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7 Things Introverts Will Never, Ever Understand - Duration: 7:08.
7 Things Introverts Will Never, Ever Understand
Although introverts make up 30-50 percent of the population, the introvert's way is
not everyone's way.
Introverts prefer calm, low-key environments, and we actually enjoy spending time alone.
Often quiet and reflective, we tend to think before we speak and seek meaning in all we
do.
A few close friends is usually all we need to feel socially fulfilled; we don't chase
fame and popularity.
In this video, I'm going to show you 7 things introverts will never ever understand.
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Because the introvert's way is not everyone's way, there are a lot of things that don't
make sense to us introverts.
Here are seven of those things.
Well, these things may not be true of every introvert, but I'm sure these topics came
up frequently so it should be quite accurate.
1.
People who think being alone is boring.
We all know someone who can't stand being alone.
Their nights and weekends are packed with social plans.
At work, they're rarely found at their desk, because they're almost always hovering over
someone else's, chatting.
These people call their friends when they're driving alone in their car, and even grocery
shopping in a crowded store seems too solitary, so they drag their roommate with them.
For these oh-so-social butterflies, being alone for an afternoon is the ultimate punishment.
For introverts, it's the opposite.
Being surrounded by people 24/7 is the very definition of hell on earth.
It's not that we hate people; rather, due to our biology, we need downtime in order
to create the energy we need to "show up" for our relationships, jobs, and other commitments.
It simply does not compute when people say that being alone is boring.
2.
Not having enough time to mentally prepare to interact with people.
Talk to people?
Record it?
Release that recording to other people?
Worst of all, we didn't have time to think through about the answers to their questions.
For introverts like me who struggle with word retrieval, being put on the spot and knowing
we'd be judged for it.
Many introverts need time to get their public face on.
At any given moment, we're drifting through our inner landscape of thoughts, daydreams,
and emotions.
Pulling us out of this serene world takes an energetic mental shift.
This translates to us balking at sudden invitations to hang out in five minutes, disliking being
put on the spot in groups and meetings, and clamming up when having to flirt spontaneously.
Because words are hard.
3.
Friends who constantly call instead of text.
Seriously, do people still use the phone this way?
Yes they do.
I have an extroverted friend who I'm trying to train.
I text him a question.
He calls me.
I don't answer.
Then I text him again, "What's up?"
Seeing my text, he calls again.
We're getting nowhere.
I get it, sometimes the phone is the fastest way to communicate a complicated plan or idea
to someone.
And there's something reassuring about hearing your loved one's voice on the other end
of the phone, especially when the two of you are separated by distance.
But in general, this goes back to that whole "introverts need time to mentally prepare
to interact with people" thing.
For us, a text is less intrusive than a phone call.
It politely waits for a time when we've had a few moments to mentally prepare to respond.
4.
People who seem to never run out of words.
Have you ever been held captive by a conversation?
Of course you have, because we all have that one neighbor or coworker who doesn't wind
down once they've wound up.
When this happens to me, my mind starts tuning out the actual words and instead starts scanning
for a pattern of sounds, trying to pinpoint the exact moment when the person pauses to
take a breath.
That's when I say, "Well, I have to get going!"
When it comes to marathon talkers, that moment never comes.
We introverts tend to be minimalists with our words, so we have a hard time wrapping
our heads around people who have words in abundance.
Generally, we only speak when we feel we have something of real value to say.
We dislike small talk because it seems inauthentic; we'd rather talk about big ideas or topics
that are personally meaningful to us.
5.
Choosing quantity over quality when it comes to relationships.
Introverts tend to have small social circles, and we're okay with that.
We'd rather invest our limited social energy into a few meaningful relationships than have
an entourage of acquaintances.
Depth, not breadth.
When someone has enough friends to fill a subway car, introverts don't get it.
Where do these people get the energy to maintain that many relationships?
And answer that many phone calls?
It makes no sense to us.
6.
Purposely calling a lot of attention to yourself, and enjoying it.
In general, introverts will not be the ones hinting to our friends that they should ask
the TGI Fridays waiters to sing happy birthday to us.
Nor do we dream of having our sweetheart propose to us on the Jumbo-tron at the baseball game
for the entire stadium to see.
In school, we probably weren't the class clowns, because who needs all that attention?
Sure, we can hold our own in front of a crowd if we have to, but we won't crave moments
like those.
7.
Socializing just to pass the time.
An extroverted friend once remarked, "Of course I'm going to the party.
What else would I do tonight?"
To introverts, this line of thinking doesn't make sense.
There are so many glorious things we can imagine ourselves doing when we have a night to ourselves.
Netflix, reading, gaming, internet surfing, you name it.
For us, socializing isn't about alleviating boredom or passing the time.
When we do hang out, we usually do it with a purpose in mind, to make a friend, find
a date, network, or simply make a connection.
If we are just looking for something to do, anything, we have so many other wonderful
introverted options.
Options that involve takeout, comfy pants, and a good book.
Well, that's the 7 things introverts will never ever understand.
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You, to me, are like popping candy to a little boy
You, to me, are a boy named Andy if I was a talking toy
And you're the beat And you're the street
The song that I play on repeat and if all of this is true, from me to you
Me to you, It's like we're glued 'cause I can't get away
This attachment, like a magnet, holds me every single day
You're the force that keeps me grounded Gravity that I'm glad I found
and if all of this is true, From me to you
'Cause there is no sound or any word I've found
that summarises what you mean to me and we don't need more than the same three chords
a new tone colour playing melody.
'Cause there is no sound or any word I've found
that summarises what you mean to me and we don't need more than the same three chords
a new tone colour playing melody.
Can you see though my metaphors at what I'm trying to say?
You're lots of things, you're Queens to Kings, You're every night and every day
You're the wordplay You're the pun
I called you and I hope you come and if all of this is true, from me to you
I said if all of this is true from me to you
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Baked Chicken Meatballs/Polpette di pollo al forno - Duration: 3:38.
Hy everyone and welcome back to my channel! today's recipe is going to be a very easy
meatball recipe.
Meatballs are so adaptable, they can be prepared in so many different and delicious ways, so
every now and then I like to try something different.Today I propose you a much healthier
alternative to the traditional meatballs that's also gluten and dairy free.
here are the ingredients we need: 400 grams / 14.1oz ground chicken
100 grams / 3.5oz brown rice, cooked 1 medium carrot, finely grated
1 egg beaten 1 tbsp fresh chopped parsley
1 clove minced garlic 2 tablespoons olive oil
salt and pepper to taste
In a large mixing bowl, combine the chicken,
the cooked rice, grated carrots, chopped parsley, garlic and the beaten egg, season with salt
and pepper and mix well until all of the ingredients are evenly distributed and well combined.
Form the mixture into meatballs and flatten slightly, arrange them spaced slightly apart
on a baking sheet and drizzle over the olive oil.
Bake the chicken meatballs at 180 degrees Celsius (350 F) in a preheated oven for 20-25 minutes
or until golden all over and cooked through.
I'm sure you're going to love these delicious baked chicken meatballs, they are super easy
to prepare, and also suitable for a gluten free diet.
The meatballs turned out super tender, moist and flavorful, and not to mention they're
healthy and nutritious.
and yes, they need the approval of the quality
control officer.
and of course, they passed the test!
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