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Could you tell the culture and habits of Turkish guy ?
well it's a little hard question because you can find every type of guy in Turkey too
I mean for some people really jealous some people really open minded and
closed-minded you know if we make it simple you can find bad people and good
people in here too. So, it's just a little bit your luck and difference from the other countries
I can say we have in here the military obligation and if you are dating with a
Turkish guy so you should possibly consider that they will go to military and
then probably according to his choice it will be far away from around six
months or one year. I can say this one and then in this culture people
believe that after you go to military you will become like your real man.
this is what they thought about you so I can say military difference from
the other countries but the other topic is similar with the other countries too sayang
i supposed
yeah I thought it similar like in
Egypt, in South Korea. They are have military service too right ? Yeah in South Korea
they are going military. Okay.
How Old Orcun's?
How old are you ?
how old am i ?
Well
it's simple question i suppose I'm 25 years old. really 25 you look like "om-om"
am i look old ?
yeah you look more "om-om" than your age
but to the people, because of beard, yeah but to the people who asked
that your question is answered. Yey. Orcun's 25
not 30 (hahahah)
Exactly, i am still young.
Have you ever argued each other ?
hmm well, in every,(hehehe) yeah as you can guess as people guess in every relation sometimes argue can
possible but the point is you know you need to solve it how fast we
can solve it this is the main problem generally we argue because of
misunderstanding as you can guess we are using difference language sometimes we
misunderstand each other this is why sometimes it's have an argue and argue but not so
big deal about the culture and lifestyle is also similar so sometimes but like
every relationship. Okay if I can say more yeah of course I thought every couple in this
world had it. You know argue fighting but this is depends of the way you solve it for
us this the most better a way to solve it just communicate again what we were
misunderstanding and then after that if couldn't deal with it we just take a
for a while time by ourselves I mean like take our time and then after that
we come back again and then try to communicate again and
yeah I thought it's the most best way to solve our problem and our argue. Yeah just it.
Yeah you are true babe. Okay.
Could you tell your sad and happy stories ?
as a first to tell that. ah okay sad and happy stories of course the happiest moment when I visited
you and in our relationship because you know we obviously we are next to each
other this is the best happiest moment for me but if people asking about if
you're far away and then what is the sad moment
for me it's like that sometimes i saw from news in Indonesia
has been a tsunami or
earthquake or something like that I always wonder if it's in your city or if
something bad happened this makes me really nervous and sad in those moments
and then the last tsunami - too many people has passed away this why it's
really sad story for me. so the happiest thing is when you came to Indonesia
and then you met with me, that is yor happiest thing.
yes exactly. Thank you.
this is much more better than I'm far away. Okay so for me the sad story is
sometimes the signal was bad like today like we are making video right now
sometimes cutting cutting cutting there is the most sad thing
in our relationship I tought and then yeah the other most sad thing is because we
are far away we are missing to each other but we couldn't you know touch
each other talk directly and then what else the sadnest thining is yeah when we
are have argue, so there is the sadnest yeah I said the most sadnest but I said
3 things *LOL*
at least you've difference sad stories (heheh)
yeah well if I can choise the most the most the most is yes know far away it's
the most sadnest thing and then the happiest thing is every morning every
morning you know I got a message of you you say good morning and then a lot
motivate message in the morning so this is the happiest thing I mean even
though the sadnest thing the far away of us you know our distance so far
away but it's recovery with our happiest thing with my happiest thing every
moment I mean yes what I mean I don't know what I say sometimes you know like
a random bud I hope you guys understand what i mean
(hahahaha) it is so clear, they will understand. it's perfect answer. Thank you for it.
How can you survive in LDR with different cultures ?
do you want to answer it first or me ? okay I can answer. Well, for us the different culture is
not so problem because our daily life and cultures simillar I mean maybe about
food, about these kind of things can be different but most of it is so similar I
don't feel so strange with you about the culture of course if you look from this
perspective you just need to be a respect other culture so you can you
know handle with this difference this
that's all. it's not a big deal.
actually the culture for us. Yeah I agree with that even yes sometimes we had a
similar culture but sometimes too we had you know totally different culture sayang
like "Cay" like you know always drink "Cay" I mean it is not usually daily activity
we did at my home so you know it's little different for me yeah but yeah
the best way to handle about the different cultures are with respect to
each other yeah that is an answer. Okay perfect.
Okay. What's the next question then ?
Okay. the next is....
Wha are you doing when you are missing each other and at that time you were busy ?
oh okay we are using this method if we are busy you know we are not busy 24
hours as possible as we can we are creating our times even it's just for
ten minutes or five minutes you know we have a break and in this break I try to
call her this way we are solving this problem if they're really really busy
and as you can guess there is a time difference is between and if we couldn't
meet each other in day so we are dealing for specific time it's like a
dating in those times we are having voice call or video call and we are trying to
enjoy with each other we are creating our own this way we're solving this
problem yeah
How frequently are you making video call ?
okay it's around every week in every week we are decide some day and then
day we're having we are having video call sometimes we are going outside to
see our city or sometimes we are watching movie at the same time like
that generally in every week because you know sometimes in week days we can be busy
with our stuff but we are creating our own time every week for each other. Yeah.
What thing that you impressed from each other ?
let I answer first, Okay ? Okay ladies first
okay I'm impressed to Orcun because of Orcun is similar with me Orcun is
like my twin because Orcun is wearing glasses like me you realize that even
though our physically totally different yeah but let i say Orcun is like
my twin I mean twin like our perspective about
life so you know we are same about that and then the other reason why
I impress to Orcun because Orcun love me so much
yeah you can feel that righ ? and then the other reason the last reason is
because of Orcun always keep his promises never ignore that and then yeah
it is the point what I want to say
(hehehehe) wow you really make me impress too.
from my side is the first thing which makes me really impressed because of a
Amel's smile the first thing made me impressed
the first and then as second the way she told me it's
it makes me really comfortable with her you know you're sometimes meet with
someone and then you feel really comfortable you can tell everything what
you feel in your daily life yeah she was like that for me that's why I feel
really comfortable with her this is the second reason and as a third and then
she really make me trust her even we are far away she succeeded this thing really
short time and then yeah and finally I was falling in love with her
so these 3 things make me really impressed with her
Thank you with it.
Just it ? my pleasure.
Could you give advice in LDR ?
hmm okay when we are talking other question actually we already gave little advice
but for this moment the biggest thing is I think you know the
trust and to respect to the most important thing in the long distance
relationship you know you're really far away so you need to make trust the other
person really know what you are doing the time and about the second thing is a
respect thing the most important - because because at least there is a
little difference to the culture so you need to respect the culture and you need
to care about every time to your girlfriend or your boyfriend and like we said the
3 most important things are love, respect and Trust and as a other way the
communication is really important - whatever happens try to give time
for their couples there area time is everything this is so important
I suppose yeah communication is more important right ? yeah. Okay the question has
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