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It's like, this is going really well (laughs).
So how many of you are at work like,
Oh my God, I'm so tired I can't even function.
But then, when it's time to go to bed, you
just lay there and are like,
Why can't I sleep?
Who invented microwaves?
How does the internet even work?
Have you ever thought the light around you
might have something to do with that?
Lightbulb maker Ketra does and they've invented
an ambient lightbulb that syncs with nature.
During the day, light is crisp and bright.
In the evening it's warm and cozy
signaling to your brain that it is time to wind down.
Of course, you can control the ambience with your smart phone or
with a fancy touchscreen on your wall.
So that way, your dinner guest won't wish
they had worn their PJs or anything.
The Ketra lightbulb. It's a bright idea
that would do us all a lot of good.
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Jeep Wrangler Strike Force Zebra Half Doors (2007-2017 JK 4-Door) Review & Install - Duration: 5:03.
These are for those of you looking for a half door on your JK so that you have better visibility
when you're on a trail or just more of an open feeling while you're driving down the
road without having to purchase a steel half door.
Today we're gonna talk through the installation of these doors, which is a very simple one
out of three wrench install.
The first time you install these, putting the mirrors in place might take you a little
bit longer than every time after that.
But from there, it's really just a matter of popping the doors on and off very simply
just like you would a factory door, and we'll talk more about that installation in just
a second.
The benefit to something like this over a steel door is one, it's going be significantly
lighter than a steel door.
Two, it has built-in storage on the inside of the door, which is a really nice feature.
And three, this is an impact resistant plastic, so if you are doing some hardcore wheeling
and getting some off-camber situations, you might catch a rock to the door, this may get
a little bit of damage on it, but you're not going to dent and break a much more expensive
and painted metal door.
So that's where these really fall into place, in my opinion.
Now these are going to be more expensive than a tube door, less expensive than the factory
steel doors, they fall right in the middle there.
But again, they do have some features that make them worth the money if you have the
budget for them.
As far as construction goes, like I said before, these are a lightweight molded thermoplastic
material that has been UV treated, so these aren't going to fade in the sun over time,
they're gonna stay nice and black.
These have an OEM style hinge, which makes the install very simple, they're just gonna
drop right into the hinge that's on the top of your Jeep already.
Of course, they heavy built-in latching mechanism that's also lockable and you might be saying,
"Why do I need a lock?
These half doors don't have uppers, you're gonna be able to very easily reach or even
climb over top if you really wanted to get in my jeep."
Well, the lock is really to keep the door on the Jeep.
It's something that is lightweight, it's very easy to just open the door and lift them off
even if you were to attach the nuts on the door hinges, those can be very easily removed.
So the lock makes it much more difficult for someone to walk away with your doors.
So that's the construction itself.
These also have some weatherstripping on the inside of them which make them seal up very
nice and tight, and you're not going get any whistling from wind, you're not going to get
any water in between the door and the tub, they're gonna seal very well.
And like I said before, on the inside of this door, you do have a good bit of storage, which
is something you're not going to get with a factory door.
Now these are going be less expensive than steel, but they're also a very expensive door
and there are a couple areas in the mold where I'd like to see a little bit more fit and
finish.
Now this is really just around the latching mechanism here, it's not something you're
gonna see when the door is closed, but for my money, I'd like to see every detail taken
care of, and that's one area where these ones lack just a little bit.
But again, this is a unique piece.
It's still I think a pretty fair price for all of the quality and the features that you're
getting, just one area I wanted to point out.
So to get these installed, you are gonna have to remove your factory doors first, and that
process is pretty much just unplugging the wiring harness to the door, removing the limiting
strap, and then removing the retention nuts if you still have a them in place before lifting
the door off of the hinges.
Now when you have that limiting strap removed, be very careful up front, that door can hyper-extend,
and if it does, the mirror will [inaudible 00:03:20], that's a very common dimple for
a lot of JKs that has, so be very careful.
The second you release that limiting strap, make sure you keep a hand on the door, don't
let it swing all the way open.
Once you have your door removed, you can remove your factory mirror, go ahead and install
it on your new half door, set the half doors on the factory hinges, attach the limiting
strap that they come with, again, same issue comes into play there, so use that limiting
strap right away.
If you wanna put the factory retention nuts back on these hinges, you can do that.
If you're gonna be switching doors back and forth a lot, you don't need to.
And then you just close the door, get in the Jeep and go.
Very simple install.
It's just like taking your factory doors on and off, which again is very, very easy.
So these are gonna run you right around $700 for a pair, $1,400 if you have a four-door
JK and you're looking for a full set.
So these are certainly not an inexpensive option.
If you're looking for something less expensive, you can get a two-door or a two-door with
a door skin on it, which is gonna give you a similar feel, though it's not exactly the
same, but be a lot less expensive.
This is going to be for those of you that aren't looking to spend the money on a steel
door that want an impact resistant plastic door lightweight that has storage built into
it and has the budget for these.
Again these aren't gonna be for everyone because they are a little bit expensive, but I think
they do have some nice features that make them worth the cost.
So that's my review of the Strike Force Zebra Half Doors, fitting all 2007 enough JKs, that
you can find here at extremeterrain.com.
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Why Emojis Are the New Ancient Runes: Language 🙉🔜🕵 - Duration: 6:50.
In the new Emoji movie, it's no coincidence that the main character's name is Gene.
Language is evolving.
Emojis are the new ancient runes, and by runes I really mean hieroglyphs.
Hieroglyph is a Greek word that means: sacred writing.
The way we hold our phones is how we used to hold sacred objects.
It's how we would pray, or reach out our palms for life-giving food and water.
But today our sacred writings aren't on the walls, to behold.
Our sacred writings are our in our hands…to be held.
This is a worship pose.
Our hands come together around the phone, similar to prayer hands, but they're also
open, receptive to what the phone gives us: we send out messages into the ether, and then
we wait, hoping for replies, news, and notifications.
Our palms are open to technological alms.
Tones and ringtones, alerts and banners.
Is it the internet of things or the Internet of tings?
What hasn't chimed in?
Which brings us back to emojis.
Like hieroglyphs, Emojis help us tell stories.
Emojis help us bring play and creativity back into our communications.
Each emoji has a particular meaning, a "right" way of using it, and digital language snobs
(scree: (emoji) snob)) will tell you you're using emojis wrong.
It's the same way I used Runes in the title because it sounded better than hieroglyph,
which sounded better than ideogram, and like any ambiguous-looking emoji, used in the right
context, you probably knew what I meant.
That's the state of our language.
We use words when they sound good.
Or rather, we use good words in wrongs ways because they sound right.
Which means it's no coincidence that over time the word ironic has come to mean coincidence.
It's how language works: meaning emerges with popular usage.
We do the same thing with emojis.
Each emoji morphs with context.
Emojis are the rise of an old concept in a new form: many ancient languages used graphic
symbols to capture a concept or idea, and that is what emojis do.
Because Emojis go beyond English, beyond Japanese.
Emojis don't speak Russian.
They don't speak Chinese.
Emojis speak human, and their meanings evolve with each person and culture.
It's like emojis speak body language, but more than bodies, emojis speak our minds.
Emojis represent how we see the world, which is different from how the ancients saw their
world, and that is why emojis look like this, and hieroglyphs looked like that:
With emojis, we're all going back to kindergarten.
We can turn ideas into pictures.
Each text is show and tell.
And this could be a good thing.
Together, we're learning to communicate again.
We're expanding our understanding of language, so that we can use language to better understand
ourselves.
Emojis, like good punctuation, help us get the point across.
The way we choose to get the point across represents our personality
With emojis, we're expressing our feelings and sharpening our creativity.
We're turning ideas and emotions into pictures, because words aren't good enough.
With words, can you say what you mean?
Deep down?
Is there language for that?
We don't always have the words, but soon, we might have a new written language.
Emoji English.
Emoji Chinese.
I say this in jest because emojis themselves will evolve, or they'll be replaced by another
idiographic language that better captures how we see the world, but either way, we're
merging our modern words with the proto-writing style of the ancients.
As much as I used to cringe, and often still do, one day, all but our most formal communication might look
like this:
As I said in the beginning, it's no coincidence
that the main character's name is Gene: Emojis are about expression, and it's pretty
obvious that as the movie unravels, Gene will learn to express himself in new ways.
Love it or hate it, we're all like Gene: one emoji, many smilies.
So what's happening to English?
By adopting these emojis, by using emoticons, are we taking a step back?
Are these runes ruining our language?
Or are we returning to something fundamental?
Are we learning to speak a language that words alone lack?
Because Language is doing what it's always done.
Evolving.
And that's the point.
Love it or hate it, language evolves.
If it didn't, we'd still be speaking old English.
Not even.
We'd still be speaking caveman.
The firsts sounds that popped out of their mouths, those would be our words.
But language, like life, evolves.
Just as today we don't spake
Shakespeare's English, our descendants won't speak our English.
And while the emoji movie might be a bad idea, or a dark horse success, or a big hit,
it follows the rules of evolution.
If unfit to survive, the movie will die on arrival, but emojis, the bigger idea, will
continue to thrive.
You are as large as your ability to express yourself.
Your face
contains multitudes.
This is my first video essay, so the style itself will evolve, as well as the quality
will improve.
You know, I'm embarrassed about how long it took me to make this video.
Well, I chock it up to practice.
If you haven't subscribed, subscribe here, because this channel will evolve, you will
help grow this channel, you will help new ideas emerge as this channel grows.
I'm looking forward to that.
Thank you everyone who has already subscribed.
It's been a process.
I'm working on that consistency factor.
I'm working on, the, on all of it.
Thank you again.
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Tony Robbins: Think You Understand Your Mind? ( Tony Robbins Mindset ) - Duration: 30:47.
Whatever people do they all he has to always have a reason they may not be
aware of the reason consciously but there's always a reason if someone tries
to commit suicide there's a reason if someone tries to hurt someone else
there's a reason if someone is willing to work 18-hour days there's a reason if
someone doesn't want to work there's a reason here's the good news having dealt
with literally tens of millions of people from hundreds of countries or
more than a hundred countries to be accurate
I could be an idiot at this point you have to see there are patterns there are
patterns that will make you angry and patterns it'll make you sad there
patterns will excite you that patterns will make you grateful the patterns will
make you completely worried all the time their patterns it'll make you feel so
absolutely certain you can run through an S on the wall once you know what the
patterns are you can get rid of the ones they don't work and adopt some ones that
do more often and that's good part of what we're gonna do the next few days to
give you perspective but the most important I don't understand is why
people do what they do so as I told you I said a unique gift I've had the chance
to travel the world at this stage of life where literally the world is
available all of us in a few hours but what I want you understand is everybody
has a reason for what they do but the good news is there's only six reasons
there are lots of different stories but I can tell you by experiencing around
the world there's only six reasons and those six reasons are called the six
human needs and I'm going to walk you through these now I need you to manage
your state for the next few minutes because we're going to go a little
deeper on content but we're going to do it only so in the future for the next
three days and somebody stands up you're going to look at them they're going to
go what's driving them and I'm going to ask you which of these needs are driving
them because once you know what drives somebody you know how to meet their
needs or you can predict their behavior and see whether or not they're the right
corporate match personal match intimate match because you have to understand it
so what are these six needs they are not goals they are not desires if you travel
with me around the world you'll see every culture of different goals
everybody has different desires but we all the same needs what are they number
one is the need for certainty certainty now what the hell certainty certainty is
a survival need we all need to feel certain that we can avoid pain and that
ideally we can have some comfort why because continuous pain would mean
continuous damage continuous damage eventually means death so the need for
certainty is built into every human being and I'm going to show you now in
the next few minutes if you stay with me and I really need you to do so make sure
you stay sit up in your chair and focus on this area because after this we're
going to kick in gear again but right now you got to take this in you'll be so
valuable not just for this weekend before your life all human beings have
the same six needs so why do we behave differently because the only thing
different in people is two things we all have the same six needs but we don't
value them equally some people certainty is the number one
thing they value if they're certainly driven and you try to change anything
they freak out they get fearful or they can angry or they get pissed off because
what matters most of them is keeping things the same way where they feel like
they're in control rayji and if you follow that's an
example some people they value love much more than certainty some people value
certainly more than love so even though they love you if they don't feel certain
they won't open completely just as one example so the difference in people will
all the same six needs the difference is which of the top two you value most out
of these six because these top two determine your direction in life and
direction and you keep moving in direction it leads you to an ultimate
destination or destiny so we want to understand what your top two needs are
and same thing with other people this weekend when somebody stands up often
I'll say what's driving in right now and I want you to see within a very short
time 8,000 people from 44 countries will all be saying the same thing because
it'll be that obvious to you you'll be a practical psychologist that time we're
done here so now if we know what these needs are and person values them
differently we also have to find out two people could have the same need but they
have a different belief about what it takes to be loved or a different need
about what it takes to be certain some people to assert need $10,000,000,000
something that you're certain just need to pray to God somebody be certain need
to feel like they have three perfect children and they're there every
day some people that feel certain feel certain because I've always figured it
out I don't know what's going to happen but I know I'll figure it out because I
always have you can get certainty from your past you get certainty from God you
get certainty by working out intensely you get certainty by eating food too
much food especially will put comfort in your body if you overeat all the blood
goes in your stomach you start breathing again so we all need certainty the only
question is it number one two three four or five or six on your list and the
second question is what does your brain say has to happen to be certain some
people have certainly it's impossible to meet the young lady over here who was
sitting in the chair before we intervened how to blueprint that's never
going to be met it's literally would make her unhappy
regularly so we got to know what needs you're after and what's your blueprint
how many good at feeling at least when I'm explaining you right now make some
sense to you say ahh awesome so the first need of certainty how can
we meet our need for certainty we can do it ways that are positive neutral or
negative I can get certainty in a heartbeat if all I want to do is get
really pissed off and freaked out about something when you get angry do you get
certain yes or no you better believe it so some people get angry all the time
because it's their way to get certainty in a life that's uncertain it is all
kinds of negative side effects but it works in the moment so listen to me now
most people meet their needs in a way that works in the moment but not
long-term so they feel good for a short time like a sugar high and then they
drop emotional and they got to do it again whether its food or smoking or
drinking or whatever it is so you can meet your needs in positive ways
neutralize your negative ways so if I came along here and I said which
enhancer case chase I want to make a deal with you how much do you weigh 246
we're going to weigh you in five minutes he says he weighs 246 if you're within
that range I'm fine here's my deal I will give you I'm going to put fifty
million dollars US cash tonight into an escrow account for you they're going to
weigh you if you lose 50 pounds tomorrow morning by 8:30 a.m.
you will receive that 50 million otherwise they get it back can you do it
yes or no no sure you can take off a leg take it
on we can get you out there there's no question chase is the goal attainable
yes or no is it achievable is it attainable yes or no but it's not
sustainable and that's how most people meet their needs they use a drug or
alcohol or food or cigarettes or something to get comfortable to get
certainty back but the problem is that has side effects long-term works in the
short-term doesn't go long-term right if you follow say I so you could get
certainty by overeating or smoking or drinking what happens you smoke a
cigarette take a deep breath in you blow it out nice and long and slow full
exhale when most of you are stressed how many of noticed that you either stop
breathing or you breathe really shallow I'm going to notice this in the past so
you smoked a cigarette and the moment it meets your need for comfort and certain
needs killing you but it works short-term that's how most people live
their life you can get certainty by working out if you go on a run really
intensely or you go lift weights and you push yourself and all that blood starts
pulsing through you do you feel certain yes or no and what's the downside zero
so there are ways to meet your needs that are empowering neutral or
disempowering the parts of our life we don't like our problems why would we
keep a problem we're all capable of solving it why would we keep a problem
the only reason you have a problem that's stuck around is because it meets
some of your needs not all of them or you would want to get rid of it but
enough of them that makes it hard to give up it's kind of like who's ever
been in a relationship way too long let me see your hats okay and how many knew
what was wrong while you were there let me see your hands
so why the F did you stay there because of the uncertainty because well you know
I you know I'm not thoroughly happy I'm kind of unhappy but I might be worse if
I was totally alone what if this is the best one I'm never going to get and I
screwed it up but what happened was most of you have that feeling talk to
yourself back down into the relationship multiple times until one day you had a
threshold we are brain when he was painful in the past and people in the
process give me people to pitch right out of
here who's done this before say I so there is a threshold that we can find
and if we find that threshold we can break through it pretty damn easily we
can shift we can get to where we really want to go so what I want you to get is
of these six needs we all find a way to meet them
the only difference again is which are your top two out of the six and I've
told you certainty so far and what are your beliefs or rules or what's your
blueprint on how to get that her blueprint was make please everybody
which is impossible so won't work they can't you follow okay so let's take
a look what's the second unity well first of all you can get certainty in so
many ways you get certainty by praying to God you
can get certainty by doing a ritual the same way every time you can get
certainty by lowering your expectations saying nothing ever works nothing ever
will everybody screws things up you'll lose your dream but you'll gain your
need by the way jot this down people will
give up their goals and dreams to meet their needs people will give up their
goals and dreams they'll even give up their own values to meet their needs
I'll give you an example how many of you in this room can see yourself to be an
honest person very honest person raise your hand if you complete yourself to be
very honest raise your hand nice and high okay drop your hand raise your hand
if you lie let me see your hands if you lie can explain it to me later
here's how it works see in your mind you know who you are
why would someone lie who values honesty no one told you to be honest you want to
be honest because if you think being honest is going to cost you one of your
needs like love or certainty you'll lie you call it a white lie which a lot who
knows what I'm talking about now there's some people that never lie because they
value certainty of always telling the truth so much I have to do with their
rules or their belief structures this make sense so tell me something you can
meet the need for certainty so many ways right so here's the question you go
ahead here's the question what if you were
certain every moment of your life what was going to happen before it happened
what if you knew what people are going to say before they're going to say it
what if you could feel what they're going to feel what if you could look if
you knew every moment before it happened what people are going to say and do in
the beginning that would feel really exciting but after a while if you know
what's going to happen when it's going to happen how it's going to happen tell
me what you're going to feel after a while what do you start to feel tell me
what bored out of your mind that's why God in her infinite wisdom gave us a
second human need and that second human need is uncertainty we have a need for
uncertainty we have a need for surprise we have a need for variety in fact
what's the phrase variety is the word of life spice of life now how many of you
in this room raise your hand how many of you in this room love surprises ratio if
you love them say I both you love the surprises you want the surprises you
don't want you don't want you call them problems don't you so don't tell me you
like surprises you like the surprise as you want here's my point
can you meet more than one need with the same action or emotion or belief system
yes or no write this down any time any time your mind any time your mind
proceeds that doing something any time your mind perceives that doing something
believing something or feeling something needs at least three of your needs so
any time your mind perceives that doing something feeling something or believing
something needs at least three of your needs then you will become addicted to
that thought that feeling that emotion or that action you can be positively
picked it or negatively addicted but you're going to be addicted any time
your brain perceives and something you believe do or feel meets three of your
needs you'll get addicted to it now I'm going to show you why this is important
let's look at two needs for a second is it possible to meet your need for
certainty and uncertainty simultaneously even though they're opposite needs yes
or no I give an example who here has ever rented a movie that you've already
seen let me see your hands get a life now I've done it too why would read a
movie we've already seen we ran it why because we've seen it before so we're
certain it's good and we're hoping it's been so long we forgot enough it'll be
variety we watch it again who knows what I'm talking about here say I so you can
meet both me but if you meet three needs you'll become addicted to that behavior
well it's a good behavior a bad behavior doesn't matter it'll be a positive
addiction or an interdiction but you'll be addicted so let me give you how do
you get variety you get variety in positive ways negative what is your
neutral ways you get variety by learning growing taking on a new goal a new
challenge you give riding through a conversation with a friend
you get variety by praying to God there's so many ways to get variety
aren't there but you can also get variety of negative ways you can smoke a
joint and maybe that's not a negative way but it sure will change your state
but in side-effects right during that time you're not going to function maybe
at the same peak or understanding or some people use other things cigarettes
alcohol anything there's so many ways to get variety the question is are your
ways positive neutral negative or empowering how many following because we
all have ways for getting that variety that uncertainty so here's what I want
to do third human need is significance the need to feel unique the need to feel
special yes I hope that picture makes you feel special
okay the needed feel unique special important who has the need to be needed
to feel special unique important who do you think has that need who has it tell
me who what about people say I don't want to be special do they still want to
be special yes or no you bet your ass they do house protest too much now they
don't want to be so special that you attack them they might want to stay
undercover so to speak they still want to feel special they want to feel unique
they want to feel needed they want to feel important so there are lots of ways
to feel special you can do it by working your ass off taking huge risks and
achieving something to feel special or you can tear down everybody else is
trying to build something because there's two ways out the tallest
building down one is work your ass off take risk build the tallest building the
other one is blow up everybody else's building and by the way which one's
faster which one's easier which takes less intelligence and less money tearing
shit down happens faster so that's why we've always had violence and we always
will unless there's a consciousness change if I live in a tough part of the
community I'm in the hood and you can walk through my community and you don't
notice me and I feel insignificant I might take things in my own hands to
feel significant if all of a sudden I put a gun to your head tell me on a 0 to
10 scale how certain am I you're going to respond to me now when I put that gun
to your head 0 to 10 10 is absolute zero is not at all where would you put it
quick yeah 100 it's a true but also when I put my gun to your head how
significant am I to you in your life even if you didn't know me a minute ago
if I got a gun in your head how significant on my zero to ten hundred
I'm the most significant thing in your life in a moment ago you didn't know
existed and I don't need any intelligence on any background your
education all I needs a gun and the will to do it oh by the way just in case
there's not enough there to be an addiction when I put that gun to your
head every time that happens it's going to be a different game I know you're
going to respond to me I know I'm significant but what you're going to say
and do is different so I get variety so you made three needs but violence
doesn't end there because before human need is connection and love and most
people are too afraid to love because they've loved and been disappointed or
they've loved and then lost the love they're so painful that now they settle
for the crumbs of connection because that's safer so it's a form of the need
but a low level to me but it's still part of the need we got a meeting so if
you're going for connection and love if I cut my gun to his head on a zero to
ten I'm a tenth of certainty I'm a tenth of significant to him I'm gonna have a
ton of variety but are we also connected in a sick way but deeply connected in
this moment yes or no on a zero to 10 how much connection is there between our
lives at this moment the they're 100 how many followers say I so
violence meets for the human needs and that's why we've always had it that's
why Isis exists that's why people do the stupid things they do is they do it to
try to meet their needs the biggest cause of violence so if you'll notice is
ninety-five percent of time when it's a terrorist it's a male why is that
because in the human nervous system if you're masculine testosterone is
probably large in you with your man or woman if you're more masculine you got a
lot of testosterone testosterone is about dominance it's about significance
it's about domination and the higher that is the more they want it if they
look at their life and they're not dominating and they get really
frustrated they'll do a final act men will die for significance women will die
for love now some men will die for love too so you know but biochemically a
female is wired to be able to nurture and to support human beings we wouldn't
exist if it wasn't for everyone in this room because we all came through wonder
we wouldn't exist there's no man that can make this happen but the women have
and the reason is because they have that connecting power as their strength now
can any man become more love driven yes can any woman be more significant driven
yes but our biochemistry leads us that way which is why a terrorist will come
up and do what they're doing and kill someone because all they get it about is
domination is that I'm significant and they want certainty in a world where
they feel uncertain and they want variety in life that is incredibly
boring in the middle of condensers where there's nothing and no one's working
where you got thirty percent of population unemployed what I'm going to
do work at McDonald's or go kill people kill people feels more exciting right
now how many follow what I'm talking about here say I now can you get
significance in positive ways of course you can be significantly more generous
than anyone else and that generosity gives you a sense of significance
because you know you're really a giver you're not trading you're not exchanging
you really are giving and it makes you feel full it makes you feel significant
as you know the truth no matter what you tell people verbally you know it's true
inside and no one can mess with that you can get significant
by the way you dress you can have significance by having more tattoos and
earrings and more locations than any of us want to know but the bottom line is
there's a minute you can know more about box scores and sports to be significant
everyone finds a way to be significant most people find a way to be significant
by having a significant problem why because if I'm really successful you
might like me for a while but after a while most people get annoyed with
someone who's always happy and successful easy for you who knows what
I'm talking about here raise your head right but if you got big-ass problems
who's going to be upset with you you're not competing with them Jeff you'd
probably go I understand but if you're doing really well it's like easy for you
so most of us unconsciously learn to create big problems as a way to connect
because it's the safest way to connect and not be rejected some of you do it
like she does by trying to please everybody all the time thinking if I
please you enough then you'll come to me you'll give me what I'm really wanting
to which is what she wants but it doesn't work that way it works sometimes
but not all the time and not even the majority of the time how many follow
here say I so we have what needs so far number one is nice and loud number one
is certainty certainly you can be comfortable you can avoid pain you can
survive you can be comfortable second you means the need for uncertainty also
need for variety or surprise what's the third human need the need for to feel
unique to feel special to feel important who has that need who has that need
everyone and the fourth need is need for
connection and most people settle for connection because love is too scary
because they loved it was so wonderful it went away and they don't want that
thing anymore so they want love but they settle for connection so if you can't
get love or connection anywhere else buy a dog don't get a cat they're
independent get a dog is it true you could be the dumbass owner you cannot
even feed them you can leave for five hours usually for five minutes and it's
like you've been gone for six months or so excited right
so anyone can feel connection in love you can do with your prayer you can do
it through good gifts you can do it by dressing special you can do it by having
big problems the only question in life is not whether you're going to meet your
needs the only question is how and is it attainable or sustainable it's an
empowering neutral or negative and if you want to change your life willpower
never laughs but when something needs more of your needs it's effortless if
you want to know what the biggest addiction is in our culture it's not
alcohol it's not some prescription drug it's not an illicit drug it's problems
because problems allow us to try to deal with our deepest fear that we're not
enough and we won't be loved by saying it's not me it's this problem it's just
I have ADHD it's just that I've been through this it's just so most people
meet their needs through problems unfortunately they don't meet their
deepest needs because up until now we describe the first four needs which are
the basic needs of your personality but what both of everyone by the way finds a
way to meet these first four needs even have to lie to yourself if you got to
work 20 hour days you will find a way to meet your need for certainty uncertainty
significance even assists you have worse problems anybody else connection to
yourself you will find a way but the final two needs are the needs
that create fulfilment and they are the spiritual needs not religious but
spiritual the fifth human need is growth we've already said it we grow all we
want there is no way around it if your business isn't growing it's dying if
your relationship isn't growing it's dying there are no plateaus in this life
who's with me here say hi so growth is life and if you want a one-word key to
happiness I'll give it to you right now because it's real obvious having work
with millions of evil progress equals happiness if you're not even where you
want to be you're still overweight you're still financially struggling
you're still not where you want to be in your career but you start working out
yume wants the way yet but you start feeling better you start making progress
or you start to change that business still not there
but you're making progress or change that relationship or change your body or
change your health anytime you start making progress your happiness will go
through the roof anytime you achieve things and you don't
set up something new to go for it quickly
you'll lose momentum and in a short time you won't be so happy because the loss
familiarity will come in and this thing that once with this big dream will now
just be something that you're used to so the purpose of a goal is not to get the
goal the purpose of the goal is who we become to achieve it
what you get will never make you happy who you become will make you very happy
or very sad depending upon how you approach it and what you do with your
life so our approach here is we want to grow and then the six human need is the
need for contribution the need to step out of ourselves see how many of you in
this room when something great happens how many of you can't help yourself you
immediately want to share that with somebody you love how many immediately
that's your first thought say aye why because you can only feel so much
yourself I don't care if it's sex drugs rock and roll whatever it is there's
only so much pleasure you can internally have you want to share that concert with
someone you want to share that experience with someone because by
sharing it becomes more it's more than just you growth and contribution our
fifth and six needs they are spiritual needs they are the needs to fulfill us
everybody finds a way to feel somewhat certain some variety some significance
you have to go to tear people down some connection but very few people grow
continuously and contribute continuously which is where all the joy is how many
follow here say I so we're going to make a couple distinctions but first of all
can you meet somebody in a few minutes start to pick up which needs might be
driving the most yes or no yes or no of course you can in fact I'll give an
example I was fine I don't notice five six seven years ago I was flying the
small plane across the country and I was being the pilot and I landed it in
Kansas City and I landed Ken's excuse me I'm in Kansas and I'm in this little
airport in Kansas and I get out of the plane and this young man comes running
out and he's like so enthusiastic and so just sweet good soul you know you just
meet guy great hit off this kid and he says what can I do for you I told him
I'm just flying through it's me to refuel he goes how much do you need I
said just fill her up because no problem I leave as I leave him come around the
plane to walk up the steps to go into the FBO the fixed-base operation was
stopping for the moment I'm gonna go up using the facilities and there's a young
girl sitting on the stairs here and she looks really intense
she's gothic you know that goth makeup she's got I don't remember the exact
number but like 15 earrings on one year one through the nose really intense
looking little character so I noticed her on the way in and as I walk up the
steps I walk but you know by her go inside and when I came back out the
steps are really wide so I sat on the step just beside her she's like one
person away and she looks up me goes what do you want I said were you up
she's a nothing I said nothing let me just sat there she's like you
know Innerspace and I said actually there is something I'd like to know I
said you don't have to tell me but I'm gonna leave here in a few minutes you're
never gonna meet me again send your boyfriend out there she goes Wolfe sorta
like she wants him to be right it's looks nice I said he seems like a really
really nice kid he's not nice he's strong she tells me I see okay well I
think he's strong in nice so well maybe he is I said you know I'm gonna leave in
a couple minutes but I'm just curious I said hold you she goes what does it
matter I said it doesn't I'm about to leave so honest tell me she said I'm 13
and I about fell over I mean this girl I mean 17 be the youngest I put her
totally made me a make up made up in every detail right so I'm like wow she
goes are you surprised and said yeah I'm really surprised she goes did you think
I was older I said yeah I said and that kind of saddened me a little bit to you
she said what I don't know I said I'm curious I'm gonna leave here a few
minutes because you're curious about a lot of things and I am I said how come
and I'm making up the number of eight and thirteen but it was more than twelve
how many nor fifteen earrings and she says to me because everybody else has
five now if I don't tell you anything else about this young lady what would
you say is the number-one need to striving her at this stage of her life
right now nice and loud go which one nice allowed how many said significance
raise your hand absolutely right you can see it easily but people are driven by
more than one thing and as I'm watching her in this really tough house approach
and thinking about how she's adapted to be unique and significant I look down
and I see she has a keychain and it's a Dieker keychain you know Tigger the
Disney character Winnie the Pooh ticket and I go cool keychain then she goes
yeah and also nice all little girl there for a second and I said kicker I said
where'd you get that she goes well my dad got it for me and she all of a
sudden there's a 13 year old girl there it's totally amazing and I said really
she goes yeah I really love tickler I even have kicker curtains and I would
take her sheets I would it's embarrassing but I love to her so tell
me something this woman's need she needs her need for
significance by doing what being gothic being different than everybody else
15 earrings tough-ass makeup but you still a little girl is you have another
need called certainty and comfort and where's you get that Tigger and her dad
and you can see it right there in front of you after this weekend you will never
see the world the same way if you stay awake
instead of seeing people's behaviors you're going to see their attempts to
meet their needs and when people do stupid things they're just starving to
meet their needs and they're finding something that isn't very effective or
it's effective short term but hurt some long-term and because you've done this
you can have compassion how many of you have something on the list more than one
where you're doing dumbass things to meet some of your needs and even though
it doesn't meet all your needs and meet some of them and so you keep doing it
let me see your hands here say I so we want to shift that
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