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Welcome back to the gentleman's Gazette!

In today's video, we'll discuss how to spot a cheap suit and the eight visual hallmarks

of a bad suit.

No, we're not talking about to fit.

You are right, fit in a suit is paramount but we discuss how a suit should fit in this

video series here.

In this video, I want to provide you with a checklist so you can spot a cheap suit especially

when you're at the store.

The first hallmark of a cheap suit and something I always check for when I see a suit in person

is the collar seam.

For that, you'll flip up the collar and you look at the seam underneath.

In a cheap suit, this seam will always be machine made.

So how can you tell it's a machine made stitch?

Usually, it's like a very regular triangle versus a handmade stitch is irregular.

So take a closer look and see if the stitches are exactly the same or if they're irregular

and handmade.

Of course, there are variations so you have to train your eye but it's a very easy way

to identify a suit that way.

If it has a handmade stitch, it's not a cheap suit.

If it's machine made, it's likely cheap.

The second hallmark are buttonholes.

To most people, a buttonhole is just that it's functional; but to the connoisseur, a

buttonhole tells you a lot about the suit.

It can even tell you where a suit was made so the big distinction is handmade buttonhole

or machine sewn buttonhole.

If it's a handmade buttonhole, it's not a cheap suit.

You can identify handmade buttonhole by flipping over the buttonhole from the back and if it's

irregular, it is handmade.

If it's machine made, it is very very regular and it looks about the same as it doesn't

in the front.

That being said, you can also have a really crappy sewn handmade buttonhole which doesn't

make for a nice suit.

There are a lot more intricacies with handmade buttonholes but we'll cover those in another

video.

When you see machine made buttonhole, it doesn't necessarily mean that it's a cheap suit, however,

there are two different kinds.

There's the kind where the buttonhole is cut and then sewn which is the neither way in

a more high-quality way in the more expensive way or there is a way where a buttonhole is

sewn and uncut or maybe sometimes up even cut but just left closed.

If you encounter a closed buttonhole or a hole where you can see frays because it hasn't

been cut all the way or maybe it has been cut all the way but there's lots of fraying

and you can see the fabric on the inside of the buttonhole it means.

it is a cheap buttonhole.

It's the cheapest way to sew a buttonhole and you will likely have a cheap suit in your

hand when you see that.

The third hallmark of a cheap suit is a lack of fabric reserve.

Why would you need one?

If you want to alter your garment; it's always good to have extra fabric, otherwise, you

cannot make anything bigger.

On a cheap suit, the three and a half yards of fabric are probably the most expensive

part in the entire suit and so manufacturers try to cut corners and minimize use of fabric

wherever they can.

The easiest way to find out if there's a fabric reserve is to look at the pants.

Take the pants inside out and look at all the side seams as well as the cuffs on the

inside.

If there is half an inch, an inch, or two inches, that's great and chances are, it's

not a cheap suit.

If there's very little fabric left and it's just an overlock stitch that keeps the fabric

from fraying, you'll likely have a cheap suit in your hand.

If the suit has cuffs you can also take a look at that because a proper cuff is long

and folded and in theory, you can take out the stitching and elongate your pants.

A cheap cuff is cut and then just attached which saves fabric manufacturer but it prevents

you from elongating the pants at all.

The fourth way to identify a cheap suit is by looking closely at the stitching.

When I'm at a vintage store, I check those three hallmarks before them and then I go

to the stitching.

First, I look at how the lining is sewn into the sleeve at the end of the sleeve, if it's

sewn in by hand it's likely a quality suit, if it's sewn in by machine, it's different.

There are two kinds; on the one end you can have it sewn in so there is no flexibility

and that's a very cheap suit, on the other hand, you can sew it in

by machine with a stitch it is very loose and it's a better way and it's also what you

get with a handmade stitch.

Since handwork can be very different and so can machine work, it may be a little harder

for you to determine what is machine made and what is not.

In general, if you have a high consistency it always tells you it's machine sewn.

Also, if there's no flexibility leave it behind it's gonna be a cheap suit.

The fifth way to identify a cheap suit is the buttons.

Most cheap suits have plastic buttons.

Sometimes the buttons look painted and it's because they are, on the other hand, I have

also seen higher-end plastic buttons that are made to look like horn buttons and it's

much more difficult to determine a difference.

Sometimes you can take two buttons together and look for a specific sound, I find that

works quite well with mother-of-pearl for example, but that's rarely used for suit and

horn buttons can sound exactly the same so therefore, you have to look very closely at

the button and touch it.

Horn is usually a little heavier than plastic and

has a nicer, smoother feel and a natural shine.

Plastic, on the other hand, is bad because it breaks very easily and then you have to

sew on new buttons and it's always hard to find any exact matching button and then you

have to do it for all them which costs a lot of money.

Another quality option for buttons are corozo buttons; they come from a palm tree and they

have a slightly inconsistent color and they're not regular like a machine made button so

you can distinguish them.

The big advantage for them is that they could be colored in basically any color so if there's

no natural horn button, that's what quality manufacturers use.

Plastic buttons are always for cheap suits.

Another great way to spot a cheap suit is by identifying if it's a polyester lining

or not.

Quality suits have linings made out of sometimes viscose

which is less expensive.

A higher-end option would be silk, sometimes you also see cotton, but very cheap suits

have polyester lining or blends with polyester.

By law, manufacturers are required to tell you what material the lining is made of so

look for tags inside the suit to tell you what the lining is made of.

Polyester linings are not only cheap but they also make you feel hot and they don't breathe

very well which makes for a very uncomfortable suit wearing experience.

On top of that, they wear out quickly.

So not only are they bad, but they're really great in helping you to identify if you have

a piece of crap in front of you.

The seventh way to identify a cheap suit is by the material composition of the outer fabric.

Most quality suits are made out of a hundred percent wool, the problem is, manufacturers

can sometimes add one or two percent of an artificial fiber and still call it a hundred

percent.

In that case, you have to rely on the brand and look for a brand label.

If you look for Vitale Barberis Canonico,l maybe Holland and Sherry, Wain Shiell, Loro

Piana, you name it Zegna, if you see a tag like that, chances are you have a higher end

suit in front of you.

Of course, those tags can be faked and especially if you get suits made out of Asia that may

be the case, so buyer beware.

Quality suit materials can also be made out of wool and cashmere blends.

Sometimes, they have silk, sometimes they have linen, seersucker suit is made out of

100% cotton but overall, you want to make sure that the suit doesn't have any artificial

fibers, no nylon, or polyester, or anything else that

is not natural.

If it's unnaturalon the tag, chances are it's a very cheap suit.

On top of that, artificial materials often have a tendency to make the suit shiny which

is very undesirable unless it's a sophisticated natural fiber such as mohair.

The eighth way to identify the cheap suit is to check for a glued or fused interlining.

Quality suits have a sewed interlining which is either hand sewn or machine sewn and we

talk about the details in our $100 versus thousand dollar videos and 500 versus five

thousand dollar suit videos here.

When you have the suit in front of you, what you can do is you can take the upper layer

of the fabric and pinch it with your finger.

If you can actually remove this layer from the layer that's underneath a bit and you

can still feel it, it means you have a suit with a canvas that was sewn; if that's not

possible, it means you have a fused garment, sometimes a fused garment is also a lot stiffer

especially if it's a cheaper suit so if something doesn't drape well and feels very plasticky

and thick, it's probably a cheap suit.

If you follow all of these eight steps and you go to a store, I guarantee you you'll

be able to spot a cheap suit and you won't make the mistake and pay for something that

is not worth it.

Even if you use those eight hallmarks and you end up with a quality suit, it really

matters that it fits you, otherwise,it looks bad and it will reflect poorly on you.

To learn more about suits and all its intricacies please check out our entire series about suits

which will help you ending up with something that is worth its money it will stand a test

of time, lasts for a while and make you feel and look like a million bucks.

In today's video, I'm wearing a two-piece suit double-breasted 6*2 - it's a special

Vitale Barberis Canonico fabric which was made for the anniversary it's extremely fine

merino wool it's 3 ply it is not quite a dark navy but a lighter shade it touches like cashmere

but unfortunately, it also wrinkles a lot which is often a problem of very fine high

spun wool fortunately will be the steam the wrinkles come right out the shirt I'm wearing

is Italian it's very thin and summery and has a bold stripe in brown light blue yellow

and white because of that I chose a pale yellow pocket square with a hand X stitch in both

directions is made by Fort Belvedere and matches the stripe of the yellow in the shirt that's

why it ties everything together the x stitching on the edges are hand rolled and very unique

because usually you can only find single stitches that are irregular and it's something very

special where you need to find a very highly trained artisan to really produce that if

you like that kind of pocket square head over to our shop here we even have different colors

the tie I'm wearing is vintage it's a light blue with a large pattern and because of that

it works quite well with a stripe which is quite bold on its own the boutonniere is likewise

from Fort Belvedere it's handmade and hand dyed in Germany from silk and it picks up

the yellow tones in the pocket squares and the shirt because my suit is dark I chose

a dark green pinky ring and I combined it with solid monkey fist cufflinks that are

also gold you can find them in our shop here for my socks I didn't have a pair of solid

socks that matched exactly the color of the pants that's why I went with the shadow stripe

blue and navy socks from Fort Belvedere that you can wear with any kind of navy pants in

a formal business setting because they will always work with it because the color tones

just work much better than solids and it will always be office appropriate in line with

a warmer tones of my pocket square and my shirt I went with a darker cognac pair of

full brogue shoes in fact this is the very first pair of Goodyear welted shoes I bought

as a teenager at a vintage store for a hundred bucks I had them resold many times and I still

wear them happily today they have some signs of wear but that's character and patina that

they acquired from travels around the world I'm happy to have this piece of craftsmanship

and I think it's important to show you that if you invest in quality it will last you

for a long time and at the gentleman's Gazette that's what we're all about style and quality

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in this video I'm going to show you how to crumb coat a cake, so stay tuned. Now

before we get started make sure you subscribe to my channel and click the

little bell so you'll be notified every time I upload a new video. Today I'm

going to show you how I crumb coat. I have a cake here that is for a wedding

and it's pretty large, it's 14 inches and as you can see there are some loose

crumbs here and there and you don't want that to get into your final frosting. So

in order to to make that happen we do what's called a crumb coat

or a sometimes it's called a dirty coat. And all it is a thin layer of

buttercream or ganache and you just spread it thinly on your cake.

I like to start on the top of the cake and then have it go over the edge so

there's a little bit of excess and it goes down around the edge. My

technique is kind of like a little bit of a wiggle with the spatula and

bringing out some of the excess along the edge there and then I can start

moving that frosting down. This doesn't have to be neat, all it's doing

is it's it's attaching the crumbs to it and making it so the crumbs will stay in

place so that when you go to frost. all your crumbs will will not get into the

frosting. Have an extra little dish or Bowl so that you

can put any of the buttercream that might have crumbs in it, should go in a

separate dish. Now I just put a little bit more on there and I'm just going to

bring it over the edge and start working it down.

You want this to be pretty thin.

This is the chocolate cake, my chocolate buttermilk cake with chocolate mousse,

and it's going to be frosted with an ombre, a very soft purple ombre and

then I'm going to put a caramel syrup on it. A little bit more

and that should do it and then I'm gonna go across the top.

and this is another opportunity for you to try to get the top even.

But don't try to, don't mess with it too much it doesn't really, it doesn't have

to be good yet, It doesn't have to look nice yet. and that's it. and then I'm

gonna just because I'm gonna frost this today I'm just gonna put it in the

fridge the way it is. If I was gonna leave it overnight I would cover with

plastic. And that's all there is to it that's a crumb coat or a dirty coat.

Thanks for watching and I'll see you soon I'd like to take just a minute to

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What Movie Ghost Would You Rather Be Haunted By - After Hours (The Sixth Sense, The Ring) - Duration: 8:19.

- They specifically say it was a graveyard

smash enjoyed by the old ghosts.

It's about one last hurrah for the lost

in GI generations of Boris Karloff.

- Yeah, you're right, it catches on with the flash.

Maybe not for anyone in the modern world, but...

- It's just the monster, the ghouls from their abodes,

Wolfman, Dracula and his sons, Igor and the chains

and the coffin bangers.

- You forgot the crypt keeper five.

- Ah, the coffin bangers are are the crypt keeper five.

- No more!

No more monster mash!

Did nobody get my email about the group costume?

Cody!

You begged me to be Indiana Jones!

- Oh!

Right, oh, I started a thing, like a costume thing,

then, I started this other thing

and then when I was done with that thing,

I forgot about the first thing, the costume thing.

Is it Halloween?

- I don't do costumes.

- Kimia?

- I don't have email.

- You gave me your email address!

- No, home address.

Kimia @ pacific net, as in a net

I sleep near, on the Pacific.

Anyway, I don't do phones and computers, okay?

Not since I saw those Ring movies.

It's like my grandpa always said,

"never let a ghost crawl through your television."

(unnerving creepy music)

- Ghosts do love technology.

- Yeah, because they know that we love technology.

Poltergeist, the Ring, that Slipknot dude from Sinister?

They rely on the living seeing their Mumblecore Death films.

They're like goth art students.

- Ooh, they're exactly like goth art students!

They even use old film formats.

- Right?

Those characters have to go out of their way

to get cursed in those films.

Like the new Ring movie, starts with

a college professor digging up that old VHS

and purposefully spreading it.

In Sinister, Ethan Hawke is investigating

the family that lived in the house,

prompting him to see those old attic reels.

There's nothing formidable about a spooky curse

that has the same prerequisite as nanna's home movies.

- It's actually kinda silly how much

the phantom world relies on us.

Like, in Sinister, the death contraptions

are made by the children, not the demons.

- Because demons can't interact with the physical world.

- I only saw the trailer.

So you're saying that tree gallows rig

was made by that little girl?

And the killer lawnmower?

And the chained up car?

- All the kids.

- That means that, that demon had to stand there

and instruct to those children how to make all of that.

He had to patiently walk them through,

measuring and cutting rope and creating counterweights

and sawing wood and creating a pulley system,

now that's...

Actually, that's kind of adorable.

- No, that's wildly pitiful.

The humans basically have to haunt themselves.

- Exactly, I mean, all you have to do is avoid technology.

The girl from the Ring?

She basically calls you and schedules

a time for when she's gonna crawl out from your TV.

- Seven days...

- As if you're gonna pencil that in and

not just run away to the wilderness?

- But, you know what's better than that?

Not doing any of those things.

So what if there is a ghost you could totally overpower

by just like, watching TV or playing video games.

- I'm listening.

- Okay, so, aside from killing you,

what's the other reason that ghosts haunt people in movies?

- To make sex pottery.

- To tell the living, who killed them.

- Yes, not the...

The second thing, not the pottery.

Jesus, Carmen...

Not the pottery, Carmen.

In movies like Stir of Echoes and What Lies Beneath

and Gothica and the Sixth Sense,

all these ghosts are just trying to

warn people about who killed them.

But they're not getting revenge

or poltergeisting up a police report,

they're just jump-scaring and knocking old photos

off of shelves, they're not trying to hurt you

and you're in no danger.

- But, you'll have to solve their murders.

- Do I?

Or, could I just zone out in front of Rick and Morty?

Start to help them, but then get sleepy

and forget about the whole Halloween costume thing.

Ghosts are just dusty old dopes.

- So, you're okay living the rest of your life

being harassed by frustrated ghosts?

- What's so different than living with

a sibling that jumps out at you every once in a while.

Eventually, I would resign myself

to brushing my teeth while a wretched old hag

is lurking behind me in the mirror.

- I don't know, I don't think anybody

can live with the crippling anxiety

of being shadowed by the undying ghost of a murder victim.

- Except, drugs exist.

A couple of valium, maybe some oxycodone

and I am not afraid of any of the ghosts.

Or get weed, ghosts hate weed.

- Yeah, he's right.

Ghosts like Freddy Krueger and Pennywise

rely on your nightmares.

Weed can literally suppress REM sleep.

- It also gets you high.

- Not to mention that in It, his powers

and weaknesses depend on whether you

believe in something hard enough.

- This is battery acid, you slime!

- Oh yeah, that kid from It believed

that his inhaler would hurt the clown

and his belief made it real.

- And you know what else I believe can hurt clowns?

A knife stab to the neck!

- Yeah, right!

Or a gun!

- Or a right between the hair tufts.

- For a lot of these goons, it's like mind over matter.

That's why my ideal haunting is a ghost that

tries to influence your actions or something like that,

ghosts are just former people.

I can deal with people.

Like that Lloyd the bartender guy?

If he's so clever, why is he

still a bartender in the afterlife?

That's why, I would lead him along

for a couple more ghost drinks, couple more...

Spirits.

If you will.

(laughter)

- Like a...

Like a, like a...

A spooky beer.

- The heck?

- Movies like, The Shining, The Innkeepers, Lights Out,

The Conjuring, they rely on the protagonist

being tricked into going into a dark room

or following a suspicious noise.

They ain't getting my Black ass.

If I hear like a child or something

crying from a dark alley,

I will be running in the opposite direction.

- From an injured child?

- That's what it wants you to think.

- But what if it wants you to think that

because it is an injured child?

- Ghosts can't get injured?

- I know that, but what I mean...

- Look, we all agree not to help the scheming injured child.

But what if it's not a ghost?

What if it's a demon or a cursed item?

- It's the same principle.

In movies like Paranormal Activity or Oculus,

they feed off our negative emotions.

You just say, "hell to the mother(beep) no"

and keep it pushing.

Also, valium would probably help.

- I don't know, I feel like every situation

is like, a huge amount of unpleasantness

that you'd have to deal with for potentially,

the rest of your life.

- Well yeah, it's ghosts.

I mean, no matter what you pick,

you have to be on your guard somehow.

Your classic ghost isn't going around

rattling chains just to help people.

What is this?

What's going on?

What's...

What's happening in your brain right now?

- A Christmas Carol!

Oh yes, that's my ideal haunting!

Okay, still, technically a horror film

because the ghosts are all ghoulish and scary.

But, these Christmas spirits just want to improve your life.

Okay, they just want you to be kinder

to family and friends and not ignore

their wants and needs or their emails or not have an email.

Okay, this is the only haunting

where the endgame is to improve the living.

Scrooch hit the jackpot!

Okay, he got three immortal life coaches

who traveled through time and teach him

not to, bah humbug his friends' holiday spirits.

And at the end, he is engaging with people,

he's not leaving them in poverty

or sadness or to walk by Dodger's stadium

looking like a disheveled Yankees fan,

they threw a rock at me!

- Wait, wait, wait, your ideal haunting

is to be pestered by three crotchety old White men

telling you what they think is best?

- No, yeah, no, you're right.

I don't want to know the politics of a guy

who calls himself, the Ghost of Christmas Past.

- We all know what news channel he's watching.

- Yeah.

And probably while waving his fists and saying,

"whatever happened to my Transylvania twist?"

- Like the song?

- Yeah, like the song!

♫ Full circle

- I hate circles.

- Because they're rock shaped?

- Low blow man...

- Did it hit your leg?

- You're like mean...

- Nicer than the guy who threw a rock at you

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Interview: How To Achieve Your Dreams With English | Advanced Conversation - Duration: 29:57.

hey Rene what's up? hey Stefanie I'm good how are you doing? great thanks

awesome well I'm really excited to be doing this interview with you because I

know that your journey of improving your English over the last year has been

incredible you've really improved I've gotten to witness a lot of those

improvements myself because we've been working together for I don't know how

many months has it been like nine months or something like that yeah I guess it

should be like nine months or something it's like a big journey but you know I

have been improving my English in a really awesome way I'm absolutely another person

you're another person that's how you describe it that's awesome so why don't we start there

because in this interview basically what I want to do is I just want to talk to

you about your journey of improving your English like what worked what didn't

work and then how your English has helped you advance in your career and

then of course you know you just went on a trip to the U.S. to a really important

conference so I'd love to talk about that later on in the video so first just

to start us off tell us a little bit about how you learned English and how

you started improving even more over this last year okay so basically you

know as every people I have been learning English or I mean trying to

learn English since I was at a school then in the high school and also in the

university and also I took a course in another Institute here in Ecuador but it

was kind of weird because I was studying I used to be the like the best student

or something like that but I was unable to establish a conversation with

somebody really in English you know then I guess it was all related with my lack of

confidence because my English was not really bad but it's different when you

are just solving a test or something or conjugating verbs and just writing

something it's not the same as real interaction you know absolutely not

because I mean when you're in a test you have like a hole context about where the

test is I mean you have certain topics that you're gonna try in that test but

when you are just talking I mean the other person is just trying to establish

a communication trying to communicate their ideas and you have no

idea what is the next sentence or something so you need to learn how to

listen and how to you know answer questions and establish a good

communication yeah so would you say that a year ago maybe you weren't capable of

having a conversation like we are having right now?

absolutely absolutely I remember that when I started to work in the company

that I am currently working it was kind of weird for me because I had a really

lack of confidence and when I had to talk with somebody else in the United

States it was like a big mess for me I used to be really scared you know

because I was like oh my gosh I would do something wrong here so we actually

before we continue I totally forgot to ask you this but why don't you tell

everyone a little bit about what you do because you mentioned you live in

Ecuador so you're a native Spanish speaker but what is it that you do okay

so as you know I am living here in Ecuator that's a country in South America

so I am native a Spanish speaker and I am currently working for a big company

in States actually our client is from the States but the company is from

London it's headquarters is in London, that's cool, haha, it's in London but the technical lead is in California and the guy that is in charge

of the businesses is located also in Silicon Valley and you're a software

developer yeah I am a software developer we are many several developers here in in

Ecuador actually we have offices here in Quito is the capital of Ecuador and also

in another city that is Loja we are working here from four clients you know

in the States London so when you speak with clients

are you speaking with people in the United States or in London? the most of

the time just in the United States but some co-workers are working with some

people in London so basically a year ago you didn't feel confident speaking with

the clients in the USA but today how do you feel when you speak with them? today

is like just starting a conversation with another people from the same

country you know it's a really big change because when I used to be in

those meetings I used to often ask for the help of somebody else just to listen

and try to understand you know I used to record

the whole conversation so that repeat I remember that yes you know you don't

record the conversations to listen? and.. No, now I am just taking a notebook and

writing some notes and that's it I guess and the most of the time I am just

establishing a communication and.. I have to say Rene that's phenomenal because when

I remember when we first started working together which I think was like in

January of this year 2017 that was like your biggest concern you were just like

Stefanie I have these meetings with native English speakers and I don't

understand what's going on and so you know we were talking about that and so

now here we are in the end of September and you're like yeah you know I attend

the meetings I understand all I don't have to record them anymore you just

take notes and then you're actually able to input like before you were just

listening and trying to understand now you listen understand and you're

probably able to give feedback and to speak in these meetings is that right?

yeah actually like that you know it's like a big change because when I used to

work here in Ecuator I used to be like the one in the in the meetings and all

the time providing solutions and giving ideas and things like that in your

native language yeah in my native language then when I started to work with

this company was like really weird because I I had some ideas but I was

unable to really express what I was thinking it was awful but now we have

the last meeting a couple of weeks ago and we were talking really fluent way

you know and I was I was giving them some ideas also providing feedback

asking some questions that I had it was really pretty cool so how did you get to

this place in such a short amount of time? because you were probably stuck in

the same place for years you know where you pretty much understood English but

you didn't feel fluent or confident you were stuck there for years and then you

had this breakthrough and now you're like yeah you know I speak with native

English speakers my English isn't perfect but we communicate and I'm a

leader at my company now and so how did that happen for you? yeah okay

it's absolutely different when you're going to an institute or something to

just study English and try to memorize these the grammar rules and

all that stuff and it's absolutely different when you are just talking with

somebody else when you started the Academy and we started to just

communicate talking about other careers or profession you said when I started

the Academy? yeah the Academy, the English Full-Time Academy and we were just talking I

mean if you wanna talk in English this is your advice if you wanna talk in English you just

have to go ahead and talk in English that's the only way that you can improve

that skill there isn't any other way you know and when I used to do some

Liver videos I used to play over and over again and then I figure out what were

my faults and then I started to take notes and then try to correct them you

know it's really hard because you are making a lot of mistakes all the time

but if you are paying attention to them and trying to fix them it works

ya know that was actually something that I was really impressed by with you and I

think it was our first or second call again months and months ago but

basically you said Stefanie I did my presentation video I had to do it so

many times because I wasn't satisfied with it but by doing it so many times

you know I caught so many mistakes and I learned and I was like isn't that

amazing Rene you know because this is I think what's lacking from a lot of

educational systems is the whole experimentation from the students where

you guys actually do work and analyze your own work and not necessarily rely

24/7 on a teacher to correct your mistakes because a lot of times students

are like Oh teacher correct me correct me and it's like you will find your own

mistakes if you just really start looking for them so I think that that's

phenomenal and for those who are watching who don't know what the Academy

is the English Full-Time Academy was the first program I ever started online for

English full-time and then we went from an academy to a community and then I

Shut down the community and I'm doing other projects now but I.. don't worry you

guys I'm not going anywhere I'll do more program projects and communities but

basically in that environment it was an online group where there would be like

coaching and training and feedback and the students basically were free to

interact with each other and Rene took full advantage of this

what it was like an experiment really it was a creation and he just I remember

you did one live video and your first live video I think was like two minutes

like I do live videos on Facebook you did one in our group and then your next

video was like three minutes your next video was four minutes your next video

was seven minutes and pretty soon you were just like hey you guys you started

a group like everybody needs to do this this is amazing I feel so confident and

a few days ago you made a video I think that was 17 minutes and I was like oh my

gosh this guy is on fire you know when you're just starting it's kind of really

awful when you don't because you feel you don't have something to say and you

are just thinking oh my gosh I will do a mistake and another and another one but then you are starting to

just speak and communicate things that would've really worked for other people

and then you just start to talk and in an absolutely natural way yeah and I

think that you're such a good example for other people because you really show

people that confidence is a mindset thing like right now we're talking and

you understand me perfectly but you you're making some mistakes your

pronunciation isn't perfect but it's like who cares we're having an awesome

conversation and you're confident you're more confident than other people out

there who have English that's technically better than yours is what I

mean? and so but that's what everyone needs everyone needs this kind of

confidence that you've developed because now you can go out there you can work

for you know an english-speaking company you can network with other English

speakers you can talk with the clients you can be a leader in your industry and

English is no longer holding you back and you'll keep improving it as you go

along but the point is to be able to interact confidently with others and I

think you really truly demonstrate that yeah absolutely

actually I have one friend of mine that is he is studying in a in a .. in

an institute that is really expensive here in Quito actually is one of the

best ones here but I feel he has a really big lack of confidence because his

english is awesome it's perfect he knows a lot of grammar rules he's all

the time with a big book all the time making exercises and things like that but when he has to talk

it it has a big problem that's a .. terrible, i mean his

English is better than mine but I don't know why he can't use it you see why confidence is so important it's

everything because I I know what this is like because as I you know tell

everybody I went through this when I was learning Spanish I was like you I was

the best one in my class and I was like your friend you know my Spanish was

perfect but I did not have confidence and even though maybe I was able to

speak well that lack of confidence held me back from so many opportunities I

wouldn't speak up I wouldn't share my ideas and it was a huge struggle took me

years to overcome it and I didn't have anybody helping me but confidence is

like the one thing that they don't teach you or help you with in English

Institutes it's always teaching teaching teaching

but the real-world practice building the confidence and all that stuff it's

missing its lacking so obviously when I created English full-time that was kind

of like my goal I understood I was like okay we need confidence you know Rene

I've done a lot of traveling and I see so many English speakers around the

world who don't even identify as English speakers they still think they're

English learners and I look at them and I go you're an English speaker we're

speaking English right now you're entertaining me like give yourself some

credit and give yourself some permission to call yourself an English speaker and

yeah again you'll keep improving as you go but at some point you have to cross

over and usually the crossover happens in your mind it's when you decide yeah I

speak English yeah yeah absolutely like you are just missing a lot of

opportunities because you don't wanna use your English it's as you said my

English is not perfect I'm making a lot of mistakes

but I right now I don't really care about those mistakes I am just trying to

communicate my ideas I try to really be like effective in the things that I am doing

exactly and speaking of being effective in the things that you're doing I want

you to tell us now about the conference in the USA because you wrote to me about

that conference and I was so happy for you because you're like Stefanie I was

able to ask questions and so just tell us about this conference I guess that

conference was like the graduation of your program or something for you

we were talking with other non-native speakers in the group and we will grow

in our confidence and things like that and then was like the big test for me

when the boss of my company arrived to the company to Ecuator a couple of

months ago and he had a conversation with me we were talking like one hour or

so and he is from California it was like a big test for me then he said ok you

are ready you can go to the conference and I'm going to buy the tickets for you

wow, wait, stop. That's huge

That's huge because he felt that you were ready with your English your fluency your

confidence he the boss of the company sent you bought the ticket for you so

you could have this amazing experience like this is what I try to tell people

like English will give you so many opportunities but you have to go after

them so okay sorry sorry for interrupting it's just... no you're right

absolutely then after that was like okay I'm

doing awesome here in English and then I had to go to States and then try to see

how my English is but then they're in a country that all the people is speaking

in English so then I went to this conference I was in New York and the

first thing when I arrived to States I mean New York was oh my gosh I'm here

what am I gonna do? it's so I am alone here I was with nobody else in the airport in another

country you're alone oh my gosh what I'm gonna do so I just started to

see how the things are how the people are communicated and you know in New

York the people is speaking a lot of languages people talking in Chinese

and you met Erika there too, right? yes I met Erika also there okay

it was awesome Erika was another person from our Academy group and Erika is awesome so

shout out to Erika and she was she lives in New York and she's just like Rene

you're coming to New York here you know let's hang out and you guys had a blast

right? yeah okay it was the first day and then when I arrived to New

York I remember when I was leaving the airport I didn't have idea what I will

do you know, because I just started to read all the the cards

that were there about the taxis and things like that and then I was just

talking with somebody else from Indonesia or something and then he told me that he

help me with a taxi you know we were talking in English in a really harsh

English because his English was also kind of hard to understand yeah, it was a struggle and then the taxi

arrives, arrived there and it was a big guy from New York and was talking to me

about how and things like that and then we were talking a

little bit I was scared, you know, then I remember that I had

brought some tickets to go and visit the Statue of Liberty and I just ride to

New York and without idea about where I was or something and then I asked for

somebody else to how to get to Battery Park that is a park that is really close

to the Liberty Island mm-hmm and then I was oh my gosh he was giving me

directions about how to get that Park and then I took the metro I got lost

there you know because New York City's Metro is huge but then I was able to get there and visit the Statue of Liberty and I was really

excited I was doing some videos taking a lot of pictures it was amazing because

of it and then at night I had dinner with Erika and we were talking about our

struggles and also about how amazing your community is and things like that

it was awesome you know meeting a person but not just through the webcam or

something but in person, it was absolutely great, you know yeah I think that to me was first of all it was a

dream come true because when I started my academy and community you know what

was it like a year ago over a year ago I was like I want to bring people together

from all around the world help them improve their English and then hopefully

eventually you know people can become friends and meet in real life and that's

literally what happened you guys and you guys surprised me because I had no idea

you were planning on meeting up and then you took a picture and you put it in our

group and I like I was like oh my gosh I started showing it to everybody I

don't remember who I was with my family I'm sure and I was like look you guys look look look so now that that was

phenomenal that you guys got to meet up there you know having met in our

community and then you know gotten to know each other and become friends and

then meet in real life oh my gosh and all of it is just English it's how

English can bring people together so I get really I get really excited

especially when I see like the success of the people that I work with so that's

awesome yeah it was really awesome and you know as I

know that Erika was there I was feeling like okay I have one friend in this

country and that's also yeah even that gives you like peace of mind yeah

absolutely then at the next day I had to assist

that conference and it was great I remember when I write there I was oh my

gosh this is like the big conference for developers and I am here Wow

what was the name of the conference? is QCon

yeah that one is celebrated also in Brazil in London in San Francisco and in

New York mm-hmm so now I was there and I was really Wow I don't know how to

express that I was looking to the people that was arriving they're looking to the

speakers many of them was like the big ones for me and I used to just watch

their videos or read their books or something or their blogs and then I was

there with them you know yeah it was so cool and when I attended the first session it was

awesome because it was okay we are doing many things in the in the good way but

we have to fix many many other things and I was just writing some notes and

then I started to attend to other and another session and then I was in

session that was really technical and I had a lot of questions to that guy and I

was thinking okay I have a lot of question for him

this will be the unique chance that I will have to talk with somebody like

like him you know this question so I had to just go ahead and ask him right but

my English is not perfect but it was like a big mess in my mind you

you're just like I don't know how I'm gonna do this but it's a

once-in-a-lifetime opportunity yeah okay then I just I just said for

myself this will be the unique chance that you will have to talk with this guy

probably so you just have to do it maybe you'll make mistakes

probably no nobody will remember it or you won't it to nobody else you know in your

whole life you will never see them again that's exactly what I tell myself too when I have to do something scary or embarrassing I'm

like they'll never know me or see me ever again yeah absolutely then I just

started to to talk with them asking questions and it was awesome you know

they were able to understand me I don't know with my questions were well formed

or not but they were able to understand me and answer my questions and then

after the meetings also we were just drinking a coffee with them and asking

some questions it was absolutely awesome it was I can't it was phenomenal I'm sure that

that entire experience just did wonders for your overall confidence because you

were already probably feeling pretty confident after having practiced you

know with the people in our group and you had made so many improvements but

then like you said this was the test and you realized it was a once-in-a-lifetime

opportunity so you just decided to go for it and that is like the difference I

think between success and failure in English or in a language because what

happens to a lot of people is they get the opportunity but then they get scared

and so then they don't do it but that's the moment when you have to say it

doesn't matter I'll never see these people again or whatever you have to

tell yourself in your mind to make yourself brave enough to overcome your

fears because once you overcome them that's like when you go over like the

hardest part the mountaintop whatever and on the other side it's just

beautiful because you feel so accomplished and it gives you the

confidence and the courage to go on and to do more right yeah yeah absolutely

you know in that in that confidence then at the lunch time I was just looking to

so many people you know from many play many countries around the world and I

just started to sit together them and just establish conversation and it was

awesome also because I was able to meet people from all

many people from South America but people also from Germany from India from

the States many States from the United States you know Philadelphia California

Florida I don't remember And you just started talking with everyone that's it was awesome no it is it is because like you said a year ago just a

year ago and actually you went to this conference I think like a month or two

ago so literally like six months ago you probably weren't prepared for something

like this but now you went it was amazing you had all these breakthroughs

and I know and you know that that moment was very important for you and for your

entire career because you have even bigger goals and more things that you

want to achieve so what's your next step what are you you know what do you have

your eye on next what do you want to do next in your career? okay you know after

I attend to these to these conference I then I went to visit our client offices

also and then I was able to figure out that the environment that they are

working it's absolutely different and they want that we have then I just

started to think that we had to transform the whole environment that we

have here in Ecuador and make it more like an environment from from from

the States do you mean like it's more productive more organized or what do you

mean? in in all aspects actually because the people in the States is absolutely more

organized in the things that they have they are owning their products that they

are building they are not wasting any minutes in the in the whole day they are

all the time doing productive things and also in that conference I was able to

gather a lot of knowledge to to Ecuador it was awesome so basically you want to like take the

ideas and everything that you learned and observe there and you want to start

implementing them where you're at to help yeah you know your company your

country everything moves forward yeah absolutely

actually I gave like four or five trainings here for the company here in Ecuator

training? yeah trainings about the same topics that I learned there and

since we have one guy that is from Iran and he speaks just in English I had to

make those trainings also in English you know it was amazing you know because you

know they're here in Ecuator there are many Spanish speakers just and in the

company too but since he just speaking English I made those trainings in

English and it was an absolutely other story that we can talk about in another conversation

that sounds like an awesome project again that a year ago you probably weren't prepared for it so it

seems like you've made some really really incredible strides in your

English and in your career you know over the last six months to a year so I think

that's awesome I bet it feels phenomenal I know there's awesome things in store

for you so what tips do you have for other

English learners that are maybe where you were a year ago like if you could

give them advice what would you tell them okay you just have to take the

challenges you know if you have challenges in your life you just have to

go for them and take them and then just we're really hard to to really achieve

all the goals that you have in your life all the goals that I used to have like

one year ago were related with English stuff so I decided to take them just

look as crazy for for a company from US and and work with them and then I

only had to use my English it was it was not perfect it's not perfect yet today

but you just have to use it you just have to take challenges you have to

don't pay attention to your mistakes to the mistakes that you are making you know

just go for it if you want to get something just go for it

that's that's the place that I can take it well I don't know I think that is

really great advice Rene and I mean it's so so simple but again everything

is in our mind we hold ourselves back I think so much sometimes just because of

fear or excuses you know and so you can make excuses for everything you know say that again if you want you can

have excuses for everything yes oh yeah you can you can but you know I think

with the internet with social media with the

way that we're now able to connect to other people around the world there's no

excuse really there's so much great information on the Internet and then you

just need to practice your English speak with other people and like you did you

joined a program that really helped so when you see the opportunity for

something like that to take it and to realize also that traditional language

education can help you in many ways it can teach you vocabulary and grammar but

at some point you have to cross over and start really using English in the real

world so to speak even if that just means on social media with other English

learners and other English speakers yeah that kind of vocabulary that you're

learning in the Institute is not really helpful because you are just learning

the words and learning the translation into your native language but you are

not using them so you just lost them really well I know I know the struggle

too because like I said I've spent years doing the traditional learning method

and it wasn't until I started speaking Spanish with other Spanish speakers it

was like boom fluency just happened I didn't even have to really even try that

just immersion method works so well because your brain the way it tries to

communicate it forces you to think in another language and like right now I'm

in Italy and the other day we were hanging out with someone who is Italian

and doesn't speak English or Spanish I have no idea how or when I learned so

much Italian but I was talking in Italian and he was understanding me and I mean I

wasn't speaking perfectly at all but you know that's what it is if we need to

have the real communication with each other so anyways Rene is there anything

else you would like to share with us any last thoughts that you have? no I guess

as I told you before I just have to say you thanks because in this year my

whole life changed I mean a lot I have another personality with the people

speaking in English I had those chances that were awesome I was visiting a lot

of cities there in the States I mean I had like the whole that the whole bunch

of dreams that I used to have in my mind when I was a child I was able to achieve

and then now I am going for four other ones you

know you changed my mind absolutely so just thank you you are welcome well thank you

also for I guess believing in me and joining my program when I first launched

because you took a leap of faith there and it worked so that's awesome and it

makes me really happy to hear that you achieved your dreams and that now you're

creating new ones and I want everyone to really hear that and know that it's like

you have dreams in your mind right now you can totally accomplish those within

maybe six months a year a couple years whatever it is you can you can reach

those goals and then you'll be creating new goals things you can't even imagine

I like to say you don't know what you don't know you don't know where you're

gonna be you know because you have to accomplish things first and then more

opportunities will come to you so Rene thank you so much for sharing this

information with us I look forward to following your journey and to learning

more about the many awesome things that you do because I know you're gonna

continue doing amazing things so thank you for joining us and we'll talk soon

okay see you

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>> PETER: WELL, YOU GET WHAT

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YOU PROBABLY HEARD THAT

SAYING AND THERE'S NO AREA

WHERE THAT IS MORE DEEPLY

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OF RELIGION WHERE THE IDEA

IS THAT YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR

SOMEHOW WHATEVER BENEFIT GOD

IS GOING TO GIVE TO YOU, BUT

THE BIBLE TELLS US THE

OPPOSITE.

WE'LL TALK MORE ABOUT IT.

>>Announcer: GOD'S LOVE

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>> PETER: THANK YOU FOR THE

OPPORTUNITY TO BE WITH YOU

AGAIN TODAY.

WE'VE BEEN TALKING NOW.

WE'RE IN OUR SECOND WEEK OF

TALKING ABOUT SIGNS,

WONDERS, AND MIRACLES.

AND I'VE BEEN SHARING WITH

YOU SEVERAL PRINCIPLES.

LET ME JUST REITERATE WHAT

WE TALKED ABOUT LAST WEEK A

LITTLE BIT.

FIRST OF ALL, THAT SIGNS,

WONDERS AND MIRACLES ARE

FOUNDATIONAL.

IT'S NOT A RARITY.

IT'S NOT AN ABERRATION.

IT'S NOT SOMETHING FOR A

SELECT FEW.

NO, IN THE BOOK OF HEBREWS,

WE ARE TOLD THAT THE REASON

THE HEBREW PEOPLE, THE

JEWISH PEOPLE ARE TOLD WHY

THEY SHOULD STICK WITH

JESUS, CONTINUE WITH JESUS

IS BECAUSE, YES, JESUS,

HIMSELF, HIS TEACHINGS AND

THE APOSTLES AND THOSE WHO

WROTE THE SCRIPTURE BUT ALSO

BECAUSE GOD DOES MIRACLES,

SIGNS AND WONDERS TODAY.

SO THIS IS FOUNDATIONAL.

NUMBER TWO, JESUS NEEDED

MIRACLES.

HE WAS ATTESTED, ACCREDITED

BY MIRACLES.

PAUL, THE GREAT THEOLOGIAN

WHO COULD HAVE MADE THE

ARGUMENT THAT MY CALLING IS

TO WRITE AND TO TEACH

THEOLOGY.

HE SAID, I AM SO KEEN THAT

WE MUST HAVE DEMONSTRATIONS

OF THE SPIRIT, AND THEN WE

TALKED ABOUT HOW PAUL SAYS

THAT MIRACLES SERVE TO MAKE

PEOPLE OBEDIENT TO THE

GOSPEL, THAT JUST WORDS,

WORDS, WORDS ARE NOT

SUFFICIENT.

PEOPLE NEED TO SEE SIGNS,

WONDERS AND MIRACLES.

WE TALKED ABOUT HOW THEY

FOLLOW THE GOSPEL, THAT IF

WE KNOW THE GOSPEL, MIRACLES

ARE INEVITABLE, AND THEY

POINT TO JESUS CHRIST.

WELL, WE'LL GET BACK TO THE

TEACHING RIGHT NOW AND WE'RE

GOING TO GO RIGHT INTO THE

CLASSROOM SETTING OR THE

BIBLE STUDY SETTING HERE.

YOU'LL ENJOY IT SO HAVE YOUR

PEN AND PAPER READY AND JUST

BE READY TO BE INSPIRED,

HERE WE GO.

MIRACLES ARE BY GRACE.

AS YOU KNOW, GOD'S GRACE IS

GOD'S UNMERITED, UNDESERVED

FAVOR IN JESUS CHRIST, AND

HERE IS SOMETHING TELLING.

SOMETHING HAPPENED TO THE

CHRISTIANS IN GALATIA. THEY

RECEIVED JESUS BUT THEY HAD

BECOME SIDETRACKED.

SO PAUL SAYS TO THEM-- I'M

GOING TO READ THESE THREE

VERSES.

VERSE 2, DID YOU RECEIVE THE

SPIRIT BY THE WORKS OF THE

LAW OR BY THE HEARING OF

FAITH?

NOTICE THE CONTRAST.

ON THE ONE SIDE, THERE IS

WORKS AND ON THE OTHER SIDE,

THERE IS FAITH.

OFTEN, WE THINK THAT THE

OPPOSITE OF FAITH IS

UNBELIEF, BUT IN A NEW

TESTAMENT UNDERSTANDING, THE

OPPOSITE OF FAITH IS NOT

UNBELIEF.

IT'S WORKS.

IT'S WHAT YOU TRY TO PRODUCE

YOURSELF.

SO LET'S KEEP READING.

ARE YOU SO FOOLISH, ARE YOU

SO FOOLISH HAVING BEGUN IN

THE SPIRIT, ARE YOU NOW

BEING MADE PERFECT IN THE

FLESH?

HERE, YOU HAVE A CONTRAST

BETWEEN THE SPIRIT AND

WHAT'S THE FLESH?

THAT'S YOURSELF.

YOU TRY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

THEN HE SAYS, HAVE YOU

SUFFERED SO MANY THINGS IN

VEIN, IF INDEED, IT WAS IN

VEIN?

COME ON, GALATIANS, DIDN'T

WE GO THROUGH THIS BEFORE?

DO I HAVE TO GO THROUGH THE

SAME THING OVER AND OVER

AGAIN?

YOU ALREADY PAID A PRICE TO

BELIEVE IN JESUS FULLY AND

YOU TOOK TAX AND

PERSECUTION, WE GO OVER IT

AGAIN.

HE WHO SUPPLIES THE SPIRIT

TO YOU AND WORKS MIRACLES

AMONG YOU, DOES HE DO BY THE

WORKS OF THE LAW OR HEARING

OF THE FAITH?

ON ONE HAND, YOU HAVE WORKS

AND ON THE OTHER SIDE, YOU

HAVE FAITH.

WHAT ARE WE LEARNING HERE,

NUMBER ONE, MIRACLES, SIGNS

AND WONDERS, WE MIGHT ADD,

ARE BY THE UNMERITED,

UNEARNED FAVOR OF GOD.

FAITH, IT IS A GIFT OF GOD

WHERE YOU TRUST IN WHAT

JESUS HAS DONE.

FAITH IS NOT AN EMOTION THAT

YOU STIR UP AND TRY TO MAKE

YOURSELF FEEL AND PSYCHING

YOURSELF INTO SOMETHING.

IT IS A RELIANCE ON WHAT

JESUS CHRIST HAS DONE, AND

WE CALL THAT GOD'S GRACE.

GOD'S GRACE IS NOT A

DOCTRINE.

GOD'S GRACE IS A PERSON.

AS YOU KNOW, IT SAYS THE LAW

WAS GIVEN BY MOSES.

SO THE LAW WAS A THING.

IT WAS SOMETHING YOU GAVE TO

SOMEBODY, BUT GRACE AND

TRUTH CAME BY JESUS.

JESUS IS A PERSON.

SO GRACE AND TRUTH IS TIED

INTO A PERSON.

SO IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A

FULL REVELATION OF GOD'S

GRACE, IT'S A FULL

REVELATION OF JESUS CHRIST.

TO DISCOVER JESUS IS TO

DISCOVER GOD'S FAVOR

UNMERITED FOR YOU.

NOW THE GALATIANS HAD

FORGOTTEN THIS.

THEY OBVIOUSLY HAD BELIEVED

IT AT ONE TIME, BUT THEY HAD

DRIFTED AWAY FROM IT AND SO

HE SAYS, COME ON, DID YOU

FORGET THIS?

HOW YOU GOT IT YOU REMEMBER

HOW YOU FIRST CAME TO

CHRIST?

WHEN YOU FIRST RECEIVED THE

SPIRIT?

WAS IT BY YOUR EFFORT, OR

WAS IT BY JUST HEARING OF

THE FAITH OF GOD?

DID YOU HEAR WHAT GOD HAS

DONE FOR YOU?

AND SO WHAT ACTUALLY WHAT IT

SAYS, IT SAYS HE WHO

SUPPLIES THE SPIRIT TO AND

YOU WORKS MIRACLES AMONG YOU

AND IT'S A CONTINUAL FORM OF

THE VERB.

IT SAYS HE WHO CONTINUALLY

WORKS MIRACLES AMONG YOU AND

SO WHAT WE ARE HEARING HERE

IS THAT GOD CONTINUES TO

WORK MIRACLES BY THE GRACE

OF GOD.

THIS IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR

CHRISTIANS TO COMPREHEND.

YOU KNOW, BECAUSE WE LIKE TO

MAKE IT SO COMPLICATED.

FOR EXAMPLE, IT

CHRISTIANDOM, BY IN LARGE,

WHETHER YOU'RE A CATHOLIC,

PROTESTANT, PENTECOSTAL OR

CHARISMATIC, IT'S THE SAME

PROBLEM BECAUSE WE MAKE

MIRACLES BE ATTACHED TO SOME

SPECIAL PERSON.

SO IF YOU'RE A ROMAN

CATHOLIC, AFTER YOU DIE, YOU

CAN BECOME A SAINT.

I THINK YOU NEED THREE

MIRACLES OR TWO OR

SOMETHING.

I DON'T KNOW HOW MANY, SO

YOU KNOW, GO FOR IT.

SO THAT'S-- THAT SAYS YOU

GOT TO BE SPECIAL.

YOU'RE SPECIAL.

BUT SO PROTESTANTS SAY, OH,

WE DON'T BELIEVE IN THAT.

WE BELIEVE EVERYBODY IS A

SAINT.

THAT'S TRUE, BUT THEN WE

HAVE THE SAME TENDENCY.

WE LIFT UP A PERSON AND SAY,

OH, THIS PERSON HAS A

SPECIAL ANOINTING, SPECIAL

ANOINTING.

AND THIS PERSON, OH, AND SO

WE MAKE-- IT IS STILL

SOMEBODY SPECIAL.

IT'S SOMEBODY, YOU KNOW,

WHO, OH, THEY WERE IN A CAR

ACCIDENT AND THEY DIED AND

THEN THEY CAME BACK AND THEY

HAD A VISION OF AN ANGEL WHO

TOLD HIM, DO YOU WANT TO GO

BACK?

DO YOU WANT TO COME THIS WAY

OR GO THAT WAY?

THEY SAID, OH, GO BACK.

YOU KNOW, OH, OH, THAT'S

SOMETHING.

I NEVER HAD A CAR ACCIDENT,

UNFORTUNATELY SO I GUESS I'M

JUST A REGULAR LITTLE CHURCH

MEMBER SITTING HERE PINING

AWAY HOPING THAT GOD MIGHT

USE ME LITTLE TINY BIT

SOMETIME SO WE BUILD UP

THESE SPECIAL PEOPLE.

SPECIAL PEOPLE, SPECIAL

PEOPLE, YOU KNOW.

OH, THIS PERSON BUT YOU SEE

THAT IS NOT THE GOSPEL.

IT'S NOT THE GOSPEL.

NO, THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE

WHO BELIEVE.

WE WANT TO BREAK THAT, THIS

IDEA, BECAUSE YOU SEE, IF

ONLY-- IF MIRACLES HAPPEN

ONLY IF YOU ARE VERY

SPECIAL, FIRST OF ALL,

THERE'S NOT GOING TO BE VERY

MANY MIRACLES.

SO YOU DON'T NEED TO APPLY,

YOU KNOW.

I MEAN, YOU WOULDN'T EVEN

KNOW UNTIL AFTER YOU'RE DEAD

MAYBE IF YOU ARE A SAINT OR

NOT SO YOU DON'T NEED TO GET

ALL ANXIOUS ABOUT IT, BUT IF

IT IS BY GOD'S GRACE AND IF

IT BY GOD'S FAVOR, WE ARE

ALL INCLUDED AND YOU SEE THE

MIRACLES OF THE BIBLE.

LET ME LOOK AT ONE OF THEM.

THE BIBLE HAS MIRACLES AND

THEN THEY'RE LIKE MIRACLES,

LIKE THE RESURRECTION,

THAT'S LIKE, BOOM, THAT'S A

BIG MIRACLE AND THERE ARE

OTHER BIG ONES LIKE THAT.

TAKE, FOR EXAMPLE, THE BIRTH

OF ISAAC.

NOW THAT IS A BIGGY.

THAT'S MORE THAN HEALING OF

AN INGROWN TOENAIL.

THAT'S MORE THAN A COLLAR

BONE BEING HEALED.

THERE'S A WHOLE SCENARIO,

THERE'S ALL THESE PEOPLE

234*9 STORY.

THERE'S ABRAHAM AND HE'S

KIND OF MISERABLE AND HE

THINKS NOTHING IS HAPPENING

SO HE HAS THIS THING GOING

WITH HAGAR, YOU KNOW, AND

THEY PRODUCE A CHILD AND

THEY THINK THIS IS THE ONE

AND THEN SARAH IS THERE AND

SHE IS SO OLD THAT THERE'S

NO WAY SHE CAN HAVE A BABY

AND HE'S SO OLD, AND THEY'RE

ALL OLD AND WRINKLED AND

SHRIVELED UP AND THERE'S

NOTHING FLOWING AND

HAPPENING.

THERE IS NOTHING HAPPENING,

AND THAT'S THE WAY IT HAD TO

BE BECAUSE IF THEY COULD

HAVE PRODUCED ISAAC, THEY

WOULD HAVE TAKEN THE CREDIT

FOR ISAAC.

ABRAHAM WOULD HAVE SAID, OH,

I PULLED IT OFF ONE MORE

TIME.

I JUST HAD MY WAY WITH THAT

WOMAN AND WE PRODUCE A

CHILD.

I PULLED IT OFF ONE MORE

TIME, I'M AN OLD MAN BUT IT

IS GOOD TO HAVE ONE MORE

CHILD.

YOU SEE, NO, NO, IT HAD TO

BE HOPELESS.

THAT WAY, IT WOULD BE SO

STARKLY BEFORE ABRAHAM, I

COULDN'T DO THIS.

SEE, SOMETIMES WE HAVE TOO

MUCH OF A CAN-DO MENTALITY.

THE BIBLE SAYS, I CAN DO ALL

THINGS THROUGH CHRIST.

SOMETIMES WE CAN PUSH THAT

SO HARD THAT WE FORGET THE

THROUGH CHRIST PART.

YOU KNOW, I CAN, I CAN.

SO YOU KEEP DOING THAT AND I

CAN DO IT.

I'M ANOINTED AND GOD SAYS,

WELL, GO AHEAD.

KEEP GOING.

YOU THINK YOU CAN DO THIS?

FINALLY, YOU SAY, WELL, GOD,

I CAN'T DO IT.

HE SAYS, GOOD, I WAS WAITING

FOR THAT.

I CAN WORK THROUGH YOU.

NOW I CAN SHOW MY STRENGTH

THROUGH YOU.

THAT'S WHY WHEN WE ARE WEAK,

WE ARE STRONG.

AND SO WHAT HAPPENS HERE IS

ABRAHAM TRIES TO MAKE IT

HAPPEN, YOU KNOW, THROUGH

HAGAR AND HAGAR, WE KNOW

FROM PAUL'S WRITING AND I'M

NOT GOING TO GO INTO THE

WHOLE THING IS OUR

SELF-EFFORT.

YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE IT

HAPPEN.

SO IF YOU WANT A LOT OF

FAILURES AND A LOT OF

DISAPPOINTMENTS IN HEALING

MINISTRY, ACTIVATE

HAGAR.

HAGAR REPRESENTS OUR

SELF-EFFORT.

YOU ARE TRYING-- OH, YOU'RE

TRYING TO GET INTO HIS

PRESENCE.

I NEVER TRIED TO GET INTO

GOD'S PRESENCE.

WHY WOULD I DO SUCH A

FOOLISH THING?

HIS PRESENCE IS IN ME, HE

LIVES WITH ME.

I MIGHT COME IN A GREATER

AWARENESS OF WHAT I HAVE.

THERE'S NO SUCH THING OF

ENTERING GOD'S PRESENCE

BECAUSE IF YOU SAY YOU ENTER

GOD'S PRESENCE, YOU MUST

HAVE SPENT MOST OF YOUR LIFE

OUTSIDE OF IT AND THAT'S

AGAINST THE NEW TESTAMENT.

CHRIST LIVES IN YOU.

YOU SAY, OH, WHEN I WORSHIP,

I ENTERED HIS PRESENCE.

I HATE TO DEFLATE YOUR

BALLOON.

I HATE TO PUT A PRICK PIN IN

IT.

YOU DIDN'T ENTER HIS

PRESENCE IN WORSHIP.

WHAT HAPPENED, MAYBE IT WAS

AN EMOTION OR MAYBE WHAT

HAPPENED WAS THAT YOU BECAME

MORE AWARE OF JESUS BUT HE

WASN'T ANY MORE REAL IN YOU.

HE WAS REAL ALL THE TIME.

HE NEVER LEAVES YOU.

HE NEVER FORSAKES YOU.

THAT'S WHY, YOU KNOW, I

COULD NOT HAVE SUCH AN

UNRELIABLE THEOLOGY THAT I

HAVE TO ENTER GOD'S PRESENCE

AND ALWAYS CHASE AFTER IT

BECAUSE I WOULD HAVE A

NERVOUS BREAKDOWN AS

UNTHINKABLE AS THAT IS FOR

ME BECAUSE I'M KIND OF A

STRONG PERSON.

I THINK I WOULD BREAK UNDER

THAT PRESSURE OF TRYING TO

GET INTO GOD'S PRESENCE.

HOW DO I KNOW I REALLY GOT

IN?

I MEAN, AM I FULLY IN, HALF

WAY IN, ONE FOOT IN THE

DOOR, WHERE AM I?

NO, MY FRIEND, THANK GOD, HE

IS THERE ALL THE TIME BUT

HAGAR REPRESENTS THAT

CHASING AFTER, THAT I TRYING

TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

SO IF YOU WANT A LOT OF

CHASING AFTER WITHOUT

RESULTS, THEN GO HAGAR'S

WAY, SARAH AND PAUL SAYS, IN

SARAH, YOUR SEED WILL BE

CALLED.

SHE WILL GET THE PROMISE

FULFILLED.

IF YOU GO THE ROUTE OF SARAH

WHERE YOU ARE NOTHING AND

YOU LOOK AT YOURSELF AND YOU

SAY, BOY, I'M DEAD AS FAR AS

ACCOMPLISHING ANYTHING FOR

GOD.

I'M A DEAD MAN WALKING.

I'M A DEAD WOMAN WALKING.

I LIVE A NEW LIFE.

CHRIST IN ME, IT'S HIS

GLORY.

HE GETS THE PRAISE AND HIS

HONOR.

HE DID IT!

IF YOU DO IT, YOU GET THE

PRAISE!

IF HE DOES IT, HE GETS THE

PRAISE.

THIS IS A GREAT KEY.

SEE, WHAT I WRESTLE WITH ALL

THE TIME IS STAYING RESTFUL

BECAUSE MY NATURE IS I WANT

TO TAKE ACTION MYSELF.

I WANT TO DO SOMETHING.

SO MY STRUGGLE IS TO STAY

RESTED IN JESUS.

WELL, I REALIZE IF YOU KNOW

A LITTLE BIT ABOUT THE

BIBLE, YOU KIND OF CONNECTED

THE DOTS RIGHT LIKE THAT,

BUT IF YOU DON'T, WHEN I

START TALKING ABOUT HAGAR

AND SARAH, YOU SAY, WELL,

YOU KNOW, YOU KIND OF-- I

GOT LOST AND SOMETHING GOT

LOST IN THE TRANSLATION.

SO LET ME JUST SAY THAT THE

BIBLE IS A PHENOMENAL

TEACHING BOOK IN THAT IT

USES ILLUSTRATIONS AND

SYMBOLS.

SO HAGAR WAS A WOMAN WHO HAD

A RELATIONSHIP WITH ABRAHAM

AND SHE WAS ACTUALLY A

SERVANT IN THE HOUSE OF

ABRAHAM, AND WITHOUT GOING

INTO ALL THE DETAILS OF

THAT, THEY HAD A CHILD

TOGETHER.

THEN LATER ON, WE LEARNED

THAT HAGAR AND THIS IS THE

APOSTLE PAUL THAT TEACHES US

THIS, THAT HAGAR IS A

PICTURE OF US TRYING TO MAKE

THINGS HAPPEN FOR OURSELVES,

AND THAT'S WHY I SAID THAT

IF YOU WANT NO RESULT THE,

IF YOU WANT TO PRAY AND NOT

HAVE PRAYERS ANSWERED,

ACTIVATE HAGAR, TRY TO MAKE

THINGS HAPPEN BY YOUR OWN

EFFORT.

TELL GOD, OH, GOD, I'VE BEEN

FAITHFUL.

I'VE BEEN PRAYING.

I'VE BEEN WORKING SO HARD

AND IN OTHER WORDS, GO THAT

ROUTE AND YOU WILL HAVE NO

RESULTS.

SADLY MANY GO THAT ROUTE,

AND THEN I SAID SARAH HERE

IS A PICTURE OF GOD'S GRACE

BECAUSE SARAH COULDN'T HAVE

A CHILD UNLESS IT WAS A

MIRACLE OF GOD.

SO SARAH IS A PICTURE OF

GOD'S GRACE.

GOD'S UNMERITED FAVOR WHICH

IS AVAILABLE TO YOU.

I GOT TO HURRY HERE.

WE HAVE ANOTHER TEACHING

SEGMENT COMING UP AND I WANT

TO SAY A PRAYER WITH YOU

BEFORE WE FINISH.

AGAIN, I HOPE YOU ARE

ALREADY ORDERED THIS, GET A

CLOSE-UP FOR ME THERE.

SIGNS, WONDERS, MIRACLES FOR

YOU FOR THE WORLD AND WHERE

I SHARE THESE EIGHT

PRINCIPLES IN GREAT DETAIL

AND THAT I THINK IT WILL BE

A TREMENDOUS RESOURCE IN

YOUR LIFE, AND SO YOU'LL SEE

THE INFORMATION THERE AND I

THINK WE HAVE A PRETTY GOOD

PRICE ON THAT, JUST A LITTLE

BIT TO HELP US PAY WITH THE

SHIPPING AND THE SHIPPING

AND HANDLING IS INCLUDED IN

THAT PRICE THAT YOU SEE ON

THE SCREEN.

SO GET A HOLD OF THAT.

SHARE IT WITH SOMEBODY AND

DON'T LIVE YOUR CHRISTIAN

LIFE WITHOUT THIS VALUABLE

RESOURCE FROM GOD FOR YOU.

ALL RIGHT.

LET'S GET BACK TO THE

TEACHING LESSON HERE WHERE

I'M TALKING ABOUT SIGNS,

WONDERS AND MIRACLES.

HERE WE GO.

IT SAYS ABOUT JACOB THAT HE

WRESTLED WITH GOD AND HE

SAID, GOD, I WON'T LET GO

UNTIL YOU TOUCH ME, UNTIL

YOU BLESS ME.

AND NOTHING HAPPENED.

AND THEN HE GOT

SMOTE IN THE HIP HIP AND

KIND OF OUCH, WOW,

EVERYTHING HAPPENS.

DO I THINK GOD WANTS TO

SMITE YOUR HIP?

NO, BUT SOMETIMES AND IT

TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO

DISCOVER THIS.

I HAD ENOUGH INTELLECTUAL

UNDERSTANDING THAT I BEGAN

TO REALIZE BECAUSE I HAVE

BEEN DOING THIS FOR OVER 40

YEARS ALL OVER THE WORLD IN

OVER A HUNDRED COUNTRIES AND

I BEGAN TO SEE SOMETHING

EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T

UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING LIKE I

DO TODAY, I BEGAN TO

DISCOVER WHEN I WAS THE

WEAKEST, THE MOST HAPPENED.

IN FACT, WHEN I WAS ANNOYED,

FRUSTRATED, I REMEMBER ONE

TIME, I WAS SO MAD.

DID YOU EVER GET MAD?

I WAS MAD.

THIS IS BACK IN THE DAY.

I ALWAYS HAD TO FLY ON AN

AIRPLANE AND SIT ALMOST WITH

THE CATTLE SECTION IN THE

BACK, ALL SQUISHED UP AND

THIS PLANE WAS DELAYED 24

HOURS, 24 HOURS.

YOU KNOW WHAT THAT'S LIKE IN

AFRICA TO SIT AND THEY

DIDN'T EVEN HAVE A PROPER

AIRPORT?

I CAN'T EVEN SLEEP.

I'M GUARDING MY LUGGAGE AND

I'M THERE AND I'M FRUSTRATED

AND I'M MAD AT THE AIRLINE

AND I'M JUST MAD.

DON'T FEEL ANOINTED.

DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HIS

PRESENCE.

I'M SAYING THIS IS NO GOOD.

THIS IS STUPID AIRLINE, 24

HOURS LATE, AND THEN I FLY

IN OVER THIS CITY.

IN FACT, THE WAY THE PLANE

CAME IN, I COULD SEE THE

PLACE WHERE WE'RE GOING TO

HOLD OUR MEETING PEOPLE WERE

ALREADY THERE.

I HADN'T SLEPT FOR 48 HOURS.

AND SAID JUST TAKE ME TO A

SHOWER.

I WANT TO CHANGE CLOTHES.

I'LL GO THERE AND I DON'T

KNOW WHAT I'M GOING TO SAY,

BUT I'M GOING TO SAY

SOMETHING.

OH, WHAT KIND OF A MEETING

WE HAD.

THE DEAF HEARD.

THE LAME WALKED.

IT WAS-- I WAS THINKING THAT

IS THE WEIRDEST THING

AFTERWARDS.

BECAUSE ALL I COULD MUSTER

WAS, JESUS, YOU BETTER HELP

ME TONIGHT.

YOU BETTER HELP ME JESUS

BECAUSE I'M NOT UP TO THIS.

HE WAS SAYING GOOD,

YOUNGREN, I'M GLAD YOU

EXPRESSED IT THAT WAY.

I WANT TO HELP YOU LOTS ALL

THE TIME, BUT YOU HAD TO GET

SO TIRED AND SO FRUSTRATED

AND FEELING LIFE WAS SO

UNFAIR THAT YOU JUST SAID,

JESUS, I THROW MYSELF ON

YOUR MERCY AND BOY, WHOA,

EVERYTHING HAPPENED.

SEE, I HAD TO LEARN THAT.

THEN I SAW IT IN SCRIPTURE.

IT IS BY GRACE.

YOU SEE, THAT'S WHY-- IF YOU

TRY TO SAVE A DROWNING

PERSON AND THEY'RE

STRUGGLING, THEY'RE VERY

DIFFICULT TO SAVE, BUT ONCE

THEY RELAX, YOU CAN SAVE

THEM.

AND THE MORE PEOPLE

STRUGGLE, STRUGGLE, STRUGGLE

FOR THE ANOINTING, THE WORST

IT GETS.

THE HARDER YOU TRY THE LESS

YOU RECEIVE.

MY GOODNESS, PEOPLE ARE

SCREAMING AND YELLING AND

ASKING GOD TO DO THIS AND

THAT AND THE OTHER THING AND

YOU BECOME FRUSTRATED AND

YOU SAY, WELL, I TRIED

EVERYTHING.

I TOLD THAT STORY BACK IN

OUR BIBLE SCHOOL.

WE HAD A STUDENT.

HE WAS SO ZEALOUS FORTH

MIRACULOUS.

HE WAS SO ZEALOUS.

OH, MY, MY, MY, AND SO ONCE

IN A WHILE, THE STUDENTS, WE

HAD A SUNDAY NIGHT SERVICE

IN THOSE DAYS.

I SAID, YOU CAN PREACH IN

THE SUNDAY EVENING AND OH,

BOY, I'M SITTING IN MY

OFFICE TRYING TO HAVE A

SUNDAY AFTERNOON NAP AND

THIS GUY, HE'S OUTSIDE IN

SOME OTHER ROOM.

HE MAY NOT BE IN THE ROOM

ADJACENT TO MINE.

HE WAS JUST IN THE BUILDING

AND HE IS PRAYING LIKE A

MADMAN.

I MEAN, HE A PRAYER STYLE.

IT WAS LIKE RAT TATATA, RAT

TATA FOR HOURS.

AND THEN THE SERVICE CAME.

I MEAN, YOU KNOW, IT FELL

REALLY FLAT.

I MEAN, HE KNEW HIMSELF, I

BOMBED.

HE SAID, I BOMBED.

SO I TRIED TO TALK TO HIM, I

SAID, YOU KNOW, YOU PUT SUCH

FAITH IN ALL THE EFFORT YOU

HAD DONE IN THE AFTERNOON

PRAYING AND ALL THAT RAT

TATATA AND WALKING AND

PACING AND BACK AND FORTH,

FRANKLY WHAT HAPPENED IN THE

NATURAL, YOU WERE EXHAUSTED.

YOU WERE READY TO GO TO

SLEEP BY THE TIME YOU WERE

GONNA START MINISTERING.

I SAID, YOU KNOW, IT WOULD

HAVE BEEN BETTER YOU TAKEN A

NAP.

[LAUGHTER]

DON'T LOOK AT ME LIKE THAT

RIGHT NOW.

[LAUGHTER]

PEOPLE-- I TOLD YOU ONE TIME

I HAD A MAN ON THE PLATFORM

WITH ME.

HE WAS PART OF OUR TEAM.

HE WAS EMPLOYED BY OUR

MINISTRY AND HE IS SUPPOSED

TO HELP ME RUN THE PLATFORM

AND JUST PEOPLE ARE BEING

HEALED ALL OVER THE PLACE

AND PLATFORM IS FILLING UP

AND HE FAINTS.

[LAUGHTER]

HE FAINTS.

HE FALLS RIGHT OUT.

I MEAN, NOT UNDER SOME

POWERFUL THING.

HE JUST FALLS OUT.

AND I HAD TO SCRAMBLE

BECAUSE YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU

HAVE 40, 50, MAYBE A HUNDRED

PEOPLE HEALED AT ONCE, YOU

NEED WORKERS WHO CAN KIND OF

SEE WHAT'S HAPPENING AND

HE'S LAYING SLAIN OUT ON THE

PLATFORM.

SO THEN LATER ON, I SAID,

WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?

ARE YOU SICK?

HE SAID NO, I'VE BEEN

FASTING.

[LAUGHTER]

HE WAS SO WEAK.

I SAID, STOP YOUR FASTING.

YOU CAN GO HOME AND FAST.

I DIDN'T PAY YOUR AIRLINE

TICKET TO COME HERE SO YOU

CAN FAST HERE.

I SAID, WE'RE IN THE MIDDLE

OF A CAMPAIGN.

I NEED PEOPLE TO EAT.

[LAUGHTER]

BUT SEE, TO HIM, HE WAS

THINKING, THAT'S GOING TO

GET THE MIRACLES GOING.

THAT ACTUALLY STOPS IT.

HE MISSED WHAT HAPPENED.

HE'S KIND OF IN LALA LAND

OVER THERE.

[LAUGHTER]

SEE, GOD WAS TRYING TO SHOW

ME THIS.

THAT IT'S NOT BY WORKS.

IT IS BY FAITH.

WHAT A WONDERFUL GOSPEL WE

HAVE.

YOU SEE, THIS IDEA OF

SELF-EFFORT WHEN IT COMES TO

THE MIRACULOUS IS SO DEEPLY

EMBEDDED IN OUR CHRISTIAN

TRADITION IN THE ORTHODOX,

CATHOLIC FRIENDS,

PROTESTANT, EVANGELICALS,

IT'S SO DEEP THAT WE HAVE

THESE FANTASIES OF HOW IT'S

GONNA HAPPEN.

IT HAPPEN BY THE HEARING OF

FAITH.

LET ME READ ROMANS 11:6.

IT SAYS, IF BY GRACE, THEN

IT IS NO LONGER OUR WORKS.

OTHERWISE, GRACE IS NO

LONGER GRACE.

BUT IT IS-- IF IT IS A

WORKS, IT'S NO LONGER GRACE.

OTHERWISE, WORK IS NO LONGER

WORK.

I MEAN, THERE'S NOT MUCH OF

A LOOP HOLE HERE.

LOOK AT THE VERSE AGAIN.

THERE'S NOT MUCH OF A LOOP

HOLE.

IT'S IT'S BY YOUR OWN EFFORT

OR IT'S BY GRACE.

AND WE KNOW THAT BY YOUR OWN

EFFORT, IT'S NOT GONNA

HAPPEN.

AND WE SEE THIS AGAIN AND

AGAIN.

THAT'S WHY OFTEN THE LAST

AND THE LEAST RECEIVE THE

FIRST.

YOU KNOW, IF YOU THINK OF

JESUS' FIRST SERMON WHEN HE

CAUSED SUCH FUHRER AMONG THE

RELIGIOUS PEOPLE AND WHY DID

HE CAUSE SUCH FUHRER,

BECAUSE HE WAS DAMAGING

THEIR VIEW OF HOW THINGS

SHOULD BE DONE.

IT WAS NOT THAT JESUS JUST

QUOTED THE SCRIPTURE, BUT IT

WAS THAT JESUS SAID, THERE

WERE MANY, MANY WIDOWS

WITHOUT FOOD IN THE DAY OF

ELIJAH, BUT ONLY ONE

RECEIVED FOOD.

AND SHE WAS THE WIDOW OF

SARAHPHAT, SHE WAS THE ONLY

ONE BECAUSE THAT DIDN'T SEEM

FAIR.

FIRST OF ALL, SARAHPHAT

MEANT SHE WAS NOT A JEWISH

WOMAN.

SHE WAS NOT PART OF THE

COVENANT OF MOSES.

JESUS IS STICKINGING IT TO

THEM.

HE SAYS YOU KNOW WHAT, ALL

THE WOMEN OF ISRAEL WHO WERE

WITHOUT FOOD, THEY HAD

SCRIPTURE AND VERSE, THEY

HAD A BOOK OF DEUTERONOMY

THAT SAID I WILL BLESS YOUR

FOOD AND WATER, ALL THE

PROMISES, THEY WHO HAD THE

PROMISES DIDN'T RECEIVE THE

PROMISES.

SOME OTHER WOMEN HERE WHO

DIDN'T KNOW THE BOOK OF

DEUTERONOMY FROM WHATEVER,

SHE GETS IT.

AND THEN HE SAYS NOW IN THE

DAYS OF ELIJAH, HE SAID

THERE WERE A LOT OF LEPEROUS

PEOPLE, BUT NOT ONE LEPER

GOT HEALED BUT NAMAN THE

SYRIAN AND MAN, IT'S NOT

FAIR.

WHY DOES GOD HEAL THE SYRIA?

HE SHOULD BE SENT TO HELL.

GOD SHOULD HEAL THE LEPERS

IN ISRAEL BECAUSE ONCE YOU

HAVE THE LAW, YOU THINK YOU

WILL PRODUCE IT AND YOU

SHORT CIRCUIT THE WHOLE

OPERATION.

ONCE YOU DISCOVER A WAY FOR

YOU NOT TO KNOW ANYTHING, IF

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING

ON AS FAR AS THE LAW IS

CONCERNED, YOU ARE OPEN TO

RECEIVE THE MESSAGE OF GOD'S

GRACE.

SO JESUS SAYS, I MUST HAVE

BEEN A LITTLE THICK-HEADED

BUT BECAUSE IT TOOK ME A

LONG TIME TO UNDERSTAND

THIS.

GOD WAS TRYING TO SHOW ME

AGAIN AND AGAIN.

I SAW IN TANZANIA WHERE WE

WERE.

WE SAW SO MANY MIRACLES, IT

WAS AWESOME, YOU KNOW, AND

SOMETIMES, YOU KNOW, THE

ONES WHO ARE THE LAST TO GET

IT ARE THE CHRISTIANS.

FOR EXAMPLE, WE HAD ONE

LITTLE GIRL, A MUSTS GIRL,

EIGHT-YEAR-OLD, AMINA, SHE

WAS BLIND AND JESUS HEALED

HER.

SO SHE SAYS, THEY'RE MUSLIM,

SHE SAYS TO HER AUNT DRESSED

IN BLACK, YOU KNOW, SHE

SAID, I CAN SEE, THE ANSWER

IS, NO, YOU CAN'T, THE AUNT

SAYS.

[LAUGHTER]

THE GIRL TAKES OFF AND SHE

RUNS TO TRY TO COME UP TO ME

ON THE PLATFORM TO SAY WHAT

HAPPENED, BUT MY WORKER

STANDING BELOW THE PLATFORM,

THEY DON'T BELIEVE HER.

THEY PUSH HER AWAY.

NO, LITTLE GIRL, YOU HAVEN'T

BEEN HEALED.

PUSH HER AWAY LIKE THIS.

THIS IS WHAT MAKES THE STORY

SO MUCH FUN.

SHE GETS SO AGITATED WITH MY

TEAM WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE

MY HEALING WORKERS THAT SHE

RUNS BACK TO HER AUNT AND

SHE SAYS TO HER AUNT, THOSE

PEOPLE DON'T LET ME UP ON

THE PLATFORM.

I'VE BEEN HEALED AND THE

AUNT STARTS TO CHECK HER, MY

GOODNESS, YOU ARE HEALED.

YOU CAN SEE, THEN THE AUNT

COMES WITH HER AND FINALLY,

THEY MADE IT ON THE

PLATFORM.

YOU SEE WHAT I'M SAYING?

SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN'T

SCRIPT THESE THINGS.

I LOVE IT!

YOU KNOW, WE HAD-- I THINK

IT WAS THE FIRST NIGHT A MAN

WAS HEALED, HIS NAME WAS

PAUL.

PAUL WAS LAME AND YOU KNOW

WHO BROUGHT PAUL TO THE

MEETING?

A MAN BY THE NAME OF

MOHAMMAD.

GO FIGURE.

MOHAMMAD HAD SEEN GOD HEAL

OTHER PEOPLE.

HE HAS A CHRISTIAN NEIGHBOR

CALLED PAUL WHO DOESN'T HAVE

THE SENSE TO COME HIMSELF.

SO MOHAMMAD GOES TO GET PAUL

AND HE BRINGS PAUL AND PAUL

GETS HEALED.

NOW THAT TURNS YOUR THEOLOGY

UPSIDE DOWN.

BECAUSE EVERYTHING WE THINK

IS, NO, NO, PAUL SHOULD HAVE

BROUGHT MOHAMMAD NOT

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GO FIGURE.

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GRACE.

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GOD'S UNMERITED FAVOR THAT

MIRACLES HAPPEN, NONE OF US

NEED TO APPLY OR THINK THAT

ANYTHING WOULD HAPPEN

BECAUSE WE COULD EASILY FIND

SOME FAULT IN OURSELVES.

NEVER MIND FINDING FAULT IN

OTHERS.

SURELY, WE'RE GOOD AT THAT,

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IN OURSELF AND THEREBY

DISQUALIFY OURSELVES, BUT

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THAT WHEN WE ARE WEAK, WE

ARE STRONG.

IT IS BY GOD'S GRACE.

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WITH YOU AS WELL.

YOU WANT TO THANK YOU FOR

WHAT YOU'RE HELPING TO US

REACH OUT WITH THE GOSPEL.

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AND AT THE SAME TIME, OUR

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INCOME.

MAYBE I HAVEN'T COMMUNICATED

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THE RIGHT WAY.

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I NEED YOUR HELP.

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SPEND THE LAST 30 SECONDS OF

OUR TELECAST THANKING GOD

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THANK YOU, FATHER, THAT

NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE, EVEN

THOUGH IT LOOKS IMPOSSIBLE,

HUMANLY SPEAKING, I THANK

YOU, JESUS, THAT WITH YOU,

ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

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Azure Friday: PowerShell in Azure Cloud Shell - Duration: 10:48.

Hey friends, it's Azure Friday.

I'm here with Hement and we're talking about PowerShell,

one of my favorite things, combined with Azure Cloud Shell,

also one of my favorite things.

>> Awesome, great to be here.

So I believe you announced the Cloud Shell, but

it was lacking the PowerShell.

It was still in private preview.

Now we have PowerShell in public preview.

>> All right.

>> So let me show you how easy it is to use PowerShell.

So you go to the portal, click on your Cloud Shell.

>> Yep, you're in your browser here.

>> You are in your browser.

>> Nothing fancy.

>> Nothing fancy, and here you have the drop-down.

>> PowerShell and Back.

Windows and Linux together.

>> Okay, and I'm running this in the browser.

You said, authenticating through Azure, you're gonna talk.

If I remember correctly, there's a bunch of containers and

a pool of containers.

>> Exactly, so in the back there are containers which

are ready for PowerShell there's Windows containers, for

Bash it's Linux containers.

And as you connect we go and figure out a VM,

connect to the container, and get you authenticated, and

provide an experience here.

>> Is it PowerShell on Windows or is it PowerShell on Linux?

>> This is Power Shell on Windows running on Windows

container.

>> Wow, that's cool.

>> But this is more than the PowerShell on Windows.

I'll show you.

>> All right, let's see it.

>> So one of the first thing I really,

really wanted is ability to show the font in a bigger size.

So now- >> That's nice.

That's was big feedback because what I would end up doing would

be Ctrl+- >> Plus, plus, plus, exactly.

>> But then I'd make everything bigger.

>> Exactly.

>> I just want this big.

>> And then this window is resizable,

so you can make it big and small, based on-

>> Yeah, yeah,

and maximize also.

>> Exactly, and the other thing you'll notice is you have this

prompt here which says Azure:, and you wonder what it is.

So in PowerShell there's a concept of name spaces and

what we have done here for Cloud Shell, is saying,

since you are in Azure,

let's mount your Azure resources as a file system.

It's similar to file system.

>> Yeah. >> So once you are here,

which is your default starting point, you can do there,

and here what we are doing,

we are going to Azure Services- >> No way.

>> And listing all your subscriptions.

>> Okay, we just have to pause for a moment and drink that in,

because this is exciting, and this is one of the most exciting

things about PowerShell, because you can say things like CDENV:

and go into the environment as it's a drive.

>> Exactly. >> You made Azure itself a file

provider.

>> Exactly, and you can do the same thing with certificates,

and registry, and windows.

>> Yeah. >> So those are here, I'm like,

when your in Azure wouldn't it be cool to have CD into Azure?

>> So do I then CD into subscription name or the ID?

>> You can read my mind, exactly.

You can pick, you go with a name, and so here let me go-

>> And autocomplete.

>> And that completion works.

>> So now what do you expect to find inside a subscription?

>> Resource groups?

>> Exactly, and not just that, you have multiple views.

>> You put the web apps up front.

>> So we have multiple views.

You can get all my resources, I don't care, don't sort my

resource group, or you can by the resource group basis,

or lift them up Virtual Machine Store.

>> That's lovely, cuz I know I could imagine looking at the way

that Azure thinks about things.

If you go to the Azure Resource Explorer.

>> Exactly.

>> I'd have to go and dig, dig, dig, dig.

>> Dig, dig, dig, dig.

>> You've sourced the obvious most common things to the top.

>> Right, and this is an extensive model.

So we started here,

and then based on the feedback we can even grow it.

>> Nice.

>> Now, you are in Azure Drive, you're in PowerShell, so

you should be able to go normal Azure PowerShell cmdlets.

>> I hope I will be already logged in and-

>> You are already logged in,

authenticated.

So I can say Get-AzureRmVm.

Again, type complete and work.

So here when I run, you see all my VMs, right?

>> Yes.

>> And now, I can go to a specific resource group.

>> Is it all the VMs scoped to the-

>> To that subscription.

>> The subscription that I'm inside already.

>> Now I go to a resource group, and I go to a specific resource

group, which is my resource group, and it's going up and

getting the information.

>> It sounds like a silly thing to say, but

in this world of 3D graphics, and Xbox, and stuff,

if you have a nice progress bar, an ascii, it just feels nice.

That's good.

>> Tells you what's happening.

>> It does. >> So,

inside the resource group, now it tells me what kind of things

the have, but that's not the most interesting part.

>> Okay.

>> The interesting part is then I call Get-AzureRmVM.

It gives me only the VM in that resource group, automatically.

So we understand the context.

>> So the things you would ordinarily pass in as parameters

are implied.

>> Some of them are already implied,

specifically the resource group, and

you still have the flexibility to specify and

pass another resource group if you want.

>> Lovely.

>> So that's, >> What about the cloud drive?

>> Good question.

Cloud drive, so

in Cloud Shell we have this notion of cloud drive.

We want the same cloud drive to be available across both your

Bash session and PowerShell.

>> That's an important thing,

cuz I will find myself switching between the two of them.

>> Exactly, and there are a lot of files, like test files,

they work both places.

So you can go to the Cloud drive,

it's mounted on your home, and you can go to the Cloud drive.

>> So the C drive is the real thing.

>> It's the file system.

>> It's the file system, and I'm the container administrator.

>> Right, that's the default account here, so

you can just go to CD$home/CloudDrive.

>> And are those the same files as my Bash one?

>> Exactly, it's the same stuff.

>> There's Cloud Console.

That's my Bash.

>> The .cloudconsole is your Bash files,

.pscloudconsole is PowerShell files.

>> Fantastic, this is great.

So I can have all my .SH files and I have all my ph ones-

>> Exactly.

>> In the same place.

>> PowerShell Windows and Linux together.

>> This is beautiful, this is beautiful.

What modules are built in like come preinstalled?

>> Yes, so since it's a Windows image,

WIndows server it has Windows modules,

and then we have embedded the Azure RM modules.

So all of your Azure RM modules, you can just say get-module

Azurerm* -ListAvailable, and tab completion still works.

And it will show all the modules that are present in your

environment, which are about the RM so

profiles,

>> [CROSSTALK] >> Diversion and

exactly what they are.

>> Exactly.

>> Fantastic.

What about some of the ps get, and things like that,

can I bring in other module?

>> Yes, yes.

So PowerShell get is here, installed,

which essentially means you can do a find module.

So I will use some module like azureAD,

which is not part of azureRM.

>> Okay.

>> So you can can go and find modules, and

what it does is it goes to PowerShell gallery,

figures out if there's module there, and

gives you the information.

And then you can make a decision whether you want to install or

not, and if you go ahead and install it, we save it in your

cloud drive, which means- >> It's there for me.

>> Yeah, you can try it once, and-

>> So,

do I have a user profile then?

That can run a script that runs each time I load?

>> Right, so, there is user profile and

then there's selectively mounting certain files.

So,we haven't reached the point of taking the entire user

profile in Windows and roam with this.

>> Right. >> But

they do specifically on the modules.

>> Interesting, okay.

So I can share my files, and put them in cloud drive.

They'll be there, they're persistent.

Is this using the same Azure storage underlying account that

is used by the Cloud Shell?

>> Right, so both the Cloud Shells use the same account.

So, based on whatever you want to use, you use it, and

then you can easily see those details in your Get-CloudDrive

and it tells you what's inside.

>> The Get-CloudDrive.

>> It's just like cloud drive in Bash.

It tells you what is the path and everything, so you can-

>> That's great.

So if I recall correctly, from the previous conversations we've

had about Cloud Shell, Cloud Shell is free?

>> Yes. >> It's built into the system,

and all what you're paying for is for

the drive which is just a file and storage.

>> Exactly, and that's pretty cheap so you're just paying for

the default storage account that you are using.

>> Yeah, I think it cost me like $0.10 last month.

It's pretty much nothing.

>> Yes. >> But, the compute, and

the containers, and

the management of all this stuff is entirely done by you.

>> Exactly.

>> Fantastic, so this seems like,

I saw some documentation before where, Erin Rooney was

showing me some PowerShell in docs.microsoft.com.

>> Right.

>> I'm just maybe thinking ahead here, but it feels like I should

be able to maybe take some of those and paste them in.

>> Right, so I don't have that example right now, but

essentially it is integrated with Azure Microsoft.com

as well for Azure PowerShell.

So you can go there and do a Try It button and

then it will spin up the same Cloud Shell,

inside the documentation, just like the CLI experience.

>> Fantastic, so what kind of things are we gonna be seeing as

farther additional improvements, and

where can people give feedback?

>> So the feedback is still the same like you go for

Cloud Shell, which is Azure feedback, and

select Cloud Shell, and we have a drop-down category there to

differentiate within between Bash and PowerShell.

The document is merged with Cloud Shell,

you easily find it by typing help, and if you go, and click.

>> Nice.

>> So that takes you to the landing page, and

then you can scroll and- >> And

then you get all your information?

>> Yes, so you can- >> And

this is another thing I wanted to point out here, and

I wanted to ask you.

In the original, in the Bash Cloud Shell,

we noticed that it has Node, it has .NET, it has Python.

What is available and already installed here?

>> So, we have similar list, not as exhaustive, but

you have the same thing, so you have git there, you can do git.

>> Yeah cuz I was thinking I would install Posh kit.

>> Yes. >> And you get me-

>> And you get a-

>> A cool path, yeah,

yeah, yeah.

>> And then from the editor we have nano and vim, and

vim is something I want to specifically show here.

I'm on cloud drive and I have this file called CloudShell.ps1.

So if I launch vim with that file, you'll notice,

you get all the coloring.

>> So you've gone and put the syntax highlighting in for-

>> Exactly.

>> So we're in vim, but

we've got a PowerShell language server.

>> Right, which is doing this, and the other cool part is,

when you type the command like Get-Azure.

>> Did you just show me Intellisense inside of

a Cloud Shell and a browser?

>> You have all the Intellisense, and it's not just

on the command, you can even do under parameters.

>> Is vim the only editor?

What about like the people who can't get out vim after reboot

the cloud?

What about Pico or something?

>> Good. >> [LAUGH]

>> So we have Pico, but

we don't have all the Intellisense there.

>> So the smarts and the vim language server?

>> Right, because it has extensive and

we have gone there.

But you can open Nano and Pico essentially.

>> Very cool.

>> And those things, yeah.

>> So this is in public preview.

People can, do they have to a special URL, or

they can just to portal- >> On the portal as we announced

at Ignite.

It's there. You can just click and

start using them.

>> Fantastic, this is exciting.

I just love that the Azure Cloud Shell is getting much,

much better, and I appreciate coming to hear about it

from Hement, and he's talking about PowerShell, and

Bash in the Azure Cloud Shell, here on Azure Friday.

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[DAT] 17 Secrets You Should Never Keep from Your Partner - Duration: 8:21.

17 Secrets You Should Never Keep from Your Partner

17 Secrets You Should Never Keep from Your Partner    .

While there are definitely plenty of things you should keep from your partner—especially if you're not a fan of his or her family—there are definitely plenty of things you'd be better off always telling them.

And, according to the top relationship pros we spoke to, if you play these cards too close to the vest, you'll be setting yourself up for some major drama down the line.

(No one wants that, right?) So here are the truths you're going to need to own up to—from run-of-the-mill to outrageous—straight from experts who have seen it all.

And once you've digested these, don't miss the 50 Worst Pet Peeves That Grind on Relationships.

1 You're In Debt Whether it's a little or a lot, if you're living with your partner or you have combined finances, they need to know how much you owe.

"Don't keep your debt a secret," advises April Masini, a relationship and etiquette expert and author. "Disclose it early in a relationship and don't make excuses. Be honest—and expect honesty in return.

If your debt is a deal-breaker for your partner, it's much better to know that up front before you're both invested in the relationship." 2 You Don't Think They're Making An Effort A lot of people feel like their partner just isn't pulling their weight, but decide to keep it to themselves.

Whether it's because they're not earning an income, not helping out with chores, or not taking on their share of the emotional labor a relationship requires, it's necessary to speak up.

"Most couples don't talk about responsibility since they feel it can be petty," says Hope Mirlis, a premarital counselor and wedding officiant based out of NYC.

"But these small issues can quickly cause resentment, so it's best to speak about them early." And if you really want to throw your weight around where it counts, take a look at 17 Expert Sex Moves The Best Lovers Always Do.

  3 You Used To Have A Substance Abuse Issue You might feel like what's in the past deserves to stay there, but this is an exception.

"Those who have struggled with and overcome addictions understand that they will always face temptation," explains Melissa Orlov, a relationship consultant and founder of ADHD Marriage.

"Your partner needs to know about your past addictions in order to be able to fully support you.  Share knowledge of your past, as well as any temptations or issues you feel in the present.

It's not your partner's job to heal you, but knowing these things can help them best support you." 4 You Know You Can't Have Kids The decision to have kids (or not) can be an emotionally fraught one, but if you know that you're medically unable to conceive, you've got to be upfront about it, according to Dr.

Wyatt Fisher, a clinical psychologist and founder of The Marriage Refresh. Keeping this information to yourself simply isn't fair to your partner.

5 You Think You Might Be Depressed "Mental health issues interfere with your ability to be present and find enjoyment in life. This will affect your ability to be a supportive partner," says Kimberly Hershenson, LMSW.

Another thing you shouldn't keep to yourself? Past mental health struggles. You never know when they might crop up again, and your S.O. should know to be on the lookout for any warning signs.

  6 You're Not Getting What You Really Want In Bed "Sometimes people feel it's easier to just accept what they're getting rather than asking for what they really want between the sheets, but this only hurts your relationship, says Tara Struyk, co-founder of Kinkly.

"The vast majority of people under-communicate when it comes to sex, even in long-term relationships. The truth is, when we don't ask for what we want, we end up settling for far less than we should.

And, although talking about sex can be tough, most partners prefer some direction (especially when it works!) to fumbling around in the dark." 7 That Huge Family Secret It might feel like it's not your place to divulge a family secret to your long-term partner, but if one of your parents is not actually your biological parent, for example, or you're adopted but don't talk about it, your S.O.

should be clued in. "Your partner deserves to know the truth and how it may affect them and your relationship," points out Rosalind Sedacca, a dating and relationship coach.

"This is not time to avoid issues or put up a false front." 8 You're 100 Percent Sure You Do or Do Not Want Kids   "I deal with a ton of women in their 40's and men in their 40's and 50's who have not had children, and more often than not, they are 'open' to having kids," says Erica Arrechea, a certified matchmaker and founder of Cinqe Matchmaking.

"Make that answer a yes or a no," she advises. Beating around the bush increases the chances of heartache later on.

9 How You Spend Your Money Yes, everyone should have their own private emergency fund, but it's crucial to be on the same page as your partner about money-spending overall, even if you agree to disagree about how to spend it.

"People grow up differently and have different views on money and how it should be spent," says Dr. Venessa Marie Perry, founder and Chief Relationship Strategist at The Love Write.

"In many couples, there is a spender and a saver. It's important to understand how money was discussed in their family to understand their financial habits." So go ahead and be honest about what you spend money on.

If you partner doesn't like it, you can agree to keep your finances separate, but at least you'll each know what you're in for.

10 That Friend You've Been Getting a Lot Closer With   You don't need us to tell you that cheating is bad.

But emotional infidelity still counts as cheating to many people, so if you find yourself getting closer to someone—even if it's just as friends—it's a good idea to give your partner a heads up.

"Unless there is agreement in advance that it's okay to have other significant relationships, most partners describe this kind of secret as a betrayal," says Shelly M. Smith, a licensed marriage and family therapist at United Counseling & Wellness.

"When this type of secret is discovered (and it generally is), it ruins the foundation of trust between partners. For many people, this can be a 'line in the sand' that is incredibly difficult to overcome as a couple.

It's best to disclose early to work things out, rather than risk the entire relationship by keeping it from your partner." 11 You've Been Married or Engaged Before "You might be surprised to hear some people don't think this is necessary, which is why it makes my list of secrets that need to be shared," says Christine Baumgartner, a dating and relationship coach.

It's true that the past shouldn't dictate how your relationship functions in the present, but for financial and emotional reasons, previous romantic commitments are definitely something your partner should be informed about.

12 That One Time Your Ex Cheated On You Or that one time you cheated on your ex. "When I ask most couples how important being faithful to their spouses is, without hesitation they say, 'very!'" explains Mirlis.

"Be open about whether you cheated on a past partner or were cheated on." Either way, you're probably still dealing with the emotional effects of it.

That doesn't mean it's definitely going to happen again, but an open, honest conversation about what happened is warranted.

  13 You Don't Actually Agree With Them Maybe you promised not to talk to your friends about your relationship conflicts, but deep down you know you're going to do it anyway, or you said you agreed with your partner's political views because you just knew it would be easier that way.

"As with all secrets, this creates resentment and distance," says Sarah Madras, a relationship therapist and speaker.

"When you secretly don't believe in the agreement, you will either be less likely to follow through or will harbor anger for agreeing to something you don't believe in.

It's a betrayal of the worst kind, as it's a betrayal of yourself and your core values in order to please your partner.

It's also a betrayal toward your partner, as when you say yes and agree to something your partner thinks you are on the same page when in fact you are not." 14 That Sexual Fantasy You Can't Stop Thinking About Not telling them about it means it will probably go unfulfilled.

Plus, "sharing sexual fantasies helps ensure good communication, and it's also a way to foster major intimacy," Struyk says. "Fantasies are personal and very individual.

Opening up about them can really help people get to know their partners in a new and deeper way." 15 The Chronic STD You Got In College   Or any other serious health issue, for that matter.

"Whether it's a chronic illness, a sexually transmitted disease you're ashamed about, or a genetic trait you carry that could affect children the two of you might have together—share it," Masini says.

"If you don't, you're going to have created a dynamic of mistrust when your secret is found out, and it will be.

It's much better to face what you're hiding because you shared than because your secret was discovered." 16 The Thing That You're Really Most Proud Of "Some keep this as a secret in order to not feel as if they are bragging, but if you can't share this with your partner, who can you share it with?" asks Orlov.

 "Sharing what you are most proud of in yourself can give your partner great insight into who you are, as well as give them a path for openly supporting and admiring that quality or accomplishment." 17 You Need Some Alone Time Keeping your needs a secret doesn't help anyone.

Sure, it might seem better to never need anything from your partner, but that's not exactly realistic.

Need a day off from family time to play golf and decompress? Or a little space to watch your favorite TV show after a long day at work? Be honest about it—don't keep it bottled up inside, Madras suggests.

"Tell your partner what you need and allow them to honor and respect that need.

Mutually expressing your needs in a loving way allows you and your partner the opportunity to get both of your needs met and in the end, be fulfilled as individuals and as a couple." Now, once you've gotten all of this off your chest, here's an a elegantly simple list of 11 Ways You Can Make Her Feel Special Tonight to celebrate.

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5 mins will get you a DATE by using this!!! - Duration: 7:45.

hey Susie cancel my 3 o'clock appointment

I'm gonna be out... getting me a girl

hey guys this is B-ry welcome to the how 2 the channel we talk about

the things that you're not taught at school

like why do they keep making so many fast and furious movies

just how fast can they go?

today we're gonna be talking about how to get a date

the reason why we're talking about this is

because a lot of my friends keep telling me and complaining sometimes like oh I

feel lonely, I don't know how to talk to a girl, I can't find a girl and I'm like

okay awesome what are you doing about it? a lot of the times they're really astounded

they don't know what to do and they're just doing nothing one of the things

that I like to say it's like I'm not a dating guru I'm not a savant I'm not a

super human basically I'm just another human, just a regular guy just like you

just probably not as handsome as you

you sexy sexy beast

what I do have is a two step system that basically by learning

and applying it you learn how to talk to

a girl and by doing this you'll be able to get date in no time

so the first thing, you need to get out there what do I mean by this simple you need to find

places where humans are you need to go to a tennis park, go to a park, go to more

parks, then go to a bar, Gym, Church, funeral you'd be amazed of the places you

can find humans and it's not only just going out you need to make sure it you

smell good you don't want to make the mistake of going out and having a foul

breath you not want to be the guys like hey my name is Jimmy.... UGH

even Jimmy can smell himself

so bad breath smell good body odor is children you know common things

if you want to step it up a notch make sure your iron your clothes look

good use cologne if you're gonna use cologne remember the name of the Cologne

a lot of the times girls have asked me what cologne is that and by telling her

what cologne it is it makes it so I look very intentional it's not something that

I just picked up and threw on me used to continue my day it's something that I

purposely used because I want to be better I cannot tell you how many times

guys keep telling me oh you know I don't have time to find a girl and you know I

work and yeah it was like yeah I'm too busy man no sorry.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

You need to set yourself a time frame

if you know that you're going to be needing one minute two

minutes if you know you're in a hurry just pick a number between one and ten

if you're watching this video I would recommend to stick on those guidelines

but for now I would say just stick between one and ten and that is going to

be what's going to be working best and once you pick a time frame you need to

make sure that you have a target you don't want to make the mistake after a

lot of people make just grab you there cell phone playing all day and possibly

having the love of your life walk by you stop it now! you always always always

always need to keep an eye out whatever you are walking the street keep on

scanning the street you need to approach that personal you see and once you do

that it's go time. By doing this you don't allow your brain to take a few seconds

to think on the risk of this you're just going once you make it a habit of just

seeing going you'll be in a much easier space because you won't get the Jimmy

legs or you know you won't get scared and it's just such a common thing to have

step number two you need to make a move

now by using the five-second rule

you're already making a move you already are on the go but did you know that

actually eighty percent men do not approach women that means I don't know

every five men four of them are approaching girls one of them is and

that's probably you once you approach the girl make sure to state your

intentions first, you want to let her know hey I am here and I have some romantic

intentions towards you. You don't want to be that guy's that's just like hey yes you

know I'm like buying the apples and how's your day? oh yeah

that is creepy yo

you need to make sure that you say something along the lines of hey I find

you attractive I don't know who you are I want to get to know you

my name is B-ry what is up? or you can just play with it be fun it's like

did you feel that? I think the earth shook when I saw you hi B-ry what's up

you want to make sure that she knows the reason why you're there get her name don't step

into interview mode I cannot stress this enough I see a lot of guys like hey who

are you? awesome what's your name? yeah where do

you work? what do you do for fun? no that's boring I'm not in a work

interview I am trying to have fun interaction make sure you mix statements

with questions say hey what's your name awesome

you know you look like you could be a horse tamer. Horse tamer? who thinks of a horse

tamer? what happens is that she'll probably laugh about it she'll tell you

listen no I'm actually a Hollywood producer and I would like to hire you

because you're so freaking awesome and handsome

but in reality guys most of the times they will laugh they will have a kick of it they will

tell you what you want to know and you move on and you can also play with it don't just

say a statement, say a question then say a statement and say a question, elaborate if she's

like hey I actually work on the market you can be like awesome I'm getting free

bananas from now Woohoo on while you're talking to her make sure to make jokes be fun

always always always keep eye contact I cannot stress this enough a lot of

times I see guys that they keep eye contact when they're listening and when

they're not it's like and yeah my name is Bob and you know you need to make eye

contact while you're talking it's gonna be very challenging at first but the

more you keep eye contact the mark you relate to her that you're confident and

you create relation of trust which you need because as soon as you feel that

you have that relation of trust and as soon as you feel that you're reaching

your time frame you want to get her number I see guys going to let's say and

a market they talk to a girl they find the courage to do it

talk to her for a couple of minutes get the phone numbers drop the basket and

run away little kids

you do not need to do this

one of the things that I noticed that girls find attractive once you're doing

something like the market you know talk to her awesome what's nice to meet you

you got her number have a wonderful day I'll reach out to you next week once you move away and

you keep on doing your groceries girls gonna say like wow this guy literally

just said he doesn't have more time he's still doing his groceries that means

that I was a point on his day I was not the point of his day that is gonna come

off as very attractive and sexy last but not least follow-up you need to make

sure that you do a great follow-up in order to actually create the date

make one or two small short comment, jokes or something that relates to when you met her

and second make a time frame and make a date you can be like hey how about

we meet next week at this place this location BAM simple easy smooth

you got yourself a date

just for a quick recap guys first you need to get out there hit

places where humans are smell good, hygiene, have a time frame always be on the

lookout use the five-second rule you don't want to be that eighty percent of

guys step number two you need to make a move

tell her your intentions mix statements and question focus and eye contact is

very important get the number make your follow up focus that, keep it short keep

it fast keep it simple concise that's it for

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This is David. - Duration: 0:35.

I think empathy plays a big role.

You have to really put yourself in their

shoes and I think, if you do that, and

realize that they're a person there...

they're a person, it pays off because

they know you really care about them.

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This is Christine. - Duration: 0:37.

I love what I do. I love being a nurse.

You can't put a price on making a

difference in someone else's life.

You know? You really can't. There's

nothing I'd rather do than to care for

someone else or make someone's day

better.

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