11 Things NOT To Do With Narcissists, Ever
Having a business with a narcissists is the worst thing that can happen to you.
Narcissists basically a type of people who will bring you down to the hell without you
realizing it.
They will do it carefully, slowly, and painfully.
It takes quite long process that you will not notice even the slightest possibility
of evil intention.
However, when you have noticed you are dealing with narcissists, please avoid these.
There are 11 things that you should not do with narcissists.
#1 - Don't take them at face value
They have worked hard to make their face look valuable both physically and mentally.
That is why if you only look at them through both dimensions, they will be happy and they
will win.
If they win, they will be boasting up, seeing them as a more powerful person than you are.
#2 - Don't share sensitive personal information
Some personal information such as your worst experiences and your flaws can be the weapon
against you when you feel desperate.
Be sure to not share them once you meet narcissists.
Otherwise, you are again risking yourself to be used by the narcissists.
#3 - You should not justify yourself
Just keep your feeling to yourself especially when you are fighting against narcissists.
Otherwise, they will only make you suffer through arguments, debates, and misleading
opinions that will never end.
It is just exhausting.
Unless you have time, never do that thing to narcissists.
#4 - Don't minimize their misbehavior
People around narcissists may be tired for their misbehavior.
However, it is one tactic that they do for preventing you from realizing their flaws.
Be sure to stay awake and be rational.
Don't argue with them, but be aware every time they make movement.
They can read you, and they can start attacking you.
#5 - Don't put any responsibility
You cannot trust narcissists to do even the simplest tasks.
They will do, at its best, but they have hidden intention later on.
At some point, they will neglect their responsibility, making it impossible to complete your task.
Basically, you are putting responsibility to wrong person if you do.
#6 - They don't share your ideas
They have another vision of the real world, their imagination.
That is why you actually play in a level in which you cannot reach.
It is just completely useless.
It is practically impossible to grasp their ideas because it just does not exist.
#7 - Don't play their games
They are expert in manipulating people, and that is why you should not try playing the
same game for manipulating them.
It will just waste your valuable time.
#8 - Don't take their actions personally
If you believe what they say, if you get mad because what they do, they become excited
and satisfied.
It feels like they have won the battle because no one is happier than they are.
#9 - Don't expect empathy
Their nerve for empathy have long gone, and they only have power to make you suffer instead.
#10 - Don't expect them to change
It is unfortunate, no matter how you love this person, that narcissistic is a disease
that cannot be cured so easily.
It is because they do not consider themselves to be sick, disabling the curing process.
That is why they will never change.
#11 - Don't underestimate
They are basically powerful people who have nothing to lose.
They will always in search for satisfaction through sufferings from other people around
them.
Well, that's all of the 11 things not to do with narcissists, ever.
So, what do you think about this?
Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
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How To Get Promoted - Duration: 7:32.
Hi everyone. Its bill at billbenoist.com. In today's video I want to talk
about stepping up into your first managerial role. So if this is something
that you're looking to do and you're not quite certain what it is that you need
to bring to the table, stay tuned.
You know, besides my career coaching business, I also write a lot of resumes
for people. And one of the common themes that seem to come across my desk whether
it is in career coaching or putting together a resume for somebody, is that
they're looking to step up into a managerial role. And oftentimes I'll see
this come through is you know I want my resume to reflect what it needs to
be able to step into a managerial role. And I got thinking this would be an
interesting video to address because I have a hunch a lot of you out there are
wondering what it takes to become a manager. You know, before taking my career
coaching business full time, I was a vice president of information services, and I
did that for 18 years. But my actual management experience goes back 35 years.
I've been a manager in private, public and even government industries and
during this 35 years, I have promoted my fair share of individuals to their first
time managerial role. And I want to share with you today specifically what it was
that I was looking for when I was going to promote somebody to a manager and
also talking with many of my colleagues in the industry what they too are
looking for when they're considering promoting someone to their
first managerial role. So number one, you need to be a professional, Now what do I
mean by being a professional? Well it's this. For me, a professional means being
able to see the bigger picture and understand how it affects everyone
involved. You need to have the vision and foresight. If you were going to be on my
team, you also needed to be able to show respect with those you interact with.
That was the number two most important thing of being a professional in my opinion
was that you had to respect not only those above you - I think that's a given
for pretty much anybody that thinks they're going to go into a managerial
role, but also those that you're going to be managing. I want you to have the
respect to those individuals because you're gonna need to earn their respect
just as well. You know we all know narcissistic managers with big egos and
short fuses however the command & Conquer management
style it's pretty much a thing of the past nowadays. You know, I always wanted
my managers to consider the impact of their actions on others and and I wanted
them to have their staffs back and I wanted them to demonstrate that they
could acknowledge staff wins publicly but make sure that those autopsies were
you know really conducted in private. You know they would share the
glory but they would take the responsibility that to me as a
professional and finally the third thing of a professional is a person who is
truthful. You know for me you don't have to gain my trust but because you already
have it. But game over if you've lost my trust.
You know deception, even a white lie, is not something I'm gonna tolerate so that
is being a professional that's the first most important thing that I'm looking
for when I was going to promote an individual. The second was that they were
gonna not have any problems. Now of course everybody has problems we all do
but we all know the whiners and the complainers on the team the individuals
who have one problem after another in life and in career and they're
continuing to share their problems you know here's the thing with emotions they
run downhill. I mean have you ever heard that saying if that CEO is having a bad
day then you're likely gonna be having a bad day. When I was promoting someone
into a managerial role, I wanted to make sure that this individual was somebody
who was self-aware and really had great control over their emotional
intelligence and their emotions. The third thing that I was looking for was not
only that they had no problems but that they were also not going to create any
problems. Now I'm not talking mistakes. mistakes are gonna happen. I'm talking
problems like questionable practices. You know, a practice like coming in late or
leaving early or taking extended lunches or boy even going up a notch, having
questionable relationships with other employees. You know I don't want someone
to be creating problems for me that I'm gonna need to answer to my manager for,
or the HR department or even worse off the legal department. And finally, you
will solve all my problems. Now of course I know you can't do that but I want to
think of you as someone who can. So I'm gonna ask you, is this the kind of
persona that you're projecting outwards or are you trying to project outwards
that you're the best software engineer or the best program manager, the best
project manager, the best QA analyst, the best medical assistant? Because you know - if you're trying to project outwards on your hard skills, well let me
tell you there's probably three or four others on your team that are just as
good as you are. That's not what I'm looking for. Of course I want you to have
the core abilities, but at this stage what I'm looking for is - are you the
professional? Will you be able to represent the department in a professional way? A re
you going to be coming in with a lot of problems or are you gonna even worse be
creating problems for me that I have to answer to other people? But most
importantly, are you gonna solve my problems? And you know, I know how to ask
the questions to determine this. If I don't already know this about you
because of our working relationship, maybe you're a new interviewee, I know
the questions to be asking you. and there be a real type of questions and the
reason I bring this up is because in the notes section below if you're actually
in the market of looking for that first managerial promotion and you do believe
that you meet these characteristics that I just spoke about,
sure that you grab my free download below: The 5 top interview questions that
any hiring manager is gonna want to know about you. Because it does discuss the
behavioral type of questions that will occur in the interview. I hope you found
this video informative and useful and if so make sure that you subscribe to my
channel and as I do upload a new career strategy every Tuesday with that said
thank you for stopping by and I will see you in the next video bye bye
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Lighten Your Dark Underarms at Home With Toothpaste in 2 Minutes - Duration: 3:18.
Lighten Your Dark Underarms at Home With Toothpaste in 2 Minutes
Lighten Your Dark Underarms at Home With Toothpaste in 2 Minutes
Lighten Your Dark Underarms at Home With Toothpaste in 2 Minutes
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underarms naturally.
This remedy is tested and also, it gives quick results.
Dark Underarm Home Remedy Ingredients
Beetroot Tomato
Toothpaste
Procedure Cut the beetroot into two pieces.
Also, take a tomato, and cut it into two pieces.
After this, take some toothpaste.
How to Use Apply toothpaste on your underarms to lighten
your dark underarms.
After this, rub your underarm area for one minute.
Now, take a tomato slice, and squeeze it a little.
Rub the tomato on underarms for two to three minutes.
Now, take beetroot, and rub it on your dark underarm area for two to three minutes.
After this, wash your underarm area with water.
You will get visible results within one application.
Benefits You Will Get After Using Beetroot is loaded with minerals.
Thus, it is good for your skin and makes your skin healthy, shiny, and glowing.
Also, it treats dark patches and helps to lighten your skin naturally.
The use of tomato helps you get an even skin tone.
It has natural skin-lightening properties.
There is Vitamin C in tomatoes.
Thus, the use of tomatoes is very good for lightening the dark body parts of your skin
such as dark underarms.
So, if you have dark underarms, and you want to get rid of this beauty issue naturally,
there is no need to look for any other solution now.
This remedy to lighten your dark underarms is very effective, and also, it works 100%.
Also, the remedy is free from side effects.
So, follow the remedy, and get rid of this problem.
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SETV - Renewal using Mobile Phone or Tablet(safest and easiest way) - Duration: 4:31.
After watching this video you will know how to renew your SETV subscription
using your mobile phone or tablet.
Start by opening your browser and in this tutorial we will going to use 'chrome'.
And in the URL, type: setvnow.com
You are now in the home page, and on the top of the screen tap on 'MY ACCOUNT'
Slide down, go to 'Returning Customer' and log in.
Once logged in, at the upper-left portion of the page,
you'll see a three-line button or the 'menu button'.
Tap on it and look for the 'shopping cart' logo.
Then tap once more.
Now, whatever item or product you see on your shopping cart,
make sure you remove them.
But as you can see, there's no remove button on the screen yet.
What you need to do is,
tap on the product name and slide to the left
the remove button is now available under 'quantity' tab.
tap on it until your shopping cart is empty
The next step is to tap on continue
We are now on SETV's web store
where we see all their product
Time for us to choose a subscription
and for the sake of this tutorial I'm gonna choose $20.
as you can see, at the bottom of each product, there's a 'BUY NOW' button.
Tap on buy now and it will route you to the last page which is the check out page.
Now on payment address and payment method just leave them untouch.
Same with the shopping cart,
leave this untouch unless you have a coupon code which is optional.
Slide down to 'Credit Card Details' section.
In credit cart details, fill out these 4 important fields.
Then after you do,
put a check mark on the 'I have agree and read the Terms of Use.
Then tap on 'Confirm Order'
Once you're done filling in all the information correctly,
you'll receive a notification that you have successfully placed the order.
You can now go back to your home screen.
Now we have successfully processed the renewal of your subscription
You can now back on your TV screen,
reopen SET application to refresh,
and everything should be ready to go.
Please be informed that, if you don't want to do this every month,
SETV also offers longer subscriptions such as 3, 6 or 12 month subscription.
You're not only you gonna get rid of the hassle of doing this every month
but you can also save a lot of money.
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من مثلك إلهي (Who Is Like You My God) - Duration: 1:01.
I sing to the king and hallelujah, who is like you my God x2
My heart rejoices near you and your glory fills my eye
I kneel to you alone my master and I worship you
I sing to the king and hallelujah, who is like you my God? x2
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The mysterious ship Escape the titanic room PART 1 Walkthrough 🌟 Android iOS - Duration: 8:16.
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Hable Construction 2pack Handbag Organizer - Duration: 7:14.
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Watch: New Girl Group SHA SHA Debuts With MV For "You & Me"(News) - Duration: 0:54.
Watch: New Girl Group SHA SHA Debuts With MV For "You & Me"
SHA SHA has officially entered the music industry!.
The new girl group consists of members Aryeom, Gowoon, Seoyeon, Ian, Seoyeop, and Garam. Their debut single You & Me is a dance track with elements of disco and vaporwave, a musical genre inspired by electronic dance music. Soompi. Display. News. English.
300x250. Mobile. English. 300x250. ATF.
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Why Relationships Are Hardest For People Who Overthink - Duration: 5:31.
Why Relationships Are Hardest For People Who Overthink
"i let you see the parts of me that weren't all that pretty and with every touch you fixed
them.
now you've been talking in your sleep.
things you never say to me.
tell me that you've had enough…i'm sorry i don't understand where all of this is
coming from, i thought that we were fine.
your head is running wild again my dear we still have everythin' and it's all in
your mind" – pink
Relationships are hard for anyone.
Add anxiety into the picture and someone who overthinks and it's almost unbearable sometimes.
Moments of doubt and confusion.
Problems created that aren't actually problems.
Overthinking is what potentially ruins relationships.
But people who have anxiety can't help it.
They just hope and pray they meet someone who tries to understand and can work around
this flaw of theirs that dictates so much of their life.
It's understanding their mind plays tricks on them.
Understand they are paying really close attention to everything you say.
They are paying attention to every look, every eye roll, every gesture.
Picking up on little things that might not mean anything.
But they analyze it and think too much about it creating problems in their mind.
Simply put, anxiety is just a warning of something bad that could happen.
But it's those what-ifs and maybe that make things hard.
Overcome with fear of those things becoming a reality sometimes it just paralyzes the
person.
It's reassuring them often that things are fine.
Whether anything happened or not, just tell them things are okay.
That you still care.
That you're still there for them.
And it sounds silly but people with anxiety appreciate that.
Even a lack of a response you might not think needs an answer will throw someone with anxiety
off.
It'll lead to them thinking they've done something wrong.
At the start of relationships, every little thing they are going to worry about.
They are almost too cautious sometimes.
But once they grow to trust you more and become more confident in you, you'll see the anxiety
fade.
It's being the one who is always sure because they never will be.
People with anxiety are very indecisive even about little things.
They are going to ask your opinion and what you think and what would make you happy.
It isn't that they don't know how to stand on their own two feet but a lot of times those
with anxiety have encountered people in the past who have made them unsure of themselves.
Understand it isn't their fault.
It's just how they've been programmed.
It's being able to read them carefully.
When they respond with one word, something is probably wrong.
When they use the word 'fine' they probably aren't.
When they are looking constantly at their phone, they are waiting for an answer.
When they drive too quickly it's because they are worried about being late.
When they fiddle with their hands standing at a party, they are trying to be calm but
really nervous to be there.
Everyone with anxiety has their little ticks.
Things they might not even notice that they do.
Learn them.
Learn every curve.
Learn every flaw.
Learn to love them and love the things about themselves they struggle to.
It's valuing communication because that's essential.
Their minds will wander and make every assumption possible.
Talking things out is so important.
Addressing an issue and finding a problem, not letting them think about it and dwell
and spend time upset.
Understand that any fight you might have is going to hurt them more and they will beat
themselves up more than you ever can with silent treatment or hoping they learn.
People with anxiety are harder on themselves than anyone and they will internalize everything
and take it personally.
They care.
They care about saying and doing everything right and making someone happy and that's
what it comes down to.
If you can understand the root of fears and worrying is caring maybe it will help you
to understand.
It's knowing how to talk them down when they worry.
Understand there are some things you won't be able to fix.
Moments where you're just going to have to ride this rollercoaster of emotions just
listening to everything they say until it's out of their system.
Moments where you might see them fall apart and breakdown and there aren't going be
words to fix it or anything you can do or say.
Sometimes just being there is enough so they know they aren't alone.
It's loving them for exactly who they are.
Someone with anxiety will look at themselves and this part of who they are and they'll
never fully like it or accept it.
How can you accept something about yourself that only seems to cause problems?
As their partner it's your job to love them in those moments they don't love themselves.
It's your job to be sure when they are doubting everything.
It's your job to hold them when to them their world is falling apart.
It's your job to not think much of it.
The double texts you might get.
The calls.
The apologies.
The questions.
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How to look rich roblox for free pt 1(you MUST turn sub titles on) - Duration: 6:14.
hi its shuki here
as you can see by the title im gonna teach you how to look like a pro :P
look at waht im wearing.its a voltron shirt.this will be what we are working on.the coco shirt and the roblox jacket will work fine too.
the thing is that we're not gonna make a shirt,but a t-shirt instead which is free for normal players like me :T
(sad life for us fellow 'noobs' out there ;-;)
lolz
if you find this vid to be helpful then pls care to subscribe and leave a like!
i have an instagram account of art too so feel free to check it out!
ill be doing art vids here too :P
Enough talking. lets get to work!!! :O
what i want you to do for now is to go to develope
the loading takes for ever...... T-T
ok so what i want you to do now is to click the t-shirt selection and stay there
im still learning to be a youtuber so pls dont judge my slowness TT_TT
so.....
:T
great we are here!
as you can see i already made multiple t shirts already :3
now just stay here because we will use this later :P
now what i want you to do is to click the link in the description and download it
choose the one suitable for you
NOW...
after you downloaded it you open the software and it should look like this
signing up is an choice for you to make
now what i want you to do is either read my texts or look closely at what im doing
first:go to the file option and click on ''new''
it should look like this
what im doing here is changing the text to 93 on the top and 95 at the bottom
the page color has to be white so it will be easier to work with
now that the setting is done you should have this
what you want to do now is to go to color circle and estimate the best you can to match the voltron/roblox jacket/coco shirt color sceme
if you know how to use medi bang go to color pallet and click the page next to the trash can. there you just have to enter the code 1A1A1A to get the voltron ,etc's color
im just coloring like a weirdo :T
and you can also estimate the skin tone from roblox so it will be easier for you to work with the shirt
now i will be designing my shirt so il see you in a few secs
there!
now all you have to do is to save it
name the shirt and make sure you change the 'Medibang Paint Pro'' to ''png''
its important to not mess this part up
after you save it you will see this appear
click the middle option.thats a must
click ok and your done with the design
now go back to develope
click choose file and click on the shirt you just made :)
ok i got my file ready to upload
lol :p
and we're done!!!
btw as we are waiting i wanna show you the tool i used to blend the colors
i use the tool air brush which is provided in the brush section
and again those who know how to use medibang this is the where you enter the code
the one im entering right now is the shirt color
heres my finish product which im proud of :3
and what im entering now is the skin tone code :D
ok so i got bored of waiting so.......:P
but at least my t-shirt is there :)
lol
btw i made this addidas t-shirt a long time ago :D
ugh i hate waithing for stuff to load :T
ha finally!!!!!!
this is my addidas shirt :P
anyway thx for watching!!!!!! pt 2 is next!!!!!!
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3 Youtube Channels Worship Leaders Need to Watch [The Tuesday Trio] - Duration: 2:58.
Today on the Tuesday Trio the three best YouTube channels for worship leaders.
YouTube has tons of awesome resources for worship leaders so today we're gonna
check out three of my favorite channels. Well... two of my favorite channels and one
shameless self-promotion. Sorry- to the list! Our first YouTube channel for
worship leaders today is Practical Worship by Dave Dolphin. You can see here Dave
describes his channel as ideas, tips, and practical advice for the everyday
worship leader and that's really true there's a lot of down-to-earth practical
advice on his channel there's a little bit of everything on the Practical
Worship YouTube channel. I would say two big focuses I see are kind of the
musicianship and arranging the music and the vocals and the instruments, and then
also kind of the team building and the leadership aspect, the kind of people
aspect of worship. He talks a lot about that and gives some great advice on how
to lead a worship team. And he's got some pretty funny thumbnails as well, which is
always good. Our next YouTube channel for worship leaders is Churchfront with
Jake Gosselin. Jake Gosselin is a worship leader in Colorado, like myself he leads
a worship in a church plant which I believe he just started out a couple
months ago and you can kind of follow along on his journey of building a
worship ministry in a church plant on his YouTube channel. Jake again has a
little bit of everything on his channel there's a lot of tech tips and tutorials
on his channel as well as a lot of tips on how to lead worship and the
philosophy of leading worship. There's tons on his channel you should check out,
lots of great advice. He also has a website at churchfront.com and I will have
that link in the description below and my final channel for worship leaders
is a shameless self-promotion this is my other channel Reawaken Hymns, but if I
didn't think it was a good resource for worship leaders I wouldn't have made it
in the first place. Reawaken hymns I just do modern arrangements
of classic hymns. I don't really change the melody or the structure too much
because I want people who know the hymns already to still be able to sing them as
well as introduce them to a younger generation. I've done quite a few hymns so
far I think it's around 60 or 70 and I have chord sheets for all of those for
free on my website www.reawakenhymns.com, so please
check out that as well. I hope those YouTube channels are a help to you, if they are you
should subscribe to them and also if you wouldn't mind subscribing to Mina Studio as well.
I will see you back here next week for another list of awesome.
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Needling my skin is what I do for my skincare😵 NYAAM NYAAM! - Duration: 3:50.
Hi everybody! This is Lara
Today I'm going to tell you how I take care of my skin
So many people asked me to make a video about Korean skin care
How I take care of my skin
as you guys saw the title of the video
today I decided to tell you something.....
can be creepy? But irregular?
It's needling my skin
Actually the right term to call this, needling your skin
is called MTS (Microneedle Therapy System)
Lots of my friends are doing MTS
and they recommended me to do it!
and right now, I'm going to show you how I do MTS in the clinic!
This is my mom doing MTS
Your skin usually gets red after it, and it hurts
So, I really liked MTS, but there are some bad sides of it
If you go to the skin clinic
They'll basically needle your skin!
and that hurts!!
and also, that's really expensive
It costs around $60~$80
and if you go to the dermatology it's more than $150 for once
People recommend to do the MTS for once a week
but once a week?! It costs a lot!
Since doing the MTS in the clinic was so expensive
BUT very effective,
I wanted to do something cheaper than that
and I found this product
It's called, Nyaam Nyaam
Well it's a Korean cosmetic (Sponsored by ReGenAf)
that you can do the MTS at your home, by yourself
In this product, there's once Nyaam nyaam serum
and three other refill serums
so if you do the MTS in the clinic, it hurts
so usually you do the MTS
after applying the anesthetic creeam
But I have been doing this for two weeks
and this doesn't really hurt that much!
This also has some needles up here
but these needles are micro-needles
It's really thinner than your hair, so it doesn't hurt that much
and in this side, there's serum
This serum can make your skin look clearer and brighter
So here's how you do
First, you open the cap just like this
and press this part
Then the serum will come out
Slightly tap it on the whole face or particular parts
Give it a little tap with your fingers, and it's done!
Use this mask-pack for half an hour
and take a rest
It's the best if you could use this mask pack
right after it, because it has the mild soothing effect
This hurts less than the clinic
because you are doing it by yourself
so you can adjust the power of the pressure
so if you want more information of this Nyaam nyaam serum
Please click the link in the description that I put
So, how was the video?
Does it sound very creepy like, needling your skin?
Do you also do the MTS in your country?
Are you interested in doing MTS in your home?
Please tell me in the comments!
and if you liked the video, please click LIKE!
and hopefully see you next time too!
BYE~!
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"ATL BEAUTY"..."SHOCKING",YOU WON'T SEE THIS COMIN',I PROMISE YOU...LOL - Duration: 15:35.
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Delivery History - Duration: 3:41.
Real Estate Listing Syndication Delivery history reporting
Two different kinds of delivery history reporting
can provide valuable insight
about what's really been happening
with your delivered listings.
These are:
Imports and exports of all qualified listings
in feeds to or from our server...
and...
day-to-day delivery results for
each listing to each search engine.
For example, we can click to view
the last two weeks of listings
delivered on the Zillow feed.
Each search engine polls feeds
on its own preferred schedule.
We just click the "Feeds" tab to
return to the main dashboard.
Now let's click on the customer logo
to see the same kind of reporting
for the history of imports of
their listings.
As you can see here,
when the customer feed briefly went offline,
our server dropped the polling interval
from every three hours down to hourly.
That reduced possible lag time for
forwarding new listings
when the customer feed did return to service.
Now let's click the delivery history button
to review the last two weeks results of
delivery of an individual listing
to all search engine locations.
OK,
let's take a look at this one.
Report columns mark days into the past,
the oldest date on the far left.
This listing is obviously in great shape for deliveries.
No red or yellow flags report
any delivery problems.
And feedback provided by
several search engines confirms
this listing is posting.
We can see there were a few polling gaps
for a few search engines.
OK...
...let's pick a different listing to check out.
Oops.
This one is obviously in trouble.
All those yellow and red flags provide
tooltips explaining exactly what needs to be fixed.
Let's select just one last example
OK, here's a broken search engine rule
no one would think is possible.
But Mentor knows it will cause a posting failure.
This particular search engine rejects
listings which contain any of a
number of harmless, everyday words.
The error report shows the forbidden word
in this listing is "holidays".
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this is stuff you like and the truth is the 25th Discworld book featuring: a
wordsmith, posh people, parents, and the power of words. Terry Pratchett started
working as a journalist at the age of 17 and The Truth is among other things
something of an ode to local journalism because no matter where in the
multiverse you go there's always a man who grew humorously shaped vegetables in
his greenhouse, and the truth is always much much stranger than you ever thought.
one of the things that Pratchett said about journalism stuck with me recently
"it worried me that in the nature of journalism you had to chop the world up
into little lumps of 150 words you could never tell the whole story" I made a
video for my patrons in which I discussed among other things why I quit
Twitter but the main reasons were first that it wasn't really fun anymore and
second that it really wasn't useful: few people's views of the world are notably
changed after arguing on social media, especially social media with such a
strict character limit. the world is too complex and nuanced and interesting to
be chopped up into 150 words let alone two hundred and eighty characters you
can fit catchphrases into that many characters; slogans, sure, but actual
factual concepts? Still, at least with 150 words you can make a start. the plot of
the truth goeth thusly: William de Worde younger brother of a more beloved and now
deceased older brother has fallen out with his father and made his way to
Ankh Morpork where he makes his living as a writer William de Worde:
things written down. Once a month he writes a letter of news for various
important people and he uses an engraver to make copies but then some dwarves
arrive with the printing press and all heck breaks loose. the wizards are upset
the engravers are upset Lord Vetinari is mildly suspicious. but the dwarves Dwarfs?
Dwarves? and William and Sacharissa Crisplock, daughter of the now unemployed
engraver set up a newspaper where they print the news every day and sell it to
anyone who wants to read it there's a plot to supplant the patrician the city
watch feature quite heavily as do gasped the wonder dog and Foul Ole Ron and
we're also introduced to mr. tulip and mr. pin of the new firm who are not very
nice people it comes to a head as these things do and it turns out that Lord
de Words, William's father, was behind the plot to supplant Vetinari and it also
turns out that William is not so unlike his father as he
they imagine. but they're enough unlike that all ends well.
"you will know the truth and the truth will make you free" Jesus said to which
Gloria Steinem added "but first it might piss you off." As I said The Truth, as
Discworld books tend to be, is about a lot of things but there is a theme here
that Pratchett keeps returning to and that is accountability especially
accountability when there might not be anyone to provide it. "who watches the
Watchmen?" is first said as Quis custodiat custard in Guards Guards and
Pratchett returns to it more fully with Vimes in Thud! And of course the witches
are constantly watching each other for signs that someone is going dark but
William de Worde and his newspaper have no accountability in fact the de Wordes in
general don't have much in the way of accountability that's what privilege
means they say: privi lege: private law. but of course people really need
accountability because no one thinks they're evil do they? if we couldn't
justify the things we did to ourselves at least a little then we probably
wouldn't do them so much when William and Vimes clash Vimes hits the nail
squarely on the head as is his won't. "I don't trust you Mr. de Worde and I've
just realized why. it's not that you're going to cause trouble, dealing with
trouble is my job it's what I'm paid for that's why they give me an armour
allowance, but who are you responsible to? I have to answer for what I do - though
right now I'm damned if I know who - but you it seems to me you can do what the
hell you like!" "I suppose I'm answerable to the truth sir" "Oh really? How exactly?"
"sorry?" "If you tell lies does the truth come and
smack you in the face? I'm impressed, ordinary everyday people like me are
responsible to other people, even Vetinari always had - has - one eye on the
Guilds. But you you are answerable to the truth? Amazing."
Of course that's the
thing about journalism if it's accountable to no one then you end up
with things like the Ankh Morpork Enquirer where they talk about rains of
frogs or people being taken away by silver dishes or women giving birth to
what was it snakes? in Lancre. Fake news in other words. But William de Worde the
discs first-ever newspaper editor holds himself accountable to the truth the
whole truth and nothing but the truth, at least most of the time. That's a bit of a
family trait though isn't it?Lord de Worde doesn't consider himself accountable to
anything but his own ideals Responsible to other people?Tch!
William is also a high-handed supercilious twerp on occasion because
it is often true that we are more like our parents than we would care to admit
but the difference is he doesn't want to be and the other difference is that
William is not just accountable to his own ideals he is accountable to other
people who share those ideals. because like I said high ideals are all well and
good but no one on their own ever really thinks they're evil I do they and so you
need other people to keep you on the straight and narrow. And William has all
of these people the dwarves and Otto and Sacharissa, but when it comes to the end
and he confronts his father he tells him to leave. he doesn't print his father's
name in the newspaper he doesn't hand his father over to the watch he doesn't
tell the whole truth. I mean he doesn't lie but he doesn't tell the whole truth.
but still every day in every way we are getting better and better
William Worde does show up briefly in later books: Monstrous Regiment, Going
Postal, Making Money, Unseen Academicals, but this is his book and I love it.
"A lie can run around the world before the truth has got its boots on" is an
oft-repeated refrain in this book and that's truer now than it was then
given the internet and social media and fake news and monetizing the filter
bubble and all of those things but there are I hope many people in the world like
William and Sacharissa and Sir Terry Pratchett: people who by way of
journalism or fantasy novels or whatever else comes to hand give the truth a way
to kick.
thank you as always to my patrons you are wonderful
people if you would like to join them you can go to patreon.com/jillbearup and
sign up there if you like this video you can click the like button or subscribe
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next I've always felt a deep sense of obligation to make the biggest impact
possible with this incredible platform so I took on issues that were personal
to me issues like helping families raise healthier kids honoring the incredible
military families that I've met out on the campaign trail inspiring our young
people to value their education and finish college now some folks criticize
my choices for not being bold enough but these were my choices my issues and I
decided to tackle them in a way that felt most authentic to me in a way that
was both substantive and strategic but also fun and hopefully inspiring so I
immersed myself in the policy details I worked with Congress on legislation
against speeches to CEOs military generals Hollywood executives but I also
worked to ensure that my efforts would resonate with kids and families and that
meant doing things in a creative and unconventional way so yeah I planted a
garden and hula hooped on the White House lawn with kids I did some mom
dancing on TV I celebrated military kids with Kermit the Frog
I asked folks across the country to wear their alma mater t-shirts for college
signing day and at the end of the day by staying true to the me I've always known
I found that this journey has been incredibly freeing because no matter
what happened I had the peace of mind of knowing that all of the chatter the
name-calling the doubting all of it was just noise it did not define me it
didn't change who I was and most importantly it couldn't hold me back
I have learned that as long as I hold fast to my beliefs and values and follow
my own moral compass then the only expectations I need to leave live up to
are my own every decision we make in our lives as individuals or as organizations
is a piece of communication it's our way of saying something about who we are and
what we believe this is why authenticity matters this is why you have to say and
do the things you actually believe because the things you say and do are
symbols of who you are and we look for those symbols so we can find people who
believe what we believe our very survival depends on it so if you're
putting out false symbols you will attract people to those symbols but you
won't be able to form trust with them this is what Tiger Woods did to us he
lied he lied he told us what he thought we wanted to hear and it was great and
we were drawn to it and all of us who kind of liked that idea of the sort of
the good guy were drawn to it until we found out it was a lie he could have
been the bad boy of golf he could have had all the same endorsements and had a
fantastic career and still been hailed as one of the great athletes of our day
but he didn't he chose to lie good luck forming trust again tiger we
don't believe you we don't trust you the goal of putting
something out there if you say what you believe and you do what you believe you
will attract people who believe what you believe if you go to one of your friends
and you say to one of your friends how would you like me to dress so that
you'll like me better how would do you want me to address you
how do you want me to speak so that you'll like me more right your friends
are gonna look at you be like what are you talking about yeah come on come on
come on what should I wear so that you'll find me more appealing and how
would you like me to speak to you so that you'll like me more and your
friends are gonna tell you just be yourself that's why I like you I don't
just be yourself now think about what we do in industry what do we do we do
market research and we go and we ask the customers what kind of things the way we
what style should we speak to you how should we decorate ourselves what kind
of thing you drawn two so that we can do those
things you'll like us more it's just as ridiculous it's just as ridiculous
organisations should say and do the things they actually believe and they
will attract people who believe what they believe or they can choose to lie
and at the slightest hint that they might be lying cynicism sets in and
people start saying I'm not sure I can trust these guys because there's not a
lot of consistency and all the things they say and do which means they can't
have a very strong belief set or they're lying to me and we call them it
authentic the entire process of asking other people who we should be is
inauthentic that's hilarious to me all these
positioning studies we do are inherent we're going to do a study to find out
from people so we can be more authentic that's hilarious
say and do what you actually believe in the symbols you put out there the things
you say and the things you do those red hats are ways that people can find you
what you have the ability to do as designers is create those symbols and
allow people to use those things to say something about who they are work for
companies work for clients work for people who you believe what they believe
show up and feel a part of something bigger than yourself and your part is to
put what they believe into pictures and words and symbols and graphics so that
other people can use those things to say something about who they are people put
harley-davidson logos on their body to say something about who they are
corporate logo ain't no Procter & Gamble's tattooed on anybody's on
because Harley means something they stand for something people put that
tattoo on they're not to tell you that they own a motorcycle
they put that tattoo there to tell you something about themselves do you ever
see anybody with a with a Mac laptop put a sticker over that beautiful shining
Apple ain't never gonna happen then how will you know who I am you ever see
anybody with a PC break out the Windex to clean out their computer Mac people
have you ever seen a dirty Mac doesn't exist does not exist why because it's
Who I am these are symbols we use the companies
that are crystal clear and what they believe and their discipline and how
they do it they're consistent what they do and everything they say and
everything they do serves as a symbol of the set of values and beliefs we use
those symbols to say something about who we are we surround ourselves with the
people and the products and the brands that say something about who we are and
when we confine the people who believe what we believe
we're weirdly drawn to them because our very survival depends on it we need it
and so the more you can give of yourself the more you can give of what you
believe the more you can discipline with discipline saying boo and do the things
you actually believe strange things start to happen I was raised on a farm
with my grandmother for the first six years of my life I knew somehow that my
life would be different and it would be better I never had a clear-cut vision of
what it was I would be doing I just always felt somehow I remember
absolutely physically feeling it at around 4 years old I remember standing
on the back porch was a screened-in porch and my grandmother was boiling
clothes because you know during the at that time we didn't have washing
machines and so people would you know physically boil clothes and a great big
iron pot she was boiling clothes and poking them there and I was watching her
from the back porch and I was 4 years old and I remember thinking my life
won't be like this my life won't be like this it will be better and it wasn't
from a place of arrogance it was just a place of knowing that things could be
different from me somehow I don't know what made me think that do not make any
decisions based on money none it's the worst way to make a decision which I
know is so hard to say I mean I didn't grow up with any money and I know so
many of us are our families have a lot at stake they put a lot into us made a
lot of sacrifices for us and you say you don't have the luxury of doing that but
I actually think you do you will be more successful
if you make decisions based upon what is going to feed your soul make you feel
value valued validated you know have you waking up in the morning and wasting to
work whatever it might be and I can tell you after a short amount
of time money will not be enough at the end of the day a bigger paycheck is
another suit or more real estate more square footage that's what it comes down
to you end up with another room and a fuller closet and after a while that's
not gonna do it you want to be successful don't be listening to the
opinions of those that are not successful if you want to be a
millionaire you'll learn from a millionaire you do not learn from your
uncle who's a janitor okay you don't learn it from broke people about money
you don't and we are a product of our environment and we are who we surround
ourselves with that's the facts so the power of programming you see everything
that you are today is who you were trained to be you were you were trained
by messaging that was constantly coming through you through music through movies
through sitcoms all of that stuff completely architected your mind and God
gave us such a powerful mind that he says as a man thinks so is he okay so
how we think is who we become and he also said that life and death is in the
power of the tongue so and we will eat the fruit of what we say so what we say
about ourselves what we say about our kids what we say about our spouse what
we say about life about politics what we say about money like this is a terrible
thing to teach your kids how to say we can't afford it we don't have the money
okay I hate my job I hate mondays I can't wait till Friday's in fact
neurologists have proven they say that the speech center of the brain controls
your entire reality so when we say things like I can't afford it I don't
have them money I'm fat somebody was asking me yes
you're like okay what did you do please come up
what did you do okay I'm a size six I've been a size six for the last 21 years
yeah I was fifty pounds overweight four times in four years
my mom was 300 pounds I'm sorry 280 pounds both my sisters are 300 pounds I
come from Abby's family do you understand so obesity rate on my family
and guess what I thought about myself and guess what my gender doesn't my
stepfather said to me that I was fat I was ugly these are the things I was told
and these are the things that by golly I really believed and it wasn't until I
forgave my dad changed the tape of what was rolling in my head that I no longer
acted like a fat person because if you think you're fat what will you do come
on as a man thinks so is she as you think so are you so I I saw myself fat I
spoke like I was is it this dude do I look fat in this is my butt to bag man
I'm so fat I have this I have that right so when you think like that
then you start to act like that that's how it works how you think is how you'll
speak how you speak is how you act so you automatically and instantly go in
the direction of what you're thinking and speaking therefore the power of
programming
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