Hey there, everyone! Welcome along to 'Manifest Creative' - The place where we
manifest your life creatively! My name is Kathryn Eggins and I'd love to
welcome you along to today's episode. Today I would love to talk about
manifesting. I've received a letter, or an email from Mandy and she asked the
question. She says, 'Hi Kathryn! I love your work. It's really inspiring
me to look at things differently.' Awesome! So, 'What I'd really love to know is the
secret to manifesting. I'm trying really hard to understand it but something's
not working. Can you help me?' Mandy. Great! Thank you, Mandy for your question
because I know so many people are asking the same question. I know that I asked
it for a long time until, 'light bulb moment!' I finally worked it out.
Now, the thing with manifesting is that we've sort of been led to believe
with 'The Secret' and all that kind of stuff, that if you
really hope for something or you think about it that you can manifest it.
The thing with 'The Secret'...Fantastic! I love that movie but it did leave a
little part of the equation out. Now, the the whole thing with manifesting is that
you need to think it and you need to feel it but you also need to
believe it and this is where it all starts to sort of fall apart because you
can think that you're believing it but you're not really. Deep down inside it's
those really deep-seated beliefs that you really need to work on. Now, a big one
that comes up for people is money...you know, I'd love to manifest a lot of money,
but if you've grown up with a scarcity mindset to actually believe that you can
manifest a whole stack of money out of nowhere, that can be hard to
believe...to actually get those really deep-seated beliefs to believe you or to
believe that it's possible. Now, I really love to look at it that your reality is
just a manifestation of your beliefs and your feelings and just everything that
you were thinking previously. That's why you've created
what you've got, so it's really good to not focus on reality...I don't believe in
focusing on reality because then you're going to create more of what you don't
want, but to actually look at it and analyze it and say, 'Okay, well why did I
manifest that? Why did that happen?'... rather than getting angry at things and
jumping up and down and as Esther Hicks says...oh, sorry...Abraham Hicks says,
'Beating that old drum,'...Let all of that go just look at it and analyze it from a
different perspective, step back and look at it and then think about what you were
thinking and feeling and what your beliefs are because a lot of the beliefs
that you have aren't really yours. They're ones that you've been programmed
with as you grew up and that's to do with what your parents
believed what other people around you believe because you grow up
in a certain community, they're the beliefs that you're going to get so it's
really up to you to stop and look at those beliefs and ask yourself, 'Is that
what you truly believe?'...and when you do that and you start creating your own
beliefs, your whole world will change because you will get more in tune with
who you really are, who your soul really is...really of getting to the core of it
and you might have completely different beliefs deep down inside than what your
parents had and that's perfectly okay, but this is where a lot of people
struggle with actually going, 'Oh, you know... my beliefs are different to theirs and I
don't want to upset them,'...so you keep your beliefs in tune with somebody else
and that's really living your life on somebody else's terms. So, it's getting to
the core of those beliefs, why you believe that and is that really your
belief and if it's not then start making changes. Now, if you want to start
creating a life of more abundance and different things like that it's
actually starting to notice the abundance that you already have and it
can be quite easy to take things for granted. When you grow up and
you've got hot water and a nice place to live and that kind
of thing, you can take that for granted but actually, be really grateful
for what you have and even if you don't have that find something...even
just being able to see or having all your fingers and toes and
that kind of thing...start to be grateful for what you do have and then start
taking little steps to change that. Now, when it comes to money...I'll
just refer to this because money is a big one for people...actually, to
go from having a scarcity mindset and then saying, 'Well, you know, I want to have
lots of money,' now...you see it with lotto winners all the time. They win all this
money and it's outside their comfort zone so they spend it all and they give
it all away and all the sudden they're back to where they were. What you
need to do is actually gradually build up...work on it every single day to
actually change your beliefs around money and that changing your
beliefs to the fact that money is abundant...it's as abundant as air...it's
really just an energy and a transfer of energy and when you can get your mind
around that and you can start to look at things differently, you can start to work
on those beliefs so that when a bill comes in...rather than jump up and down
about it, be thankful and grateful for everything that that bill has given you...
You know, rather than going, 'I don't know! I have to pay for this!' Well, your electricity bill...
did it keep the fridge running? Did it allow you to do videos with your
lights on....anything like that! Just find the gift in everything and
start to be grateful for it and to see life really through a child's eyes of
amazement and wonderment because until you start looking at things differently
things won't change. You can't keep doing the same thing over and over and over
again and expect different results. You really have to start changing those
beliefs in the way that you think and you feel about things and becoming aware
of what you're thinking and feeling and when that comes up, 'Do I really want to
think that? No! Go away, thought! I don't want to think you! I want to think this!'
and then start replacing those thoughts with what you want to think. Same with your
feelings...'Do I really want to feel this? No! Go away, feeling! I don't want to feel
like that! I want to feel like this!' and start bringing yourself back to
feeling joy. As often as possible, find joy because it is okay to feel joy,
you're entitled to feel joy. Don't feel like you can't feel joy just because
somebody else has chosen not to feel joy in their life. Your life is completely up
to you, so start looking at what you're thinking and what you're feeling and what
you beliefs are. Now, if you do want to create more abundance in your life apart
from feeling grateful and feeling that abundance that you already have, start
making little changes like...put better fuel in your car or if you
want blueberries instead of strawberries buy the blueberries. Just those
kinds of things. Just one thing at a time... just extend a little and something
that's not going to break the bank but it is pushing your boundaries and when
that becomes your normal then start moving up in some other way, but get on
to those thoughts, those feelings and definitely get on to those beliefs
because until you can actually get yourself to a point where you believe
that something is possible it's going to be very hard to manifest because
your outer world is a reflection of your inner world, so work on your inner world...
Yes, there might be a bit of confrontation there...some of the things
that you need to change might be quite confrontational...It can be quite
a shock that you need to change some things...sometimes it might be
that you need to move away from certain people...that can be quite
difficult when it really comes down to it but that's what you need to do to
create the life that you want...you don't want to go living your life on someone
else's terms, so really get to the core of who you are and how you want your
life to be. I'd love to hear comments! Feel free to leave some comments below
and if you do have a question please send it to me via my website, which is
KathrynEggins.com and I'll be more than happy to answer it in one of these
videos but till next time, thank you very much for your company and follow your
heart, follow your dreams and don't let anybody stop you...especially yourself!
I'll catch you next time. See ya! Bye!
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