Waching daily Feb 14 2019

taehyung and jungkook is one of the most harmonious couples

they sang a lot of songs together

but have you ever thought about translating these works?

at the end of the long day i was pacing back and forth on the street

without of the sprouting emptiness i started to hum that song without knowing

without knowing i started to hum

as if I'm desperately calling out to you

you used to make me listen to that song

saying it's the best song in the world

we listened to it together

this sad song

this song we listened to every day

it makes me cry every day

It makes me think of you

because it sounds like our story

no matter how hard I try to cover my ears

it spins around me

i don't wanna hear it, i throw a fit

but I hear it every day

it's a song with a deep meaning i think that you will agree with this

guys sang it together more than once

i don't think there's anything to explain

next moments

many analyzed the songs of jungkook and taehyung, but for some reason few people noticed something hidden and important in their duets

maybe all these songs have some special meaning for these two?

will see over time

here's a couple of cute moments

For more infomation >> THIS IS WHAT YOU NEVER THOUGHT | VKOOK/TAEKOOK | BY AMATUS - Duration: 7:29.

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Tôi Tập Trung Cao Độ Bắt Bọ Ve | TQMT Tập 401 - Duration: 19:20.

Hello friends

I concentrate on the news very high

Getting these ticks is difficult

This video is very long so I increased it to run faster

Each of my wrong actions will make the dog painful

I'm a normal person not a professional

Thank you for watching the video so far, if you look at this moment you are a lot of animal lovers

Good people will meet good things

God bless you

For more infomation >> Tôi Tập Trung Cao Độ Bắt Bọ Ve | TQMT Tập 401 - Duration: 19:20.

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From Money Problem to Money Possibilities - Duration: 3:40.

This was a topic that was just kind of closing in on my life.

It was the thing that I did not want to look at, I didn't want to deal with it.

It was just this big huge thing that was just kind of over my head that I felt like was

gonna be the thing that I just ignored forever.

In this program I have learned so much about myself, so much about money.

I have an interest in money now.

I know everywhere my finances are.

I have been able to look at it and really just be with everything.

What I found from the very beginning of the program I found my figure of past expenditures

which I thought was astronomical and now here we are and I can say that between paying down

debt and past expenditures and getting the figures correct I have been able to eliminate

$27,000 from that top number.

So there are still ways to go on there and the thing about this is I don't have it as

this horrible thing, it is just a thing that is there.

It is manageable.

I know that if I keep going with the tools, I'm just going to just keep going.

It used to be a point of where there was no possibility.

They worked for everyone else.

This is an area I know is just going to keep getting better and better and better.

I am so grateful for Simone's space of non judgement.

This was sometimes something very difficult to talk about and to tell and be honest with

myself about.

To be able to tell Simone, I felt it was like divulging my deepest darkest secrets.

She was the space of non judgement like being at the dinner table saying "pass the mash

potatoes".

Let me tell you being received that way just made everything so much easier.

I am really grateful for everybody.

I'm grateful all the back end support that was during this and everybody the space of

non judgement.

I still go up and down, I'm still a little erratic with things.

I know that things are going to get better and I am very grateful.

For more infomation >> From Money Problem to Money Possibilities - Duration: 3:40.

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Unshakeable Trust - Part 3 | Enjoying Everyday Life - Duration: 28:32.

ANNOUNCER: THIS PROGRAM HAS BEEN MADE POSSIBLE BY

THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.

[MUSIC]

JOYCE: WE'VE HAD A GOOD START.

LAST NIGHT WE TALKED ABOUT DEALING WITH DOUBT.

THIS MORNING WE TALKED ABOUT A LOT OF FOUNDATIONAL AND BASIC

THINGS ABOUT TRUSTING GOD, ESPECIALLY IN OUR CHALLENGES IN

LIFE AND NOT SPENDING ALL OF OUR TIME TRYING TO FIGURE

THINGS OUT.

AND SO, THIS AFTERNOON, I WANT TO GET INTO SOME OF THE REASONS

WHY WE SUFFER, ALTHOUGH WE CANNOT ALWAYS FIGURE IT OUT,

THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT WE CAN LEARN.

BUT FIRST I WANNA SAY THAT YOU'RE NEVER GONNA TRUST ANYBODY

IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE THAT THEY'RE TRUSTWORTHY.

AND SO, IN ORDER TO TRUST GOD, WE NEED TO KNOW MORE ABOUT

GOD'S CHARACTER.

STUDYING THE CHARACTER OF GOD IS A VERY GOOD THING TO DO AND IT'S

ACTUALLY SOMETHING THAT I REALLY LOVE TO PREACH ON.

ONE OF THE MAIN THINGS ABOUT GOD IS THAT GOD IS GOOD.

YOU KNOW, IF YOU CAN'T FIGURE ANYTHING ELSE OUT, THE DEVIL'S

BAD AND GOD IS GOOD, AMEN?

WE CAN DO THAT.

AND GOD SAID, "I SET BEFORE YOU LIFE AND DEATH, GOOD AND EVIL,

CHOOSE LIFE THAT YOU AND YOUR DESCENDANTS MIGHT LIVE."

NOW, GOD IS, OF COURSE, SOVEREIGN AND HE CAN DO ANYTHING

HE WANTS TO ANYTIME HE WANTS TO BUT WHEN GOD GAVE MAN FREE

CHOICE, HE OPENED UP THE DOOR FOR SIN TO COME INTO THE WORLD

THROUGH MAKING WRONG CHOICES.

GOD DID NOT WANT A BUNCH OF ROBOTS THAT LOVED HIM AND OBEYED

HIM BECAUSE THEY HAD TO, HE WANTED US TO MAKE RIGHT CHOICES.

AND SO, WE WANT TO GET INTO THE QUESTION THIS AFTERNOON THAT SO

MANY PEOPLE HAVE AND ESPECIALLY PEOPLE THAT MAYBE ARE ON THE

FRINGE, THEY'RE KIND OF LOOKING FOR A REASON NOT TO BELIEVE IN

GOD, THEY'RE LOOKING FOR A REASON NOT TO SERVE GOD,

BUT ALSO THIS CAN GET INTO THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF BELIEVERS

AND THAT IS, "WELL, IF GOD IS GOOD AND HE CAN BE TRUSTED, THEN

WHY DO WE HAVE SO MUCH SUFFERING IN THE WORLD TODAY?

WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD GODLY PEOPLE?

JOYCE, DOES GOD CAUSE SUFFERING?"

I GET ASKED THESE QUESTIONS.

"WELL, IF HE DOESN'T CAUSE IT, DOES HE ALLOW IT?

IF HE'S SOVEREIGN AND HE CAN DO ANYTHING, THEN WHY DOESN'T HE

STOP CHILD ABUSE, AND DISEASE, AND WORLD HUNGER,

AND THINGS LIKE THAT?

WHY DO LITTLE CHILDREN SUFFER WITH CANCER?

WHY DO THE GOOD SOMETIMES DIE YOUNG WHILE MEAN PEOPLE LIVE

TO BE OLD?

WHY DID I LOSE MY JOB AND ALL MY RETIREMENT?

WHY DID MY CHILD DIE WHEN I WAS PRAYING FOR THEM TO BE HEALED?"

YOU KNOW, "WHY" CAN ALMOST DRIVE A PERSON TO INSANITY IF THEY

CAN'T COME TO TERMS WITH IT.

AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WE TRIED TO MAKE VERY CLEAR THIS

MORNING IS WE NEED TO GET COMFORTABLE NOT KNOWING.

AND IF YOU WEREN'T HERE THIS MORNING, I WANT TO MAKE SURE

THAT YOU GET TO HEAR THAT AND EVEN IF YOU WERE HERE,

I WANT YOU TO HEAR IT AGAIN.

WE NEED TO GET COMFORTABLE NOT KNOWING BECAUSE THAT'S PART OF

SERVING GOD IS EVEN WHEN WE DON'T KNOW, HE DOES

AND THERE'S--IF WE HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS, THERE'S NO REASON TO

TRUST GOD, YOU UNDERSTAND THAT?

IF WE HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS--WELL, THE ONE THING

THAT MAKES GOD GOD IS WE DON'T KNOW WHAT HE KNOWS.

IF WE EVER KNEW AS MUCH AS HE DID, THEN WE WOULDN'T NEED HIM,

WE'D HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT.

SO, YOU'RE NEVER GONNA HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS.

YOU'RE ALWAYS GONNA HAVE UNANSWERED QUESTIONS, AND THERE

WILL BE THINGS HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE AND TO OTHER PEOPLE THAT

YOU JUST CANNOT WRAP YOUR BRAIN AROUND AND YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO

GET COMFORTABLE SAYING, "WELL, GOD, I DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER BUT

I TRUST YOU AND I TRUST THAT IF AND WHEN I NEED THAT ANSWER THAT

YOU'LL GIVE IT TO ME."

SO, IF I TRY TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS AND OTHERS LIKE IT, IF

YOU WERE TO COME TO ME AND ASK ME ALL THOSE QUESTIONS, HERE'S

WHAT I WOULD HAVE TO SAY TO YOU, I DON'T KNOW.

[AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

JOYCE: AND I THINK ONE OF THE BIGGEST MISTAKES THAT TEACHERS

AND PREACHERS MAKE IS TRYING TO ANSWER QUESTIONS THAT THEY

REALLY DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY GOTTA

SOUND SMART.

AND TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, I DON'T HAVE THE ANSWER TO

ALL THESE THINGS.

I MEAN, THERE'S SOME ANSWERS THAT I CAN GIVE AND I AM GONNA

GIVE YOU SOME REASONS THIS AFTERNOON WHY PEOPLE SUFFER.

IF THERE ARE THINGS THAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT, THEN WE SHOULD

DO IT.

WE CAN LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES AND MAKE SOME CHANGES, BUT I

DON'T HAVE ALL THOSE ANSWERS.

BUT I'LL TELL YA WHAT I DO KNOW, I DO KNOW THAT I KNOW THAT

I KNOW THAT GOD IS GOOD, I KNOW THAT.

AND JUST BECAUSE BAD THINGS HAPPEN, THAT CERTAINLY IS NOT AN

INVITATION FOR US TO BLAME GOD.

THE REASON WHY BAD THINGS HAPPEN IS BECAUSE OF SIN IN THE WORLD.

IT'S NOT NECESSARILY OUR OWN PERSONAL SIN, IT CAN BE.

TO BE HONEST, SOMETIMES WE HAVE TROUBLE IN OUR LIFE JUST BECAUSE

WE DO STUPID STUFF.

CAN ANYBODY JUST AGREE WITH ME ON THAT?

I MEAN, SOMETIMES WE JUST--I MEAN, HOW MUCH BETTER WOULD LIFE

BE, FOR EXAMPLE, IF WE JUST FOLLOWED PEACE?

"I SET BEFORE YOU LIFE AND DEATH, CHOOSE LIFE THAT YOU AND

YOUR DESCENDANTS MIGHT LIVE."

HOW MANY TIMES DO WE MAKE BAD CHOICES AND THEN WHEN WE GET

OURSELVES IN TROUBLE, WE WANT GOD TO GET US OUT OF IT AND THEN

IF HE DOESN'T, WE'RE GETTING MAD AT HIM AND IF WE BACKTRACK,

HE DIDN'T DO WHAT HE TOLD US TO TO START WITH.

NOW, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE LOSE OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.

THAT DOESN'T EVEN NECESSARILY MEAN THAT HE'S MAD AT US, BUT WE

DO HAVE A TAKE A FRESH LOOK TODAY AT WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

ABOUT, "IF YOU SOWED TO THE FLESH, YOU'LL REAP FROM

THE FLESH, RUIN, DECAY, AND DESTRUCTION.

IF YOU SOW TO THE SPIRIT, YOU'LL REAP FROM THE SPIRIT, LIFE,

AND LIFE ETERNAL."

YOU SEE, GOD LOVES US AND THAT IS NOT BASED ON ANYTHING WE DO

OR DON'T DO.

AND WHEN WE GET OURSELVES IN TROUBLE, IT HURTS GOD MORE THAN

IT EVEN HURTS US.

LET ME TELL YA SOMETHING, IF YOU HAVE A CHILD THAT'S IN TROUBLE,

I HEARD AN INTERESTING STATEMENT AND I BELIEVE IT, A MOTHER IS

NEVER ANY HAPPIER THAN HER MOST UNHAPPY CHILD.

LET ME TELL YA, WHEN YOUR KIDS ARE HURTING, YOU WOULD RATHER

TAKE IT ON YOURSELF THAN TO WATCH THEM GO THROUGH THE THINGS

THAT THEY GO THROUGH AND ESPECIALLY IF IT'S BECAUSE OF

THEIR OWN BAD CHOICES.

YOU'RE JUST LIKE, "I JUST WANNA OPEN UP YOUR HEAD AND CRAM

THE TRUTH IN YOU AND I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU JUST WON'T LISTEN."

BUT SOMETIMES WE JUST HAVE TO STAND BACK AND LET THEM FIND OUT

FOR THEMSELVES AND SOMETIMES THAT'S WHAT GOD HAS TO DO

WITH US.

HE TELLS US WHAT TO DO, IF WE DON'T DO IT, HE STILL LOVES US,

BUT THERE IS A PRINCIPLE AT WORK IN THE EARTH FROM GENESIS ALL

THE WAY THROUGH TO THE END OF TIME AND THAT IS THAT IF YOU SOW

A GOOD SEED, YOU'RE GONNA GET A GOOD RESULT AND IF YOU SOW

A BAD SEED, YOU'RE GONNA GET A BAD RESULT.

SO YES, SOME OF OUR PROBLEMS ARE THE RESULT OF OUR OWN SIN BUT

WHEN I HAVE TROUBLE, WHEN I HAVE PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE, I'VE GOT

A GOOD ENOUGH RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD THAT I CAN GO TO HIM AND

SAY, "IS THERE SOMETHING I DID THAT OPENED THE DOOR FOR THIS?"

BECAUSE I WANNA LEARN.

IF I'M--YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES, SOMETIMES I CAN ACT DUMB AND I

DON'T KNOW THAT I'M ACTING DUMB.

SOMETIMES, I'VE DONE SOMETHING THAT, YOU KNOW, GOD NEEDS TO

SHOW ME BECAUSE TO BE HONEST, SOMETIMES WE DO THINGS

AND WE DO THEM SO QUICK THAT WE DON'T EVEN REALLY REALIZE THAT

WE DID THEM.

ONE NIGHT I WAS HAVING A REAL HARD TIME SLEEPING AND I WISH

I WOULD HAVE ASKED GOD THIS QUESTION SOONER BUT I WAITED

TILL 5 A.M.

AFTER TOSSING AND TURNING ALL NIGHT.

"GOD, WHAT'S WRONG?" AND I MEAN JUST LIKE THAT HE

SHOWED ME SOMEBODY THAT I WAS RUDE TO THE DAY BEFORE AND I

JUST--THAT HAPPENED SO QUICK AND I JUST GLOSSED OVER IT SO FAST,

DIDN'T EVEN REMEMBER THAT I DID IT.

AND IT REALLY WAS SOMETHING I NEEDED TO GO AND APOLOGIZE TO

THAT PERSON FOR AND THAT WASN'T GONNA HAPPEN IF GOD DIDN'T

REVEAL TO ME WHAT I HAD DONE.

AND SO, IN HIS GOODNESS--EVERYBODY SAY,

"GOODNESS."

AUDIENCE: GOODNESS.

JOYCE: IN HIS GOODNESS, HE WAS DISTURBING MY SLEEP

UNTIL I GOT SMART ENOUGH TO SAY,

"WHAT'S GOING ON HERE?" AND HE SHOWED ME, NOT TO MAKE ME

FEEL BAD BUT SO I COULD GO AND TAKE CARE OF IT.

SO, IT'S SMART SOMETIMES TO JUST SAY, "GOD, DID I OPEN A DOOR

HERE?

IS THERE SOMETHING THAT I'VE DONE THAT YOU NEED TO SHOW ME?"

IF HE DOESN'T SHOW YOU ANYTHING, THEN DON'T GO ON A DIGGING

EXPEDITION TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT YOUR SIN WAS THAT CAUSED

YOU TO HAVE PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE.

CAN YOU HEAR ME TODAY?

THAT IS THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD TO DO.

"WELL, GOD MUST BE PUNISHING ME OR I MUST'VE DONE SOMETHING

WRONG."

YOU KNOW WHAT?

GOD WILL LET YOU KNOW IF THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED TO SEE AND IF

HE DOESN'T SHOW YOU, THEN YOU DON'T NEED TO TRY TO FIGURE IT

OUT?

CAN ANYBODY SAY, "AMEN"?

AND SO, SOMETIMES OUR OWN SIN CAUSES OUR PROBLEMS.

MANY TIMES, THE SIN OF OTHER PEOPLE CAUSES US PAIN

AND UNHAPPINESS.

IT WAS NOT MY SIN THAT CAUSED MY FATHER TO SEXUALLY ABUSE ME,

IT WAS HIS SIN AND I JUST WAS THERE AND GOT HURT BY IT.

IT WAS MY MOTHER'S PASSIVITY AND HER REFUSING TO DO HER DUTY AND

DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THAT CAUSED MY PAIN.

AND YES, THAT'S UNJUST AND YES, THAT'S UNFAIR BUT HERE'S THE

GOOD NEWS, ONCE A PERSON IS OLD ENOUGH TO START MAKING THEIR OWN

CHOICES--MY FATHER'S BAD CHOICES HURT ME AND I WISH THAT GOD

WOULD HAVE GOT ME OUT OF IT, BUT HE DIDN'T, HOWEVER, AS SOON AS I

WAS OLD ENOUGH TO START MAKING MY OWN CHOICES,

EVERY GOOD CHOICE THAT I MADE STARTED REVERSING

THE RESULTS OF EVERY BAD CHOICE THAT HE MADE.

DID YOU HEAR ME?

SO, INSTEAD OF SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE BEING MAD AND

BITTER BECAUSE SOMEBODY DIDN'T TREAT YOU RIGHT AND SPENDING ALL

YOUR LIFE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY, WHY DON'T YOU JUST LEAVE

ALL THAT WITH GOD AND TRUST HIM TO DO SOMETHING ELSE THAT I KNOW

THAT HE DOES AND THAT IS HE WORKS GOOD OUT OF ANYTHING IN

OUR LIFE, NO MATTER HOW BAD IT WAS, IF WE TRUST HIM TO DO IT.

SO, TWO THINGS I KNOW ABOUT GOD, GOD IS GOOD, THE DEVIL'S BAD,

GOD IS GOOD.

AND NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN OUR LIFE, IF WE TRUST GOD, HE

WILL TAKE IT AND WORK SOMETHING GOOD OUT OF IT FOR OUR BENEFIT.

IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE GOOD FOR GOD TO GET GOOD OUT OF IT, AMEN?

AND SO, MY DAD HURT ME, JUST LIKE MANY OF YOU HAVE BEEN HURT,

MANY OF YOU'VE BEEN MISTREATED AND CHANCES ARE YOU MAY BE

AGAIN.

YOU KNOW, WE'RE IN THE WORLD AND THERE'S A LOT OF MEAN PEOPLE OUT

THERE THAT ARE VERY SELFISH AND SELF-CENTERED.

AND TO BE HONEST, WE HURT OTHER PEOPLE TOO SOMETIMES AND WE

DON'T EVEN KNOW THAT WE DID IT OR IT'S MAYBE ON A DAY WHEN WE

REALLY JUST DON'T CARE ALL THAT MUCH BECAUSE WE'RE GOING THROUGH

SOMETHING OURSELF AND WE'RE NOT BEING SENSITIVE TO THE WAY OTHER

PEOPLE FEEL.

AND SO, EVERYTHING DOESN'T ALWAYS GO THE WAY THAT WE WANT

IT TO GO IN OUR LIFE BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE GOD BAD.

SO, WE CAN SUFFER BECAUSE OF OUR OWN SIN.

WE CAN SUFFER BECAUSE OF SOMEBODY ELSE'S SIN, OR A LOT OF

TIMES, AND THIS IS JUST A LOT OF IT, WE JUST SUFFER BECAUSE OF

THE SIN PRINCIPLE THAT'S IN THE WORLD.

I MEAN, THEY'RE JUST--I DON'T EVEN THINK THAT WE CAN IMAGINE

THE DIFFERENCE THERE WILL BE IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF HEAVEN

COMPARED TO THE ATMOSPHERE THAT WE LIVE IN HERE.

I DON'T THINK WE EVEN UNDERSTAND THE PRESSURE THAT WE'RE UNDER

AND THE OPPRESSION THAT'S AROUND US.

LET ME TELL YA SOMETHING, IF YOU WORK IN SOME WORLDLY PROFESSION

AND YOU WORK WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT ARE UNBELIEVERS AND

A LOT OF GOSSIP, AND A LOT OF CRITICISM, A LOT OF COMPLAINING,

AND MURMURING, AND GRUMBLING, AND FAULT FINDING AND, YOU KNOW,

A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE OUT DRUNK THE NIGHT BEFORE, NOW THEY'RE AT

WORK AND THEY'RE MAD, COULDN'T GET ANY SLEEP, SO ON AND SO

FORTH, IF YOU WORKED THERE FOR 5 YEARS AND YOU CAME TO WORK FOR

ME, I MEAN, ONE OF THE THINGS I TELL OUR EMPLOYEES, AND THEY ALL

RECOGNIZE THIS, JUST THE ATMOSPHERE BECAUSE EVERY PLACE

YOU WORK, THERE'S A CULTURE.

AND SO, WE HAVE BUILT A CULTURE IN THE JOYCE MEYER MINISTRY OF

BEING POSITIVE, AND BEING ABLE TO TRUST EACH OTHER, AND HAPPY

PEOPLE, AND WE DON'T PUT UP WITH STRIFE.

IF YOU'RE GONNA WORK FOR ME, AND YOU'RE GONNA CAUSE STRIFE,

YOU'RE NOT GONNA WORK THERE VERY LONG BECAUSE YOU CANNOT HAVE

STRIFE AND ALSO HAVE SUCCESS, AMEN?

[AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

JOYCE: AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT PASTOR MIKE SHEPARD DOES IS

HE DOES ROTATING TEACHINGS IN THE DEPARTMENTS ON OUR

CORE VALUES AT JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES,

WHICH IS IF YOU'RE GONNA DO IT, DO IT RIGHT OR DON'T DO IT AT

ALL, BE AN EXCELLENT PERSON BECAUSE GOD IS EXCELLENT,

BE A PERSON OF INTEGRITY, KEEP YOUR WORD, DO WHAT

YOU SAY YOU'RE GONNA DO, USE WISDOM WITH GOD'S MONEY.

THE MONEY THAT HE GIVES US, WE DON'T WASTE IT, WE USE WISDOM

WITH IT, AND WE KEEP THE STRIFE OUT OF OUR PERSONAL LIVES,

AND WE KEEP THE STRIFE OUT OF THE MINISTRY.

THERE IS NO BASIS FOR ME TO ASK GOD TO BLESS MY MINISTRY IF I'M

NOT GONNA DO THOSE BASIC THINGS THAT HE ASKS US TO DO.

LET ME TELL YA SOMETHING, SO MANY HOMES ARE FULL OF STRIFE.

I MEAN, YOU CAN COME TO CHURCH AND PUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE,

GET YOUR CHURCH FACE OUT WHEN YOU HIT THE PARKING LOT, "PRAISE

THE LORD, THANK YOU, JESUS, GLORY TO GOD, WE'RE SO HAPPY,

YAPPY, YAPPY HAPPY," AND GET IN THE CAR AND FIGHT ALL THE WAY

BACK HOME.

WELL, THAT'S--YOU KNOW--

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: COME ON, I KNOW, DAVE AND I USED TO DO IT.

WE DID IT FOR YEARS.

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: FIGHT ALL THE WAY TO CHURCH.

I MEAN, I CAN REMEMBER STANDING IN THE--RIGHT DOWN HERE WHERE

PASTOR CHARLES IS SITTING, THAT WAS MY SEAT AT THE CHURCH THAT

I WENT TO YEARS AGO.

AND I CAN REMEMBER HAVING MY HANDS LIFTED UP, MOUTHING THE

WORDS ON THE OVERHEAD THINKING, IF DAVE THINKS I'M COOKING HIM

ANYTHING TO EAT TODAY, HE'S GOT ANOTHER THING COMING.

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: [SINGING]

♪ I BRING THE SACRIFICE ♪ ♪ OF PRAISE INTO ♪

♪ THE HOUSE OF THE LORD ♪ ♪ BOOP, BOOP, BOOP ♪♪

COME ON, HOW MANY OF YOU KNOW THAT SONG, YOU KNOW?

"NOW, GO AND HUG SOMEBODY AND TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM WITH

THE LOVE OF THE LORD."

AND I'M THINKING, IF WE GO HOME AND HE TURNS THAT STUPID

FOOTBALL GAME ON ONE MORE TIME, ONE MORE SUNDAY, THERE'S GONNA

BE TROUBLE IN THE HOUSE.

SO, I MEAN THAT'S JUST A BUNCH OF PHONY BOLOGNA RELIGION.

IT'S NOT--I MEAN, ALL WE'RE DOING IS THROWING THE DOOR WIDE

OPEN TO THE ENEMY AND THINGS LIKE THAT.

AND SO, THERE'S JUST OUR OWN SIN, THERE'S THE SIN OF OTHER

PEOPLE, THERE'S JUST THE SIN PRINCIPLE IN THE WORLD.

AND SO, WE JUST--WE DON'T EVEN BEGIN TO REALIZE--I MEAN, I JUST

CAN'T--I MEAN, I DON'T WANNA LEAVE BEFORE MY TIME BUT I CAN'T

WAIT TO GET TO HEAVEN AND JUST SEE HOW WONDERFUL IT'S GONNA BE

TO NOT HURT ANYWHERE, AMEN, NOWHERE.

[AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

JOYCE: I WALK 5 MILES A DAY AND THAT'S ONE OF THE THINGS

THAT HELPS ME STAY STRONG.

AND MY DAUGHTER CAME OVER TO WALK WITH ME A COUPLE OF WEEKS

AGO ON A SUNDAY AND SOMETHING WAS BOTHERING HER, SOMETHING WAS

HURTING HER.

AND SHE SAID, "HOW ARE YOU TODAY?"

YOU KNOW, 'CAUSE I'VE IN THE LAST 3 YEARS, I'VE HAD BOTH

HIPS REPLACED.

YOU KNOW, IT'S SO GREAT TODAY, IF YOU WEAR SOMETHING OUT, YOU

CAN JUST GET A REPLACEMENT PART. I MEAN, THEY JUST--

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: MAN, THEY CAN REPLACE EVERYTHING TODAY.

I MEAN, YOU CAN GET YOUR SHOULDER REPLACED, YOUR ANKLE

REPLACED, YOU KNEES REPLACED, MAN.

YOU CAN GET HEART TRANSPLANTS.

IT'S JUST PRETTY COOL, YOU KNOW, YOU JUST--HOWEVER WHEN OUR

TIME'S UP, THERE'S NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.

BUT ANYWAY, SO, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, I'VE HAD BACK PROBLEMS

DIFFERENT TIMES IN MY LIFE, SO ON AND SO FORTH.

SO, YOU KNOW, YADA, YADA, THAT'S JUST PART OF LIFE.

AND SO, SOMETHING WAS HURTING HER AND SHE MENTIONED IT AND SHE

SAID, "HOW ARE YOU TODAY?

IS EVERYTHING OKAY?" I SAID, "OH, I DON'T KNOW.

YOU KNOW, IT'S ALWAYS SOMETHING, ONE THING OR ANOTHER.

I DON'T PAY ANY ATTENTION TO IT, I JUST KEEP ON GOING."

AND SO, WE DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT IT'S GONNA BE LIKE TO HAVE

A GLORIFIED BODY AND TO NOT HAVE ANYTHING THAT HURTS, OR ANYTHING

THAT BOTHERS US, AND TO BE IN AN ATMOSPHERE OF TOTAL

AND COMPLETE LOVE AND TRUST.

SO, LET ME TELL YA SOMETHING, IT'S A LITTLE HARDER TO LIVE IN

THIS WORLD AND BE HAPPY THAN WHAT WE MIGHT THINK IT IS

SOMETIMES JUST BECAUSE OF ALL THE JUNK GOING ON AROUND US.

CAN ANYBODY SAY "AMEN" TO THAT?

I MEAN, IF YOU WATCH TELEVISION TODAY, YOU BETTER DO IT WITH

A REMOTE CONTROL IN YOUR HAND SO YOU CAN FAST FORWARD PAST ALL

THE STUFF THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO POISON YOUR SOUL.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR GOOD RESPONSE.

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: SO, THERE'S A LOT OF DIFFERENT REASONS WHY THINGS

HAPPEN TO US AND WE CAN ASK GOD FOR SOME EXPLANATION FOR SOME

THINGS BUT WE'RE NOT EVER GONNA GET THE ANSWER TO ALL

THOSE THINGS SO--.

SAY, "GOD IS GOOD.

THE DEVIL'S BAD, AND GOD WORKS GOOD OUT OF ANYTHING

IF WE TRUST HIM."

HOW MANY OF YOU BELIEVE THAT AND YOU'VE EXPERIENCED THAT

IN YOUR LIFE?

MAN, I'VE SEEN THAT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER.

OKAY, LET'S TALK ABOUT SOME REASONS WHY WE SUFFER.

HOW MANY OF YOU WANT TO AT LEAST ELIMINATE SOME OF THE THINGS

IF YOU CAN, AMEN?

1 THESSALONIANS 5:18, "THANK [GOD] IN EVERYTHING," WOW, "[NO

MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES MIGHT BE, BE THANKFUL AND GIVE

THANKS], FOR THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD FOR YOU [WHO ARE] IN

CHRIST JESUS [THE REVEALER AND MEDIATOR OF THAT WILL]."

YOU KNOW, BEING THANKFUL FOR WHAT WE DO HAVE REALLY HELPS US

GET THROUGH THE TIMES WHEN WE DON'T HAVE WHAT WE'D LIKE

TO HAVE.

I'M GONNA SAY IT AGAIN, BEING THANKFUL FOR WHAT WE DO HAVE

HELPS US MAKE IT THROUGH THE TIMES WHEN IT'S DIFFICULT

BECAUSE WE HAVE NEEDS THAT ARE NOT BEING MET YET.

OUR WORDS OF GRATITUDE--I WROTE THIS DOWN AND I COLORED IT IN

'CAUSE I SAID IT AND I LIKED IT.

OUR WORDS OF GRATITUDE IN THE FACE OF SUFFERING, ESPECIALLY

UNJUST SUFFERING, ARE A STRONGER PROOF OF OUR TRUST IN GOD MORE

THAN ANY OTHER THING THAT I KNOW OF.

WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING UNJUST, UNFAIR,

UNKIND, IT'S JUST NOT RIGHT, AND YOU CAN STILL THANK GOD ON THOSE

DAYS AND REALLY MEAN IT, THAT'S A VERY STRONG PROOF THAT YOU

HAVE YOUR TRUST IN GOD.

[AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

JOYCE: PSALM 103:20 SAYS THAT ANGELS HEARKEN TO THE WORD

OF GOD, THEY DON'T HEARKEN TO OUR COMPLAINING.

YOU'VE GOT A LOT OF ANGELS THAT YOU COULD PUT TO WORK IN YOUR

LIFE BY JUST COMPLAINING A LOT LESS AND GIVING A LOT MORE

THANKS.

WE'RE ALL SO MUCH MORE BLESSED THAN WHAT WE THINK THAT WE ARE

MANY TIMES, AMEN.

[AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

JOYCE: IT WAS NEVER GOD'S INTENT FOR PEOPLE TO SUFFER.

WHEN HE PUT ADAM AND EVE IN THE GARDEN,

HE HAD GREAT PLANS FOR NOTHING BUT THEIR JOY AND GOOD DAYS.

IT WASN'T GOD THAT MESSED IT UP.

IT WAS PEOPLE THAT MESSED IT UP.

WE'VE GOT TO QUIT BLAMING GOD FOR THINGS THAT HE'S NOT

RESPONSIBLE FOR.

DON'T EVER SAY WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM,

"WELL GOD, DON'T YOU LOVE ME?" DON'T EVER SAY THAT.

IN ROMANS 8 IT SAYS, "DON'T LET ANYTHING SEPARATE YOU FROM

THE LOVE OF GOD THAT IS FOUND IN CHRIST JESUS, NOT TROUBLE,

OR TRIALS, OR SEEMINGLY UNFAIR THINGS."

DON'T EVER SAY, "WELL GOD, DON'T YOU LOVE ME?"

THE VERY FACT THAT HE SENT JESUS TO DIE FOR YOUR SINS IS PROOF

ENOUGH THAT HE LOVES YOU TO LAST US A WHOLE ENTIRE LIFETIME.

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JOYCE: AND I KNOW THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY

WATCHING BY TV, AND MAYBE YOU DON'T KNOW AS MUCH ABOUT

THE BIBLE AS SOME OF THE PEOPLE IN THIS ROOM.

AND TO BE HONEST, WE'RE GLAD TO BE HERE TO PREACH TO THEM AND

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AND ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WHY I'M DOING THIS IS BECAUSE OF ALL

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OF YOUR PROBLEMS.

THE THIEF, SATAN, ONLY COMES TO KILL, STEAL, AND DESTROY.

BUT JESUS SAID, "I CAME THAT YOU MIGHT HAVE AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE

AND HAVE IT IN ABUNDANCE TO THE FULL UNTIL IT OVERFLOWS."

AND GOD WILL HELP YOU IF YOU WILL LET HIM.

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BANG, Mary, Kill Ladies' Edition | Jill Maurer - Duration: 13:08.

It is Bang Marry Kill ladies' edition, Valentine style!

Hello and welcome back or welcome if this is your first time.

My name is Jill Maurer, and today I am here with Sarah Tudor.

Sarah: Hi I'm Sarah.

I'm a graphic designer and photographer.

Jill: She's not just a graphic designer and photographer.

She's and awesome graphic designer and photographer.

Sarah is the reason that Jill Maurer and Maurer Limited are branded so well and look so good.

Sarah: Thank you.

Jill: Oh yeah!

Alright we're going to play Bang Marry Kill, and today is Valentine's Day.

I did this before with Artimus, and it was a lot of fun.

And a lot of you liked it so I decided I would con Sarah into playing with me.

So we'll see how it goes.

Sarah: I'm ready.

Jill: Alright so I have my mine in this little cup, and what do you have?

Sarah: I've got mine in this little cup.

Jill: Which makes me feel so good because Artimus was so high tech about everything.

Sarah: Oh no.

Jill: So we'll switch now.

Sarah: Who goes first?

Jill: You get to go first.

You're a guest.

Sarah: Alright so ... Carrie Bradshaw, Samantha Jones, and Miranda Hobbs.

Hmmmm.

Jill: Ok so if you don't know, those are Sex and the City characters.

Sarah: Yes which I've seen probably four times through all of the seasons.

Jill: Oh!

Sarah: So this is a good one for me.

I would say that I would kill Miranda.

Easy.

Jill: Ok Sarah: Bang Samantha.

Easy, and marry Carrie.

Jill: Ok!

Sarah: Yeah.

Jill: So you would marry Carrie over ... Why was ... why was kill Miranda so easy?

Sarah: Miranda's annoying!

Jill: I don't know.

I feel like she would have ... I would think she would have your back.

Sarah: I just think that we might clash.

You know?

She's just like really particular, and I can be really particular.

Jill: Ah yeah!

You're both strong characters.

I actually really like Miranda a lot.

Carrie might drive me nuts because she can get kind of um flakey and flighty a little

bit.

Sarah: That's true.

That's true.

Jill: But ... but this is your ... Sarah: But Samantha definitely Jill: That's what

you do with Samantha Sarah: That's what ... exactly!

(Both laughing) Jill: Oooh!

These are like on notepaper like in grade school.

Sarah: Oh yeah.

Jill: And it's handwritten!

Nice!

Alright so here we go.

Stephen Colbert, John Stewart, and Jimmy Fallon.

Sarah: Oooooh!

Jill: Ooooh!

Hmmm ... well this one is easy for me.

I'm (sigh) so upset with John Stewart.

So upset ... because he got married, and he never did ... he didn't ask me ... Sarah:

Oh rude.

Jill: You know we would be married if he had just asked or even met me, and so ... I'm

going to go with John Stewart who is really I feel supposed to be the love of my life.

And I think I'm gonna kill Stephen Colbert.

Sorry about that.

Sarah: Agreed Jill: And bang Jimmy Fallon.

I think Jimmy Fallon would be fun.

Sarah: I think that's a strong choice.

Jill: Ok.

Sarah: I can accept that.

Alright!

Here we go!

This is Game of Thrones which is my favorite show as well as everyone else on the planet's

favorite show.

Alright so our characters are Jon Snow who is just ... Let's just say he used to be the

background on my phone for about a year so...

The next one is Khal Drogo who ... Super super hot, but he was ... I don't know ... The way

he treated Khaleesi just wasn't the best.

The third one is Joffrey, and Joffrey is probably the most hated character on television.

I would say, so we're definitely going to kill Joffrey.

I'm gonna bang Khal, Khal Drogo and marry Jon Snow for sure.

Jill: Nice!

Now I have a confession to make.

Sarah: Uh oh.

Jill: I haven't seen Game of Thrones.

Sarah: Noooo!

Jill: I don't have HBO.

I really want to see Game of Thrones, and I will tell you that when people come to trade

shows, and they see my jewelry all lined up in the cases, the first thing they ask me

is.

Oh you must be a Game of Thrones fan ... based on my jewelry.

Sarah: Girl you gotta watch it!

Jill: I know I do.

Sarah: I mean it's worth it just for Jon Snow.

Jill: ok Sarah: Yeah.

Trust me.

And and Khal Drogo actually, but he's only in the first few seasons.

Spoiler alert?

Jill: Alright so my turn.

Let's see.

Let's see.

Who do we have?

Britney Spears, Adele, and Rihanna.

I'm going to kill off Britney Spears.

Sarah: Oooh!

Ok.

Jill: I really like her, but she is ... You just never know who you're gonna get.

Sarah: That's fair.

That's accurate.

Jill: And this would be an important moment because it would either be a marriage or a

bang so she's gone.

Alright I'm gonna marry Adele.

Sarah: Yuck!

Jill: What was that?!

Sarah: Adele is just annoying.

Like quit singing about your ex boyfriend.

Get over it.

Move on.

Sing about something new.

Jill: Ok?

Sarah: It's just personal.

Personal feelings.

Jill: I love her voice.

I love her talent.

I thing she's great.

I just think ... I think that Adele would be a lot of fun in real life actually ... if

she ... as long as she's getting all the boyfriend stuff out of her system.

Sarah: Yeah yeah.

Jill: And then Rihanna would be a lot of fun.

Sarah: Yeah.

You gotta bang Rihanna.

Jill: Ok.

I'll do that.

Sarah: Ok so this is from another one of my favorite shows, The Walking Dead.

This show is been on for so long, and I watched every season and most people kind of fall

off by like season 3 or 4, but Jill: Not Sarah.

Sarah: I just like ... me and my dad watch this show together so there's just like kind

of a thing we bond over.

I'm just like attached to the characters.

It's like a like a zombie soap opera honestly, but I'm ok with that.

Jill: Yeah Sarah has a very sort of ... How do you put it?

How do you put this?

Like a the sort of gritty grim you know ... like you can get ... she's got a ... watch out!

Sarah: I like spooky things.

So our characters here are Rick Grimes who is the main character of the show.

And then you've got Negan who is a more recent character, but he's definitely a villain.

We don't like Negan.

And then there's Daryl Dixon who's just like the bad boy sweetheart of the show that everybody

loves.

Jill: I think I see how this is going.

Sarah: Yeah so we're definitely going to kill Negan Jill: Bye bye Sarah: which just should

have done two seasons ago.

Don't worry Maggie I would have killed Negan for you.

I can't decide if I want to marry Rick Grimes.

He's kind of like ... I don't know ... He can be up and down, but he is pretty loyal

so I think I'd go with Rick because he'd probably do better like at just you know nurturing

you know than Daryl Dixon.

But he's probably be really good at the bang so I'm going to bang Daryl Dixon.

Jill: Done.

Sarah: Done.

Jill: Ok now it's me.

Let's see.

Sarah: Alright here we go.

Jill: Who do we have?

Men!

Woohoo!

Well ... one.

Are you trying to tell me something?

Ok.

These are from friends.

We have Ross, Phoebe, and Monica.

Ross, Phoebe, and Monica.

Sarah: I tried to make this one challenging for you.

I didn't want to put all the like favorites.

Jill: Yeah.

Sarah: Not to say that they're not favorites but ... Jill: I have to kill Ross.

Sarah: You'd kill Ross over Phoebe?

Jill: I'm trying to save Ross.

Ok let me see.

Alright I'll kill Phoebe.

She could sing!

Holy cow!

Sarah: Smelly Cat.

Jill: Right!

So I'm gonna kill Phoebe, and I'm definitely going to marry the most masculine which is

Monica of course.

Sarah: Definitely definitely.

Jill: And plus she's a great cook.

That's all good.

And then I'll bang Ross which as long as he doesn't get too whiny I think we'll be ok.

Sarah: Yeah you'll ... you'll survive it.

Jill: Ok.

Sarah: Alright so we've got some some male characters from Sex and the City.

So our characters are Steve Brady which is Miranda's uh lover ... baby daddy.

Jill: Right.

Sarah: Uh Big of course.

And then Jerry Jerrod.

Jill: Smith Sarah: And he's quite the looker.

Jill: mmm hmmm Sarah: So I think Steve is really annoying, but I also can never forgive

Big for like being such a loser, and like just leaving Carrie at the altar.

Um so I'm gonna have to say ... this is really tough Jill: You were right there with the

women.

You had a plan Sarah: I just I thought.

Can I do Kill Kill Bang?

Is that an option?

Jill: There's not one keeper in the bunch is what ... Nope!

You are gonna spend the rest of your life until you pull again out of that cup with

one of these guys.

Sarah: Alright ok Steve Brady gonna kill him.

Sorry.

Sorry.

Miranda you and your husband are gonna be written off the show.

I'm gonna bang Big because that could be fun, but I could never marry someone who is such

a jerk and only thinks about himself.

And I guess I'm gonna marry Jerry Jerrod.

Sounds good.

Jill: Poor you!

That just sounds awful.

I'm so sorry to hear that.

Sarah: That was a tough one.

That was pretty hard.

Jill: That ... See I think he stuck with her all through the cancer.

He was good.

I mean I think he's great.

I would be all about him.

Plus he's fun to look at.

Sarah: Yeah he's great to look at.

Jill: You know when you marry them you get to bang them too.

Sarah: Yeah that's true.

Jill: Ok my turn.

We have Kevin Bacon, Rob Lowe, and James Spader.

Now let's think about this.

I'm gonna kill off James Spader.

So sorry.

I really like both Rob Lowe and Kevin Bacon, and what I do know about both of these guys,

not only are they very very good looking, both of them.

But they have both been married for a long time.

Like these are both good loyal like great husbands, happy wives types of guys so this

is rough.

But I like Kevin Bacon's smile.

I'm gonna go with ... I'm gonna marry Kevin Bacon.

Sarah: Ok Jill: I'm gonna bang Rob Lowe.

And Rob you know I'd do it more than once.

Sarah: Alright so looks like we have a few Justins here.

Jill: The Justin club.

Sarah: The Justin club which is weird because my brother's name is also Justin.

Jill: Not on the list.

Sarah: Not on the list.

Alright so the first contender is Justin Timberlake which I mean come on.

And he ... him and his wife just seem so happy, and they're never like in the news with drama.

They're just low key and chill.

Jill: And there's abs involved.

Sarah: And there is abs.

I mean come on.

And then there's Justin Bieber which you know I kind of liked his most recent album or at

least that song Sorry.

That was good, but his like look is just like.

I don't even know what it is, and I'm not here for it.

And then there's Justin Long who is just kind of adorable.

Jill: Yeah.

Sarah: Just really sweet.

So I think I'm gonna kill Justin Bieber cause I don't think he'd be good for banging or

for marrying.

And ... Jill: Sorry Justin.

I know you're one of my biggest fans, and I'm really sorry about that.

Sarah: Alrighty and then I think that I'm gonna have to end up marrying Justin Timberlake

because he seems like he'd be a good husband.

Jill: Yeah now Jessica Biel looks pretty tough, but I think you could take her.

Sarah: I could definitely take Jessica Biel.

Jill: I think so.

Sarah: No offense Jessica, but ... and like Jessica and Justin that's too many Js.

Jill: Yeah.

There needs to be a Sarah.

Sarah: Sarah.

Yeah.

For sure.

I'm gonna I'm gonna bang Justin Long because I think he'd just be like you know a very

good lover.

He'd like really pay attention to me.

Jill: Yeah.

I think so too.

Sarah: But you know I feel like that could be a one and done thing.

We could cuddle and then be done, but Justin Timberlake (clicks tongue) alright.

I'm coming atcha.

Jill: Oh I do have one more.

I thought that was it.

No.

I get to do one more.

Alright let's see.

Angelina Jolie, Natalie Portman, and Jennifer Aniston.

Sarah: This is a tough one.

Sorry.

Jill: Ok.

This is tough.

Ok.

Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston I know.

You know obviously I don't know any of these women ... just full disclosure.

But I know ... I feel like I know a little bit more about them and their lives just because

their lives have involved ... Now Natalie Portman I know her as an actress.

I know the things that she's done, but I know next to nothing about her.

Sarah: I feel like that's a good sign though.

I feel like with celebrities the less you know about them.

Jill: That's probably true.

Sarah: They have less drama.

They're not trying to be all in the light like Natalie is just like a chill girl.

Jill: Ok.

Alright so I'm marrying Natalie because ... Sarah: That's a great option.

Jill: I don't really like high maintenance.

And um Angelina Jolie, you know, I don't know all the details, but that whole thing with

her and ending up with Jennifer Aniston's husband was a little shady.

So between the two of them I'm going to be team Jennifer.

Sarah: Good call.

Jill: And so Angelina is dead.

So sorry, and I do really like her as an actor.

Um but it's gonna be bang Jennifer Aniston, marry Natalie Portman, and Angelina Jolie

is out of there.

So that's it.

So what did you think about Valentine's Bang Marry Kill?

Sarah: I thought it was really good.

I I'm happy that you included a lot of my favorite shows.

Jill: Yeah.

Sarah: It was very relevant for me.

Um and they were they were hard decisions so good job.

Jill: Nice!

Well what did you think about Valentine's Bang Marry Kill?

Let us know in the comments below.

And please subscribe because you know we'd love to see you again.

Do you want to say "until next time"?

Sarah: Yeah.

3 2 1 Sarah: Until ..... Wait are we saying it together or am I just saying it?

Jill: No you're gonna do it.

Ok we'll both do it.

3 2 1 Both Together: Until next time!

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final video ... you are sorely mistaken.

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Stop Giving Power to Your Bad Boss - Duration: 17:19.

Okay, so having a bad boss does suck.

But, are you making your bad boss more powerful than they actually need to be?

Odds are you probably are.

So today, we're talking about how you might be doing that without even knowing that you

are and I'm gonna give you five tips on how to take your power back.

Let's get started.

Hi, I am Mel Savage, founder of The Career Reset where my goal is to help you end your

needless career suffering and create a career that makes you feel confident, and powerful,

and excited to get out of bed in the morning.

Check out my free tools and course options at thecareerreset.com and don't forget to

subscribe to my channel.

Okay, so let's get to it.

You have a bad boss.

Now, what really makes your bad boss a bad boss?

Usually, it has something to do with the impact that they're having on you, right?

How they're treating you.

Your opinion on how qualified they are to do their job, right?

Are they creating more work than needs to be done, than you think that needs to be done?

Do you believe that they're effective at driving towards goals, making things happen?

Are they treating you and your team with the respect that you think that you deserve to

be treated with, right?

Do they make you feel unqualified?

Do they make you feel stupid?

Do they make you feel lazy?

Any of those things are good reasons to think that you have a bad boss.

But, none of those reasons, none of those things, are actually in your bad boss's control, okay?

Everything I just listed off are things that you are in control of, things that you are

thinking about your bad boss, and just because you think them doesn't make them true.

These are simply your opinions on the qualifications, or actions, or decisions that your bad boss

is making, and they might suck, but they're still your opinions.

You can decide whether you wanna focus on what's working with your boss or what's not

working with your boss, right?

Because nobody's perfect and you can always find things that aren't working if you want

to.

Now, you might be thinking, "Wait a second, my bad boss is actually an unqualified idiot

who is obviously out to get me, and treats me like shit all the time."

Okay.

There's probably some truth in that.

You're not crazy.

But, I'm gonna talk to you about that in a second.

First, what you need to focus on fixing are the things you can control.

And then, you're gonna be in a better position to deal with the rest of what's going on more

effectively.

So here's my question to you, are you exacerbating your bad boss situation?

And more than exacerbating it, in some cases, are you actually creating it?

So here is my bottom line upfront, the odds are you are making your bad boss way more

powerful than they really are, okay?

So, if you're the subordinate ... so from a subordinate perspective, you're the person

with a bad boss, okay.

There are two things that you might be doing to actually create, or make your bad boss

situation worse, right?

Making them more powerful than they really are.

The first thing is you're thinking they have way more control over your career than they

actually do.

And the second thing is you're blaming them for things that you believe, or think about

yourself or your situation.

Okay, so let's start with that first thing, okay?

That you think they have control over your career.

Now, your boss is senior to you by definition, okay?

They allegedly have some kind of special skill or experience that has qualified them for

this position, and you report to them.

So, that puts them in a position of authority, meaning their decisions about the work that

happens on the team is ultimately the final decision.

But, what most people do is they think that because your boss has authority over your

team, they also have authority over your success, your advancement, your stability, right?

And that threatens your sense of safety, and security, which are our basic human needs.

And because you feel more threatened by what your boss says versus what other people say

about you, what you actually think about yourself, you let the things your boss does and says

have a more powerful impact on you, and you end up giving your boss more power than they

deserve.

Because while they might have the last word on what the team does, they don't have the

last word on your career, okay?

Only you have control over your career.

You get to decide where you work.

You decide how long you work there.

You decide if you wanna leave that situation because it doesn't work for you anymore.

You can build your own support network.

You can rally your stakeholders around you.

You can keep your career options open, right?

You decide how you're gonna show up and react to things.

And even though your boss has a strong voice at the table, if they ever wanted to fire

you, they are not the only voice at the table, right?

It's way harder to fire someone than you think it is.

And depending on the size and the structure of your organization that you're working for,

it's really rare that just one person can make a decision on firing someone.

So, don't give your boss power that they don't deserve.

They do not control the safety and security of your career.

You do.

Now, the second thing I mentioned was you're blaming your boss for things that you actually

believe or think about yourself, okay.

And when you do that, when you blame others for how you feel or how you think, you give

them power and you play the role of the victim.

And I know that's a really shitty word.

People don't like it.

No one wants to think of themselves as a victim.

It's not how we see ourselves, right?

I was a victim for many years and I didn't see it.

And you know what?

I still catch myself playing the victim sometimes.

So, let's clarify things for a second, okay?

Being a victim is not a bad thing.

It doesn't mean you're not capable, or you're not smart, or you're not strong, or you're

not an all-around amazingly qualified individual.

All it means is that you're not taking responsibility for how you feel.

But, once you recognize the fact that you're being a victim, you can disarm it.

You can take your power back, right?

And there are some easy telltale signs that you're headed towards going into a victim

state and giving your power away, right?

Blaming, and in this case, blaming your boss for how you feel about something, or how you

feel about yourself, right?

You're sort of abdicating your responsibility.

Complaining, you complain a lot about your boss.

That's a sign that you're going into a victim state, right?

Usually you do it behind their back because you're hiding and you don't wanna be attacked.

That's victim-y.

And self-pity, you feel sorry for yourself because you're trapped in this situation,

right?

How many of you use the word trapped to describe your situation, right?

I know I did.

It's very victim-y.

You're not trapped.

You're making yourself trapped.

And then, defensiveness.

Defensiveness is a pretty big clue that you're going into a victim-y mentality, okay?

So the minute you start getting defensive about something, take a deep breath, and check

yourself, and just listen, and don't take things personally.

Okay?

Now, I really wanna give you a few tips on how to avoid making your bad boss situation

worse by giving them all your power, and then we can wrap this up.

Okay?

So the first thing you can do to avoid power to your bad boss is watch what you make things

mean, okay?

When someone is in that sort of victim-y state where they're giving other people control

over how they feel, they are becoming the victim of their story, right?

They're starting to think something is happening to them, which really just means that you

think something is happening to you, okay.

You spin whatever is happening into something that was directed at you, right?

You're taking it personally.

Your boss didn't invite you to a meeting, or to lunch, or whatever, and you automatically

think that's about you, and you think it's happening to you.

So, let's go through an example and this is an example that actually happened to me, or

with me, I guess.

But, I'm giving you sort of an abridged version of it so we don't talk about this for a long

time.

So, I'm in a meeting with a lot of people.

My team is there, my subordinates are there, my suppliers are there.

And I throw this idea in a meeting, and my boss says, "No.

We're not gonna do that.

That's not a strategic thing to do."

So, I go right into, "Not a strategic thing to do?

That must mean I'm not smart enough and now everybody in this room thinks I'm not smart

enough."

And I immediately spin out into victim-state.

I stop talking in the meeting, which is hiding.

I felt sorry for myself that my boss was treating me so disrespectfully, which is self-pity.

And then I sulked, and then I complained afterwards, not to my boss, but behind her back.

Was my boss's comment a leadership-driven way to react to my comment?

No, I would not reccomend that leaders behave that way.

But, does it also mean that I'm an idiot and I'm not smart enough to do my job?

No.

I could just as easily have shooken off her comment as her leadership style, and just

kept adding value to the meeting.

Not hiding, not going into self-pity mode, right?

If someone approached me after the fact and sort of said, "Did you hear what she said

about you?"

Right?

I could've just acted like it wasn't a big deal.

Just because she says that I'm not strategic doesn't mean I'm not strategic.

It just means, you know, maybe she doesn't wanna do that and she said it in a weird way.

Whatever.

In the end, that's just a boss reacting badly.

It has nothing to do with me.

It doesn't mean anything.

You can choose not to give away your power in those kinds of situations.

Okay, number two.

If your boss says something that hurts you it's because you believe it.

Okay.

Let me give you a crazy ass example to illustrate this.

Lets say you come to work with a blue suit on, okay, and someone comes up to you and

says, "Hey, they hate the white suit you're wearing," which sounds weird.

You're wearing a blue suit and someone says they don't like your white suit.

I know that sounds totally weird, but I'm exaggerating to make a point.

When the person says they don't like your white suit, you don't believe them, right?

You don't give any meaning to what they're saying, it doesn't hurt you, you don't go

into a victim mentality because you know you're not wearing a white suit, you're wearing a

blue suit, right?

You are 100% confident that that person is either wrong, or it doesn't even affect because

it's just whatever.

It's something they were saying.

But, when someone says something to you and part of you believes it, it has a much bigger

impact, right?

If someone insinuates that you're stupid, or that you're not good enough for this job,

or there's something wrong with you, the reason what they're saying gets to you is because

a part of you believes that what they're saying is true, right?

So, when you have an exchange with your boss that triggers something in you, stop, and

think about what it is that you believe about yourself that your boss just triggered.

And then, ask yourself is that thing really true?

Am I really stupid?

Am I really not good enough?

Am I really not strategic, right?

Or is it just my boss acting out badly?

Okay.

Tip number three, let your boss's boss worry about your boss.

Okay.

So if your boss actually is really bad at their job, the chances are you're not the

only one who's noticing, or being impacted by it.

And in most cases, it's not in your best interests to worry about it.

So, even if you decide you're gonna go to your boss's boss and position it as, "I'm

telling you this in the best interests of the organization or the team," even that is

often not well-received, okay?

So, unless there's something really dire going on, I'd leave it alone.

At the most, maybe start documenting things.

If you put the majority of your energy focusing on yourself, and how you're showing up, that's

gonna take care of a majority of the challenges that you're having with the situation, okay.

Show yourself.

Be the person who can figure out how to work with almost anyone and that is what's going

to make you valuable.

And to do that requires self confidence and self appreciation, which you have.

Now, if you are being abused, or seriously mistreated in some way, I don't wanna make

any generalizations on how to manage that, okay?

HR is often a good place to start, but I want you to remember that HR works for the company,

not for you, okay?

But still, lodging a complaint is often a good place to start in those cases.

Legal counsel is also a good move and if you wanna chat about it with me, just drop me

a line and we can chat about it.

But, each situation is different so I don't wanna be general about that.

But in a majority of cases, just focusing on yourself and letting your bad boss's boss

deal with them is a good way to go.

Number four, empower yourself by staying in control of your career, okay?

Always keep your career a priority.

Just because you have a job already doesn't mean your career stops being a priority, right?

Your career supports your family, it impacts your physical, emotional, and mental health.

Yet, so many people don't nurture and take care of it beyond showing up for their nine

to five, okay?

So, keep your networking alive and well, whether that's at events, or on social media, or on

LinkedIn, nurture that support network.

Keep it strategic and aligned with your career growth plans for yourself, not just the plans

your company has for you.

And always be interviewing.

Know who you are as a brand.

Know where you're strong.

Know what you have to offer.

And if you actually need a little bit of help with building that strategic career plan,

and that strategically-aligned support network, or with removing any roadblocks, and getting

motivated to take control of your career, then check out The Career Reset Roadmap Starter

Guide.

It is a free download that you can get right here and I'll put the link below.

Now for this last tip, this comment comes up every time I talk about not giving your

bad boss power, okay?

Number five is keeping your power doesn't mean that you're a doormat.

Okay.

A lot of people will say, "Well, when I'm attacked, if I don't say anything, doesn't

that make me weak?

Doesn't that mean that I'm acting like a doormat and letting this person get away with it?"

Just because you're not going after every mean thing that's said about you doesn't mean

that you're a doormat.

In fact, I would argue that when you give away your power and spin out into emotional

... you know, out of emotional control, that's when you become a door mat.

But, when you allow people to be who they are, even if they're disrespectful, and think

what they wanna think, and not let it impact how you think about yourself, that's when

you're strong.

You stay in your power.

Now, I'm not saying ignore any negative emotions that come up for you.

If your bad boss says something and you feel humiliation, or anger, or you feel small,

or whatever, it's good to notice those feelings, okay?

But just remember, those feelings come from a thought that you're generating about yourself,

right?

Your boss isn't making you feel that way.

And don't forget, by staying in your power you can still have a reaction.

It can mean that you react unemotionally in the moment.

You don't have to say nothing.

You can still say something, right?

Just don't spin out.

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