY 77, THE U.S. MILITARY LAUNCH
AS CRUISE MISSILE ATTACK.
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ATTACK WAS LAUNCHED.
>> ONE WEEK LATER, DAY 84,
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SO-CALLED MOTHER OF ALL BOMBS ON
ISIS FIGHTERS IN AFGHANISTAN.
>> WE HAVE THE GREATEST MILITARY
IN THE WORLD AND THEY'VE DONE A
JOB, AS USUAL.
>> DAY 97, DOMESTIC POLICY,
TAKING CENTER STAGE ONCE AGAIN.
THE PRESIDENT'S TEAM UNVEILING A
ONE-PAGE OUTLINE OF ITS TAX
PLAN.
WHAT THE PRESIDENT HAS CALLED
POTENTIALLY THE BIGGEST TAX CUT
IN HISTORY.
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