Waching daily May 28 2018

hi everyone welcome back to ask Manpreet so today I'm going to be talking to you

about the four different haters that you will read any counter on your journey to

success the first hater the number one hater is the switch-up hater now this

person will always be there for you when you're feeling down you know when you

know nothing really good is going on so they can be a great tissue paper but

when you need a cheerleader and you're growing and good things are happening to

you you're experiencing major career success they don't want to be around you

then you just get too much for them and the cause of this might actually be

underlying jealousy the reason why they can't be a cheerleader the reason why

they cannot promote your growth is because of underlying jealousy but if

they cannot see that root cause they will not change their behavior so these

are great friends when you need a tissue paper but they're not a good friend when

you're growing they're not a good friend to be your cheerleader hater number two

hater number two is the sly insulter now this individual will tend to insult you

but they will kind of disguise their insults and jokes and when you say hey

you know that wasn't really nice they might just be like what are you talking

about I was just joking and in reality they are just disguising your hostility

towards you through their jokes and though that type of behavior so you will

be kind of left to unravel you know the insult from all the other fluff that's

come with it this person will really impact you because they will cause you a

lot of confusion they will cause you to second-guess yourself and maybe even

second-guess your sense of sanity you know what you believe is to be true and

what happens is you're psychologically wounded you're confused and you're

second-guessing yourself which is all the manipulation tactics that the sly

insulter uses on you hater number three hater number three is the social climber

okay well it's just you and this individual everything is good they're

cool to be around with but when a second or third person comes

into the mix everything changes now the social climber has one mission and their

mission is to be at the top of the social hierarchy and they do not care

about who they hurt or who they step on to get to the top of the social

hierarchy this person may sabotage your

friendships with other individuals they may sabotage everyone to get what they

want only thing is that the larger group can usually detect the manipulation

tactics that are being used by the social climber okay so they're

manipulation tactics are usually you know found out early on so the social

climber never gets to their goal all they really end up doing is causing a

lot of mess and a lot of damage in other people's friendships but they never get

to the top of the social hierarchy because everyone starts to realize how

what they're doing the manipulation tactics and how they're doing it

so social climbers actions in the and basically you know will cause them not

to get what their goal is because of their behavior they usually cannot hold

on to friends for a very long time and so they are massive failures at what

they're trying to do hater number four hey you're number four is the party

pack now these are people who when things are not going good when you're

not having career success when your relationships are not going well they're

nowhere to be found around you however when things are starting to be good once

things are getting good when your career is going well when you're experiencing

massive success and amazing relationship they will want to be around you now

think of the great gatsby write that movie with Leonardo DiCaprio in it so

you know when he's hosting these parties everyone's coming up to his parties and

they're having a good time but when he dies and it's his funeral and he has

nothing really to offer anyone only a few people end up showing up so that's

how the party pack is when there is something good going on when you're

having a party they all want to show but when something bad happens for example you

know your business goes down under or you know you lose your job the party

pack is not going to be anywhere to be around at the end of the day the party pack only wants

to be around when there is a party

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So we're back..

what's up guys so right now we're driving south of Munich and

we are gonna look for a place where we can record our next video hopefully

somewhere beautiful because Germany always gives us amazing landscapes so

see you there.

look guys we're almost at the lake where we wanted to go to record

our video and now it's raining like crazy..

Arg is gonna stop

raining. *Singing* and forth and back and forth the whole time ooh but it's always raining..

so guys we're going out, it stopped raining.

It's starting to rain more again guys I'm

gonna go back inside.

we forgot that we need photos from ourselves

I forgot the tripod and we have no idea where to put the camera.

No access to the lake, We are just going to go to a new lake and see if

that one works and if not then we'll see... look at this guys, what the hell? oh my

god! it looks like my stomach from inside.

*Sings* we're not gonna make it. oh my god that

curve! Guys I'm gonna throw up!

It's about to get dark.. it's super cold Raindrops, there's a bird, no! stay here

oh man, not even the bird wants to be with us. Thunders so we hear thunders guys I guess

we're gonna go home.

guys we finally made it back home it was a great day

we didn't really accomplish anything.. No we

didn't but we're still ready to do this! The name of this game is who is more likely

to. MOST likely! most?

we're gonna play who is most likely to?

so guys we have

our photos and these are the rules so there's no rules, so we have come up with

several questions and we're gonna say who is most likely to *blank* whoever we

think it's most likely to do a certain thing we're gonna put their photo up and

then you're gonna know more about us and yeah that's the whole point of today

it's gonna be whatever we think is the person that does something most likely... what?

so guys before we start make sure to click on that bell to get the

notifications whenever you post a video alrighty mighty let's start the

challenge in three two one

one two three no no

this one. why? because you're always late dude! on our

first date you were late!

are you kidding me?! I'm always smiling! ME too!

No! you're not! I'm such a happy person -no you are not I

have so many photos where I caught him just working or something is over

of course when I'm working no. -when I'm working I'm always like yeah sure as if..

oh that's difficult who is most likely to become rich? -None of us..

No! it's actually me the thing is.. -I like to mingle you know? I like to talk to people

and make friends and maybe I become friends with someone rich

She is gonna get a sugar daddy -No that's not true! -She was at the UN

and that's why she is gonna get a lot of money later, that's why I said Joss

I would say me because I think I can handle money well

if I would have it .. No that's such a lie! Totally!

*Discussing for a long time* blah blah blah

We are both getting rich because we are both a couple and we're a team!

cute

Hi Mom! no I'm not planning on getting a tattoo anytime soon but I'm not scared of

it like Janik. -She is, está planeando mucho.. ha -No!

So mean! Sorry but is true...

the only reason why Joss would not dance for a famous singer is because she's too

short yeah I was thinking the exact same thing.

The easiest one

Because you're slow. Hey! he didn't have to

think one second. -You are slow, you're small, you don't have muscles. Woah look at that!

pretty muscle actually.. I'm pretty muscled but only because the light is coming from there. no!

oh I thought you would

say you. No, she's way more outgoing than me

Why!? - Totally you! -I'm never angry! -We're driving and Janik is like.. arg. stupid woman!

you get angry so easily! she gets so angry at everything I do. I get like cute angry you know?

like stop tickling me.. -No! -I think it's a tie but we're not angry people

though. No we're not .We don't fight that much. Like, never actually..

I just wouldn't. - since I was very little it got me thinking maybe I should do

something with my nose. Who nose? ooooh

I don't know if I would though.. I'm a scary person, like i'm scared

Yeah you are a scary person / I'm very scared eh! I'm very scared of surgeries

right now I'm happy the way I am

next one

oh 'I'm good at managing money' it's about the camera if I buy a camera in one

day I'm gonna lose a lot of money

doesn't have to be physical also fight verbally one two three

why why me? I'm never getting into a fight! I'm so nice to

everyone we're talking about a fight with your friends. -So you're only talking

about girls fight -Yeah friends -No, with strangers a 100% Janik. -I will

tell them my honest opinion yes yeah but that's not a fight just a

discussion. So i'm not starting a fight. Let's agree to disagree I say Janik starts a

fight he says me yeah

of course because I don't sweat yeah sure. -Liar yes

if I'm editing a video and I'm working pretty much the whole time then I don't

have time to take a shower sorry yeah but it's nothing like one day

yeah yeah

yeah only when I have to edit a video and I don't have any time. -ya no, even when you

don't have to edit videos. -That's not true yeah I at least, at least I put

the plates from the table into the kitchen

It's totally you! He likes dumb humor, Adam Sandler the best. and then is super

old sometimes they are like from 1985. No!... Oh.. haha see?

And then he is just laughing alone and I'm like

super funny. -I pick cool movies.. yeah always about love. -No that's not true!

Janik takes everything that is for free! I still have a shampoo from a

hotel back in 2010. And he is so proud of it! yeah it's a souvenir it's a souvenir

because you can

just wait it out and the problems disappear. No! they don't

disappear they accumulate! I have to talk it out get it out of my system and then I

can get over it you know? that's so annoying

but only when I'm editing a video

oh my god I have an alarm

I always put my

ego second and I always put you and our relationship first I also put our

relationship first... right after my ego

one two three let's prove that now

I was hoping that you would say yourself! I think the reason is because I hate cooking, oh yeah if

I would live next to a McDonald's dude... I would go less to fast food places

because sometimes in between I would cook pasta

yes Janik loves dogs eh? you love dogs! I've

never taken one from the street and there's so many in Mexico I haven't

taken one either from the street but I will take a fly outside from inside of

our apartment I would catch it and then bring it outside and then release it

that's so disgusting dude..

no wait! I already went to singing classes and I

sang in front of people...

a little bit too late!

Oh my God! and then he says that I'm the flirtatious one! No, I picked the wrong one! -You are such a liar!

Explain why you choose yourself? because I don't realize I do it

unintentionally if I would realize that someone's flirting with me then I would

totally say: hey back off girl!

No that's not true that's not true!

It's totally you dude! It's both of us

we are both just checking our YouTube stats... so if you get a 'like' in this video

if you get a heart on your comment, you know that one of us is on the toilet!

is not true! if you are watching

this video while you are on the toilet leave a toilet emoji on the comments so

we know how many of them..

We are so cute we didn't want to say the other one! it's true though it's me. no it's me..

No! that's not true! Janik! you know that sometimes

we have to take your tenis away from the house because it smells so bad! yeah well my shoes smell but

not my feet because I washed them.

Yeah, I was about to say... ya you would just run against something and then everybody

would hear you already

farmer? yeah none

of us we suck!

I'm Way better with plants

I have to choose? yeah, yeah that's the answer

You want me to propose to you!?

guys that was our challenge for today we hope you hope you learned some stuff

about us it was interesting we had fun it has been a while since we did a

challenge like these so it was fun for us to get to sit down again with you

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Lesson 10 part B - Duration: 7:59.

As you listen to Part A

you were probably sitting there thinking,

'Oh my god. Great advice Kiki....

but there is no way that I'm going to do it.'

One of the things that I'd like to focus on now

is just the ask a question.

I keep saying questions are important.

We talked about sensitive topics yesterday.

We talked about rhetorical questions.

In the sensitive topics, asking the person

specific questions about the sensitive topic

was the best way to get a conversation going, right?

It's really hard to just start

in the middle of nowhere,

talking about gender inequality,

'So what do you think about gender inequality?

I think it's not fair.'

What do you mean?

What are you talking about?

Specific questions,

like, 'Have you ever experienced gender inequality?

In general, Is there gender inequality

in the workplace where you work?' So forth.

Being more specific.

Not just complete open questions.

Rhetorical questions, again these aren't even questions

that are expecting an answer and yet

they change the way the audience listens to you.

Another tool in your toolbox.

Here we're talking about meetings

and we're talking about

somebody in a position of power.

They're talking talking talking

and you need to slow them down.

You need a clarification.

I suggest just raising your hand.

I know this seems very awkward.

It's not -- you're not in school

but they're talking and they're going really fast

and you've lost all direction.

Just raise your hand.

Just be the one who doesn't it.

Raise your hand -

later people will thank you.

Raise your hand and say, 'Excuse me.

I'm so sorry to interrupt you.

I'm trying to understand what you're saying.

Just to make sure,

can you clarify what you mean

when you say the da da da account.

Can you give me an example

of what you mean

if you say we should all be trying harder?

How should we be trying harder?

Excuse me, I was just wondering if

you can elaborate on the last point you made.

I'm sorry, could you please explain one more time

what you mean when you say....'

The reason that I repeat

what the person said

is because it shows that I'm listening.

Which is really really important,

when you stop somebody

in the middle of what they're saying.

It's impolite to interrupt, however,

the person speaking -

if they're speaking so fast only natives

understand what that person is saying,

then it's okay for you to raise your hand.

At least show, I'm trying to pay attention.

I'm trying to understand what you're saying.

Right now, I'm losing track of what you mean.

That person needs to understand,

also for their own benefit,

that the people around them

- are interested,

want to understand, the desire is there,

are having a hard time.

If you don't tell me,

I don't know, I'll keep going,

and I'll keep doing it.

The meetings will stay the same.

They'll be only for natives.

Since non natives are present,

since the meeting is for natives and non-natives

asking for clarification is really a great way

to get the person to slow down,

get more information and

benefit everybody around you,

who is a non-native,

because they all feel the same way.

Believe me, they're not saying it

(but they all think it).

Again, the best format for an interrupting question

is a question of clarification -

where you repeat the last thing you understood.

'I understood what you said

about the material - the transportation - the da da da...

Can you clarify about the next point?

I didn't catch that.'

I heard A but I didn't understand B.

or I heard A but I need more information.

Could you explain what you mean

when you say A, B, C?

To practice my point I'm going to

read to you from the article.

Just a short paragraph.

I'm gonna read the first point

called 'stop censoring yourself.'

As practice try to make a question about

every statement you hear,

in the same fashion as I mentioned before:

I heard you say something about

censoring yourself, can you elaborate?

Can you explain?

Can you give more details?

Can you give me an example?

Make as many questions as you can

for the following passage.

Ready?

#1 Stop censoring yourself.

Once you stop censoring yourself

you'll automatically speak out more often.

It's important to share your thoughts and ideas

without over editing them

or limiting your expression.

Don't lose valuable opportunities

to share your views and be seen

as the influential person you are.

That was just one minute of me reading something.

I want you, in the comment section below,

to make 4- 5

can you make 5?

5 questions that start with

'I heard you say A, can you elaborate?

Can you give an example?

Can you explain?

You're making clarification questions

to practice what you can do during a meeting.

Your boss, your coworker will be talking,

a foreigner, in a social event,

A foreigner will be talking to you.

You heard one or two words,

but you didn't understand the whole thing.

You can say, 'Oh what do you mean

when you say gender inequality?

What does that mean?'

You may have heard the word

but you're not sure what it means.

Ask the person you're talking to.

Ask for clarification during a meeting.

These are all things that are embarrassing.

Asking questions shows

I didn't understand something,

and in some cultures that's on me (my fault).

But in Western culture it's not.

In Western culture the

speaker takes responsibility

and if you don't understand,

they want to be understood,

they want you to ask them questions.

I want you to ask me questions.

If you have questions for me,

even about sensitive topics,

feel free to post

a comment,

post a link to a video of you asking.

That's also helpful for you in general,

to practice your public speaking.

All right, guys.

Keep trying. Make mistakes, and keep going.

I'll see you next time.

Bye^^