Discover the best disc for your dog!
There are many different types of discs available for dogs.
Which one is best for you?
Original Flippy Flopper
This disc is flexible and easy to carry for the handler and the dog, plus it's soft
on your dog's mouth and teeth.
The Flippy Flopper is a great beginner disc for dogs just learning how to catch because
if you throw it high enough, it will slowly hover down to give the dog more time to react.
As the dog becomes more proficient, you can switch to lower and faster throws.
Plus, it floats!
Nite Dawg LED Soft Disc
Want to play disc under the stars?
This flexible nylon, lightweight, LED-powered flying disc is made of soft, flexible, durable
nylon so it is easy to catch and throw, plus when you activate the switch, you can choose
between a flashing light or a steady glow.
Ruff Dawg K9 Flyers
These floppy, flexible flying discs are made of rubber so you can let your dog play all
day long without harming teeth and gums.
Plus they are strong and puncture resistant.
The K9 Flyer is easy to throw, catch, and pick up.
Comes in two sizes.
Chuckit Paraflight Discs
These rugged soft flyers are made from a much heavier-duty canvas than regular soft flyers.
They have soft rubber edging on the bottom to make them easy for your dog to catch and
hold onto.
They are designed to fly well with a gradual descent flight pattern.
They come in two sizes and they float!
Chuckit Zipflight Discs
These discs are made out of soft padded canvas so they have structure that allows them to
fly far and straight with accuracy.
The soft rubber edging on the bottom of this canine disc makes them easy for your dog to
catch and hold onto.They come in two sizes, and they float!
Flyber
Flyber is the first double-sided flying disc for dogs and their owners.
This disc is made from a special material that allows dogs to get the satisfaction of
sinking their teeth into the toy without destroying it.
The shape of the toy makes it easy for dogs to pick up, and it's super lightweight.
Plus, it floats.
Hyperflite SofFlite Disc This is an ultra-soft, flexible disc for dogs
with sensitive mouths.
Use the SofFlite Hyperflite Disc to train your puppy or to introduce your adult dog
to canine disc play.
These discs are competition approved and perfect for dogs with softer bites.
It comes in two sizes - pup, which is 7 inches, and standard, which is 8.75.
Hero Super Atom 185 Super Atoms have a comfortable grip and are
easy to throw for all skill levels.
They fly with a consistent, straight glide.
Dogs of all sizes will appreciate the Super Atom's puncture-resistant, split-proof soft
plastic.
Plus, even though it is less than 7.5 inches, it is super strong!
Hero Sonic Xtra 215 Distance Disc
This disc, like others from Hero, is great for the serious disc competitor as well as
the casual thrower.
It's a lightweight fast flyer that is dog friendly and, at just under 8-1/2", it's especially
good for puppies and small to medium dogs, smaller hands, and beginner disc throwers.
It is durable and has a great grip.
Hero Super Sonic 215
This disc is also 8-1/2" and it's one of the most durable dog discs in this weight
range on the market.
It's not only extra durable and puncture resistant, it also adds distance to your throws
compared to traditional dog discs.
Hero Air 235 Disc
This disc is a little bigger, 9.25", and will elevate your game!
This is the same disc used by current and past World, National, Regional, and Local
Dog Disc Champions.It's got a friendly grip, straight glide, and true performance.
Hyperflite Jawz HyperFlex
The Jawz Hyperflex disc is an ultra-flexible version of the Jawz disc.
It is about 80% as tough as the regular Jawz disc, but it is soft like Hyperflite's SofFlite
disc.
The hyperflex is easy to you to throw and comfortable for your dog to catch
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The Sound of Us | Who Are You? | Official Clip HD - Duration: 3:11.
[low thump]
[leaves rustle, branches crack]
[footsteps]
[thump]
[sharp breath]
Who are you?
-Two travelers.
"Two travelers"? Travelling where?
-Far away from here.
Is that true?
Your friend's quite a talker.
-What are you doing out here alone?
Didn't you see them?
-See who?
The Hunter Gatherers.
-Hunter Gatherers?
Yeah, they've been chasing me through here.
-We haven't seen anyone.
I was able to escape them, but I'd say they'll be here by nightfall.
-Here...
[unzips backpack]
[he winces]
-Careful, careful.
[he breathes sharply]
What else you got in that bag?
[zips up backpack]
I don't know if we should leave him there, he seems pretty hurt...
...Maybe if we just...
...Okay, better safe than sorry.
Gimme the bags!
Give me your bags.
Don't make me repeat myself again!
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Chris Ingham speaks out about sexual allegations - Duration: 5:22.
When allegations from YouTube has reached media's like the Daily Mail, the Sun etc.
we thought we would cover what this is all about.
So In this video, we will cover the accusations against a 34-year-old man named Chris Ingham.
The man has a YouTube channel with his family and the accusations of him have been made
by teenage girls saying he has been trying to groom them.
Welcome back to true crime news if you are new to our channel welcome aboard.
I´m your host Ted Corner.
If you are interested in true crime, in general, consider subscribing.
Let´s jump right into the news.
Before we begin we will ask you to Please don't go and harass this family or the girls
involved in any way shape or form, that is not our intention, our intention as a news
channel is to inform.
We have watched the video of the girl and the video of Chris Ingham.
Links for both videos will be in the description.
The channel is called The Ingham Family and it's a very popular channel with 1million
subscribers.
The channel is family-orientated, with videos of Chris, his young children, and his pregnant
wife, Sarah.
The family started vlogging about 3 years ago.
The little families are father Chris who is 34 years old mom Sarah 32 years old and their
3 little daughters Isabelle, Esme and Isla.
The little girls are aged 12, 9 and 6 years.
The families are settled in The United Kingdom.
The YouTube channel is about family content with focus on bringing up a family in this
day and age.
But this summer Sussex Police released a statement to Newsbeat saying: 'the Police had received
a report on July 9 that a 16-year-old girl had been contacted by Chris Ingham on social
media while on holiday.
Later more young women came forward with allegations against Mr. Ingham claiming that the famous
and popular YouTube star had tried to groom them for meeting up with him, and he should
allegedly have written inappropriate messages to these teen girls.
According to The Sun, Chris Ingham should have messaged a 16-year-old girl who was on
vacation with her family in Florida.
He allegedly told the girl she was mega pretty and added I bet I can make you feel a lot
better about things.
Chris also should have said, Chris also should have said, if you can sneak out without waking
anyone then differently come meet me
Later the YouTube star reportedly messaged her again where he asks if she was home alone,
telling he was going for a party telling her he hoped to do some skinny dipping
A fan named Bella Fearn, 19-year shared Snapchat direct messages she said she got from Chris
after they met this May.
In one message gained by The Sun, the person writing her urged Bella to 'drop that towel
and resend' a photo of herself.
In another message he should have written bottom line, I like you.
And I like helping people.
And I have the powers and the people to help turn yourself into a massive role model to
thousands on Instagram and maybe even YouTube too.
The third allegation against him suggested he sent a photo of himself to a 19-year-old
girl, asking for a naked picture in return.
He claimed he could make the young woman famous.
Chris has said 'A lot of people have wrongly jumped to so many conclusions about him and
wrongly labeled him so many things.
He states so many presumptions that are completely wrong and disgusting has been made.
Since the accusations, Chris Ingham has deleted his social media Twitter but continues to
share videos on YouTube.
On a personal YouTube account, Chris shared a video called The reason for my silence -we
will link the video in the description
Addressing the claims he had groomed young fans, Chris said: 'Have I ever done anything
that could be classed as sexually grooming somebody?
No.
Hell no.
Of course, I haven't.
'Am I a pedophile?
No.
Hell no.
Am I a sexual predator?
No.
Have I ever done anything that could be classed as being sexually inappropriate to anybody?
No.'
No offenses have been committed.'as the girl was over 16 years
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4 Easy Outfits For Men | Topman Lookbook 2018 | Men's Fashion - Duration: 4:15.
It's a new season.
We've got new trends.
Here's what to wear and how to wear it.
Hi guys, how are you?
I'm Robin.
Welcome back to my YouTube channel and welcome to this new style video.
Now, this video is in collaboration with Topman.
Absolutely everything you see is from there; you get it in store or online.
I will make sure to link everything down below.
Now, I wanted to do this one because it is a new season; I also realise that a lot of
you will be going back to school, back to College, University, or just like me, you
are thinking about what we want to be wearing into the new season.
So I've picked out some of my absolute favorite pieces from Topman and I've made sure that
all of it is interchangeable.
It's classic, it's contemporary and it means that you're not spending too much.
Now, I want you to tell me which of the looks that you're going to see is your favourite.
I've done a poll card up there and you can also let me in the comments.
But my first look which could actually be my favourite is this denim one here.
This is perhaps the most versatile outfit out of all of these here.
I think the key thing about this is just its simplicity.
There are no slogans, there's nothing too garish.
It's really about that silhouette with a pair of black skinny jeans then a denim jacket
over the top.
Also, because they're different tones of denim you can really mix them and then going with
that really muted color palette of the grey t-shirt which is slightly chunky and oversized
but tucked in with the cap sleeves just really brings it all together, and then the boots
which are the real statement of this whole outfit; brown suede, the detailing with the
laces right around the back.
Now, moving slightly smarter into the second outfit with this suit.
You'll remember from my suit video with Topman just the other month actually, that they've
got an absolutely huge range of suits, but this is my favorite from the current season.
Now, I've styled this one slightly more casually so it's not a sort of traditional office look.
It's something a little bit more contemporary, especially that white t-shirt which is the
white version really of the grey one here.
Definitely not for the fainthearted; really is making a statement with the blue check,
also color picking with the shoes which has these interchangeable laces with the red and
the blue.
For me, I really wanted a pair of smarter trousers in this and these with the elasticated
waist and the tapered effect I think just work perfectly.
Again, something maybe for work or into the weekend if you like a slightly sort of smarter
aesthetic.
And there's a common misconception here that you're wearing a smartish pair of trousers,
you have to wear a pair of smart shoes but actually, it really does work with a look
like I've done here with the trainers.
Now, we're still with the trainers but it's a completely different look in this final
one here.
This one is definitely getting into the slightly cooler months which I'm sure we're not far
off in the UK.
It's all about layering.
You have the check shirt which again could be actually worn with any of the trousers
we've seen before and then the mustard color cable knit.
Now, I was never a fan of mustard until I realized actually, that it's a color that
suits just about anyone; slightly fairer guys with blonde hair or guys with dark hair.
It will work and it's a nod towards the autumn but without totally the leaving the summer
behind.
And then the darker wash denim with the straight leg fit which I absolutely love at the moment.
I find them really comfy.
They also look slightly smarter than a skinny and also you can roll them up slightly to
show off a bit of softcore whatever those trainers or shoes you might be wearing and
then, finished off with the accessories, with the bag and also with the watch which you
have seen across the other looks.
And then obviously, you can layer again with a coat or a jacket like I've done with the
denim one that we saw before and that's exactly this.
I mean I'm looking here and I can already see various different combinations that you
can do.
So the key thing about this is buying a few key pieces that really are classic and contemporary
and just mix and match and see whatever happens.
I have linked all of them down below.
You can check it out.
Let me know which is your favorite up there and also in the comments below.
But thank you very much for watching.
If you're new to my channel, you've not yet pressed subscribe, then hit that subscribe
button right now.
It's just up there.
There are also more video suggestions down there.
Stay with me; watch them.
My blog's there.
My Instagram and my podcast are up there.
I'll see you in my next new video.
Bye-bye.
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GUESS THE FORTNITE SKIN FOR THE COUPLE OF ITS SET + RARITY - FORTNITE CHALLENGE | tusadivi - Duration: 3:37.
tusadivi: Guess the skin
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Unleash your curiosity with the Center for Global Education at Gettysburg College - Duration: 1:50.
I had no Chinese language experience prior, so
I was going in there as blind as you could.
I would be able to be the first student to go to Senegal from Gettysburg.
I'm from California, I used to kind of go camping like not really
and camping started like as soon as we got there.
I spent my fall in Shanghai.
I studied abroad in Dakar, Senegal.
and I studied abroad in Tanzania, Africa.
I did get to go up to see the Great Wall of China.
So I got to sit down on a woman's club evening
for the village that I was in, Gingenao.
I slept outside on a cowhide just there in the wilderness.
I was appreciating some of the subtle nuances and small advantages of an
alternative economic system, political system.
Talking to these real people
who have these issues and also like still want so much for other people and
the kindness and the welcoming that I was given while I was there
are definitely one of the things that I'll always remember.
There's a tendency to view Africa it's like a very homogenous place but it's massive and so
many different cultures and diasporas, you know I never really thought about that before I went.
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3400073 - Replacing Your Amana Washer's Grounding Screw AP3086537 PS346016 - Duration: 3:34.
Hi my name is Bill and today I'm going to be showing you how to replace the grounding
screw in your washer the reason why you might have to do this is because the screw is lost
or damaged for this repair we'll be using a 1/4 inch but driver and a phillips head
screwdriver
WARNING before doing any repairs please disconnect your power source
so this is the washer we'll be using in this demonstration it's an Amana and yours might be a little
bit different than what we have here but the same technique should still apply we're going
to have to turn our washer around so in order to get the control console off we're going
to have to undo four screws you have these two screws up here and then two screws that
are inside right there I'm going to start with our 1/4 inch nut driver and we're going
to remove this screw here now I'm going to use a phillips head screwdriver two remove
the other two screws and these screws actually don't come out of there they kind of just
stay right there now that those screws are out what we're going to do is push our console
forward and lean it down now so right here is the grounding screw that we're going to
be placing in order to get it out we're using a 1/4 inch nut driver
now you can grab your new OEM replacement grounding screw if you don't have one already
you can find it on our online store so we'r just going to line up the hole and screw everything
back in and once that's secure we can put the console
back on now we're going to put our console back into place and we're going to slide the
top over the metal here just like that and you're going to want to make sure that the
straps are on the outside so you can screw it back in as you do this you're also going
to want to make sure that the clips at the bottom of the counsel are inside the bottom
the hole is right here now we can screw everything back in and once you have those screwed in
you can turn everything back around plug it back in and you're repair is complete
Finally don't forget to plug in your appliance
if you need to replace any parts for your appliances
you can find an OEM replacement part on our website pcappliancerepair.com
Thanks for watching
and please don't forget to like comment and share our video also don't forget to subscribe
to our channel your support helps us make more videos just like these so you can watch
for free
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The Surprising Truth about Fear | Kyle Winkler - Duration: 4:14.
You know, I can promise you this.
That at every new level that God asks you to do or take,
especially ones that are really gonna change your life,
fears are probably going to pop up
to try to keep you from stepping out,
to keep you in your comfort zone,
but if God has promised you something,
then you need to realize and you need to just
think about the fears in this way.
That those fears on the way to a promise
that God has given are fake news.
Now I know fake news is all the rage these days,
and we all have our opinions as far as
who is the purveyor of fake news,
but ultimately it's the enemy.
Doing just what we looked at last time in 2 Corinthians 10:5
where he raises up arguments and obstacles,
evidence to try to show us why it can't work out.
The evidence might be real.
But the assessment of the evidence is the fake news.
The assessment that we are victims.
The assessment that this isn't gonna work out.
That voice that tells you you can't, you won't,
you aren't, it'll never work, that voice is a liar.
It is fake news.
Don't you buy the headline.
I love what the University of Cincinnati did
with a study on fear and what they reported,
and any time I talk on fear I often say this
because we need to hear this,
but they revealed out of their study that 85%
of the things that we're afraid of never actually happened.
Think about that.
9 out of every 10 of things that you bite your nails over
and lose sleep over never actually happened
in the first place.
It's just as I've been saying.
It's fake news.
It's make believe mind games set up to get you to settle.
That's why the King James Version in 2 Corinthians 10:5
instead of arguments it uses the word imaginations.
The fairytales.
The assessment isn't real.
It's based on a worse case scenario
that's not coupled with the truth of God's word.
You know I'm not saying that giants aren't really there.
The giants really existed in Israel,
and giants might really exist in your life.
You might really have a pass with all kinds of things.
You might really have struggles and feelings
that you're dealing with today.
You might really be low on resources.
But the victory really and hear this.
The victory really is not in the not feeling.
I'm gonna say that again.
The victory is not in the not feeling.
The victory is in the pushing forward despite the feeling,
and I just need to capitalize on this point
for just a minute because if you wait
for a feeling to go away or the situation just be right,
you're probably waiting for a long time.
Just as Israel couldn't wait
for those giants to leave that land,
they had to go forward despite the giants.
Today so many people have bought into a definition of who they are based upon
feelings they didn't choose, negative words spoken about them and, of course,
regrets of the past.
Things that try to dictate their lives.
Basically saying,
"Because you feel this, you deal with this, you fell to this...Then this is who you
are, this is how you have to behave, this is your destiny."
But you don't have to
live this way.
If you struggle with insecurity, shame or feelings you don't
want, then you have to check out my four-part audio series, where I reveal
how to rise above the most common negative emotions and false identities
in order to live confidently, as a new person in Christ.
This series includes
four life-changing messages: You Aren't What You Feel, You Aren't What You Fear,
You Aren't How You Fell and How To Stand In Your New I Am.
There's a far greater
reality for your life than how you feel, what you fear, and the ways you fell.
Filled with my own personal stories and in-depth Bible teaching I know this
series will help you experience the courage, confidence and peace God desires
for you today.
Are you ready to finally overcome the feelings, fears and failures
that try to dictate your life?
Then go online to kylewinkler.org/youarent
and order my You Aren't series on CD or mp3 for a gift of only $25.
Order now and
within minutes you can be on your way to freedom.
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LITTLE LIENDO- WHERE'RE YOU FROM? - Duration: 3:33.
hey little tell me where're you from
Please tell me where're you from moth%$@#
making hits, little
Tu papa produciendo
where're you from mother&$^^&#@
venimos de gotham
Little where're you from? where're you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
Liendo where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el M
Little where're you from? where're you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
Liendo where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el M
M.O(B) SHIT moneyoverbitches
Know that they don't understand me
if you owe me money better pay me
demuestran que son unos babys
I don't wanna lose time time with this mother@#$% that hate me
Know I gotta be safety, hope the lord will save me
Tengo tommy en mi camisa y los rebooks en mis pies
Escuche tu mixtape esa vaina es pura s5it
BAHH☹️
Y dices que suenas pero sera en tu casa
Crees que andas flexeando chamo dime que te pasa
I'm just walking with my gang, when I'm driving switching lanes
Sorry baby what are you saying? I don't want to be your man
I just fell in luv with the MO on pocket
🖤🖤🖤
One time
little where're you from? where you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
liendo where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el millon
little where're you from? where you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
liendo where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el millon
Tu no tienes flow, no tienes rap
you don't got skillzzzz your s5it is wack
dada conmigo koby y shaq
en esto yo soy tu papa
pideme bendiciones, juego like messi no seas imbecil
no me compares con todo el mundo
es que somos pocos los animales que hacen esto con las instrumentales
seanme sinceros si no suena bien
vengo de gotham asi como wayne
mano tu no me conoces, you don't feel my pain
you don't feel what I feel now, tu no ves lo que yo veo ahora
TIM DUNCAN 11.9 rebounds per game 🏀🏀🏀🏀
Mixedbydada X Aonrec
WELCOME TO THE NEW YEAR ⏲⏲⏲⏲
little where're you from? where you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
liendo where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el millon
liendo where're you from? where you from
making hits como altuve negro yo no tengo clon
little where're you from? quieren saber where I'm from
vengo de donde todos buscamos el millon
Deinonevoice
seeyousoon
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Welcome Back: We're excited! Are you? - Duration: 1:24.
Because it's my last year and I want to make uh...
this year count the most and like...
make the memories last.
I...I wanna write about puppies.
I'm excited because I like... school spirit.
And I really want to see what this school year brings.
I like experiencing new stuff.
I like getting to know more people.
The students are amazing.
Um...they are always willing to give back and help.
And, they...just want to make their community special.
Because there's new students coming in
so we can meet new friends.
Because, well first I'm a Junior, so...
I'm like an upperclassman...I know, big deal!
Um... just new students coming up,
new events happening.
Well, I'm very excited to return to the kids
that's coming back.
Looking forward to do my... job.
Learning new things.
New teachers.
New experiences.
It's... going to be fun.
When that "A-Ha" moment comes on...
When that big smile comes on their face...
That's what I look forward to.
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5 Central Florida wine walks that will let you sip while you stroll - Duration: 1:42.
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Crash days - Live the days you can the ways you can ( Tales of a Wheelchair Nomad ) - Duration: 1:16.
♪ music ♪
'Live the days you can the ways you can' That's my mantra and it allows for days
like today, a crash day, Yesterday was a crash day as well, I'm expecting the rest
of the week to be a crash day until I go to Cornwall. I need to rest and recover, so
I'm chilling, looking after myself, getting some editing done, and just watching
some vids.
♪ music ♪
Instant noodles for lunch and pizza for dinner, still that's not all for me, some
of it's for Vin too. Vin : Pizza !
[ bottles thud ] ♪ music ♪
♪ music ♪
As much as I like the pain killing effects of Oramorph it tastes foul, it's something
I really hate taking.
A rest and recovery day, these days out number the fun days, quite a bit, but are
less vlogged about because I do less interesting stuff. But they're a fact of my
life, I live the days I can the ways I can. Right now I'm going to sleep.
PLUR peeps ☮️ ❤️ 🤝 🙏🏽 👋🏽
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Book Review Of Esl Classroom Activities For Teens And Adults Esl Games, Fluency Activities And... - Duration: 1:12.
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WP8319539 - Replacing Your Amana Washer's Lid Hinge Bearing AP6012750 PS11745965 - Duration: 4:02.
Hi my name is Bill and today I'm going to show you how to replace the lid hinge bearing
in your washer the reason why you might have to do this is because the bearing is lost
or damaged for this repair all you'll need is a phillips head screwdriver
WARNING before doing any repairs please disconnect your power source
so this is the washer we'll be using
in this demonstration it's an Amana and yours might be a little different than what we have
here but the same technique should still apply so we're going to open up our washer here
and on either side right there we have our lid hinge bearings it would be this piece
right in here between the door and the frame of the washer so we have two screws that are
holding the hinge on that's what we're going to have to take off first so we're going to
use our phillips head screwdriver and remove those screws so now what we're going to do
is remove the lid hinge and that has a couple of twist and turns in it so as you pull it
out kind of work it and twist it so you can get the hinge out because it's locked in place
behind the frame there but once you have a good nice and turn there and one more bend
and you can pull right out and now we can move the door forward and since that's out
of the way we can just grab onto the building and pull that straight out now you can grab
your new OEM replacement lid hinge bearing and if you don't have one already you can
find it on our online store so you'll see on our bearing right here it has kind of a
tapered edge really thick on the edge there and then all the way to the thin part there
and when we put the hinge bearing back into the hole there there's a bend in the metal
so we're going to also keep that thin edge on the back there so that when we put it in
it should fit nice and smoothly and that tapered edge fits perfect right with the bend in the
frame so you make sure the holes lined up and then just slide the hinge back into place
and like that and right there and once you get the screw holes lined up you can screw
it back in and once you have that screwed in you can just make sure it works properly
open and close it a couple times once you've done that your repair is complete
Finally don't forget to plug in your appliance
if you need to replace any parts for your appliances
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How to Deal with Toxic People | Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Duration: 21:39.
it seems like most of us would be able to spot these people, though, right? We're
all really good judges of character. We know when someone's using us. How do
these Hijackals manage to slip under the radar? Well there's a few ways. First
of all they're chameleons, so they will be whomever you want them, to be whomever
they have to be, in order to charm you, manipulate you, persuade you, seduce you,
so you can really think, 'I've met my soulmate. I've met the most perfect
person.' They're reading you perfectly. They're feeding it back to you, and
you're going, 'Oh, let me let my defenses down. I finally met this perfect person.'
And then they began to subtly change. Sometimes they change drastically, so
it's really important to understand that these people have the ability to draw
you in and reduce your defenses, make you honestly believe that you are a great
judge of character, and you have taken them in and read them as perfect for you..
And then things change, and then when they change, you don't want to say, 'Oh my,
I made a mistake. We go, 'Oh, let me help them. If only I'm more compassionate, more
loving, more patient, more kind, less demanding, I will be able to nourish and
nurture them, and they will then feel loved, and when they feel loved they'll
love me back, and everything will be great because we're people of goodwill,
but that's not the case with a Hijackal, it doesn't work that way.
Welcome to YourBrilliance.com. I'm your host Amy Waterman, and today we are
talking about how to deal with the toxic people in your life. Now, you know the
ones, they're the names that spring to mind the instant I said 'toxic people.' They're
work colleagues, they're family members, and sometimes they're even partners or
spouses. They're people who are bad for you,
they make you doubt yourself, they take over your life, and you can't seem to
just get rid of them, you know, you can't cut those ties.
Well Dr. Rhoberta Schaler is here to help, she's a relationship consultant,
mediator, speaker, and author who provides urgent and ongoing care to relationships
in chronic crisis. She helps her clients to recognize and to stop tolerating abuse
from relentlessly difficult people, whom she calls Hijackals. Her work has
appeared in Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, the Good Men Project,
eHarmony and Your Yango, and today she's here to talk to us about how we can deal
with the Hijackals in our lives. Welcome Dr. Schaler. Thank you so much it's a
pleasure to be here with you Amy. So let's start out by defining toxic people
what is a toxic relationship a toxic relationship is a relationship where you
always feel less than you are always feeling caught off your off guard your
feeling that somebody has power over you you feel cut off at the knees you can't
do anything right you're always being blamed and everything is your fault
that sounds very typical I can immediately think of a couple
relationships right now do you think this is something that a lot of people
struggle with or is this pretty rare Oh unfortunately it's getting less and less
rare everybody knows one of these people once we begin to understand what a hi-
jackal is because when you realize that you go oh that's what was happening
that's why I felt so terrible that's why I would walk away dazed and confused
from these relationships and that I didn't look forward to being around
those people so you know these people Hijackals
where does that come from Hijackal is because too many people were going to
the Google goddess and they were saying here's what's happening to me now
remember the Google goddess is an index not a professional so the the Google
goddess spit back psychological labels and diagnosis that's not healthy that's
not good it might give you an idea that oh I am in trouble here there is
something bad going on but don't be diagnosing other people and so I wanted
a non clinical term that would allow everybody to talk about the common
traits patterns and cycles of these relentlessly difficult people so I
created the term Hijackal and the definition for that is Hijackals are
people who hijack relationships for their own purposes and then relentlessly
scavenge them for power status and control it seems like most of us would
be able to spot these people though right we're all really good judges of
character we know when someone's using us how do these Hijackals manage to
slip under the radar well there's a few ways first of all they're chameleons so
they will be whomever you want them to be whomever they have to be in order to
charm you manipulate you persuade your seduce you so you can really think
you've I've met my soulmate I've met the most perfect person they're reading you
perfectly they're feeding it back to you and you're going oh let me let my
defences down I finally met this perfect person and then they began to subtly
change sometimes they change drastically I have one client and I have clients all
over the world because I work by video conferencing I have one client who was
loved bombed - that's what we call it - up until her wedding night and on her
wedding night he changed like that and just was horrible to her physically
assaulted her I walked out and that was what their wedding night looked like me
so it's really important to understand that these people have the ability to
draw you in and reduce your defenses make you honestly
believe that you are a great judge of character and you have taken them in and
read them as perfect for you and then things change and then when they change
you don't want to say oh my I made a mistake we go oh let me help them if
only I'm more compassionate more loving more patient more kind less demanding I
will be able to nourish and nurture them and they will then feel loved and when
they feel loved they'll love me back and everything will be great because we're
people of goodwill but that's not the case with a Hijackal. it doesn't work
that way what do they want from us like I completely see in so many ways the
pattern that you're talking about where people treat you as amazing and you
think yes I'm amazing and this feels so good and then you get closer to them and
then they start to take you down you think well they're just seeing the real
me I guess they're seen actually my flaws I do need to step up why do they
even do this to us like isn't there better uses of their
time oh no you see the thing about Hijackals is sadly enough - don't get
trapped in the 'sadly' - sadly enough they've organically been grown
to be this way they are so fragile even though
appearing arrogant and strong and on top of everything emotionally so fragile
that they must have control over you they must dominate you
they must even go so far as to define your reality. A Hijackal will tell you
what you think, feel, need, and want. And at that moment you've got to have every red
flag perfectly in sight so what do you mean you're telling me no I remember a
fellow saying to me when I was dating and he said well you think you've you
think you think this and I said excuse me did we have a conversation about that
did you ask me what I think and he said well no I said don't ever presume to
know what I think if you haven't asked me
now that's my Hijackal radar. I was raised by a den of Hijackals, that's why
I'm so effective into it in this work, and so therefore I attracted Hi-
jackals in my life. I had to do the work to stop doing that. The good news is you can
do the work but you must work with somebody who really understands this
dynamic so I want to know what makes us certain people so appealing to Hi-
jackals and not others if you are someone who seems to attract a lot of
people who want to tell you what to do want to tell you what to think who want
to make you feel your flaws what is in you that's attracting them? Well they can
see your insecurities they could see how much you long to be loved they can see
how much you long to be approved of imagine how attractive that is to a
Hijackal because they can dangle that. 'I will validate and approve you if...' And
then they keep moving the carrot right so you keep leaning in thinking I'll do
more I'll do more and then they'll tell me I'm wonderful and I'm loved. Their
whole game is to tell you you're not wonderful you're not loved I hold that
control in my hand so they have complete power over you it's most often a subtle
process but sometimes it's not as like being hit by a Mack truck but what's
within us is the desire to please the desire to be liked the desire to be
loved the desire to be cherished and validated and so we keep hoping that
that person is the one that will give it to us and we stop realizing why but
we've got our rose-colored glasses on looking for what we want to see that
it's really hard to see red flags when you're wearing rose-colored glasses and
unlike them we always want to see the best in people exactly works against us
so I want to know what the difference between this and like a narcissist or
somebody who verbally and emotionally abuses is is it all a package? It's all a
package the reason I created [the term] Hijackals is so people are not making
psychological diagnosis when they're not psychologically trained to make
diagnoses hi jackals if we look at the psychological situation Amy
in the dsm-5 what would happen if if somebody came to someone to be diagnosed
there are a bunch of traits and all of them fall into personality disorders so
whether it's a narcissistic histrionic a borderline sociopath a psychopath you
know any of those definitions that we've had in the past
oh that the person who's diagnosing does is say okay on the scale like this
person has this particular for in this particular amount
therefore the diagnosis is or they have three of these and two of those okay is
this diagnosis that's how it works so we needed the non clinical term to
say all Hijackals the regardless of diagnosis. All Hijackals drink from the
same pool of traits they're going to have all of those traits most of those
traits so it doesn't matter but yes Hijackals include all those people. Do they
ever change is there some way you can wake up a Hijackal and get that healthy
loving relationship you wanted? That's what you're dreaming of that's what
you're longing for that's what you're leading into that's what you want there
in the case of borderlines, they are the only ones who have some empathy and so
borderlines will have times when they are truly remorseful that they've hurt
you and they truly want to change, and they can change, but it takes a long time
with the dialectic behavior therapy for them to change but the rest of them know
because they're perfect that remember what I said about having such a fragile
ego and sense of self, they have to believe they're perfect they don't need
help there is nothing wrong with them so therefore why would they change? Oh that
is just so perfect, again, people are springing to mind, but I want to know
then once you've made like how do you make that realization how do your
clients finally realize that this is what's happening to them because I know
as a woman and I'm sure lots of people are like this you want to see the best
in people you're very willing to believe it's your
fault because you know we all know we could be better we all know well
non-Hijackals all know we're not perfect how when does the light go on
what's the trigger that helps your clients realize that this is an
unsalveagable toxic relationship? Well, two things happen, one is that they get
hurt they get physically hurt and usually it's cumulative you know they'll
be shoved a little they'll be pushed a little they'll have the Hijackal standing
in front of a door and not letting them out or grabbing their arms or whatever
but hide your clothes who tend to physical violence tend to go for your
throat they will choke you they will do things
and at that moment it's so overt that you cannot ignore it I've had people
with Hijackals in my practice I have one now who was actually damaged her
thyroid was damaged by being strangled but it took strangulation before she
finally went and said no more so physical and sexual violence is the one
way that people mostly wake up I wish they'd wake up earlier with the verbal
and emotional violence but they don't and the other way they wake up is when
they see the person, the Hijackal, treating their children poorly and they
realize that I don't want my child to become like this I don't want that my
child to see this as a model of how a man or a woman behaves or how a man and
woman in relationship behave and so they will wake up for their children where
they will put up with with it for themselves so what does the victim of a
Hijackal do, like, if this is a spouse, if this is a mother or a father that's
doing it, these people are in our lives, can we survive is stay in those
relationships and survive or or is there another option? Why would you? Why would
you want to survive in that relationship you are constantly going to be in a
codependency mode whether you want to or not you know healthy people are
independent absolutely independent and then they come together they recognize
wonderful things and they choose to become interdependent unhealthy people
or even some healthy people who go we bent over in sucked into it a
codependent and they get into a relationship of codependency either both
are codependent or one is codependent and that can get worse even if you
started out as an independent. Know this about Hijackals. There are two kinds.
One of them, one kind, really likes to seek out the weak the one that is the
obvious target, and make them weaker. The other Hijackal
likes to choose a really strong person as a challenge and see if they can bend
them into codependency so it's really important to understand the distinction
and recognize as early as possible it's time to whip off those rose-colored
glasses. You can't fix it. You can't change it. You have to do your own work
within yourself learn to say no learn to have non-negotiable boundaries and stand
up and say if this continues I'm leaving and whether that's your mother or your
father or your your partner or your ex or your boss or your friend you need to
be able to say no this is not gonna happen in my life and you know you said
earlier in the introduction Amy that you know you can't cut ties with them oh
yeah you can and you need to you absolutely need to be willing to say, 'I
matter. I matter, my children matter, and this is unhealthy, and I refuse to live
with it and in it any longer. One of the unfortunate things about Hijackals, at
least the ones I've known is that they threaten you
if you dare to leave if you dare to think of leaving this is what I'm gonna
do to you so leaving may not be as easy as it sounds do you have any tips on how
to leave a Hijackal? Yes, two tips. First of all if there's no physical or
sexual violence do your own work right within there go get some help some very
specialized help clarify become empowered get strategies and skills try
them out while you're with the hi jackal practice them see if it makes any
difference, because there are degrees of Hijackals, so it can make a
difference. Making it more tolerable won't fix it but can make it more
tolerable hone your skills first and while you're
honing your skills, make a plan. Hijackals have a very nasty habit of wanting
control of the finances in a relationship so one of the things you're
going to have to do is to have a good look to see are you financially taking
care of yourself while you're in a relationship or has the Hijackal taken
control of all the money? Because you need to make a plan to make sure things
are in your name make sure you have money make sure you're setting things
aside make sure of the include in the entire package that you have financially
and you may have to stick around to reformat that in order to make a healthy
exit. So that is one way. The other way is that there is sexual or physical
violence and you just have to go that's all there is to it the only safe way is
to go and you must go no contact and you must get a restraining order and many
people that oh I don't want to do that to him or her it'll be on their record
it'll affect their job history media no that's codependency they don't care
about you stop caring about them and care about yourself get back on the bus
of Independence no nobody's going to treat me this way
I know it's hard it really is hard because you've gotten into a pattern and
you think more about the other person than you think about yourself but you
have to pull that back and start thinking about what do you need don't
start thinking about what it'll do to the other person that's their problem
now you have a wealth of resources about how to do this you've written 16 books
you've got two podcasts and you offer personalized coaching talk to us about
the help you can give people watching this right now. Sure, thanks. Yes, first and
foremost, go to my website ForRelationshipHelp.com -
ForRelationshipHelp.com. You'll find lots of things there in particular go to
books and programs and find my program seeing the cycles is a home-study
program so you can thoroughly identify whether or not you
have a high Jekyll in your life how that happened what happened to you in your
early life do the reflective exercises get really clear then you can go to my
YouTube channel, "For Relationship Help." Lots of stuff there. My podcasts are
"Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show" and "Save Your Sanity: Help for
Handling Hiackals. They're both available you'll see them when you go to
ForRelationshipHelp.com - click on podcasts and video, I also have an
Emotional Savvy channel on Binge TV Network. You can watch the show there on
a regular basis, so there are lots of things you can do, and when you're ready
come and work with me privately I'd be really happy to help you, because I have
walked it I have lived it I have outlived it and I have the nasty video I
know every trick in the book for a Hijackal and it helps you to be with
someone who has lived it, experienced it and overcome it, and can help you do the
same fantastic thank you so much Dr. Shaler for coming onto the show and
talking to us about this I wondered if you had any last message you would like
to leave our viewers with? I do. You deserve to take up space and draw a
breath, you deserve to be able to say what you think, feel, need, and want
without anybody arguing with you. Always remember that because you deserve to be
assertive. You're not talking about anybody else. You're not putting anybody
down. You're not making judgments of someone else when you say what you think,
feel, need, and want without ever saying the word you. And that's a tip Amy from
my book "Kaizen for Couples." it's a technique that I call the personal
weather report it is the best thing ever if you want to hone your skills on how
to get along with other humans. Fantastic, thank you and thank you out there for
watching we hope to see you again soon until then let your brilliant shine
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Stand for Storytelling: Laura Wexler's Journey - Duration: 1:15.
I remember when I was first applying to New Frontier Lab, with my writing partner
Charlotte Stout, I thought why are we doing this? We've never made VR before,
and the first conversation we had set the stage for what was to be the most
formative and amazing experience of my creative life. This community of people
who wanted to do things that they weren't sure were even technically
possible but they were going to try. We premiered it at Sundance festival and
without the Institute, without the lab, I can honestly say that dinner party would
not be the film it is today.
This was a pivotal experience in my artistic career
and I feel radically more confident than I did before and I know I have the
skills and support of the lab behind me to keep telling little known true
stories and bringing them out into the world
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"My Maternal family was Jewish, but not my Paternal" - Duration: 10:11.
I was born in a mixed family
That is to say that my maternal family was Jewish, but not paternal
My grand parents arrived from the Ukraine in the 1900s
The Perlstajns were from Kherson on my mother's paternal side
and my grandmother was born in a shtetl near Kremenchuk
So they had 2 children: my mother and my uncle
My parents married in 39' six months after the beginning of the war
War came. I forgot to say that my grandparents called themselves "atheists", but still raised his children with bible stories
My parents married in 39' and life changed, war was declared a few months later
Very early on, my parents and my uncle fought with the French resistance
He uh…My uncle was arrested in 42'..Euh…he was tortured severely in the Paris high security prison (santé)
After it was the Compiègne Internment camp and then to Sachenhausen and the death marches (Buchenwald) and despite that miraculously he came back in '45
My father was part of a well known French Resistance group "Victor Hugo" and uh the armed FDP group (french resistance)
He was arrested in october '43 and shot on march 7 1944 just after the other resistance group "Manouchian"
They were famous because of the Red Poster (propaganda poster during the war) that immortalised them because the Nazis wanted to discredit the Resistance
They wanted to make everyone believe that is was "mixed breeds" and Jews that were in the resistance
Having said that in Paris, there were a lot of Marxist Jews that were part of the resistance and I grew up in that group
So, I was hidden as a child , first with my mother and grand-mother
And then with a family, in the Sarthe region, dans in an orphanage
Since there were a lot of orphanages at the end of the war...or was it before?
I don't really remember the dates...I was small
And then at some point my mother sent me to a vacation home in Belgium in a christian family
And there I uh began to experience another tradition with them
So I became, I would say, religious, but it was a first step in my life
And since i wanted to be like all the other little girls in my class
At that time all the little girls would go to cathechism and do their 1st communion
So, I asked my mother if I could do it
And well, she was very free-thinking, she said I could do it...that I could do that communion
So, I did it and mom must have already been touched by the Lord
Because I few years later, one or two..
Uh, mom who was a political activist, that was elected
In the city we lived in at the end of the war
And took city hall by storm..
She was elected mayor in the very first elections at the Liberation
Mom at that time had Jesus with a crown of thorns a vision...a vision of
And he said to her, "why do you persecute me?"
Finally, it was my grand-mother who raised me
Because mom was busy in the resistance during the war and in politics after the war in Fontenay (city where they lived)
So, I was always with my grand mother and she spoke russian
So I, I spoke french, I spoke russian as well when I was little (I forgot later on)
But uh...uh...I spoke french with the russian accent (!)
So...what was being Jewish? It was being russian
You see, for us, for me when I was little...that was it
To be Jewish was to be russian
But at the same time, I was in a very atheistic context
So when I wanted to go to the catechism and do my first communion, my mother gave me permission
I don't remember that my grand mother was against it
My uncle was very opposed to it
He was a marxist and he told me 'Jesus was a revolutionary' that wanted to free his country
I forgot to tell you that my grand-father Lazare Perlstajn committed suicide when the Nazis entered Paris
He was...my grand parents arrived in France because of the Pogroms in Russian
My grand mother was saved from the pogroms because the ukranian nanny hid her...and then after that came to France
All of that was "being Jewish"...it was my grand mothers friends that came for tea with challah
It was that...how to describe it?
I remember very well that my grand-mother had armenian friends
A lady that we would meet in the Vincennes Wood, because we lived in the Vincennes wood
She would also come with her grand child and I would play with her
And my grand-mother said to me, "they are like us" so being Jewish for my grand mother was being an immigrant
So I told you about my mother's conversion and I continued in that christian community, but it was only a religious experience for me
My husband and I met when we were very young
We were 17 when we married, we were very young
Bernard had already had an experience with Jesus when he was a child
So he would constantly talk to me about the Lord, he would read the word, I wouldn't really
At one point...we were very committed in church...at one point
Bernard's youngest brother had a cancer and we would ask people to pray for him
But we felt a ceiling, we didn't feel like it was going anywhere...nowhere positive
People would pray for a serene death, but not for healing
One of the priests of our parish with whom we did the catechism
Took us to charismatic group where a little girl had sceptecemia
And so, in that charismatic group were Christians from various backgrounds
Is where we came into another spiritual dimension...were we made a personal encounter with our Savior
And one evening, we were praying together (Bernard and I)
All of a sudden, the heavens opened up to me and a luminous and golden road came down to me
And I knew at that moment that heaven was open between my father and I
That I could communicate to my heavenly Father
Some time afterward, I understood Jesus' mission
It was through what my father did. He gave his life to free his country(France)
To free us from nazi oppression, I understood the sacrifice of Jesus for me
And how he freed me from everything that would enslave me
From my sin from everything that was heavy in me, everything that chained me
And he did that for eternity
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