Today, I will teach you how to develop your personality!
How to have a strong personality!
An influential personality!
& full of Charisma!
Before we start with the subject,
let's talk about an important point, which is the meaning of the word Charisma
We always hear the word charisma, but I feel most of us don't know it's real meaning!
If I will translate it from English, I will find out its literal meaning, which is
Compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire love, devotion in others.
& show the best version of their personalities.
In summary, a person with charisma, is a lovable person! People love to be around him & become his/her friends.
Also, it is a strong influential personality. It affects people in a positive way!
I mention here some cinema celebrities who are famous for their high charismatic characters, actors like...
Tom Cruise
Leonardo DiCaprio
George Clooney
others, & others of actors...
& I won't forget the most famous cinematic character James Bond or 007.
In all of James Bond movies, no matter which actor is playing the main role...
We've always know this character as a strong influential one, & full of charisma.
Of course charisma secrets are too many!
I tried here to study all those characters
& summarize all their special treats that all share
I summarized it all in 5 tips only!
Those 5 tips, all of you could do!
Either if you are men or women. Well, all the example I give are for male actors but still the topic is so general!
& Everyone could benefit from it!
Okay, let's end the introduction & start with the tips!
The 1st tip, is confidence. Natural Confidence! Focus on the word Natural!
Pleeeease! Don't try to fake confidence!
Don't fake something not yours! Stay Natural!
There is nothing more beautiful than your natural personality!
I'm not telling you to change your personality & show that you are confident!
Talk with everyone & pretend that you know everything about all subjects!
Or to have the most loud voice in the room and make everyone hear you!
No!
Well, okay. If that is your real personality and you have a sound voice then go for it!
But if you have a quiet personality, trust the beauty of your own personality!
Talk with people slowly in quiet beautiful conversations.
Why not!
The most important part is that you are so confident with your natural personality!
Be yourself always!
The only thing I might tell you to change here is
Is how you reflect your confidence to people through the way you stand or walk!
For example, if you walk like this, your head looking down! You look sad, lost, & have nothing in this life.
It's good that you change it! To let your walking reflects your confidence!
Walk while opening up,
Show that you are relaxed & confident!
Rise your head up! Look around, to the right .. to the left .. smile at people!
People in general love happy people, who are smiling & seem relaxed & have no troubles over their shoulders.
I remember a lovely scene here from a movie called OSS 117. It is a series of French movies just similar to 007.
Look at the main actor with me...
He enters a hall or a party.
All the people their turn their heads & try to look at him to know who is this super confident person.
A very relaxed person. Walking with confidence.
Smiling at this and that.. while walking with confidence.
Always show confidence through the way you walk or stand in public spaces.
This will show that you have a strong personality full of charisma!
The 2nd tip is, spread positivity!
I'm not saying stay positive. No. Try to spread that positivity too!
& the easiest way to do that is by complimenting people!
Is someone passed by you wearing nice outfit, comment on that, say "wow.. I liked your outfit!"
Someone with good hairstyle, comment at that too!
Automatically, people are going to find you more attractive & full of charisma by just doing that!
By that you are affective them in a positive way...
Then it is easy for you, after getting people love, to influence them by your other thoughts.
I remember, the actor I mentioned in the introduction George Clooney...
I feel he is the most actor who mastered this! Any cinematic scene you see him in, is just full of positivity!
He is affecting people by his smile & compliments that he throw all around.
Look at this scene for example!
He enters the airport, he smiles at the lady, compliment her.
You feel she loved him automatically and try to help him to finish his papers quickly so he could go!
So it is a very easy thing to do! Doesn't require effort nor time.
A compliment here & there. Simple stuff, that will affect people, & make you seem lovable & full of charisma!
The 3rd tip is, to talk less but mean more!
Don't talk about stuff you don't know!
If you don't know about the subject, stay silent! Respect your little knowledge!
But if you feel that your opinion will matter & make a difference in the discussion then say it with confidence!
People will automatically feel that you are a person who chooses his words wisely.
That you are a man who thinks before he speaks!
That you never say trivial things or stuff you don't know about!
Automatically people are going to appreciate you
& say that you're a trustworthy! Influential, & full of charisma person. & they will take your words seriously!
I will give an example of the currently famous TV series, Peaky Blinders!
The main character, Thomas Shelby, is so famous as a very mysterious character!
A person who talks a little, but when he does everyone takes him seriously!
& by that he managed to control people around him and become the leader of the family & the gang!
Although, he is not the family older son!
I don't want to talk more about it, & spoil the series, as it is still continuing.
Episode by episode. Season by season!
But is it a good series that I recommend you watching.
& by that you could learn more charisma secrets from Thomas Shelby
The 4th tip is, to be a good listener!
We say "Talk a little, but mean more"
But this is not the most important part
You have to be a good listener!
Unfortunately, a minority of people will listen to all what you say!
People nowadays, wish to find someone to hear them, to listen to their emotions and normal problems.
Automatically, if you were a good listener,
interacting with others & show sympathy...
People will love you more & feel that your personality is full of charisma, love, & tenderness!
& They will try to get close to you.
So always try to interact with people's words and stay focused. Even to the small trivial details they say!
I remember here one of the most famous cinema scenes, which is from one of James Bonds movies
When he asked the actress, "What is your name?"
She answered spontaneously, Trench, Sylvia Trench. She mentioned the family name first then her full name.
James Bond payed attention to that.
So after she answered, she asked him too, "& you... what's your name?"
He answered the same way she did, he said, "Bond, James Bond!"
The actress was shocked, why is he imitating me, and answering just like me!
Or even how did he payed attention to the way I said my name!
Because most people won't pay attention to such thing!
So automatically she felt that he is a good listener & that he has a good personality,
which made her wanna know him more. Know a person with such great personality!
And she did, and they stayed friends till the end of the movie!
The 5th tip & last is, to be respectable and classy in all your actions in this life!
Respect everyone!
Don't talk about people when they are not present!
Stay away from the gossip & scandals!
Respect your manager at work! Respect your friends.
Respect the guy who will serve you are a restaurant or supermarket or anywhere you will go to!
Respect everyone in the same way. Stay respectable & classy in all your actions!
The 6th tip, which is extra, is to take care of your appearance!
& take care of your clothes!
It's impossible to find a single famous character with strong personality & charisma...
With bad looks and bad appearance!
Clothes are so important!
I remember a beautiful scene from a movie for Leonardo DiCaprio
The movie, Catch Me If You Can.
The main actor was impersonating different characters.
One time, he went to the cinema, and saw a James Bond movie!
He was attracted by it, & wanted to be as stylish and chic as James Bond!
Immediately, he finished the movie, he went to a tailor.
He told him, "I want a suit exactly like James Bond"
Then he said, after trying the suit and loving it, I need 3 more, just the same!
He thought that if he wore the same clothes as James Bond, he would automatically become like James Bond!
I'm not saying that this is right, or wrong! But really! Clothes affect our personalities & confidence!
If you were wearing something chic & elegant you will automatically feel more confident!
So always take care of your appearance!
We reached the end of the video!
& I'm sure if you did those 5 simple tips!
Automatically, your personality will become better! You will have a strong influential personality!
& anywhere you will go, people will turn their heads trying to see who is this amazing person,
whose personality is full of charisma!
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