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Do you know a narcissist?

15 Things Narcissists Don't Do

From a psychological perspective, there are several characteristics that define a narcissistic person.

They are extremely egotistic, with an exaggerated sense of self-importance,

have fantasies of unlimited success and brilliance, expect special treatment, like to exploit others, lack empathy,

are filled with envy, expect people to envy them and are extremely arrogant.

While these traits should be easy to spot in a person, you need to remember that narcissists are tricky people.

They are manipulative and are easily able to con you into thinking they are different.

No one wants to fall for the manipulation of a narcissist.

It would be helpful to know who to stay away from, so to help you identify them:

here are some things narcissists don't do.

1.

They don't show their true selves

Narcissists are manipulative, so of course they won't show you who they really are when you first meet them.

They lure you into believing that they are someone completely different, maybe someone sweet and kind.

You won't find out their true personality until it's too late

2.

They don't incorporate security into relationships

Narcissists tend to keep you on your toes.

The last thing they want is for you to feel safe and secure in the relationship.

It gives them pleasure to be above you in every way, and when you feel insecure it makes them secure in turn.

3.

They never allow you to see them as the bad guy

In a narcissist's mind they can never be the bad guy and they make sure you know it too.

No matter what the situation is the blame will ultimately fall on you and this will make you feel like a terrible

person, however they don't care.

You feeling bad about yourself is exactly what they want.

4.

They don't like losing control

Narcissists are control-freaks and losing control makes them extremely upset or angry.

They need to have control of people and their surroundings.

It gives them a sense of security in knowing that you will do whatever they want without question.

5.

They won't let people prove them wrong

A narcissist will argue that black is white until even you begin to believe it.

This is one of the biggest traps to fall in when being around a narcissist.

Arguing with them is a waste of time and effort; their manipulative nature will cause you to start doubting yourself

and soon you'll start believing them.

6.

They don't see others as equals

Narcissists believe they are on top of the world – they don't believe anyone is on the same level as them.

If you try and associate yourself with them as an equal, then they will do anything in your power to bring you down so

they are on top once again.

7.

They never have sympathy

These are the kinds of people who laugh while everyone cries during a sad movie.

They don't really care that your mother just went through a divorce or your parent just died.

They don't care about your feelings and they're tired of hearing about your recent breakup or job loss.

If it doesn't concern them, they won't bother with it.

8.

They don't do anything that doesn't benefit them

They didn't buy you dinner out of the kindness of their heart…

They are probably going to ask you for a world of favors afterwards.

Narcissists don't do anything without a purpose to benefit them.

Giving a narcissist what they want is the last thing you want to do.9.

They don't take orders from others

Don't try to order a narcissist around.

They are egotistical people, and trying to take control is a big hit to their self-esteem.

It wouldn't be surprising to later find yourself in a plot for vengeance later on,

just for trying to take control of a narcissist.

10.

They don't like to admit they have feelings

Narcissist of not, everyone has feelings.

They undoubtedly feel emotions differently to other people but a narcissist will often say:

"I don't have feelings." This is of course an excuse for all the horrible things they can sometimes do.

They use the pretense of not knowing how emotions work to get away with anything without people thinking badly of them.

11.

They don't listen

They don't listen, they just wait for you to shut up so they can say what's on their mind.

They really don't care about what you have to say, all they're concerned about is your willingness to listen to them

rant on and on.

12.

They don't stick around

If you're staring to bore them in any friendship or relationship, expect a narcissist to pack up and leave.

They want attention, and if you aren't giving them what they want then don't expect them to stick around.

13.

They don't pick unattractive friends

As mentioned, narcissists don't do anything that doesn't benefit them.

Picking friends is one of those examples.

They surround themselves with attractive and upper-class people making them feel more superior and invincible.

It will be rare to find a narcissist surrounded with an unattractive, undesirable crowd.

14.

They don't give compliments

Narcissists want to be complimented.

They don't have to make people feel good about themselves because it's not their job to do so.

You'd be lucky to get a compliment from a narcissist, and even if you do you have reason to be suspicious.

15.

They don't like to be polite

At the best of times a narcissistic sense of superiority allows them to feel exempt from the rules of society – common

courtesy being one of these exemptions.

No matter how tempting it is, don't disrespect a narcissist, because they are definitely not going to turn the other

cheek.

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episode 8/2017 Opalicious and upcoming Syfestival - Duration: 38:37.

With a rhythm like the waves and the heart beating,

I knit one stitch after the other and one row after the other

at the same time I collect my thoughts and feelings

without the woolen threads, I get lost

but if I can knit one more row and one more, I can find my way home again

through the magic of the threads I take my way through the days and the nights

I live on Gotland, the island of the roses and the fairytales in the Baltic Sea

together with my husband and our children and Watson the cat

Kammebornia is our art project as well as our own kingdom

Kammebornia is about our wish that everyone could live in their own fairytale kingdom in this place we call reality

and it is about our wish that everyone could be the king or the queen in their own life

In the Kammebornia podcast we want to invite you to our world

that is full of thoughts, feelings and discussions

caused through the scent of the coffee and the soft peaceful rhythm of the knitting

Kammebornia podcast is about life in general and knitting in particular

Welcome to Kammebornia podcast and the 8th episode in 2017

Today you will meet my friend Marie, who likes knitting so much that she started a webshop for yarn

Dennis and I talk about the bloomer-riot and we talk about good stuff and good people and

and we prepare for the Stockholm sewing and yarnfestival

Hi Pia!

Hello!

Are you ok?

Yes

What are you sticking on? (sticka =knitting in Swedish)

But you were supposed to say What's on (Watson) your needles?

Our own joke you mean?

And you should hold Watson, the cat...

That's fun...

But he is not here!

Have I destroyed the joke now?

It does not matter, it is fun anyway!

But what are you knitting?

I am knitting on a pair of bloomers!

It is a pattern from my friend Maja @majasmanufaktur

It is available for free at Järbo garn, (linkto pattern in many languages in show notes)

Right now there is a bloomer-riot going on

You can imagine how exciting this is!

It is a nice kind of real girl power with woolen bloomers!

We are many people knitting the pattern from Maja right now

The pattern is available for free in both Swedish, Danish, Norwegian, English and German! (Links in shownotes below and on ravelry)

The riot comes from the fact that alarge yarn company have made a pattern almost exactly like Majas without communicating about this

It is very hard not to think of it as a copy

The sad thing is that this has happened several times before

and the strangest thing is that they do not answer any questions!

They just erase comments and questions

I have written to them in a very well behaved tone and friendly asked them about this but they do not answer

and they ERASE comments instead of answering them

But they think it is ok to take Majas pattern?

It seams so...

Instead of crawling in irritation and anger we raise our voices by knitting Majas pattern!

Let us lift the things we think are good! We lift Majas pattern and knit bloomers in yarns we like

from companies we like

They are well suited to knit in Gästrike or Ullcentrum 2-ply for example

I would love to make a pair in rainbowyarn from Opalicious

Where do you buy the pattern?

It is free on Järbo garns homepage

Järbo had paid Maja, so everything is ok there

Maybe some people do not know what bloomers are?

It is a pair of panties, knickers, underpants

and these are knitted in wool

it is a perfect garment to keep warm in the winter, especially if you wear a dress or a skirt like I use to do

I used to wear them when I was younger. I had a pair that my grandmother knitted for me and also some from the store

I have really missed them because they are warm and comfortable

I guess thay are also nice to wear under your skidress or under your pants.

They keep your butt warm and they look good!

Check them out on Majas Instagram at @majasmanufaktur

I knit my pair in grey and mustard and I will make a small pattern border in red

I took it from this old book from the 50's

It will be small hearts

I love old knitting books and magazines

What are you knitting?

I am working on my Riddari

I have put the parts together and I have to coose a new colour for the yoke

it is a bit tricky to choose colours

Yes, it is difficult!

I have different ones here

But you know what you think?

I like the deep red

Yes, maybe that is the one

or another beige

Well, we will have to think about that

that is what I am doing

The important thing is to find a colour that you like!

Yes, of course, but it is very difficult to see before you knit

Maybe I just have to try

You have knitted the pieces together now!

Yes, Ella helped me and explained how to do

Ella is also knitting a Riddari, so you have your own knitalong

Yes, that is right

What do you want to talk about?

Well, this is kind of an episode about nice people and yarn

Those things often go together

Yes, like Maja with this pattern,

Linnea Öhman who made this pattern, I have finished my Juni cardigan

@fruvalborg whos dyed this beautiful yarn

We will meet her irl for the first time at Syfestivalen!

On Saturday

That is right!

Because today we will tell you about things you should not miss if you go to the Syfestivalen in Stockholm (Swedens largest yarn and sewing fair)

We will be there and shoot some film

I have been there several times but it is so exciting to be able to bring you and Ella!

It will be so fun to go all three of us!

I hope you will say hello if you are there and you recognize us!

That would be fun!

It is a lot about that, saying hi to nice people and meet in real life

It is about nice people and yarn!

nice people and yarn!

I think I will wear my new cardigan!

It is nice to wear a newly knitted thing at Syfestivalen. What if you are ready with your Riddari?

There is not enough time

No, probably not, but my cardigan is done, I have found the right ribbon and buttons from my grandmother

My grandmother was a seamstress and I have a lot of beautiful thigs from her

This is Grandma!

Yes, that is her!

I like my cardigan!

And I like Linnea who made the pattern!

Let's go!

I have showed this lovely book before - Lek med tradisjoner (Play with traditions) by Kristin Wiola Ödegård

It is such a lovely book

And now I will knit the Wiola cardigan you can find in this book

I will knit two... because it was too difficult to choose colours...

I will make one in my own colours, brown, red, mustard

And then I will also make one in the original colours from Kristin Wiola

This is the original colours, it is also brown and mustard but also seagreen

She is so good at colours

You will be able to follow my process with the Wiola cardigans

I knit in Peer Gynt, the yarn the pattern is written for. It is a popular classic Norwegian yarn

I have not tried it before so I am excited!

You can find Peer Gynt at YlloTyll

The Peer Gynt?

No, only the yarn! (Peer Gynt is a character in a famous Norwegian drama by Ibsen)

There is also a version of the pattern for a thinner yarn

This is really cosy

Something that is going to happen in this episode is that you can follow me and my friend Marie on an outing

to a small fishing village where we went to knit and talk

We got to know each other through the knitting

I filmed you!

We were a bit giggly, we had a lot of fun

Marie has the webshop Opalicious and she is a sponsor of our podcast

That is how we got to know each other but now we are also friends

She came to Gotland a while ago and we had such lovely autumn days together

We have been knitting, laughing and talking

we are talking about a luxury yarn that I am going to try

I also got a skein!

This is yours

Oops!

The grey and pink go well together

There is cashmere in this yarn, it is soooo soft!

I do not know what to do yet, maybe a hat or a pair of wristwarmers

It is so soft and cosy so it is nice to have close to your skin

It is also a nice thing to tell, that Opalicious is not only about Opal yarn, there are also other yarns and stuff in her shop

I also want to show something I am working on

I have knitted a sock, but it is not the second sock syndrome, I will soon make the other

This is a lovely hand dyed trekking sockyarn from Garnbolaget

Another nice person, Kristin

I met her at a knitting festival 2 years ago and she is sometimes a sponsor here

You are going to meet her on Saturday because she is going to Syfestivalen in Stockholm!

Do not miss Garnbolaget if you are going to Syfestivalen

She has a lot of lovely hand dyed yarns

Many lovely yarns and colours

I want to show some nice things

I will talk more about this book in our next episode

It is a book about cables by Ivar Asplund

Last time we went to Stockholm we met Ivar and talked about this book

So in our next episode you will hear more!

It is Anna!

Yes! Another nice person!

Anna Bergman, Tant Ulltuss (Aunt Wool Wad)

I took the pictures in her first book, Tant Ulltusssocks

That was when we met

We still have a lot of fun together

Now she has made a book full of mittens and also this booklet with retrosocks

Annas daughter Julia has taken the pictures

You have not been to the Syfestivalen before so I want to tell you what we shall not miss

Ullcentrum will be there, it is always a feast for the eye

It is like a candy store

Then I want to go to Korps and look for nice fabrics to sew medieval clothes

Maja will be there!

Garnbolaget will be there!

Do not miss Kamilla Svanlund!

She was here!

Everyone has been here!

Almost... Yarnesty was here, she will be at Limmo design

Petra from Fru Valborg is going to be there!

Solkusten will be there!

Do not miss Magasin Duett

And do not miss Tant Ulltuss and the book release!

Organic knitters will also be there!

So many nice people to meet!

Please say hello if you see us! It will be fun!

Are you ready now?

Yes, I am hungry!

I have finished my brown Juni cardigan

It is warm and beautiful with lace knitting both front and back

I found the perfect buttons in my grandmothers drawer

and I have a nice woolen ribbon sewn into the borders

I am very satisfied with my brown cardigan and feel prepared for autumn and winter

A while ago we had a visit from Marie at Opalicious

We had great days together

One day we went to a small fishing village and of course we did some knitting there

I do wish that Marie lived here on the island so we could meet more often

Hello Marie!

Hello Pia!

And hello to all of you! Here we are at Själsö, north from Visby

I am so glad that you are here!

You live on the mainland, outside from Stockholm

It is a nice thing to have friend that comes to meet me and we can knit together

It has been too long!

Yes! We met through the knitting

The first time we met was a year ago

Yes, here in Visby, I was here on the autumn break with my family.

And we could use the moment to meet

and we found each other directly

we both felt that we wanted to see more of each other

then we have also met at Syfestivalen in Stockholm

and on Instagram all the time

and we also work together as Opalicious is a sponsor of our podcast

Marie has a webshop called Opalicious

It is such a lovely name!

Yummy like the yarn!

You started selling Opal yarn, that is why the name Opalicious came natural

Yes, I have all the collections from Opal yarn

there are both 4-ply 6-ply and 8-ply

But you also sell other yarns than Opal?

Yes I have a Danish yarn from Mayflower

and I am interested in trying new yarns

I want to expand my assortment

I have hugged a luxury yarn from you today

It was like a luxurious candybar

It is a very cosy yarn, I am excited to see what you will be knitting with it!

I think it will be a hat, or a pair of wristwarmers

You want to have it close to your skin

It is totally not itchy

I have knitted a lot from your Opal yarn

It feel so great with this job I have created for myself - I get friend at work!

Both you and I have the best jobs!

Yes! And we can knit a lot!

These are all socks I have knitted in your Opal yarn

My Lucky me socks, the brown pair are already this autumns favorite

And the pair I am wearing

These are good looking!

I have made another pair of knee highs

Opal yarn is well known for the multicoloured yarns

Yes, and the special thing for Opal is that they release new collections all the time

There are eight colours in each collection and there is always at least one to die for

There is a big variety

There are also single coloured yarns

Absolutely!

There are also different kinds, I have just started to use the 6-ply, it is great

Yes, the 6-ply is DK and the 8-ply is worsted

I have mostly used the 4-ply, fingering weight

Yes, it is 425 meters in 100 g.

I love these rainbow colours

I am knitting a pair for Dennis in the 6-ply, DK.

He needs the thicker ones to not wear them out too fast.

The 6-ply is great, it is not too thick, just perfect and it knits up fast

What needles do you use for the 6-ply?

I use 2.5 mm but of course you can also use 3.0mm

Yes, I think it says 3-4

I use 2.5 because I want them to last longer, we use our socks so much

I usually go down in needle size too

I have 56 stitches and 2.5 needles both for me and Dennis.

Tell me about when you started your webshop!

Oh, what happened... it all started with my grandmothers yarnstore where I grew up

both my mother and my grandmother had a yarnstore

and that was before the webshops

yes, we had no Internet when I was a child!

I have always been knitting

I got in contact with Opal about 6 years ago

and I immediately fell for it

It is hard to run a yarn store today

therefor it can be hard to find yarn and I wanted everyone to be able to find Opal yarn

so it was like your mission

Yes, I wanted everyone in Sweden to be able to find it!

That is why I started Opalicious

it was almost four years ago and it is so much fun

You have your storage at home in the basement right?

Yes, and sometimes I have a pop up-store in our green house in the garden

I would love to come!

You are more than welcome!

It is so cosy and my cute and crazy dog runs around

Oh, Frasse!

Here comes an airplane

How unsuitable!

I think that Opal yarn is mostly associated to sockknitting but you can use it for other things also, right?

Ifell in love with your shawl today, this is knitted in Opal

Yes, this pattern is called Find your fade

I have knitted mine from left over yarns

So it is both Opal and some other yarns

You can knit so many varietys of this one

a good way to use left overs!

it is so much fun to blend all the colours and exciting to see the result

all multi coloured yarns do not blend so well as the Opal yarn does

it feels like they know what they are doing

I also like the one coloured yarns

I am knitting the Birkin sweater in Opal 6-ply

But you feel that you never get finished?

The fun part is already done with yoke

On the Icelandic sweaters you have the yoke to look forward to

Like a dessert

This is the other way around with the dessert first

This is for my sister so I put love in each stitch

it is so nice to knit for beloved people

I am working on it sis!

You have also knitted a Birkin for yourself?

Yes, but I knitted mine in Rauma

It is a great sweater

It is a fun knit!

I think I might knit another one later on!

How much do you knit in a day?

My God!

Too much!

Or is it possible?

I have some knitting injuries...

Then I get obsessed with crocheting for a change

I like making granny squares

When I have knitting injuries I take a break and clean up my knitting basket for example

I put everything on the floor and find new old projects

and I get to finish other things

Where does it hurt in your body when you knit too much?

I have learned to relax so Ido not have so many problems with that

It is also very important to rise up once in a whileand move around

do some stretching and bending

get a cup of coffee for example

I walk around and make strange moves that feel good

strange dances

I have seen them!

My family always look surprised and amused

Your body says thank you

mostly it is my wrists otherwise

and the shoulders

stretching!

But you do not have pains now?

Actually I do not talk so much about it but I have pains every day.

I try to ignore it

I have to knit

Yes, we HAVE TO knit

What is your next Opal project?

I have some sock plans

You like the rainbow yarns?

Yes I do

They are happy colours

The skein you got yesterday comes from the Schafpate collection

That means it is only German wool right?

Yes!And Opal is such a good company because they are very aware of the workers, and they want the sheep farmers to have good conditions

In the other collections half of the wool is from Germany and half is from South America.

All the farmers have to sign contracts about treating the sheep well

Opal also have people travelling around to see that the rules are followed

It feel so good to know that all are treated well!

I also want to finish some of my granny square blankets

I do love happy coloured blankets

and I would like to make a shawl like yours

it is such a fun knit!

I mostly like to use the one coloured yarns and meke my own patterns, but I also get carried away by all the loveliness in the multi coloured skeins

It is nice as a variety in my knitting

it very good for social knitting

like in the knitting café yesterday

it was so fun that you could be with us

there was this funny man there who seemed allergic to wool

We were about 10 people together in a café knitting

There was only one more guest at this café and he was sitting at a table next to us

He started to sneeze, one more time and one more time...

ten times, twenty times, it never ended

we guessed he was allergic to wool

finally he said so himself, Ithink Iam allergic to your yarn

Poor thing!

That would be a nightmare, to be allergic to wool!

Yes, My God what a nightmare!

I would ignore it!

Use a gas mask!

Oxygen tube!

Just to have to wool!

Like Darth Vader!

I would totally do that!

Yes! And keep on knitting!

Totally crazy!

I hope it does not happen to us!

We decide that it will not happen!

We are so happy to be able to share our yarn happiness, Gotland love and coffee moments with you!

Thank you for being with us!

We also have the best sponsors and we want to say thank you to them as well

At jarbo.se you can find yarns and free patterns and much more (mostly in Swedish)

At Opalicious you can find Opal yarn and much more

At Ullcentrum you can find fine Swedish wool yarn

In Uppsala you can find the cosy yarn shop YlloTyll and they are also available at yllotyll.com

At Garnbolaget you will find beautifully hand dyed yarns

You can follow us at facebook if you search for Kammebornia

On Instagram you can find @kammebornia and @kingofkammebornia

You can also find me and my patterns on ravelry.com

Pia blogs in Swedish on kammebornia.se

you can also subscribe at our Youtube channel Kammebornia

Thank you so much and welcome back!

For more infomation >> episode 8/2017 Opalicious and upcoming Syfestival - Duration: 38:37.

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Who defines who you are? - Duration: 9:17.

Hi all.

Here we are again and for me this is always an exciting several minutes.

I get to share my thoughts with you and as always in the back of my mind: am I reaching

you, do I make sense.

I had an interesting few minutes earlier today with a woman in her late thirties/early forties,

relatively successful.

Successful in losing weight and turned to me and said: Dr. Schwartz I have a problem.

Five of my girlfriends and I get together every year this is the weekend, we've rented

a house, we're flying down to the Carolina's and we're going to spend four, five, six days

together depending upon how many are staying.

I said: That sounds really terrific.

She says: I look forward to it except this time I have a problem.

And I said: What's your problem?

Well you know I've been on the program for four months.

I've lost almost 55 pounds.

I know I haven't been perfect but look at me.

I feel terrific and I'm worried because I'm going to be together in the same house with

five other women.

I said: I'm not clear what I hear you saying is; you're going to allow these women to define

who you are?

And she said: What do you mean by that?

Well I'm not hearing your words but what I gather from what you've said is you've worked

on weight loss, you haven't been perfect, you're happy with what's happening and now

you're taking what has happened into the real world, not the Accu Weight-loss world, with

some of your friends and you're worried.

She said: Yes, I don't want to have to think about food.

And I said: Why would you have to think about food?

Well generally speaking we have breakfast together every morning.

And I said: And?

Well if everybody else is having breakfast shouldn't I have breakfast?

I asked her what it was that she was asking me a question because she had made a statement.

Which all of you need to attend to because everyone else was having breakfast.

She saw herself as separate from not part of and here is a woman who in real life has

a job is doing things, goes on vacations, has lost almost 50/55 pounds I'm not exactly

certain what, it's certainly no secret when her friends see her, they're going to recognise

that.

What's the problem?

The problem is that here is a woman who says: If I don't behave like everyone else, I will

be out of the group on some level or other.

This is something we need to really address.

First of all, I have said very often too many of you: If someone criticises your weight-loss

program, particularly if they have zero information and knowledge, then their reason for criticising

has nothing to do with you, it's how you are having an impact on them.

Now here is a woman who's saying to me that because she is going to be spending time with

people who she calls I quote friends that she will be giving away her power in order

to be a friend.

That makes no sense, no sense at all.

The reason we're friends is because I share with you, you share with me, we have things

in common, we have fun together, we interact but the only reason I'm your friend and you're

my friend is because one of us has power and the other does not and in this case the group

has power and she does not.

All of this is speculation and we're not really going to know until a week or two weeks from

now when she comes back to the office but this is something I hear all the time.

Now, you are the most important person in your world.

If you love you, if you like you, if you like your behaviour then you're centred in your

own world and if you're centred in your own world you can recognise what's going on and

realise that friendship is something that's mutual but if you're needy you give away your

power.

Giving away your power can't feel good.

These are things we need to be discussing because they affect the way in which we carry

on our food intake whether it's while on the program, whether it's on transition, whether

it's in life.

What is it about you and I mean you in particular that I haven't had a question/email from you

asking me anything that's relevant to what it is that we're doing.

You didn't have time, you're fearful of sharing with me, you don't trust that my response

will be responsible?

Think of it.

I'm the resource, you guys pay me and I work for you.

If you don't use the resource.

I'm gold but you can't use the gold unless you dig it up and refine it.

Are you going to send me an email?

Let's see.

Take care.

Wait, you didn't ask me what my email address.

DrS@accuweight.com.

Talk to you.

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PELI Webinar: When You Can't Ask the Resident - Duration: 58:11.

Hi everyone welcome to today's webinar entitled

When You Can't Ask The Resident: Practice Guidelines For Asking Proxies

About Resident Preferences. My name is Kendall Leser and I am the

project manager for Ohio's PELI-Can program aimed at promoting

preferenced based person-centered care in Ohio's nursing homes.

Before we get started with the presentation I have a few housekeeping items to

go over with you. I ask that for those of you seeking Ohio

Social Work CEUs, which I believe can be transferred to Nursing CEUs

to please take a moment and click under the chat box

and complete the form. In order to issue CEU

credits we must have a record of you signing into and out of the webinar.

At the very end of the webinar you will be asked to complete a

webinar evaluation and enter the time that you exited the webinar.

Please expect to receive a PDF of your CEU certificate

via email within the next two weeks but most likely

more quickly than that. It is very important

that we have documentation of every single person who is requesting CEUs

so if multiple people are viewing this webinar on one computer

each individual person need to take a moment and sign in and sign out

of the webinar as well as complete an evaluation form at

the very end. Again, the link to sign in

to the webinar is under the tap box and you can just click on that link right now.

During today's webinar we will

be discussing special considerations for proxy

interviewing tips for incorporating friend and family insight

into assessments and care planning and identifying ways to build staff

observation skills when a proxy is not available.

If you have questions throughout the webinar, people type them in the

Q&A chat box and we will answer your questions at the very

end of the presentation.

And you'll see on the screen right now

where the arrow is, that's where you can type your questions and the panelists

will be able to respond to those at the very end. Now I

would like to introduce our speakers for today's webinar. Dr. Kimberly Van Haitsma

is an Associate Professor of Nursing at Penn State University as well as

the Director of The Program for Person-Centered Living Systems of

Care and a Senior Research Scientist at the Polisher Research

Institution at Abramson Center for Jewish Life.

Dr. Van Haistsma's research focuses on seeking to understand

the impact of contextual issues such as the physical environment, culture of

care, staff interactions, interdisciplinary team processes,

and psychotherapeutic approaches to quality of life and quality

of care deliver for frail seniors receiving services in the long

term care setting. Our next presenter is Dr. Katy Abbott.

Dr. Abbott is the Robert H. and Nancy J. Blayney Assistant

Professor of Gerontology and a Scripps Gerontology Center Research

Fellow at Miami University. Dr. Abbott's research and teaching

focuses on preferenced based person-center care with a special emphasis

on person's with dementia. Dr. Van Haitsma and Abbott have

co-authored over a dozen peer reviewed articles related to the PELI. I will

now turn it over to Dr. Van Haitsma.

Hello everyone and we welcome you

to this webinar. We do want to just

let you know that the advice that we're providing today

really comes out of our history in working for

over 15 years with long term care organizations.

Older adults, family members who were

seeking to implement the PELI in

within their organization and so the advice that we're

going to provide here today is really to

help the thinking around developing an action plan

as to how to use these preferences and

in your daily care activities the development of procedures and

policies and formalize a

standard for how these preferences can assessed and as

we've already mentioned today, the goal is really focusing on when the resident

cannot be interviewed and when we have to go to other sources

for getting that information.

Finally, our goal as whole for this project is to really look at

how you can utilize that information to leverage better

care in the daily care that you provide.

So lets talk just a little bit about

person-centered care benefits and some of this is kind of

preaching to the choir because if you guys are on this call you are already

understand that the person-centered care benefits

residents, staff and family members but just to

give a brief overview, the literature is pretty clear

in the findings that provision

of person-centered care fosters engagement on the part of the resident

and improves their quality of life and well being.

Primarily because preferences are the avenue toward understanding what is

meaningful and purposeful to us all. We prefer those things that are

that have specific meaning to us and that is certainly

true for a nursing home resident. It also

helps to facility the resident feeling of autonomy

and their ability to have their voice inserted into

directing the care and services that are being provided

certainly goes a long way to creating a care environment of trust

and respect and building those closer relationships with

the staff that are providing the care. Next slide please.

From the staff perspective

again the literature is pretty clear that person-centered care has a host

of benefits. Staff members are definitely

reporting being more comfortable caring for people that they know

that they have a better, stronger partnerships with the residents

and their families when preferences are discussed and

of course the staff who the persons preferences can adapt

more quickly to that persons ever-changing needs and

requirements for their care and how they like to live their daily lives.

Finally, staff who

provide person-centered care are highly valued

within their organizations than the information that they

have in terms of knowing more about the residents preferences

and needs help them to work more efficiently and devote their time

where it's needed most. Where

the organization itself, nursing homes who deliver person-centered

care are shown to have better quality outcomes

and aging this is largely due to the ability of staff

to more quickly identify and respond to the changes

of a residents condition but also

nursing homes can gain referrals from people who have a good expereince

and recommend the nursing home to others as a

place to receive good person-centered care and then also some evidence

to suggest that nursing homes have better staff retention

again due to that building of that relationship between staff

and resident. So typically

when you would seek to assess preferences of

course we would ask the resident first and that interview

process and talking with the residents is to find out

which preferences are the most important important to him or her, how

satisfied they may be with wether those preferences are being fulfilled

at moment in time but

of course what happens when the resident is unable to communicate

and cannot be interviewed? So just like we would do with

anything related to the MDS or any other assessment tool

we would seek out a family member or friend who knows that resident

well to begin the assessment process

So what does the literature tell us in terms of what we know about

family members or friends as proxies

and speaking for the residents and their loved ones?

Well, we know that of course families continue to provide

support to older adults even after they enter the nursing home so they're

very much there and want to be apart of the

partnership of providing care and in fact

families serve a very important role in helping to support

individualized care in the nursing home environment.

On the flip side though, we also know that family members

are not always fully understanding what

an older adults preferences may be and this can be a variety of reasons

why that is true. Some folks may not have

actually provided care to the older adult

or they may live at a distance and not fully understand

where the person is coming from and

their daily activities and daily needs at the moment but

having said that, the literature is pretty clear

that proxy reporters are right

more often than wrong in terms of their

reporting of the preferences of their loved ones

and so on balance we know that it is a good idea

to go and ask family members about

the preferences of their loved ones.

So just to say a little about some of the work that we've done, we recently completed

this study where we were looking 20 different nursing homes and

resident and family member a dyad

that participated in this study.

And the nursing home

residents were cleared by a physician

for capacity to consent and that they were medically stable so

again to be clear we were talking with nursing home residents who could report

on their own preferences.

This was using the tool for the

PELI itself which is, as you all know now, a 72

item tool that helps

us to assess the importance of everyday preferences in care.

The

findings from that study were that you can see here

reading through what some of the agreement was between those

residents who could speak for themselves and their

family member or friend and these were some of the areas

where there were very good agreement in terms of what the resident

said they preferred and what the family member reported

that the resident preferred. So some nice

checks in terms of that if we ask a family member

about eating, how the resident feels

better when they are upset, what clothes they want to wear, privacy

things like that, these are all things that we can reliably

take from a proxy and say that

we can care plan around these types of preferences.

On the other hand we

look at some of the deviations about where preferences

reported by both the proxy and a nursing home

resident may be different. So here proxies underestimated

the importance of the residents

level of importance in listening to music, being involved in cooking,

exercise, volunteering your time, being around children,

choosing your own medical care professional and how to care for

your mouth. So these are things that where the proxy thought that

the things were not as important to the resident and the resident said no

these are things that are on average very important to me.

On the other hand, there are three preferences

where proxies overestimated the importance of the preference compared

to the resident. So the proxies thought that having

snacks available between meals was more important than the resident did

napping was more important and choosing what time to get up.

So again, these are just some guidelines for you to think about

as you use your clinical judgement and

taking the responses from proxies and moving

forward from a care planning perspective.

So in conclusion families are

getting it rigth on the majority of preferences

and so really are an important source about the residence preferences

when they can no longer be interviewed.

Great, Thank you Kimberly.

So this is Katy and I'm going to take over from here and walk you through

our tip sheet on working with proxies.

You'll find this download as part

of the webinar, if you have troubles we have our e-mails

at the end of the webinar and you can e-mail us directly and we can send you these

PDFs. So the first piece that we wanted to go over

with you in terms of working with proxies is

this idea of approaching

the resident three separate times on different days

before determining that the interview cannot be

completed. We realize that residents

have good days and bad days and we want to

try and approach them different days and times of day to make

sure that we really are not able to get information

from them. Then decide if you're going to

perform in-person interviews with your proxies, if your going to

do phone interviews with your proxies

if you want to do an e-mail survey monkey

send it by snail mail or a combination.

So there are some things that your orginization will need to think about.

Think about which staff member among your organization

will perform the proxy interviews and coordinate with the family or

friend proxy. There's been a lot of

talk about which family member or friend should be asked to participte

in the proxy interview and this is a process by which you might ask

who among these variety of family members

might be the best one to

do the interview. Finally,

create an information flyer to include in new admission

folders explaining the reasons why perference assessments

are being performed with your organization.

Additional tips in engaging with family and friends,

is to help the family and friend understand why

is it important for providers to know about resident preferences.

It's a little bit of educaiton right here where you have

to explian to your family members

and to their friends that knowing about this resident

will help you provide more tailored care

and it's information to help improve both the medical and

non medical aspects of care because there's more than just

medical parts of care. It's important to recognize and

reiterate that the family or friend voice does not become a

replacement of the residents vocie, but that it's a compliment

in the care planning process.

We recommend engaging family and friends by

using them as an additional resource

for finding further details about residents preferences.

They can help discover interests

that can be used to create unique and individual tailored interventions.

Finally, the family and friends may be interested in

serving as a care parter and facilitating activities related to a residents

important preferences. We've heard from some organizations that residents

will refuse to go to activities and they recommended that family members

try to come and go with them to activities

and that may help facilitate

the activity and the resident feeling more comfortable doing

those activities. It's

also important to support family and friends in

recognizing that dispite physical and functional declines

preferences do remain important to the

older person and if the person is not able to do them well

or as well or is not as

involved in the care, it's at these times

we see that family support with preferences

is even more critical. When there's greater decline that even

a small pleasure can be

experienced and with the

support from the staff and the activites staff

can modify these important preference to a persons current

abilities is crucial.

So if you choose to do in-person interviews

we recommend that you find an interview location

that quite and private, we

recommend that you try to work the proxy to find

a time that is convenient for both of you, and be sure that the proxy

can hear you to the best of their ability. If

the proxy wears glasses or earring aids try to remind them and ensure that they are in place

prior to the start of the interview. These are similar

tips we gave during our last webinar.

And again, review all the interview instructions prior

to speaking with the proxy. You want to be fully prepared

to decrease confusion with the family member or the friend.

Stress how you are seeking what the proxy thinks the resident would prefer

not what the proxy prefers and this is tricky for

it's very difficult for

some people to put themselves in their loved ones

shoes. They might want their loved one to particiapte in all these

activities and it's something

that you just have to constantly stress, "Well what do you think

your mom or dad would prefer?"

If you're going to do phone interviews, we recommend that you

schedule at a time of convenience for this family or friend,

double check when you make the call "is this still a good time to

chat for about 20 minutes?" Explain the reasons why

you're seeking information about the persons preferences so a sample script that we've

provided here for you, "Dear Mrs. Smith, my name is Joe

and I am calling from the Red Hills Nursing Center. Everything is fine with your

mother. We are starting a new initiative to learn more about resident preferences and I was wondering

if you had a few minutes to talk with me about your mother's likes and dislikes. I

have a few questions that we would like you to answer.

We would like for you to take the perspective of your mother and answer how you think

she would if she was able. This information will help us provide better care to your mother."

So again, feel free to take that script and adapt it

for your use. We have

not had a lot of success with mailing

the PELI to family members and proxies and

having it returned to us so

we recommend with option with caution

I think that you will probably have better success if your try to do a

in-person or telephone interview

with individuals. If you do choose to do a postal mail

interview, try to use a larger font size, maybe a 14 or 16

font size in creating the questionnaires just so it's easier to read.

You'll want to include a brief cover letter explaing the importance of

the family and friends in competing and returning it and you might want to include

the date by which you'd like it returned. Sometimes we all work better

with deadlines, right? Include a self address stamp envolpe

for the family or friend to return with postage

paid so they don't have to go to the post office and cover the postage.

We recommend calling with a reminder about 2

weeks after mailing if you've not received it yet to say "please

you should of received this, please complete it and

return it" That might be a time also that if they've not received it

to send another copy in the mail and we recommend

maybe after a month sending another copy with a new cover letter if

need be.

At this point I want to turn it back over to Kimberly

to talk about how

you can also engage staff members as proxies

if you're unable to find a family member or friend.

Go ahead Kimberly. Thanks Katy. So as

Katy mentioned there are many instances where

a person does not have a family member or friend to contact

or they're just simply not responsive

or live too far away or the

family member is not responsive

to the request for information and or

says "I really can't answer these questions".

So in those instances where the resident is both

unable to speak for themselves and

or unable to get a family member or friend we

have to rely on our staff observations

and experiences that with their

direct work with the resident. So

one avenue for

doing this is to observe the emotional response

of the resident in an activity

that you have some reason to think that this is

a preferred activity for the resident and often times staff

has a pretty good sense, most of the time, of what

the resident does or does not prefer in a global sense

and by observing the persons

emotional response to an activity, you can

get a better handle on wether that person is indeed

enjoying that activity and signs of

enjoyment and interest are signs that

an activity is indeed a preferred activity.

Here are two examples of interest and pleasure and the

words that are listed on the screen there are

the discriptions of what

emotion looks like in terms of

its non-verbal expression. So,

things like participating in a task or having good

eye contact or eyes that follow an

object or a person, looking around the room or

being responsive by turning your body toward something, those are all

indications of a person is interested

in what is going on around them and therefore

again, you're hitting the right note in terms of

finding a preferred activity for that person. The

same is true for pleasure so, if a person laughs or sings

smiles, maybe makes kissing motions or

strokes gently touching reaching out warmly,

or responding again to an

activity such as music and this may again be signs that the person

is experiencing pleasure. Now, the beauty of non-verbal

observation of emotion is that

observed emotion has been demonstrated throught the work of

Paul Ekman to be culture free

and true across age groups and different types

of ethnicities. It is truly universal

to how our brains are wired as human beings

to express the emtion non-verbally using these

types of non-verbal indicators. We had done some work

a few years ago to test this out in the context of dementia

and we found that even well into

the course of dementia people retain the ability to

express emotion through these non-verbal means.

So, it's something you can take to the bank in terms of a

way in training your staff for looks for signs of interest

and pleasure and that if you're seeing these then

you can communicate that to the care planning team

that these activities are indeed preferred activities

for that resident. On the other hand if you

see signs of negitive emotions such as sadness

anger, and anxiety then you're in the

territory that is not likely to be a preferred activity

for the resident. Sadness the signs of

sadness are such things as obviously crying but frowning

moaning, sighing, putting your head in

your hand, those are all things that would be an indication

that the person may be experiencing sadness at that time

and during that activity. Anxiety on the other hand

can be evidence by calling out

shrieking or being repetitive in what your

saying, expressions of

restlessness or agitation, having deep lines across

the forehead with the eyebrows

drawn together, hand wringing

tremoring, jiggling, rapid breathing

eyes opened up wide and in general having

tight facial muscles, these are all things that again, we has human beings

express non-verbally when we are anxious.

And then finally, anger is probably the one that's most

easier to rate, it's hard to miss when someone is angry

especially if there's physical aggression going on or cursing

berating, shaking of fist, but there are certianly more suttle

signs such as drawing your eyebrows together, clentching your

teeth, pursing your lips, narrowing your eyes

or waving someone away or with a distancing

gesture. So the

observation of both positive and negative affect

the tool I'll show you next here is

putting together all of those non-verbal signs in

one place about how human beings

express a different emotional state and

there are some training materials for training your staff

we have a couple of videos that are avaliable

that can help you train your staff to be more sensitive

to these signs of positive and negative

emotion and then again, using those as ways

of indicating wether and activity is preferred and if it is preferred

then by all means keep doing it and the negative emotion

is a sign that the activity that

is going on is not preferred and therefore can be

something that can discussed at care planning

to figure out how you can turn that negative affect into a

positive affect for that individual.

Great, thank you Kimberly.

And so, what we'd like to turn to next

is to tell you a little bit about thoughts on care planning.

Please remember to put any questions

into the Q & A that you can see in the lower left

hand corner of your screen. We would

encourage you to encourage the proxy to attend care planning

sessions, either by phone or in-person and

track reasons way they aren't able to

attend and potentially engage in a plan-do-study-act

cycle, quality improvment cycle, to try

to figure out reasons for this non-attendance and make it easier

for these individuals to attend. Their insight could be

very valuable to moving your efforts

forward in terms of person-centered care.

It would be a good idea to have a staff member set up

a meeting with the proxy and the resident prior to care planning

to discuss the results of different tools that

you may use in case you're using the PELI there's also the Advancing Excellence

Person-Centered Care Tool, and develop suggestions for

improving or you might have some ideas you might say

"we found this preference is important to you, what are some ways

that we might be able to fulfill that preference

and how might it need to be modified

and still be fulfilled?" and so again, these

proxies can be engaged on multiple levels

as information

givers and bring assistance

to your care planning.

Our take home message really

with all of the work that you've been doing is that individuals

with mild to moderate dementia can still report

on their values and preference, they can do so reliably and

consistantly. We don't recommend hard cut offs such as

certain MMSE score or a certain BIM score because those

cut offs may not always be the best indicator of a persons capability

of responding about their preferences. So it's really where

as Kimberly mentioned that you come back to your clinical judgement

and research supports the positive impact of having

family and friends involved in care and the fact that they can

provide social supports for a resdient even after transition to a nursing home

and care serve as advocates for individualized care planning.

Often times, family and friends aren't really sure

what their role is

when their loved one is in a nursing home and you can provide some of that guidance

through these structured ways and really try

to welcome them in and say "here are some ways that we can use your

help" if they are willing and if they support

Obviously, we recognize that not all residents will

have this kind of family support.

So, we'd encourage you also to

in the Q & A, indicate any

facilitators or barriers you've experienced with engaging proxies

I think that that's an interesting piece the

more we hear from you, the more we can help remediate some of these

barriers. And then share some of the success as well.

We also want to remind you to

submit your questions to us any time. Even if it's after this webinar

send us e-mails or call us

Kendall Leser is our project manager

and she will take your calls, you can remain anonymous if you wish or you can send

us an e-mail. As we've mentioned during the last

webinar, we really want to create an opportunity for a

partnership so that providers can interact and learn from

eachother by sharing successes and stumbles and we want to

facilitate that ability. As we mentioned

last time we're embarking on a listening tour and would be honored to visit your facility

and learn more about maybe how you intergrate proxy

information into your care plan or engage with proxies or anything

related to the Preferences for Everyday Living

We'd love to hear about, as I mentioned, the barries and the

facilitators and there's Kendall's information again.

To find more resources you can go to the website

www.preferencebasedliving.com It's under construction but there are

some resources there right now. We hope to develop it more fully

over the coming months. Also, please sign up for our newsletter

and I'll paste the newsletter link into

the chat box so that you can

sign up for that, I just put that in there

And then,

also, we want to let you know

that our next webinar will be in January

So, we recognize that November and Decemeber are very very busy months

lots of holidays, lots of activities going

on and so in January we will come back to you

with our next webinar on Promoting Resident Choice

and so this webinar will help identify ways to support

and encourage nursing hoe residents to state their preferences and direct their

care as much as possible.

The information that we'll provide reflects best practices among nursing home

staff and administrators to overcome those logistical

and cultural challenges to respect individual preferences for daily schedules,

activities and interactions. That will be Tuesday January 24th from 2-3pm

Again, there's the link for

participating in the webinar and I'll post it into

the chat box. And finally, we'll stop

here, our e-mails are listed. We want to thank you for attending and we'll go

into our Q&A period now. I see we've got

several questions added to the piece and remember

to stay if you're seeking the CEU

credits please stay on until the end so that you can

sign out of the webinar and we can process your CEU credits.

Kendall, how about questions? Alright yeah

we had a few come in and one of the first questions

is "How important is it for short term residents to have a detailed

PELI and a detailed care plan?"

Well that's a great question, in our last webinar we spoke

a little bit about this where we reccommend

enganging with your long term residents

around the PELI. We recognize that you

may only have short term residents for a matter of days

maybe up to 20 days at most, and they may not see this as relevant

to them and it may be very difficult for you to be able

to even put this kind of information into a detailed care plan

We reccommend starting with your

long term residents on the PELI initiative

and I know that on the last webinar we had Cheryl from the Ohio Department of Medicaid

she stated that one of her most

important is that pain management

is, which is a clinical indicator, not part of the PELI

should be the emphasis for those short term residents

so that they're able to go to rehab and able to get stronger

and better to go home. And one other thing that we've mentioned and then I'll

turn it over to Kimberly for any additional pieces of advice is that

if your organization has a home health organization

doing the PELI with your short term residents might

be a great hand-off to your home care organization to help them

guide care, goals, vaules, and activities.

Kimberly, you'd like to share or add?

Ya, I think that last point is really important to emphasis in that

preferences are something that are

inherent to who people are

as such as something is really important to think about as people

transition across different settings of care. So,

this idea that you would, of course everybody collects

the MDS Section F in short term

rehab so those items of course would be

important to figure into their plans of care

if the person has important preferences

and they will of course leave the short term rehab

with those short term preferences in tact

so starting with the MDS Section F

thinking about how those preferences might

be impacted by the persons particular

reason for why they're in short term rehab, how that may effect them

, their behavior and their goals following a discharge from

the short term rehad, those are all really important

pieces of information that preferences can provide

so unlike in the long term care arena where you're really thinking about preferences

for the perspective of providing meaningful, purposeful

tailored daily plans of care

for the person who is living in their home and short term rehab people

are not living in their home, you're thinking about preparing them for returning

to either their home or their next setting of care.

So preferences serve a little bit different purpose

within short term rehab and I think the short answer starting

with those MDS Section F preference and making

sure that the team thinks about them relative to

that persons next setting of care would be an important

way to utilize the preference information.

Alright, thanks Kimberly. I have

another question that came in and this questions is "Do we need to

use the same response options with proxies as we do with residents?"

Another great question, Kimberly do you want to take that one?

Yeah, so the simplest answer

is to use the same

likert scale as we do with resdients but this has come up

in a couple of different context and sometimes

even though the MDS Section F preferences are laid out

in the exact same response that is the PELI we

actually modeled the PELI after that MDS Section

to make it consistant because we knew that

facilities were already asking, using that response

but in fact what we found is that it is pretty hard

sometimes for people to use that response scale

sometimes you can get the information that you're looking

for which "Is a preference important to that person, yes or no?"

"or mostly yes or mostly no"

is really the goal that

we're striving toward. So unlike the DS where we must use

that response scale, within the PELI there are

some options in terms of using the

'very important', 'somewhat important',

as a yes response and

'not very important' or 'not important at all' as sort of a monstly

no response and kind of moving forward from there

So, I think that if you encounter that same type

of difficulty using family members using that

kind of stratagy for getting at the mostly yes or mostly no

and circling the

response accordingly is referred to as a

unfolding process. That is definitly

another stragagy that people have used to

get the information that they need.

Great! And another

question just popped up, What time frame should the PELI

be completed in upon admission and how

often should they be updated? And so,

We believe that

most organizations have 21 days to complete their

care planning and so,

what you're looking at here is if you want the PELI

to inform your initial care plan it would be important

to at least get some items from the PELI answered

and in our prevous webinar we talked about starting with

10-15, you can start with the MDS items, you can

look at the 72 items and pick the 10-15 that speak to your

admission of your organization and those could

start the inital compositition

of your care plan. And then, in terms of how often

they should be updated is we often

reccommend a couple of things. One, we see

relative stability in peoples preferences

over a 3 month time period, which is

as is mentioned correlated with the MDS timeline so

MDS are done on admission and quarterly and then

during significant change and so again we see in our research

that if there is significant change in someones mood

like depression, anxiety

that's a time to reassess preferences as well.

Kimberly, would you like to add anything more about that?

I guess I'll just

amplify the next question which is the correlation with the MDS timeline

and as you already mentioned

you know the stability of preferences

we've checked for that three month period because that is the period between

care plans, between the mandatory care planning period

In fact, one stratagy that you might want to use

is to mirror the

care planning cycle for when you ask these preferences so

that you have those reference avaible to you

ahead of that care planning meeting. How

often you decide to do that, we have had organizations all across

the board, some people try to do a

set of preference questions prior to

every care planning meeting every threee months, others do

say this is something that we going check on for that

persons annual care plan meeting.

Tieing it to their MDS cycle of

assessment is a very good stratagy because now you have

a very holistic look at that individual in terms of everything

else, physically, emotionlly, socialy,

that's going on with that individual as well as an up-to-date

preference assessment.

Great, thank you Kimberly. We have

another question and that is "What happens if a family member

reports his or her own preferences instead of the residents preferences

or tries to influence the residents answer during the PELI interviews?"

This is another tricky questions and

there's serveral ways that you can move forward.

One of course is to again try to reiterate that your

seeking the residents preferences, that it's great

to know what the family member perfers and that you'll take that and you'll write

that down and you'll take that into consideration but could they think

sort of put themselves in their loved ones shoes and think about

how they might respond, espcially since they 're unable to communicate

right now. Again, try

to reiterate the need to sort of

how the family member think about the resident first and then they

can always tell you their preferences later and we recognize

that this is a

are putting together here where you're trying to meet families expectations

but also come education can come into play here

This is where we reccommend maybe some flyers and we're working on developing

some of those that you can use in term of how to educate the family member about

why these are important and why we're asking them report as if their loved one

was reporting. Kimberly, what would you add?

Yeah, I think you

did a very nice job summerizing that Katy and again

the idea that you're gathering information

always through the resident as well through your observation

of their responses to

a particular activity is another thing that

you can certainly report back to family members

saying "you know, in our observation of

your loved one we have noticed that she is particularly

interested and expereiences a lot of pleasure

when she is in this type of activity and not

so much in another activity espcially if a family member is

advocating for their

own preference and not the resident. So, thats another

thing to keep in mind

is that reporting back to family member about your

observations of the resident emotional

well-being when they are in one activity

over another this is the activity that you're really

not sure it's a family member is reporting their own preferences or the residents

preferences, another stratagy to think about.

Alright, thank you Kimberly.

Another questions and it's, "What happens if a family

or friend refuses to complete

the PELI interview, they say they just dont have any time?"

Yeah, this is tricky

again, you may not be able to get this

information from a proxy but what we would reccommend doing again

is trying to reiterate the important of how the information

that this proxy could give you is something that can help

improve the quality of care and potentially the quality of life

of their loved one. Again if you're able to

sort of par down the PELI into

a handful of items that is important to your organization

then you can say these are the

top ten most important preferences that we'd like your

feedback on and could you spare ten minutes just to talk

with me about that. So, maybe trying to

do a little education and then ask only

a little bit at a time and as your developing

a relationship, if they're able to see some improvement or their

able to see how you're putting these preferences into action, then they might be more likely

to give you a litle bit more of their time and tell you some more things

Kimberly, anything you'd like to add?

No, I think that's a great summary Katy.

Alright we just had a question come in

"Is there a place where we can watch the first webinar?" and I will

go ahead and put that link in the chat box for everyone to view

in a couple of seconds. While I'm doing that I'll have Katy

or Kimberly answer this other question which is

"How much time does the family member need to complete the task before the

care planning session?"

Yeah, this is sort of similar to

what we spoke to early

in terms of the earlier question we had so if

you have someone coming in and

you need some proxy information, you might not recognize that you're unable

to get information from the resident for a week or two

right, it may take a little bit for the person to get established

and for you to develop a relationship and if you're trying to

talk to the resident on three different days and times it may be

a couple of weeks and so

again what we would reccommend is trying to engage the

proxy right from the start to say

we may be reaching out to you to get some information about

your loved ones preferences, what would be best, can we reach you by phone

by e-mail, would you prefer to come in and talk with us

maybe setting the stage early on so that as soon as you're able

to asses that you're just not able to get information from

the resident, then reaching out to that proxy is not going to be a surprise

and then again, trying to say here are the most

important things that'd we'd just like to know right now and we'd love to have a longer conversation

with you down the road. It just depends on

your organization, and the policies of your organization, how you're

able to intergrate this proxy information into the care planning

document. Kimberly, anything to add?

Ya, I think again the emphasis

on doing what your organization

policies require but the only point I would

add is that unlike the MDS assessment

where there is a time limit

in terms of how quickly you

can ask the information that goes into the care

plan, that is not true for the PELI

and anything related to the PELI. So, thinking ahead

leaving lots of lag time and reaching out

to family member to give them an opportunity

to respond is a good choice and you don't have

to worry about any other kind of externally imposed

deadlines for that.

Alright, thanks Kimberly.

Someone just asked if there's a way to get a link

to the printed slides? I know we are recording this webinar and we are going to

post it online within the next

10 days or so, but Dr. Abbott do you think

we are able to share a link to the actual powerpoint slides?

We should be able to do that. We can probably put it up

on the preference based living website so

please sign-up for the newsletter and we can put on that information in

our November newsletter as soon as we have this webinar

closed captioned and again that link

I'll copy and paste it here so that

so that you're able to get that and becasue the newsletter we can certainly

get that information and if that doesn't work, e-mail us and we can

send it to you privatly. Okay, and

we just have a question that came up and it says, "Are they still being tracked?"

and the person who asked that question if you can

maybe clarify, I'm not too sure I know what you mean by

still being tracked but if you want to send me a message

clarify that and maybe we can answer that question.

We will wait for that and then another question is

"Who at the facility enters the nursing home

data from the PELI when it's gathered from the family members

how is that entered and how is that used with the nursing home?"

Great question, so really this is up to every individual

provider to figure out the process

by which they are going to be collecting this information

and how they're going to

use the data once they collect it. Some are using

Excel spreedsheets to track their data

some are doing it via paper and pencil and so

it's really about

what's the team of individuals that are

helping with this initutive and how can

some of this workload be

sort of spread out among

the team members so that maybe there's one team member who is

sort of the lead person on getting proxy responses

and so maybe there is somebody who'll say hey here's Mrs. Smith

I'm unable to interview her would you please follow up with

their proxy and then

that individual could be the point person so it's really about

what works for your organization. We stayed away from issuing

"best practices" we think that

we can offer suggestions of things that have worked

in other organizations but it really has to be tailored to your organization

for it to be a "best practice".

Alright, thanks Katy

I think those are all the questions if there are questions

you would like us to answer, please e-mail us

our e-mails are on the screen right now and we will get back to you so if you think about

anything after the webinar please shoot us a e-mail and we will respond as soon

as possible. Finally, I have some instruction

for those who are seeking CEU credits. We need you to sign out

of the webinar and complete the webinar evaluation

Please click the link in the chat box which we will

put up for you

and click on that link

and say when you signed out of the webinar, complete the evaluation

and we will send you

your CEU pdf within the next couple of weeks.

If you're not seeking CEU credits we still

would appreciate it if you would complete the webinar evaluation

you can click on that link or once you exit out of the webinar you

should be prompted to complete a quick qualtrics survey

with the webinar evaluation. Thank you so much for

joining us today and be sure to sign up for our newsletter

where we will have a recording of this and you can get all the updates about

the Ohio PELI-can Project. Thank you so much, have a good day

Thanks, everybody!

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Nicole Kidman got an Emmy for it so it's generally accepted she's amazing, but why?

Hello! Welcome, if you're new here, I am Shea Depmore. I'm an actor and a

vlogger and I have videos here every single week, so you know the whole

YouTube stuff: subscribe, turn on your notifications, say hi to me in the

comments below, so it feels like I have friends. Do all of the things and let's

talk about Nicole Kidman. This was actually a suggestion from Vivienne Gucwa

who's an amazing photographer, storyteller, human. She has all of her

stuff all over the Internets: YouTube, Instagram. I'm gonna put all of the links

below. Check her out. She asked me to talk about Nicole Kidman in Big Little Lies

and I just finished the series. If you have not seen Big Little Lies yet, there

are definitely spoilers in this, so that, but also get your ish together. It is so good.

You were freaking brilliant! Really?

I want to talk about a couple of things

that Nicole Kidman does so well as Celeste in Big Little Lies. First, she

never plays the victim. By that I mean she's never feeling sorry for herself.

she's never wallowing in her own emotions and she's never giving up

I will leave you

you touch me like that again and I will leave you the giving up part is so

important I think a lot of beginning actors will approach roles where it

feels as if someone is a victim and they are being abused or they are receiving a

lot of terrible things from the other characters and because of that they just

give up it doesn't matter what your character is dealing with it doesn't

matter how difficult any of that as human beings we don't want to wallow in

pain we want to get out of pain and as an actor you need to approach it that

way need to always have hope that things are gonna get better you need to always

have hope that whatever you're doing in the scene will work the second thing is

pretty simple she always provides the opposite of what

she's saying as humans we so rarely say what we

actually mean I'm doing great no I don't like her words you know just

friends all of those all of those things both people both we say that to convince

ourselves to convince other people on on and on on and she does this particularly

when it comes to talking about her husband and if you look at the scene

between her and her therapist where she's trying to convince her therapist

that it's not that bad and that they should be working on saving the

relationship she has all the awareness of the pain and all of the fights that

were way too violent and a fear that it might affect her children when she says

no it'll never affect the children she has provided for herself a fear that it

might and that's what you have to do as an actor you have to go through the

script don't just stay at the top level of the line and accept whatever it says

is the truth investigate and figure out how you really feel

and then provide yourself with those memories you need to come up with images

you need to come up with maybe specific memories through

improv or through journaling however you want to do it make all that stuff real

for yourself so that when you go to say those lines it doesn't just stay at the

top level of oh he's great it's fine we don't need to get a divorce no God no

you would never hurt the children this is he's a wonderful father I mean he's

the best the best I couldn't think of a better one really it's one of the

reasons that I the reason you don't leave him there are other reasons okay

such a I'm madly in love with him he adores me he he treats me like a goddess

Nicole Kidman as the last really loves Perry this is so important a lot of

times beginning actors will look at two characters who are fighting even if

there is no abuse and they will just play the hate that makes it first of all

not truthful and second of all not engaging whenever you have a

relationship whether it be a romantic one friendship family whatever look for

the love ask yourself why do I as this character love the other character

that's gonna help you so much because when it's two characters who just hate

each other it becomes completely unengaging you just ask yourself well

why are they even in the same room together why not just leave and it

there's no conflict when it's two characters who love each other but there

are serious issues that creates the conflict

you need that push-pull so always always always ask yourself why do I love this

other person what is keeping me here super important and she does a great job

of doing that last thing I wanted to talk about Vivienne cute sua's original

comment she talked about how she's so clearly saw Nicole Kidman as Celeste and

while she still lieved reese witherspoon she still saw

her as reese witherspoon the actor and i bring it up because it's not an acting

issue it's happening because Reese Witherspoon is sharing a side of her

personality that we've seen before and perhaps we see it when she's interviewed

and doing press and we associate that as just her personality and not the end of

it and Nicole Kidman is sharing a different side of her personality that

we haven't seen before so that's why it seems that she's a completely different

person in this role as actors we are never trying to be someone else we are

always bringing ourselves to each role it's different sides of our personality

sometimes it's really close to the surface and easy to find and sometimes

we have to go searching for it and spend a lot of time really investigating

ourselves to figure out where we fit but it's always ourselves and I promise you

I promise you you have every single character you're ever gonna need to play

living inside you if you don't believe me pay attention just this week pay

attention to how you talk to different people in your lives I guarantee you you

speak differently to your grandma than you do your boyfriend or girlfriend same

thing with a best friend from childhood who may have been cooler than you are

versus someone at work who you are kind of further up on the status level from I

can speak words you get you get what I mean we behave differently with

different people in our lives and when you really start to look at it you can

more easily see how there are different parts of your personality that can work

for different characters thank you so much for watching if you enjoyed this

video please tell me in the comments below like it subscribe do all the

things and do me suggestions if you have any actors that you want me to talk

about

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I try to participate with the family, but I have rules.

I don't want anything done to my hair,

I don't want to wear a wig,

and I won't wear makeup.

If you can find a character for me to cosplay as

who looks like what I wear every day,

then I will go as that.

I think cosplaying brought us closer together

as a couple because it was something we did together.

It's kind of a teamwork effort

building our cosplays together.

And also, being a cosplay couple is kind of fun.

"You're relationship goals!"

We dress up and be silly together. That's all we want.

Hey, I cosplay!

Yeah, it's her idea.

We don't usually choose cosplays that don't

fit our values.

One of the reasons we all like science fiction

and fantasy is because you get to explore your values.

I mean, if you're willing to be out there

wearing stuff and walking around in public,

if they're going to be missionaries someday,

this is a good way to train yourself for that, I think.

In the family proclamation they say

one of the building blocks of family life is

wholesome recreational activities.

Our kids see that the things that they love

are important to us.

I think it's also important that they see

all the different things that people love.

Cory wanted to have something he could do

in his wheelchair.

I mean, yeah, obviously because of the chair

I was actually not sure of what I could do.

Last year he shaved off his head

and he was Professor X

He's in a chair.

Cool.

There is a cosplay for anyone.

You're only seeing three out of eight.

And when you have all eight of us together

it's a complete picture, and it's really cool.

Family aspect is, he's our stepdad.

Entirely new setup for me.

This is honestly just us hoping that we can

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Even though stuff is different, we're still a family.

We have a shared common interest.

It just gives us a place where our family can have a

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Just hoping that it brings unity between our kids.

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family is what it's really all about anyway.

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Sometimes it can get a little heated.

I would say less fights when we're talking about

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Sometimes we could just be making dinner

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We share a love for things and

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You did this not me (Short Film) (English subs) - Duration: 14:07.

This is the story

of the murder of 3 girls

in Penafiel, Portugal

2017

like... it was really stupid cause..

That girl sent me a message yesterday...

i was like... what the fuck?

John!

arghhh ... really?

how awful...

are you kidding me?

and then he came to me like...

i was like... i don´t want nobody to see me talking to you

you don´t even know with who i was saturday

i was with Abel

like i went out

and Abel appeared in front of me...

He said: HI HOW ARE YOU?

and i was like: Back off!!!

so i went out saturday and who shows up?

Abel the stupid guy...

ew gross...

with that suit and tie

he came to me and said:

HO HONEY HOW ARE YOU?

ahahaha

And with my bitch face i said:

F**ck off

i swear... you won´t believe me

i saw him hanging out with Marcia!

Marcia!!!?

MARCIA?!

Fat Marcia?

The fat marcia?

yes!

so guys this is my house , let´s get in

wow so beautiful...

hmm that good smell...

*all the girls faking*

we are not going to study are we?

i don´t know ... whatever you like

you really think im gonna study? me?

like it was incredible i was like... bitch?!

don´t you have water ?

you want water?

i want water too please!

hmm i didn´t want water either...

no don't bother ! we don't need nothing thank you beauty...

you are so nice but we don't need nothing...

im good thanks!

it´s water from the sink!

AH NO NO! no thanks we don´t want water

don´t bother...

let me just clean this mess ...

sure! don´t worry

*what the fuck face*

need help?

no

ho Do (Dolores) you are so nice ahah

You guys know what happened?

tell us!

Andreia...

... and nudes...

really? ew gross!

it´s not the first time!

you can see in her face that she is a slut!

when i heard about that my breakfast just

spinned inside my stomach

it was so cute but girl with guy not girl with a girl

oh eva why is your brother here ... listening our conversations

look who is he...

i´m not understanding...

i...

i was just grabbing some food...

grab some food? well you can get the fuck out of here Faggot

get out!

why?

this is my house!

and mine too! respect the older ones... get out Lucas...

NO!!!

I´m sorry?

i didn't hear you well

Well played!

and he fell

look i know he is an idiot but you shouldn´t have done that

ok, ok easy... but it was fun wasn´t it Patricia?

Alot ahha

you have to admit it

yeah ... okay it was fun

see?

i´m so funny ahah

Ana did you check the message from André?

what the fuck?

he saw us at the school corridor and said that he sent you a message

and you tell me that now?

dah?! Inês and Patricia are only now with you

i don't have battery....

No way!

that´s not a problem! i´m gonna grab my charger upstairs

argh you guys only give me work

ai please girls...

this house is awful...

it´s smells so bad!

i didn´t knew she lived in this mess...

i was scared she would give me water!

i asked but then i regreted it ...

me too!

no but she started to clean the mess and i was like ... it killed me

what are you doing here? Get out!

why did you let them say those things to me?

Ai stop being anoying Lucas

Why?

what are you doing?

you disgust me

everytime your friends are here you let them treat me like that

you are so fucking stupid

why do you exist?

You should die!!!

Eva?

I´m sorry...

They are going to pay ...

Class C?

that bitch?

The one who looks like a whore with those glasses?

yeah...

what did she do tell us

i´l tell you later ...

hey

Hey!

i think i´m going upstairs, she is taking too long

yeah !

and my cellphone is not charged yet...

and you didn´t saw the message Ana!

so Inês

how are you?

yeah tell us things about your life

you don´t talk to us in a long time

argh my life is boring

boring?

yeah?

no its not!

you usually are around me and when you are around me your life isn't boring

yeah... sure..........

Luca... Lucas why do you have a knife?

You are going to pay!!

ARGHH SO BORING!

we don´t have anything to eat....

there´s not even wi-fi

i´m so bored

does the tv works?

is it here the fridge?

how do we turn this on?

no! NOOO!!!

NOOOOO!

wait!

what happened ? did you heard that?

yes i heard... and then what? i didn´t like them so whatever... come

You´re insane!

what?

you are going to leave them like that? they were your friends!

what can i do? i didn´t like them ... you want me to drag their bodies to the cemetery is it?

You are really insensitive

look ... i don´t care what you are going to do

but i´m going to get out of here... you do whatever you want... peace!

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