Unfortunately you don't have an option to turn off life's unexpected twists and
turns. The world can feel harsh and unrelenting at times. It's as if it just
doesn't seem to appreciate the fact that you've already got enough on your plate.
Or it's at that moment when you're finally making traction, you're feeling
excited about things, and then BANG! Something hits you from out of the blue
and you lose all the momentum that you've built. It doesn't take much to
derail us. Even the simplest things can have the biggest impact...You know, a
critical word at just the wrong moment. The comparison trap; where you're feeling
vulnerable already, and then you end up comparing your messy insides, and your
inner experience of something with another person's polished exterior,
wishing that you could be as strong, or as good, or as talented as them. Feeling
uncomfortable or out of your depth in a social or a work situation. Being turned
down by something or someone where you really desperately wanted to be
accepted. What's your instinctive drive at times like this? Perhaps your default
reaction is to give up, to quit, to retreat, hide and isolate yourself. To
curl up in bed hoping for some kind of miracle, or for someone to come and tell
you that they've sorted out the problem everything is fine now...you can carry on.
Maybe you replay situations and conversations over and over in your mind,
diving into a sea of shame and regret. And you beat yourself up for saying the
wrong thing, or doing the wrong thing at the wrong time. You just blame yourself
for everything that went wrong and take it all really deep inside. Or you might
be someone who reacts by lashing out, by getting angry, engaging in destructive
knee-jerk reactions...and then having to go around afterwards apologising for the
mess that you've made, and trying to clear things up.
I've created a brand new
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about themselves. If you've resigned yourself to the belief that you somehow
flawed, that you're never going to be as resilient,
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direction, with your sensitivity chiming at the heart of your being. By
learning to become a Sensitive Stoic you begin to identify the sources that feed
your destructive reactions so that you can begin to take control, and move to a
place of healthy rock-solid responses and initiation, where you're confident in
your ability to cope and move with just about anything. You'll prepare yourself
for those inevitable times where things don't quite go as planned, and become
strong in the face of all manner of adversity, change and disappointment.
You'll start to implement the core principles and disciplines of stoicism
without thinking about it. Where it becomes second nature. And find a fresh sense of
perspective in order to act on those things that currently derail you. And in
the process you'll begin to speak a whole new language within yourself and
externally about your emotions and your feelings and how you're going to (or not),
allow them to control your reactions. So if this resonates with you, please do
come and join me in the Sensitive Stoic Course. I've designed it to be a starting
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with others who have seen their lives transformed by embracing and
experimenting with these ideas. So if this sounds good to you click the link
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